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I Lost 23 Pounds and Here are 15 Truths You Need to Know to Get Fit

These tips can make weight loss much easier.

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Losing 23 pounds is tough but not impossible—provided you stick to some specific rules. TikTok influencer Blake is sharing some very useful fitness advice with his followers on social media. His “60-second blueprint” contains valuable guidance and pointers about what does and doesn’t work when it comes to getting fit and burning fat. His advice is straightforward—from what you should be doing to what you certainly should not. Here are 15 truths you need to know to get fit and lose weight.


Calorie Deficit

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If you are not in a calorie deficit, you will not lose weight, Blake insists. Whatever diet you are following, be it keto, carnivore, vegan, or whatever—it only works if you are taking in less than you are burning off. Make sure you count your calories.

High-Protein Diet

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Blake recommends one gram of protein for every pound of body weight. Therefore, if a person is 150 pounds, they should be eating 150 pounds of protein every day. This is important for weight loss and strength-building.

Moderately High-Fat Diet

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Blake recommends eating plenty of healthy fats. “For men, I would suggest one-third of your body weight in grams,” he says. “If you weigh 150 pounds, make sure you have at least 50 grams of fat. Women, I would not suggest you go below 60 grams.”

Progressive Overloading

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Blake recommends doing the same core effective workouts repeatedly. “You want to progressively overload,” he says. “Maybe one week you add a rep, maybe you add five pounds. Maybe you do an extra set.”

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Fruits and Vegetables

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Blake recommends eating plenty of fruits and vegetables but admits he doesn’t always do that himself. Why? Whenever he buys strawberries and blueberries, they go bad within a few days. The best way to store blueberries is in an open container in the fridge, not an airtight one. Only wash them before eating.

Cruciferous Vegetables

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Blake is working on getting more cruciferous vegetables into his diet. “Cruciferous vegetables are easy to find in most places and are some of the most nutrient-rich veggies around,” Amber Sommer, RD, LD, tells the Cleveland Clinic. “A good rule of thumb for greens or any fruits or vegetables is that the deeper the color, the more nutrient-dense it is. For example, spinach contains more vitamins and minerals than iceberg lettuce."

Watch Your Electrolytes

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Blake says he was dealing with brain fog until supplementing with electrolytes. “Cutting carbs made me very susceptible to this,” he says. Blake would mix salt and no-salt to get enough electrolytes into his system.

Go For a Walk

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Blake does not agree with fitness experts who say walking should not be counted as exercise. He believes any movement is good, and should be encouraged. Research shows walking is a great way to burn fat and positively impact mental health.

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Walk On An Incline

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Blake recommends walking on an incline. “If you want to burn even more calories, you can max out the treadmill (incline), and it increases the caloric burn by 30-50 percent,” he says. “As a general rule of thumb for someone who weighs 150 pounds, you burn 100 calories per mile.

Don’t Hold On to the Treadmill

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Blake advises against holding the bar on the treadmill. “This has been shown to reduce the calories burned for your exercise by like 30 percent,” he says. If you have to, lower the speed and incline until you’re used to not using your hands, he suggests.

Low-Carb Tortillas

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There’s no need to cut out all your favorite foods—just make healthier swaps, Blake suggests. For Mexican food, try the low-carb tortillas. They tend to be low in calories and high in fiber, which makes them an ideal weight-loss food.

RELATED: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Fit as a Pear Body Type

Eat More Yogurt

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Blake recommends low-fat yogurt as a great substitute for higher-calorie options such as sour cream. The taste is similar, but the yogurt is lower in calories, he says about the food swap. Yogurt also has more protein, and gut-friendly probiotics.

Sugar-Free Jello Cups

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Blake loves the sugar-free jello cups for a sweet treat. “These are indistinguishable from the full-sugar counterpart,” he says. “I’m not going to know which is which.”

Weight Loss Hacks

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Blake recommends saving your favorite media for your fitness activities. This way you get to enjoy the fitness behaviors more. “Whether that be food prepping or cardio, save your favorite TV show, music, or podcast for that,” he says.

RELATED:12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster

Reward Yourself

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Blake recommends rewarding yourself when you reach each goal. “Maybe every 10 pounds loss, you give yourself a cheeseburger or some sort of desert,” he suggests as an example. “If there is something to gain from achieving your goals, you are more likely to achieve them.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Focus on protein and fiber for satiety and weight loss.

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Are you overcomplicating weight loss, stunting your results? Lois Hughey is a weight loss warrior and coach who lost 15 pounds and kept it off. Now, she makes it her mission to help women over 50 “simplify nutrition and fitness” and regularly offers tips for sustainable fat loss in menopause on her social media feeds. In a new post, she reveals that fat burning and muscle building don’t have to be complicated. “I wish more women over 50 understood that losing fat and building muscle is as simple as these 3 things,” she says. “There is a lot of noise around what to do and what not to do in mid-life, but these 3 simple things will make a huge difference,” she adds.

Spend Less Time Doing Cardio, and More Time Building Muscle

Her first truth is you need to spend less time doing cardio and more time building muscle. “You don’t have to stop doing cardio, but it’s not helping you build muscle… and neither is yoga or pilates. You have to lift some heavy things. Even if it scares you. The body you want has muscle on it,” she writes.

Building Muscle Will Help You Burn Fat While You Are Doing Nothing

“Perimenopause is a season of rapid muscle loss if you aren’t doing something to maintain and build it. Women with muscle live longer and reduce their risk of heart disease,” she continues. “I’ll say it again and again… muscle is metabolically active. If you want to burn fat lying on the couch, start building some muscle.”

Stop Under Eating

Next, stop under eating. “You can’t keep eating less and less. Your body is smart and will eventually just learn how to use less energy, which is going to make fat loss really hard. Eat enough food for YOUR body. This is going to be specific to YOU, so be careful about anyone who tells you that all women need to eat more than 2,000 calories,” she says.

Under Eating Will Not Serve Your Fat Loss Goals

“Most women in their 50s who have been dieting their whole lives are going to struggle with 2000 calories unless they are very active. But your maintenance calories are almost certainly higher than you think they are. Under eating is not serving your fat loss goals,” she continues.

Don’t Be Afraid of Carbs

Her third tip? Don’t be afraid of carbs.”Not all carbs are created equal, so be smart about the ones you choose. Whole food carbs have the benefit of fiber, which you definitely need, so look for whole grains, fruit, and both starchy and non-starchy veggies. If your goal is to calm cortisol, have more energy, and get your metabolism working the way you want it to, you need some carbs!” she writes. “Obviously not a comprehensive list, and a (strategic) calorie deficit is needed for fat loss.”

Extend Your Time Line

“The bonus piece is always to extend your time line,” she adds at the end of the post. “If you have been chronically dieting or moving your calories all over the place for decades, you need to be willing to give yourself at least a year of consistent action before you even consider a calorie deficit.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss 40 Health Symptoms That Can Be More Serious Than You Think.

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Struggling with stubborn belly fat? You're not alone. Louise Rodhouse, a 29-year-old mum-of-two from Slough, United Kingdom, knows the frustration all too well. But she's living proof that transformation is possible. Starting at 269 pounds in January 2020, Louise lost an incredible 120 pounds in just 14 months, going from a size 22 to a size 8. Now, she's sharing her journey and the lessons she's learned along the way.


Debunking Quick-Fix Myths

Louise doesn't sugarcoat it: "I'm going to tell you something that you probably might not want to hear." In her post, she explains that there's no magic waist trainer, specific exercise, pill, or cream that will melt away belly fat. "The secret is there's no secret apart from eating in a calorie deficit," she states. This means consuming fewer calories than your body burns each day.

The Risks of Rapid Fat Loss

Colette Micko, MS, RDN, CDES of Top Nutrition Coaching, adds: "There are many potential risks of trying to lose body fat too quickly, and most are associated with extreme measures of calorie restriction such as fasting and/or very low-calorie diets."

The Truth About Spot Reduction

"You cannot spot reduce fat no matter what anyone tells you online," Louise underlines. She notes that genetics play a role in where your body stores and loses fat. "For me, I notice that when I start to lose body fat, I lose it on my upper body first... and then it gradually comes down." She adds, "With my lower stomach, obviously I had the apron belly... that was literally one of the last places my body fat went from."

RELATED: I Replaced These 10 “Clean” Foods and I’ve Never Looked Better

Beyond the Scale: Measuring Body Fat

Courtney Pelitera, MS, RD, CNSC, explains: "Measuring body fat percentage can be more helpful in assessing health than weight alone. This is because muscle weighs more than fat, therefore affecting overall weight, even if an individual is very healthy." You can benchmark your progress with this useful Lean Body Mass Calculator.

Finding Your Calorie Sweet Spot

To lose weight, Louise recommends finding your maintenance calorie level and reducing it by 250-500 calories. She suggests using apps like MyFitnessPal or online calculators like TDEE calculator.net to determine your calorie needs. "The bigger deficit you are in, the less sustainable it is because the more hungry you're going to be," she warns, advocating for a slow and steady approach.

Setting Realistic Weight Loss Goals

Jordan Hill, MCD, RD, CSSD, supports this approach: "In general, a 0.5-2 lbs loss/week is considered safe and sustainable. Some folks may lose a little more or less on any given week though. It's important to remember that weight loss is not linear and often times a person's weight will fluctuate up and down throughout their weight loss journey."

Nutrition: The Foundation of Fat Loss

While a calorie deficit is key, Louise stresses the importance of nutrition: "When you lose weight, you want to focus on your health, and the best way to do it is to prioritize whole foods, healthy foods, fruits, vegetables." She recommends aiming for 1-1.5 grams of protein per pound of body weight and not fearing fruits, stating, "Fruits are fruits, they've got nutrients, eat damn fruits."

RELATED:I'm a Nutritionist and Here Are 19 Protein Truths You Need to Hear

The Power of Plant-Based Foods

Megan Hilbert, MS, RDN, adds: "Eating more plant based foods (nuts/seeds, whole grains, fruits, vegetables, etc.) can also help promote weight loss due to the fiber and phytonutrient content that helps increase satiety and influence our metabolism through the gut microbiome."

Simple Movement: A Game Changer

Louise underlines the power of simple movement: "Walking is really good to lose weight, literally just increasing the amount you walk, you'll be surprised at how much that helps." She suggests starting with a 30-minute daily walk and gradually increasing activity levels.

Balancing Cardio and Strength Training

Hilbert expands on this: "For the fastest, healthy fat loss it's important to incorporate at least 150 minutes of moderate aerobic activity in, or 75 minutes of vigorous aerobic activity in a week. This, plus strength training around 3 times a week is a good balance, as added muscle mass helps to burn fat and increase metabolic output even while in a rested state."

RELATED: 4 Ab Exercises I Swear By for a Flatter Stomach After 40

The Long Game: Patience in Fat Loss

"You just need to stick to it as long as possible for your body to lose the body fat around your stomach," Louise advises. She reminds readers that the process can take time: "It could take a year or two years, it could take a very long time depending on how much body fat you have to lose."

Embracing Sustainable Lifestyle Changes

Annette Snyder, MS, RD, CSOWM, LD, underlines: "Slower, long-term work includes a focus on building in lifestyle changes and addressing any challenging thoughts about food and body. You learn to work with your body instead of against it. It's easier to adapt to and maintain vs something very intense for a short time."

The X-Frame: Sculpting Your Physique

For those seeking a more dramatic waist-to-hip ratio, Louise shares a bodybuilding secret: "Build muscle in your back like your lats and your shoulders... also build up your legs and your glutes." This creates an "X-frame" that can make your waist appear smaller in comparison.

Sleep and Hydration: Unsung Heroes of Fat Loss

Pelitera notes: "Poor sleep habits have been linked with an increase in overall energy intake and a decrease in metabolism. These two aspects alone are going to make achieving fat loss at any rate more difficult."

RELATED: 5 Foods Have More Fiber Than Oatmeal, According to Dave Asprey

The Takeaway: Sustainable Success

Louise's journey proves that with dedication, patience, and the right approach, significant weight loss – including stubborn belly fat – is achievable. As she puts it, "Slow steady wins the race. You've got this guys, it will eventually go." Remember, it's not about quick fixes, but sustainable, health-focused changes that lead to lasting results. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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When I tell people I lost 30 pounds by changing my mindset, they stare back at me as if to say, it can't be that easy. No, it's not that easy. But it really does work.


I am a Mindset and Movement Coach and a Certified Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Professional with a B.A. in Psychology, as well as a certified fitness coach in mat pilates and barre. I like to say that I was my first client—when I gained a considerable amount of weight in college, I remember not recognizing my own reflection both physically and mentally. I tried a TON of yoyo dieting and followed an inconsistent routine.

In my senior year of college, my life changed when I was given a one-year membership to a gym. This was the start of my true passion for movement and mental strength. I learned so much about myself that continued to unfold over the years bringing us to the present day where I have married the two to become a mindset and movement coach.

Throughout my fitness career, I have met so many people that were physically fit but lacked that same health in their mindset and mental health. Everything is all connected and they truly work hand in hand in order to cultivate sustainable well-being. Being able to tap into your body's needs, staying consistent, and recognizing when your mind and body needs me more is the act of being your own health advocate and activating the power of being the author of your own story.

And every story needs a good beginning.

I remember the exact day I decided to lose weight. I was in New York City with a friend and there was this huge staircase in the subway station on 5th Avenue and 53rd Street. The escalator was not working so my friend and I had to climb the stairs. I remember how difficult it was, and saying to myself I can do this. Eventually, when I got to the top I also remember saying to myself I will climb these stairs one day without a problem. Fast forward about 2 years. I remember the feeling of accomplishment when I did just that with a yoga mat and backpack on my back.

There are two things that have gotten me through the hardest times in my life: Being able to tap into my internal strength while seeing my physical strength develop is profound. It didn’t stop there—these realizations spilled into other areas of my life creating a full transformation. Read on to learn how I lost weight and how you can, too.

1. How I Lost the Weight

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After years of yo-yo dieting and deprivation, I struggled to lose the weight I gained freshman year of college. I was given a one-year gym membership by my brother, my senior year in college. I was also introduced to Weight Watchers by my best friend's sister who recently had a baby and was using Weight Watchers to get back into shape. The combination of the two changed my life. I tried every class imaginable until I found a workout routine that worked for me. Through this I was also able to connect with like minded individuals that helped to support me in my weight-loss journey. When it came to nutrition, my curiosity was sparked! I learned the importance of hydration, having a colorful and balanced plate and eating foods that served me and my new active lifestyle. Over time this became a part of me, it became a lifestyle.

Related: 7 Best and Most Delicious Fast Food Meals Under 400 Calories for Weight Loss

2. My Advice for People Who Struggle With Maintaining a Positive Mindset While Working Toward Health and Fitness Goals

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The biggest thing in my coaching that I advise all my clients to do is write down their accomplishments! Often people are focusing on what they haven’t done vs. what you have. Having a working document or journal for you to reflect on regularly will help keep you motivated and remind you of what you are capable of.

3. Common Weight Loss Mistakes to Avoid

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They don’t do things they enjoy! They tend to hop on trends and do what other people are doing which causes them to quit. Another thing that gets in the way is the desire for a quick fix! Sustainable change takes time and consistency. Most importantly they aren’t tapping into their WHY! This is what is going to get you out of bed when you don’t feel like doing it. If you can vividly paint a picture of why you are setting yourself up for success.

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4. Conquer Your Fears

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I recall when I started taking classes I would always go to the back of the class in fear of doing the moves wrong. I also wore baggy clothes for fear of being judged. As my physical body got stronger so did my mental strength and mindset. I started to care less about what people thought and moved from the back of the class to the front. I was less concerned about what people thought and more concerned about showing up for myself.

💪🔥Body Booster: Write down your accomplishments! Having a journal will help keep you motivated and remind you of what you are capable of.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? Dr. Emily, MD, is a Board-certified Family Physician and social media influencer who shares advice with her followers about how to lose weight healthfully and sustainably. In a new post, she reveals the most surprising things she tells her clients about weight loss. “I’m a primary care doctor and these are 5 things I tell my patients trying to lose weight that might surprise you,” she writes. “I promise the list doesn’t include ‘eat less, move more.’”

Make Sure You Are Losing Weight for the Right Reason

First, she recommends understanding why you are losing weight. “Make sure you’re losing weight for your HEALTH,” she writes. Your ‘why’ matters- for both starting and maintaining a weight loss journey. I don’t cater to the voices telling people to lose weight to look a certain way.”

Lift Weights

Next, you need to be lifting weights. “Strength train at least 2-3 times a week,” she writes. “People drastically underestimate the importance of resistance training. The more lean muscle mass you have, the higher your metabolism, meaning the more calories you burn just by living.”

Science Supports This

According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills.

Manage Your Stress

It’s also essential to manage your stress. “High stress levels increase our cortisol, which leads to us holding on to fat, especially around our midsection. Go to therapy, have joyful hobbies, meditate, practice yoga, have meaningful social connections (I’ve had patients only start to see significant progress in their weight loss when they quit a job they hate),” she writes.

How Meditation Works

Other benefits of getting your zen on? “When you meditate, you may clear away the information overload that builds up every day and contributes to your stress,” says the Mayo Clinic. Benefits include:

  • Gaining a new perspective on stressful situations
  • Building skills to manage your stress
  • Increasing self-awareness
  • Focusing on the present
  • Reducing negative emotions
  • Increasing imagination and creativity
  • Increasing patience and tolerance
  • Lowering resting heart rate
  • Lowering resting blood pressure
  • Improving sleep quality.

Eliminate Alcohol

Next, stop drinking your calories. “Eliminate alcohol,” she says. “Aside from being a literal carcinogen, alcohol is just empty calories that can increase our risk for unhealthy fat gain around our midsection. It also disrupts our sleep, which is really important for that stress management.”

RELATED:12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster

Focus Adding to Your Diet, Not Taking Away

The last piece of advice? “Focus on adding MORE in your diet, not less,” she says. “Very restrictive diets are recipes for disaster (no pun intended) when it comes to sustainable weight loss. Instead of calorie counting or eliminating entire food groups, focus on MORE protein, MORE fiber and MORE fruits/veggies.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you about to embark on a weight loss journey? Amber Clemens (@amber_c_fitness) is a weight loss warrior turned coach who lost a whopping 160 pounds by making a few impactful changes to her lifestyle. In a recent TikTok video, she answers an FAQ she gets: “What are some unexpected things about weight loss that I wish I had known going into it?” she says. “So here are some things I wish I would've known about weight loss going into my 160-pound weight loss journey.”


Don’t Put too Much Focus on the Numbers

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“Number one, the scale means a lot less than you think it does,” says Amber. “The scale is literally going to change 24-freaking-7. She points out that weight fluctuates due to a variety of factors, including water weight, inflammation, if you have to go to the bathroom, food that needs to be digested, body, fat, muscle, “everything,” she says. “So that number matters a lot less day to day than you think it does. What you wanna go for is an overall downward trend over a long period of time.”

Related: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Fit as a Pear Body Type

You Might Become Obsessed with “Body Checking” Yourself

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“Number two, you will become obsessed with body checking yourself,” says Amber. “I cannot tell you I was looking for every single little ounce of progress that I could see day to day. Do I like it all the time? No, but it's definitely something that I experienced.”

You Need to Be in a Calorie Deficit

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“Number three, a calorie deficit is a calorie deficit,” Amber says. “It doesn't matter what you call it. Every single program out there is only going to work if you're in a calorie deficit. So if you try something and it feels really unsustainable to you, you don't have to do that thing because in general, for most people, if you're in a calorie deficit, you will lose weight. There's not some, like magic secret out there. The secret is a calorie deficit.”

You Will Learn People’s True Character

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“Number four, you will learn people's true characters on a weight loss journey,” Amber reveals. “You might lose friends. You might realize how fat phobic some people in your life really are, and people will be a lot more comfortable being fat phobic around you because they think you are automatically fat phobic because you lost weight. And people will say some really bizarre crazy things around you.”

RELATED: Massy Arias Flashes Six-Pack During “Core and Abs” Workout

Will Realize Thin Privilege Is Real

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“Number five, you will realize just how much of a thin thin privilege really is,” Amber confesses. The way that people treat me, so vastly different now because I'm in a smaller body versus when I was 300 pounds, insane,” she reveals.

💪🔥Body Booster: Before you embark on a major weight loss journey, mentally prepare yourself by talking to others who have been on the journey before you.

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Are you over 40 and trying to lose weight? Getting in shape can be overwhelming. However, it doesn’t have to be. One personal trainer maintains that all you need to do is master five simple exercises. Caroline Idiens is a fitness influencer and personal trainer with over 25 years of professional experience helping clients achieve their fitness goals. In a new post, she reveals a few key moves to help you shape up. “5 exercises you need to do at 40+ to build strength💪🏻add weights as you progress,” she writes.

Squats

The first exercise? Squats. “Squats are a brilliant compound functional move building lower body strength and engaging the core,” she says. “You can do bodyweight squats or use weights/bands. This exercise works quadriceps, glutes, hamstrings, core.”

Lunges

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Next up, another glute buster, lunges, a “functional move,” she explains. “You can do forward, reverse & lateral lunges. This exercise works glutes, hamstrings, quads. Again add weights as needed.”

Push-Ups

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Another exercise that offers a lot of bang for its buck? Push-ups, “a brilliant bodyweight exercise that build upper body strength & engage the core. Modify as needed (e.g incline push-ups against the wall or a chair),” she says. “This exercise works your chest, shoulders, triceps, and core.”

Rows

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Rows, either with body weight or actual weights, as you progress. “Rows strengthen your back, improve your posture. Great functional move. They work the back muscles as well as engaging the arms & shoulders & core for stability,” she says.

Planks

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And last but not least, planks. They are “a great exercise for building upper body & core strength,” she says. “They work your deep core muscles.”

Lift Weights

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“Strength training is vital as you age. My passion has always been strength training, and never more so than today,” Caroline previously wrote for Sheer Luxe. “Once we hit 30, our bone density and muscle mass decrease. Strength training plays a significant role in preventing this loss and we can actually build new bone by using weights. This can help reduce the risk of osteoporosis, which women are so susceptible to, especially post-menopause.”

There Are Lots of Benefits

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“Moreover, strength training gives you such a feeling of power in everyday life – it’ll help with sleep, anxiety, co-ordination and will also help you manage your weight,” she wrote, adding that it “won’t make you bulky,” despite popular misconception. “It’s a myth that using weights will make you bulky – unless you are using very heavy weights and dramatically changing your diet, this simply isn’t true. It’s also important to remember that you can’t spot reduce fat. Your body works as a whole and, whilst you can tone a particular area, working the full body consistently along with a sensible diet will make the difference.”

Science Supports Strength Training for Weight Loss

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According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills.

She Also Recommends Cardio

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“In an ideal world, combine weights with cardio,” Caroline adds. Why is it important to do both? “While you may burn more calories in a cardio workout, strength training builds muscle. The two aren’t mutually exclusive and, for a leaner, fitter body, you should combine the two. Cardio is essential for heart health and for building stamina and endurance. At the same time, when we lift weights, we build muscle, boost metabolism and reduce our risk of injury,” she says.

Diet Matters

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And, you can’t out-exercise a bad diet. “People think they can exercise, eat rubbish and still see great results,” she recently told The Daily Mail. “Sadly it doesn’t work like that. It’s about balance and moderation.” As for one main meal tip? “And protein with every meal – you need it for strength training,” she says.

Here Is What She Eats in a Day

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Caroline starts her day with tea, coffee, and a banana. Then, after her 9 am workout class, she has breakfast, usually scrambled egg and avocado on sourdough. For lunc,h she likes chicken salad. Dinner might be a teriyaki salmon noodle stir-fry. As for snacks, she might have fruit and a bit of chocolate in the afternoon. She also drinks a lot of water. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Do you want to lose weight by eating Mexican food? While ethnic cuisine might not be the first thing to come to mind if you are on a diet, according to one expert, there are a handful of south-of-the-border-inspired meals that can fuel fat-burning. Brittney Blanco is a Macros Nutrition Coach and digital creator who regularly shares her weight loss and stay-fit tricks and tips with her followers. In a new post, she reveals a few of her go-to concoctions that help her lose weight. “4 Mexican meals I eat on repeat when I’m trying to drop body fat and gain muscle,” she writes.

High-Protein Chicken Fajita Bowl

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Ingredients: 5 oz grilled chicken breast, 1/2 cup cooked white rice, 1/2 cup sautéed bell peppers & onions, 1/4 avocado (sliced), 1 tbsp salsa, 1 tbsp plain Greek yogurt (sour cream substitute)

Macros: Calories: ~450 | Protein: 45g | Carbs: 40g | Fats: 12g

Lean Turkey Taco Lettuce Wraps

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Ingredients: 5 oz extra-lean ground turkey (99%), 1/4 cup black beans, 1/4 cup diced tomatoes, 1 tbsp guacamole, 3 large romaine lettuce leaves (as taco shells), 1 tbsp shredded cheese (optional)

Macros: Calories: ~420 | Protein: 50g | Carbs: 25g | Fats: 12g

Carne Asada with Cilantro Lime Cauliflower Rice

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Ingredients: 6 oz grilled flank steak, 1 cup cauliflower rice (sautéed with lime juice & cilantro), 1/4 avocado, 1 tbsp pico de gallo

Macros: Calories: ~480 | Protein: 55g | Carbs: 15g | Fats: 20g

Protein-Packed Huevos Rancheros

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Ingredients: 3 egg whites + 1 whole egg, 1 small corn tortilla, 1/4 cup black beans, 2 tbsp salsa, 1 tbsp cotija cheese (optional)

Macros: Calories: ~350 | Protein: 35g | Carbs: 30g | Fats: 10g

Sweet Potato Bowl

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In a previous post she reveals meals she “eats on repeat” when she wants to lose weight fast. The first one? A sweet potato bowl, filled with fiber, protein, and healthy fat.

  • 4 oz cooked lean ground beef
  • 1 cup roasted sweet potatoes
  • 1/2 avocado
  • Tomatoes and onions
  • 550 calories, 31g protein.

Chicken Salad

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Next up is Brittney’s chicken salad.

  • 100g cooked chicken breast
  • 3 tbsp corn
  • 1 tbsp feta cheese
  • 1 hass avocado
  • 2 tbsp Bolthouse Caesar dressing
  • 505 calories, 37g protein.

Harvest Chipotle Bowl

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This Harvest Chipotle Bowl is inspired by Mexican fast food joint, Chipotle, without all the calories.

  • 4 oz of chicken breast
  • 1/2 cup of white rice
  • Pico de gallo
  • Fajita veggies
  • 2 tablespoons of corn
  • 1/2 avocado
  • Salsa
  • 411 calories, 36g protein.

Turkey Breast Wrap

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This Turkey Breast Wrap offers lots of protein, fiber, and healthy fat.

  • 100g sliced turkey breast
  • 1 whole grain tortilla
  • 1/2 avocado
  • Lettuce, tomatoes, onions
  • 1 tbsp mustard
  • 1 tbsp mayonnaise
  • 469 calories, 30g protein.

Greek Chicken Wraps

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Another great wrap idea? Greek Chicken Wraps.

  • 6 oz raw chicken breast
  • 1 tsp olive oil
  • 1 tbsp Greek seasoning
  • 1 whole wheat pita
  • 2 tbsp tzatziki
  • 1/2 cup baby spinach
  • Cucumber, tomato, red onion
  • 2 tbsp feta cheese
  • 584 calories, 51g protein.

“Add chicken breast to a bowl, add the olive oil and Greek seasoning. Mix to combine. Cook chicken. To assemble, place pita on a plate and top with tzatziki, spinach, cucumber, onion, chicken, and feta. Enjoy,” she writes. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.

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Are you trying to lose weight but aren’t sure what to do? It may be as simple as implementing a few healthy habits into your routine, says one expert. Andrea Michelle is an online coach and certified personal trainer who helps “women love their bodies and get strong AF,” she writes in her Instagram bio. In a new post, she reveals what she did to lose 95 pounds. “I went from 240 lbs to 145 lbs naturally, & if I was someone who wanted to do the same in 2025, here’s what I’d do,” she captioned the post. “Steps to kickstart your weight loss journey.”

Step One: Eat in a Calorie Deficit

The first thing to do, is eat in a calorie deficit. “Calculate your TDEE (there are lots of online calculators) and ensure you are consistently eating below your maintenance requirements. This can be as little as 100- 200 calories below maintenance, as long as you are consistent you will lose fat,” she writes.

Step Two: Don’t Eliminate Foood Groups You Like

Next, don’t eliminate any food groups or foods you enjoy. “Work these foods into your meal plan, prioritize variety and plan for treats. All foods fit! If you enjoy the foods you are eating it will be much easier to stick to your deficit,” she suggests.

Step Three: Prioritize Protein

The third step is prioritizing protein. “Protein is so important while losing weight for a number of reasons. Firstly it increases satiety, keeping you fuller for longer. Secondly it boosts metabolism, it takes more energy for your body to break down protein than it does carbs or fat. Thirdly it preserves and builds muscle mass. During weight loss eating adequate protein helps your body preserve lean muscle mass, this means more of the weight you lose is fat,” she writes.

What Science Says About Protein

According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW), but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

Step Four: Have a Step Goal

Next, have a step goal. “I did no formal cardio while losing weight. Instead, I focused on increasing my NEAT (non-exercise activity thermogenesis) and had a goal of hitting at least 10 thousand steps per day. If this is a big jump for you start by increasing your steps slowly over time. Pick a step goal that is challenging but realistic,” she writes.

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.

How Many Steps?

How many steps should you walk? According to a 2018 study in Obesity, walking 10,000 steps a day is linked to weight loss and weight management. Other studies published by the Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine also linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure, and fewer strokes.

Step Five: Lift Weights

“Focus on strength training regularly with progressive overload,” is step five. “Strength training is so important while losing weight because we don’t want to burn our muscle, we want to burn fat! If you strength train while in a calorie deficit you will lose less muscle than someone who isn’t exercising or only doing cardio,” she writes.

Science Supports Strength Training for Weight Loss

According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills.

Step Six: Be Patient

And the last step? Be patient. “Remember progress takes time. Short term fixes = short term results. Be patient with yourself and celebrate all the small wins along the way!” she writes.

See Her Before-and-After

In another recent post, Andi shared her amazing before-and-after photos. “Transformation photos will show you what I lost, but they don’t show you everything I’ve gained in the process- strength, confidence, determination, self love, discipline,” she wrote. “Photo on the left is from Oct. 2023. Photo on the right is from Sept. 2024.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.