Most of us have experienced that moment when we realize something needs to change. For Crystal Valenzuela, that moment came when she found herself weighing 215 pounds in December 2018, struggling to breathe at night and feeling her heart pound while trying to sleep. "I was having trouble falling asleep. I literally had to lay in bed in a certain position," Crystal admits in her post. "I could literally feel my heart pumping." After multiple failed attempts at weight loss, she finally found success through two key strategies: restructuring her meals with lunch as the main event and beginning with gentle standing exercises. Keep reading to discover how Crystal's practical approach helped her lose over 70 pounds—and how you can apply these same principles to your own journey.
Your Mindset Matters Most
The foundation of any successful weight loss journey starts in your mind. "I wish I could tell you guys that there's this great secret that will help you lose weight overnight, but there literally is no secret," Crystal explains. She had attempted to lose weight numerous times before, but it wasn't until January 2019 that something finally clicked. Crystal emphasizes that a weight loss journey should always be about self-love. "I knew my worth and I knew that I deserved more," she says, which motivated her to finally commit to sustainable changes rather than quick fixes.
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Finding exercises that work for your current fitness level is crucial for long-term success. "I actually didn't really focus on anything ab related at the start," Crystal shares. Instead, she began with standing ab workouts because "I had no core strength, so I had to stand up in order for me to do any sort of workout." She followed beginner-friendly cardio and fat-burning routines, gradually building her strength and endurance. "You obviously want to have moderation with your workouts, too, because you don't want to go in super crazy and end up hurting yourself," she cautions, emphasizing the importance of starting where you are.
Make Lunch Your Biggest Meal
How you time your meals throughout the day can significantly impact your weight loss. "For my lunch, that is where I had my most biggest meal of the day," Crystal explains. She discovered that eating a good breakfast prevented her from overindulging later, while making lunch her main meal gave her energy when she needed it most. "A lot of times I would have chicken and broccoli. Oh my god, I ate a lot of chicken and broccoli," she shares. By contrast, "for dinner that is where I had my lightest meal of the day," often consisting of just yogurt, which allowed her body time to digest before bed.
Don't Quit Cold Turkey
If you've tried giving up all your favorite foods at once and failed, you're not alone. "I loved pizza and I loved hot Cheetos. I did not give those things up overnight," Crystal admits. When she first tried quitting her favorite snacks entirely, she had a breakdown by day four. "I cried because I wanted hot Cheetos," she confesses. Instead of complete restriction, Crystal switched to moderation. "I sized down from the big bag of hot Cheetos to like the gas station size bag," she explains. "You don't have to deprive yourself of those delicious snacks, just have some balance."
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Many people make the mistake of focusing solely on workouts while ignoring their eating habits. "Food and working out go hand in hand," Crystal points out. "I think that's something a lot of us tend to not recognize." She tried exercising consistently in the past while still eating poorly and felt disappointed when she saw no results. Crystal realized that she needed to balance both aspects to see change. "I was still eating really bad. I was still having myself that box of pizza," she recalls about her previous attempts, explaining why they failed despite her exercise efforts.
Prioritize Your Breakfast
Though not naturally a breakfast person, Crystal learned its importance for successful weight loss. "I actually hate breakfast. I am not a breakfast person. If I could skip the damn thing, I would skip it," she admits candidly. However, she noticed that "when I wouldn't have breakfast, I would eat a very large lunch and I would have a very large dinner." By forcing herself to eat breakfast, she found she naturally ate less throughout the day. "Breakfast is the most important meal of the day. It really is because it refuels your body and gives you energy," Crystal explains.
Choose Better Restaurant Options
Learning to navigate eating out was crucial to Crystal's success. "When I went out, I was trying to have a healthier option," she explains. Rather than avoiding restaurants altogether, she made smarter choices. "If we went to Chili's, instead of getting like my chicken and cheese quesadillas, I started getting like a steak, mashed potatoes, and broccoli," Crystal shares. This approach allowed her to still enjoy social outings without derailing her progress. "I didn't restrict myself and completely quit all of these things. I just try to do things with moderation," she adds.
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One of the most important lessons Crystal learned was that showing up consistently matters more than seeing immediate results. "Weight loss is a roller coaster of emotions," she admits. Crystal noticed that in the beginning, "you're gonna lose a lot of weight at the start of it because your body is not used to doing all this exercise," but eventually, "you'll hit a plateau." Her advice? "Once you hit that plateau, you cannot give up. You have to keep pushing through it," she emphasizes. Crystal reminds us that "nothing sustainable happens overnight" and real change takes patient consistency.
Create an Inspiring Workout Environment
Your surroundings can significantly impact your motivation to exercise. "Led lights... make your room a little bit more fun, especially if you have music going on," Crystal says. She created an energizing atmosphere with LED lights, good speakers, and a motivating workout playlist. "When you're working out and you get a really pumped-up song, it gives you like this extra boost of power," she explains. By designing a space that energized her, Crystal made it easier to stay consistent with her workouts even on days when motivation was low.
Visualize Your Success Daily
Having visual reminders of your goals can strengthen your commitment during challenging times. "I like to look in the mirror, sort of visualize when you have your music playing, you're in the zone," Crystal shares. She recommends a full-length mirror not just for checking your exercise form but also for visualization. "I like to visualize my future self and like see my best version of me. And I'm like, okay, I'm gonna be her," she explains. This mental practice helped Crystal stay focused on her goals and remind herself why she started this journey.
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While the number on the scale can be motivating, checking too frequently can be discouraging. "I would suggest just weighing yourself once a week just so that you can kind of track your progress," Crystal advises. She explains that daily fluctuations can be misleading: "There were times when I would go a whole week and I probably only lost one to two pounds, and it would make me feel a little disappointed." Crystal reminds us that "our body retains water," and weight can fluctuate for many reasons. You can see the bigger picture of your progress by weighing weekly instead of daily.
Celebrate Health Improvements, Not Just Weight Loss
Some of the most significant rewards of weight loss have nothing to do with the number on the scale. Before her weight loss, Crystal experienced frightening health symptoms. "At night I was having trouble breathing. I couldn't fall asleep without having a little bit of anxiety of was I gonna wake up the next morning," she reveals. These improvements in her quality of life became powerful motivators. "A weight loss journey should always be about loving yourself, bettering yourself, bettering your health," she emphasizes, reminding us that feeling better physically and mentally is the true measure of success. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.
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