We've all fallen into the trap of seeking the "perfect" diet or exercise plan, only to find ourselves frustrated when results don't materialize. Cori Lefkowith, founder of Redefining Strength and fitness expert with over 800,000 YouTube subscribers, has been there too. Through years of experience, she's identified key mistakes that held back her progress and that of countless clients. "The real secret to results is to be Goldilocks and look for that thing that's just right," says Cori. Her insights could save you months of wasted effort on your fitness journey - read on to discover the weight loss mistakes she wishes she'd avoided sooner.
1. Fighting Cravings Too Hard
One of the biggest mistakes is constantly battling against food cravings. "Sometimes it's better to give in to cravings than fight them," Cori explains in her post. When we deplete our self-control by constantly restricting, we often end up overeating later. "Sometimes indulging is what we need to stay consistent, find that lifestyle balance and stay on track longer," she adds.
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2. Avoiding "Unhealthy" Substitutes
Demonizing diet drinks and other substitute products can actually work against you. Cori advises, "Drink your diet drink. Fake sweeteners have become super demonized and while the data really doesn't support that demonization." She believes that "having that diet soda may actually help you stay more consistent and be healthier overall" by satisfying cravings without derailing your entire plan.
3. Cutting Out Restaurant Meals
Trying to be perfect by avoiding restaurants altogether is unsustainable. "Often when we start a new diet, we avoid going out because it isn't as easy to stay on track. But this can also backfire and make us feel like we're that person always on a diet," Cori points out. Instead, she recommends planning meals out and working them into your routine for better long-term adherence.
4. Expecting Fast Results Without Sacrifice
Many people want quick transformations without the necessary commitment. "If you want fast results, you better be ready to sacrifice," Cori states bluntly. "The faster we want results, the more we have to be really dedicated and perfect in those changes, especially to start." Understanding this reality from the beginning helps set proper expectations.
5. Not Recognizing Your Starting Point
Not acknowledging how long you've struggled affects your journey. "The longer you've struggled, the longer your struggle," Cori admits. Someone who just gained weight recently will see faster results than someone who's carried extra weight for years. "The longer you've had the weight on, the less you're familiar with what you need to do, the harder it will be to really get the ball rolling," she explains.
6. Getting Caught in the Guilt Cycle
Feeling guilty about imperfections can be more damaging than the slip-ups themselves. "Stop feeling guilty," Cori emphasizes. "We're human. We're never going to be perfect." This guilt often leads to days of poor choices, whereas accepting occasional mishaps allows you to move forward more effectively. "It's the guilt that changes our habits and mindsets for days after that actually adds up," she notes.
7. Making Workouts Longer Instead of Better
Many people mistakenly focus on workout duration rather than quality. "Stop just exercising for longer. Focus on making your workouts longer is a waste of time, period," Cori asserts. Excessive exercise can trigger hormonal issues and metabolic adaptations that actually hinder weight loss. Using your limited training time wisely is far more effective.
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8. Turning Strength Workouts Into Cardio Sessions
Avoiding proper rest during strength training is counterproductive. "Don't turn your strength workouts into just cardio," warns Cori. "Too often we seek to just feel work from our workouts. To be tired and burn a ton of calories." This approach can prevent muscle building and actually make you look less toned. "When you do strength work, don't fear rest. Don't feel like you have to be destroyed or out of breath every single workout," she advises.
9. Seeking Perfection Over Consistency
Striving for the perfect plan often leads to failure. Cori believes finding your personal balance is critical: "We need to find that combination of what's right and what we can do consistently. That sweet spot is where the magic happens." Creating a sustainable approach based on your individual needs leads to better long-term results than following someone else's "perfect" program.
10. Making Too Many Changes At Once
Attempting to overhaul your entire lifestyle immediately sets you up for burnout. "Results really come from 1% improvements and meeting ourselves where we're at," Cori concludes. Small, manageable changes that you can maintain consistently will always outperform dramatic but unsustainable transformations. Focus on gradual progress rather than overnight perfection. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.