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Weight Loss Coach Finally Lost 50 Pounds Using These 5 Cheat Codes

Discover simple hacks to lose weight.

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Have you ever watched someone effortlessly maintain their weight while you're stuck in an endless cycle of strict diets and frustrating rebounds? You're not alone. After three decades of personal struggle with weight loss, certified weight loss coachNissa Graun finally cracked the code to sustainable weight management—and discovered it's not about willpower or deprivation at all. Read on to learn the practical, science-backed strategies that helped her lose 50 pounds and, more importantly, keep it off without the constant battle most dieters face.


What Science and Personal Experience Taught Me About Lasting Weight Loss

"After fighting with my weight for 30 years, I discovered the habits lean people naturally follow so they never have to think about their weight," says Nissa. "This made me feel like I'd finally found the cheat codes that everyone else had. Not only did they help me lose 50 pounds, but now I don't have to work so hard to keep it off the way I used to."

"People who lose weight at a gradual, steady pace—about 1 to 2 pounds a week—are more likely to keep the weight off than people who lose weight quickly," says the CDC.

The Reality Behind Quick Fixes

"Over the 30 years I struggled with yo-yoing weight while learning all of the rules of whichever new diet I was following, I always thought I could stick to the strict rules long enough to drop the weight," Nissa reveals.

"I never anticipated all of the cravings I'd have just a few weeks in, and I never thought about the diet boredom that I'd experience after cutting out everything that brings me joy," she admits.

"After losing a hundred pounds with keto and intermittent fasting, I was convinced that was the only way to lose weight until I regained 50 pounds, even though I stuck to my plan," Nissa shares. This devastating experience became her turning point.

Understanding the Game Plan

Before diving into the cheat codes, Nissa explains the foundation: "First, you need to understand how fat loss is just like building a business. Both require investment, whether it's time, money, or energy."

"If you want to lose weight, making a specific plan can help," says the CDC.

RELATED:5 Training Mistakes That Kept This Fitness Expert From Burning Fat

Cheat Code #1: Eat the Frog

"In business, this is called 'Eating the frog,'" Nissa reveals. "No, you're not actually eating a frog or any animals for that matter. Eating the frog is a strategy where you focus on the tasks that make the biggest impact first. This works since 80% of your results come from 20% of your efforts."

For weight loss, this means prioritizing movement: "Since building muscle is key to long-term fat loss, I make working out my first priority. This is the best way to eat the frog in a fat loss plan since this is when my energy and focus are the highest."

"Following a full body routine only two or three times each week is enough to build your metabolism by building more muscle," she adds.

Cheat Code #2: The Adaptation Strategy

"Just because you find an amazing business strategy that drives sales, that doesn't mean that one strategy will work forever," Nissa explains. "While this leads some companies to fizzle out, those who can stick around need to adapt over time."

This led to her second cheat code: constantly evolving her approach. "When it came to starting from scratch, I finally learned that if I wanted to remain at a healthy weight, I had to adapt my habits and behaviors over time."

The CDC supports this flexible approach, noting that "healthy weight loss involves a lifestyle with healthy eating patterns, regular physical activity, and stress management."

Cheat Code #3: The Food Swap System

Nissa's third cheat code involves strategic food substitutions. "Through a lot of trial and error, I figured out that some food combos keep me fuller than others," she explains. She created a system of smart swaps:

"When it came to lunch, I made smaller swaps like trading two pieces of regular bread for low carb tortillas," she shares. This instantly cut 150 calories from lunch.

"Instead of indulging in a side of chips, I chose protein-heavy sides like Greek yogurt," which added 17 grams of filling protein while cutting calories.

Even dessert got a makeover: "I swap my nightly serving of dark chocolate for a protein-heavy dessert like this strawberry protein icy. This big bowl takes longer to eat and the protein keeps me satisfied all night."

RELATED:She Dropped 80 Pounds By Ignoring Everything Weight Loss Experts Told Her

Cheat Code #4: The Meal Rotation Strategy

"Just like a business requires consistent effort over months or years to see growth, a successful diet needs long-term consistency for lasting results," Nissa shares. Her fourth cheat code was developing a reliable meal system.

"I ended up having the same high protein shake for breakfast pretty much every day. Then I'd cycle through the same two or three lunch combos that kept hunger low, but only came in around 400 or 500 calories."

The CDC reinforces this systematic approach: "Being more aware of what you eat and drink will help you avoid mindless consumption."

Cheat Code #5: The Metrics That Matter

"This is the cheat code that I credit most of my success to," Nissa emphasizes. "What successful business do you know that doesn't track metrics? The trick is figuring out the right metrics that you need to track."

She breaks down the essential daily measurements:

  • Calories consumed
  • Protein intake
  • Daily weight average
  • Steps taken

"It takes less than five minutes a day to track these metrics," she says. "Once I paid attention to the right metrics, that pesky scale finally started moving in the right direction, even though I couldn't get it to budge for more than two years."

The Sustainable Approach

"Instead of slashing calories to 1,200 for quick weight loss, I ate in a more reasonable calorie deficit of 2,000 calories a day," Nissa explains. "Instead of rushing to lose all 50 pounds in just a few months this time, I had patience, which made it way easier for my new habits to turn into permanent lifestyle changes."

The CDC supports this measured approach: "Even modest weight loss can improve blood pressure, cholesterol, and blood sugar levels. For example, a 5% weight reduction for a person who weighs 200 pounds is 10 pounds."

RELATED:Nutritionist Reveals the 6 Morning Habits That Helped Her Lose 20 Pounds

Starting Your Journey

"If you are revved up now that you see just how easy sustainable fat loss can be, then let's do this," Nissa encourages. But she adds an important caveat: "Not all at once because rushing into any new plan is the fastest way to stay stuck."

The CDC echoes this: "Recognize when you're meeting your goals and be proud of your progress. Use non-food rewards, such as a bouquet of fresh flowers, a sports outing with friends, or a relaxing bath. Rewards help keep you motivated on the path to better health."

As Nissa discovered, these "cheat codes" aren't about finding shortcuts—they're about building sustainable habits that last a lifetime. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Have you ever watched someone effortlessly maintain their weight while you're stuck in an endless cycle of strict diets and frustrating rebounds? You're not alone. After three decades of personal struggle with weight loss, certified weight loss coachNissa Graun finally cracked the code to sustainable weight management—and discovered it's not about willpower or deprivation at all. Read on to learn the practical, science-backed strategies that helped her lose 50 pounds and, more importantly, keep it off without the constant battle most dieters face.


What Science and Personal Experience Taught Me About Lasting Weight Loss

"After fighting with my weight for 30 years, I discovered the habits lean people naturally follow so they never have to think about their weight," says Nissa. "This made me feel like I'd finally found the cheat codes that everyone else had. Not only did they help me lose 50 pounds, but now I don't have to work so hard to keep it off the way I used to."

"People who lose weight at a gradual, steady pace—about 1 to 2 pounds a week—are more likely to keep the weight off than people who lose weight quickly," says the CDC.

The Reality Behind Quick Fixes

"Over the 30 years I struggled with yo-yoing weight while learning all of the rules of whichever new diet I was following, I always thought I could stick to the strict rules long enough to drop the weight," Nissa reveals.

"I never anticipated all of the cravings I'd have just a few weeks in, and I never thought about the diet boredom that I'd experience after cutting out everything that brings me joy," she admits.

"After losing a hundred pounds with keto and intermittent fasting, I was convinced that was the only way to lose weight until I regained 50 pounds, even though I stuck to my plan," Nissa shares. This devastating experience became her turning point.

Understanding the Game Plan

Before diving into the cheat codes, Nissa explains the foundation: "First, you need to understand how fat loss is just like building a business. Both require investment, whether it's time, money, or energy."

"If you want to lose weight, making a specific plan can help," says the CDC.

RELATED:5 Training Mistakes That Kept This Fitness Expert From Burning Fat

Cheat Code #1: Eat the Frog

"In business, this is called 'Eating the frog,'" Nissa reveals. "No, you're not actually eating a frog or any animals for that matter. Eating the frog is a strategy where you focus on the tasks that make the biggest impact first. This works since 80% of your results come from 20% of your efforts."

For weight loss, this means prioritizing movement: "Since building muscle is key to long-term fat loss, I make working out my first priority. This is the best way to eat the frog in a fat loss plan since this is when my energy and focus are the highest."

"Following a full body routine only two or three times each week is enough to build your metabolism by building more muscle," she adds.

Cheat Code #2: The Adaptation Strategy

"Just because you find an amazing business strategy that drives sales, that doesn't mean that one strategy will work forever," Nissa explains. "While this leads some companies to fizzle out, those who can stick around need to adapt over time."

This led to her second cheat code: constantly evolving her approach. "When it came to starting from scratch, I finally learned that if I wanted to remain at a healthy weight, I had to adapt my habits and behaviors over time."

The CDC supports this flexible approach, noting that "healthy weight loss involves a lifestyle with healthy eating patterns, regular physical activity, and stress management."

Cheat Code #3: The Food Swap System

Nissa's third cheat code involves strategic food substitutions. "Through a lot of trial and error, I figured out that some food combos keep me fuller than others," she explains. She created a system of smart swaps:

"When it came to lunch, I made smaller swaps like trading two pieces of regular bread for low carb tortillas," she shares. This instantly cut 150 calories from lunch.

"Instead of indulging in a side of chips, I chose protein-heavy sides like Greek yogurt," which added 17 grams of filling protein while cutting calories.

Even dessert got a makeover: "I swap my nightly serving of dark chocolate for a protein-heavy dessert like this strawberry protein icy. This big bowl takes longer to eat and the protein keeps me satisfied all night."

RELATED:She Dropped 80 Pounds By Ignoring Everything Weight Loss Experts Told Her

Cheat Code #4: The Meal Rotation Strategy

"Just like a business requires consistent effort over months or years to see growth, a successful diet needs long-term consistency for lasting results," Nissa shares. Her fourth cheat code was developing a reliable meal system.

"I ended up having the same high protein shake for breakfast pretty much every day. Then I'd cycle through the same two or three lunch combos that kept hunger low, but only came in around 400 or 500 calories."

The CDC reinforces this systematic approach: "Being more aware of what you eat and drink will help you avoid mindless consumption."

Cheat Code #5: The Metrics That Matter

"This is the cheat code that I credit most of my success to," Nissa emphasizes. "What successful business do you know that doesn't track metrics? The trick is figuring out the right metrics that you need to track."

She breaks down the essential daily measurements:

  • Calories consumed
  • Protein intake
  • Daily weight average
  • Steps taken

"It takes less than five minutes a day to track these metrics," she says. "Once I paid attention to the right metrics, that pesky scale finally started moving in the right direction, even though I couldn't get it to budge for more than two years."

The Sustainable Approach

"Instead of slashing calories to 1,200 for quick weight loss, I ate in a more reasonable calorie deficit of 2,000 calories a day," Nissa explains. "Instead of rushing to lose all 50 pounds in just a few months this time, I had patience, which made it way easier for my new habits to turn into permanent lifestyle changes."

The CDC supports this measured approach: "Even modest weight loss can improve blood pressure, cholesterol, and blood sugar levels. For example, a 5% weight reduction for a person who weighs 200 pounds is 10 pounds."

RELATED:Nutritionist Reveals the 6 Morning Habits That Helped Her Lose 20 Pounds

Starting Your Journey

"If you are revved up now that you see just how easy sustainable fat loss can be, then let's do this," Nissa encourages. But she adds an important caveat: "Not all at once because rushing into any new plan is the fastest way to stay stuck."

The CDC echoes this: "Recognize when you're meeting your goals and be proud of your progress. Use non-food rewards, such as a bouquet of fresh flowers, a sports outing with friends, or a relaxing bath. Rewards help keep you motivated on the path to better health."

As Nissa discovered, these "cheat codes" aren't about finding shortcuts—they're about building sustainable habits that last a lifetime. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you trying to lose weight but aren’t sure what to do? It may be as simple as implementing a few healthy habits into your routine, says one expert. Andrea Michelle is an online coach and certified personal trainer who helps “women love their bodies and get strong AF,” she writes in her Instagram bio. In a new post, she reveals what she did to lose 95 pounds. “I went from 240 lbs to 145 lbs naturally, & if I was someone who wanted to do the same in 2025, here’s what I’d do,” she captioned the post. “Steps to kickstart your weight loss journey.”

Step One: Eat in a Calorie Deficit

The first thing to do, is eat in a calorie deficit. “Calculate your TDEE (there are lots of online calculators) and ensure you are consistently eating below your maintenance requirements. This can be as little as 100- 200 calories below maintenance, as long as you are consistent you will lose fat,” she writes.

Step Two: Don’t Eliminate Foood Groups You Like

Next, don’t eliminate any food groups or foods you enjoy. “Work these foods into your meal plan, prioritize variety and plan for treats. All foods fit! If you enjoy the foods you are eating it will be much easier to stick to your deficit,” she suggests.

Step Three: Prioritize Protein

The third step is prioritizing protein. “Protein is so important while losing weight for a number of reasons. Firstly it increases satiety, keeping you fuller for longer. Secondly it boosts metabolism, it takes more energy for your body to break down protein than it does carbs or fat. Thirdly it preserves and builds muscle mass. During weight loss eating adequate protein helps your body preserve lean muscle mass, this means more of the weight you lose is fat,” she writes.

What Science Says About Protein

According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW), but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

Step Four: Have a Step Goal

Next, have a step goal. “I did no formal cardio while losing weight. Instead, I focused on increasing my NEAT (non-exercise activity thermogenesis) and had a goal of hitting at least 10 thousand steps per day. If this is a big jump for you start by increasing your steps slowly over time. Pick a step goal that is challenging but realistic,” she writes.

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.

How Many Steps?

How many steps should you walk? According to a 2018 study in Obesity, walking 10,000 steps a day is linked to weight loss and weight management. Other studies published by the Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine also linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure, and fewer strokes.

Step Five: Lift Weights

“Focus on strength training regularly with progressive overload,” is step five. “Strength training is so important while losing weight because we don’t want to burn our muscle, we want to burn fat! If you strength train while in a calorie deficit you will lose less muscle than someone who isn’t exercising or only doing cardio,” she writes.

Science Supports Strength Training for Weight Loss

According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills.

Step Six: Be Patient

And the last step? Be patient. “Remember progress takes time. Short term fixes = short term results. Be patient with yourself and celebrate all the small wins along the way!” she writes.

See Her Before-and-After

In another recent post, Andi shared her amazing before-and-after photos. “Transformation photos will show you what I lost, but they don’t show you everything I’ve gained in the process- strength, confidence, determination, self love, discipline,” she wrote. “Photo on the left is from Oct. 2023. Photo on the right is from Sept. 2024.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? It might be time to change some of your health habits. Gillian Ferguson of The Macro Method is a women’s nutrition coach and social media influencer “Helping you ditch diets & transform your body through macros, movement & mindset,” she maintains on her page. In a new social media post, she reveals the changes she made to lose weight. “I’ve lost 50 lbs over the last 3 1/2 years and totally transformed myself to have a lean, strong + healthy mom bod,” she writes. “Here’s what changed.”

No More Quick Fixes

The first thing she did was stop relying on quick fixes. “I stopped wasting time + money + energy on quick fixes. The constant back & forth and always searching for the next best thing was exhausting me more than I even knew,” she writes.

She Changed Her Mindset

She also changed her mindset and turned her thinking around. “I stopped believing other people were ‘lucky’ or had it easier than I do,” she says.

She Stopped Making Excuses

Another major change she made? “I stopped making excuses,” she wrote.

RELATED:30 Best Protein Foods That Melt Fat Almost Instantly

She Started Being Accountable

She also started being accountable. “I committed to an approach and a coach - and wow the accountability was everything I needed,” she said.

She Got Her Priorities in Order

She got her priorities in order. “I started focusing on what I wanted MOST vs what I wanted in the moment,” she said.

RELATED: This Is Exactly How to Lose Body Fat This Year

She Committed to Her Habits

She committed to her habits. “I focused hard on nailing my daily habits and routines. This ended up being critical to carry me through tough times,” she says.

She Didn’t Listen to Outside Noise

She also didn’t listen to outside chatter. “I drowned out the noise and stayed in my lane - NO MATTER WHAT,” she writes.

Boundary Setting

Boundary setting was instrumental in her success. “I learned how to set boundaries,” she writes about her eighth habit.

RELATED:10-Min Walking Workout Burns Fat at Home, Says Coach

She Stopped Cheating

She also didn’t allow herself to feel entitled to cheat days. “I stopped treating every weekend and holiday and vacation and girls night out and date night and party like an excuse to go off the rails,” she writes.

She Stopped Treating Herself to Junk and Booze

She stopped using junk food and booze as a crutch. “I learned I don’t need junky food and a lot of alcohol to have an amazing time,” she says.

She Stopped Trying to Out Exercise a Bad Diet

“I stopped trying to use exercise as a way to outdo a bad diet. Instead exercise and nutrition work together,” she says about her eleventh change.

RELATED:17 Pre-Meal Foods That Burn Fat Like Ozempic, According to an Expert

She Stopped Labeling Food as Good or Bad

She also changed the way she looks at food. “I stopped thinking of foods as good or bad and eliminated the concept of a ‘cheat meal,’” she says.

She Started Walking

She also started getting her steps in. “I started walking - a lot,” she says. A 2018 study published in the journal Obesity found a link between walking 10,000 steps a day and weight loss and weight management. Other studies published by the Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine also linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure, and fewer strokes.

She Changed Her Relationship with Alcohol

She stopped drinking her calories and relying on booze. “I totally changed my relationship with alcohol,” she says.

RELATED:10 Foods to Avoid If You're Trying to Burn Fat, Says Expert

She Prioritized Self-Care

Finally, she started prioritizing self-care. “I realized that taking care of myself as a mom isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity. I am 1000% a better mom and wife now that I feel good & strong & healthy in my own skin,” she writes.

She Took the Timeline Away

“And this is a big big one and it didn’t happen until I had already lost a chunk of weight and started to feel really good about myself ….I took the timeline away and started really loving the whole process. I stopped wanting to be smaller and I started wanting to be stronger,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you trying to lose weight but need some tips on how to do so? Liam Topham is a diet and fitness coach who helps professionals “shed belly fat, get jacked, and feel energized by running their body like a high-performing business,” he writes in his Instagram bio.”20 tips to lose 20 pounds in the next 50 days,” he writes.

Eat More Eggs

The first tip? Crack those eggs. “Eat eggs every day. They’re a superfood that makes fat loss easier,” he writes.

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat

Don’t Drink as Much Alcohol

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Next, avoid drinking your calories. “Minimize alcohol until you hit your target weight. These are empty calories,” he says.

Drink Coffee

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You can enjoy coffee but don’t add anything to it. “Drink black coffee in the morning. It will suppress your appetite,” Topham says.

No Food After Dinner

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Don’t succumb to late night cravings. “No food after dinner. Brush your teeth. Your cravings will disappear,” he maintains.

RELATED:20 Superfoods for People Over 50

Don’t Starve Yourself

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Skipping meals to save calories may be tempting, but it’s a mistake. “Avoid long periods without eating, you’ll end up overeating or binging later,” he says.

Walk 10,000 Steps Per Day

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Lace-up your walking — not running — shoes. “Stop running and walk 10k+ steps a day instead,” he suggests.

Don’t Eat Peanut Butter

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“Avoid peanut butter,” says Topham. “It’s high in calories, low in protein, and you’ll want to eat the whole tub.”

Don’t Eat Unless You Are Really Hungry

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Don’t eat unless you are really hungry. “Before you eat, ask yourself: ‘Am I bored, thirsty, or stressed?’ If the answer is yes, don’t eat,” he says.

Harness Negative Emotions

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“If you rate your body less than 5 out of 10, harness those negative emotions to take action,” he says about his ninth tip.

Stick to Certain Proteins

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He also recommends sticking to specific proteins. “Make beef, chicken, and seafood your primary protein sources. These will fill you up,” he explains.

Eat Lots of Produce

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Fill your fridge with lots of produce. “Load up on fruits and vegetables—you’ll never overeat on these foods,” he says.

Spice Up Your Food with Healthy Condiments

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Jazz up your meals by keeping delicious but healthy condiments on hand. “Use low-calorie/zero-calorie condiments like Frank’s Red Hot,” he says.

Indulge in Moderation

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You are allowed to eat your favorite foods but do so in moderation. “It’s fine to eat pizza, burgers, and chocolate occasionally because you’re human—but not ALL the time,” says Topham.

Don’t Eat Fake Meat

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When it comes to meat alternatives like Beyond Meat, don’t bother says Topham. “Put fake meat in the garbage,” he says.

Avoid Extreme Diets

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Avoid extreme diets. “Don’t do any extreme diets that cut out entire food groups like keto or carnivore unless you want to hate your life,” Topham recommends.

Only Drink Diet Soda

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If you like sweet, bubbly drinks, make sure they are sugar-free. “Swap regular soda for diet soda,” urges Topham.

Weigh Yourself Daily

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Don’t get rid of your scale. “Weigh yourself every day and take a 7-day average. Expect fluctuations—that’s normal,” he says.

RELATED:I Got Into the Best Shape of My Life at 50 by Following These 6 "Basics"

Eat Meals on Repeat

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Don’t worry about getting bored of your meals. Be consistent with them. “Repeat the same meals Monday-Friday. Change them up on weekends,” he says.

Strength Train

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Strength training is also essential. “Lift weights for 45-60 minutes. 2-hour sessions are a waste of time,” says Topham.

Know Your Why

And last but not least? “Start with your why. You deserve to function at your highest potential, and so do your spouse and kids. Define the reasons you want to get fit and healthy, and stop settling for less,” he says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Do you want to lose more than 40 pounds? While it might seem intimidating to embark on a major weight loss journey, there are lots of weight loss warriors who have shared their success stories to keep you inspired and motivated. Many of them have revealed the easy and doable lifestyle changes they made that enabled them to slim down and keep the weight off. Here are 20 tips from nine men and women who have lost up to 165 pounds to help you achieve your weight loss goals.


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Something I tell my clients when they first start coaching with me is that in order for these results to be sustainable we have to create balance. when I first started my weight loss journey, I used to restrict myself so much, I would demonize so many different kinds of foods that diet culture had brainwashed me, and into believing were the reason why I wasn’t able to reach the results I was looking for. Which just led me to cycles of binging, and creating a very unhealthy relationship between nutrition and my body. Through proper education on macronutrients, I was able to heal this relationship. And this is how I help my clients and maintain their goals as well. Education is power. WIEIAD DEETS: 💚 breakfast: protein, pancakes, egg, white scramble, turkey bacon 💚 snack: fruit, salad, and protein smoothie 💚 lunch: birria tacos + veg 💚 dinner: seafood boil Babe, if you’re ready to finally create a lifestyle transformation that’s sustainable while still eating all of the foods that you enjoy, I would love to work with you. I’m now accepting new clients, the link is in my bio. Let’s get to work! #weightlosstransformation #weightlosstips #weightlossjourney #weightlossgoals #weightlosscoach #weightlosshelp #weightlosschallenge #fatlosstips #fatlossjourney #nutritiontips #mindsetcoach #caloriedeficit #summerbody #nutritioncoach #fitnesscoach #mindset #mindsetcoach #mentalhealth #weightlosstransformation #fatlosstips #fatlosstransformation #whatieatinaday #highprotein

Indya Agos (@indyaagos) is a weight loss warrior and coach who lost a whopping 120 pounds via natural methods. “Something I tell my clients when they first start coaching with me is that in order for these results to be sustainable we have to create balance,” she says. “When I first started my weight loss journey, I used to restrict myself so much,” she continues. “I would demonize so many different kinds of foods that diet culture had brainwashed me, and into believing were the reason why I wasn’t able to reach the results I was looking for.”

She Also Educated Herself on Macronutrients

Indya previously suffered from “cycles of binging, and creating a very unhealthy relationship between nutrition and my body,” she maintains. “Through proper education on macronutrients, I was able to heal this relationship. And this is how I help my clients and maintain their goals as well. Education is power.”

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She “Started Slow” and Learned “Self-Trust”

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If you wanna lose 80 pounds next year, I’m gonna tell you exactly how to do it! No gatekeeping the secret to success here. The number one thing that you need to get clear on, is the amount of time it’s going to take you to achieve your goal, the amount of effort required for you to get there, and, of course, why it’s so important to you. Setting a realistic expectation for yourself, while also simultaneously connecting with your why is the first step to create the foundation. You need to be successful through 2024. When you understand that this journey is going to take time, it’s going to require sacrifice, it’s going to require you stepping so far out of your comfort zone, that you may be paralyzed by fear at times. But being okay with the discomfort. Surrendering to knowing that in those moments of uncertainty, in those moments of insecurity, and discomfort, are facilitating growth. Connecting with knowing that, allowing yourself to grow, is what is going to help you reach your goals. And not only reach your goals, sustain those achievements. Baby, 2024 can be your year, and the first thing that you need to do, is get your mindset right. Know why you’re on this journey, know what you need to do to get from point A to point B, and set yourself up for success. Start building the mindset, habits, and routines into your daily life now in order to be successful 2024. and if you’re ready to take the next step, you’re ready to invest in yourself. I’m now accepting applications for January. The link is in my bio let’s get to work!🤘🏽 #weightlosstransformation #weightlosstips #weightlossjourney #weightlossgoals #weightlosscoach #weightlosshelp #weightlosschallenge #fatlosstips #fatlossjourney #nutritiontips #mindsetcoach #newyearsresolution #newyearnewme #nutritioncoach #fitnesscoach

In another video, Indya reveals another tactic that helped her lose so much weight. “You got to start slow,” she says. “If you approach this from an all or nothing mentality, you are only setting yourself up for failure. A big part of this journey is regaining self-trust. You are so used to letting yourself down. The way that you build trust with yourself again is by following through with the promises that you've made to yourself.”

And Took a Deep Dive Into Her Failed Attempts at Weight Loss

Another thing she did is “going to require you to dig deep,” she says. “We need to figure out what your main excuses or your repeated point of failure chances are. You've been stuck in the same exact cycle, repeating the same narratives as to why you haven't been able to be successful in the past. If your story is that you never have any time, then we need to figure out why you're not prioritizing making time. People make time for what's important to them. If the story is that you are overwhelmed and you have no idea where to start, then it is time to reach out for help so that you have a plan of action as well as guidance.”

Raven Norwood Lost 165 Pounds By Cutting Processed Foods From Her Diet

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Raven Norwood, 28, of Huntington Beach, California, started her weight loss journey at 212 pounds and has managed to drop down to 155 pounds, losing 165 pounds in two years. In an interview with Body Network, she explains that she used to eat food containing several dyes, fast food, and packaged food with GMOs, too much MSG, and preservatives. While she didn’t eliminate “any specific food groups because balance is the key to longevity,” she did cut the above from her diet and started cooking her own meals “as much as possible.” Creating healthy relationships with all food groups is so important when it comes to keeping the weight off, she stresses. “Balance is key, so, if I want a cookie here and there, I eat the cookie… no biggie!”

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She Also Amped Up Her Water Intake

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Raven adds that “lots of water” keeps her hydrated and feeling full. According to the Mayo Clinic, hydration is important for a variety of reasons. Water helps get rid of waste through urination, perspiration, and bowel movements, keeps your temperature normal, lubricates and cushions joints, and helps protect sensitive tissues.

She Fell in Love with a Boutique Fitness Method

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Raven also encourages finding a fitness form that you love. She discovered rowing at her local Row House. “I love how boutique and specialized gyms are getting more recognition! When I first found Row House, I had never seen a gym dedicated to rowing,” she says. “And on top of that you get floorwork exercises, group fitness and the wonderful community that comes along with it! I think a lot of people would benefit from boutique gyms.”

She Took Progress Pictures

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Progress photos were also an important part of Raven’s weight loss journey. “Sometimes your mind will play tricks on you, and make you feel like you haven’t done as much as you have,” she says. If she feels discouraged, she will look at her “Day 1” photo and it will provide instant motivation. “Take photos because your mind will play tricks on you, but those photos won’t,” she says.

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Dils Less Lost 50 Pounds by Not Drinking Coffee on an Empty Stomach

Dils Lee (@dilshealth) lost 50 pounds by making a few simple lifestyle habit changes, which not only aided in weight loss, but were a game-changer in her overall health, especially with her inflammation and hormonal imbalance. One of the first changes that she made? “I stopped drinking coffee on an empty stomach and started making my breakfast look like this,” she said. “Drinking coffee on an empty stomach can lead to bloating, nausea, and anxiety, and it can also raise your cortisol levels, which can negatively impact ovulation weight and hormonal imbalances.”

She Also Switched From HIIT to Low Intensity Workouts

You don’t have to do HIIT workouts to lose weight. The second change that she made “was stopping all high intensity training while I was losing weight,” she said. “I found that I harbored a lot of inflammation in my face, arms, body, stomach, and legs everywhere.” Instead, she opted for lower intensity training. “Basically, by switching to lower intensity workouts, I've found that my waist has drastically come in. My stomach is much more flat, and I'm actually building a lot of tone and muscle in my arms and legs,” she says.

And, She Prioritized Sleep

“The fourth change that I made is that I introduced a healthy sleep routine,” Dils reveals. “My routine includes using supplements like magnesium and then not using my phone an hour before bed. Prioritizing sleep will help your body recover after physical activity. It'll also help with hormone regulation, metabolic regulation, stress and emotional wellbeing.” What are the health benefits of sleep? According to the Sleep Foundation, getting enough z’s is a mood booster, promotes heart health, regulates blood sugar, improves mental function, restores your immune system, helps relieve stress, and aids in weight loss.

Joseph Graham Jr. Lost 75 Pounds By Jump Roping and Doing Pushups

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No gym, no problem. Joseph Graham Jr. (@theguywiththepinkshoes) is a fitness influencer and “crossrope athlete” who lost a whopping 75 pounds and toned up his dad bod by jumping rope and doing push ups at home. He does “harder” push ups, he says. “It's not enough to just do as many as you can and do them fast. Once you feel comfortable doing pushups, once you feel like you've kind of got it down, you have to start making it harder for yourself,” he explains. “The resistance is what builds the strength, right?

Alexandra Lost 40 Pounds by Eating the Same Meals Every Day

Online fitness coach Alexandra (@alexx.fitt) personally lost 40 pounds by eating the same meals daily. “For 1-2 months I ate the same meals every single day why? Because I was confused I didn’t know what to eat or where to start so I ate the same thing everyday,” Alexandra confesses in the caption of her video.

She Also Walks 10,000 Steps a Day

In another video she reveals that walking 10,000 steps a day was also key. “I weigh around 150lbs so walking 10k steps burns an extra 300-400 calories a day without spending hours on the stair master,” says Alexandra. “Walking can be done anywhere you don’t have to get fancy gym clothes you can literally walk in your pjs,” she adds. And, it helps regulate hunger. “Walking is not an extremely difficult exercise and it can help regulate your appetite hormones and reduce feelings of hunger,” she says.

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David Tuckfield Lost 60 Pounds EMS Workouts

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David Tuckfield, 61, dropped 60 pounds and reduced his body fat by 23 percent in 16 months by incorporating electro muscle stimulation (EMS) workouts into his routine, which he discovered at BODY20. “I was very skeptical when I first tried the EMS workouts. I was shocked after my demo workout how much I felt a difference,” he told Body Network. “For me, the amazing thing about the EMS workouts to me is that I can actually feel or sense my muscles. That was something that I had never experienced. At first I could feel them only during the workouts, but now when I exert myself I can discern which muscles are engaged. I don’t have huge or impressive muscles, but that I am more in-tune with the muscles I have. It is a good feeling to feel your muscles engage when you do an activity.” Another “great thing” about the workout “is that you really get a full workout (or better) in 20 minutes,” he says.

He Also Set Long-Term Goals

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He also started looking at weight loss as a long-term goal. “Don’t think short term. Think of it as a very long journey,” he suggests. “You will plateau, and you should just be comfortable with that. If you don’t stress out about the plateaus, you will eventually work through them.” Daily weigh-ins also helped him. “If you’ve gained weight, ask yourself what you did yesterday that would have made you gain weight. Usually the answer is obvious,” he says.

Joy Maria Lost 70 Pounds with Hot Girl Walks

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Joy Maria (@therealjoyymaria/video) is a weight loss influencer and mother who lost 70 pounds in less than 11 months with the help of, wait for it, “Hot girl walks,” she reveals in a video. “Walking is a thousand percent, the most underrated way to lose weight,” she adds, “and one of my favorite things to do is walk.” She started walking to her errands, walking to and from workouts, and whenever else she could get steps in.

She Also Followed a Meal Plan

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“If somebody is telling you that you can lose weight without being in a calorie deficit run because they're lying,” she adds, calling it “the most important step” to losing weight. “I know you guys have heard the saying, you cannot outrun a bad diet, and it's so true. Google, TDEE calculator. From there, put in your information. I'm gonna tell you exactly how many calories you need to eat. I ate about 1600 to 1800 calories daily, just depending on my activity level for the day. If I did two workouts that day, I would eat closer to 1800. If I had a more sedentary day, I would eat closer to 1500 to 1600.” She also followed a meal plan. “I have a seven day meal plan available at the top of my profile. It just makes it really easy when you're going to a grocery shop, when you're first starting out, when things are structured, it's gonna make it a lot easier to follow and just to stay consistent, not skipping breakfast, especially if we're exercising.”

Gen Cohen Lost 50 Pounds by Doing the 12-3-30

Gen Cohen, CNC, lost 50 pounds by doing a few different workouts, including the 12-3-30.

She said that “rather than subscribing to some crazy fitness routine, I'd commit to lifting weights three maximum four times per week and prioritize getting a 60 minute walk in per day,” in a video. “You can go to the gym and do 12-3-30. You can take your dog for a walk. You can get a walking pad and put it under your desk. I don't care how, just 60 minutes of walking.”

Joan Henning Lost 130 Pounds with Keto

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In 2019, Joan Henning started her 130-pound weight loss journey with the keto diet.“ I was able to start keto,” she says. She stayed on the low carb diet for “months.” While on keto, “I probably lost about 10 pounds because keto, it comes off quickly,” she said.

💪🔥Body Booster: Start your weight loss journey slowly and avoid an all-or-nothing mentality to prevent setting yourself up for failure. Focus on regaining self-trust by consistently following through with the promises you make to yourself.

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Are you prioritizing protein intake but not losing the weight you hoped to? You might be making a common – but fixable – mistake. Sarah Bouchard is a Nutrition Coach & Educator who helps women over 35 “ditch diet confusion & simplify nutrition” for “Sustainable fat loss + healthy body composition,” she explains in her Instagram bio. In a new social media post she reveals some diet faux pas you might be committing. “5 dieting traps that are stalling your fat loss and body recomp even though you are eating high protein,” she writes. After revealing each “trap,” she goes on to suggest what to do instead.

Hitting a Protein Target Without Considering Quality or Distribution

Her first trap? Hitting a protein target without considering quality or distribution. “Simply consuming ‘enough’ protein isn’t doing it. The quality, density, & timing of protein intake directly impact muscle retention & satiety,” she says.

What to Do Instead

The solution? “Choose quality proteins & distribute protein intake more evenly across meals to stimulate muscle synthesis multiple times per day—not just at dinner,” she writes.

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Setting Calories Too Low

The next mistake is setting calories too low. “Severe calorie restriction reduces total daily energy expenditure (TDEE). Your body compensates by decreasing how much you move & making you more energy-efficient, which slows fat loss,” she says.

What to Do Instead

The solution? “Keep your deficit modest—just below maintenance,” she recommends. “Prioritize protein & fiber to increase the thermic effect of food (TEF) & satiety. Increase daily movement like walking to support TDEE rather than reducing ‘calories in’ even further.”

Overemphasizing Protein While Neglecting Fiber & Carbs

Mistake three is overemphasizing protein while neglecting fiber and carbs. “Protein is just one part of the satiety equation. A high-protein diet without fiber-rich carbohydrates can slow digestion, impact gut health, and leave you feeling ravenous,” she says.

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What to Do Instead

Make sure you are balancing macros. “Ensure you’re including fiber from fruits, vegetables, & starches at every meal to support digestion, blood sugar control, & satiety,” she suggests.

Unrealistic Expectations

Another mistake is setting unrealistic expectations. “Fat loss takes time. If you’ve ever lost 5 lbs in a week on keto, it was likely water weight, not body fat. Quick results aren’t sustainable, & constant weight fluctuations can be discouraging,” she writes.

What to Do Instead

Her solution? “Shift focus from short-term outcomes to long-term consistency. Instead of chasing the scale, prioritize the behaviors that create fat loss—training, nutrition, & recovery,” she says.

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Chronic Dieting

Her last mistake is chronic dieting. “Constantly being in a deficit can lead to metabolic adaptation, lack of nutrients, hormonal problems, and a higher risk of binge-restrict cycles,” she points out.

What to Do Instead

She has a solution to the problem. “Periodize your deficit,” she suggests. “Include diet breaks & consider calorie cycling to avoid diet fatigue and promote long-term adherence.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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I Lost 134 Pounds After Saying Goodbye to These 6 Habits
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We've all been there – standing in front of the pantry, fighting the urge to grab that sugary snack we know we shouldn't eat. For Christina Jordan, a Board Certified Master Nutritionist at Fit Body Weight Loss, this struggle was all too real. After successfully losing 134 pounds and reversing Type 2 Diabetes, thyroid issues, and autoimmune conditions through healthy eating, she's sharing the key habits she had to break to achieve lasting success. If you're ready to transform your relationship with food, these insights could be exactly what you need.

1. Ignoring Water Intake

"You should be drinking one gallon of water a day," Jordan says in her post. "I know it's a lot, but those cravings for carbohydrates and sugars are often signs that you're dehydrated." She recommends carrying a gallon jug and gradually working up to the full amount, noting that proper hydration is crucial for managing cravings.

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2. Removing Without Replacing

When it comes to breaking addictions, Jordan learned a valuable lesson: "You can't just remove an addiction; you have to replace it," she shares. "It's like ripping off a chunk of your skin – you create a gaping hole that needs to be filled." She suggests finding healthier alternatives, such as naturally sweetened beverages or herbal teas, to replace sugary sodas.

3. Skipping Essential Nutrients

"You have to have all three – protein, complex carbs, and healthy fats – to feel satiated," Jordan explains. She recommends incorporating specific foods like avocados (one per day) or a measured portion of almonds (9-12 count) to maintain balanced nutrition and prevent cravings.

4. Overlooking Physical Activity

"Don't give in to cravings – go do something else," Jordan advises. "Even 10 minutes of exercise will totally calm your sugar cravings." She personally uses exercise as a powerful tool to reprogram her brain's response to sugar cravings, often choosing to walk or use the treadmill when cravings strike.

5. Expecting Immediate Results

"Breaking an addiction takes time," Jordan reminds us. "You're not going to quit craving sugar forever after one day." She explains that it takes approximately 67 days for the brain to heal and form new neural pathways, making it essential to maintain consistency during this period.

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6. Fighting Cravings Without a Strategy

Jordan shares a unique approach to managing cravings: "I have a little band on my wrist that I've been wearing for about 11 or 12 years. Whenever my brain starts to get out of control, I give that little band a tiny snap." This simple technique serves as a pattern interrupter, helping to maintain focus on health goals.

The Science Behind Sugar Addiction

"Breaking sugar is harder than breaking a cocaine addiction because the brain fires off the same way as cocaine," Jordan reveals. She points out that sugar's societal acceptance makes it particularly challenging to overcome, as it's present in many everyday situations and celebrations.

Managing the Transition

"If you're snapping at your kids or family, here's the deal: make sure you're getting enough healthy fats," Jordan advises. She suggests incorporating MCT oil into smoothies, protein shakes, or beverages to help manage mood swings during the sugar detox process.

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Finding Healthy Alternatives

Jordan shares her personal strategy for replacing sugary drinks: "I discovered amazing, naturally sugar-free, organic iced teas that taste delicious. I sweeten them with lemons, limes, or oranges." She emphasizes the importance of being open to trying new options and finding what works for you.

The Path to Success

"After a while, your brain will heal those neural connector pathways," Jordan encourages. She maintains that with a 90-day commitment to new habits, you can successfully overcome sugar addiction. "It gets easier because your body heals, your brain heals, and new, better habits replace the old ones." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you trying to tone your arms after 50? One expert claims to know the secret. Kristine Rucker, aka The Arm Coach, is a fitness coach and influencer specializing in helping people tone their arms. In a new post, she reveals the one secret you need to learn if you want strong arms. “The real reason you’re not getting the arms you want…and it’s NOT your workouts,” she says.

She Thought Her Workouts Were the Problem

“For the longest time, I thought my workouts were the problem. Maybe I wasn’t lifting heavy enough. Maybe I wasn’t doing the right exercises. Maybe I needed more reps, different movements, a better routine,” she says in the post.

It Was Actually Her Mindset

“So, I kept searching for the perfect plan. But no matter what I tried, my arms didn’t change the way I wanted them to,” she says. “And then I realized—it wasn’t my workouts holding me back. It was my mindset.”

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She Stuck in an “All-Or-Nothing” Cycle

“I was stuck in an all-or-nothing cycle. Some days, I was on fire, pushing myself hard, eating ‘perfectly.’ Other days, I’d fall off track and think, Oh well, I already messed up. Might as well start over Monday. Sound familiar?” she says.

You Need to Stay Consistent

Here’s the truth: “It’s not your workouts,” she says. “It’s your ability to stay consistent. And that consistency doesn’t come from forcing yourself—it comes from loving self-discipline.”

And Guide Yourself with Care

“Loving self-discipline isn’t about being strict—it’s about guiding yourself with care. It’s about making choices that feel good in the long run, not just in the moment. It’s what keeps you going, even when motivation fades,” she says.

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Everything Changed When She Stopped Fighting Herself

“When I stopped fighting myself and started practicing gentle, loving discipline, everything changed. My workouts finally worked—not because they were different, but because I was different,” she says.

Tracking Is Also Important

In another post, she reveals another tactic that helps tone arms: Tracking. “Why tracking is the fastest way to toned arms: Because what you measure, you improve,” she says.

She Used to Wing It

“I used to wing it—showing up to workouts, hoping for progress, but never really knowing if I was getting stronger. And because I wasn’t tracking anything, I’d get discouraged and quit before I ever saw real results,” she said.

Tracking Gave Her Proof, Kept Her Consistent, and Helped Her Focus on Progress

Then she started writing things down. “Tracking gave me proof. I wasn’t guessing anymore—I could see my strength improving week by week,” she says. “It kept me consistent. Seeing my progress in front of me made it easier to keep going. It helped me focus on progress, not perfection. Instead of obsessing over the mirror, I focused on how much stronger I was getting,” she continued.

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It Worked

It proved to be a successful tactic. “The moment I stopped relying on ‘feeling’ like I was making progress and actually tracked it, I got the toned arms I’d been chasing for years,” she said. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss these 3 Simple Stretches Made This Coach More Flexible in 2 Weeks.