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5 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Lost 70 Pounds (And Kept It Off)

One weight loss warrior reveals insider information about losing weight.

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Nikki Madoch (@nikkigetsfit) is a weight loss influencer and YouTuber who shares about her health journey via social media outlets. In one of her viral videos, she reveals things she didn’t know – but wished she had – before losing weight. “I'm just talking about five things that I wish that I knew before I started my weight loss journey,” she says.


“These are just some of the things that I wish I knew before I started my journey of losing 70 pounds because it's definitely been such a learning experience,” she added. “I have had to completely change the way I think about things. I've had to switch my lifestyle around and really think about things differently to have success with this healthier lifestyle.”

You Need to Be Motivated By More Than Just Looks

“The first thing that I want to talk about that I wish I had known before I started was what was going to motivate me to lose weight. Because one thing that I feel like always caused me to just not have success with losing weight was my motivation behind it,” she says in the video.

“My reasoning behind why I wanted to lose weight for so long, I just wanted to look better. I wanted to have a flat stomach. I wanted to look like other people, and that was all it was. I just wanted to look like other people. I just wanted to be thin. I wanted to lose weight. Those were the only things that motivated me because it was what other people thought. I wanted other people to think better of me.”

Instead, Be Motivated By How You Feel

“This time around, I completely changed my way of thinking because it became a little bit more of a health scare, and I just stopped trying to think about what others thought. It almost became like, okay, this needs to be about me now.,” she says. “As I started my weight loss journey, honestly one week in, I could not believe how much better I felt after just one week.” She says she started focusing on portion control and fueling her body with healthy food, “and that motivated me more than I ever knew it could.”

She maintains “that has been what's motivated me, my entire journey. What's kept me going is how good I feel when I take care of myself: when I eat healthy, when I nourish myself, when I eat enough when I drink enough water, when I get enough sleep, when I exercise and move my body in ways that I enjoy, those things make me feel amazing. They genuinely make me feel good.”

That She Would Have More Body Dysmorphia

The next one? “I didn't know that I would have more body dysmorphia as I lost weight, and that was something that was kind of shocking to me because honestly, at my heaviest, it had gotten to the point where I just didn't care,” she says.

“Then, as I started losing weight and started focusing on every little thing, I would feel better about how I looked, but at the same time, I was noticing every little part of me. I felt like I was looking in the mirror a lot. I was checking out my stomach and my legs and just every part of me, my arms. I was so self-conscious about my loose skin that I was developing as I was losing weight.”

Be Prepared for the “Mental Game”

“I started to develop so many tendencies of just body dysmorphia, and it really got to me way more than I ever expected,” she says. “At my heavier weights, I wasn't as hard on myself about my body because I just gave up. So it was just a whole other mental game that I had to deal with going through weight loss.”

Use Your Weeklies

“The next thing that I wish I knew before I started my weight loss journey is specifically with Weight Watchers. And that is to use my weeklies,” she says.

“So when I first signed up and heard about the Weekly Bank, I kind of thought that was just like a bonus. You didn't really have to use those points and shouldn't use them. Like I thought that you would actually lose weight if you didn't use them. And so for the first couple weeks, I was too scared to use my weeklies, and I feel like, again, so many people say this, but then I started to realize, like, okay, I want to eat more. I don't want to restrict myself; I want to feel like I'm eating more and more nourishing foods, and I don't know if I lost all the weight or not eating enough, then I'd have to maintain the weight. Not eating enough is a mentality I had. So I was like, I might as well take advantage of all the points that I have.”

You Will Lose More Weight If You Use Them

“I started to eat my weekly points and very quickly noticed that it actually helped me to lose more weight. The weeks that I would use all my weeklies were always my best weigh-in weeks. I don't know if it was just a coincidence, but I think that I was just really nourishing my body, and it was just what worked for me to use my weeklies. And I hear a lot of people that have success when they do,” she says.

Don’t Eat the Same Things Over and Over Again

“The next thing that I wish I knew before starting my weight loss journey is that it is very easy to get burned out of things, and it's very important to switch things up. I learned pretty quickly in the beginning that first of all, especially when you're on WW and you find low-point things, it's exciting, especially when there are trending low-point things within, like the Weight Watchers community, and it becomes such a thing. And I would do that and get so burned out of stuff. So even like blackened chicken from Tyson, which I still love that chicken, but I burn myself out of that so quickly,” she says.

Sprinkle in New Stuff

“I go through phases, but I always have something new to mix things up, and that helps so much to stay on track because getting bored and feeling like it's just boring and repetitive sometimes can be hard to stay consistent with because I don't know, it's boring and you don't want to do it. You don't have something to look forward to,” she says.

Don’t Focus on the Number on the Scale

Her last item on the list? “Just realizing that weight and the number on the scale is not everything. I know everybody is self-conscious of their weight, but I've been so self-conscious about my weight,” she says. She explains that the number on the scale doesn’t always matter. “My body is so much more toned and strong than it was two years ago when I weighed 180 pounds,” she says.

Instead, Take Progress Pictures and Measurements

She adds that when you incorporate resistance training and weightlifting, “it's going to make a difference because muscle takes up less space than fat. So even if you weigh more and you have more muscle, you will look smaller.” She recommends taking progress pictures and measurements instead of relying on the scale. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Nikki Madoch (@nikkigetsfit) is a weight loss influencer and YouTuber who shares about her health journey via social media outlets. In one of her viral videos, she reveals things she didn’t know – but wished she had – before losing weight. “I'm just talking about five things that I wish that I knew before I started my weight loss journey,” she says.


“These are just some of the things that I wish I knew before I started my journey of losing 70 pounds because it's definitely been such a learning experience,” she added. “I have had to completely change the way I think about things. I've had to switch my lifestyle around and really think about things differently to have success with this healthier lifestyle.”

You Need to Be Motivated By More Than Just Looks

“The first thing that I want to talk about that I wish I had known before I started was what was going to motivate me to lose weight. Because one thing that I feel like always caused me to just not have success with losing weight was my motivation behind it,” she says in the video.

“My reasoning behind why I wanted to lose weight for so long, I just wanted to look better. I wanted to have a flat stomach. I wanted to look like other people, and that was all it was. I just wanted to look like other people. I just wanted to be thin. I wanted to lose weight. Those were the only things that motivated me because it was what other people thought. I wanted other people to think better of me.”

Instead, Be Motivated By How You Feel

“This time around, I completely changed my way of thinking because it became a little bit more of a health scare, and I just stopped trying to think about what others thought. It almost became like, okay, this needs to be about me now.,” she says. “As I started my weight loss journey, honestly one week in, I could not believe how much better I felt after just one week.” She says she started focusing on portion control and fueling her body with healthy food, “and that motivated me more than I ever knew it could.”

She maintains “that has been what's motivated me, my entire journey. What's kept me going is how good I feel when I take care of myself: when I eat healthy, when I nourish myself, when I eat enough when I drink enough water, when I get enough sleep, when I exercise and move my body in ways that I enjoy, those things make me feel amazing. They genuinely make me feel good.”

That She Would Have More Body Dysmorphia

The next one? “I didn't know that I would have more body dysmorphia as I lost weight, and that was something that was kind of shocking to me because honestly, at my heaviest, it had gotten to the point where I just didn't care,” she says.

“Then, as I started losing weight and started focusing on every little thing, I would feel better about how I looked, but at the same time, I was noticing every little part of me. I felt like I was looking in the mirror a lot. I was checking out my stomach and my legs and just every part of me, my arms. I was so self-conscious about my loose skin that I was developing as I was losing weight.”

Be Prepared for the “Mental Game”

“I started to develop so many tendencies of just body dysmorphia, and it really got to me way more than I ever expected,” she says. “At my heavier weights, I wasn't as hard on myself about my body because I just gave up. So it was just a whole other mental game that I had to deal with going through weight loss.”

Use Your Weeklies

“The next thing that I wish I knew before I started my weight loss journey is specifically with Weight Watchers. And that is to use my weeklies,” she says.

“So when I first signed up and heard about the Weekly Bank, I kind of thought that was just like a bonus. You didn't really have to use those points and shouldn't use them. Like I thought that you would actually lose weight if you didn't use them. And so for the first couple weeks, I was too scared to use my weeklies, and I feel like, again, so many people say this, but then I started to realize, like, okay, I want to eat more. I don't want to restrict myself; I want to feel like I'm eating more and more nourishing foods, and I don't know if I lost all the weight or not eating enough, then I'd have to maintain the weight. Not eating enough is a mentality I had. So I was like, I might as well take advantage of all the points that I have.”

You Will Lose More Weight If You Use Them

“I started to eat my weekly points and very quickly noticed that it actually helped me to lose more weight. The weeks that I would use all my weeklies were always my best weigh-in weeks. I don't know if it was just a coincidence, but I think that I was just really nourishing my body, and it was just what worked for me to use my weeklies. And I hear a lot of people that have success when they do,” she says.

Don’t Eat the Same Things Over and Over Again

“The next thing that I wish I knew before starting my weight loss journey is that it is very easy to get burned out of things, and it's very important to switch things up. I learned pretty quickly in the beginning that first of all, especially when you're on WW and you find low-point things, it's exciting, especially when there are trending low-point things within, like the Weight Watchers community, and it becomes such a thing. And I would do that and get so burned out of stuff. So even like blackened chicken from Tyson, which I still love that chicken, but I burn myself out of that so quickly,” she says.

Sprinkle in New Stuff

“I go through phases, but I always have something new to mix things up, and that helps so much to stay on track because getting bored and feeling like it's just boring and repetitive sometimes can be hard to stay consistent with because I don't know, it's boring and you don't want to do it. You don't have something to look forward to,” she says.

Don’t Focus on the Number on the Scale

Her last item on the list? “Just realizing that weight and the number on the scale is not everything. I know everybody is self-conscious of their weight, but I've been so self-conscious about my weight,” she says. She explains that the number on the scale doesn’t always matter. “My body is so much more toned and strong than it was two years ago when I weighed 180 pounds,” she says.

Instead, Take Progress Pictures and Measurements

She adds that when you incorporate resistance training and weightlifting, “it's going to make a difference because muscle takes up less space than fat. So even if you weigh more and you have more muscle, you will look smaller.” She recommends taking progress pictures and measurements instead of relying on the scale. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to lose weight in perimenopause? Just because you are over 40 doesn’t mean that achieving your body goals is impossible. Trish Koeslag is a women’s nutrition and fitness coach whose mission is to help women over 40 simplify macros and movement to lose weight. In a new social media post, she unveils her weight loss secrets through tips. “10 proven diet tips to lose 15 pounds if you’re in perimenopause,” she writes. “Are you ready to make this the year where you put yourself first? If the answer is ‘hell yes’ then LFG.”

Calculate Your Macros

Start by calculating your macros. Use a macro calculator “and follow your maintenance calories by tracking your food for 2 weeks (be honest!)” she writes.

Get Yourself in a Deficit

Next, get yourself in a deficit. “After 2 weeks of consistency use my macro calculator to create a 15% deficit if you haven’t seen any fat loss progress with your maintenance calories (progress looks like the scale dropping, inches dropping, clothes fitting better, energy improvements, strength in the gym…)” she continues.

Eat More Protein

Amp up your protein intake. “Aim for 30g of protein per meal and space out your meals every 3-4 hours,” she says. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW), but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

Eat Whole Foods 90 Percent of the Time

Trish recommends staying away from processed foods and filling your plate with clean, nutritious options – most of the time. “Choose 90% whole foods - add lots of veggies to your meals (half your plate)” she writes.

RELATED: This Is Exactly How to Lose Body Fat This Year

Hydrate

Next, hydrate. “Drink 3L of water + electrolytes (I use LMNT)” she writes. According to the Mayo Clinic, hydration is essential for various reasons. Water helps eliminate waste through urination, perspiration, and bowel movements, keeps your temperature regular, lubricates and cushions joints, and helps protect sensitive tissues.

Track Everything You Eat

Don’t forget to track everything you eat to keep yourself accountable. “Track your food in an app (eyeballing does not work, you’ll have to weigh your food in grams) - I have used my fitness pal, MM+ and Cronometer, any app will do,” she says.

Walk 10,000 Steps Per Day

Make sure to get your steps in. “Work your way up to 10K steps per day (get outside for a walk everyday)” she says. A 2018 study published in the journal Obesity found a link between walking 10,000 steps a day and weight loss and weight management. Other studies published by the Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine also linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure and fewer strokes.

RELATED:12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster

Lift Weights

Strength training is also crucial for weight loss. “Start lifting weights: aim for 3 full body days or 4 days of 2 upper + 2 lower days,” she urges. According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills.

Get Enough Sleep

You also need to rest. “Sleep sleep sleep (this WILL make or break you)” she says. What are the health benefits of sleep? According to the Sleep Foundation, getting enough z’s is a mood booster, promotes heart health, regulates blood sugar, improves mental function, restores your immune system, helps relieve stress, and aids in weight loss.

Stay in Your Own Lane

Lastly, don’t pay attention to everyone else. “Stay in your own damn lane!! Who cares what everyone else is doing!” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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When I tell people I lost 30 pounds by changing my mindset, they stare back at me as if to say, it can't be that easy. No, it's not that easy. But it really does work.


I am a Mindset and Movement Coach and a Certified Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Professional with a B.A. in Psychology, as well as a certified fitness coach in mat pilates and barre. I like to say that I was my first client—when I gained a considerable amount of weight in college, I remember not recognizing my own reflection both physically and mentally. I tried a TON of yoyo dieting and followed an inconsistent routine.

In my senior year of college, my life changed when I was given a one-year membership to a gym. This was the start of my true passion for movement and mental strength. I learned so much about myself that continued to unfold over the years bringing us to the present day where I have married the two to become a mindset and movement coach.

Throughout my fitness career, I have met so many people that were physically fit but lacked that same health in their mindset and mental health. Everything is all connected and they truly work hand in hand in order to cultivate sustainable well-being. Being able to tap into your body's needs, staying consistent, and recognizing when your mind and body needs me more is the act of being your own health advocate and activating the power of being the author of your own story.

And every story needs a good beginning.

I remember the exact day I decided to lose weight. I was in New York City with a friend and there was this huge staircase in the subway station on 5th Avenue and 53rd Street. The escalator was not working so my friend and I had to climb the stairs. I remember how difficult it was, and saying to myself I can do this. Eventually, when I got to the top I also remember saying to myself I will climb these stairs one day without a problem. Fast forward about 2 years. I remember the feeling of accomplishment when I did just that with a yoga mat and backpack on my back.

There are two things that have gotten me through the hardest times in my life: Being able to tap into my internal strength while seeing my physical strength develop is profound. It didn’t stop there—these realizations spilled into other areas of my life creating a full transformation. Read on to learn how I lost weight and how you can, too.

1. How I Lost the Weight

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After years of yo-yo dieting and deprivation, I struggled to lose the weight I gained freshman year of college. I was given a one-year gym membership by my brother, my senior year in college. I was also introduced to Weight Watchers by my best friend's sister who recently had a baby and was using Weight Watchers to get back into shape. The combination of the two changed my life. I tried every class imaginable until I found a workout routine that worked for me. Through this I was also able to connect with like minded individuals that helped to support me in my weight-loss journey. When it came to nutrition, my curiosity was sparked! I learned the importance of hydration, having a colorful and balanced plate and eating foods that served me and my new active lifestyle. Over time this became a part of me, it became a lifestyle.

Related: 7 Best and Most Delicious Fast Food Meals Under 400 Calories for Weight Loss

2. My Advice for People Who Struggle With Maintaining a Positive Mindset While Working Toward Health and Fitness Goals

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The biggest thing in my coaching that I advise all my clients to do is write down their accomplishments! Often people are focusing on what they haven’t done vs. what you have. Having a working document or journal for you to reflect on regularly will help keep you motivated and remind you of what you are capable of.

3. Common Weight Loss Mistakes to Avoid

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They don’t do things they enjoy! They tend to hop on trends and do what other people are doing which causes them to quit. Another thing that gets in the way is the desire for a quick fix! Sustainable change takes time and consistency. Most importantly they aren’t tapping into their WHY! This is what is going to get you out of bed when you don’t feel like doing it. If you can vividly paint a picture of why you are setting yourself up for success.

Related: Best Exercises For Ozempic, Wegovy and Other GLP-1 Medicine

4. Conquer Your Fears

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I recall when I started taking classes I would always go to the back of the class in fear of doing the moves wrong. I also wore baggy clothes for fear of being judged. As my physical body got stronger so did my mental strength and mindset. I started to care less about what people thought and moved from the back of the class to the front. I was less concerned about what people thought and more concerned about showing up for myself.

💪🔥Body Booster: Write down your accomplishments! Having a journal will help keep you motivated and remind you of what you are capable of.

Nadia Murdock is a Certified Fitness Instructor at Garage Gym Reviews.

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If you have a lot of weight to lose, it can seem hopeless and impossible. However, Samantha Costa, a 23-year-old influencer, lost a whopping 60 pounds in 3 months. In a viral YouTube video, she explains exactly how she did it, and a lot of it had to do with shifting her perspective and overall approach to weight loss.


Losing 60 Pounds in 6 Months with PCOS

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She starts with her backstory: In 2018 she was diagnosed with PCOS (polycystic ovary syndrome), which resulted in weight gain. “I fluctuate weight a lot and it also affects my periods. With that being said, because I was diagnosed with PCOS, I put on a lot of weight very fast, and it wasn't a type of weight that was healthy,” she said. Costa, who is five-foot-one, topped the scale at around 200 pounds. “Being in a place where I knew I wasn't healthy was really scaring me.” At the time she was able to drop 50 to 60 pounds in “five to six months” by going to Orangetherory and eating right. “I think I weighed around 196 pounds and I got down to around 135,” she specified.

Related: #1 Way to Flatten Your Stomach for Women, According to a Pelvic Floor Expert

The Power of Whole Grains

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Her main dietary change at the time involved swapping out white carbs with whole grain and whole wheat. “I literally had grilled chicken, pasta, grated cheese, and tomato sauce every single day because that's what made me happy,” she said. After graduating from college in May 2022, “and I honestly was a very steady weight of around probably 129 pounds to 140 throughout all of my senior year of college,” she felt like she was at a healthy weight for herself around 135 pounds. She spent the summer lifeguarding. “I was having a really fun time, and honestly everything was going very well,” she continued.

A Stressful Job Ruined Her Health and Happiness

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However, in August she started her “big job at a big four company” and it was “the downfall of everything,” she claims. “I'm not going to talk too much about it, but the stress of that job, which I am no longer working in, was very, very hard for me.” She stopped working out and spent most of her free time isolating. Over a period of about 7 months she probably gained 60 to 70 pounds, and was “very, very sad,” she says. “I wasn't happy with how I looked and I was having a hard time with it, but it was more that I knew I wasn't healthy and I knew I needed to get healthy because of this. I would always tell myself, ‘You know what? You did it once. You can definitely do it again.’”

From 10,000 Steps to 500

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She couldn’t motivate herself to go to fitness studio again, “something that I used to love going to do,” she says. While she used to walk 10,000 steps a day, she “was lucky if I hit probably 500 steps a day because I was always at my computer, always doing something for work, and there was really just no time for me to do it.”

She Lost 10 Pounds in a Week and Kept Going

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Every day she looked in the mirror and told herself “in three months from now, you will look so much better. You'll feel so much better, which is the most important, and you will want to do things because you started.” Eventually she started seeing progress, claiming that she lost 10 pounds in one week, which she knew was water weight. Within a few weeks she noticed a “little bit of a difference” and once she started to see that difference, “it was a lot easier to believe in myself and notice that there was real progress happening and that there was change happening, which allowed me to keep going within my journey.”

Related: 11 Shoulder-Sculpting Workouts for Impressive Definition

The Secrets to Her Success

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She revealed that she did keto, which is “very hard to sustain,” she admits. “It was very hard for me to eat a certain amount of carbs every single day, and it was very hard for me to cut out sugar. I'm someone who loves sugar, but I knew that in order to be in a healthy place again, and in order to get to my goal in the most efficient way, especially with summer coming up, I needed to do something that would really change and really allow my body to adapt.” She also emphasizes the importance of protein. “Eating carbs is something that obviously we all need. I am not saying don't eat carbs. Please eat your macros. Please eat carbs. Please allow yourself to have the energy that you need. I'm just saying what I did was I lowered the amount of carbs that I ate, but I was still eating enough to feel energized to be able to go to the gym and to give my body what it needs.”

She Increased Intake of Proteins and Exercised

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Amping up your protein intake may help you lose weight. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW), but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets. She also went back to fitness studio four to five times a week, starting with gentle workouts and working her way up to more intense ones. She also recommends taking rest days.

Stay Motivated and Positive on Your Journey

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“In the beginning, you're probably going to feel like you can't do it and it's probably going to feel impossible, and if you are someone who doesn't feel like that, I give you so much credit because I've been there so many times and I felt like it was impossible every single time,” she adds. “The number one thing I want to tell you is to prove yourself wrong. Prove every single person that may have doubted you wrong. The only thing that matters is that you believe in yourself. The only thing that matters is that you have the mindset that will allow you to feel better, and every single time you question yourself, make one of those videos, take progress pictures, tell yourself that you are so much better than you were even one day ago, and if you are really having trouble starting, just try for one day.”

Related: Fitness Expert's $5 a Day Meal Plan for Fat Loss

💪🔥Body Booster: Increasing your protein intake and decreasing your carbohydrates is a scientifically backed tactic for weight loss. However, you still need a sufficient amount of carbs to stay energized.

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Kiki (@kikivirk) is a weight loss influencer who has amassed a social media following for sharing all the tips and tricks that enabled her to lose a whopping 60 pounds and keep it off. In one of her viral videos – viewed over 8 million times, Kiki reveals the biggest weight loss mistake she made on her journey – and also what ultimately led to her weight loss success.


She Says Doing High Intensity Workouts Were a “Huge Mistake”

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“I was so motivated to lose weight and I wanted to see results fast, but I didn't do my research and I jumped straight in, literally into a high intensity, 90 day workout plan. Huge mistake,” Kiki says in the video.

After 45 Days She Hadn’t Lost Weight

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After a month-and-a-half, she didn't feel like she'd lost any weight. “I was overdoing it. The long, painful HIIT workouts were actually doing my body no good. They were causing it too much stress and loads of other problems,” she says.

Related: 5 Pilates Exercises for a Flat Stomach in 14 Days

She Had “Weight Plateaus” and “Felt So Hungry and Fatigued”

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In another video, she specified that she was doing “high intensity cardio” five times a week in hopes it “would burn fat fast and give me my dream body,” she explained. “But instead, I had weight plateaus and felt so hungry and fatigued.

Her Fat Began to “Melt Off” When She Started Strength Training

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“Literally, as soon as I started strength training and less cardio, the fat began to melt off, and the lean muscle mass I gained gave me the tone look I'd always wanted,” she continued.

Her Program: LISS, Walking, Strength and Resistance Training, and a Short HIIT Workout

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Her program starts with doing 45 to 60 minutes of LISS cardio four times a week. She also walks 7 to 12,000 steps every day, does strength and resistance training three times a week, and a 15-minute HIIT workout once a week.

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An Expert Weighs In

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“What she says is definitely spot on,” says Kendra Gamble, HIT Fitness Training, Huntingdon Valley, PA, NPTI Certified Personal Trainer and Nutritional Consultant. “Intense cardio and intense HIIT more than twice a week will do the body more harm than good and is not the way to lose fat and get that toned look.” Instead, she agrees that “increasing your everyday steps is more of the most important and beginner things you can do to start losing fat along with getting your diet right.” Unfortunately, “fat loss is not an immediate thing and will take time and dedication but she explains it all perfectly.”

💪🔥Body Booster: If you are a beginner trying to lose weight, starting by increasing your steps and modifying your diet instead of going overboard with higher intensity workouts.

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Weight loss in your 50s and 60s may seem impossible – but it’s not. According to one expert, you may even be able to shed pounds by doubling your calorie intake. Ilene Block is the founder of Silver and Strong, a coaching company that specializes in helping women over 50 get into the best shape of their lives. She lost 40 pounds at 61 (and 55 pounds altogether) by making a few simple changes to her routine. “At 61 and overweight, I went from eating 1,000 calories a day to over 2,000 in six month,s and here’s what happened,” she writes. “I lost 40 lbs!” she reveals in the post. “A reverse diet is the process of gradually increasing your calories over time to repair your metabolism. Here’s how you do it,” she says.

Assess Your Starting Point

First, assess your starting point. The first thing to do is track current intake. “Log everything you eat for a few days to confirm you’re consuming 1,000 calories,” says Ilene. Next, establish maintenance needs. “Use a calculator or consult a coach to estimate your true maintenance calories.”

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Set Your Goals

Next, set your goals, starting with shifting your focus to building muscle. “Weight training will help ensure that the additional calories you are eating are used for muscle growth and repair rather than fat storage,” she writes. Also, accept temporary weight fluctuations. “A slight weight increase is normal and doesn’t mean fat gain. If you’re eating more, especially carbs, your body will retain a certain amount of water,” she says.

Increase Calories Gradually

Next, she recommends increasing calories gradually. “Start with +5-10% per week,” she writes. “Add 50–100 calories to your daily intake each week, focusing on nutrient-dense foods.”

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Prioritize Macronutrients

Another essential thing to do is prioritize macronutrients.

Protein: “Aim for 1g per pound of goal body weight,” she suggests.

Carbs: “Gradually increase carbs to fuel workouts and promote recovery (this should be the remainder of your calories,” she says.

Fats: “Maintain healthy fat intake (20-30% of total calories),” she adds.

Monitor Progress and Adjust

And monitor progress and make adjustments. “Track Your Metrics: Monitor your weight and measurements (chest, waist, hips, thigh), and how you feel (energy, sleep, mood),” she writes. “If no significant weight gain occurs, increase calories again the following week.”

Incorporate Resistance Training

Next comes exercise, which she recommends resistance training. “Lift heavy weights 3-5 times per week to maximize muscle growth and metabolic adaptation,” she says. Also, avoid excess cardio. “Too much cardio can counteract calorie increases by burning through them.”

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Transition to Maintenance

Now it’s time to transition to maintenance. “Once you reach 2,000 calories (or your calculated maintenance level), stay consistent (and be patient to get here). You should be experiencing improved energy and the freedom to eat more without gaining weight,” she writes.

Do a Cut to Lose Body Fat

Lastly, it’s time to do a cut to lose body fat. “After being in maintenance for several months, if you want to lose body fat, you can now do a traditional diet (where you are in a caloric deficit) and lose fat while maintaining your muscle mass,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? You may be in denial about a few key truths, says an expert. Brooke Ralphs is an online fitness and nutrition coach (CPT and CNC) who helps her clients burn fat and sustainably build muscle. In a new post, she reveals a few key revelations that enabled her to lose weight finally. “I went from 225lbs to 135lbs naturally, but only after I was brutally honest with myself about these things,” she writes.

Her Actual Weight

The first truth she had to confront? “What I weighed,” she said. “Hiding from the scale wasn't helping me. I realized I could only change what I could face. So I decided to face it over and over again and detach moral value to it.”

How Much She Was Exercising

The second truth she had to face? “How much I was moving my body and willing to move my body. I had to be honest with myself that I said I worked out 5x a week but in reality it was 2. (I'd try for 5 at the beginning and couldn't do it)” she writes.

She Was Eating Her Feelings

Another truth was the reason why she was eating and that “a huge reason I gained weight was because I ate my feelings,” she said. “I had to be honest about why I turned to food and had to start expressing my feelings and work on them in a new way.”

Calories and Tracking Weren’t the Problem

“I had to be honest that calories and tracking weren't the problem and to stop demonizing it,” she continues. “It's not an enemy. Calories are just a measured energy unit and I had to stop seeing it as an enemy but a tool.”

She Had to Try New Things

Truth number five? “If I was going to go somewhere I've never gone (like get to a goal weight and stay there for good) then I had to accept that I'd have to do the thing that I've never done before. Which is stay consistent with something that I could realistically do and enjoy,” she writes.

Losing Weight Takes Time

Another truth? Losing weight doesn’t happen overnight. “Had to face reality that I didn't gain it in 2 weeks so I couldn't lose it that fast either,” she writes.

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Not Every Day Is Good

She also realized that she wasn’t going to win every day. “Had to be honest with myself that there will be days that don't go the way I wanted and will want to quit,” she said.

There’s No Perfect Time to Start

Next, today is a good day to get started. “Had to realize there's no perfect time to start, a perfect circumstance to workout. A perfect anything,” she said.

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It Wasn’t Always Fun

She also realized that a weight loss journey isn’t always fun. “I had to be honest that I wasn't going to like it at first. Getting out of your comfort zone isn't supposed to be pleasant,” she said.

Food Isn’t the Enemy

And finally, food isn’t the enemy. “I had to be honest that I saw food as the enemy but that I need to make food my best friend that supports me,” she said. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you over 40 and trying to lose weight? Getting in shape can be overwhelming. However, it doesn’t have to be. One personal trainer maintains that all you need to do is master five simple exercises. Caroline Idiens is a fitness influencer and personal trainer with over 25 years of professional experience helping clients achieve their fitness goals. In a new post, she reveals a few key moves to help you shape up. “5 exercises you need to do at 40+ to build strength💪🏻add weights as you progress,” she writes.

Squats

The first exercise? Squats. “Squats are a brilliant compound functional move building lower body strength and engaging the core,” she says. “You can do bodyweight squats or use weights/bands. This exercise works quadriceps, glutes, hamstrings, core.”

Lunges

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Next up, another glute buster, lunges, a “functional move,” she explains. “You can do forward, reverse & lateral lunges. This exercise works glutes, hamstrings, quads. Again add weights as needed.”

Push-Ups

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Another exercise that offers a lot of bang for its buck? Push-ups, “a brilliant bodyweight exercise that build upper body strength & engage the core. Modify as needed (e.g incline push-ups against the wall or a chair),” she says. “This exercise works your chest, shoulders, triceps, and core.”

Rows

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Rows, either with body weight or actual weights, as you progress. “Rows strengthen your back, improve your posture. Great functional move. They work the back muscles as well as engaging the arms & shoulders & core for stability,” she says.

Planks

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And last but not least, planks. They are “a great exercise for building upper body & core strength,” she says. “They work your deep core muscles.”

Lift Weights

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“Strength training is vital as you age. My passion has always been strength training, and never more so than today,” Caroline previously wrote for Sheer Luxe. “Once we hit 30, our bone density and muscle mass decrease. Strength training plays a significant role in preventing this loss and we can actually build new bone by using weights. This can help reduce the risk of osteoporosis, which women are so susceptible to, especially post-menopause.”

There Are Lots of Benefits

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“Moreover, strength training gives you such a feeling of power in everyday life – it’ll help with sleep, anxiety, co-ordination and will also help you manage your weight,” she wrote, adding that it “won’t make you bulky,” despite popular misconception. “It’s a myth that using weights will make you bulky – unless you are using very heavy weights and dramatically changing your diet, this simply isn’t true. It’s also important to remember that you can’t spot reduce fat. Your body works as a whole and, whilst you can tone a particular area, working the full body consistently along with a sensible diet will make the difference.”

Science Supports Strength Training for Weight Loss

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According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills.

She Also Recommends Cardio

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“In an ideal world, combine weights with cardio,” Caroline adds. Why is it important to do both? “While you may burn more calories in a cardio workout, strength training builds muscle. The two aren’t mutually exclusive and, for a leaner, fitter body, you should combine the two. Cardio is essential for heart health and for building stamina and endurance. At the same time, when we lift weights, we build muscle, boost metabolism and reduce our risk of injury,” she says.

Diet Matters

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And, you can’t out-exercise a bad diet. “People think they can exercise, eat rubbish and still see great results,” she recently told The Daily Mail. “Sadly it doesn’t work like that. It’s about balance and moderation.” As for one main meal tip? “And protein with every meal – you need it for strength training,” she says.

Here Is What She Eats in a Day

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Caroline starts her day with tea, coffee, and a banana. Then, after her 9 am workout class, she has breakfast, usually scrambled egg and avocado on sourdough. For lunc,h she likes chicken salad. Dinner might be a teriyaki salmon noodle stir-fry. As for snacks, she might have fruit and a bit of chocolate in the afternoon. She also drinks a lot of water. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.