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11 Things This Woman Wishes She Knew Before Losing 45 Pounds, “Stop Counting Calories”

Skip the trial and error with these weight loss strategies that actually work.

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Like many women, Charlene Town spent years caught in the frustrating cycle of crash diets and calorie counting, never seeing lasting results. Today, as a weight loss coach and founder of Nourish360, she has lost and maintained 45 pounds by discovering what really works—and what doesn't. "I wish someone had told me these things when I started," she says. "It would have saved me years of struggle." Here are the crucial lessons she learned along the way that can transform your own weight loss journey.


Start Your Day with Stress Management

"I used to jump straight into intense workouts, but now I begin each day with a 5 AM routine focused on reducing cortisol," Charlene reveals in her post. She discovered that managing stress through meditation and journaling before exercise was crucial for weight loss success. "Nobody told me that high cortisol levels could sabotage my efforts. This morning routine has changed everything."

Movement Matters More Than Exercise

"I wish I'd understood earlier that a single 30-minute workout isn't enough," says Charlene. "Even working out three times a week only adds up to 90 minutes of movement in seven days." Her game-changing discovery? "I lost my first 20 pounds through walking alone. It's not about intense workouts—it's about consistent movement throughout the day."

Quality Beats Calorie Counting

Looking back, Charlene realizes her biggest mistake was obsessing over calories. "I was focused on eating less and moving more," she shares. "But I wasn't giving my body the nutrients it needed to build lean muscle." She now emphasizes choosing nutrient-dense foods over counting calories. "When you focus on food quality, the quantities often take care of themselves."

Protein Needs Are Higher Than You Think

"I used to think two eggs for breakfast was enough protein—that's only 12 grams when I actually needed closer to 30," Charlene admits. She now aims for 30-50 grams of protein per meal, depending on activity level. "This single change transformed my results. Proper protein intake reduces cravings and helps maintain muscle mass during weight loss."

RELATED: Nutritionist Reveals 8 Signs You're Eating Too Many Carbs

Time Your Movement Strategically

Charlene discovered that a simple post-meal walk can significantly impact weight loss. "There's strong research showing that moving after eating helps balance insulin levels," she explains. "Even a five-minute walk makes a difference. I wish I'd known this simple hack from the start."

Listen to Your Hunger Signals

"One of my biggest regrets was ignoring my body's signals," Charlene reflects. "I got used to being hungry all the time and thought that was normal." She now knows better: "When you're eating the right foods in the right amounts, constant hunger isn't normal—it's a sign something's off."

Choose Joy in Movement

"Don't force yourself to run just because it works for someone else," Charlene advises. "I wasted so much time doing exercises I hated before discovering I love weight lifting and hiking." This revelation changed everything: "When you enjoy your workouts, consistency becomes effortless."

RELATED: 10 Everyday Foods This Expert Says Are “Absolutely Destroying Your Health”

Build Sustainable Habits

Charlene learned that the timeline doesn't matter as much as sustainability. "If you remove the pressure of time and focus on creating habits you actually enjoy, you'll reach your goals and stay there," she explains. "I wish I'd known that quick fixes never last—it's the small, consistent changes that create lasting results."

Master Meal Planning

"Having a repertoire of go-to healthy meals is crucial," Charlene shares. She maintains about 10 high-protein meals she can prepare easily. "I wish I'd developed this system sooner. When I make tri-tips for dinner, I plan to use leftovers for tacos the next day. This kind of strategic planning makes healthy eating sustainable."

Make It Family-Friendly

"The game-changer was learning to make healthy meals the whole family enjoys," Charlene emphasizes. "You don't need separate 'diet' meals. When your healthy cooking becomes the family favorite, you've found the sweet spot for long-term success."

RELATED: Kesley Rose in Two-Piece Workout Gear Shares 25-Minute Walking Workout to Get You “Sculpted & Snatched”

Focus on Body Composition

"My biggest revelation was understanding that the scale doesn't tell the whole story," Charlene reflects. She now focuses on building lean muscle while losing fat. "I wish someone had told me earlier that when you focus on proper nutrition and consistent movement, your body transforms in ways the scale can't measure. That's when the magic happens."

These lessons transformed Charlene's approach to weight loss, helping her achieve lasting success without the struggle of traditional dieting. "The journey becomes so much easier when you have the right information," she says. "These are the truths I wish I'd known from day one." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to lose weight despite dieting? Ruth Soukup is a midlife health and mindset coach who personally lost almost 50 pounds. She regularly shares her tips and tricks with her hundreds of thousands of Instagram followers. In a new post, she reveals a few mistakes she made and then the one thing she did to fix them. “I lost 49 pounds in my 40s when I stopped dieting and started paying attention to this one thing,” she writes in the Instagram video.


She Was Eating Plant-Based, Counting Calories, and Running 3 to 5 Miles Per Day, But Struggled to Lose Weight

“I struggled with my weight for ten long years and failed at more diets than I can count. Even though I thought I was doing all the right things,” she writes in the post. What was she doing? “Eating plant-based,” counting her calories, and “running 3-5 miles every day.”

At 43, She Decided to Do Something Different

She wasn’t getting the results she wanted. “I couldn’t understand why nothing seemed to work or why it felt like my metabolism was just broken. At some point, I started to lose hope. Maybe you can relate. But one day, when I was 43 years old, I finally got so fed up that I decided to do something totally different,” Ruth writes.

She Did Research to Understand “The Science of Weight Loss”

“Instead of dieting, I did real research to understand the science of weight loss, especially for women over 40. I wanted to know why we gain weight as we get older and it’s so hard to lose it. I was shocked to discover that weight loss has almost nothing to do with calories and everything to do with HORMONES. That’s it. That’s the secret. The one thing,” she reveals.

She Lost 49 Pounds and Has Kept It Off

“I totally changed my focus from counting calories to simply balancing my hormones, to eating the foods that would nourish my body, and creating better habits for a sustainable lifestyle. Ultimately, making that shift is what helped me lose 49 pounds and keep it off, and I’ve now helped thousands of other women over 40 do the same,” she says.

She Stopped Calorie Counting

In another post she discusses other healthy habits that helped her lose weight fast. “I struggled with my weight for YEARS, failing at diet after diet, always believing that the problem was ME and my own lack of willpower before I was finally able to lose 49 pounds and actually keep it off. So what was my secret? It was pretty simple, actually. I just focused on my hormones. That meant I committed to stop dieting! No more counting calories—instead focused on nourishing my body,” she writes.

RELATED: Nutritionist Reveals 3 Surprising Foods She Ate to Lose 15 Pounds (Including Dessert for Dinner)

She Quit Sugar and Processed Food

She also majorly cleaned up her diet. She eliminated a few things. “I detoxed from sugar and stopped eating toxic processed food. It’s the first step in balancing your hormones,” she writes.

She Amped Up Her Protein Intake

She also refocused her diet. “I started eating a lot more healthy fat and nutrient-dense protein,” she writes. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW), but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

RELATED: Man Ate Bacon and Eggs for 30 Days and His Blood Work Stunned Doctors

She Switched From Cardio to Strength Training

She also switched up her approach to exercise. “I focused on strength training & building lean muscle mass instead of burning calories through high-intensity cardio,” she writes. According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills

She Focused on a Healthy Lifestyle

Lastly, she looked at the big picture. “I didn’t give myself a timeline. I just focused on changing my lifestyle,” she writes. “But I still lost more than 40 pounds in six months, have kept it off for more than 3 years, and now I’ve helped thousands of women do the same.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Online fitness coach Alexandra (@alexx.fitt) has amassed a following on TikTok and Instagram by sharing videos about her weight loss. In her many viral videos, she reveals the simple but effective changes she made to her lifestyle that enabled her to drop the weight fast. In a new Instagram video, she gets specific about the “3 things” she “stopped doing to lose 40 pounds.”


She Stepped Away From the Scale

The first thing Alex did was stop weighing herself, she writes. “Why? The scale was messing with my head, so I threw it off my balcony.”

She Stopped Counting Calories

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Lots of health experts recommend counting calories, but that didn’t work for Alex. “I stopped counting calories and stuck to a schedule. I ate breakfast at 8 a.m., a snack at 11, lunch at 1, a snack at 3, and dinner at 6. And yeah, your schedule may be different, but if you have 5 minutes to check TikTok or like this post, you have 5 minutes to grab an apple or pick up a protein bar and throw it in your purse,” she writes.

Related: I'm a Dietitian, and These Are 7 Foods You Should Never Eat

She Stopped Doing Workouts She Hated

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Her third lifestyle change? “I stopped doing the workouts I hated,” she claims. I remember I’d always do 40 minutes on the Stairmaster (it didn’t help me lose weight, only raise my cortisol levels), and on the days I was lazy, I’d skip the gym altogether just because I didn’t want to do cardio. Now, my only cardio is walking.”

Her advice? “Start implementing a routine that makes you happy and works for you, not anyone else,” she concludes the post.

Here’s How She Used Walking for Weight Loss

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As for exercise, in some of her other videos, Alex elaborated on how walking helped with her weight loss. Not only would she walk for 20-30 minutes in the morning, but she would take a short 10-15 minute walk after lunch.

Related: 5 Habits from Fitness Trainer Krissy Cela that Could Change Your Life

Try to Walk 30 to 60 Minutes a Day, Says Another Expert

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“You can do 30-60 minutes all at one time, or you can do a few 10-15 minute bouts of exercise throughout the day. Whatever works for you,” says The Diet Diva, Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CPT, a Board Certified Sports Dietitian. “Either way, you are raising your metabolism and teaching your body to burn calories.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Just because experts recommend habits, like counting calories, weighing yourself, or doing specific workouts, doesn’t mean they will work for you. If they don’t, make changes accordingly.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? It could be because you are saying the wrong things to yourself. Hannah White is a personal trainer and online coach who uses her personal experience of losing weight to help others achieve their diet and fitness goals. In a recent post, she revealed a lot of the mistakes she made and things she said to herself that prevented her from losing weight. “The five things limiting beliefs and ‘excuses’ were some of the MAIN things holding me back from achieving my fitness goals in my 30s,” she writes.


She Stopped Saying She Was Too Old to Lift Weights

The first things she quit saying? “I’m too old to start lifting weights,” she reveals. “Age is just a number, and if you’re still able to move your body, then there are ALWAYS things you can do! “If you can sit down & stand up from a chair 🪑 You can ‘Squat.’ If you can pick up shopping bags off the floor 🛍️ You can ‘Deadlift.’ Start small & build from there. You’ll be surprised at what you’re able to achieve with consistency.”

She Stopped Blaming It On Her Metabolism

The second thing she stopped saying: “I have a slow metabolism & can’t lose belly fat,” she reveals. “If you have a diagnosed medical condition, then you should absolutely seek help from your doctor! But for everybody else… your activity level & diet are the main factors that impact your ability to lose belly fat.”

She Stopped Blaming It On Being Premenopausal

Next, she stopped making an excuse that “I’m perimenopausal now, which is making it hard to lose weight,” she says. “True. But it is not the actual hormones that affect your metabolism. Hormones massively affect how we feel, yes! And how we feel affects our daily actions and habits.”

RELATED: This Nurse Lost 15 Pounds at 40 After Fixing These 7 Common Mistakes

These Things Helped

She recommends doing these things to help:

  • Improving the quality of your sleep
  • Managing stress
  • Reducing alcohol & caffeine
  • Focusing on fuelling your body correctly
  • Daily walks and regular weight training.

She Stopped Blaming It On Genetics

“It’s my genetics” is another excuse she stopped making. “Genetics play a role. Let’s face it. We’re not all created the same. Some people inherit a higher basal metabolic rate (BMR), which means they burn more calories when they are at rest. And some people are more ‘naturally’ athletic. However, lifestyle choices & actions also affect your BMR & what your body is capable of!”

She Stopped Saying She Didn’t Have Times

The last thing she stopped saying? “I don’t have time to exercise & eat healthy,” she reveals. “You don’t need to be perfect to make progress with your fat loss & fitness goals. “Doing small things consistently will make a MASSIVE difference, especially if you’re starting from scratch.”

RELATED: This Nutritionist Lost 50 Pounds in 3 Months With These 4 Non-Negotiable Habits

Here Are Some Tips

She offers the following tips to help with weight loss. “Things like going for a 10min daily walk, eating more protein, adding a portion of fruit or veg to each meal, drinking a glass of water every hour or so, etc.,” she recommends.

She Stopped Exercising to Lose Weight

In another post, she reveals three mistakes she stopped making to lose fat in her 40s. “I stopped seeing exercise as a way to burn calories and started training to get stronger instead,” she says. “This really helped to shape and tone my physique, as getting stronger meant that I built muscle and lost fat in all the right places. Plus, the extra muscle I built burns more calories at rest, so I found I was able to eat more food and still lose weight.”

She Stopped Trying to Eat Less Food

“I stopped just trying to eat less food and started tracking my macros and eating the right quantities of nutrients for me and my goals,” she continues. “This gave me more energy for my workouts and got rid of my sugar cravings for good. “It also allowed me to still eat all the foods I enjoyed without feeling guilty as I knew I was eating what I should be.”

RELATED: Nutritionist Reveals the 3 Morning Habits That Helped Her Clients Burn Fat Without Dieting

She Stopped Drinking Alcohol

“I stopped drinking alcohol,” she says. “This one speaks for itself. Better sleep. More energy. Less anxiety and mood swings. More focus on my goals. Also, it’s not just the empty calories in alcohol that affect your weight loss efforts. Alcohol halts your body’s ability to burn fat and build muscle. So it’s definitely something to reduce or eliminate completely if you want the best results.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? One expert claims that you need to understand a few fundamental things before you are successful. Sofe Ring is a Certified Nutrition Coach with almost 100,000 followers on social media who dropped 21 pounds and helps others do the same. In a new social media post, she reveals a few things she had to learn before losing weight. “5 truths about weight loss,” she writes. “Some truths need to be heard!”

Your Weight Loss Journey Is Going to Be Boring

Number one, “Your weight loss journey is going to be boring,” says Ring. “Showing up for yourself everyday isn’t as glamorous as you see on Instagram. You may find you want to eat the same thing everyday because it fits in your calorie target, and the scale may move so slow that you don’t have something new to celebrate everyday, and THATS OKAY! Consistency over time is boring but effective!”

You Need to Realign Your Expectations

“You need to realign your expectations,” is her second truth. “The first week or two of tracking you may see a drop on the scale from excess water and the pull back of everything you were eating, but after that it’s a slow roll to the finish line. I didn’t see my body change until month 3-4. The scale told me there was change, and measurements did too, but the physical changes took a while. I think a lot of it was in my head,” she writes.

Maintain a Calorie Deficit

“Any movement you do is going to be good, but you need to think about movement as a way to feel good, versus lose weight. To lose weight you have to be in a calorie deficit — meaning the most change is going to come from what you are eating vs how you are moving,” she says.

Calculate Your Own Calorie Gorals

“Use my journey as inspiration, but you need to calculate your own calorie goals,” she continues. “Your height, weight, age, and activity level may differ from mine. You need to focus on making small sustainable changes that fit within your current lifestyle, what you’re comfortable cooking and what you put on your dinner table. Trying to copy someone else’s world doesn’t set you up to achieve success in your world.”

There Are No “Good” or “Bad” Food Groups

And finally, there is no one food group that should be labeled as “bad,” she says. “You may find you have intolerances, but thinking that “if I eat carbs I’ll gain wait”, feels very restrictive. It’s all about moderation vs deprivation. Enjoy the things you want, just watch your portions.”

In Another Post She Elaborates on Other Habits

In another post, she elaborates on calorie deficit. “There was so much I thought I needed to do - gym, steps, weights, abs, more of this, more of that, supplements, oh wait, cortisol, and so on. It was too much! When I tell you that I was solely focused on my deficit, I literally was solely focused on my deficit,” she says.

She Recommends UsingTracking App

Her “guide to an EASY calorie deficit that WILL help you lose weight,” she adds, starting with finding a tracking app you enjoy. “People love MFP. My go to is @loseitapp. Let it calculate your TDEE for you, and tell the app you want to lose weight. It will calculate a deficit for you as well. I recommend you don’t eat too steep a deficit. Stay within the 250-500 range,” she writes.

Find an Accountability Buddy

Next, accountability can be easier with the help of a buddy. “Really though, make it a New Year’s resolution to do together. You’ve done far harder things together than logging your food for a week,” she writes.

Keep Health Food on Hand

Make sure to keep your kitchen stocked with healthy food. “Make sure your pantry and fridge are filled with supporting ingredients! 🛒 Here’s a grocery list for the 7 days,” she writes.

  • Protein: Ground turkey, breakfast patties, sausages, chicken breast, cottage cheese, yogurt, carton of egg whites, deli meat
  • Veggies: Head of broccoli, head of cauliflower, carrots, cucumber, lettuce
  • Fruits: Assorted berries, apples
  • Carbs: White rice, brown rice, quinoa, low cal tortillas, low cal English muffins
  • Snacks: Rice cakes, meat sticks, protein chips, diet coke, a chocolate treat, popcorn

Get Motivated with These Menu Ideas

Here is a sample menu, “alternate between options and snack away,” she writes.

Breakfast: yogurt bowls, cottage cheese with fruit, egg whites and breakfast sausages on muffins, egg tacos

Lunch: Chicken breast on a salad with cucumbers, deli sandwich on a muffin, leftovers from the night before

Dinner: chicken tacos, ground turkey stir fry with broccoli, sausages with cauliflower and rice. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Like many women, Charlene Town spent years caught in the frustrating cycle of crash diets and calorie counting, never seeing lasting results. Today, as a weight loss coach and founder of Nourish360, she has lost and maintained 45 pounds by discovering what really works—and what doesn't. "I wish someone had told me these things when I started," she says. "It would have saved me years of struggle." Here are the crucial lessons she learned along the way that can transform your own weight loss journey.


Start Your Day with Stress Management

"I used to jump straight into intense workouts, but now I begin each day with a 5 AM routine focused on reducing cortisol," Charlene reveals in her post. She discovered that managing stress through meditation and journaling before exercise was crucial for weight loss success. "Nobody told me that high cortisol levels could sabotage my efforts. This morning routine has changed everything."

Movement Matters More Than Exercise

"I wish I'd understood earlier that a single 30-minute workout isn't enough," says Charlene. "Even working out three times a week only adds up to 90 minutes of movement in seven days." Her game-changing discovery? "I lost my first 20 pounds through walking alone. It's not about intense workouts—it's about consistent movement throughout the day."

Quality Beats Calorie Counting

Looking back, Charlene realizes her biggest mistake was obsessing over calories. "I was focused on eating less and moving more," she shares. "But I wasn't giving my body the nutrients it needed to build lean muscle." She now emphasizes choosing nutrient-dense foods over counting calories. "When you focus on food quality, the quantities often take care of themselves."

Protein Needs Are Higher Than You Think

"I used to think two eggs for breakfast was enough protein—that's only 12 grams when I actually needed closer to 30," Charlene admits. She now aims for 30-50 grams of protein per meal, depending on activity level. "This single change transformed my results. Proper protein intake reduces cravings and helps maintain muscle mass during weight loss."

RELATED: Nutritionist Reveals 8 Signs You're Eating Too Many Carbs

Time Your Movement Strategically

Charlene discovered that a simple post-meal walk can significantly impact weight loss. "There's strong research showing that moving after eating helps balance insulin levels," she explains. "Even a five-minute walk makes a difference. I wish I'd known this simple hack from the start."

Listen to Your Hunger Signals

"One of my biggest regrets was ignoring my body's signals," Charlene reflects. "I got used to being hungry all the time and thought that was normal." She now knows better: "When you're eating the right foods in the right amounts, constant hunger isn't normal—it's a sign something's off."

Choose Joy in Movement

"Don't force yourself to run just because it works for someone else," Charlene advises. "I wasted so much time doing exercises I hated before discovering I love weight lifting and hiking." This revelation changed everything: "When you enjoy your workouts, consistency becomes effortless."

RELATED: 10 Everyday Foods This Expert Says Are “Absolutely Destroying Your Health”

Build Sustainable Habits

Charlene learned that the timeline doesn't matter as much as sustainability. "If you remove the pressure of time and focus on creating habits you actually enjoy, you'll reach your goals and stay there," she explains. "I wish I'd known that quick fixes never last—it's the small, consistent changes that create lasting results."

Master Meal Planning

"Having a repertoire of go-to healthy meals is crucial," Charlene shares. She maintains about 10 high-protein meals she can prepare easily. "I wish I'd developed this system sooner. When I make tri-tips for dinner, I plan to use leftovers for tacos the next day. This kind of strategic planning makes healthy eating sustainable."

Make It Family-Friendly

"The game-changer was learning to make healthy meals the whole family enjoys," Charlene emphasizes. "You don't need separate 'diet' meals. When your healthy cooking becomes the family favorite, you've found the sweet spot for long-term success."

RELATED: Kesley Rose in Two-Piece Workout Gear Shares 25-Minute Walking Workout to Get You “Sculpted & Snatched”

Focus on Body Composition

"My biggest revelation was understanding that the scale doesn't tell the whole story," Charlene reflects. She now focuses on building lean muscle while losing fat. "I wish someone had told me earlier that when you focus on proper nutrition and consistent movement, your body transforms in ways the scale can't measure. That's when the magic happens."

These lessons transformed Charlene's approach to weight loss, helping her achieve lasting success without the struggle of traditional dieting. "The journey becomes so much easier when you have the right information," she says. "These are the truths I wish I'd known from day one." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

Evidence-Based

This content references scientific studies and academic research, and is fact-checked to ensure accuracy.

Our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians strives to be objective, unbiased, and honest.

We are committed to bringing you researched, expert-driven content to help you make more informed decisions around food, health, and wellness. We know how important making choices about your overall health is, and we strive to provide you with the best information possible.

Do you want to lose weight but aren’t sure which habits are hurting or helping you? One expert has some suggestions. Luisana Carrero is a nutrition coach and social media influencer who knows how to lose weight and keep it off from personal experience. In a new social media post, she opens up about her journey. “4 mistakes I had to stop making before I could finally lose 28 pounds in 4 months,” she writes. “I used to think something was wrong with me, blaming my hormones and lack of willpower…Until I realized I was making these mistakes.”

Mistake: Eating Clean But Not Paying Attention to Calories

Her first mistake? “Eating clean without paying attention to the amount of calories I was consuming,” she says. “I thought eating clean meant I’d automatically lose weight 😅, but I didn’t realize that even healthy foods can lead to weight gain if you’re eating too much.”

Fix: She Used a Macro Calculator

How did she correct this mistake? “Instead, I started measuring my portions to ensure I was actually in a calorie deficit,” she writes. She recommends using a macro calculator.

Mistake: Rewarding Herself with Cheat Meals

Another mistake she made? Rewarding herselff with “cheat meals,” she says. “I’d be ‘good’ all week, then go overboard on cheat meals, turning one meal into an entire weekend of indulgence.

RELATED:10-Min Walking Workout Burns Fat at Home, Says Coach

Fix: Eating Mostly Healthy But Including Food She Loves

What does she do instead? “I incorporated a healthy balance of the foods I love into my daily diet (10-20% of my total calories). This made dieting less stressful and helped me stay consistent long enough,” she reveals.

Mistake: Neglecting Daily Movement

Another mistake she made? “Neglecting daily movement,” she writes. “I used to sit all day and assumed my 1-hour workouts were enough, but they weren’t.”

Fix: Daily Walks

Her fix was adding steps to her day. “Walking became a non-negotiable for me. I committed to hitting 10,000 steps every day, I do this by going on walks or using my walking pad,” she says.

Mistake: Surrounding Herself with People Who Didn’t Support Her Goals

Her final mistake? “Surrounding myself with people who didn’t support my goals,” she writes. “‘Friends’ would make fun of my choices, and I let it get to me.”

Fix: Setting Boundaries

How did she fix this? “I started setting boundaries and distanced myself from negativity. Prioritizing my own health and happiness became my focus,” she writes.

RELATED:30 Best Protein Foods That Melt Fat Almost Instantly

These Small Changes Made a Big Difference

The bottom line? “These small but impactful changes completely transformed my life and I’m sure they’ll help you too,” she writes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians strives to be objective, unbiased, and honest.

We are committed to bringing you researched, expert-driven content to help you make more informed decisions around food, health, and wellness. We know how important making choices about your overall health is, and we strive to provide you with the best information possible.

Do you want to lose weight but aren’t sure what foods to eat and which to avoid? Ruth Soukup is a midlife health and mindset coach who lost almost 50 pounds. She regularly shares her tips and tricks with hundreds of thousands of Instagram followers. “I lost 49 pounds at age 43 without dieting or Ozempic,” she writes. In two posts, she reveals 7 foods she eats “pretty much every day” and 7 she avoids. “I struggled with my weight for YEARS before I finally stopped dieting once and for all, and just focused on balancing my hormones instead. In the process, I lost 49 pounds and have kept it off, without ever counting calories,” she says.

What She Eats: Animal Protein

Animal protein is the first item on her list. “This usually includes bone broth and farm fresh eggs in the morning, chicken at lunch, and either beef, chicken, pork, or fish at dinnertime,” she says.

RELATED:12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster

Healthy Fat

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She also makes sure to eat healthy fat. “This mostly comes from avocado oil, EVOO, and butter, but also full fat dairy—heavy cream, cream cheese, cheese, sour cream, greek yogurt, and cottage cheese,” she says.

Vegetables

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She eats lots of veggies, too. “Lots of broccoli, cauliflower, spinach, asparagus, bell peppers, onions, garlic, tomatoes, carrots, and Brussels Sprouts. I don’t eat a ton of salad, unless it’s a good Caesar with homemade dressing, which I make every few weeks,” she says.

Fresh Berries

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Fruits are also on her shopping list, especially fresh berries. “Mostly strawberries, blueberries, and raspberries,” she writes.

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Fermented Foods

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“I try to eat at least a little bit of fermented food every day for the probiotics,” she says. “My favorite is kimchi, but I’ll also do fresh sauerkraut or kefir, and I make my own fermented ketchup (scroll down in my feed for the recipe.)”

Starches

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Starches are also part of her diet. “I don’t tend to eat a ton of starchy food, but I do love real sourdough bread, and I also sometimes make potatoes or jasmine rice to go with dinner, depending on what we’re having,” she says.

Seasonings

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She also invests money in seasoning. “Generally lots of salt, pepper, garlic & onion powder, fresh herbs and hot sauce,” she writes. One of her favorites? The Green Dragon sauce from Trader Joes.

She Doesn’t Eat: Vegetable Oil

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In another post, she reveals what she eliminated from her diet. “Vegetable oil or any other highly processed seed oils, as well as Crisco and margarine,” she writes. “These are all so toxic and highly inflammatory! I also tend to avoid any processed foods that contain these oils. Instead, I cook with butter, avocado oil, and olive oil.”

Sugar

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She also stays away from sugar. “If I do need to use a sweetener for a recipe, I typically stick to monkfruit or allulose or a blend of those two,” she says.

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High Fructose Corn Syrup

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High fructose corn syrup is another no-no. “Another highly toxic and inflammatory ingredient I try to avoid that is sadly way too common in so many processed foods,” she writes

Packaged Side Dishes

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Ruth also recommends avoiding packaged side dishes, “such as mac and cheese, stuffing, rice pilaf blends, scalloped potatoes, hamburger helper, etc.” These are highly processed foods.

Breakfast Cereal

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Ruth strongly suggests staying away from breakfast cereal. Most of it is highly processed and contains lots of additives and sugar. If you want to eat cereal, opt for a higher-fiber, lower-sugar option.

Brownie and Cake Mix

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Brownies and cake mixes are also on her list of things to avoid. If you do enjoy baking, try cooking from scratch using healthier flours and sweeteners, which will result in a less processed and more nutritious product.

Fruit Juice

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According to Ruth, fruit juice may sound nutritious, but you should stay away. ”Except for Clamato, which we use for Bloody Marys on the weekend! The rest of it is just pure sugar,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you trying to lose weight and tackling nutrition, but nothing works? You might be making a common mistake. Randy Kotey, aka “The Flat Tummy Coach,” is a weight loss and fitness coach who helps his clients “lose weight and reduce bloat,” per his social media bio. In a new social media post, he gets honest about what it takes to get in shape, especially with nutrition. “Here are five common mistakes women often make when trying to lose belly fat,” he says.

Skipping Meals

You might think that skipping a meal helps you eat less throughout the day and will lead to weight loss. However, according to Kotey, this isn’t the case. In fact, it can make you put on weight instead. “Skipping meals, especially breakfast, can slow down metabolism and lead to overeating later in the day, making it harder to lose belly fat,” he writes.

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Relying on Low-Fat or Diet Foods

You are wrong if you are walking around the grocery store believing that low-fat and diet foods are the right option for weight loss. “Many low-fat or diet-labeled foods are high in sugar or artificial ingredients, which can contribute to belly fat. It’s better to focus on whole, nutrient-dense foods,” he says.

Not Eating Enough Protein

One major mistake women make is not eating enough protein, per Kotey. “Protein is essential for maintaining muscle mass and boosting metabolism. Not getting enough can make it harder to lose belly fat and maintain weight loss,” he writes. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW) but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

Overeating Healthy Fats

Healthy fats can help your body burn fat. But eating too much of them will have the opposite effect. “While healthy fats like avocados, nuts, and olive oil are good for you, they are also calorie-dense. Overeating them can lead to an excess calorie intake, hindering belly fat loss,” Kotey explains.

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Drinking High-Calorie Beverages

Don’t drink your calories, even if they offer some health benefits. “Consuming sugary drinks, including fruit juices, smoothies, and certain ‘health’ drinks, can add a lot of hidden calories. These beverages can spike blood sugar levels, leading to increased belly fat. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.