I Lost 25 Pounds in 2 Years with the Help of Journaling

Sure, diet and exercise are a key part of weight loss. After all, you need to burn more calories than you consume to drop weight. However, first you might need to conquer a very crucial mental aspect of weight loss. Sora Vernikoff of New York City lost 25 pounds 20 years ago and has managed to keep it off. According to the longtime educator, one tool was instrumental in her journey – journaling. Here is everything you need to know about her story.

Sora Had a Moment of Reckoning

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Sora worked as a teacher, educating “the most challenging kids” in East New York and Brooklyn. “It took me several years to learn how to manage this type of class but I finally had systems in place and became very good at it. One day, while standing in front of a class of 35 fourth graders, I asked myself, ‘How come Sora, these kids who walk, talk and do all those other things listen to you but you can’t stop thinking about food and you can’t eat and stop yourself?’” she tells Body Network.

She Had the Idea to Start Dieting

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“Now I had tried dieting up until this point but all I’d do is lose my weight, reach my goal and then regain it. At that moment in time, I became fascinated by the concept that these really tough kids listened to me but that food which is an inanimate object (doesn’t walk, talk or do all those other things) was something that I had absolutely no visual nor behavioral control over. It was at that very moment in time that I had the idea to stop dieting and eat the food that I wanted,” she said.

She Wanted to Understand Why She Thought About Food All the Time

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There was one caveat. “I became obsessed with having to know why I thought about food all day and so I also included the challenge of journaling all of my eating experiences before, during and after I ate. I had to know. I just had to know why I thought about food all day. And yes, I did find out!” she says.

She Lost 25 Pounds with the Help of Journaling

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With her “very intense self-observational and journaling process” she lost 25 pounds. “It took me about two years to do so but I’ve kept the weight for more than 20 years,” she says. “That’s because as I was eating and journaling I was also working out the no-diet, weight-loss program that is published in my book East What You Want! Stop When You Want! A No-Diet, Weight-Loss Program. So it was really all trial and error until I saw what worked and what didn’t.”

She Was Willing to Risk It All

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Sora was willing to “risk it all” because she knew that “dieting was a total waste of time for me and that there had to be another answer,” she says, “which there really was. I don’t like to do something more than once so I was determined to find my way without having to diet and yeah, I did.”

She Eats What She Wants

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Sora doesn’t have a typical daily diet, “because I simply eat what I want when I want it and I’m not afraid that I won’t be able to eat and stop myself,” she says. That is the blessing that my eat and stop yourself, no-diet, weight-loss program has afforded me.”

She Doesn’t Look at Foods as “Good” or “Bad”

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“I believe that all foods are equal. Equal in the sense that what differentiates ‘good’ food from ‘bad’ food is really more a question of ‘What can I eat and stop?’ Or ‘What can’t I eat because I won’t be able to stop myself?’ Of course, if you have a medical condition, then it’s extremely important to watch the types of food that you eat but again, if you’re struggling with a weight problem, it all comes down to ‘Do you have the choice to eat and stop yourself?’ even if you’re eating certain ‘better for your health’ foods. That is just the bottom line. Can you eat and stop?” she says.

She Is Conscious When It Comes to Food Thought

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“The biggest achievement when it comes to my body is that my daily food thoughts support my weight and I don’t walk around feeling deprived and fearful of walking into a donut shop and overeating,” says Sora. “That my conscious number of daily food thoughts support my present weight loss with no angst.”

It’s All Because of Journaling

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“My greatest achievement when it comes to my body, is that I own the number of conscious food thoughts that maintain my present body weight,” Sora says. “Anyone that is interested in doing the same, should begin by journaling everything that they eat everyday and start asking themselves the question, ‘How does this food in this amount, that I am presently chewing, serve me or not?’ Mindfulness is key unless you use the two specific eat and stop yourself techniques in my no-diet, weight-loss program which will provide instant relief from the fear of overeating,” she says.

Start By Accepting Yourself

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“Even when I started this new type of non-dieting weight-loss journey decades ago I decided to accept myself at my larger size,” Sora says. “I didn’t want to fight it because I knew that I was on a journey and I wanted to still look nice. So I went out and bought all new clothes at my larger size and every time, I lost between 5 and 10 pounds I would fix my clothes or buy some new ones. I work on acceptance. I chose not to beat myself up about my weight.”

She Is Her Own Fitspiration

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“My fitness inspiration is me. I want to feel alive and limber every day and so stretching every morning is mandatory and so is walking every day which is not a tough thing to do living in New York City,” says Sora.

Set Intentions for the Day

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“The way that my day works best for me is to be as disciplined as possible based on the intentions that I set for that day which is Always written down the night before for the next day. I also put God first in my life and practice gratitude daily, since gratitude makes everything that you have enough,” she explains.

Her Favorite Motivational Quotes

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“I have no favorite motivational quote when it comes to fitness but I have three motivational quotes that serve me,” says Sora. The first? “No process, no progress,” she reveals. Next, “Inch by inch, anything is a cinch. Yard by yard life is hard.” And finally, the third: “You don’t see the harvest on the day that you plant the seeds.”

Learn More in Her Book

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“My book Eat What You Want! Stop When You Want! A No-Diet, Weight-Loss Program teaches you two special eat and stop yourself techniques that let you know when you’re going to stop eating even before your first bite. That is what has allowed me to keep my weight off all these years! Because I know when I will stop, even before I begin to eat,” she says.

She Has Kept 25 Pounds Off for Over 20 Years

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Sora’s success story keeps on going. “I’ve kept my 25 pounds off for over 20 years so I’m very proud of myself and my body,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

Do you want to lose weight by making a few simple changes to your diet? Katie Dunlop (@LoveSweatFitness) is an influencer who lost 45 pounds and went on to become a certified personal trainer, helping others achieve their weight loss goals. In a viral YouTube video, she “really racked her brain” and revealed everything she did – and stopped doing – to lose 45 pounds “and keep it off for like eight-plus years now,” she says.

I Stopped Over Exercising

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“Number one thing I stopped doing that helped me lose all of that weight was over-exercising,” says Katie, explaining that what she did for years caused her “to fail” because she would go like full throttle crazy thinking I needed to work out for an hour or two hours every single day.” However, after a few weeks, she would “crash and burn so hard and end up doing nothing for probably a month or two.”

Why? Because It Leads to Burn Out

“So it's like these big highs and lows, right? You like to go full craziness, and you just get burnt out.,” she says, adding that your body “can’t handle that mentally” and “you get tired and exhausted.” And “if you're not setting up goals in a strategic way and giving yourself micro-goals, you're gonna end up failing because you don't have that constant motivation. You're not seeing results right away, and all you're feeling is exhausted and tired, and that does not work for anyone. So I had to give up over-exercising and find a way to move my body every day and start healthy habits and really just start to build.”

Commit to 10 Minutes of Exercise Daily

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“I just committed to 10 minutes every single day, and that usually turned into more than 10 minutes. But 10 minutes was super manageable, and it made sure I wasn't overdoing it so that I could be consistent over time,” says Katie.

I Stopped Weighing Myself Daily

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“Number two thing I stopped doing every single day, and this is one that if you take nothing else away from this, this is the one you need to make sure you do. I stopped weighing myself every day,” says Katie. “I literally went through a period of time where I would weigh myself every single day.”

Why? Body Weight Fluctuates Daily

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“And here's the thing, you guys: Your body weight fluctuates every single day,” she points out. “It can depend on how much food you've had, if you've gone to the bathroom if you've been drinking a ton of water if you're on your period. All of those things and more can impact your body a couple of pounds here and there. So, if you're weighing yourself every day, it is going to be devastating and discouraging when you're trying to reach goals and make changes. If you're seeing the scale go up and down and up and down, you gotta stop doing it.”

Instead, I Weighed Myself Every Four Weeks and Took Photos and Measurements

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“What I started doing was setting a goal for myself to weigh myself every four weeks, but I also started taking photos and measurements. And those two things are really important because there's more than just this number on the scale, right?” says Katie. "If you have a standard scale, all you're gonna get is a number. And what does that mean? Like there's so much more to it than your actual weight, and things change as you start to live a healthy lifestyle.”

I Also Invested in a Comprehensive Scale

“The other thing I did was I started to use a better scale, like one that actually gives you more information,” she says, revealing that she splurged on the Body Analyzer from Vanity Planet. “You guys, this is the best at-home scale you can get because it not only tells you your overall weight, but it breaks down your water weight, your bone density, your muscle mass,” she continues, “so you can get more information and understand as you're making change, if you're gaining fat, if you're gaining muscle, like how much water weight is in there.” She recommends using it once a month.

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I Stopped Comparing Myself to Others

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“The third thing I stopped doing, and this one is tricky, I stopped scrolling so much,” she says. “I literally used to get trapped on Facebook and Instagram when it first started coming around and just scrolling and scrolling and looking at people and comparing myself and scrolling through magazines.”

It Was “So Unhealthy”

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“We're constantly bombarded by images of people that we think we're supposed to look like. I compared myself to my friends. I compared myself to other women I saw in real life and on TV, and on the internet everywhere. And it's so unhealthy. Like it was probably one of the most emotionally draining things that I was doing for myself,” she explains. It “was really causing me to get back into these depressed moods that wouldn't allow me to have the motivation to keep going because I'd be like, ‘I can never get there. I'm never gonna look like that.’ But the thing is, you're not supposed to look like that,” she points out. “You're supposed to look like you like the healthiest version of you that you can possibly be.”

If I Scroll and Think Negatively, I Stop and Say Something Positive

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“What I started doing is I gave myself a little bit of a rule. I would say I could scroll all day long, but the second that my brain started either thinking negatively about someone I was looking at or thinking negatively about myself, I had to stop, and I had to say something positive. And I think that's good because depending on your mood, it can really dictate and impact how you feel and how you perceive information and like how you see things,” she points out. “So just flip the script, be positive, and you'll feel so much better.”

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I Stopped Netflix Binging

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“The fourth thing I stopped doing was binging so much on Netflix. And this one's hard 'cause I really love shows and movies. I just always have. But it's so easy to get sucked into like the Netflix or whatever, TV, YouTube, vortex when you're like off work, and you're tired, and you just wanna sit on the couch, and you then go into like watching land and then you don't get your workouts in, or you're like more likely to snack mindlessly, right?”

Instead, I Did Productive Things

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“So I stopped binging, but sort of, I just flipped it. So I was like, okay, well, I'm not gonna just like sit here for three hours and watch a bunch of TV 'cause now I'm not being productive. I'm getting more tired and not wanting to go do things even more,” she says.

My Rule Is, I Can Watch My Shows While Doing Cardio

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“So now my rule is I either have to be on the treadmill doing cardio to watch my Netflix shows, or I have to have already worked out,” she explains. “So if it didn't already work out, then I'm not gonna watch it. Or if I really, really wanna watch it, then I like to go to the gym and go on the treadmill.”

I Gave Up Diets

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And the final but most important sacrifice she made? “You gotta give up diets,” she says. “So we all have a diet, but you need to stop being on diets. The difference is that a healthy diet is just like how you fuel your body and nourish yourself every single day, right? Your diet is your nutrition, how you're feeding yourself.” She says that she tried every diet under the sun, “and I ended up sick after most of 'em. If I ever lost weight on them, I gained it all right back, which is like fluctuating up and down, jacked up my metabolism.”

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I Added Healthier Things Instead of Being Overly Restrictive

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“You have to find something that works in your life that you can maintain long term all the time,” she continues. “So I focused on adding healthier things into my diet all the time. Instead of cutting stuff out and restricting, I would add things in, add more veggies, add more water, like add more of the good stuff so you have less room for the bad stuff. And then I would start eliminating certain things where I'm like, okay, well, I know these really, really bad processed carbohydrates aren't good for my body. And so, what can I swap those for? That's a healthier option without giving up carbs because we need them.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Start with just 10 minutes of exercise each day. Keeping it short and simple makes it easier to stay consistent over time.