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This 35-Year-Old Finally Built Muscle After Stopping These 7 Training Mistakes

Transform your physique with science-backed training strategies.

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Have you been hitting the gym for years without seeing the results you want? You're not alone. Like many fitness enthusiasts, Olivia Jarvis, nutrition and fitness coach, spent years jumping between workout trends—from Pilates to marathon training—without achieving her desired physique. "I started questioning myself and thinking not only is my body broken, but am I just one of those people who could never really have an athletic physique," she shares.


"I had just kind of accepted that I would always have, say, fluffier arms, and I would never look lean or defined." After discovering key training principles that transformed her body in just six months, she's sharing her insights, backed by scientific research, to help others break through their plateaus.

Mistake: Training on an Empty Stomach

"I can't tell you the difference in the quality of my sessions when I don't train fasted," Olivia explains in her post. She found herself flagging halfway through workouts, especially during intense lower body days. Her solution? Complex carbs before training, like oats or a quick-energy combination of banana, corn cakes, and peanut butter for early morning sessions. This approach aligns with current research on exercise nutrition and muscle preservation.

Mistake: Following Random Workouts

The biggest game-changer was consistency in programming. "If you want your body to change and you want to get stronger and make gains, you need to be following the same program, not just doing random Instagram workouts," Olivia emphasizes.

Dr. Roger Fielding, from Tufts University, supports this approach, adding that "maintaining muscle mass and muscle function is really important for quality of life." Research shows that consistent strength training programs can lead to significant improvements in muscle strength and function.

Mistake: Not Timing Rest Periods

One simple but effective change was timing rest periods between sets. "I never used to actually time my rests," Olivia admits. She now maintains strict rest periods, typically 180 seconds between sets for larger muscle groups. This structured approach to rest allows for proper muscle recovery between sets and optimal strength gains.

Mistake: Rushing Through Sets

"Following the tempo for exercises and stimulating my muscles has really changed my training," Olivia reveals. Dr. Wendy Kohrt, an aging expert at the University of Colorado, adds important context: "It's not about getting big muscles. In fact, most people who do strength training don't see much of a change in muscle size."

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Mistake: Doing Too Much Cardio

Contrary to popular belief, Olivia discovered that less cardio was more effective for muscle preservation. This aligns with Dr. Joseph Ciccolo's research at Columbia University, who notes that "regular strength training is associated with lower risk of cardiovascular disease and other chronic diseases." During her transformation, she limited runs to 4-6 kilometers, focusing instead on walking as steady-state cardio to manage hunger levels.

Mistake: Partial Muscle Training

Olivia emphasizes the importance of targeting all muscle groups properly. "We're targeting the glute from all different areas and different points. I feel like I never used to target my upper glute, for example." This comprehensive approach is supported by current exercise science, which recommends training all major muscle groups at least twice per week for optimal results.

Mistake: Training Without Focus

The final piece of the puzzle was mental focus during workouts. "Don't underestimate the power of that mind-to-muscle connection," Olivia advises. This mental engagement during training has been shown to enhance muscle activation and overall workout effectiveness. Dr. Ciccolo's research further suggests that strength training can have significant mental health benefits, potentially "helping to lower certain hormones in the body associated with stress and depression."

RELATED:This Grandmother Lost 200 Pounds in 23 Months by Walking Just 2 Blocks a Day

How to Start Your Strength Training Journey

For those inspired to begin their strength training journey, experts recommend starting gradually. "Start slowly and build up very gradually," advises Dr. Kohrt. If possible, consider working with a qualified trainer initially. "People naturally learn to walk as part of growing up. But you don't necessarily learn how to lift weights," explains Dr. Ciccolo.

For those looking to break through their fitness plateaus, Olivia's transformation story, combined with scientific research, offers a blueprint for success. By implementing these strategic changes and maintaining consistency, you can work toward achieving your strength and fitness goals—regardless of your starting point or past struggles. Remember to consult with healthcare providers before starting any new exercise routine, especially if you're new to strength training. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these31 Fitness Tips Every Beginner Needs to Look Sexy, According to Coaches.

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Have you been hitting the gym for years without seeing the results you want? You're not alone. Like many fitness enthusiasts, Olivia Jarvis, nutrition and fitness coach, spent years jumping between workout trends—from Pilates to marathon training—without achieving her desired physique. "I started questioning myself and thinking not only is my body broken, but am I just one of those people who could never really have an athletic physique," she shares.


"I had just kind of accepted that I would always have, say, fluffier arms, and I would never look lean or defined." After discovering key training principles that transformed her body in just six months, she's sharing her insights, backed by scientific research, to help others break through their plateaus.

Mistake: Training on an Empty Stomach

"I can't tell you the difference in the quality of my sessions when I don't train fasted," Olivia explains in her post. She found herself flagging halfway through workouts, especially during intense lower body days. Her solution? Complex carbs before training, like oats or a quick-energy combination of banana, corn cakes, and peanut butter for early morning sessions. This approach aligns with current research on exercise nutrition and muscle preservation.

Mistake: Following Random Workouts

The biggest game-changer was consistency in programming. "If you want your body to change and you want to get stronger and make gains, you need to be following the same program, not just doing random Instagram workouts," Olivia emphasizes.

Dr. Roger Fielding, from Tufts University, supports this approach, adding that "maintaining muscle mass and muscle function is really important for quality of life." Research shows that consistent strength training programs can lead to significant improvements in muscle strength and function.

Mistake: Not Timing Rest Periods

One simple but effective change was timing rest periods between sets. "I never used to actually time my rests," Olivia admits. She now maintains strict rest periods, typically 180 seconds between sets for larger muscle groups. This structured approach to rest allows for proper muscle recovery between sets and optimal strength gains.

Mistake: Rushing Through Sets

"Following the tempo for exercises and stimulating my muscles has really changed my training," Olivia reveals. Dr. Wendy Kohrt, an aging expert at the University of Colorado, adds important context: "It's not about getting big muscles. In fact, most people who do strength training don't see much of a change in muscle size."

RELATED:I'm a Nutritionist and Here Are 19 Protein Truths You Need to Hear

Mistake: Doing Too Much Cardio

Contrary to popular belief, Olivia discovered that less cardio was more effective for muscle preservation. This aligns with Dr. Joseph Ciccolo's research at Columbia University, who notes that "regular strength training is associated with lower risk of cardiovascular disease and other chronic diseases." During her transformation, she limited runs to 4-6 kilometers, focusing instead on walking as steady-state cardio to manage hunger levels.

Mistake: Partial Muscle Training

Olivia emphasizes the importance of targeting all muscle groups properly. "We're targeting the glute from all different areas and different points. I feel like I never used to target my upper glute, for example." This comprehensive approach is supported by current exercise science, which recommends training all major muscle groups at least twice per week for optimal results.

Mistake: Training Without Focus

The final piece of the puzzle was mental focus during workouts. "Don't underestimate the power of that mind-to-muscle connection," Olivia advises. This mental engagement during training has been shown to enhance muscle activation and overall workout effectiveness. Dr. Ciccolo's research further suggests that strength training can have significant mental health benefits, potentially "helping to lower certain hormones in the body associated with stress and depression."

RELATED:This Grandmother Lost 200 Pounds in 23 Months by Walking Just 2 Blocks a Day

How to Start Your Strength Training Journey

For those inspired to begin their strength training journey, experts recommend starting gradually. "Start slowly and build up very gradually," advises Dr. Kohrt. If possible, consider working with a qualified trainer initially. "People naturally learn to walk as part of growing up. But you don't necessarily learn how to lift weights," explains Dr. Ciccolo.

For those looking to break through their fitness plateaus, Olivia's transformation story, combined with scientific research, offers a blueprint for success. By implementing these strategic changes and maintaining consistency, you can work toward achieving your strength and fitness goals—regardless of your starting point or past struggles. Remember to consult with healthcare providers before starting any new exercise routine, especially if you're new to strength training. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these31 Fitness Tips Every Beginner Needs to Look Sexy, According to Coaches.

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If you've ever felt frustrated with dieting, you're not alone. After 15 years of trying different weight loss approaches, Martin Balcaitis, 45, Senior Vice President of Operations at Lindora in Orange County, California, finally discovered the game-changing mistake that had been holding him back all along. His transformation story proves that sometimes the smallest changes can lead to the biggest results.

The Wake-Up Call

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"I feel like I've always been trying to lose weight!" Martin tells Body Network. "But now that I'm in my mid-40s, I know that it isn't so much about the number on the scale, but my overall health for longevity – that was my real motivator this time around."

The Crucial Discovery

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Standing at 5'9" and weighing 222 pounds, Martin thought he had tried everything. Then came the revelation that changed everything: "I thought I was eating a correct portion for myself, but eyeballing wasn't my friend," he admits. "A food scale was crucial to my success."

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The Transformation

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The results speak for themselves. In just six months, Martin dropped from 222 pounds to 165 pounds, achieving a remarkable transformation in his body composition. "My overall body fat percentage went from 36% to 15% in 6 months," he shares proudly.

A New Approach to Food

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Unlike previous attempts at weight loss, Martin's new strategy didn't involve cutting out foods entirely. "I haven't eliminated anything – which is great!" he explains. "I simply know how to manage portions and adjust my eating that day if I know I'm going to have something decadent or high-carb during the day."

A Day of Measured Eating

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Martin's daily menu is both satisfying and strategic. "Breakfast is typically one egg, some egg whites and cottage cheese blended in what I call my 'protein eggs' with spinach and some meat," he says. "Lunch will be a salad with a yogurt-based dressing and dinner is roasted vegetables and lean protein – also three Lindora snacks too!"

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The Workout Strategy

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Time management proved to be another crucial lesson. "Time can always get the best of us so I make sure to workout in the morning," Martin explains. "I make too many excuses to not go to the gym after work." His dedication has paid off: "I can actually see some abs poking through now!"

Dealing with Setbacks

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Martin maintains a realistic approach to challenges. "Sometimes the motivation just isn't there and you have to tell yourself that it's a marathon, not a sprint," he reflects. "Don't beat yourself up if you skip a workout or can't go the distance you wanted to."

The Power of Accountability

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Making the journey public became a powerful tool. "Be vocal about it. I told people I was trying to lose weight to help hold me accountable," he advises. His commitment extended to his wardrobe: "I donated clothes once they were too big for me – I didn't want to buy big clothes again, so I had to keep going!"

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A Science-Based Approach

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Martin emphasizes the importance of data in his success. "Knowledge is power, so I would encourage everyone to get a body composition analysis done so they have a true understanding of what their numbers are to make a plan of attack," he recommends.

The Path to Success

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For those inspired by his journey, Martin offers encouraging advice: "Just start! You don't have to wait for a certain day, you don't have to have a big goal in mind – just take little steps and once you see some progress it will motivate you to keep going."

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Maintaining Momentum

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His approach to staying motivated remains practical and empowering. "If I am feeling badly about my body – it is 100% in my control to fix it," he states. "Having a plan and solutions is the answer and putting that plan into action is key." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Laurence Codd, the star of the Fit and 50 YouTube channel, is a living example of how you can get fit and build muscle at any age. After starting his fitness journey in his mid-40s, Laurence transformed his body and now shares his journey with the world. He not only shared a video explaining his transformation, but he also spoke with Physique Coach Scott Tousignant on the Lose Fat Get Jacked YouTube channel. In both videos, he details his journey from being overweight in his 30s to getting ripped and staying lean in his 50s. Here is how Laurence says he got fit slim and how he stays lean with a balanced approach to fitness and nutrition.


How Laurence Started His Transformation

Laurence’s fitness journey began when he was overweight in his 30s and felt like life was passing him by. As he entered his mid-40s, he found motivation from his son and started going to the gym. It took him two years to get shredded for the first time. Reflecting on that moment, he said:

“The motivation to start training was much deeper than the story I've told in the past... I needed more time. The only way to accomplish this was to get into the best shape possible to live a longer and healthier life.”

Focusing on Balanced Nutrition

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Laurence’s approach to dieting changed over the years. In the beginning, he followed a very unbalanced diet, which led to inconsistent results. Now, he focuses on balanced eating without extremes.

“I would try and make it all up the next day fasting as long as possible,” he says, referring to his earlier days. “Balanced dieting is the best thing I've ever learned... If you overeat one day, you don't have to reduce all those calories the next day. You can spread the reduction out over the next week.”

This flexibility helps him stay lean without the stress of extreme bulking or cutting phases.

Managing Calories and Staying Lean

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Laurence emphasizes the importance of maintaining a healthy calorie balance. He believes in making small, manageable adjustments to achieve weight loss while maintaining muscle.

“I lost eight pounds really—eight and a half pounds over eight months,” Laurence explains. “It wasn’t a lot of weight to lose, but I started at maintenance and only had to cut 100 calories a day.”

He stresses that it's important not to go overboard with cutting calories too quickly, especially as you age. For him, slow, steady progress is the key.

“I didn’t have to cut many calories to lose that weight. It was more about staying consistent,” he says.

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Building Muscle Without Gaining Excess Weight

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Laurence Codd attributes much of his success to weight training. He explains his strategy of carefully managing his weight during bulking phases: “I didn’t want to get too fluffy to be shirtless on the internet,” Laurence says with a laugh. “I can move my weight at will. If I decide I want to gain five pounds, I can. If I want to lose five pounds, I can.”

This approach allows him to avoid long, grueling cutting phases that are difficult to maintain and can be mentally draining.

Importance of Consistency Over Time

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A big part of Laurence’s success comes from staying consistent with his training and nutrition. He encourages others not to go too hard too quickly but to build up their fitness gradually.

“You can definitely push yourself too hard and too far,” Laurence warns. “A lot of people start at 110%, and they don’t realize that you’ve got to start at maybe 50% and work your way up.”

By gradually increasing the intensity of his workouts, Laurence has been able to stay injury-free and continue progressing in his 50s.

The Role of Sleep and Recovery

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Laurence also emphasizes the importance of recovery, especially as you get older. He mentions that he struggled with sleep during his cut phase but recognizes that maintaining good sleep habits is crucial for overall well-being and performance.

“I had some trouble with insomnia... Is that because I got a lot going on in my world right now, or is it because I’m so lean? It’s hard to say, but sleep is essential,” he notes.

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Final Thoughts on Staying Lean After 50

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For Laurence, the key to staying lean after 50 is balance—balance in nutrition, fitness, and life. His message is clear: you don’t need to go to extremes to achieve your fitness goals. By managing calories, maintaining a consistent workout routine, and staying flexible with your diet, you can stay lean and build muscle even in your 50s and beyond.

“It's way easier when you get lean and stay lean year-round. Your body doesn't rebel against you,” Laurence concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Liz Hilliard, 70, is living, breathing proof that age is just a number. The pilates instructor, who trains out of her studio Hilliard Studio Method, discovered the workout when she was 48, and completely transformed her approach to health. Over the years she has managed to learn a few things about longevity, revealing her secrets in an interview with Body Network.


Liz Used to Rely on Traditional Workouts

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Liz, who lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, explains that she was athletic throughout her childhood and enjoyed playing basketball and other team sports. “Traditional workouts always felt boring and offered minimal results for the time and energy put into them, " she says. Until I was in my late 40s, I relied on tennis and walking as my main sources of exercise.

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She Discovered Pilates at Age 48

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“At age 48, I attended my first Pilates class and immediately felt incredibly challenged. I even had fun, which led me to become certified in Pilates,” she says. In 2002, she opened her first personal Pilates training studio. “It was a successful business, and my clients were seeing real results. However, at age 51, while going through menopause, I noticed despite my Pilates workout, my belly fat was increasing, and my overall strength was decreasing as well, aka flabby arms and sagging bottom."

Fusing Strength Training with Pilates Was a Game-Changer

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"Inspired by my daughter, who was getting married and sculpting up for her wedding, I began researching heavy resistance training and hired my own personal trainer to try to sculpt my 51-year-old, menopausal body. We implemented heavy weight training, and I was determined to debunk the ‘bulking’ myth that most women feel about weightlifting," Liz says.

"The short story is that adding heavier resistance training to my core-centric Pilates workout began to sculpt my body in ways I hadn’t seen before using only traditional Pilates. That’s when I devised my Method. By incorporating heavy resistance with the core-centric exercises of Pilates, the Hilliard Studio Method was born."

She Shaved Inches Off Her Waistline

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Hillard, who has since authored the book "Be Powerful: Find Your Strength at Any Age" and co-hosts the Be Powerful Podcast, has remained 135 pounds throughout most of her life. “Muscle weighs more than fat, so I was replacing adipose tissue with muscle. My body was sculpting and changing at a rapid rate, especially given that I was in the throes of menopause. I lost inches around my waist, my arms became strong and sculpted, my abs flattened, and my glutes lifted. My entire body changed over the course of a year or less,” she says.

She Works Out 4 to 5 Times a Week

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What are the most important things she learned about getting in shape? “Find a workout that you enjoy, or you won’t stick with it. Our lives are busy, so finding a workout that efficiently provides resistance combined with stretch and enough cardio is essential. I do my workout at Hilliard Studio Method 4 to 5 times a week because we change the workout daily, moving through compound exercising and utilizing different resistance tools like balls, gliders, and bands to continuously cause muscle confusion and avoid the dreadful plateau, both mentally and physically. We keep the work fun and evolving, low impact yet high intensity. The amazing side effect of getting in physical shape is that one’s mental and emotional outlook becomes far more positive. Strength training like I do at HSM is the fountain of youth,” she continues.

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Get Your Steps In

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Her top workout suggestions? “Walk every day and everywhere. Get outside as often as possible to walk in nature. Bonus points if you walk with a friend. It’s built-in mental and physical therapy, which will not only help keep you fit but also lift your mood and keep your mind creative,” she says.

Strength Train Four Times a Week

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Also, strength training 4 times per week. “Strength training is an absolute requirement for healthy aging and simply means load-bearing exercises that require your muscles to engage. This can include anything from hand weights, resistance bands, weighted balls or any weighted object that taxes and builds skeletal muscles. Skeletal muscle strength allows the body to burn calories and maintain a healthy weight while setting the body up for success when inevitable accidents happen, so you are far less likely to avoid falling and breaking bones,” she says.

It’s Never Too Late to Get in Shape

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What is her message for women out there who are struggling to get in shape? “It’s never too late, and you’re never too old or out of shape to start exercising. By simply getting out of your chair and going for a 20-minute walk, you’ll have the immediate feedback of feeling better physically, mentally, and emotionally,” she says.

Make Exercise Social

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She also recommends connecting with friends to walk, workout, “and just talk every day,” she says. “Walking and talking with a friend or acquaintance is the perfect combo for both physical and mental health! Add resistance training to your workout, which can be as simple as a plank for as long as you can hold it until you work for up to a minute. Then go for 2 minutes or more. This is resistance training and incredible for your core and overall fitness! Then add a pushup on your knees, which is basically a moving plank that strengthens your arms, back, and core, not to mention flattens your abs. Do as many as you can, and try to work up to 20 or more. Mostly, just keep moving every single day. Our bodies are designed to move. The fastest way to early aging is to stop moving. The move it or lose it cliché is true.”

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Try the Hilliard Studio Method at Home

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She says she “takes working out to the next level to produce results that are nothing short of a total mind-body transformation for women and men of all ages and stages,” she says. “Hilliard Studio Method group classes are designed to be taken on a regular basis. Each class is different from the day before. Our energetic and encouraging trainers utilize a variety of powerful movements and workout tools in a high intensity, low impact method driven by empowering, beat-driven music; think personal training in a group setting.” Her classes can also be done virtually via an online streaming platform and live Zoom classes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 20 Superfoods for People Over 50.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? It could be because you are saying the wrong things to yourself. Hannah White is a personal trainer and online coach who uses her personal experience of losing weight to help others achieve their diet and fitness goals. In a recent post, she revealed a lot of the mistakes she made and things she said to herself that prevented her from losing weight. “The five things limiting beliefs and ‘excuses’ were some of the MAIN things holding me back from achieving my fitness goals in my 30s,” she writes.


She Stopped Saying She Was Too Old to Lift Weights

The first things she quit saying? “I’m too old to start lifting weights,” she reveals. “Age is just a number, and if you’re still able to move your body, then there are ALWAYS things you can do! “If you can sit down & stand up from a chair 🪑 You can ‘Squat.’ If you can pick up shopping bags off the floor 🛍️ You can ‘Deadlift.’ Start small & build from there. You’ll be surprised at what you’re able to achieve with consistency.”

She Stopped Blaming It On Her Metabolism

The second thing she stopped saying: “I have a slow metabolism & can’t lose belly fat,” she reveals. “If you have a diagnosed medical condition, then you should absolutely seek help from your doctor! But for everybody else… your activity level & diet are the main factors that impact your ability to lose belly fat.”

She Stopped Blaming It On Being Premenopausal

Next, she stopped making an excuse that “I’m perimenopausal now, which is making it hard to lose weight,” she says. “True. But it is not the actual hormones that affect your metabolism. Hormones massively affect how we feel, yes! And how we feel affects our daily actions and habits.”

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These Things Helped

She recommends doing these things to help:

  • Improving the quality of your sleep
  • Managing stress
  • Reducing alcohol & caffeine
  • Focusing on fuelling your body correctly
  • Daily walks and regular weight training.

She Stopped Blaming It On Genetics

“It’s my genetics” is another excuse she stopped making. “Genetics play a role. Let’s face it. We’re not all created the same. Some people inherit a higher basal metabolic rate (BMR), which means they burn more calories when they are at rest. And some people are more ‘naturally’ athletic. However, lifestyle choices & actions also affect your BMR & what your body is capable of!”

She Stopped Saying She Didn’t Have Times

The last thing she stopped saying? “I don’t have time to exercise & eat healthy,” she reveals. “You don’t need to be perfect to make progress with your fat loss & fitness goals. “Doing small things consistently will make a MASSIVE difference, especially if you’re starting from scratch.”

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Here Are Some Tips

She offers the following tips to help with weight loss. “Things like going for a 10min daily walk, eating more protein, adding a portion of fruit or veg to each meal, drinking a glass of water every hour or so, etc.,” she recommends.

She Stopped Exercising to Lose Weight

In another post, she reveals three mistakes she stopped making to lose fat in her 40s. “I stopped seeing exercise as a way to burn calories and started training to get stronger instead,” she says. “This really helped to shape and tone my physique, as getting stronger meant that I built muscle and lost fat in all the right places. Plus, the extra muscle I built burns more calories at rest, so I found I was able to eat more food and still lose weight.”

She Stopped Trying to Eat Less Food

“I stopped just trying to eat less food and started tracking my macros and eating the right quantities of nutrients for me and my goals,” she continues. “This gave me more energy for my workouts and got rid of my sugar cravings for good. “It also allowed me to still eat all the foods I enjoyed without feeling guilty as I knew I was eating what I should be.”

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She Stopped Drinking Alcohol

“I stopped drinking alcohol,” she says. “This one speaks for itself. Better sleep. More energy. Less anxiety and mood swings. More focus on my goals. Also, it’s not just the empty calories in alcohol that affect your weight loss efforts. Alcohol halts your body’s ability to burn fat and build muscle. So it’s definitely something to reduce or eliminate completely if you want the best results.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Starting a weight loss journey can feel overwhelming and intimidating. We often focus on the wrong things and set ourselves up for disappointment. Nikki Madoch (@NikkiGetsFit) knows this all too well. As a self-described "nutrition athlete" with ASM CPT and CNC certifications, Nikki has shared her experience losing an impressive 70 pounds on the Weight Watchers program. Her insights might just be the perspective shift you need to make your own journey more successful and sustainable.

The Right Motivation Makes All the Difference

Most people start losing weight to look better, but that's rarely enough to stick with it long-term. "For so long, I just wanted to look better, have a flat stomach, and look like other people. That was all it was," Nikki admits in her post. She found out that feeling better physically became what truly kept her going, not how she looked, which completely changed her approach and results.

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Health Benefits Show Up Quickly

The physical improvements from healthier eating can pop up much faster than you might think. "After just one week, I could not believe how much better I felt," Nikki says. She noticed huge differences in her energy and overall well-being after cutting out fast food and focusing on portion control and foods that actually nourished her body.

Feeling Good Trumps Looking Good

Lasting weight loss comes from caring more about how your body feels than how it looks. "What keeps me going is how good I feel when I take care of myself, eat healthy, nourish myself, drink enough water, get enough sleep, and exercise," Nikki points out. While looking better in clothes feels nice, it's the improved quality of life that really drives her to keep making healthy choices.

Body Image Issues Can Actually Increase

Surprisingly, losing weight doesn't magically fix body image issues and might even create new ones. "I didn't know that I would have more body dysmorphia as I lost weight," Nikki confesses. She caught herself becoming more critical and self-conscious about specific body parts during her journey than she had been at her heaviest weight.

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The Mental Game Gets Tougher

Weight loss demands as much mental strength as physical discipline, especially as you make progress. "It was a whole new mental game that I had to work through," Nikki says about dealing with increased body scrutiny. Learning to shift her focus back to health and strength rather than picking apart her physical imperfections became crucial for her continued success.

Don't Be Afraid to Use All Your Resources

If you're following a structured program, take full advantage of all the flexibility it offers. "I was too scared to use my weeklies," Nikki talks about her initial approach to Weight Watchers points. She later discovered that using all her allotted weekly points actually helped her lose more weight rather than slowing her down.

Strategic Indulgence Works Best

How you use extra calories or points matters more than whether you use them. "What worked best for me was using my weeklies on different snacks that I like—protein bars, nuts, peanut butter spread," Nikki shares. She found that spreading out enjoyable foods throughout the week worked better than saving everything for one big cheat meal.

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Variety Prevents Burnout

Eating the same healthy foods over and over leads to boredom and eventually giving up. "It is very easy to get burned out of things, and it's very important to switch things up," Nikki warns. She learned to keep introducing new recipes, ingredients, and meal ideas to keep her plan interesting and something she could stick with.

Try One New Thing Weekly

Small changes make a big difference in keeping meals from getting boring. "Just trying to add a new recipe each week, just a simple recipe, so that I'm trying something new," Nikki suggests. This approach keeps meals exciting without becoming overwhelming or taking too much time.

The Scale Doesn't Tell the Whole Story

Weight is just one measurement and often a misleading one, especially when building muscle. "Weight and the number on the scale is not everything," Nikki insists. She weighs 190 pounds at 6 feet tall and feels healthier now than when she weighed less but had less muscle.

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Progress Photos Tell a Better Story

Visual proof of body changes can be more motivating than scale numbers. "I'm actually really happy that I did start taking progress pictures from the start," Nikki mentions. These photos helped her see that she looked smaller at a higher weight due to muscle gain, proving that the scale wasn't telling her the full story of her success.

Embrace Multiple Ways to Measure Success

Relying only on weight can lead to frustration, especially during plateaus. "Having different ways to not focus so much on the scale to see your progress is so important," Nikki talks about. She figured out how to judge her progress through how clothes fit, strength gains, and overall wellbeing rather than obsessing over a specific number.

Final Word

Nikki's journey shows that lasting weight loss comes from focusing on health, enjoyment, and sustainable habits rather than just appearance or numbers on a scale. By shifting your perspective on motivation, measurements, and what truly matters, you can create a healthier relationship with food and your body that lasts far beyond reaching your goal weight. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you frustrated with all the one-size-fits-all fat loss methods that don’t seem to work for you? One expert claims there are a handful of easy and effective methods you can choose from to lose weight. Mateo Ruperti is a fat loss coach who uses his LWM Blueprint to help “busy people lose 20 lbs in 90 days.” In a new post, he reveals five methods that you can use to drop weight fast. “How to lose body fat in 3 months,” he writes.

Method 1

His first method involves a lot of coffee and water. “Drink a lot of water, so your tummy will be filled with water and you won’t have urges to eat,” he says. Drink black coffee: Caffeine will give you energy and will manipulate your brain into thinking you are not hungry. Use this when having cravings.”

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Method 2

The second method involves exercise and a calorie deficit. “Be in a slight calorie deficit of 200-300 calories. Use high dense food to make you feel like you are full without eating so many calories,” he says. Also, do cardio. “Walk about 10,000 to 15,000 steps everyday. Walking is the best form of cardio to burn calories.” A 2018 study published in the journal Obesity found a link between walking 10,000 steps a day and weight loss and weight management. Other studies published by the Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine also linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure, and fewer strokes.

Method 3

The third method is following the 30-30-30 Rule. “Do 30 minutes of cardio after 30 minutes of waking up and then eat 30 grams of protein. This is one the fastest ways to burn fat!” he claims.

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Method 4

His final method? “Eat foods that are rich in protein,” he says, revealing the following recommendations:

  • Egg whites
  • Chicken
  • Beef
  • Broccoli.

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Bonus Tips

He also offers some bonus tips

  • Stop drinking ALCOHOL
  • No soda, Starbucks etc.
  • Count your calories precisely for at least 6 days a week.
  • Sleep 7-8 hours a day for better rest and recovery.

And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week

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Costco is known for selling some of the most delicious but calorie-heavy items, including pizza dripping with cheese and toppings, substantial hot dogs, and larger-than-life muffins. However, it is also an excellent resource for anyone on a diet or trying to lose weight. Health experts, trainers, and influencers share their go-to weight loss finds at the warehouse daily. Here are the 8 best Costco foods for losing weight that shoppers just discovered.

Wild Caught Salmon

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Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CPT, a Board Certified Sports Dietitian and co-author of the Flat Belly Cookbook for Dummies, recommends stocking up on wild-caught salmon, either frozen or fresh, at Costco. “Wild-caught salmon is rich in Omega-3s for heart and brain health,” she told our sister site, Eat This, Not That!. “These healthy fats are essential as we age, helping to reduce inflammation and support cognitive function. Costco offers a variety of wild-caught salmon options that can be baked, grilled, or pan-seared for easy, nutritious meals.”

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Fairlife Nutrition Plan Chocolate Protein Shake

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I, and lots of influencers and fitness pros, are obsessed with Fairlife Nutrition Plan Chocolate Protein Shakes. TikToker Ali Olson, who has lost 105 pounds, recently shared a post showing the protein-packed milk in a video detailing her daily diet. Collingwood is also a big fan of Fairlife milk products. “It is delicious and also has a higher protein content than ‘regular’ milk due to how they process the milk,” she says. “It is good for post-workout, on your cereal, in a smoothie, or just a glass with dinner.”

Organic Meat

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Costco is an excellent resource for organic meat. “Would I rather eat grass-fed, organic meat all the time? Sure, but I’m not a gazillionaire. That’s why I tend to stock up on beef (usually steaks and chuck roast) as well as chicken (organic if I can find it) while I’m there,” writesRuth Soukup, a midlife health and mindset coach, in an Instagram post.

Kevin’s Natural Foods Cilantro Lime Chicken

Holly Hillyer lost 45 pounds and swears that Kevin’s Natural Foods Cilantro Lime Chicken is a must-buy. “Throw this over a bed of cauliflower rice for a quick meal,” she suggests about the paleo-friendly and ultra-clean meals that are easy to prepare and found in the refrigerator section of the warehouse.

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Yasso Cookies n’ Cream Greek Yogurt Bars

Yasso Greek Yogurt Bars are a dessert that offers some health benefits. My daughter prefers Yasso Cookies n’ Cream Greek Yogurt Bars over traditional ice cream bars – and they cost a fraction of the price compared to Whole Foods or Target. Each bar is just 90 calories and offers 5 grams of protein.

Poppi Prebiotic Soda

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There’s a reason Pepsi purchased Poppi Prebiotic Soda for nearly 2 billion dollars. The soda isn’t just delicious, the apple cider vinegar and gut-boosting beverage offers health benefits, including improved digestion. I always pick up a box of these on a trip to the warehouse.

Mush Overnight Oats

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Don’t have time to make overnight oats from scratch? Keep a box of Mush Overnight Oats in your fridge. The individually packaged and portioned overnight oats are great for a quick but nutritious breakfast.

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Tru Grill Grilled Chicken Strips

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Keep pre-cooked, lean proteins on hand for easy and nutritious dinners that will fill you up. Hillyer also recommends Tru Grill precooked Grilled Chicken Strips. “Heat and top a salad for an easy protein with dinner. My kids also love these just dipped in ketchup,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.