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This 35-Year-Old Finally Built Muscle After Stopping These 7 Training Mistakes

Transform your physique with science-backed training strategies.

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Have you been hitting the gym for years without seeing the results you want? You're not alone. Like many fitness enthusiasts, Olivia Jarvis, nutrition and fitness coach, spent years jumping between workout trends—from Pilates to marathon training—without achieving her desired physique. "I started questioning myself and thinking not only is my body broken, but am I just one of those people who could never really have an athletic physique," she shares.


"I had just kind of accepted that I would always have, say, fluffier arms, and I would never look lean or defined." After discovering key training principles that transformed her body in just six months, she's sharing her insights, backed by scientific research, to help others break through their plateaus.

Mistake: Training on an Empty Stomach

"I can't tell you the difference in the quality of my sessions when I don't train fasted," Olivia explains in her post. She found herself flagging halfway through workouts, especially during intense lower body days. Her solution? Complex carbs before training, like oats or a quick-energy combination of banana, corn cakes, and peanut butter for early morning sessions. This approach aligns with current research on exercise nutrition and muscle preservation.

Mistake: Following Random Workouts

The biggest game-changer was consistency in programming. "If you want your body to change and you want to get stronger and make gains, you need to be following the same program, not just doing random Instagram workouts," Olivia emphasizes.

Dr. Roger Fielding, from Tufts University, supports this approach, adding that "maintaining muscle mass and muscle function is really important for quality of life." Research shows that consistent strength training programs can lead to significant improvements in muscle strength and function.

Mistake: Not Timing Rest Periods

One simple but effective change was timing rest periods between sets. "I never used to actually time my rests," Olivia admits. She now maintains strict rest periods, typically 180 seconds between sets for larger muscle groups. This structured approach to rest allows for proper muscle recovery between sets and optimal strength gains.

Mistake: Rushing Through Sets

"Following the tempo for exercises and stimulating my muscles has really changed my training," Olivia reveals. Dr. Wendy Kohrt, an aging expert at the University of Colorado, adds important context: "It's not about getting big muscles. In fact, most people who do strength training don't see much of a change in muscle size."

RELATED: I'm a Nutritionist and Here Are 19 Protein Truths You Need to Hear

Mistake: Doing Too Much Cardio

Contrary to popular belief, Olivia discovered that less cardio was more effective for muscle preservation. This aligns with Dr. Joseph Ciccolo's research at Columbia University, who notes that "regular strength training is associated with lower risk of cardiovascular disease and other chronic diseases." During her transformation, she limited runs to 4-6 kilometers, focusing instead on walking as steady-state cardio to manage hunger levels.

Mistake: Partial Muscle Training

Olivia emphasizes the importance of targeting all muscle groups properly. "We're targeting the glute from all different areas and different points. I feel like I never used to target my upper glute, for example." This comprehensive approach is supported by current exercise science, which recommends training all major muscle groups at least twice per week for optimal results.

Mistake: Training Without Focus

The final piece of the puzzle was mental focus during workouts. "Don't underestimate the power of that mind-to-muscle connection," Olivia advises. This mental engagement during training has been shown to enhance muscle activation and overall workout effectiveness. Dr. Ciccolo's research further suggests that strength training can have significant mental health benefits, potentially "helping to lower certain hormones in the body associated with stress and depression."

RELATED: This Grandmother Lost 200 Pounds in 23 Months by Walking Just 2 Blocks a Day

How to Start Your Strength Training Journey

For those inspired to begin their strength training journey, experts recommend starting gradually. "Start slowly and build up very gradually," advises Dr. Kohrt. If possible, consider working with a qualified trainer initially. "People naturally learn to walk as part of growing up. But you don't necessarily learn how to lift weights," explains Dr. Ciccolo.

For those looking to break through their fitness plateaus, Olivia's transformation story, combined with scientific research, offers a blueprint for success. By implementing these strategic changes and maintaining consistency, you can work toward achieving your strength and fitness goals—regardless of your starting point or past struggles. Remember to consult with healthcare providers before starting any new exercise routine, especially if you're new to strength training. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 31 Fitness Tips Every Beginner Needs to Look Sexy, According to Coaches.

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Have you been hitting the gym for years without seeing the results you want? You're not alone. Like many fitness enthusiasts, Olivia Jarvis, nutrition and fitness coach, spent years jumping between workout trends—from Pilates to marathon training—without achieving her desired physique. "I started questioning myself and thinking not only is my body broken, but am I just one of those people who could never really have an athletic physique," she shares.


"I had just kind of accepted that I would always have, say, fluffier arms, and I would never look lean or defined." After discovering key training principles that transformed her body in just six months, she's sharing her insights, backed by scientific research, to help others break through their plateaus.

Mistake: Training on an Empty Stomach

"I can't tell you the difference in the quality of my sessions when I don't train fasted," Olivia explains in her post. She found herself flagging halfway through workouts, especially during intense lower body days. Her solution? Complex carbs before training, like oats or a quick-energy combination of banana, corn cakes, and peanut butter for early morning sessions. This approach aligns with current research on exercise nutrition and muscle preservation.

Mistake: Following Random Workouts

The biggest game-changer was consistency in programming. "If you want your body to change and you want to get stronger and make gains, you need to be following the same program, not just doing random Instagram workouts," Olivia emphasizes.

Dr. Roger Fielding, from Tufts University, supports this approach, adding that "maintaining muscle mass and muscle function is really important for quality of life." Research shows that consistent strength training programs can lead to significant improvements in muscle strength and function.

Mistake: Not Timing Rest Periods

One simple but effective change was timing rest periods between sets. "I never used to actually time my rests," Olivia admits. She now maintains strict rest periods, typically 180 seconds between sets for larger muscle groups. This structured approach to rest allows for proper muscle recovery between sets and optimal strength gains.

Mistake: Rushing Through Sets

"Following the tempo for exercises and stimulating my muscles has really changed my training," Olivia reveals. Dr. Wendy Kohrt, an aging expert at the University of Colorado, adds important context: "It's not about getting big muscles. In fact, most people who do strength training don't see much of a change in muscle size."

RELATED: I'm a Nutritionist and Here Are 19 Protein Truths You Need to Hear

Mistake: Doing Too Much Cardio

Contrary to popular belief, Olivia discovered that less cardio was more effective for muscle preservation. This aligns with Dr. Joseph Ciccolo's research at Columbia University, who notes that "regular strength training is associated with lower risk of cardiovascular disease and other chronic diseases." During her transformation, she limited runs to 4-6 kilometers, focusing instead on walking as steady-state cardio to manage hunger levels.

Mistake: Partial Muscle Training

Olivia emphasizes the importance of targeting all muscle groups properly. "We're targeting the glute from all different areas and different points. I feel like I never used to target my upper glute, for example." This comprehensive approach is supported by current exercise science, which recommends training all major muscle groups at least twice per week for optimal results.

Mistake: Training Without Focus

The final piece of the puzzle was mental focus during workouts. "Don't underestimate the power of that mind-to-muscle connection," Olivia advises. This mental engagement during training has been shown to enhance muscle activation and overall workout effectiveness. Dr. Ciccolo's research further suggests that strength training can have significant mental health benefits, potentially "helping to lower certain hormones in the body associated with stress and depression."

RELATED: This Grandmother Lost 200 Pounds in 23 Months by Walking Just 2 Blocks a Day

How to Start Your Strength Training Journey

For those inspired to begin their strength training journey, experts recommend starting gradually. "Start slowly and build up very gradually," advises Dr. Kohrt. If possible, consider working with a qualified trainer initially. "People naturally learn to walk as part of growing up. But you don't necessarily learn how to lift weights," explains Dr. Ciccolo.

For those looking to break through their fitness plateaus, Olivia's transformation story, combined with scientific research, offers a blueprint for success. By implementing these strategic changes and maintaining consistency, you can work toward achieving your strength and fitness goals—regardless of your starting point or past struggles. Remember to consult with healthcare providers before starting any new exercise routine, especially if you're new to strength training. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 31 Fitness Tips Every Beginner Needs to Look Sexy, According to Coaches.

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Most of us know the crushing feeling of looking in the mirror and not recognizing the person staring back. James Marsden was there too, carrying an extra 50 pounds that represented more than just weight—it was physical proof of his mental struggles. "Those extra 50 pounds were not just fat, it was proof of how lazy, useless and depressed I truly was," James admits in his post. As a weight loss coach who now helps busy office workers transform their bodies without upending their lives, James has guided over 300 clients to sustainable results through practical nutrition, mindset shifts, and habit change. His journey revealed that the real battle isn't fought in the gym but in your head. Keep reading to discover the seven basic mistakes that were holding James back—fixing them might be exactly what you need to finally see results, too.

Your mind gives up too soon

Your brain is constantly trying to protect you from discomfort, even when that discomfort leads to growth. James discovered this when working out with a friend who pushed him beyond what he thought was his limit. "I was about to put the weights down when he just said, one more rep. So I pushed another rep, then he said one more again," James recalls. "Five more reps beyond what I thought was my limit. It hit me like a ton of bricks." Your body is capable of so much more than your mind allows. The real transformation happens when you push past these mental barriers. As James learned, "Progressive overload isn't just waffle. It's the only way that your body changes."

You think in all-or-nothing terms

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We've all been there—one slice of pizza turns into "might as well eat the whole thing because my diet is already ruined." This all-or-nothing thinking sabotaged James for months. "I remember sitting in my car outside of a fast food place with an empty bag, feeling worthless, like shit on my shoe. I was about to give up completely because I'd failed," James says. The breakthrough came when he did the math and realized that one meal represents just 5% of his weekly nutrition. One bad choice can't undo all your progress unless you let it. As James puts it, "When you mess up, just make the next meal good. This simple mindset shift is why I never fully quit again."

You worry too much about what others think

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That paralyzing fear that everyone is judging your every move at the gym? It's all in your head. James spent three months avoiding unfamiliar equipment because he was terrified of looking stupid. "I'd walk around pretending that I knew what I was doing, terrified everyone was judging me," James admits. But when he finally tried something new, he realized, "Nobody gives a damn. Everyone was completely focused on their own workout." The reality is that people are too wrapped up in their own fitness journeys to notice yours. As James learned, "Don't let your fear of judgment rob you of your results."

You don't track your progress

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For months, James thought he was eating right but couldn't understand why nothing changed. "The first three months of my journey, I saw no results. I actually got a lot bigger," James says. "I thought I was eating right, but I couldn't understand why the scales wasn't moving." Everything changed when he started tracking. "My breakthrough came when I started to track everything. My calories, my protein, my weight at the gym," James explains. He discovered he was consuming nowhere near enough protein. Your memory and perception will constantly lie to you about what you ate and how hard you worked. As James puts it, "What gets measured gets managed. If you're not tracking, you're just guessing."

You rely too much on the scale

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Motivation will inevitably die at some point. James hit this wall four months in, when the scale hadn't moved for weeks. "I felt exhausted. Started to wonder, was it even worth it?" James recalls. That negative inner voice got louder: "Look at yourself. Still fat. This isn't working. Just quit like you always do." He almost listened until he compared current photos to his before pictures. "The scale might not have moved, but my body had changed. My shoulders were way more defined. My waist was smaller," James says. These visual proofs silenced that lying voice in his head. "Take pictures from day one. Even if you hate how you look," James advises. "When motivation does die, and it will, those photos become your fuel."

You focus too much on cardio, not enough on nutrition

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Endless cardio sessions might make you feel virtuous, but they won't transform your body if your nutrition is off. "I was killing myself on the treadmill while ignoring what's on your plate," James admits. "Every day, 45 minute grueling cardio sessions, thinking I was burning fat, that I'd be so tired at the end of it that I'd need more food." When he finally tracked his nutrition and increased his protein intake from 50 to 150 grams daily while training less, his body transformed. "You cannot outrun a bad diet," James emphasizes. "One hour of intense cardio burns 500 calories, which is just one large muffin. But protein, it builds muscle, burns fat, and it's a 24-7 advocate for your body." Your diet determines 80% of your results; the gym handles the remaining 20%.

You blame your genetics

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Blaming genetics is the ultimate cop-out that removes all responsibility. "It was my genetics. This was my favourite excuse," James confesses. "I would tell myself this week in, week out, just so I didn't have to feel responsible, so I didn't have to have the problem and deal with it." Your brain creates convenient stories to protect your habits and keep you comfortable. As James realized, "Your brain will create stories to protect your habits." The solution? Find one person who has achieved what you want and immerse yourself in their content and mindset. Their beliefs will gradually become yours. James learned that "Most weight loss isn't about your body. It's about reprogramming your mind."

You give up when progress slows down

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Transformation doesn't occur on a perfect upward trajectory. "Four months in, I was there. The scale hadn't moved in weeks," James remembers. That's exactly when most people quit, just before breakthrough results appear. James discovered that plateaus are normal parts of the journey, not signs that you're failing. Looking back at his before pictures during these tough times provided the perspective he needed to keep going. "When motivation does die, and it will, those photos become your fuel," James emphasizes. Every time you choose to persist when you'd rather quit, you're not just changing your body—you're rebuilding your mental resilience.

You expect fast results

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Weight loss takes time, and James had to learn patience. "I thought I was eating right, but I couldn't understand why the scales wasn't moving," he says. Society conditions us to expect immediate results, but real transformation happens gradually. James discovered that consistent small actions compound over time, creating lasting change. Rather than looking for dramatic weekly losses, he learned to appreciate subtle improvements in energy, strength, and how his clothes fit. The 50 pounds didn't disappear overnight—they melted away through consistent application of these lessons. Sustainable weight loss isn't about quick fixes; it's about building habits that last.

You try to do it all alone

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James's breakthrough moment came when a friend pushed him past his limits in the gym. "After my usual pathetic effort, I was about to put the weights down when he just said, one more rep," James recalls. That outside perspective revealed how much more he was capable of. Many of us try to tackle weight loss in isolation, either from embarrassment or believing we should be able to figure it out ourselves. But having support—whether a friend, coach, or community—provides accountability, perspective, and encouragement when motivation wanes. James learned that the right support system doesn't just make the journey easier; it makes success more likely.

You forget the mental game matters most

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At its core, James's transformation wasn't about diets or workout plans—it was about changing his relationship with himself. "Your brain made you overweight. You cannot trust it," he realized. All seven mistakes share a common thread: the battle happens in your mind before it happens in your body. "Most weight loss isn't about your body. It's about reprogramming your mind," James emphasizes. When you address the mental patterns that created your current reality, physical transformation follows naturally. That's how James lost 50 pounds, and that's the blueprint he now shares with his clients—proof that sustainable change starts from within. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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If you've ever felt frustrated with dieting, you're not alone. After 15 years of trying different weight loss approaches, Martin Balcaitis, 45, Senior Vice President of Operations at Lindora in Orange County, California, finally discovered the game-changing mistake that had been holding him back all along. His transformation story proves that sometimes the smallest changes can lead to the biggest results.

The Wake-Up Call

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"I feel like I've always been trying to lose weight!" Martin tells Body Network. "But now that I'm in my mid-40s, I know that it isn't so much about the number on the scale, but my overall health for longevity – that was my real motivator this time around."

The Crucial Discovery

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Standing at 5'9" and weighing 222 pounds, Martin thought he had tried everything. Then came the revelation that changed everything: "I thought I was eating a correct portion for myself, but eyeballing wasn't my friend," he admits. "A food scale was crucial to my success."

RELATED: 30 Best Protein Foods That Melt Fat Almost Instantly

The Transformation

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The results speak for themselves. In just six months, Martin dropped from 222 pounds to 165 pounds, achieving a remarkable transformation in his body composition. "My overall body fat percentage went from 36% to 15% in 6 months," he shares proudly.

A New Approach to Food

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Unlike previous attempts at weight loss, Martin's new strategy didn't involve cutting out foods entirely. "I haven't eliminated anything – which is great!" he explains. "I simply know how to manage portions and adjust my eating that day if I know I'm going to have something decadent or high-carb during the day."

A Day of Measured Eating

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Martin's daily menu is both satisfying and strategic. "Breakfast is typically one egg, some egg whites and cottage cheese blended in what I call my 'protein eggs' with spinach and some meat," he says. "Lunch will be a salad with a yogurt-based dressing and dinner is roasted vegetables and lean protein – also three Lindora snacks too!"

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The Workout Strategy

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Time management proved to be another crucial lesson. "Time can always get the best of us so I make sure to workout in the morning," Martin explains. "I make too many excuses to not go to the gym after work." His dedication has paid off: "I can actually see some abs poking through now!"

Dealing with Setbacks

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Martin maintains a realistic approach to challenges. "Sometimes the motivation just isn't there and you have to tell yourself that it's a marathon, not a sprint," he reflects. "Don't beat yourself up if you skip a workout or can't go the distance you wanted to."

The Power of Accountability

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Making the journey public became a powerful tool. "Be vocal about it. I told people I was trying to lose weight to help hold me accountable," he advises. His commitment extended to his wardrobe: "I donated clothes once they were too big for me – I didn't want to buy big clothes again, so I had to keep going!"

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A Science-Based Approach

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Martin emphasizes the importance of data in his success. "Knowledge is power, so I would encourage everyone to get a body composition analysis done so they have a true understanding of what their numbers are to make a plan of attack," he recommends.

The Path to Success

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For those inspired by his journey, Martin offers encouraging advice: "Just start! You don't have to wait for a certain day, you don't have to have a big goal in mind – just take little steps and once you see some progress it will motivate you to keep going."

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Maintaining Momentum

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His approach to staying motivated remains practical and empowering. "If I am feeling badly about my body – it is 100% in my control to fix it," he states. "Having a plan and solutions is the answer and putting that plan into action is key." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Laurence Codd, the star of the Fit and 50 YouTube channel, is a living example of how you can get fit and build muscle at any age. After starting his fitness journey in his mid-40s, Laurence transformed his body and now shares his journey with the world. He not only shared a video explaining his transformation, but he also spoke with Physique Coach Scott Tousignant on the Lose Fat Get Jacked YouTube channel. In both videos, he details his journey from being overweight in his 30s to getting ripped and staying lean in his 50s. Here is how Laurence says he got fit slim and how he stays lean with a balanced approach to fitness and nutrition.


How Laurence Started His Transformation

Laurence’s fitness journey began when he was overweight in his 30s and felt like life was passing him by. As he entered his mid-40s, he found motivation from his son and started going to the gym. It took him two years to get shredded for the first time. Reflecting on that moment, he said:

“The motivation to start training was much deeper than the story I've told in the past... I needed more time. The only way to accomplish this was to get into the best shape possible to live a longer and healthier life.”

Focusing on Balanced Nutrition

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Laurence’s approach to dieting changed over the years. In the beginning, he followed a very unbalanced diet, which led to inconsistent results. Now, he focuses on balanced eating without extremes.

“I would try and make it all up the next day fasting as long as possible,” he says, referring to his earlier days. “Balanced dieting is the best thing I've ever learned... If you overeat one day, you don't have to reduce all those calories the next day. You can spread the reduction out over the next week.”

This flexibility helps him stay lean without the stress of extreme bulking or cutting phases.

Managing Calories and Staying Lean

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Laurence emphasizes the importance of maintaining a healthy calorie balance. He believes in making small, manageable adjustments to achieve weight loss while maintaining muscle.

“I lost eight pounds really—eight and a half pounds over eight months,” Laurence explains. “It wasn’t a lot of weight to lose, but I started at maintenance and only had to cut 100 calories a day.”

He stresses that it's important not to go overboard with cutting calories too quickly, especially as you age. For him, slow, steady progress is the key.

“I didn’t have to cut many calories to lose that weight. It was more about staying consistent,” he says.

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Building Muscle Without Gaining Excess Weight

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Laurence Codd attributes much of his success to weight training. He explains his strategy of carefully managing his weight during bulking phases: “I didn’t want to get too fluffy to be shirtless on the internet,” Laurence says with a laugh. “I can move my weight at will. If I decide I want to gain five pounds, I can. If I want to lose five pounds, I can.”

This approach allows him to avoid long, grueling cutting phases that are difficult to maintain and can be mentally draining.

Importance of Consistency Over Time

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A big part of Laurence’s success comes from staying consistent with his training and nutrition. He encourages others not to go too hard too quickly but to build up their fitness gradually.

“You can definitely push yourself too hard and too far,” Laurence warns. “A lot of people start at 110%, and they don’t realize that you’ve got to start at maybe 50% and work your way up.”

By gradually increasing the intensity of his workouts, Laurence has been able to stay injury-free and continue progressing in his 50s.

The Role of Sleep and Recovery

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Laurence also emphasizes the importance of recovery, especially as you get older. He mentions that he struggled with sleep during his cut phase but recognizes that maintaining good sleep habits is crucial for overall well-being and performance.

“I had some trouble with insomnia... Is that because I got a lot going on in my world right now, or is it because I’m so lean? It’s hard to say, but sleep is essential,” he notes.

RELATED: 15 Quick And Easy Protein-Rich Breakfasts That Are Dietitian Approved

Final Thoughts on Staying Lean After 50

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For Laurence, the key to staying lean after 50 is balance—balance in nutrition, fitness, and life. His message is clear: you don’t need to go to extremes to achieve your fitness goals. By managing calories, maintaining a consistent workout routine, and staying flexible with your diet, you can stay lean and build muscle even in your 50s and beyond.

“It's way easier when you get lean and stay lean year-round. Your body doesn't rebel against you,” Laurence concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Liz Hilliard, 70, is living, breathing proof that age is just a number. The pilates instructor, who trains out of her studio Hilliard Studio Method, discovered the workout when she was 48, and completely transformed her approach to health. Over the years she has managed to learn a few things about longevity, revealing her secrets in an interview with Body Network.


Liz Used to Rely on Traditional Workouts

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Liz, who lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, explains that she was athletic throughout her childhood and enjoyed playing basketball and other team sports. “Traditional workouts always felt boring and offered minimal results for the time and energy put into them, " she says. Until I was in my late 40s, I relied on tennis and walking as my main sources of exercise.

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She Discovered Pilates at Age 48

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“At age 48, I attended my first Pilates class and immediately felt incredibly challenged. I even had fun, which led me to become certified in Pilates,” she says. In 2002, she opened her first personal Pilates training studio. “It was a successful business, and my clients were seeing real results. However, at age 51, while going through menopause, I noticed despite my Pilates workout, my belly fat was increasing, and my overall strength was decreasing as well, aka flabby arms and sagging bottom."

Fusing Strength Training with Pilates Was a Game-Changer

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"Inspired by my daughter, who was getting married and sculpting up for her wedding, I began researching heavy resistance training and hired my own personal trainer to try to sculpt my 51-year-old, menopausal body. We implemented heavy weight training, and I was determined to debunk the ‘bulking’ myth that most women feel about weightlifting," Liz says.

"The short story is that adding heavier resistance training to my core-centric Pilates workout began to sculpt my body in ways I hadn’t seen before using only traditional Pilates. That’s when I devised my Method. By incorporating heavy resistance with the core-centric exercises of Pilates, the Hilliard Studio Method was born."

She Shaved Inches Off Her Waistline

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Hillard, who has since authored the book "Be Powerful: Find Your Strength at Any Age" and co-hosts the Be Powerful Podcast, has remained 135 pounds throughout most of her life. “Muscle weighs more than fat, so I was replacing adipose tissue with muscle. My body was sculpting and changing at a rapid rate, especially given that I was in the throes of menopause. I lost inches around my waist, my arms became strong and sculpted, my abs flattened, and my glutes lifted. My entire body changed over the course of a year or less,” she says.

She Works Out 4 to 5 Times a Week

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What are the most important things she learned about getting in shape? “Find a workout that you enjoy, or you won’t stick with it. Our lives are busy, so finding a workout that efficiently provides resistance combined with stretch and enough cardio is essential. I do my workout at Hilliard Studio Method 4 to 5 times a week because we change the workout daily, moving through compound exercising and utilizing different resistance tools like balls, gliders, and bands to continuously cause muscle confusion and avoid the dreadful plateau, both mentally and physically. We keep the work fun and evolving, low impact yet high intensity. The amazing side effect of getting in physical shape is that one’s mental and emotional outlook becomes far more positive. Strength training like I do at HSM is the fountain of youth,” she continues.

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Get Your Steps In

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Her top workout suggestions? “Walk every day and everywhere. Get outside as often as possible to walk in nature. Bonus points if you walk with a friend. It’s built-in mental and physical therapy, which will not only help keep you fit but also lift your mood and keep your mind creative,” she says.

Strength Train Four Times a Week

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Also, strength training 4 times per week. “Strength training is an absolute requirement for healthy aging and simply means load-bearing exercises that require your muscles to engage. This can include anything from hand weights, resistance bands, weighted balls or any weighted object that taxes and builds skeletal muscles. Skeletal muscle strength allows the body to burn calories and maintain a healthy weight while setting the body up for success when inevitable accidents happen, so you are far less likely to avoid falling and breaking bones,” she says.

It’s Never Too Late to Get in Shape

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What is her message for women out there who are struggling to get in shape? “It’s never too late, and you’re never too old or out of shape to start exercising. By simply getting out of your chair and going for a 20-minute walk, you’ll have the immediate feedback of feeling better physically, mentally, and emotionally,” she says.

Make Exercise Social

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She also recommends connecting with friends to walk, workout, “and just talk every day,” she says. “Walking and talking with a friend or acquaintance is the perfect combo for both physical and mental health! Add resistance training to your workout, which can be as simple as a plank for as long as you can hold it until you work for up to a minute. Then go for 2 minutes or more. This is resistance training and incredible for your core and overall fitness! Then add a pushup on your knees, which is basically a moving plank that strengthens your arms, back, and core, not to mention flattens your abs. Do as many as you can, and try to work up to 20 or more. Mostly, just keep moving every single day. Our bodies are designed to move. The fastest way to early aging is to stop moving. The move it or lose it cliché is true.”

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Try the Hilliard Studio Method at Home

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She says she “takes working out to the next level to produce results that are nothing short of a total mind-body transformation for women and men of all ages and stages,” she says. “Hilliard Studio Method group classes are designed to be taken on a regular basis. Each class is different from the day before. Our energetic and encouraging trainers utilize a variety of powerful movements and workout tools in a high intensity, low impact method driven by empowering, beat-driven music; think personal training in a group setting.” Her classes can also be done virtually via an online streaming platform and live Zoom classes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 20 Superfoods for People Over 50.

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15 Daily Habits to Lose 5-10 Pounds in 30 Days
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Depending on your starting weight, losing five to 10 pounds in a month is possible to do in a healthy way. Making a few specific lifestyle and dietary changes and sticking to them will positively impact overall health as well as encourage weight loss. “The foundation of successful weight loss remains a healthy, calorie-controlled diet combined with increased physical activity,” says the Mayo Clinic. “For successful, long-term weight loss, you must make permanent changes in your lifestyle and health habits.” Here are 15 daily habits shown to help lose up to ten pounds in 30 days.

Eliminate Empty Calories

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Alcohol is full of empty calories, so it’s best to cut down or simply stop drinking it altogether. Every calorie counts when you’re trying to lose weight, so make sure you use those calories to fill your body with healthy, nutrient-dense choices. Drinking too much also disrupts sleep.

Are You Actually Hungry?

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Eat when you’re hungry, and only when you’re hungry. “Listening to your hunger works much better than relying on willpower,” Kayla Kopp, RD, LD, tells the Cleveland Clinic. “When you’re tempted to overeat, have a conversation with yourself: Are you feeling hungry, are you bored or are you feeling emotional? Will eating right now get you closer to your goal?”

Work Out First Thing

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Working out first thing in the morning means you don’t have to make time for it later. It also starts the day off on a good note. No excuses!

Don’t Skip Breakfast

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Studies show people who eat breakfast (provided it’s a healthy one) make better food choices for the rest of the day. "Studies have found that although people who skip breakfast eat slightly fewer calories during the day, they tend to have higher body mass index, or BMI," Christy C. Tangney, PhD, tells Rush University Medical Center.

Take the Stairs

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Walk as much as possible—park away from the grocery store entrance and take the stairs when possible. Walking will encourage fat burning and mental wellness, and you can do it throughout the day, no equipment needed.

Count Your Calories

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This one is boring but crucial—to lose weight, you need to take in less calories than you’re burning off. “For example, to lose 1 to 2 pounds a week — a rate that experts consider safe — your food consumption should provide 500 to 1,000 calories less than your total weight-maintenance calories,” says Harvard Health.

Try Intermittent Fasting

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Intermittent fasting can be a powerful weight loss tool for some. “The weight loss effects of time-restricted eating derive primarily from achieving a negative energy balance,” Richard Joseph, MD, tells Harvard Health. “If you maintain your regular diet and then limit the time window during which you eat, it is likely that you will eat a few hundred fewer calories per day.”

No Nighttime Snacking

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Snacking can undermine your healthy eating weight loss plan. “Try to eat most of your daily calories before sitting down to relax for the night,” Kopp tells the Cleveland Clinic. “Many of us have a tendency to overeat without thinking about it while we watch TV after dinner, and we tend to forget just how much we’ve had before calling it a night.”

Be Picky About Carbs

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You don’t have to eliminate carbs—but be choosy about them. “Not all carbohydrates are created equal,” says Corewell Health. “Eating a slice of white bread won’t give your body the same nutrition as eating a slice of whole grain bread. When you’re looking for options for carbohydrates, look at the ingredients. If the first ingredient is a whole grain (like whole wheat), you’re going in the right direction.”

Eliminate Temptation

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Keep junk food out of sight and out of mind. “Don’t keep problem foods around the house and/or at work,” says UC Davis Health. A problem food is a food that you are likely to eat too much of or too often if readily available.”

Get Enough Sleep

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Sleep is important for weight loss. “No one can make mindful food choices when they’re tired. Even missing an hour of sleep can increase your appetite because your body is craving that energy and food is fuel for your body,” psychologist Susan Albers, PsyD, tells the Cleveland Clinic. “You need a clear, focused head to make healthier food choices.”

Lift Weights

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“Resistance training can also be a really effective way of losing weight," Tessa Strain, physical activity epidemiologist at the University of Cambridge, tells The Telegraph. “All weight loss comes down to a calories in/calories out equation. resistance training is a really effective way of losing weight because you’re expending energy, which involves burning calories.”

Manage Stress

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Stress can undermine your weight loss efforts. “More commonly, people turn to — or away from — food as a way to help deal with stress,” says Penn Medicine. “Your metabolism can change if you regularly eat large amounts of food or don’t eat enough or at all.”

No Junk Food

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Ultra-processed foods are terrible for weight loss. Not only will they not fill you up, they could make you hungrier. “Processed and fast foods contain enhanced ingredients that hit the dopamine center in your brain and make you want more,” Dr. Albers tells the Cleveland Clinic. “They are designed to be addictive to the brain.”

Drink More Water

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Choose water over high-calorie drinks. “Sometimes we respond to thirst signals by eating — when actually what our bodies want is water,” Dr. Albers explains. “It’s easy to confuse our thirst and hunger signals, or to override thirst signals.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Focusing on long-term health and wellness will make weight loss easier.

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Can you lose a significant amount of weight just by walking every day? Yes, absolutely! Not only does walking burn fat, help lower blood pressure, and improve cholesterol levels, but it also does wonders for your mental state as well. “You need to make it part of your routine,” exercise physiologist Katie Lawton, MEd. tells Cleveland Clinic Health Essentials. “This is about adjusting your lifestyle for your health.” TikTok influencer Alex ( @alex.fitt) lost 40 pounds just by walking—here’s how she did it.

Don’t Start Big

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Alex makes the important point that it’s better to start off slow to build sustainable habits. You don’t have to kickstart your fitness regimen with two-hour walks. Even just half an hour will make a difference to your mood and your health, and encourage you to do it again the next day.

Walking After Meals

Alex says she started off her walking program by simply taking a 15 minute walk after a big meal. Research shows walking after meals can benefit blood sugar. “Exercise impacts your blood sugar quickly, often within a few minutes,” Shannon Knapp, MEd, BSN, RN, CDCES, tells the Cleveland Clinic. “And over time, physical activity helps your body use insulin more effectively, decreasing the insulin resistance we often see in diabetes.”

Walking In the Morning

Alex would start her day with a walk. “Getting outside gives you a chance to enjoy fresh air and nature,” says Henry Ford Health. “Walking, like any form of exercise, reduces stress and anxiety. You’ll start the day with a positive attitude, better able to manage challenges during the day.”

Long Walk After Dinner

Alex would save her long walk for after dinner, which studies show is very beneficial. “The closer we get to the evening, the less efficient our bodies are at using insulin to deal with blood glucose, making it harder to keep blood glucose levels healthy,” Dr Evelyn Parr from the Australian Catholic University’s Exercise and Nutrition Research Program tells the Sydney Morning Herald. “Yet this is when we have our biggest meal of the day.”

Smaller Waist

Alex says the biggest difference she noticed from walking was in her waist. “The faster, farther and more frequently you walk, the greater the benefits,” says the Mayo Clinic. “For example, you may start out as an average walker, and then work your way up to walking faster and walking a mile in a shorter amount of time than an average walker, similar to power walkers.”

Using Technology

Alex was thrilled the first time her watch buzzed when she hit 10k steps. Research shows people who track their fitness tend to be successful. “We’ve seen this rise of digital health tools in the last decade, and they provide a great way for people to access interventions to better their health,” Michele Patel, PhD, tells Stanford Medicine.

10,000 Steps a Day

No matter how long or short her walks, Alex always aims for 10,000 steps every day. “Evidence suggests that accumulating up to 10,000 steps per day is helpful for reducing chronic conditions such as cardiovascular disease, type 2 diabetes, and some forms of cancer,” John M. Jakicic, Ph.D, tells University of Kansas Medical Center. “And more recent evidence supports the benefits of reducing the risk of dementia.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Start slow and steady to build lasting habits. Even 10 minutes will make a difference.

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Denise Hamdan (@denisehamdan) is a food and fitness influencer on TikTok who regularly shares her tricks and tips on weight loss with her 71,000 followers. Hamdan lost a whopping 30 pounds by following a healthy diet and exercising. In a recent clip, she reveals her diet. “Hey y'all, here's everything I ate in one day to stay lean as someone who lost 30 pounds,” she says, revealing that she eats 1829 calories and 147 g of protein per day. Body Network’s Resident RDN, The Diet Diva, Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CPT, a Board Certified Sports Dietitian, co-author of the Flat Belly Cookbook for Dummies, also weighs in.

Breakfast

“I started my morning with my breakfast cocktail of oxygen and creatine. I just added the products to my showcase. So go check them out. I have my cocktail with Greek yogurt with strawberries and blueberries and a drizzle of granola,” she says. The total calories equal 157 and 14 g protein.

Lunch

“I'm in this phase where I eat nearly the same thing every day, and that's been scrambled eggs with cheese and spinach and some turkey bacon on the side,” she says about her lunch. “And honestly, I'm not complaining because it hits every time. Her total calories are 562 and 52 g protein.

Green Smoothie

Sometimes she will have a smoothie instead. “I made a cute little green smoothie and it was a little messy, but it was good regardless,” she says.

Pre-Workout Snack

“Later, for a pre-workout snack, I made some cute little tuna crackers with the green onion and bell pepper,” she says about the snack totaling 430 calories and 28 g protein.

OxyShred and Pre-Workout

“Then I got to the gym and made my OxyShred and pre-workout combo before hitting cardio and abs,” she continued. “It had me sweating.”

Protein Bar

“Right after my workout I had my favorite dark chocolate pretzel protein bar,” she continued.

Dinner

“And finally for dinner I made this super easy teriyaki chicken bowl over brown rice,” she said, adding that the 560 calorie and 52 gram protein meal is “so delicious and the macros forward are amazing.”

Dessert

“Lastly, for dessert, I had some chocolate 'cause I cannot end the day without a little sweet treat,” she said about the 120 calorie sweet treat.

RDN Weighs in

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“1800-1900 calories seems like a good amount for her, but I don’t know her exact age, height, weight, or exercise level,” says Collingwood. “147 grams of protein is probably more than she needs, but it is not dangerously high.”

Try Eating More Vegetables, Expert Says

“I see a little bit of fruit on the yogurt and a tiny bit of spinach in eggs and peppers in tuna but overall not much veggie intake (green smoothie was green powder and not real whole veggies) which is proven with only 16 grams of fiber for her overall day,” Collingwood continues. “I would recommend increasing veggies to aim for 25 grams of fiber each day.” She also likes how often she is eating with the meals and snacks in between. “I do worry about the OxyShred. I couldn’t find on their website anywhere exactly how much caffeine is in it and having it later in the day could definitely impact sleep since caffeine has a 5 hour half-life,” she points out.

💪🔥Body Booster: How much protein should you consume per day? Aim for 0.8 to one gram per pound of bodyweight. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week