Woman Who Lost 70 Pounds Shares 5 Hidden Truths: "It's About How You Feel, Not How You Look”

Do you want to lose weight the right way? Leanne Ellington, 41, stopped weighing herself after she topped the scales at 250 pounds. However, she decided to change her life and embarked on a weight loss journey, going on to lose 90 pounds. Here is everything she did to get down to 160 pounds.

She Was Overweight as a Kid

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Leanne’s weight struggles started when she was young. She explains that she was an “overweight, sedentary, unhealthy” kid and teenager, “and I brought that into adulthood with me.

She Stopped Weight Herself Because of the “Shame”

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“I stopped weighing myself after I reached 250 pounds. The shame became too much to bear,” she continues.

She Hit Her “Enough Is Enough” Point in Her 20s

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“I hit my ‘enough is enough’ point in my early 20s when I realized that I was a shell of a version of myself, and I was not showing up as a reflection of who I was created to be. Yes, it was about the weight, but it was more about getting my life back,” she continues. “Now I weigh around 160 pounds.”

Initially, She Lost the Weight Doing the Wrong Things

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Leann reveals that her weight loss journey didn’t get off to the healthiest start. “Unfortunately, I did it in all of the wrong ways, and I gave myself disordered eating and a horrible self and body image to get there,” she said about her initial 100-pound weight loss. “All in all, it took about a year.”

She Then Would Gain and Lose 20 to 40 Pounds at a Time

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After that, she went through the "bounce back effect" over and over. “I would gain/lose, gain/lose 20 to 40 pounds at a time until I healed the root problem,” she says.

She Discovered Strength Training

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This was when she discovered strength training. “I was fortunate enough to learn about the power of resistance training pretty early on, so I was able to functionally train (and tone) my entire body along the way. That was one of the ways I also prevented excess skin,” she says.

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She Eats Mostly Nutrient-Dense Foods

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As for her diet, Leann eats mostly “nutrient-dense, hearty, and delicious foods,” she says. “But I allow myself treats from time to time, never depriving myself. Deprivation and restriction is the opposite of freedom. But also, it's about making sure that my day-to-day way of eating is delicious and filled with foods that I can enjoy so that I don't ever feel deprived or restricted.”

Nothing Is Off Limits

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“Nothing is off-limits for me. I eat in a certain manner most of the time because I’m always focusing on how I want to feel (and eating foods that will help me reverse-engineer that). But I’m human, and allowing myself a delicious warm chocolate chip cookie or a slice of my favorite cake with buttercream is part of how I create balance in my life. Because if loving warm chocolate chip cookies is wrong, I don’t want to be right,” she says.

She “Retrained” Her Mind

What was her biggest achievement on her weight loss journey? “ It has more to do with the way I retrained my mind, my brain, and my heart when it comes to food and my body,” she says. “I completely healed and changed my relationship with food and my relationship with my body. I stepped into a new identity that reflects the woman that I want to be, rather than just focusing on a number.”

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And Stopped Using Foods as a “Coping Mechanism”

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She adds that when she was just focusing on a number as her definition of “success,” it kept her “chained inside a prison of restriction, deprivation, punishing my body, and doing things that didn’t serve me,” she says. “When I healed what was happening in my brain and learned how to be emotionally available to myself without using food as a coping mechanism, everything shifted.”

You Must Change Your Identity to Get Rid of Old Thinking

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“My biggest setback was the realization that I lost 100 pounds and totally made over my body, but my self-image was still seeing myself through (what I call) fat goggles,” she says. “Because I never changed my identity and self-image, I just brought the old way of thinking with me. But that was also a blessing because it forced me to go heal the problem and address the root cause of my relationship with food and my body. “

You Can’t “Positive Think” Your Way Through Body Struggles, She Says

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“I think one of the biggest misconceptions when it comes to body image is just to ‘positive think’ your way through body image struggles, but that never allows you to reconcile what’s actually happening in the present moment,” she says. “And those struggles will keep coming back if you don't address them.”

Feel Your Feelings

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“Now I've learned how to feel those feelings and hold space from them (even when they aren't fun), but then aim for peace and acceptance in that moment instead of slathering on ‘fake positivity’ because those emotions are so much more attainable in those moments,” she says. “And this is how I've learned to be emotionally available to myself in those negative body image moments -- instead of ignoring them, stuffing them down, or using feel-good affirmations that don't necessarily resonate.”

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She Is Happy That More People Are Talking About Body Image Struggles

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“Honestly, I’m a bit biased, but I do love that disordered eating and body image struggles are becoming more of a mainstream topic,” Leann admits. “15 years ago, when I first started my journey, it wasn’t being talked about, but it’s so important. Integrating the mental, emotional, and social aspects of health and fitness is critical.”

She Is Following Positive People

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A big part of her social media strategy is more based on who she is not following. “It’s really important to me that I’m not following anyone that is perpetuating an unhealthy version of health,” she says. “For me, it’s more important to follow people who are helping spread positivity on the mental/emotional side of things. Because when that is in balance, all of your physical goals become possible. And without it, the physical stuff falls by the wayside. Her favorite account? The Good Quote.

Be the Best Version of You

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Her biggest piece of advice? “Make sure that you’re stepping into the identity of the version of you that would have that body, that would have that relationship with food, and that would have that confidence in herself,” she says.

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It’s More Than Just Your Weight

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“It’s not just about your weight; it’s your thoughts about your weight. It’s not just about the food. It’s your thoughts about the food. It’s not just about your body. It’s your thoughts about your body. All of this matters so much more than the food or the workouts or the weight,” she says.

Stay Focused and Be Patient

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“For me, it’s about staying focused on the long game and thinking big-picture. When I'm only following my desires for the short-term gratification trap or rapid results, it's always at the expense of my health and goals AND at the expense of my happiness. Be the tortoise, not the hare,” she says.

Her Favorite Motivational Quote

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Her favorite motivational quote when it comes to fitness? “You will act like the sort of person you conceive yourself to be,” from Maxwell Maltz.

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Follow Leanne Ellington on Social Media

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For more on Leanne Ellington, Author, Educator, & Podcaster, head over to her website. You can also follow her on Instagram. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

The journey to better health often feels overwhelming, with each step on the scale seeming like a battle against impossible odds. Nikki Madoch knows this struggle intimately. As a certified nutrition coach and personal trainer who lost 70 pounds through Weight Watchers since 2020, she's learned that success isn't just about numbers on a scale. Her journey, which has inspired over 200,000 followers, reveals powerful lessons about sustainable weight loss that could transform your approach to healthy living.

Start Living Now: You Don't Have to Put Life on Hold

The fear of missing out on life's celebrations often holds people back from starting their weight loss journey. "I always thought that I had to be very restrictive when it came to holidays and events," Nikki reveals in her post. She discovered that success doesn't require complete sacrifice.

"I started to realize that it was fine. I wasn't going to lose all my results overnight, so enjoying a day or two of some indulgent things was fine," she explains. This realization transformed her approach to social events and holidays.

Nikki developed practical strategies to maintain balance: "I like to make sure I have a filling meal before I go to a family party or an event because then I'm not as likely to overeat on the indulgent stuff, but I can still enjoy it." She applies this same principle to everyday treats: "It's kind of like how I have an apple after dinner before I have dessert. It kind of fills me up a little bit, but then I'm still able to enjoy what I want to."

Build Your Confidence: Every Small Win Counts

Self-doubt and fear of judgment can be paralyzing. "For so long, I avoided even trying to lose weight because I felt shame and embarrassment," Nikki admits. Her confidence grew not just from physical changes, but from proving to herself that she could succeed.

"I was gaining this new confidence because I had never had success losing weight, and I couldn't believe I was actually doing it," she shares. The transformation went beyond numbers on a scale: "I for so long thought that if I could just figure this out, I felt like I could do everything else."

This newfound confidence helped her overcome concerns about others' opinions: "I was focusing on my health and my future, and the reason I was doing it is so that I could be a better person for other people as well."

Navigate Plateaus: Keep Your Journey Fresh

Weight loss isn't always linear, and that's okay. "Plateaus and burnout are completely normal," Nikki explains. She emphasizes the importance of creating sustainable habits you enjoy.

When facing her own plateau, Nikki learned to adapt: "I had to realize that there were some things that I could do to mix it up to kind of kickstart things again, whether it's switching up the foods I ate, the grocery stores I shopped at to get different ingredients and the workouts I was doing."

She discovered the importance of realistic goal-setting: "I had to reevaluate and realize, okay, maybe the goal weight I set for myself wasn't a healthy weight. Still to this day, I haven't gotten close to it, so maybe that was a little bit too low."

Choose Real Food: Find What Works for Your Body

The allure of fat-free and sugar-free options can be misleading. "When I first started, I was in a frenzy trying to find the lowest point of everything," Nikki recalls. She learned that there are better choices than these alternatives.

Her experience led to a more balanced approach: "I've really gotten a lot of those products out of what I eat and focus more on whole foods." However, she emphasizes flexibility: "Of course, I do have processed foods that I eat. It's all about balance and moderation."

This balance includes plenty of nutritious options: "I do eat a good amount of fruits and veggies and lots of protein, and I do have a lot of sources of whole foods."

Focus on Energy: Feel Better Every Day

Perhaps the most profound lesson was shifting focus from appearance to well-being. "Weight loss is so much more about how I feel than how I look," Nikki reflects. She found that increased energy, better sleep, and the ability to keep up with family became more motivating than aesthetic goals.

The changes were noticeable from the start: "Even a week in, I was feeling so much better. I had so much more energy and didn't feel as bloated, didn't feel just as weighed down."

This focus on feeling good became her lasting motivation: "What keeps me going is being able to move my body, being able to do fun activities outside, inside, run around with the dogs, play with my niece and nephew, and keep up with them, carry them around. Those things are what are important to me."

Make It Sustainable: Your Journey, Your Rules

Looking back on her success, Nikki emphasizes the importance of finding your own path: "I didn't restrict, I didn't do all of the things that I did in the past that made me miserable. I instead just took it a day at a time and focused on making it sustainable and enjoyable."

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The Science Behind Sustainable Weight Loss

While personal experiences are valuable, scientific research supports many of Nikki's discoveries. According to the National Weight Control Registry, "About 20% of people who lose at least 10% of their body weight maintain it for at least a year." The key factors mirror Nikki's approach: regular physical activity, consistent eating patterns, and ongoing self-monitoring.

Protein: Your Weight Loss Ally

The Mayo Clinic reports, "Protein decreases the hunger hormone ghrelin and increases hormones like peptide YY, GLP-1, and cholecystokinin, which promote feelings of fullness and satisfaction." This scientific finding explains why protein-rich meals can help maintain progress. For optimal results, WebMD suggests "Aiming for 25 to 30 grams of protein in each meal supports muscle maintenance" during weight loss.

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Timing Matters: When You Eat Counts

The National Institutes of Health says, "Consistent meal timing aligns with the body's circadian rhythms, potentially reducing the risk of obesity and improving metabolic health." They caution, "Eating during inactive periods, such as late at night, can disrupt the body's internal clock, leading to weight gain and metabolic issues."

The Power of Preparation

Research supports the importance of meal preparation. The Mayo Clinic reports, "Regular meal preparation is linked to healthier eating habits, increased fruit and vegetable intake, and reduced consumption of processed foods." Harvard Health adds, "Preparing meals in advance allows for better portion control, reducing the likelihood of overeating and aiding in weight management."

Balanced Nutrition: Your Foundation for Success

According to the Mayo Clinic, "A balanced diet for weight loss typically includes 40-50% carbohydrates, 25-35% fat, and 20-30% protein." This flexible approach allows for personalization while maintaining nutritional balance.

Harvard Health stresses fiber's importance, noting that "High-fiber foods like fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and legumes can help control hunger and prevent overeating. Studies suggest consuming 25-30 grams of fiber daily is associated with improved weight management outcomes."

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Hydration: The Often Overlooked Factor

WebMD highlights that "Staying hydrated is important for weight loss. Drinking 8-10 cups of water daily not only supports metabolism but can also help reduce hunger by promoting a feeling of fullness." This simple strategy complements other weight loss efforts and becomes especially important when increasing protein intake.

The journey to better health is deeply personal yet universal in many ways. As Nikki's experience and scientific research both confirm, sustainable weight loss comes from finding an approach that fits your life, not the other way around. Whether you're just starting or looking to maintain your progress, remember that feeling better – not just looking different – is the true measure of success. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.