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Woman Who Lost 70 Pounds Shares 5 Hidden Truths: "It's About How You Feel, Not How You Look”

Transform your weight loss journey with these honest insights.

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The journey to better health often feels overwhelming, with each step on the scale seeming like a battle against impossible odds. Nikki Madoch knows this struggle intimately. As a certified nutrition coach and personal trainer who lost 70 pounds through Weight Watchers since 2020, she's learned that success isn't just about numbers on a scale. Her journey, which has inspired over 200,000 followers, reveals powerful lessons about sustainable weight loss that could transform your approach to healthy living.

Start Living Now: You Don't Have to Put Life on Hold

The fear of missing out on life's celebrations often holds people back from starting their weight loss journey. "I always thought that I had to be very restrictive when it came to holidays and events," Nikki reveals in her post. She discovered that success doesn't require complete sacrifice.

"I started to realize that it was fine. I wasn't going to lose all my results overnight, so enjoying a day or two of some indulgent things was fine," she explains. This realization transformed her approach to social events and holidays.

Nikki developed practical strategies to maintain balance: "I like to make sure I have a filling meal before I go to a family party or an event because then I'm not as likely to overeat on the indulgent stuff, but I can still enjoy it." She applies this same principle to everyday treats: "It's kind of like how I have an apple after dinner before I have dessert. It kind of fills me up a little bit, but then I'm still able to enjoy what I want to."

Build Your Confidence: Every Small Win Counts

Self-doubt and fear of judgment can be paralyzing. "For so long, I avoided even trying to lose weight because I felt shame and embarrassment," Nikki admits. Her confidence grew not just from physical changes, but from proving to herself that she could succeed.

"I was gaining this new confidence because I had never had success losing weight, and I couldn't believe I was actually doing it," she shares. The transformation went beyond numbers on a scale: "I for so long thought that if I could just figure this out, I felt like I could do everything else."

This newfound confidence helped her overcome concerns about others' opinions: "I was focusing on my health and my future, and the reason I was doing it is so that I could be a better person for other people as well."

Navigate Plateaus: Keep Your Journey Fresh

Weight loss isn't always linear, and that's okay. "Plateaus and burnout are completely normal," Nikki explains. She emphasizes the importance of creating sustainable habits you enjoy.

When facing her own plateau, Nikki learned to adapt: "I had to realize that there were some things that I could do to mix it up to kind of kickstart things again, whether it's switching up the foods I ate, the grocery stores I shopped at to get different ingredients and the workouts I was doing."

She discovered the importance of realistic goal-setting: "I had to reevaluate and realize, okay, maybe the goal weight I set for myself wasn't a healthy weight. Still to this day, I haven't gotten close to it, so maybe that was a little bit too low."

Choose Real Food: Find What Works for Your Body

The allure of fat-free and sugar-free options can be misleading. "When I first started, I was in a frenzy trying to find the lowest point of everything," Nikki recalls. She learned that there are better choices than these alternatives.

Her experience led to a more balanced approach: "I've really gotten a lot of those products out of what I eat and focus more on whole foods." However, she emphasizes flexibility: "Of course, I do have processed foods that I eat. It's all about balance and moderation."

This balance includes plenty of nutritious options: "I do eat a good amount of fruits and veggies and lots of protein, and I do have a lot of sources of whole foods."

Focus on Energy: Feel Better Every Day

Perhaps the most profound lesson was shifting focus from appearance to well-being. "Weight loss is so much more about how I feel than how I look," Nikki reflects. She found that increased energy, better sleep, and the ability to keep up with family became more motivating than aesthetic goals.

The changes were noticeable from the start: "Even a week in, I was feeling so much better. I had so much more energy and didn't feel as bloated, didn't feel just as weighed down."

This focus on feeling good became her lasting motivation: "What keeps me going is being able to move my body, being able to do fun activities outside, inside, run around with the dogs, play with my niece and nephew, and keep up with them, carry them around. Those things are what are important to me."

Make It Sustainable: Your Journey, Your Rules

Looking back on her success, Nikki emphasizes the importance of finding your own path: "I didn't restrict, I didn't do all of the things that I did in the past that made me miserable. I instead just took it a day at a time and focused on making it sustainable and enjoyable."

RELATED: Woman Added 800 Calories Daily and Lost 10 Pounds Without Exercise in 90 Days

The Science Behind Sustainable Weight Loss

While personal experiences are valuable, scientific research supports many of Nikki's discoveries. According to the National Weight Control Registry, "About 20% of people who lose at least 10% of their body weight maintain it for at least a year." The key factors mirror Nikki's approach: regular physical activity, consistent eating patterns, and ongoing self-monitoring.

Protein: Your Weight Loss Ally

The Mayo Clinic reports, "Protein decreases the hunger hormone ghrelin and increases hormones like peptide YY, GLP-1, and cholecystokinin, which promote feelings of fullness and satisfaction." This scientific finding explains why protein-rich meals can help maintain progress. For optimal results, WebMD suggests "Aiming for 25 to 30 grams of protein in each meal supports muscle maintenance" during weight loss.

RELATED: 10 Ways She Found Her Happy Weight After 20 Years of Dieting

Timing Matters: When You Eat Counts

The National Institutes of Health says, "Consistent meal timing aligns with the body's circadian rhythms, potentially reducing the risk of obesity and improving metabolic health." They caution, "Eating during inactive periods, such as late at night, can disrupt the body's internal clock, leading to weight gain and metabolic issues."

The Power of Preparation

Research supports the importance of meal preparation. The Mayo Clinic reports, "Regular meal preparation is linked to healthier eating habits, increased fruit and vegetable intake, and reduced consumption of processed foods." Harvard Health adds, "Preparing meals in advance allows for better portion control, reducing the likelihood of overeating and aiding in weight management."

Balanced Nutrition: Your Foundation for Success

According to the Mayo Clinic, "A balanced diet for weight loss typically includes 40-50% carbohydrates, 25-35% fat, and 20-30% protein." This flexible approach allows for personalization while maintaining nutritional balance.

Harvard Health stresses fiber's importance, noting that "High-fiber foods like fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and legumes can help control hunger and prevent overeating. Studies suggest consuming 25-30 grams of fiber daily is associated with improved weight management outcomes."

RELATED: She Walked 15K Steps for a Year and Discovered Something Unexpected About Food Freedom

Hydration: The Often Overlooked Factor

WebMD highlights that "Staying hydrated is important for weight loss. Drinking 8-10 cups of water daily not only supports metabolism but can also help reduce hunger by promoting a feeling of fullness." This simple strategy complements other weight loss efforts and becomes especially important when increasing protein intake.

The journey to better health is deeply personal yet universal in many ways. As Nikki's experience and scientific research both confirm, sustainable weight loss comes from finding an approach that fits your life, not the other way around. Whether you're just starting or looking to maintain your progress, remember that feeling better – not just looking different – is the true measure of success. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Mom Lost 60 Pounds and Shares 6 Bits of “Brutal Honesty” About What She Learned

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Are you curious about what to expect after achieving your weight loss goals? You might be surprised what it is like, says one weight loss warrior. Emily Christensen is a social media influencer who lost 60 pounds after undergoing weight loss surgery and adopting a healthy lifestyle. She regularly shares tips and tricks with her followers about how she did it. In a new post, she reveals the truth about being overweight and thin. “Some brutal honesty from who has spent the majority of her life feeling fat and longed to be skinny,” she writes in the Instagram post.

When You Lose Weight, More Problems Surface

The first truth? You might find underlying problems after slimming down. “When you’re over weight that’s the only problem you want to solve. Once you lose the weight you realize how many underlying things are going on that have *actually* been causing issues. I’m talking relationships, spending, parenting,” she says.

Being Skinny Doesn’t Mean You Are Healthy

The second thing she learned? “Being skinny doesn’t mean you’re healthy,” she says. “When I was at my lowest weight I had lost a lot of muscle. Rebuilding that is kind of scary but I know it’ll serve me when I’m a fit grandma.”

Weight Loss Is Mental

Her third truth is that weight loss is mental. “There are a lot of tools out there that can help! But they’re still just tools. I have to talk to myself a LOT to remind myself I didn’t suddenly gain back 60+ pounds,” she writes.

You Might Still Be Obsessed with Your Weight

She goes onto explain that obsession with your weight might not end. “Before I lost weight I was really obsessed with losing weight. Now that I’ve lost weight I have times where I’m really obsessed with keeping it off. Not out of vanity but out of fear. I never want to go back to feeling how I did for so many years,” she writes.

Your Loved Ones Might Not Be On Board with Your New Lifestyle

Another truth? “No one cares about your journey as much as you do. Meaning…it’s not anyone’s job to eat what you eat. Or exercise with you. Your spouse/partner may or may not be on board with your new lifestyle. It’s up to you to buy and prepare the right foods and find the time to exercise,” she says.

Being Skinny Won’t Give Your More Self-Worth

Finally, getting thin won’t solve your self-esteem problems. “Being skinny isn’t going to give you more self worth. It might help you love your body more and appreciate what it’s done for you…but ‘skinny’ isn’t an attribute that very many people use when they talk about why they love someone,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you curious about what to expect after achieving your weight loss goals? You might be surprised what it is like, says one weight loss warrior. Emily Christensen is a social media influencer who lost 60 pounds after undergoing weight loss surgery and adopting a healthy lifestyle. She regularly shares tips and tricks with her followers about how she did it. In a new post, she reveals the truth about being overweight and thin. “Some brutal honesty from who has spent the majority of her life feeling fat and longed to be skinny,” she writes in the Instagram post.

When You Lose Weight, More Problems Surface

The first truth? You might find underlying problems after slimming down. “When you’re over weight that’s the only problem you want to solve. Once you lose the weight you realize how many underlying things are going on that have *actually* been causing issues. I’m talking relationships, spending, parenting,” she says.

Being Skinny Doesn’t Mean You Are Healthy

The second thing she learned? “Being skinny doesn’t mean you’re healthy,” she says. “When I was at my lowest weight I had lost a lot of muscle. Rebuilding that is kind of scary but I know it’ll serve me when I’m a fit grandma.”

Weight Loss Is Mental

Her third truth is that weight loss is mental. “There are a lot of tools out there that can help! But they’re still just tools. I have to talk to myself a LOT to remind myself I didn’t suddenly gain back 60+ pounds,” she writes.

You Might Still Be Obsessed with Your Weight

She goes onto explain that obsession with your weight might not end. “Before I lost weight I was really obsessed with losing weight. Now that I’ve lost weight I have times where I’m really obsessed with keeping it off. Not out of vanity but out of fear. I never want to go back to feeling how I did for so many years,” she writes.

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Your Loved Ones Might Not Be On Board with Your New Lifestyle

Another truth? “No one cares about your journey as much as you do. Meaning…it’s not anyone’s job to eat what you eat. Or exercise with you. Your spouse/partner may or may not be on board with your new lifestyle. It’s up to you to buy and prepare the right foods and find the time to exercise,” she says.

Being Skinny Won’t Give Your More Self-Worth

Finally, getting thin won’t solve your self-esteem problems. “Being skinny isn’t going to give you more self worth. It might help you love your body more and appreciate what it’s done for you…but ‘skinny’ isn’t an attribute that very many people use when they talk about why they love someone,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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I Lost Over 90 Pounds After Years of Trying to Lose Weight the "Wrong Way"

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Do you want to lose weight the right way? Leanne Ellington, 41, stopped weighing herself after she topped the scales at 250 pounds. However, she decided to change her life and embarked on a weight loss journey, going on to lose 90 pounds. Here is everything she did to get down to 160 pounds.

She Was Overweight as a Kid

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Leanne’s weight struggles started when she was young. She explains that she was an “overweight, sedentary, unhealthy” kid and teenager, “and I brought that into adulthood with me.

She Stopped Weight Herself Because of the “Shame”

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“I stopped weighing myself after I reached 250 pounds. The shame became too much to bear,” she continues.

She Hit Her “Enough Is Enough” Point in Her 20s

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“I hit my ‘enough is enough’ point in my early 20s when I realized that I was a shell of a version of myself, and I was not showing up as a reflection of who I was created to be. Yes, it was about the weight, but it was more about getting my life back,” she continues. “Now I weigh around 160 pounds.”

Initially, She Lost the Weight Doing the Wrong Things

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Leann reveals that her weight loss journey didn’t get off to the healthiest start. “Unfortunately, I did it in all of the wrong ways, and I gave myself disordered eating and a horrible self and body image to get there,” she said about her initial 100-pound weight loss. “All in all, it took about a year.”

She Then Would Gain and Lose 20 to 40 Pounds at a Time

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After that, she went through the "bounce back effect" over and over. “I would gain/lose, gain/lose 20 to 40 pounds at a time until I healed the root problem,” she says.

She Discovered Strength Training

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This was when she discovered strength training. “I was fortunate enough to learn about the power of resistance training pretty early on, so I was able to functionally train (and tone) my entire body along the way. That was one of the ways I also prevented excess skin,” she says.

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She Eats Mostly Nutrient-Dense Foods

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As for her diet, Leann eats mostly “nutrient-dense, hearty, and delicious foods,” she says. “But I allow myself treats from time to time, never depriving myself. Deprivation and restriction is the opposite of freedom. But also, it's about making sure that my day-to-day way of eating is delicious and filled with foods that I can enjoy so that I don't ever feel deprived or restricted.”

Nothing Is Off Limits

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“Nothing is off-limits for me. I eat in a certain manner most of the time because I’m always focusing on how I want to feel (and eating foods that will help me reverse-engineer that). But I’m human, and allowing myself a delicious warm chocolate chip cookie or a slice of my favorite cake with buttercream is part of how I create balance in my life. Because if loving warm chocolate chip cookies is wrong, I don’t want to be right,” she says.

She “Retrained” Her Mind

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What was her biggest achievement on her weight loss journey? “ It has more to do with the way I retrained my mind, my brain, and my heart when it comes to food and my body,” she says. “I completely healed and changed my relationship with food and my relationship with my body. I stepped into a new identity that reflects the woman that I want to be, rather than just focusing on a number.”

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And Stopped Using Foods as a “Coping Mechanism”

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She adds that when she was just focusing on a number as her definition of “success,” it kept her “chained inside a prison of restriction, deprivation, punishing my body, and doing things that didn’t serve me,” she says. “When I healed what was happening in my brain and learned how to be emotionally available to myself without using food as a coping mechanism, everything shifted.”

You Must Change Your Identity to Get Rid of Old Thinking

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“My biggest setback was the realization that I lost 100 pounds and totally made over my body, but my self-image was still seeing myself through (what I call) fat goggles,” she says. “Because I never changed my identity and self-image, I just brought the old way of thinking with me. But that was also a blessing because it forced me to go heal the problem and address the root cause of my relationship with food and my body. “

You Can’t “Positive Think” Your Way Through Body Struggles, She Says

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“I think one of the biggest misconceptions when it comes to body image is just to ‘positive think’ your way through body image struggles, but that never allows you to reconcile what’s actually happening in the present moment,” she says. “And those struggles will keep coming back if you don't address them.”

Feel Your Feelings

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“Now I've learned how to feel those feelings and hold space from them (even when they aren't fun), but then aim for peace and acceptance in that moment instead of slathering on ‘fake positivity’ because those emotions are so much more attainable in those moments,” she says. “And this is how I've learned to be emotionally available to myself in those negative body image moments -- instead of ignoring them, stuffing them down, or using feel-good affirmations that don't necessarily resonate.”

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She Is Happy That More People Are Talking About Body Image Struggles

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“Honestly, I’m a bit biased, but I do love that disordered eating and body image struggles are becoming more of a mainstream topic,” Leann admits. “15 years ago, when I first started my journey, it wasn’t being talked about, but it’s so important. Integrating the mental, emotional, and social aspects of health and fitness is critical.”

She Is Following Positive People

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A big part of her social media strategy is more based on who she is not following. “It’s really important to me that I’m not following anyone that is perpetuating an unhealthy version of health,” she says. “For me, it’s more important to follow people who are helping spread positivity on the mental/emotional side of things. Because when that is in balance, all of your physical goals become possible. And without it, the physical stuff falls by the wayside. Her favorite account? The Good Quote.

Be the Best Version of You

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Her biggest piece of advice? “Make sure that you’re stepping into the identity of the version of you that would have that body, that would have that relationship with food, and that would have that confidence in herself,” she says.

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It’s More Than Just Your Weight

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“It’s not just about your weight; it’s your thoughts about your weight. It’s not just about the food. It’s your thoughts about the food. It’s not just about your body. It’s your thoughts about your body. All of this matters so much more than the food or the workouts or the weight,” she says.

Stay Focused and Be Patient

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“For me, it’s about staying focused on the long game and thinking big-picture. When I'm only following my desires for the short-term gratification trap or rapid results, it's always at the expense of my health and goals AND at the expense of my happiness. Be the tortoise, not the hare,” she says.

Her Favorite Motivational Quote

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Her favorite motivational quote when it comes to fitness? “You will act like the sort of person you conceive yourself to be,” from Maxwell Maltz.

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Follow Leanne Ellington on Social Media

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For more on Leanne Ellington, Author, Educator, & Podcaster, head over to her website. You can also follow her on Instagram. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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She Lost 21 Pounds by Learning These “5 Truths About Weight Loss”

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Are you struggling to lose weight? One expert claims that you need to understand a few fundamental things before you are successful. Sofe Ring is a Certified Nutrition Coach with almost 100,000 followers on social media who dropped 21 pounds and helps others do the same. In a new social media post, she reveals a few things she had to learn before losing weight. “5 truths about weight loss,” she writes. “Some truths need to be heard!”

Your Weight Loss Journey Is Going to Be Boring

Number one, “Your weight loss journey is going to be boring,” says Ring. “Showing up for yourself everyday isn’t as glamorous as you see on Instagram. You may find you want to eat the same thing everyday because it fits in your calorie target, and the scale may move so slow that you don’t have something new to celebrate everyday, and THATS OKAY! Consistency over time is boring but effective!”

You Need to Realign Your Expectations

“You need to realign your expectations,” is her second truth. “The first week or two of tracking you may see a drop on the scale from excess water and the pull back of everything you were eating, but after that it’s a slow roll to the finish line. I didn’t see my body change until month 3-4. The scale told me there was change, and measurements did too, but the physical changes took a while. I think a lot of it was in my head,” she writes.

Maintain a Calorie Deficit

“Any movement you do is going to be good, but you need to think about movement as a way to feel good, versus lose weight. To lose weight you have to be in a calorie deficit — meaning the most change is going to come from what you are eating vs how you are moving,” she says.

Calculate Your Own Calorie Gorals

“Use my journey as inspiration, but you need to calculate your own calorie goals,” she continues. “Your height, weight, age, and activity level may differ from mine. You need to focus on making small sustainable changes that fit within your current lifestyle, what you’re comfortable cooking and what you put on your dinner table. Trying to copy someone else’s world doesn’t set you up to achieve success in your world.”

There Are No “Good” or “Bad” Food Groups

And finally, there is no one food group that should be labeled as “bad,” she says. “You may find you have intolerances, but thinking that “if I eat carbs I’ll gain wait”, feels very restrictive. It’s all about moderation vs deprivation. Enjoy the things you want, just watch your portions.”

In Another Post She Elaborates on Other Habits

In another post, she elaborates on calorie deficit. “There was so much I thought I needed to do - gym, steps, weights, abs, more of this, more of that, supplements, oh wait, cortisol, and so on. It was too much! When I tell you that I was solely focused on my deficit, I literally was solely focused on my deficit,” she says.

She Recommends UsingTracking App

Her “guide to an EASY calorie deficit that WILL help you lose weight,” she adds, starting with finding a tracking app you enjoy. “People love MFP. My go to is @loseitapp. Let it calculate your TDEE for you, and tell the app you want to lose weight. It will calculate a deficit for you as well. I recommend you don’t eat too steep a deficit. Stay within the 250-500 range,” she writes.

Find an Accountability Buddy

Next, accountability can be easier with the help of a buddy. “Really though, make it a New Year’s resolution to do together. You’ve done far harder things together than logging your food for a week,” she writes.

Keep Health Food on Hand

Make sure to keep your kitchen stocked with healthy food. “Make sure your pantry and fridge are filled with supporting ingredients! 🛒 Here’s a grocery list for the 7 days,” she writes.

  • Protein: Ground turkey, breakfast patties, sausages, chicken breast, cottage cheese, yogurt, carton of egg whites, deli meat
  • Veggies: Head of broccoli, head of cauliflower, carrots, cucumber, lettuce
  • Fruits: Assorted berries, apples
  • Carbs: White rice, brown rice, quinoa, low cal tortillas, low cal English muffins
  • Snacks: Rice cakes, meat sticks, protein chips, diet coke, a chocolate treat, popcorn

Get Motivated with These Menu Ideas

Here is a sample menu, “alternate between options and snack away,” she writes.

Breakfast: yogurt bowls, cottage cheese with fruit, egg whites and breakfast sausages on muffins, egg tacos

Lunch: Chicken breast on a salad with cucumbers, deli sandwich on a muffin, leftovers from the night before

Dinner: chicken tacos, ground turkey stir fry with broccoli, sausages with cauliflower and rice. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Woman Who Lost 70 Pounds Shares 5 Hidden Truths: "It's About How You Feel, Not How You Look”

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The journey to better health often feels overwhelming, with each step on the scale seeming like a battle against impossible odds. Nikki Madoch knows this struggle intimately. As a certified nutrition coach and personal trainer who lost 70 pounds through Weight Watchers since 2020, she's learned that success isn't just about numbers on a scale. Her journey, which has inspired over 200,000 followers, reveals powerful lessons about sustainable weight loss that could transform your approach to healthy living.

Start Living Now: You Don't Have to Put Life on Hold

The fear of missing out on life's celebrations often holds people back from starting their weight loss journey. "I always thought that I had to be very restrictive when it came to holidays and events," Nikki reveals in her post. She discovered that success doesn't require complete sacrifice.

"I started to realize that it was fine. I wasn't going to lose all my results overnight, so enjoying a day or two of some indulgent things was fine," she explains. This realization transformed her approach to social events and holidays.

Nikki developed practical strategies to maintain balance: "I like to make sure I have a filling meal before I go to a family party or an event because then I'm not as likely to overeat on the indulgent stuff, but I can still enjoy it." She applies this same principle to everyday treats: "It's kind of like how I have an apple after dinner before I have dessert. It kind of fills me up a little bit, but then I'm still able to enjoy what I want to."

Build Your Confidence: Every Small Win Counts

Self-doubt and fear of judgment can be paralyzing. "For so long, I avoided even trying to lose weight because I felt shame and embarrassment," Nikki admits. Her confidence grew not just from physical changes, but from proving to herself that she could succeed.

"I was gaining this new confidence because I had never had success losing weight, and I couldn't believe I was actually doing it," she shares. The transformation went beyond numbers on a scale: "I for so long thought that if I could just figure this out, I felt like I could do everything else."

This newfound confidence helped her overcome concerns about others' opinions: "I was focusing on my health and my future, and the reason I was doing it is so that I could be a better person for other people as well."

Navigate Plateaus: Keep Your Journey Fresh

Weight loss isn't always linear, and that's okay. "Plateaus and burnout are completely normal," Nikki explains. She emphasizes the importance of creating sustainable habits you enjoy.

When facing her own plateau, Nikki learned to adapt: "I had to realize that there were some things that I could do to mix it up to kind of kickstart things again, whether it's switching up the foods I ate, the grocery stores I shopped at to get different ingredients and the workouts I was doing."

She discovered the importance of realistic goal-setting: "I had to reevaluate and realize, okay, maybe the goal weight I set for myself wasn't a healthy weight. Still to this day, I haven't gotten close to it, so maybe that was a little bit too low."

Choose Real Food: Find What Works for Your Body

The allure of fat-free and sugar-free options can be misleading. "When I first started, I was in a frenzy trying to find the lowest point of everything," Nikki recalls. She learned that there are better choices than these alternatives.

Her experience led to a more balanced approach: "I've really gotten a lot of those products out of what I eat and focus more on whole foods." However, she emphasizes flexibility: "Of course, I do have processed foods that I eat. It's all about balance and moderation."

This balance includes plenty of nutritious options: "I do eat a good amount of fruits and veggies and lots of protein, and I do have a lot of sources of whole foods."

Focus on Energy: Feel Better Every Day

Perhaps the most profound lesson was shifting focus from appearance to well-being. "Weight loss is so much more about how I feel than how I look," Nikki reflects. She found that increased energy, better sleep, and the ability to keep up with family became more motivating than aesthetic goals.

The changes were noticeable from the start: "Even a week in, I was feeling so much better. I had so much more energy and didn't feel as bloated, didn't feel just as weighed down."

This focus on feeling good became her lasting motivation: "What keeps me going is being able to move my body, being able to do fun activities outside, inside, run around with the dogs, play with my niece and nephew, and keep up with them, carry them around. Those things are what are important to me."

Make It Sustainable: Your Journey, Your Rules

Looking back on her success, Nikki emphasizes the importance of finding your own path: "I didn't restrict, I didn't do all of the things that I did in the past that made me miserable. I instead just took it a day at a time and focused on making it sustainable and enjoyable."

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The Science Behind Sustainable Weight Loss

While personal experiences are valuable, scientific research supports many of Nikki's discoveries. According to the National Weight Control Registry, "About 20% of people who lose at least 10% of their body weight maintain it for at least a year." The key factors mirror Nikki's approach: regular physical activity, consistent eating patterns, and ongoing self-monitoring.

Protein: Your Weight Loss Ally

The Mayo Clinic reports, "Protein decreases the hunger hormone ghrelin and increases hormones like peptide YY, GLP-1, and cholecystokinin, which promote feelings of fullness and satisfaction." This scientific finding explains why protein-rich meals can help maintain progress. For optimal results, WebMD suggests "Aiming for 25 to 30 grams of protein in each meal supports muscle maintenance" during weight loss.

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Timing Matters: When You Eat Counts

The National Institutes of Health says, "Consistent meal timing aligns with the body's circadian rhythms, potentially reducing the risk of obesity and improving metabolic health." They caution, "Eating during inactive periods, such as late at night, can disrupt the body's internal clock, leading to weight gain and metabolic issues."

The Power of Preparation

Research supports the importance of meal preparation. The Mayo Clinic reports, "Regular meal preparation is linked to healthier eating habits, increased fruit and vegetable intake, and reduced consumption of processed foods." Harvard Health adds, "Preparing meals in advance allows for better portion control, reducing the likelihood of overeating and aiding in weight management."

Balanced Nutrition: Your Foundation for Success

According to the Mayo Clinic, "A balanced diet for weight loss typically includes 40-50% carbohydrates, 25-35% fat, and 20-30% protein." This flexible approach allows for personalization while maintaining nutritional balance.

Harvard Health stresses fiber's importance, noting that "High-fiber foods like fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and legumes can help control hunger and prevent overeating. Studies suggest consuming 25-30 grams of fiber daily is associated with improved weight management outcomes."

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Hydration: The Often Overlooked Factor

WebMD highlights that "Staying hydrated is important for weight loss. Drinking 8-10 cups of water daily not only supports metabolism but can also help reduce hunger by promoting a feeling of fullness." This simple strategy complements other weight loss efforts and becomes especially important when increasing protein intake.

The journey to better health is deeply personal yet universal in many ways. As Nikki's experience and scientific research both confirm, sustainable weight loss comes from finding an approach that fits your life, not the other way around. Whether you're just starting or looking to maintain your progress, remember that feeling better – not just looking different – is the true measure of success. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

Fitness & Workouts

This Workout Has Sarah Michelle Gellar Looking Fitter at 47 Than 27

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Sarah Michelle Gellar is living, breathing proof that 40s are the new 20s. The Buffy the Vampire Slayer star looks fitter at 47 than she did at 27, showing off her flat abs and toned body in Alo exercise sets all over Instagram. Her new trainer might have something to do with her body glow-up. The actress recently started working out with Coach Brach Gould, who also trains Harry Styles and Christina Milian. Here are the exercises she is doing and some other details about her approach to diet and exercise

What Her Trainer Says

Gould recently shared a video of their workout routine on Instagram. “I’ve been working with Sarah for over 6 months now and all I can say is how impressive her progress has been! She’s become stronger, fitter and more mobile by us just sticking to a programme and working on fundamentals. No fancy stuff, just consistent exercises with hard work! So proud of you!!!” he captioned it.

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These Are the Exercises She Does

In the clip, the two train at the Alo studio in Los Angeles, doing a variety of exercises:

  • Half Kneeling High Cable Pulls
  • Single Arm Kettlebell Farmers Walks with High Knee
  • Single Arm Dumbbell Lunges
  • Stability Ball Planks
  • Plate Weighed Side Steps
  • Side-to-side Medicine Ball Slams
  • Assault bike cardio.

She Has Workout Buddies

In another Instagram video, Gellar reveals that she is a fan of the workout buddy system. “It’s true what they say… girlfriends and exercise are good for your mental health. Just missing @madelyncline … and @jennkaytin …. and @samlansky …. and @realfreddieprinze,” she captioned the clip, also taken at the Alo gym.

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She Fuels Up on Green Juice Prior to Working Out

Gellar is a fan of fresh green juice. "I go every weekend to the farmers market and I get fresh kale, spinach, celery, and lettuces and I blend it all together," she told Who What Wear. "That's my favorite thing before I work out.”

Outdoor Activities

When she isn’t int he gym, she stays active outdoors. "I chase two children around which is the best recipe to stay active as they're so active," she told Body+Soul. "I'm very fortunate that I live in a climate that's beautiful year around and I try to take advantage of being outside, whether it's hiking or going to the beach and swimming and surfing. I prefer all those great outdoor activities than indoor activities – although I do love yoga. If we do yoga on the beach then I'm really happy." And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

Nutrition & Diet

Woman Loses 90 Pounds: 5 Unexpected Mistakes

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We've all been there – feeling uncomfortable in our own skin, wanting to make a change, but not knowing where to start. Amy Fritz knows this feeling all too well. After reaching her heaviest weight by the end of 2022, she felt miserable and ready for change. By making simple adjustments to her lifestyle—moving her body daily and fueling it with nutritious foods 80% of the time—Amy lost over 90 pounds in just 12 months. Now she's sharing the surprising mistakes she had to overcome to find success. Read on to discover what could be holding back your own weight loss journey.

Mistake 1: Focusing on the scale instead of how you feel

Many of us become obsessed with numbers on the scale, but Amy discovered a more powerful motivator. "Feeling healthy is so much more powerful than any number you will ever see on the scale," she explains in her post. Just two weeks into her journey, despite only losing about five pounds, Amy already noticed positive changes.

"The shame of making bad choices that I had been making for so long started to melt away," Amy shares. That feeling of health fueled her to keep going, even when the weight loss was slow. Now, a year into her journey, she craves those healthy habits. "If I have a couple of days where maybe I miss a workout or make some poor choices with my diet, I start to feel gross," Amy admits.

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Mistake 2: Neglecting mental health while focusing on physical changes

One of Amy's biggest realizations was that sustainable weight loss begins in the mind, not the body. "Until you're mentally ready, until you've really done the work with your mental health, it's not going to be sustainable or easy to try to focus on your physical health," Amy emphasizes.

Working with a therapist helped Amy overcome emotional eating and develop tools for making healthy choices while managing everyday stress. "You have to prioritize your mental health and what's important on the inside. And then that will snowball and reflect the outside," she says.

Mistake 3: Believing you must eliminate favorite foods

Perhaps the most surprising mistake Amy identified was thinking weight loss meant giving up foods she loved. "You do not have to cut out any specific foods or your favorite meals in order to lose weight," Amy states. She discovered that overly restricting certain foods creates a vicious cycle of craving, overeating, guilt, and more restriction.

Instead, Amy found healthier ways to enjoy her favorite meals. "When you have those cravings for foods, all you have to do is find healthier ways to make them," she explains. For example, pizza night became healthier by adding nutritional volume: "Maybe I sprinkle on a bunch of fresh veggies, or what I really love to do is toss some arugula and some olive oil and balsamic and top that on my pizza."

Mistake 4: Tracking calories too rigidly

Amy initially thought successful weight loss meant sticking to a strict daily calorie limit—a common but often unsustainable approach. "You don't have to track your calories by the day," Amy reveals. Instead, she discovered the power of weekly tracking.

"If you want to lose one pound a week, you have to be in at least a deficit of 3500 calories on the week," Amy explains. This flexibility allowed her to enjoy date nights without guilt while still meeting her goals. "I have date night every Friday night. And so you better be sure I use one of my larger calorie days for Friday so I can go out and enjoy myself and not have to worry and feel like I've fallen off the wagon."

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Mistake 5: Putting exercise last on your priority list

Making exercise an "if I have time" activity was a major error Amy had to correct. "You have to prioritize movement and exercise really high when you're on a journey like this. You have to make it almost your number one priority or else it's not going to get done," Amy stresses.

She learned to stop waiting for the perfect moment when everything else was in order. "Leave the kitchen a mess, leave the bedroom a mess, leave the pile of laundry, let something go so that you can go move your body because you matter and you'll feel better," Amy advises. Putting herself first with exercise actually improved her ability to handle other responsibilities.

Why waiting for motivation doesn't work

Many people make the mistake of waiting until they feel motivated to start exercising or eating better. Amy discovered that action comes first, motivation follows. "You'll start to feel good long before you see results on the scale," she points out. The feeling of making healthy choices daily becomes its own reward and generates the motivation to continue.

The perfectionism trap that sabotages progress

Amy admits she used to think everything had to be perfect before she could focus on her health. "So many times last year and before beginning this journey, I would say, man, I can only go to the gym if the whole house is clean," she recalls. This perfectionism kept her from taking action. Learning to let go of perfect and embrace progress was key to her success.

How meal repetition simplifies weight loss

Contrary to popular advice about needing endless variety, Amy found freedom in keeping meals simple. "It is okay if you found a recipe that is highly nutritional, that you love, that your whole family loves, that supports everyone's goals. It is okay to make that two or three times a week," Amy reassures.

Sheet pan dinners and taco nights became staples in her home. "We do taco night at least once a week, sometimes twice a week," she admits. Finding a few healthy meals that work and repeating them eliminated decision fatigue and simplified her journey.

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Why adding nutrition works better than restriction

Rather than focusing on what to eliminate, Amy discovered the power of adding nutrition to her plate. "Add some more nutrition to your plate and really add some volume to your plate so that you can control the portions," she explains. This approach—eating more vegetables and nutrient-dense foods alongside smaller portions of more indulgent items—kept her satisfied without feeling deprived.

The mindset shift that makes habits stick

Eventually, Amy's healthy choices became automatic. "Now that I'm a year in, I still have a long way to go. I can truly say the feeling of eating healthy and moving my body is not only habitual, but it's something I crave," she shares. This transformation from forcing herself to do healthy activities to actually desiring them was the ultimate key to her success.

Amy's journey proves that sustainable weight loss doesn't require extreme measures or suffering. By avoiding these five unexpected mistakes—focusing too much on the scale, neglecting mental health, eliminating favorite foods, tracking calories too rigidly, and putting exercise last—she created lasting change. Her approach balanced enjoyment with progress, proving that weight loss doesn't have to be miserable to be effective. Start today by addressing these common mistakes in your own journey—you've got this! And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these20 Superfoods for People Over 50

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5 Protein Dinners That Helped Mom Lose 10 Lbs

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Losing weight doesn’t have to equate to starvation, deprivation, or eating bland meals. According to one fit mom and influencer, you can eat delicious dinners, and still drop weight fast. Ashley Smith is a fit mom and nutritionist who regularly shares weight loss tips and tricks with her followers. In a new Instagram post, she reveals some of her go-to recipes for healthy, fat-burning meals. “If I wanted to lose 10 pounds in the next 6 weeks here are the 5 dinners I would eat on repeat,” she writes.

1. Lemon Garlic Shrimp with Quinoa & Roasted Veggies

Protein: 42g, Calories: 378

Ingredients: 6 oz shrimp, ½ cup cooked quinoa, 1 cup zucchini & bell peppers (roasted), 1 tsp olive oil, 1 tbsp lemon juice, 1 clove garlic (minced), salt & pepper to taste.
Directions: Sauté shrimp with garlic, lemon juice, salt, and pepper. Serve over quinoa with roasted veggies.

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2. Grilled Chicken with Mashed Cauliflower & Green Beans

Protein: 48g, Calories: 339
Ingredients: 6 oz grilled chicken breast, 1 cup mashed cauliflower (made with ½ cup steamed cauliflower, ¼ cup unsweetened almond milk, and seasonings), 1 cup steamed green beans, 1 tsp olive oil, salt, pepper, and garlic powder to taste.Directions: Grill the chicken, mash the cauliflower with almond milk and seasonings, and serve with steamed green beans.

3. Turkey & Spinach Stir-Fry with Brown Rice

Protein: 43g, Calories: 428

Ingredients: 5 oz lean ground turkey, 1 cup cooked brown rice, 1 cup sautéed spinach & mushrooms, 1 tsp coconut aminos, 1 clove garlic (minced), ½ tsp ground ginger, salt & pepper to taste.
Directions: Cook turkey with garlic, ginger, and aminos, then toss in spinach and mushrooms. Serve over brown rice.

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4. Spaghetti Squash with Ground Turkey Marinara

Protein: 41g, Calories: 314

Ingredients: 5 oz lean ground turkey, 1 cup cooked spaghetti squash, ½ cup marinara sauce, ½ cup sautéed mushrooms & zucchini, 1 tbsp nutritional yeast (for a cheesy flavor), 1 clove garlic (minced), ½ tsp oregano, red pepper flakes to taste.
Directions: Brown the turkey with garlic, oregano, and red pepper flakes. Add marinara sauce, mushrooms, and zucchini, and simmer. Serve over spaghetti squash and sprinkle with nutritional yeast.

5. Grilled Salmon with Roasted Asparagus & Wild Rice

Protein: 47g, Calories: 452

Ingredients: 5 oz grilled salmon, ½ cup cooked wild rice, 1 cup roasted asparagus, 1 tsp olive oil, 1 tbsp lemon juice, 1 clove garlic (minced), salt & pepper to taste.
Directions: Grill salmon with lemon juice, garlic, salt, and pepper. Roast asparagus and serve with wild rice. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.

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