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#1 Key Mistake I Made Before I Lost 60 Pounds

This influencer learned it the hard way so you don’t have to.

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Losing weight when you have PCOS is no joke—something TikTok influencer Kiki (@kikivirk) knows all too well. Kiki says she was motivated to lose weight and see results fast, but she went about the process before doing her research. So what exactly happened? The workout regimen she jumped into not only didn’t lead to any fat loss but was causing her massive stress. Here’s what happened, and what Kiki did to actually lose the weight in a PCOS-friendly way.


Too Intense, Too Much

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Kiki says she jumped into a 90-day HIIT workout regimen without doing any research, and found the entire process far too harsh for her body. “Those long painful HIIT workouts were actually doing my body no good,” she says. “They were causing too much stress and loads of other problems.”

Low Impact Workouts

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Kiki switched to a lower-impact workout routine using weights, swimming, and more gentle cardio to get fit and lose 60 pounds. “I switched to this workout structure and built up lean muscle and burned fat,” she says. “And it didn’t feel like an uphill struggle.”

Related: I’m a Health Coach and This is My Easy Meal Plan for the Whole Week

Dangers of Overtraining

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Overtraining can completely undermine your fitness goals—so learn to listen to your body and get adequate rest. “Exercise is one of the best things you can do for your health but there are limits on how much exercise you should be doing,” says LIFT Society Co-Founder David Schenk. “Too much exercise can actually kill your gains in the gym. Over exercising will leave you in a continued state of fatigue, soreness, inflammation, chronic injuries and sickness. In order to avoid this make sure to program rest days into your weekly routine and listen to your body.”

PCOS and Exercise

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Kiki has PCOS, which makes it even more important to do exercises that help combat weight gain associated with the condition. “When women with PCOS are on their menstrual cycle, the intensity and/or durations of the workouts may need to be adjusted as well as the types of clothes worn if you are experiencing intense cramping,” says Brooklyn-based Tonal coach Tanysha Renee. “Some of the key ways to stay consistent when dealing with PCOS are to prioritize your sleep, your hydration, listen to your body, and modify the intensity of your workouts if you must.”

Related: 5 Female Fitness Gurus Who Prove That Lifting Weights Doesn’t Make You “Big”

Walking Workouts

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It’s no wonder Kiki’s weight came off when she switched to lower-stress workouts: Exercises such as walking are some of the best for women with PCOS as they help keep cortisol levels down. “There are so many fancy exercise machines, fitness gadgets and complex ways to exercise that it can be all too easy to forget about the oldest and most simplistic way to exercise: walking,” Schenk says. “The benefits of walking everyday go beyond just burning calories and fat and include boosting your mood, helping to digest your food better, connecting with nature, overcoming anxiety and depression and being social. The bottom line is that walking everyday is the simplest, cheapest and easiest way to start improving your health and wellness today.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Ease into new workout routines slowly and listen to your body. Harder is not always better!

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Losing weight when you have PCOS is no joke—something TikTok influencer Kiki (@kikivirk) knows all too well. Kiki says she was motivated to lose weight and see results fast, but she went about the process before doing her research. So what exactly happened? The workout regimen she jumped into not only didn’t lead to any fat loss but was causing her massive stress. Here’s what happened, and what Kiki did to actually lose the weight in a PCOS-friendly way.


Too Intense, Too Much

@kikivirk

The plan that helped me shed 60lbs 💪🏽 #weightloss #pcos #pcosweightloss #weightlossmotivation #weightlosstipsforwomen #pcosworkout

Kiki says she jumped into a 90-day HIIT workout regimen without doing any research, and found the entire process far too harsh for her body. “Those long painful HIIT workouts were actually doing my body no good,” she says. “They were causing too much stress and loads of other problems.”

Low Impact Workouts

Competitive swimmer racing in poolShutterstock

Kiki switched to a lower-impact workout routine using weights, swimming, and more gentle cardio to get fit and lose 60 pounds. “I switched to this workout structure and built up lean muscle and burned fat,” she says. “And it didn’t feel like an uphill struggle.”

Related: I’m a Health Coach and This is My Easy Meal Plan for the Whole Week

Dangers of Overtraining

Blonde young woman give up workout in gym, fail.Shutterstock/sakkmesterke

Overtraining can completely undermine your fitness goals—so learn to listen to your body and get adequate rest. “Exercise is one of the best things you can do for your health but there are limits on how much exercise you should be doing,” says LIFT Society Co-Founder David Schenk. “Too much exercise can actually kill your gains in the gym. Over exercising will leave you in a continued state of fatigue, soreness, inflammation, chronic injuries and sickness. In order to avoid this make sure to program rest days into your weekly routine and listen to your body.”

PCOS and Exercise

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Kiki has PCOS, which makes it even more important to do exercises that help combat weight gain associated with the condition. “When women with PCOS are on their menstrual cycle, the intensity and/or durations of the workouts may need to be adjusted as well as the types of clothes worn if you are experiencing intense cramping,” says Brooklyn-based Tonal coach Tanysha Renee. “Some of the key ways to stay consistent when dealing with PCOS are to prioritize your sleep, your hydration, listen to your body, and modify the intensity of your workouts if you must.”

Related: 5 Female Fitness Gurus Who Prove That Lifting Weights Doesn’t Make You “Big”

Walking Workouts

Young sportive woman getting ready to start running workout - Athlete running outdoors at sunset - Attractive girl making sport to lose weight and stay fitShutterstock

It’s no wonder Kiki’s weight came off when she switched to lower-stress workouts: Exercises such as walking are some of the best for women with PCOS as they help keep cortisol levels down. “There are so many fancy exercise machines, fitness gadgets and complex ways to exercise that it can be all too easy to forget about the oldest and most simplistic way to exercise: walking,” Schenk says. “The benefits of walking everyday go beyond just burning calories and fat and include boosting your mood, helping to digest your food better, connecting with nature, overcoming anxiety and depression and being social. The bottom line is that walking everyday is the simplest, cheapest and easiest way to start improving your health and wellness today.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Ease into new workout routines slowly and listen to your body. Harder is not always better!

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Are you trying to lose weight but aren’t sure how? Dan Go, weight loss and fitness coach and founder of High Performance, successfully lost weight and is helping other people do the same. In a recent viral video, he reveals a few faux pas you might be making that are preventing you from losing weight. “Here are the five weight loss mistakes that have kept me fat and how to fix them,” he says.


Losing Weight Can Be Frustrating

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“Losing weight can be one of the most frustrating things that you do in your entire life. And a lot of people don't even know the hidden missteps that cause them to keep the weight on in the first place. And social media doesn't make this any easier. If you've ever been on social media, you have seen every single food on a planet being demonized in one way or the other,” he says. “And you've also had people that simplify the process of weight loss by just telling you to eat less and move more, which is as helpful as telling someone who wants to make money to just earn more and spend less.”

However, It’s Probably Because You Are Making Mistakes

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“The truth about losing weight is that you don't have bad genetics, you don't have a slow metabolism, nor are you too old,” he says. “Instead, there are a few hidden mistakes that keep you from losing fat despite all of your hard work.”

Mistake 1: Underestimating How Much Food Is Going Into Your Body

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“Mistake number one is underestimating how much food was going into my body,” he explains. “When I first started to lose weight, I was eating healthy, but then every time I would step on the scale, I would see the same number, and sometimes I would even see the weight scale go up. I thought my metabolism was getting slow and I was getting too old. Mind you, I was 30 years old at this time. The truth was I wasn't tracking my food properly.”

Count Your Calories

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“Now, one thing I need to mention is that calories are not all that matter, but they still do matter,” he says, admitting that he didn’t realize how many calories he was consuming even though he was eating healthy food. “Now, this doesn't mean that you have to track for the rest of your life, but you do want to get really exact about how much each food looks. And what I mean by that is, putting the raw versions of these foods on a weight scale, and you wanna be tracking it by the grams,” he says. “Also, you'll be so surprised at what slips through the cracks in terms of the things that you snack on, the sauces that you use, and all other forms of just hidden calories that you're not even privy to in the first place.”

Mistake 2: Putting Too Much Emphasis on Cardio and Running

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“My next mistake is something that I see a lot of people doing, which is putting too much of an emphasis on cardio,” he says. He says that he sees a lot of people running to lose weight. “One of the worst ways to lose weight is being in a calorie deficit and using running or cardio as your primary means of exercise,” he says. “Yes, you are going to lose weight, but a significant portion of that weight is gonna be muscle as well.”

Instead, Walk

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Instead, he recommends walking 10,000 steps a day. Or, if you are running, you need to supplement with strength training.

Mistake 3: Not Eating Enough Protein

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Mistake number three is not eating enough protein. He explains that when you do this, you might lose body fat and lean mass. “The reality is that when you lose lean mass along with body fat, what happens as a result is your metabolism goes down.”

RELATED: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Fit as a Pear Body Type

Split Up Protein Intake Throughout the Day

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Protein is the single most important macronutrient when it comes to changing your body composition when it comes to losing weight,” he notes. “When it comes to building a physique, a high protein intake reduces appetite and also balances a lot of weight-regulating hormones. Most importantly, it helps you keep, if not build, all of that hard-earned muscle. Now, in order to maintain muscle, if not build some muscle, you want to keep yourself at 0.8 to one gram per pound of body weight. And you wanna split this up between three to four meals a day. And this is gonna help you go from just losing weight to actually burning body fat.”

Mistake 4: Taking Flexible Dieting Way Too Far

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The fourth mistake is “taking flexible dieting way too far,” he says. “In the fitness circles, you're going to see a lot of people saying that you need to keep your diet flexible in order to make this thing sustainable. And as long as calories are kept equal, you are going to lose weight regardless of the types of foods that you put into your body.” While he agrees there are benefits, “it doesn't really work well for people who have legit food addictions to the point where they will eat junk food to the level of being in a food coma. It's like telling someone who has a legit food addiction towards chips that they can eat chips as part of their healthy lifestyle is like telling an alcoholic that they can have a shot at bourbon to keep things flexible.”

Set Boundaries and Rules

“If there's anything that I know about addictions, I've dealt with it in my life. It's the fact that abstinence is one of the best tools when it comes to removing addiction from your life,” he admits. “Now, this doesn't mean that your life has to be all about just eating whole foods and single-ingredient foods and all that kind of stuff. What this means is that you should have very hard and set boundaries and rules, especially if food addiction has been an issue in your life. Being flexible is cool when it comes to your diet, but also you have to understand your limits as well, especially if you have ever dealt with any type of food addiction.”

RELATED: Top 20 Superfoods You Should Eat Every Day After Age 50

Mistake 5: Focusing Too Much on Weight Loss

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“Now my final mistake, my fly in the face of everything that I just talked about, which is the concept of just focusing way too much on weight loss,” he says. “Something I realized on my journey to get lean is the fact that I had no control over what the scale told me every single day that I stepped on it. I had no control over my inches. I had no control over these outcomes. The only thing I did have control over was the foods that I was putting into my mouth, the exercises that I was doing, the information that I was taking in to get myself to this place that I needed to be.”

Instead, Focus on Your Healthy Lifestyle

“Something I realized is that the more you obsess about outcomes, the more you invite anxiety into your life. And this is because you're trying to control something that you just don't have any control over. My biggest win when it came to this whole getting in shape process was letting go of even trying to lose weight in the first place and putting the focus on the person that I was becoming and the lifestyle that I was creating,” he admits. “So that weight loss or getting lean or burning body fat was just a byproduct of my behaviors and actions. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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When I tell people I lost 30 pounds by changing my mindset, they stare back at me as if to say, it can't be that easy. No, it's not that easy. But it really does work.


I am a Mindset and Movement Coach and a Certified Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Professional with a B.A. in Psychology, as well as a certified fitness coach in mat pilates and barre. I like to say that I was my first client—when I gained a considerable amount of weight in college, I remember not recognizing my own reflection both physically and mentally. I tried a TON of yoyo dieting and followed an inconsistent routine.

In my senior year of college, my life changed when I was given a one-year membership to a gym. This was the start of my true passion for movement and mental strength. I learned so much about myself that continued to unfold over the years bringing us to the present day where I have married the two to become a mindset and movement coach.

Throughout my fitness career, I have met so many people that were physically fit but lacked that same health in their mindset and mental health. Everything is all connected and they truly work hand in hand in order to cultivate sustainable well-being. Being able to tap into your body's needs, staying consistent, and recognizing when your mind and body needs me more is the act of being your own health advocate and activating the power of being the author of your own story.

And every story needs a good beginning.

I remember the exact day I decided to lose weight. I was in New York City with a friend and there was this huge staircase in the subway station on 5th Avenue and 53rd Street. The escalator was not working so my friend and I had to climb the stairs. I remember how difficult it was, and saying to myself I can do this. Eventually, when I got to the top I also remember saying to myself I will climb these stairs one day without a problem. Fast forward about 2 years. I remember the feeling of accomplishment when I did just that with a yoga mat and backpack on my back.

There are two things that have gotten me through the hardest times in my life: Being able to tap into my internal strength while seeing my physical strength develop is profound. It didn’t stop there—these realizations spilled into other areas of my life creating a full transformation. Read on to learn how I lost weight and how you can, too.

1. How I Lost the Weight

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After years of yo-yo dieting and deprivation, I struggled to lose the weight I gained freshman year of college. I was given a one-year gym membership by my brother, my senior year in college. I was also introduced to Weight Watchers by my best friend's sister who recently had a baby and was using Weight Watchers to get back into shape. The combination of the two changed my life. I tried every class imaginable until I found a workout routine that worked for me. Through this I was also able to connect with like minded individuals that helped to support me in my weight-loss journey. When it came to nutrition, my curiosity was sparked! I learned the importance of hydration, having a colorful and balanced plate and eating foods that served me and my new active lifestyle. Over time this became a part of me, it became a lifestyle.

Related: 7 Best and Most Delicious Fast Food Meals Under 400 Calories for Weight Loss

2. My Advice for People Who Struggle With Maintaining a Positive Mindset While Working Toward Health and Fitness Goals

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The biggest thing in my coaching that I advise all my clients to do is write down their accomplishments! Often people are focusing on what they haven’t done vs. what you have. Having a working document or journal for you to reflect on regularly will help keep you motivated and remind you of what you are capable of.

3. Common Weight Loss Mistakes to Avoid

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They don’t do things they enjoy! They tend to hop on trends and do what other people are doing which causes them to quit. Another thing that gets in the way is the desire for a quick fix! Sustainable change takes time and consistency. Most importantly they aren’t tapping into their WHY! This is what is going to get you out of bed when you don’t feel like doing it. If you can vividly paint a picture of why you are setting yourself up for success.

Related: Best Exercises For Ozempic, Wegovy and Other GLP-1 Medicine

4. Conquer Your Fears

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I recall when I started taking classes I would always go to the back of the class in fear of doing the moves wrong. I also wore baggy clothes for fear of being judged. As my physical body got stronger so did my mental strength and mindset. I started to care less about what people thought and moved from the back of the class to the front. I was less concerned about what people thought and more concerned about showing up for myself.

💪🔥Body Booster: Write down your accomplishments! Having a journal will help keep you motivated and remind you of what you are capable of.

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Are you trying to lose weight but not finding much success? It’s possible you are making a common mistake. Juliana Crispo is a mom of 2 kids 3 and under, a Lifetime Natural Pro Bikini Champion in 2 Federations, and a former successful Silicon Valley-based tech executive and entrepreneur.
”Today, we're talking about weight loss myths. I'm someone that has made every single one of these mistakes,” she says. “These are mistakes that I made for years on my fitness journey.”


Mistake 1: Only Exercising

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“Mistake number one, I thought for the longest time that exercise was the key to fat loss,” she says. “What I would do is I would go to the gym, I'd get on a cardio machine, I'd screw around with some weights, and then I'd go home, and I would just eat like I normally did, but I would also overcompensate because I was hungry from all that cardio. Cardio just makes me ravenous.”

She Walks

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Now, she avoids intense cardio. “This is why now my main source of cardio is just walking 8,000 to 10,000 steps a day because it doesn't make me very hungry,” she explains.

Mistake 2: Not Getting Into a Calorie Deficit

“Also, when I'm just getting into a new weight loss phase, I prioritize getting my calorie deficit down first,” she says. “I'll take one, up to two weeks just to master my calorie deficit before I even touch exercise. The reality is you don't even need exercise to lose fat. Just eat in a calorie deficit.”

Also, Make Sure to Strength Train

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Don’t Overlook Strength Training. Cardio activity is just a tool to make it go faster, and strength training is what gives your body shape so you don't get skinny fat.

RELATED:12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster

Mistake 3: Relying on Intuitive Eating

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Her third mistake? “I believed intuitive eating would work for me,” she says. “Intuitive eating is a way of eating popularized by this book, and it took off in the height of diet culture because so many people have had horrible experiences with dieting.” She explains that in the boo, there are ten principles of intuitive eating, “but the general gist is to be mindful and eat when you're hungry and stop when you're full.”

Lots of Influencers Rely on Intuitive Eating

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“Many fitness influencers to this day talk about intuitive eating as a good approach to weight loss. For example, one of the first fitness influencers I ever followed was Buff Bunny, and she posted a video called This Diet Worked for Me. In this video, she talks about how she used intuitive eating to lose weight because you don't have to track anything.”

RELATED: This Plan Is How to Lose 5 Percent Body Fat In 2 Weeks

It’s Not Great for Fat Loss

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However, there is a “flip side,” she points out. And that is, many people maintain intuitive eating, which isn’t great for fat loss. “For the longest period of time, I felt like something was wrong with me because I couldn't just listen to my body. It wasn't until I started tracking and weighing my food that I really started to learn putting a meal together with enough protein, carbs, and fats really makes me feel full, and then I'm able to do other things besides focus on food for a solid three to four hours. It was great.”

Mistake 4: Fear of Tracking Calories

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Her next mistake? “I was afraid of tracking calories and weighing my food,” she says. For example, chicken and broccoli can help you gain weight, but if you eat too much of it, you will gain weight. You can benchmark your progress with this useful Lean Body Mass Calculator.

You Can Gain Weight From Healthy Food

“I got chubbier from eating chicken and broccoli because I felt so deprived of the foods I really loved,” she says. “While trying to eat clean with this chicken and broccoli diet, I would binge on foods I actually craved late at night.”

Portion Size Matters

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“However, had I invested time upfront in just learning from tracking and weighing my food, I could have learned that there's no such thing as unhealthy or bad foods,” she says. The important thing is focusing on “healthy portion sizes, and so I could still enjoy all the things I love in moderation on my weight loss journey without creating these fear foods of anything that fell outside of my chicken and broccoli meal plan,” she says.

RELATED: Lose 10 Pounds in 30 Days Over 50 on Simple Animal Protein and Fruit Diet

You Won’t Have to Track and Weigh Food Forever

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“You don't have to track and weigh your food forever. Even a lot of fitness influencers say they'll go from periods of intuitive eating where they just listen to their body a little bit, and then when they start to get a little bit more fluffy, they'll bring it in, they'll start tracking and weighing their food. Again, it's not about being married to your food scale or MyFitnessPal. It's about learning and then unlearning along your journey.”

Mistake 5: Not Understanding Macros

Mistake 5? “I didn't understand how to allocate macros when I was in my dieting phase,” she says. “Many of you know macros are just protein, carbs, and fats. They serve different purposes to nourish your body. At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is being in a calorie deficit.”

Make Sure to Fill Up

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“However, the key to sustaining a calorie deficit is just don't get hungry. That's the name of the game. Don't get hungry. As soon as you get hungry, all bets are off. The little hangry monster comes out, and it's just, it's just bad.”

Pay Attention to Your Macro Breakdown

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“Having a general idea of the macronutrient distribution you're consuming is very important to make sure that you stay feeling full, and if you stay full, you're more likely to adhere to your calorie deficit,” she says. “A macro breakdown that works for me to keep staying full, feeling satiated, and adhering to my calorie deficit is having about 30% of my calorie deficit coming from protein, 30% coming from fat, and about 40% coming from carbohydrates.”

RELATED: 4 Meals I Ate to Lose 30 Pounds in 12 Weeks

If You Don’t, You Could End Up Binging

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“What happens if I'm not in the ballpark generally of hitting these macros over a period of a few days is on like day three, I'll start to get really hungry, and then all of a sudden I find myself like wandering into a seven 11 and just buying donuts and eating them, and I don't know what happened.”

Mistake 6: Overcompensating

The next mistake is “huge,” she says. “I would try to overcompensate when I had one of my 7-Eleven freakouts. This was mainly more so in my bikini competitor days because you had to be so black and white about your diet. What would happen is when I messed up somehow, I just like ate a donut or three, I would try and overcompensate the next day by doing more cardio or trying to eat fewer carbs and fats, and this was just a recipe for this horrible cycle of binging and over-exercising and feeling horrible, and that's just no way to live.”

Don’t Fall Into the “Binge and Restrict” Cycle

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“Now, if that happens and I overeat on my diet for the day, I just stick to what I would normally eat on my daily diet, almost as if that 7-Eleven incident never happened. I just learn from it, and I move on. So whatever you do, if you ever have a mess up in your diet, don't ever, ever, ever try and overcompensate by doing more cardio or eating less. Just eat as if you would normally eat so that you don't fall into any binge and restrict cycle,” she suggests.

Mistake 7: Fear of Building Muscle

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Her next mistake? “I was afraid of building muscle,” she says. She explains that building muscle is great because “the more mass and the more muscle that I have, the more I weigh, the more I can eat and not gain too much fat,” she says.

RELATED: What Would Happen to Your Body if You Only Ate Eggs for 30 Days

You Can Reshape Your Body with Exercise and Nutrition

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“It took me years of focused effort in the gym and being methodical about my nutrition to put on the muscle mass I was able to achieve here. The cool thing I've learned through bodybuilding is that you can use training to emphasize certain parts of your body and de-emphasize others,” she says. “You can literally reshape your body with the right training and nutrition, and that's what I love so much about lifting weights.”

Mistake 8: Not Stacking Habits

“If I were to stack priorities when it comes to actually losing fat, it would go like this. Very foundational sleep. Get your sleep in order. Second thing, get your calorie deficit in order. Third thing, do some strength training. Focus on maintaining as much muscle mass as you have, and then maybe consider adding in some cardio,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

You've been consistent with your workouts, pushing yourself harder every week. But instead of seeing that lean, defined physique you're after, something feels off. Your clothes fit differently, your muscles look bigger rather than toned, and that coveted athletic look seems further away than ever. These are frustrations realistic fitness dietitianDenvyr sees in her practice every day.


Denvyr knows these struggles intimately. As a former volleyball player who transformed her own relationship with food and exercise, she's experienced the journey firsthand. After overcoming binge eating and studying the science of sustainable body recomposition, she now helps clients build bodies they love without sacrificing their relationship with food. "I've made all these mistakes myself," she reveals, "and that's exactly why I can help others avoid them." Read on to discover the ten most common workout mistakes that could be sabotaging your results, and learn the science-backed solutions that will finally help you achieve that lean, toned look you're after.

Mistake: Obsessing Over Weight Instead of Fat Loss

"Weight can mean many things—muscle mass, water, bone mass, not just fat mass," Denvyr explains in the post. She points out that if you gain a pound of muscle while losing a pound of fat, the scale won't budge, but your body will look leaner and more toned. "Fad diets may help you lose weight quickly, but you're actually losing more muscle than fat mass most of the time," she warns.

Mistake: Eating More Than You Realize

One major reason for unwanted bulk, according to Denvyr, is consuming more calories than your body burns. "When you start training for the first time, hunger increases," she explains. This natural increase in appetite, combined with factors like insufficient sleep and excessive cardio, can lead to unintentional overeating.

Mistake: Skimping on Sleep

"At least seven hours of high quality sleep where you feel rested is the goal," Denvyr emphasizes. She shares from experience: "I have photos of myself where, despite working out so hard, I looked really inflamed and bloated because of poor recovery. Sleep isn't just about rest—it's crucial for achieving that lean look."

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Mistake: Getting Your Macros Wrong

"Protein is king for fat loss and looking lean," Denvyr states. She recommends aiming for at least 100 grams of protein daily, eventually working up to one gram per pound of body weight. However, she warns against completely restricting carbs and fats: "I made that mistake before. Although I looked very lean, I was fatigued every single day. My performance was absolutely terrible, and I couldn't function without thinking about food 24/7."

Mistake: Following Random Workouts

Random workouts aren't the answer, says Denvyr. "You should be following a structured training program that helps you progress every week, every month, for years," she emphasizes. "If you're doing random workouts from Instagram or YouTube with very light weights, that's actually an endurance style of training. Your body will quickly adapt, and progress will stall."

Mistake: Ignoring Stress Levels

Denvyr notes that elevated cortisol from lack of sleep, food restriction, or overtraining can create unwanted bulk. "Although exercise can temporarily increase cortisol, it's the chronic elevation that becomes an issue," she explains. "I have definitely had my fair share of experiences with running myself into the ground. This mentality ends up causing us harm because we don't know when to slow down and rest."

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Mistake: Overdoing Cardio

"If you're one of my clients, I only recommend one to three days of cardio max in the week on top of your strength training," Denvyr shares. "If you're adding lots of running and intense HIIT training to your weeks, your body is just trying to keep up with you and make sure you're fed well enough so you can recover."

Mistake: Staying Too Sedentary

For desk job workers, Denvyr recommends adding 2,000-3,000 extra steps daily. "You don't have to walk 30 minutes all at once," she suggests. "I like to walk in the morning, so I do 10 minutes then, 10 minutes after lunch—which can help with digestion and blood sugar balance—and another walk in the evening."

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Mistake: Relying Only on the Scale

"Make sure you're taking photos of yourself, taking measurements, and paying attention to how different parts of your body are shaping," Denvyr advises. "Maybe your butt is growing. Also, pay attention to the way that you feel. Pay attention to what your body is telling you. The scale is just one small piece of the puzzle."

Mistake: Expecting Overnight Results

"Body recomposition takes time," Denvyr emphasizes. "This way of training allows you to have food freedom. You're able to eat the foods that you love in a mindful way, and you're getting stronger. You're appreciating your body more, you're feeling good in your body. When you start paying attention to progress beyond just body aesthetics, that's when you truly become fit for life." And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss 12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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Are you strength training to lose weight? If so, there are a few tweaks you can make to your routine to accelerate the weight loss process. Mahtab Ekay is a fat loss coach and social media influencer who lost over 20 pounds and helps others do the same. In a new post she shares a few of her hacks. “If you are lifting weights and your goal is to lose fat and build muscle at the same time, here are my 7 best tips to make it happen,” she writes.

Sets: Quality > Quantity

“If you have 3 sets planned for an exercise, those should be 3 working sets. This means they should be close to failure—where you can barely complete the last rep. The real growth happens in the 2-3 reps after you feel like you’re done,” she says.

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Reps: Go Heavy

When it comes to reps, go heavy. “The myth that high reps with lower weight are better for fat loss needs to go. Instead, aim for 8-12 reps with heavier weights. This rep range is ideal for hypertrophy (muscle growth) while also building strength,” she claims.

Cardio: Time it Right

How you time your cardio makes a difference. “If you want to incorporate cardio, do it after your lifting session or on rest days. Doing cardio before lifting can sap your strength and take away from your ability to give 100% in your strength training,” she says.

Rest Time: Don’t Rush It

Don’t rush your rest time. “You don’t need to keep your heart rate up during your entire workout. In fact, the opposite is true! Take 1.5-2 minutes to fully recover and lift heavier during your working sets. Quality over speed!” she says.

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Nutrition: Eat Near Maintenance

As for nutrition, eat near maintenance. “To build muscle and lose fat, I recommend eating close to maintenance calories or a slight deficit—not more than a 500-calorie deficit per day. Don’t go into a crazy deficit—it’ll make it harder to maintain your strength and muscle while losing fat,” she says.

Progressive Overload

“Even if you’re in a slight deficit, you should still aim to get stronger. Try to progressively overload your lifts by adding weight or increasing reps over time. Some lifts like the bench press might be harder to progress, but there are ways around it!” she says.

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Start with Compound Movements

Finally, start with compound movements. “Always begin your workout with compound lifts (squats, deadlifts, bench presses) because they recruit more muscle groups, and since your energy is highest at the start, you can lift heavier and perform better,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Starting an exercise routine when you're significantly overweight can feel impossible. For Nicole Collet, a weight loss coach who lost an impressive 130 pounds and kept it off for nine years, the answer wasn't complicated—it was walking for just 15 minutes every day. "When I was morbidly obese, there wasn't much I could do in the form of exercise because of my weight, but I could walk," Nicole explains. Her journey proves that sustainable weight loss doesn't require counting every step or spending hours exercising—just consistent, manageable action that anyone can follow.

Forget Counting Steps, Focus on Time Instead

Nicole's initial mistake was obsessing over step counts rather than creating a sustainable habit. "I set a goal to walk 10,000 steps every single day, but I'm an all or nothing person. So I set it in stone," Nicole shares in her post. At 275 pounds with painful plantar fasciitis, this ambitious target quickly became overwhelming.

The solution was simple yet effective. "I decided to start with 15 minutes because it wasn't too low, but it wasn't too high," she says. This approach allowed her to go at her own pace, taking breaks when needed, while still maintaining consistency. By focusing on completing 15 minutes daily—regardless of distance covered—Nicole created a sustainable habit she could actually stick with.

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Invest in Proper Footwear for Success

One critical lesson Nicole learned was the importance of proper shoes. "I had a flip-flop thing. And I thought it would be a great idea with plantar fasciitis at 275 pounds to try walking in flip-flops," Nicole recalls with amusement. This uncomfortable experience left her feet so sore she didn't want to walk again.

"Wearing really good supportive shoes and investing in good quality ones like New Balance or whatever feels good on your foot is really important," Nicole emphasizes. Good footwear helped alleviate her foot pain and allowed her to gradually increase her walking time as she progressed.

Don't Fall Into the "Too Much Too Soon" Trap

Going overboard with exercise intensity was another pitfall Nicole and her husband Kyle experienced. "When we first started, we tried to do way too much, way too intense, go way too far from the house, go longer than the 15 minutes, and we would end up just exhausted and sore," Nicole explains.

Even years into their fitness journey, they sometimes make this mistake. Nicole shares, "In the last summer, Kyle and I were doing a mini cut. We just were like, hey, we're in a calorie deficit. It'd be a great idea to go for a two-hour walk in the forest." The result was extreme hunger and exhaustion that derailed their progress. Finding a moderate, sustainable pace prevents this self-sabotaging cycle.

Find Your Sweet Spot: Not Too Little, Not Too Much

The opposite problem—doing too little—can be just as detrimental. "Whenever we would go overboard, because Kyle and I are all or nothing, black-or-white thinking kind of people, we'd pull way back and then we would go from like an hour to five minutes," Nicole admits.

This all-or-nothing approach extended to their eating habits too. "We'd be like well I think we both need a large pizza each... or the opposite and we'd be like okay we ate too much yesterday so now let's only eat like egg whites and tuna," she says. Finding a sustainable middle ground—not too intense, not too easy—proved key to their long-term success.

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Combine 15 Minutes of Walking With Portion Control

Nicole's 50-pound weight loss in three months didn't come from walking alone. "I paired my walking of 15 minutes every day with portion control," she explains. This combination created the calorie deficit necessary for significant weight loss.

The dietary component is essential, according to Nicole. "It's very important that you are eating in a calorie deficit and adding some walking or exercise that you like to do as a cherry on top because the diet comes first." This balanced approach addresses both sides of the weight loss equation.

Build Consistency Before Increasing Time

Nicole's 15-minute walks gradually became easier as she lost weight. "By the end of the three months, I had lost the 50 pounds. I also had increased my stamina and I was lighter," Nicole shares. Eventually, she could walk the full 15 minutes without stopping and her plantar fasciitis improved.

Through consistent effort, Nicole and Kyle gradually built their endurance. "We went from 15 minutes to now doing 60 minutes. It took a long time, but we slowly built and that's because it's sustainable," she says. This slow-and-steady approach has helped them maintain their weight loss for nine years.

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Why 15 Minutes of Walking Works Better Than Other Exercises

After trying numerous exercise options, Nicole and Kyle found walking most effective for long-term weight management. "After everything we've tried, we have found walking to be the best for burning fat, helping us lose weight," Nicole explains.

The simplicity and accessibility of walking makes it ideal for sustainable weight loss. "Walking at a leisurely pace consistently not only helped us lose 130 pounds each but it's helped us keep the weight off for over nine years," Nicole says. This low-impact exercise allows for consistent daily activity without burnout or injury.

Make Your 15-Minute Walks Enjoyable, Not Punishing

Nicole emphasizes the importance of enjoying your weight loss journey. "Making weight loss fun, not making it a punishment, is one of those things that I realized," she shares. Choosing activities and foods you enjoy increases the likelihood of sticking with them.

As Nicole puts it, "Consistency over perfection, slow and steady wins the race. Pick something you can do for exercise and pick things you like to eat so that you can do it for life." This mindset shift transforms weight loss from a temporary diet into a sustainable lifestyle.

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The Mindset For Long-Term Success

Beyond physical changes, Nicole reminds us of the mental and emotional components of weight loss. "Remember friends that weight loss isn't just about the number on the scale. It's also about here and here—heart and mindset," Nicole encourages.Success comes from building sustainable habits that fit your life and preferences. "Fight through it. You can do it. Don't give up," Nicole advises. By focusing on consistency rather than perfection, anyone can achieve lasting weight loss results—starting with just 15 minutes of walking every day. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Do you want to majorly glow up in just a month? One expert has a plan for you. Cara Metz is a 50-year-old fitness trainer with over 20 years of experience and over 616,000 followers on Instagram. In a new social media post, she reveals exactly what she did to transform her body in four weeks. “Tired, bloated, and struggling. That was me at the beginning of the year! Here’s EXACTLY what I did to feel like ME again!” she writes in a post.

15-Minute Workouts, 5x a Week

The first thing she did was 15-minute workouts five times a week. “Focused on breath, technique & consistency using my BUILD plan. Prioritized strength & conditioning, because midlife women NEED muscle!” she writes.

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Whole Food Nutrition with 80/20 Balance

She also followed the 80/20 diet, focusing on whole foods. “Following my BUILD & PUSH plan, REAL food made for women over 40. No calorie counting, no deprivation, just simple, effective meals. 20% wiggle room, because life is for living!” she said.

Managing Stress

Managing stress was also a key part of her approach. “You can’t remove stress, but you CAN learn to handle it better. Deep breaths, count to 10, let go of the small stuff,” she says.

Daily Walks

She also took daily walks for connection and movement. “Walked every day, movement is key to staying strong, happy & independent. Walking side-by-side = the best way to talk & connect!” she said.

10-Minute Morning Meditation

Another zen habit she took up? Meditation. She spent 10 minutes every morning meditating. “Creates my force field bubble to handle life’s chaos!” she writes.

Reading Before Bed for Better Sleep

And, before bed, she started reading and stopped eating. “No eating after 7PM + one chapter before bed = game-changer!” she writes.

The Combination Is Effective

“The 4 Pillars: Movement, Nutrition, Sleep & Stress,” she concludes. “Focusing on ALL 4 is what truly transformed my energy, digestion & body.”

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15-Minute Workouts Are a “Game Changer”

In another post, she reveals that she relies on short but intense workouts. “15 minute workouts have been a game changer for me and the ladies who are part of the Cara Fitness family. Do you feel you need to workout for longer? If yes. Why?” she asks.

Do Each Exercise for 50 Seconds

Cara gives the “workout breakdown” and explains that you should do each exercise for 50 seconds each with 10 seconds of rest in between. Then, “repeat the sequence 3 times for a 15 minute workout,” she says.

Here Are the Exercises

  1. Cross bicep curl
  2. Tricep kickbacks & hold
  3. Upright row & clean
  4. Back to front & front drive
  5. Stepping shoulder press.
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