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She “Effortlessly” Lost 66 Pounds and Stopped Binge Eating by Doing These 3 Things

One expert maintains it has to do with your mindset.

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Do you have a history of binge eating that is preventing you from losing weight and keeping it off? One expert claims she knows how to break the cycle. Sheri is a food and relationship coach and binge-eating expert who uses her own personal experience – including a 66-pound weight loss journey – to help and inspire others to do the same. In one of her posts, she discusses her history of weight loss struggles, explaining how she finally healed her relationship with food so she could lose weight. “I finally lost the weight (effortlessly, I might add!),” she writes.


Many People Approach Binge Eating From the Wrong Angle

According to Sheri, many people have the binge eating situation all wrong. They think that healing their “relationship with food” involves giving up their body goals, gaining weight, and “Needing to eat donuts and pastries every day,” she writes. “I mean, you CAN, but you don’t have to do this!”

Here Is the Right Angle

She maintains that “healing your relationship with food and your body actually looks like” the following.

  • No longer binge and emotionally eating
  • Feeling calm and in control of your choices
  • Eating healthily and peacefully
  • Making food decisions from a place of love, not hate
  • Knowing how to say ‘no’ without feeling restricted.

Healthy Eating Habits

It starts with healthy eating habits. “Having the right food approach,” is key, Sheri writes. This is a “combination of knowing your numbers + intuitive eating principles,” she maintains.

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Stronger Mindset

It also involves mentally refocusing. “Creating a stronger mindset” is the second thing you need to do. Why? “So that we no longer lose our sense of discipline when we lose motivation!” she says.

Resilience

Her third habit is also mental. “Building deep emotional resilience,” is key, says Sheri. Why? “So we no longer stress or boredom eat when we feel lonely on a Saturday night!” she writes.

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You Will Become a Healthier and Happier Version of Yourself

“Are you in to finally get out of your own way and achieve your goals?” she writes, listing the many non-weight related benefits.

  • No more self-sabotage
  • No more binging
  • No more overanalyzing calories
  • No more restricting
  • No more excessive cardio.

Binging Has More to Do with Feelings Than Food

In another post, she explains that binging has less to do with food than your mental health. “You’re not binging because of your food obsession,” she writes. The food has 5% to do with why you keep binging. 95% of the reason you’re binging is because of this,” she says. “You binge because you want to feel something OR Because you don’t want to feel something.”

People Often Eat Because of the Stress

“So what do you keep doing?” she continues. “You keep turning to food when you get home from work, the kids are tugging on your clothes, and you have a pile of laundry the size of Mount Everest that you wish your partner would take care of for once” and “You want to relax and numb out for 5 minutes.”

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You Need to Prioritize Yourself

“You know you deserve some peace and quiet, and you use food to help yourself get this.

But then this happens… (every single time!),” she says. You go to bed frustrated again that you didn’t stick to your calories. Annoyed once more than other people and situations made you do something that was actually something that you did NOT want to do at all! Bab,e let me be honest. You need to stop focusing on everyone else. You need to learn how to build up a stronger mindset and deal with your emotions of stress and overwhelm so that they stop leaking out into your food decisions. If you don't, the truth is, the same outcomes are going to keep happening Binge 🔁Binge 🔁Binge 🔁Binge 🔁Binge,” she writes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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This Woman Lost 40 Pounds After Quitting These 5 Common Habits Forever
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Do you want to lose weight and transform your life by changing your routine in small ways? Alexandra (@alexx.fitt) has amassed a following on TikTok by sharing videos about losing 50 pounds. In a new post, she reveals a few of her go-to habits for weight loss. “3 things that have truly helped me lose weight and transform my life,” she writes in a recent post. “This helped me go from 200 pounds to 150 pounds.”

Find an Activity You Are “Absolutely Obsessed With”

The first thing she did that was a game-changer? “Finding an activity I am absolutely OBSESSED with,” she reveals in the post. “When I was losing weight I did not go to the gym at all it was during Covid so everything was closed. Instead I just walked every single day because I loved it and this can be bikini, running, swimming whatever u love.”

Don’t Focus on the Scale

Next, it’s not all about the numbers. “Don’t focus on the scale,” she says. “Focus on how you feel instead. Don’t weigh yourself each week don’t do any extra things because the scale will flexuate. Instead hide your scale for a month don’t weigh yourself and just focus on feeling your best.”

Don’t Burn Out

Her third habit? “No more BURN OUT,” she says. “Okay hear me out ladies stop with the burn out you don’t have to lift heavy 6x a week if u only have time for 3 that’s great. Stop doing hours of cardio and focus on small changes each day. The secret is consistency.”

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Walk

In another one of her viral clips, she reveals that her weight loss was primarily the result of a single exercise. “I lost 40 pounds just by walking, and here's how I did it”, she said, “what you're going to do to start losing weight by walking.” She went on to offer a few tips on how to maximize the burn, starting with starting small. “Number one, don't start big. You don't have to go on a two hour walk every single day,” says Alexandra.

Take Shorter Walks Before or After Breakfast and Lunch

She also takes short walks after every meal. “I would go on a 10, 15 minute walk after my big meals,” she explains. “So usually my first walk would be in the morning, like 10 minutes before breakfast. I would eat breakfast, go about my day, and then during lunch,” she continues. “If you're at school, at work, I know you're able to get outside and get your body moving.”

Take a Longer Walk After Dinner

She also walks at the end of the day, after her meal. “This helps your food digest, it helps get rid of bloating, everything,” she says, explaining that “usually after dinner” she would take her “longer walk,” which would be “ a 30 minute walk.” Should you walk before or after meals? According to research, waiting until after your meal is more effective. A 2022 study published in the journal Sports Medicine found that walking as little as two to five minutes after a meal may lower your blood sugar.

Aim for 10,000 Steps a Day

In total, Alexandra tries to aim for “10,000 steps” per day, she says. A 2018 study published in the journal Obesity found a link between walking 10,000 steps a day and weight loss and weight management. Other studies published by the Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine also linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure, and fewer strokes.

RELATED:10-Min Walking Workout Burns Fat at Home, Says Coach

Cook Double

In another Instagram post, she reveals a few of her best “lazy girl hacks” for weight loss. Alexandra’s first hack is to cook double. She says, “this way you’re gonna have leftovers for lunch for the next couple days & no need to cook!”

Make Healthy Swaps

She also suggests making healthy swaps. “Get the nuts, get the pre-cut veggies instead of having a chocolate bar, have a protein bar on hand,” she suggests.

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Invest in an Air Fryer

“Smart kitchen appliances my air fryer is my BFF,” says Alexandra. “I cook frozen foods in there all the time! I put it in and then I go back to the couch with my bubbly water until I hear a beep.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to lose weight despite dieting? Ruth Soukup is a midlife health and mindset coach who personally lost almost 50 pounds. She regularly shares her tips and tricks with her hundreds of thousands of Instagram followers. In a new post, she reveals a few mistakes she made and then the one thing she did to fix them. “I lost 49 pounds in my 40s when I stopped dieting and started paying attention to this one thing,” she writes in the Instagram video.


She Was Eating Plant-Based, Counting Calories, and Running 3 to 5 Miles Per Day, But Struggled to Lose Weight

“I struggled with my weight for ten long years and failed at more diets than I can count. Even though I thought I was doing all the right things,” she writes in the post. What was she doing? “Eating plant-based,” counting her calories, and “running 3-5 miles every day.”

At 43, She Decided to Do Something Different

She wasn’t getting the results she wanted. “I couldn’t understand why nothing seemed to work or why it felt like my metabolism was just broken. At some point, I started to lose hope. Maybe you can relate. But one day, when I was 43 years old, I finally got so fed up that I decided to do something totally different,” Ruth writes.

She Did Research to Understand “The Science of Weight Loss”

“Instead of dieting, I did real research to understand the science of weight loss, especially for women over 40. I wanted to know why we gain weight as we get older and it’s so hard to lose it. I was shocked to discover that weight loss has almost nothing to do with calories and everything to do with HORMONES. That’s it. That’s the secret. The one thing,” she reveals.

She Lost 49 Pounds and Has Kept It Off

“I totally changed my focus from counting calories to simply balancing my hormones, to eating the foods that would nourish my body, and creating better habits for a sustainable lifestyle. Ultimately, making that shift is what helped me lose 49 pounds and keep it off, and I’ve now helped thousands of other women over 40 do the same,” she says.

She Stopped Calorie Counting

In another post she discusses other healthy habits that helped her lose weight fast. “I struggled with my weight for YEARS, failing at diet after diet, always believing that the problem was ME and my own lack of willpower before I was finally able to lose 49 pounds and actually keep it off. So what was my secret? It was pretty simple, actually. I just focused on my hormones. That meant I committed to stop dieting! No more counting calories—instead focused on nourishing my body,” she writes.

RELATED: Nutritionist Reveals 3 Surprising Foods She Ate to Lose 15 Pounds (Including Dessert for Dinner)

She Quit Sugar and Processed Food

She also majorly cleaned up her diet. She eliminated a few things. “I detoxed from sugar and stopped eating toxic processed food. It’s the first step in balancing your hormones,” she writes.

She Amped Up Her Protein Intake

She also refocused her diet. “I started eating a lot more healthy fat and nutrient-dense protein,” she writes. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW), but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

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She Switched From Cardio to Strength Training

She also switched up her approach to exercise. “I focused on strength training & building lean muscle mass instead of burning calories through high-intensity cardio,” she writes. According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills

She Focused on a Healthy Lifestyle

Lastly, she looked at the big picture. “I didn’t give myself a timeline. I just focused on changing my lifestyle,” she writes. “But I still lost more than 40 pounds in six months, have kept it off for more than 3 years, and now I’ve helped thousands of women do the same.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians strives to be objective, unbiased, and honest.

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Are your unhealthy habits preventing you from losing weight? According to one expert, you should take a look at yours. Fitness and nutrition coach Alexandra (@alexx.fitt) has amassed a following on TikTok and Instagram by sharing videos about losing 40 pounds. In a recent video, she reveals a few bad habits that she ditched to achieve weight loss success finally. “5 things I stopped doing to lose 40lbs,” she writes in the post.


She Stopped Following Trends

Just because it’s trendy doesn’t mean it will help you lose weight. “I stopped following trends,” Alex revealed. “These days, whether it’s running, Pilates Princess is all a trend. You can do it all. The secret is finding what works for you and sticking to it,” she says in her post.

She Stopped Snacking on “Everything in Sight”

Snacking isn’t always bad. However, it can be. “I stopped snacking on everything in sight. I used to be the person who would have a bite of everything. Little did I know it adds up quickly,” Alex writes.

She Stopped Being Lazy

Sedentary behavior won’t help you lose weight, says Alex. “I stopped being lazy. I simply began walking everywhere, taking the stairs instead of the elevator, etc,” she reveals.

RELATED: This Plan Is How to Lose 5 Percent Body Fat In 2 Weeks

She Stopped Setting Strict Goals

Are your diet and fitness goals too rigid? “I stopped having strict goals. I used to think I could lose 2 lbs a week consistently. But realistically, your weight will fluctuate, and setting weight goals puts way too much pressure on me,” she writes.

She Stopped Restricting Herself

Crash diets and avoiding food you actually like aren’t the key to losing weight, according to the influencer. “I stopped restricting myself and learned how to have portion control. Enjoy dessert in moderation,” she says.

She “Ate the Same Meals Every Single Day”

So, what did she eat to lose weight? “For 1-2 months, I ate the same meals every single day. Why? Because I was confused, I didn’t know what to eat or where to start, so I ate the same thing every day,” Alexandra confessed in another post.

RELATED: Health Expert Shares Her 5 Favorite Healthy Food Swaps

Here Is Her Weight Loss Breakfast

On her weight loss journey, Alex had two breakfast options. One “would always be oatmeal with a scoop of protein powder and brandy butter,” she reveals. The second? Eggs with turkey bacon, veggies, and a bagel.

Here Is Her Weight Loss Lunch

You don’t have to stick to salads to lose weight, according to Alex. “I’d usually eat some type of wrap/ sandwich. I’d add mayo, turkey, ham, salami, cheese, and a bunch of veggies,” she writes.

Here Are Her Weight Loss Snacks

Alexandra had a few go-to snacks while losing weight. “I’d have a protein bar, protein shake, fruit, yogurt bowls, bagels with cream cheese, snack plates, and anything I was craving that day. I just made sure it was a decent portion,” she says.

RELATED: 9 Ways You're Making Your Belly Fat Worse

Here Is Her Weight Loss Dinner

For dinner, while losing weight, she “would switch things up” and gravitated toward bowls. She would “add a bunch of lettuce, rice and either ground turkey, chicken, ground beef, any kind of protein and I’d add toppings like tortilla chips, Greek yogurt instead of sour cream, salsa, cheese ugh they’re so good and so filling,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? Vivian Ngo (@vivianngo) is a fat loss coach and the creator of Team Evolve, a fat loss mastery program utilizing the tools that helped her get into the best shape of her life. In her viral TikTok and YouTube videos she reveals her secrets to breaking her sugar addiction and unhealthy binge-eating habits so that she could lose 30 pounds and get into the best shape of her life.


She Struggled with Yo-Yo Dieting for 10 Years

“I thought that I would be stuck in the Yo-yo dieting, binge eating, restricting my calories, and then overeating, losing the weight just to gain it all back. I genuinely thought that I was going to be stuck in that cycle for the rest of my life because I was in it for over 10 years,” Ngo says in a YouTube clip.

She Says “Nothing Worked”

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“I felt like I tried everything, everything, and nothing worked. Nothing kept the weight off. And I can tell you right now that I'm sitting here today down 30 pounds, kept it off for years, and I have never felt better in my skin,” she claims.

However, Now She Has Tools to Overcome It

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By far one of the HARDEST habits I’ve ever had to break. ↴ I was terrified of getting fat that I couldn’t NOT overcompensate my binges. It wasn’t until I was dead set on OVERCOMING binge eating once and for all, That I knew I had to stop the restricting portion in order to stop the bingeing portion, because they fed into one another. But once you teach your mind & body that it won’t be punished for overeating or bingeing, And you start leaning into kindness & compassion for yourself… SHOCKINGLY: the binges stop, too. But it’s scary at first, because you’re so terrified to gain weight that the thoughts of wanting to restrict are SO strong. Learning how to sit with those thoughts, but NOT listen to them is a vital part of recovery. You CAN do it, my friend. ✨ If you’re READY to overcome yo-yo dieting and MASTER your emotions and lifestyle habits so you can *master* your fat loss, once and for all, feel free to visit my website and apply for 1-on-1 coaching with me: www.teamevolve.co/ #healthyeatingtips #healthyeatinghabits #fatlosshabits #fatlosstipsandtricks #weightlosstipsandtricks #weightlossforwomen

What were the tools that helped her? In another TikTok clip, she claims that “eliminating this habit” helped her “overcome ten years of binge eating.”

1. She Stopped “Overcompensating” Post Binge

She explains that she would binge and then try to remedy the situation. “Overcompensating a binge by undereating/doing a bunch of cardio the next day” was the first habit she had to break.

She Had to Overcome Her Binge Eating Instead

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“I was terrified of getting fat that I couldn’t NOT overcompensate my binges. It wasn’t until I was dead set on OVERCOMING binge eating once and for all” that she discovered the second tool.

2. She Had to Stop Restricting Portions

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“I knew I had to stop the restricting portion in order to stop the binging portion because they fed into one another,” she said. “But once you teach your mind & body that it won’t be punished for overeating or binging.”

She Maintains She Used to Exercise Just as Much

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Being consistent with working out is *not* enough to get you the results that you want: let’s talk about it! ↴ If you’re like me or the women I work with, your goal is to get toned meaning: you want to lose body fat, and look fit + strong without looking bulky. So you’ve heard that you should start lifting weights if you want to get toned, so you do - but even though you’re being consistent in the gym, you’re really not seeing much change in your body like you want to. Sounds about right? Here’s why: ↴ Lifting weights will help you build strength + muscle which is *amazing* - but to really see a difference in your physique, You will need to lose body fat that is laying on top of your hard-earned muscle in order to really see a difference in your body. To lose body fat, you need to be in a calorie deficit, And the BEST way to ensure you’re in a calorie deficit isn’t just be eating healthy *most* of the time, It’s by being accountable to what you’re putting in your body 24/7 by weighing out your food and tracking it every day: Monday through Sunday! And if you’re already quite active and being consistent in the gym, It’s THAT much more important that you need to be diligent with your tracking + diet day-to-day! 🌸 If you’re interested in working with me 1-on-1, check out my coaching on my website at: www.teamevolve.co/ ✨ #fatlosstransformations #fatlossbeforeandafter #weightlossbeforeandafter #weightlosstransformations #armfatloss #tonedarms

In another TikTok video, she reveals another important tool. She shows a before-and-after photo, claiming that she did the “exact same workouts, lifting weights, and doing incline walking on the treadmill” five days a week in both photos.

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3. She Had to Stop Binging on Sugar and Drinking

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“So why do I look so different in this photo? I was eating pretty healthy, but I would have cravings at night, and I would often binge on sugar at night. On the weekends, I like to go out to eat. I would drink, and I would kind of go off my healthy eating plan. But during the week, I was eating pretty healthy. So I thought,” she says.

4. And, She Had to Start Tracking Calories

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“In this photo, I was tracking my calories. I was weighing all of my food and logging all of my food in my FitnessPal Monday through Sunday, every single day, every single meal, I was accountable to everything I was putting my body. That was the biggest difference between these two photos here. I was eating pretty healthy some days off here, and I knew exactly what was going into my body every day,” she revealed.

5. She Also Stopped Making Food “Good and Bad”

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How I overcame binge eating / yo-yo dieting after being stuck for 10 years. ❤️ If you’re ready to commit to your healing journey and overcome yo-yo dieting once and for all, visit my website to work with me: www.teamevolve.co/ ✨ #fatlosshabits #weightlosstipsandtricks #emotionaleatingcoach #overeating #overeatinghelp

In another TikTok she adds that she had to look at food differently to lose weight. “I had to stop making foods good and bad because that is why I was binge eating. I would only let myself eat high protein, veggies, no carbs. That's it,” she said.

She Used to Use Eating “Bad” Food as an Excuse to Binge

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“And anytime I would have a food that I would consider, not high protein, not vegetables, not low carb, anything unhealthy, fast food, going out to eat a piece of candy, bite of a cookie, anything, I would use that as an excuse to binge because I would say, oh, I've already fallen off for today, so I might as well have everything that I've restricted myself from and start again tomorrow, and I will promise myself I'll be good tomorrow. I promised myself I'll be good Monday,” she continued.

RELATED: 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week

6. So, She Started to “Slowly Incorporate” Sugar and Fast Food

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“And the reason why I was so stuck in my weight loss journey is because I couldn't stop binging. The reason I was binging is that I couldn't stop restricting myself, and it wasn't until I started to slowly incorporate sugar, going out to eat burgers, french fries, McDonald's, and Taco Bell, all these things that I previously thought were horrible, so bad, so unhealthy would make me fat, it wasn't until I started to make my peace with these foods, allow myself to have them incorporate them into my nutrition plan that I finally stopped binging after ten long years, and I actually was able to look and feel my best while eating all these, what I used to think were bad foods.”

7. She Also Started Planning

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In another TikTok revealing “habits that helped me lose OVER 30 lbs of body fat,” Ngo adds that planning is key. “Planning in advance is CRUCIAL. Deciding what I want to eat last minute almost NEVER leads me to make choices that are actually filling + satisfying,” she writes.

She Plans the Night Before

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She reveals that she plans what and when she is going to eat the night before. She also “has a game plan for what to do when I want to eat out of boredom.”

RELATED: 15 Proven Strategies to Drop 2 Pounds a Week with Minimal Effort

8. She Also Takes Progress Photos

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Another one of her tricks to stay on track? She doesn’t rely on the scale. “Use progress photos instead,” she recommends.

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Online fitness coach Alexandra (@alexx.fitt) has amassed a following on TikTok and Instagram by sharing videos about her weight loss. In her many viral videos, she reveals the simple but effective changes she made to her lifestyle that enabled her to drop the weight fast. In a new Instagram video, she gets specific about the “3 things” she “stopped doing to lose 40 pounds.”


She Stepped Away From the Scale

The first thing Alex did was stop weighing herself, she writes. “Why? The scale was messing with my head, so I threw it off my balcony.”

She Stopped Counting Calories

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Lots of health experts recommend counting calories, but that didn’t work for Alex. “I stopped counting calories and stuck to a schedule. I ate breakfast at 8 a.m., a snack at 11, lunch at 1, a snack at 3, and dinner at 6. And yeah, your schedule may be different, but if you have 5 minutes to check TikTok or like this post, you have 5 minutes to grab an apple or pick up a protein bar and throw it in your purse,” she writes.

Related: I'm a Dietitian, and These Are 7 Foods You Should Never Eat

She Stopped Doing Workouts She Hated

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Her third lifestyle change? “I stopped doing the workouts I hated,” she claims. I remember I’d always do 40 minutes on the Stairmaster (it didn’t help me lose weight, only raise my cortisol levels), and on the days I was lazy, I’d skip the gym altogether just because I didn’t want to do cardio. Now, my only cardio is walking.”

Her advice? “Start implementing a routine that makes you happy and works for you, not anyone else,” she concludes the post.

Here’s How She Used Walking for Weight Loss

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As for exercise, in some of her other videos, Alex elaborated on how walking helped with her weight loss. Not only would she walk for 20-30 minutes in the morning, but she would take a short 10-15 minute walk after lunch.

Related: 5 Habits from Fitness Trainer Krissy Cela that Could Change Your Life

Try to Walk 30 to 60 Minutes a Day, Says Another Expert

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“You can do 30-60 minutes all at one time, or you can do a few 10-15 minute bouts of exercise throughout the day. Whatever works for you,” says The Diet Diva, Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CPT, a Board Certified Sports Dietitian. “Either way, you are raising your metabolism and teaching your body to burn calories.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Just because experts recommend habits, like counting calories, weighing yourself, or doing specific workouts, doesn’t mean they will work for you. If they don’t, make changes accordingly.

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Coach Lost 50 Pounds at 50 by Eating These 6 High-Protein Meals
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Are you struggling to lose weight in your 50s? You may need to try a more flexible dietary approach. Denise Kirtley is a 54-year-old transformation coach who looks half her age after rehabbing her approach to diet and fitness shortly after turning 50. In a new social media post, she reveals the dietary changes she made that enabled her to get her fittest figure ever. “I lost 50 pounds in my 50s and have kept it off for almost 4 years now. Here’s what I ate last year to maintain my weight loss,” she writes in the post.

She Has “Cracked the Code”

Here’s the thing…I love food. I look forward to my meals. Over the past four and a half years, I feel like I have finally cracked the code on how to eat in a way that makes me feel satisfied while fueling my workouts so I can become stronger. And most importantly…without feeling deprived.

Her Meals Are Protein Focused

“I have learned to make balanced meals that work for me. All of my meals have approximately 25g to 35g of protein plus a good amount of healthy carbs for energy and the right amount of fat to maintain my goals,” she says.

Her Meals Are “Balanced” and Even Include Processed Foods

“Whenever I post my meals…there’s always a few that criticize any processed food, any sugar, anything that we are told are ‘bad’ foods. I have learned that for me, it’s really about balance. I don’t look at foods as good or bad,” she says.

The “All Or Nothing” Mindset Backfires

“And I have learned long ago that when I fall into a perfectionist, all or nothing mindset…it backfires.

As a former binger and emotional eater, that mindset doesn’t serve me,” she continues.

She Aims for 80/20

“So, I aim for 80% of my diet to be whole natural foods…I eat lots of lean meats, fish, fruits, veggies and grains. I have developed a love for these foods as a result of loving how eating them makes me feel. But I also allow flexibility with 20% of my diet,” she says.

She Even Eats Bread, Chocolate, Pasta, and Protein Bars

This “includes bread (gasp!). I love bread! And chocolate! (Bigger gasp!) I have had a bit of chocolate every day for the past 4.5 years! Every.Single.Day. And the occasional protein bar, bit of pasta, protein powder, veggie meats, etc, etc,” she says. “On vacation or special occasions I have dessert! And even on a very rare occasion, a glass of champagne (few times per year)”

Flexible Eating Makes Her Diet Sustainable

“My working these more flexible foods into my macros has made this a really sustainable and enjoyable way of life for me. If you’re looking for someone that has given up absolutely everything processed or refined, that’s not me. I admire the people I see on here that say they only eat whole foods 100% of the time,” she says.

Rigidity Doesn’t Work for Her

“But as a food lover and someone who struggled with weight ups and downs most of my adult life, it’s all about balance. I know that a life with rigidity around food choices and a future of only chicken and broccoli doesn’t work for me,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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I Lost Weight After 50 With These Simple Changes
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Middle age brings many changes to our bodies, especially during menopause, when weight seems to stick no matter what we try. Fitness coachPahla Bowers has developed a simple yet effective walking workout specifically designed for women over 50 that combines low-impact movements to target stubborn fat without stressing your joints. This 30-minute routine alternates between walking intervals and targeted exercises that can be done right in your living room, making it perfect for busy days when you need an effective workout without complicated equipment.

The 5-0 Method Makes Weight Loss Simple

"Every single day we do five things that make you say, oh, I had no idea it could be so simple to lose weight at our age," explains Pahla as she introduces her 5-0 method in her post. This approach focuses on five daily habits: eating the right number of calories (not necessarily fewer), drinking enough water (half your body weight in pounds in fluid ounces), maintaining consistent sleep patterns, exercising moderately, and managing your mindset. This combination creates a sustainable path to fat loss that works especially well for menopausal bodies.

One Minute Walking, 30 Seconds Exercise

The workout follows a simple but effective pattern: one minute of walking alternated with 30-second cardio exercises. "Today's workout was really for me to be able to just really enjoy moving my body and not having to think too hard," Pahla shares. You can walk anywhere—around your living room, up and down hallways, or even take the routine outside. What makes this approach so effective is the continuous movement that keeps your heart rate in a fat-burning zone without overtaxing your system.

Your Mindset Is Your Secret Weight Loss Weapon

Perhaps surprisingly, Pahla ranks mindset as the most important factor for weight loss success. "If you truly do not believe you can lose weight, think that you are not losing weight... mindset's number one," she emphasizes during the workout. The routine incorporates a powerful mantra—"I am always on track"—to help shift your perspective about your progress. This positive approach reduces stress hormones that can sabotage weight loss efforts, particularly during menopause when hormonal balance is already disrupted.

Balance Training Burns Fat And Protects Your Future

Throughout the 30-minute routine, many exercises like "speed skaters" strengthen your outer thighs while improving balance. "That is the thing that can keep you from falling over when we're doing lateral moves like this, strengthening your inner and outer thighs," Pahla points out. This focus on balance isn't just about current fitness—it's targeting the areas where fat often accumulates after 50 while simultaneously protecting against falls. "Most older adults actually fall from some kind of a lateral motion," she explains, making these side-to-side movements crucial for long-term independence.

Low-Impact Doesn't Mean Low Results

Just because this workout avoids jumping doesn't mean it's not effective for fat loss. "Just because we are not jumping doesn't mean your heart rate doesn't have some variability here," Pahla reminds participants during the "swimming frogs" exercise. The workout strategically incorporates arm movements that elevate your heart rate while keeping the routine gentle on aging joints. This approach allows you to burn stubborn fat without adding stress to your knees, hips, or back—a common concern for women over 50.

What Really Drives Fat Loss After 50

During the walking intervals, Pahla reveals an important truth about exercise and fat loss. "Exercise is fantastic for your health. It's beautiful for your health. Very, very, very good for you. Does not drive weight loss," she explains. While movement is essential for overall wellness, particularly heart health, nutrition and mindset play bigger roles in shedding pounds. Understanding this helps you approach exercise with the right expectations and reduce frustration when the scale doesn't immediately respond to your efforts.

Water And Sleep: The Unsung Heroes Of Fat Loss

According to Pahla, water and sleep play crucial roles in your body's ability to burn fat. "They don't necessarily speed up weight loss when I'm doing them right, but they definitely slow them down if I'm not hitting my targets," she shares. The 5-0 method recommends drinking half your body weight in ounces of water daily and maintaining consistent sleep patterns. These simple habits support your hormone regulation and metabolism, creating an environment where your body can more efficiently release stored fat.

Make This Workout Work For Your Body

Throughout the 30-minute routine, Pahla emphasizes personalizing the workout to your fitness level. "You, my friends, can always make the workout work for you," she encourages while demonstrating modifications. This might mean slowing down certain movements or reducing range of motion as needed. She warns against pushing too hard just because it feels good in the moment, noting that soreness, fatigue, or plateaued weight loss might indicate your workout isn't truly working for your unique body.

Every Movement Is Moving You Forward

The workout includes fun exercises with names like "clackers," "ding-dongs," and "chicken wing high knees" that make the 30 minutes fly by. "Your track might not look anything like you thought it was going to or like you wish it would, but it is your beautiful, unique, personal track," Pahla reflects during the final exercises. This perspective helps release the pressure of comparing your progress to others. By acknowledging that your journey is uniquely yours—with all its detours and unexpected turns—you can approach fat loss with greater patience.

Cool Down With Forward Thinking

As the workout winds down with gentle stretches, Pahla reinforces the forward-looking mindset that supports long-term success. "You are always on track for a glorious time ahead of you. Independence, being your healthy weight, feeling amazing," she says. Even during the cool-down, the simple arm circles and side steps continue the balance training, reinforcing that every movement contributes to your fat-burning goals. This 30-minute routine isn't just about today's calories—it's building habits that support lasting weight loss.

Start Your Fat Loss Journey Today

This 30-minute walking workout is part of a larger series designed specifically for women over 50, but you can begin with just this single routine. Performing moderate exercise like this consistently delivers better results than occasional intense sessions that leave you too sore to continue. Start where you are, move at a pace that feels sustainable, and remember that being "on track" means showing up for yourself daily. As Pahla says at the end of the workout, "Not only are you always on track, but you always do such a great job." And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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Fitness Expert Says Fit Women in Their 40s Have These 6 Things in Common
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Are you struggling to shape up in your forties? Julie Clouse is a social media influencer and fitness and macros expert who tries to “inspire others to be the best version of themselves.” In a new social media post she unveils her healthy habits for losing weight after 40. In a new post, she reveals a few things that helped her get fit in perimenopause. “Eating habits that helped me get toned and lean in my 40s,” she writes, revealing 7 nutritional habits that helped her achieve her enviable body.

She Increased Her Protein Intake

The first thing she did? Increased her protein intake. “Increasing my protein intake to eat my body weight in grams of protein, has not only improved muscle recovery, but also made me feel more satiated, leading to positive changes in my body composition,” she writes.

She Ate 3 to 4 Large Meals a Day

Eating 3-to 4 large meals a day was also game-changing. “Instead of skipping breakfast or lunch and later binge eating snacks and being behind on protein goals, I now eat larger meals, which helps me avoid excessive snacking and overeating,” she says.

She Ate 80% Whole Foods

“Transitioning to a diet of 80% whole foods (veggies, fruits, lean proteins, whole grains) from one that was not protein focused and a lot of processed foods, has left me feeling energized, with clearer skin, and significantly better overall,” she says.

She Ate 20% of Foods That Fulfilled Her Cravings

She allotted the remaining 20 percent to foods that fulfilled her cravings. “Allowing myself to enjoy 20% indulgent foods like sweets and pizza prevents binging since I’m not completely depriving myself. Do not deprive or call foods off limits, just make them fit in your diet in moderation. Life is so much better with some indulgence!” she says.

She Ate Similar Meals

She also ate consistent and similar meals daily. “Preparing simple, enjoyable meals on repeat saves time and reduces overwhelm, especially if you’re counting macros,” she say

She Fueled Her Body Properly

Fueling her body properly was another game-changer. “For years, I thought I needed to eat less to look toned. But staying in a constant diet state kept me from seeing results. Once I focused on eating enough to support muscle growth, my body composition finally changed. You can’t build a strong, lean body if you’re always under-fueling!” she said.

She Took Creatine Daily

Taking creatine daily was the final helpful habit. “One of the simplest and most effective supplements! 5g of creatine daily helps with muscle strength, recovery, and overall body composition. It also supports energy levels during workouts, making it easier to push harder and build lean muscle,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.