Skip to content
βœ“Expert-Recommended

We've consulted with our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians to bring you informed recommendations for food products, health aids and nutritional goods to safely and successfully guide you toward making better diet and nutrition choices. We strive to only recommend products that adhere to our philosophy of eating better while still enjoying what you eat.

11 Strength-Building Secrets From a Pro Trainer

A pro trainer reveals 11 strength-building secrets for achieving peak fitness.

FACT CHECKED BY Christopher Roback
FACT CHECKED BY Christopher Roback

Why strength training? For the average person, getting stronger using safe and well-structured exercise programs is virtually 100% upside, minus the time and effort required to stick with a program.


I've seen it happen, as a fitness coach for five years with a focus on helping novice and intermediate fitness clients build foundational levels of strength through proper biomechanical movement patterns, progressive overload, and appropriate periodization.

Aside from the obvious benefit of being able to lift heavier objects and have better endurance when performing day-to-day tasks, strength training with exercises like squats, deadlifts, overhead presses, and other compound movements improves mobility, bone density, metabolism, and a wide range of health markers associated with longevity, health span, and an overall improved quality of life.

For individuals interested in developing a more muscular appearance, strength training has the benefit of increasing muscle mass as well with the degree of increase varying depending on the exact resistance and program design.

Overall, however, beginner and intermediate clients generally see strength improvements, muscle improvements, and health improvements from strength training.

Precautions to Take Before You Start Strength Exercises

A doctor is taking the blood pressure of a woman who is wearing sportswear.Shutterstock/Andriiii

If you have any pre-existing health conditions or injuries, you should always get clearance from your health care provider before beginning any exercise program.

For otherwise healthy individuals, the most important thing is to start with a light weight and focus on exercise technique and form. In a perfect world, you would have supervision from a professional coach, however if this is not possible you can opt for virtual coaching programs and finding qualified coaches online who put out free content regarding the proper exercise techniques.

If you feel any pain, especially in your joints while lifting, stop immediately and get evaluated by a health care professional.

Generally speaking, strength training is far safer than many other common recreational activities and has a much lower injury rate.

In fact, strength training is associated with decreases in injury risk from other activities due to the improved resilience of your body as you get stronger.

RELATED: 7 Best Exercises to Support Your Running Routine

Focus on This First When Strength Training

Within gym with modern fitness equipment for fitness events and more. Modern of gym interior with equipment. Sports equipment in the gym.Shutterstock

The top secret for strength building is consistency, which is by far the most important factor when it comes to getting results.

Focus less on the intensity and duration of every single workout and focus more on consistently hitting the gym two to three times a week for an extended period of time, or theoretically your entire life as fitness is always an ongoing process.

Start Light

close up of man holding weight in gymShutterstock

Start light with higher reps. Use a weight that allows good form for 15 repetitions and stick with that for 4-8 weeks.

Do Compound Movements

dumbbell Chest PressShutterstock

Focus mostly, if not entirely on compound movements like squats, deadlifts, pull ups, overhead presses, and chest presses.

Use Free Weights

Colorful,Kettlebells,Row,In,A,GymShutterstock

Use free weights like barbells, dumbbells, and kettlebells for 80 percent of your training. Machines are okay, but they are not as beneficial as free weights because they require less stabilization.

Eat protein and carbohydrates

Photo of excited beautiful young pretty woman sitting in cafe indoors have a breakfast eating saladShutterstock

Most people focus on protein, but you need carbs to fuel your workouts.

Rest

Young happy woman in a yellow coat rides a bicycle in a sunny park. Beautiful woman enjoys autumn nature. Relax, nature concept. Lifestyle.Shutterstock

Take at least 2 active rest days per week, and even up to 4 is okay. Do some light walking, cycling, and physical movement but do not push too hard on those days.

Sleep

Peaceful young man sleeping in a comfortable bed alone at home, enjoying his orthopedic mattress and cozy pillow. Good sleep concept. Copy spaceShutterstock

Sleep is key for recovery. If you are not sleeping 7-8 hours a night, your gains will be affected over time.

Warmup

Beautiful women doing a cardio HIIT routine and squatting. Three fit women in sportswear working out and doing squats in the gymShutterstock

Make sure to do a warmup at the beginning of your workout. The warmup should consist of light cardio to elevate your body temperature followed by active and dynamic stretches such as walking lunges and body weight squats, then perform warm up sets for each exercise using light weights as you ease into your heavier working sets.

Add Mobility Work

Man,Foam,Rolling.,Athlete,Stretches,Using,Foam,Roller.Shutterstock

Adding mobility work such as foam rolling can help improve your range of motion at the beginning of a workout. Save static stretching for after your strength workout.

Avoid Cardio After Your Workout

Tired woman having rest after workout. Tired and exhausted female athlete sitting on floor at gym with a water bottle.Shutterstock

If your goal is to maximize strength, avoid doing cardio after your workout. It's vital to allow your body to recover from strength training. For health benefits, cardio is still good, however keep it to around 30 minutes and separate it from your strength training sessions, ideally on non-lifting days.

Aim for Long-Term Gains

Fitness woman in sportswear trains shoulder muscles, doing dumbbell press while sitting on bench in gym. Back viewShutterstock

Understand that strength building is a long term gain. It takes years to completely transform yourself from where you are now to a newer, much stronger version. You will see benefits in the short term, but making strength training a way of life as opposed to a temporary program is the only way to truly lasting results.

Common Mistake #1 to Avoid When Strength Training

Blonde young woman give up workout in gym, fail.Shutterstock/sakkmesterke

The most common mistake by far that newer lifters would make is focusing on the amount of weight they lift in each workout or exercise as opposed to having clean lifting technique and long term consistency. While there's nothing wrong with pushing yourself using heavy weights, absolutely never sacrifice your form in the pursuit of heavier weightlifting. An injury will set you back substantially and there is little marginal benefit in lifting excessively heavy weights when it comes to gaining real strength.

RELATED: Eat Your Way to a Flat Stomach With These 2 Foods, According to Weight Loss Expert

Common Mistake #2 to Avoid When Strength Training

young sports woman working out, running and feeling tired on treadmill in gymShutterstock

The next common mistake is creating a program that is so intense or has so many days a week per lifting that it becomes unrealistic for your schedule. Even a consistent 2 day a week program is going to be a four or five day week lifting program that you are not consistent with.

Be realistic when planning your workout program that fits within your lifestyle. While you will need to make sacrifices to get your workouts in, if the program you are trying is completely unrealistic for your schedule, it's not going to deliver the results.

Common Mistake #3 to Avoid When Strength Training

Check your body shape with white weight scales, top view.Shutterstock

The final mistake I will mention here is attempting to dramatically lose weight while also gaining strength. Beginner fitness enthusiasts can lose weight and build strength at the same time, and including strength training in a weight loss program is definitely recommended.

However, in the long run, gaining maximal strength requires eating enough food to fuel your workouts which can often conflict with aggressive weight loss goals. With that said, a slow and steady improvement to your muscle-to-fat ratio as your body transforms from the strength training is definitely feasible.

Final Word From the Trainer

Shot of a muscular young woman in sportswear working out with personal trainer at the gym. She is pumping up her biceps muscule with heavy weight.Shutterstock

I cannot emphasize consistency enough. If you follow any reasonable workout program consistently and ensure that over time you are progressing your weight on your exercises, you will get stronger.

πŸ’ͺπŸ”₯Body Booster: Forget about intense workouts every time. Focus on showing up consistently, week after week.

Jordan Fernandez is a Certified Personal Trainer at Trainer Academy

More For You

FACT CHECKED BY Christopher Roback
βœ“Expert-Recommended

We've consulted with our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians to bring you informed recommendations for food products, health aids and nutritional goods to safely and successfully guide you toward making better diet and nutrition choices. We strive to only recommend products that adhere to our philosophy of eating better while still enjoying what you eat.

I am the co-founder and Head of Nutrition at Alta Coaching, a Functional Nutritional Therapy Practitioner, NASM Certified Personal Trainer and Board Certified in Holistic Nutrition. I have been a personal trainer for 8 years working with a variety of clientele and over a dozen certifications in training and nutrition modalities. My passion for training others stemmed from an unconventional path to loving fitness myself. I was not into athletics growing up and had intense struggles with body image and self-esteem. I began lifting weights in college and got hooked by how strong and confident it made me feel. I wanted to spread that to others so I became a personal trainer. Ready for another challenge, I started training Muay Thai in my mid 20’s and it inspired me to train like an athlete for the first time. Currently, I lift weights and train in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu multiple times per week. I had to shed a lot of negative programming to learn what optimal fitness looks like for me and my unique body. The tips below are some lessons I have learned along the way (mostly the hard way) and I want to share them to save you from making the same mistakes.


1. No Celebrity Workout Is the Right One for You

,Fitness, lunges, workout, gym, exercise, instructor, personal, trainerShutterstock

Following fad workout or diet trends can be temporarily motivating but isn’t sustainable for the long term. I would do workouts I saw in magazines or Pinterest (pre-Instagram!) that typically had a celebrity or fitness model splashed across the front image. I didn’t actually care about the workout, I just wanted to look like her. Once I started learning resistance training principles and program design, I started doing exercises with intention and purpose behind their selection. Now that I have been lifting for 10 years, I am very aware of what exercises and intensity work for my body and what don’t.

2. Quality Sleep Is Non-Negotiable

,Brunette,Waking,Morning,,Stretches,sleep,bed,bedroom,wake,up,yawn,sleepingShutterstock

Getting enough sleep is the most efficient way for me to feel great every single day. Once I learned that there are sleeping repair windows for physical (10pm-2am) and mental recovery (2-6am), it made me take my sleep way more seriously and I am healthier because of it. Poor sleep impacts everything from energy levels, cognition, mood and it even increases sugar cravings. Taking a deep look at your sleep hygiene to add even 1 or 2 hours to your nightly average could make a huge difference.

3. Eating Enough Protein per Day Is Crucial

,High,Protein.,Healthy,Eating,,Diet,meat,chicken,steak,beef,fish,salmonShutterstock

If you want to be lean, have stable energy levels, feel strong and have no cravings then you need to build muscle. To support healthy lean muscle, you must be eating enough protein per day from quality sources. Why put in hard work at the gym if you are not fueling your body properly to rebuild and recover? Aim for a minimum of 25g per meal from sources like chicken, beef, eggs, turkey, Greek yogurt, or lentils.

Related: Top 10 Superfoods Every Woman Should Eat for the Best Body

Related:Top 10 Superfoods Every Man Should Eat for the Best Body

4. Stay in Your Lane, Not All Forms of Exercise Are Right for You

As a trainer, I have experimented with every group fitness class at least once. It is fun to try something new and learn, but our bodies are not designed to be great at everything. The level of skill, coordination, conditioning, and even patience should be considered before picking the right exercise modality. Doing something that is attainable is most likely to stick.

5. Consistency Is Key, Being Perfect Isn’t

Strong,Fitness,,Gym,,Dumbbell,Teamwork,Training, push,up, muscle, weights,Shutterstock

This is by far the most important thing I reinforce with my clients. Building discipline happens with consistency over time. The more you do something, the easier it will be to do. For example, working out twice a week for a year will get much better results than working out every day of the week for 2 weeks and repeating that on and off.

6. Too Much Cardio Will Stunt Muscle Growth

Kettlebell,Training,Gym,weights,training,exercise,Shutterstock

Too many people are sabotaging their results by overdoing the cardio. Cardiovascular training is good for heart health but it does burn a ton of calories and your body won’t build muscle if it doesn’t have enough energy available. For yo-yo dieters or those who want to lose fat and build muscle, hitting the weights over the treadmill will lead to better results.

Related: I Lost 130 Pounds With Help From Indoor Cycling and Here's How You Can, Too

7. Clear and Measurable Goals Are Important for Progress

,,Muscular,Girl,,Pull,ups,Exercise,Gym,fitness,exerciseShutterstock

It is easy to set a goal, the hard part is actually getting there. It may seem silly, but this exercise of breaking down goals into habits is great for increasing self-awareness, the key is to keep it REAL with yourself. I worked out without specific or realistic goals for a while and it is not an efficient method. Having a specific goal like doing a pull-up or losing 10 lbs by following a 500 calorie deficit will provide a better road map for you to follow and see results.

8. Your Ability to Recover Is Your #1 Limiting Factor

Female,Workout,,Fitness,Training,stretch,stretching,exerciseShutterstock

I have learned this one the hard way on many occasions. Without proper recovery our bodies do not have the resources to perform. For anyone who loves to push themselves in the gym or is aggressive about hitting milestones, the secret to continual progress is in your recovery. Poor performance, lack of results, injury, joint pain, lack of focus, irritability are all some signs you need to focus on your recovery.

9. You Can’t Ignore Your Weaknesses and Expect Them to Go Away

Woman,Working,Laptop,Headache,Back,pain,sore,hurtShutterstock

Low back pain? Aching knees? Sore wrists? They may go away when you rest, but come back the moment you are active again and set you back. The secret is to strengthen your weak muscles, tendons, and ligaments to reduce pain. I am passionate about corrective exercise and functional training and I’ve seen so many people flourish after they finally address the nagging injury or correct the dysfunctional patterns their body has been adapted to.

10. Find an Inspiring Environment

Fitness,,Sport,,Training,,Gym,squat,trainer,fitness,exerciseShutterstock

One reason I love going to the gym is I am inspired by others around me working hard and I pick up on the energy. I also belong to a martial arts gym for a close community that inspired me as well. If you are going to make fitness a routine part of your life, you need to find an environment you like to be in, otherwise you won’t go.

Related: I’ve Tried Nearly Every Diet and This is the #1 Best for Weight Loss For Me

11. Final Word From the Trainer

kat-best-foodKat Best

The most important message here is that it’s a lot easier to work out regularly, get in shape and maintain it if you keep it simple and focus on what works. At Alta, we have helped hundreds of people build habits, get results and change their lives by following just a few simple habits, consistently over time. If you enjoyed this article, don't miss out on my previous one titled The #1 Carb You Could Eat For Your Body.

Kat Best, NASM-CPT, NTP, BCHN is a co-founder and Head of Nutrition for Alta Coaching, Functional Nutritional Therapy Practitioner, NASM Certified Personal Trainer and Board Certified in Holistic Nutrition.

FACT CHECKED BY Christopher Roback
βœ“Expert-Recommended

We've consulted with our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians to bring you informed recommendations for food products, health aids and nutritional goods to safely and successfully guide you toward making better diet and nutrition choices. We strive to only recommend products that adhere to our philosophy of eating better while still enjoying what you eat.

Why strength training? For the average person, getting stronger using safe and well-structured exercise programs is virtually 100% upside, minus the time and effort required to stick with a program.


I've seen it happen, as a fitness coach for five years with a focus on helping novice and intermediate fitness clients build foundational levels of strength through proper biomechanical movement patterns, progressive overload, and appropriate periodization.

Aside from the obvious benefit of being able to lift heavier objects and have better endurance when performing day-to-day tasks, strength training with exercises like squats, deadlifts, overhead presses, and other compound movements improves mobility, bone density, metabolism, and a wide range of health markers associated with longevity, health span, and an overall improved quality of life.

For individuals interested in developing a more muscular appearance, strength training has the benefit of increasing muscle mass as well with the degree of increase varying depending on the exact resistance and program design.

Overall, however, beginner and intermediate clients generally see strength improvements, muscle improvements, and health improvements from strength training.

Precautions to Take Before You Start Strength Exercises

A doctor is taking the blood pressure of a woman who is wearing sportswear.Shutterstock/Andriiii

If you have any pre-existing health conditions or injuries, you should always get clearance from your health care provider before beginning any exercise program.

For otherwise healthy individuals, the most important thing is to start with a light weight and focus on exercise technique and form. In a perfect world, you would have supervision from a professional coach, however if this is not possible you can opt for virtual coaching programs and finding qualified coaches online who put out free content regarding the proper exercise techniques.

If you feel any pain, especially in your joints while lifting, stop immediately and get evaluated by a health care professional.

Generally speaking, strength training is far safer than many other common recreational activities and has a much lower injury rate.

In fact, strength training is associated with decreases in injury risk from other activities due to the improved resilience of your body as you get stronger.

RELATED: 7 Best Exercises to Support Your Running Routine

Focus on This First When Strength Training

Within gym with modern fitness equipment for fitness events and more. Modern of gym interior with equipment. Sports equipment in the gym.Shutterstock

The top secret for strength building is consistency, which is by far the most important factor when it comes to getting results.

Focus less on the intensity and duration of every single workout and focus more on consistently hitting the gym two to three times a week for an extended period of time, or theoretically your entire life as fitness is always an ongoing process.

Start Light

close up of man holding weight in gymShutterstock

Start light with higher reps. Use a weight that allows good form for 15 repetitions and stick with that for 4-8 weeks.

Do Compound Movements

dumbbell Chest PressShutterstock

Focus mostly, if not entirely on compound movements like squats, deadlifts, pull ups, overhead presses, and chest presses.

Use Free Weights

Colorful,Kettlebells,Row,In,A,GymShutterstock

Use free weights like barbells, dumbbells, and kettlebells for 80 percent of your training. Machines are okay, but they are not as beneficial as free weights because they require less stabilization.

Eat protein and carbohydrates

Photo of excited beautiful young pretty woman sitting in cafe indoors have a breakfast eating saladShutterstock

Most people focus on protein, but you need carbs to fuel your workouts.

Rest

Young happy woman in a yellow coat rides a bicycle in a sunny park. Beautiful woman enjoys autumn nature. Relax, nature concept. Lifestyle.Shutterstock

Take at least 2 active rest days per week, and even up to 4 is okay. Do some light walking, cycling, and physical movement but do not push too hard on those days.

Sleep

Peaceful young man sleeping in a comfortable bed alone at home, enjoying his orthopedic mattress and cozy pillow. Good sleep concept. Copy spaceShutterstock

Sleep is key for recovery. If you are not sleeping 7-8 hours a night, your gains will be affected over time.

Warmup

Beautiful women doing a cardio HIIT routine and squatting. Three fit women in sportswear working out and doing squats in the gymShutterstock

Make sure to do a warmup at the beginning of your workout. The warmup should consist of light cardio to elevate your body temperature followed by active and dynamic stretches such as walking lunges and body weight squats, then perform warm up sets for each exercise using light weights as you ease into your heavier working sets.

Add Mobility Work

Man,Foam,Rolling.,Athlete,Stretches,Using,Foam,Roller.Shutterstock

Adding mobility work such as foam rolling can help improve your range of motion at the beginning of a workout. Save static stretching for after your strength workout.

Avoid Cardio After Your Workout

Tired woman having rest after workout. Tired and exhausted female athlete sitting on floor at gym with a water bottle.Shutterstock

If your goal is to maximize strength, avoid doing cardio after your workout. It's vital to allow your body to recover from strength training. For health benefits, cardio is still good, however keep it to around 30 minutes and separate it from your strength training sessions, ideally on non-lifting days.

Aim for Long-Term Gains

Fitness woman in sportswear trains shoulder muscles, doing dumbbell press while sitting on bench in gym. Back viewShutterstock

Understand that strength building is a long term gain. It takes years to completely transform yourself from where you are now to a newer, much stronger version. You will see benefits in the short term, but making strength training a way of life as opposed to a temporary program is the only way to truly lasting results.

Common Mistake #1 to Avoid When Strength Training

Blonde young woman give up workout in gym, fail.Shutterstock/sakkmesterke

The most common mistake by far that newer lifters would make is focusing on the amount of weight they lift in each workout or exercise as opposed to having clean lifting technique and long term consistency. While there's nothing wrong with pushing yourself using heavy weights, absolutely never sacrifice your form in the pursuit of heavier weightlifting. An injury will set you back substantially and there is little marginal benefit in lifting excessively heavy weights when it comes to gaining real strength.

RELATED: Eat Your Way to a Flat Stomach With These 2 Foods, According to Weight Loss Expert

Common Mistake #2 to Avoid When Strength Training

young sports woman working out, running and feeling tired on treadmill in gymShutterstock

The next common mistake is creating a program that is so intense or has so many days a week per lifting that it becomes unrealistic for your schedule. Even a consistent 2 day a week program is going to be a four or five day week lifting program that you are not consistent with.

Be realistic when planning your workout program that fits within your lifestyle. While you will need to make sacrifices to get your workouts in, if the program you are trying is completely unrealistic for your schedule, it's not going to deliver the results.

Common Mistake #3 to Avoid When Strength Training

Check your body shape with white weight scales, top view.Shutterstock

The final mistake I will mention here is attempting to dramatically lose weight while also gaining strength. Beginner fitness enthusiasts can lose weight and build strength at the same time, and including strength training in a weight loss program is definitely recommended.

However, in the long run, gaining maximal strength requires eating enough food to fuel your workouts which can often conflict with aggressive weight loss goals. With that said, a slow and steady improvement to your muscle-to-fat ratio as your body transforms from the strength training is definitely feasible.

Final Word From the Trainer

Shot of a muscular young woman in sportswear working out with personal trainer at the gym. She is pumping up her biceps muscule with heavy weight.Shutterstock

I cannot emphasize consistency enough. If you follow any reasonable workout program consistently and ensure that over time you are progressing your weight on your exercises, you will get stronger.

πŸ’ͺπŸ”₯Body Booster: Forget about intense workouts every time. Focus on showing up consistently, week after week.

Jordan Fernandez is a Certified Personal Trainer at Trainer Academy

FACT CHECKED BY Christopher Roback
βœ“Expert-Recommended

We've consulted with our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians to bring you informed recommendations for food products, health aids and nutritional goods to safely and successfully guide you toward making better diet and nutrition choices. We strive to only recommend products that adhere to our philosophy of eating better while still enjoying what you eat.

As 15x Ironman, I know a thing or two about strength training, and now want to share it with you. First, a bit about my journey, so you know who I am and what I can do: I received my education in a Master's Degree in Science with an emphasis in Exercise Science from the Univesity of Texas in San Antonio. Before receiving my Master's Degree, I participated in 4 Ironman Triathlons, a 2.4-mile swim, a 112-mile bike, and a 26.2-mile run, but I wanted to learn more about the "why" and the "how" through knowledge. While getting my Master's Degree, I didn't have the time to train for an Ironman Triathlon. I found CrossFit, participated in it, and coached it with a Level I Certification. CrossFit kept me sane while I was getting my degree at 40 years old. I needed to move, but I needed something quick and to the point. CrossFit did that for me.


During CrossFit, I learned so much about form, strength, and movement that I could take this knowledge to the clients I worked with then and now. After graduating, I returned as an athlete and accomplished 11 more Ironman Triathlons, including achieving my 28-year-old dream, the Ironman World Championship in Hawaii in 2017, while I started my business, JenRulon.com.

Where it gets good is learning about my knowledge of strength during my Ironman Triathlon training and beyond, as so many triathletes will push the strength training aside. My goal with my triathletes and runners is to keep the muscle on as long as possible before heading into the heavy specific training for a race.

As I have retired from the sport of triathlon as an athlete, I now focus on my strength training, surfing, walking, and riding the beach cruiser around my town in Costa Rica. I have never felt more confident, muscular, and fit heading into the second part of my life as a 52-year-old woman. And now, I get to share this with others on their journey of change. Here are 7 proven strength training exercises to get you fit.

1. Why Strength Training is Key to a Strong Body

,Female,Athlete,Dumbbells,weights,lifting,gym,exerciseShutterstock

Did you know that after 30, we will start losing our muscle mass by 3 - 8% per decade? But after 60 years old, the rate of muscle mass decreases at a higher rate.

Strength exercises are crucial for health for several reasons:

  1. We want to improve our muscle strength and tone to protect our joints from injury.
  2. We need to maintain balance and flexibility, especially as we age because we want to do what we should be able to do. For example, get on the floor with our grandkids or push ourselves off the floor from playing with the grandkids.
  3. Strength training will improve weight management; as you gain more muscle, your body will burn more calories at rest.

2. Here's How to Get Ready for Strength Training

Gym customer is getting advice and suggestion from her personal trainer for exercising plan program and getting her evaluation chart from sample blood test for her workout progress conceptShutterstock

Like the start of any exercise, ensure you get approval from a doctor or health care professional. Make sure you are comfortable with the equipment in the gym. If you are not, hire a coach or a personal trainer who can guide you to the equipment and help you make sure you have the proper form. If you are new, you want to avoid putting heavy weight on a poor form. Speaking of which, make sure you go lighter when you are starting. If you did weights in high school, understood the body mechanics, and could do a PR deadlift, good for you, but that was 20 years ago. Many clients will start too heavy too soon and then have problems sitting on the toilet or a chair or picking up their child and not want to work out again. My last thought is to add variety to your strength exercises. There are many forms of squats, which we will discuss below, and there are many pieces of equipment, from dumbbells, kettlebells, barbells, machines, weighted medicine balls, bands, and even your body weight.

Related: 10 Training Tips I Wish I Knew Earlier, by an Expert Fitness Coach

3. Squats are the First Strength Training Exercise I Recommend

Hispanic woman doing squats on a bench by the oceanShutterstock

One of my favorites, and many other coaches and personal trainers, are squats. And it is not just bodyweight squats; there are so many options for squats: back squats with a barbell, front squats with a barbell, kettlebell squats, dumbbell squats, overhead squats, sissy squats, box squats, and curtsy squats, to name a few. Want me to keep going? You get my point.

Let me explain how to do a bodyweight squat or an air squat, as working on your form is essential to your success.

  1. Make sure your feet are shoulder-width apart, your head is in a neutral position, and your eyes look forward.
  2. As you descend into a squat, ensure your shoulders, hips, toes, and knees are aligned.
  3. When you "sit back," like sitting in a chair, your body weight will shift into your heels.
  4. Keep the chest and upper body neutral or with a slight arch.
  5. Ideally, we want your quadriceps parallel to the ground, but do what is best for you now.

Now, let's talk about why squats. When doing squats, you will be focusing on the lower body muscles such as the gluteus maximus, minimus, medius (aka butt), quadriceps, hamstrings, adductors, hip flexors, and calves. There are many significant benefits that squats can do for you:

  1. Squats will give you strong glutes, which can help with cardiovascular activities such as walking, running, cycling, hiking, and surfing but are helpful for everyday life. See #2.
  2. Squats are also suitable for everyday life, such as pushing a stroller, picking yourself off the ground, or getting out of the car, especially as we age.
  3. Squats can help you strengthen your bones, which can help lower your risk of osteoporosis.

4. Romanian Deadlifts

Strong woman exercising with heavy weights. Fit female doing deadlift workout with barbell in old warehouse.Shutterstock

The "RDL" is working the posterior chain, such as your hamstrings, lower back, and glutes. In the RDL deadlift exercise vs. a deadlift from the ground, you will start with weight (bar, kettlebell, or dumbbells) standing straight up, and then you will lower the weight while hinging at the hip.

Related: I Lost 130 Pounds With Help From Indoor Cycling and Here's How You Can, Too

5. Push-ups

Shot of a beautiful athlete woman doing push ups in an abandoned building.Shutterstock

The muscles used for push-ups are chest, shoulders, triceps, biceps, upper and lower back. Push-ups are a great overall body movement for all types of tasks to do in everyday life. Push-ups can be done anywhere on the floor, on a bench, on a wall, or on a stability ball if you are that talented!

6. Shoulder to Overhead Movement

Close-up of a Muscular Shirtless Man Lifting Heavy Barbell and Doing Military Press Bodybuilding Exercise in the Industrial Gym Building.Shutterstock

The muscles used for a strict or military press are the deltoid, tricep, pectorals, and serratus anterior. Strict press is a fantastic exercise for improving your long-term shoulder health, which is good for picking up the kids and grandkids and pushing a lawn mower.

7. Bench Press

Young sports woman is working out in gym. Doing the bench press during training.Shutterstock

The muscles used for a bench press are the pectoral muscles (chest), triceps, and delts (shoulders). You can do bench press with dumbbells or a barbell. If you are at home and don't have either, you can utilize canned goods or 1 lb water bottles, and if you don't have a bench, you can always do a floor press.

8. Pull-ups

Athletic woman training on horizontal bar in gym pull upsShutterstock

The muscles are the trapezius (back), deltoids, pectoralis major (chest), triceps, and latissimus dorsi. Pull-ups are hard for many people, and if you can do strict pull-ups, place some weights between your feet or knees and start slow. If you can not do a strict pull-up, do a negative pull-up with your grip pronated (hand on top of the bar), chin over the bar, and slowly lower yourself for at least 10 - 20 seconds.

9. Dumbbell Rows

Attractive woman in 30s doing one arm dumbbell rows in modern bright fitness center. Toned image.Shutterstock

The muscles used for dumbbell rows are the trapezius, rhomboids, latissimus dorsi, deltoid (posterior), and bicep brachialis. When doing the dumbbell rows, you want to ensure that you pull with the scapula and use your whole body. Dumbbell Rows are a beneficial movement to strengthen the back.

10. Bonus! Core Work!

Attractive young woman doing sit up exercise with machine at the gym.Shutterstock

Working on your abs/core is tricky because sit-ups are only for some. For example, an athlete with back issues may be unable to do sit-ups, so a different type of ab workout needs to be given to them. There are many exercises out there for the core, such as sit-ups, front planks, side planks, dead bugs, bicycle crunch, V-Ups, mountain climbers, and hollow holds, to name a few.

Related: I’ve Tried Nearly Every Diet and This is the #1 Best for Weight Loss For Me

11. Common Mistakes to Avoid

Beautiful sporty woman drinking water while sitting on exercise mat with a cityscape and river behinde her.Image is intentionally toned.Shutterstock

We addressed some mistakes that people should avoid when starting strength training, but here are a couple of mistakes that people should avoid for long-term growth in and out of the gym.

  1. Increasing your weights too fast: Many people may go into the gym and "remember" the time they had a PR squat or deadlift, which may have been in high school and will try to start with that mentality immediately. Slow down, friends! As a coach or a trainer, we want to improve your strength gradually. You don't lose your strength overnight or gain it overnight.
  2. Time To Recover: Rest is vital, whether having a day off during the week or taking time off between upper and lower body days. Make sure you schedule a day off during the week. Contact a coach or personal trainer if you are still determining when to take it off.
  3. Improper Technique: Proper form can make or break you during strength training. It may look different if you have poor form and try adding weights to it. Make sure you work with someone who knows how to teach the form or watch videos that can show you how to do the form correctly. If you have a friend who can film you, you can also give yourself feedback or show your coach or personal trainer.
  4. Overtraining: Many do this. Many fail. When an athlete, runner, or fitness enthusiast doesn't recover after tough sessions, this can lead to injury, sickness, poor performance, and fatigue.

12. Final Word From the Expert

Jen_Rulon2coachjenrulon/Instagram

I can't emphasize the importance of strength training for the everyday human, athlete, Mom, Dad, and Grandparents. Yes, I was the triathlete who avoided it because I didn't have "time" for it. Looking back, I wish I had understood the importance of it, not just for the triathlon space but for the longevity of living. In the last couple of years, society is understanding the importance of strength training. Women genuinely understand the importance of strength training, especially those going into "the change" of perimenopausal and menopause. And no, women will not get bulky for strength training, especially if you have a nice blend of cardiovascular work such as skiing, walking, running, swimming, cycling, or surfing and strength training. The body will "balance" it with good nutrition and mindset.

πŸ’ͺπŸ”₯Body Booster: Make sure you go lighter when you are starting. Many people will start too heavy too soon and then have problems sitting on the toilet or a chair or picking up their child and not want to work out again.

Jen Rulon's transformation from a 15x Ironman triathlete to an everyday healthy human unfolded through a blend of strength training, walks, healthy eating, meditation, surfing, journaling, setting boundaries, and embracing life in Costa Rica, embodying her passion for fitness and authentic living.

Tired woman having rest after workout. Tired and exhausted female athlete sitting on floor at gym with a water bottle.
Shutterstock
FACT CHECKED BY Christopher Roback

Committing to daily physical fitness requires hard work and an unwavering dedication to health habits. I’ve prioritized staying in shape since I was a child, and over the years, I’ve recognized a few key secrets behind all successful fitness stories. And now, as a Certified Personal Trainer who founded GYMGUYZ in 2008, building it into the world's largest personal training company with over 150 locations across 30 states and 3 countries, I want to share these secrets with you.


11. The majority of cardio is a waste of time.

Woman exercising in a gym with an elliptical cross trainerShutterstock

People should be doing more HIIT. A lot of people burning themselves out running and using an elliptical have a goal of losing weight. The truth is, high-intensity bursts of strength training will be a much more effective way to lose weight and look your best.

10. You don’t have to eliminate foods you love.

Unhappy Woman refusing to Eat her Pizza Dish in a Restaurant. Disgruntled customer not liking the meal sending it backShutterstock

People think that if they want to be fit, they’ll never get to eat cookies, brownies and cake ever again. Really, if you eat well 80% of the time, you are doing great. Balance in your diet is essential for overall bodily fitness.

RELATED: The 5-Minute Stretch Routine That Can Improve Your Posture

9. The best way to get abs isn’t by doing crunches.

Man doing core exercise with medicine ballShutterstock

People think that endless crunches will help them build abdominal muscles, and to some extent they will, but it’s not the best way to achieve better core strength. You are better off doing a rope crunch or using a medicine ball to create a stretch in abdominal wall and using dynamic movements to build muscle.

8. There is such a thing as too much training.

Blonde young woman give up workout in gym, fail.Shutterstock/sakkmesterke

Training too often and not taking a break can be detrimental to your fitness. It’s essential that you take two days off of training every week to let your muscles and ligaments recover. Every 10 to 12 weeks, take a full week off if you are exercising at maximum effort most of the time.

7. Establish a consistent routine before worrying about your form.

,Fitness,Sporty,Female,Exercising,Pulldown,Personal,Trainer,exercise,gym,workoutShutterstock

Sometimes, people think you need to have the most amazing form to get stronger, but strength comes about by consistent shocks to your body to feel tension. Focus on building a routine and making exercise a part of your day-to-day. The more adjusted your body becomes to being uncomfortable, the easier it will be for you to go to the next level. Once you have the discipline, the form will come over time.

Related: Lucy Haldon Reveals Her New Workout Routine For Perfect Abs

6. Patience will help you achieve maximal results.

Slim, bodybuilder girl, lifts heavy dumbbell standing in front of the mirror while training in the gym. Sports concept, fat burning and a healthy lifestyle.Shutterstock

You should not be training a body part more than 14 to 16 reps at a time. You will not get maximal results by draining your energy and overworking certain muscle groups. Don’t expect overnight results with your fitness, and as long as you stay consistent, I promise you will be pleased with your results in the long run.

5. The most important time to show up is when it’s the last thing you want to do.

Tired man in car. Sleepy drowsy driver, fatigue. Driving and sleeping in vehicle. Exhausted, bored or drunk person. Serious upset man with stress, despair, anxiety or melancholy. Problem in traffic.Shutterstock

I am a fitness advocate, but there are some days when even I don’t want to get out of bed and workout. When you wake up in one of those moods and don’t feel like trying, recognize that as a test of your mental fitness. Power through the feelings telling you something might be hard or uncomfortable. Once you finish your workout, you’ll get something more out of it because you pushed yourself a little extra.

4. Don’t discount your diet.

Young woman eating healthy food sitting in the beautiful interior with green flowers on the backgroundShutterstock

Eating healthy accounts for about 60-70% of your fitness. Your body’s composition is based on the fuel you put into it and how your strain your muscles to burn that energy. Be thoughtful with the types of calories you consume.

Related: Which Pasta is Best for Weight Loss?

3. Working with a personal trainer can revolutionize your fitness.

Tired Beautiful Athletic Woman Looking Down after Intensive Fitness Exercise.Shutterstock

Getting in shape is ultimately a personal journey, but getting someone else involved who can help you design workouts, create nutrition plans and stay accountable is invaluable. It can be nerve-wrecking to invite someone else to be a part of something so personal, but it will help you realize that you are not alone in wanting to do something good for your health and wellbeing.

2. Don’t hide the scale.

Self,Confidence,Concept.,Happy,weight, loss, diet, mirrorShutterstock

Contrary to a lot of fitness influencers, I suggest you step on the scale every morning to give yourself some quantitative metrics to help you track your progress. If you choose to ignore this, I think you should stop, look at yourself in the mirror, and take a moment to reflect on how you feel about yourself. Fitness can be a tool to boost yourself esteem, so give yourself opportunities to reflect on your progress in a way that is personal to you.

Related: 5 Key Benefits of Ozempic for Weight Management Explained

1. Never lie to yourself.

,Fitness, lunges, workout, gym, exercise, instructor, personal, trainerShutterstock

A lot of gyms are filled with people lying to themselves or putting in only a portion of the effort needed to see results. Be honest with yourself about your goals, your lifestyle and your progress. Your journey is not going to be easy, and I can guarantee you there will be moments of awesome achievement and setbacks that will discourage you. Remember, honesty will get you results and keep you on track for your long-term goals.

πŸ’ͺπŸ”₯Body Booster: Limit workouts to 14-16 reps per body part. Avoid overexertion for best results. Patience is key in fitness.

Josh York, Certified Personal Trainer; Founder & CEO of GYMGUYZ, the largest at-home and on-site personal training company serving 1,000 cities worldwide.

Zach_Rana9
FACT CHECKED BY Christopher Roback
βœ“Evidence-Based

This content references scientific studies and academic research, and is fact-checked to ensure accuracy.

Our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians strives to be objective, unbiased, and honest.

We are committed to bringing you researched, expert-driven content to help you make more informed decisions around food, health, and wellness. We know how important making choices about your overall health is, and we strive to provide you with the best information possible.

Feeling stuck in your muscle-building journey? You're not alone. Many busy professionals struggle to find effective ways to pack on muscle while juggling demanding careers. That's where Zach Rana, a fitness coach with a background in biochemistry, comes in. Having transitioned from long workdays to a career in health and fitness, Zach understands the challenges faced by time-strapped individuals. In this article, he shares his top five tips to help you build muscle quickly and efficiently, complemented by insights from other fitness experts.


Fuel Your Muscles with Protein

Zach emphasizes the importance of protein consumption for muscle growth. "Eat 0.8 to one gram of protein per pound of body weight," he advises in his post. For instance, if you weigh 180 pounds, aim for 180 grams of protein daily. While this may seem daunting at first, Zach assures that with practice and the right systems in place, it becomes second nature.

"At this point, I don't even really think about my protein intake because I have so many protein snacks around," he explains. "Every single one of my meals has 30 to 50 grams of protein, and so I hit my goal pretty easily without even trying at this point. Once you have those systems in place where all the right foods are around you, it's actually pretty easy to hit your protein goal."

RELATED: I Shrunk From Size 22 to 8 With These 15 Tips That Actually Work

Create a Caloric Surplus for Growth

To build muscle, you need to provide your body with sufficient resources. Zach recommends eating in a caloric surplus by adding 250 to 500 calories above your maintenance level. "As an example, my maintenance calories are 180 pounds, with about 15% body fat being 2,700 calories. So when I want to gain, and I'm in a gaining phase, I'll eat 2,950 to 3,000 calories around there," he shares. For a leaner bulk, stick to the lower end of this range.

Zach explains, "The reason we have the range of 250 calories to 500 depends on how lean of a bulk you want to have. I like to keep my bulks pretty lean, so I try to do 250 to 300 calories above my maintenance because that's going to allow me to put on muscle without putting on too much fat."

Embrace Carbohydrates for Energy

Contrary to popular belief, carbs are not the enemy, especially when you're in a muscle-gaining phase. Zach debunks common myths, stating, "The marketing people out there are lying to you when they say you have to do keto. You have to do this. You can't eat carbs. They're bad sugar, bad whatever. Not true." He recommends consuming carbs both before and after workouts.

"Before your workouts, you want quick digesting, simple carbs. What are some examples of this? Rice cakes, rice Krispies, white bread, potatoes," Zach suggests. For post-workout, he recommends "slower digesting carbs that are higher in fiber, oatmeal, sweet potatoes, quinoa, whole wheat bread, beans, pasta, like all of that stuff is great things to have after a workout."

Lift Heavy and Progressively Overload

To stimulate muscle growth, you need to challenge your muscles beyond their current capacity. Zach explains the concept of progressive overload: "If my muscle was currently capable of lifting 80 pounds, I need to try to lift 85 pounds, and what's going to happen is the first couple times I do that, it's going to be really hard and really uncomfortable, but eventually my capacity will grow to reach 85 pounds."

He underlines the importance of continuous challenge: "Every single time we work out, we need to be giving our muscles a higher stimulus than what it's currently capable of that's going to force it to grow."

Luke Jones, a certified personal trainer and movement coach, adds, "Pullups are often referred to as the king of bodyweight exercises. They build muscle mass through the back and biceps, strengthen the abdomen, and support a more upright posture." For those new to pull-ups, Jones advises starting with hanging exercises and progressing to assisted pull-ups before attempting full ones.

RELATED: I Lost 250 Pounds With 5 Simple Walking Tricks

Master Carb Timing for Optimal Performance

Timing your carbohydrate intake can significantly impact your workout performance and muscle growth. Zach recommends consuming carbs 30 minutes to an hour before your workout and immediately after. "Trust me, once you nail this carb timing down, it is a game changer for how strong and how full you'll feel during your workouts," he says.

However, he cautions against eating large meals or high-fiber carbs too close to your workout. "Don't eat a lot of proteins or fats right before your workout because they're going to slow you down and they're hard to digest. Also, if you eat a lot of high-fiber carbs before your workout, those also take longer to digest, and so then you'll basically be putting energy that should be going to your muscles into your stomach," Zach warns. His final advice? "No big meals two hours before a workout."

Incorporate Compound Bodyweight Exercises

While weightlifting is crucial, don't underestimate the power of bodyweight exercises. Christopher Clarke, a certified personal trainer, says, "Push-ups are the crème de la crème of upper body work—push-ups strengthen your shoulders, triceps and pectoral muscles. Push-ups also lower the risk of cardiovascular disease and improve posture by strengthening core muscles."

Eric Rakofsky, a certified personal trainer, recommends the single-leg walkout with a push-up: "It's like a more sophisticated burpee but with less wear & tear on your body and more beneficial. Perform 10 reps per leg with 1 minute rest for 3 sets."

Don't Neglect Lower Body Training

Clarke regards squats as the cornerstone of lower body exercises: "Squats strengthen glutes, quadriceps, hamstrings, and abdominal muscles, helping improve balance and preventing back pain." Jones adds, "Simply performing bodyweight squats for high reps can be an effective way to build muscle, as can single-leg squats and lunges."

Focus on Core Strength

A strong core is essential for overall muscle development and stability. Clarke recommends crunches: "Considered one of the best exercises to develop and strengthen your abdominal muscles, crunches target the oblique, rectus, and transverse abdominal muscles. They improve posture, lower back pain, and boost mobility."

For those looking for a low-impact core exercise, Leslie Ann, a personal fitness trainer specializing in postpartum fitness, suggests pelvic tilts: "This exercise engages your core muscles, including your abdomen and pelvic floor. By engaging and activating your transverse abdominal muscles, you stabilize your core and help improve muscle tone to the tummy area."

RELATED: I Went Sugar, Gluten, and Dairy Free for 60 Days and Here Is What Happened

Stay Consistent and Patient

By implementing these tips from Zach Rana and other fitness experts, you'll be well on your way to building muscle faster and more effectively. Remember, consistency is key, and results take time. Stay committed to your goals, and you'll soon see the gains you've been working towards. As Zach says, "Try these things out. Let me know in the comments how they go for you and how you feel." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 31 Fitness Tips Every Beginner Needs to Look Sexy, According to Coaches.

Emma Hooker
Copyright emmaa.getsfit/Instagram
βœ“Evidence-Based

This content references scientific studies and academic research, and is fact-checked to ensure accuracy.

Our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians strives to be objective, unbiased, and honest.

We are committed to bringing you researched, expert-driven content to help you make more informed decisions around food, health, and wellness. We know how important making choices about your overall health is, and we strive to provide you with the best information possible.

Do you want to start your weight loss journey but aren’t sure what exercises to do? One expert has a simple routine that helped her lose big. Emma Hooker is a Certified Fitness & Nutrition Coach who lost weight via sustainable habits and non-restrictive lifestyle habits. β€œDown 160 pounds,” she writes, sharing a before and after photo and sharing her beginner dumbbell workout.

Focus on Form Over Weight

β€œStarting your weight loss journey can feel overwhelming, but I promise you, we all start somewhere! This beginner-friendly push workout is perfect if you want to start working out! Remember: Form > Weight ALWAYS! Start light and focus on feeling the movement in the right muscles,” she says.

RELATED: This Is Exactly How to Lose Body Fat This Year

Here Is the Workout

  • Dumbbell floor press: 3 sets of 10-12 reps
  • Dumbbell shoulder press: 3 sets of 10-12 reps
  • Dumbbell chest fly: 3 sets of 10-12 reps
  • Dumbbell lateral raise: 3 sets of 12-15 reps
  • Tricep kickbacks: 3 sets of 12-15 reps
  • Overhead tricep extensions: 3 sets of 10-12 reps
  • Rest 60-90 seconds between rounds.

Pro Tips

She also offers the following pro tips, reminding beginners to β€œfocus on form first. If you need to do fewer reps or take longer breaks, that’s totally okay! Listen to your body.”

β€’ Start with a 5-10 minute walk to warm up your body

β€’ Keep your core engaged throughout each movement

β€’ Breathe! Exhale on exertion

β€’ Take your time between sets

β€’ End with a gentle 5-10 minute walk to cool down

β€’ Stay hydrated!

She Used to Weight 330 Pounds

In another post she discussed her weight loss journey. β€œWhen asked what my dream life would be 3 years ago, I would’ve said material thing. Ask me today? This is my dream life. I am living out every adventure that I couldn’t do when I was 330 pounds. I’m doing this for old Emma, who never thought there would be a way out. I savouring the freedom denied to me when I was at my heaviest,” she says.

It’s Never Too Late to Get in Shape

β€œI am sharing my story with hundreds of thousands of people. It isn’t about the number though. It’s about reaching that one person, showing them that it’s possible. Reminding them that it is never too late and you are never too far gone. I am a warrior, emerged from the shadows, and with a flame ignited within me that will never be extinguished,” she said. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

Cherisse Kozloski cherisse_rykercoaching
Copyright cherisse_rykercoaching/Instagram
βœ“Evidence-Based

This content references scientific studies and academic research, and is fact-checked to ensure accuracy.

Our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians strives to be objective, unbiased, and honest.

We are committed to bringing you researched, expert-driven content to help you make more informed decisions around food, health, and wellness. We know how important making choices about your overall health is, and we strive to provide you with the best information possible.

Are you on a high-protein diet for fat loss but can’t seem to lose weight? You could be making a common mistake, according to an expert. Cherisse Kozloski is a nutrition coach and personal trainer who helps her clients lose weight and keep it off. In a new post, she discusses some slip-ups that many seem to be making. Most women eating a high protein diet but not losing fat are making these common mistakes,” she writes. β€œAre these mistakes stopping your progress?”

Mistake 1: You Aren’t Counting Calories

The first mistake? β€œNot paying attention to your overall calories,” she reveals. β€œEating more protein doesn’t automatically mean fat loss. If you’re not mindful of your portions, you could be consuming more calories than you burn, a surplus is a surplus.”

Solution: Measure or Weigh Your Food

How can you correct this? β€œWeigh or measure your food at least for a little while so you can get a good idea of what a serving size actually is,” she suggests.

Mistake 2: Choosing Food Labeled β€œHigh Protein

The second mistake people make? β€œChoosing foods labeled as β€˜high protein’” she says. β€œMany foods labeled β€˜high protein’ actually aren’t.”

Solution: Calculate Yourself

Her solution? Do your own calculations. β€œRemember the 10/1 rule for every 100 calories you want to get at least 10 grams of protein to be considered high protein,” she says.

Mistake 3: Skipping Healthy Fats

Mistake three has to do with going too low-fat. β€œSkipping healthy fats,” she says. β€œAvoiding fats completely can leave you hungry, mess with your hormones, and make it harder to stick to your diet.”

RELATED: This Is Exactly How to Lose Body Fat This Year

Solution: Eat Healthy Fats

The solution is simple. β€œAdd fats into your diet like avocado, olive oil, and nuts,” she says. β€œBut remember they are calorie dense so be mindful of how much you’re consuming.”

Mistake 4: Eating too Many Processed Foods

The fourth and final mistake? Just because something is high in protein doesn’t mean it’s good for you. β€œEating too many processed foods,” is a no-no. β€œProtein bars and shakes are convenient but often packed with sugar and additives,” she says.

Solution: Eat Whole Food Protein Sources

Instead, stay away from packaged foods and shop the grocery store's perimeter. β€œFocus on whole-food protein sources like shrimp, boneless chicken thighs, and eggs to nourish your body and support fat loss,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these20 Superfoods for People Over 50.

theemilychristensen
Copyright theemilychristensen/Instagram
βœ“Evidence-Based

This content references scientific studies and academic research, and is fact-checked to ensure accuracy.

Our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians strives to be objective, unbiased, and honest.

We are committed to bringing you researched, expert-driven content to help you make more informed decisions around food, health, and wellness. We know how important making choices about your overall health is, and we strive to provide you with the best information possible.

Are you curious about what to expect after achieving your weight loss goals? You might be surprised what it is like, says one weight loss warrior. Emily Christensen is a social media influencer who lost 60 pounds after undergoing weight loss surgery and adopting a healthy lifestyle. She regularly shares tips and tricks with her followers about how she did it. In a new post, she reveals the truth about being overweight and thin. β€œSome brutal honesty from who has spent the majority of her life feeling fat and longed to be skinny,” she writes in the Instagram post.

When You Lose Weight, More Problems Surface

The first truth? You might find underlying problems after slimming down. β€œWhen you’re over weight that’s the only problem you want to solve. Once you lose the weight you realize how many underlying things are going on that have *actually* been causing issues. I’m talking relationships, spending, parenting,” she says.

Being Skinny Doesn’t Mean You Are Healthy

The second thing she learned? β€œBeing skinny doesn’t mean you’re healthy,” she says. β€œWhen I was at my lowest weight I had lost a lot of muscle. Rebuilding that is kind of scary but I know it’ll serve me when I’m a fit grandma.”

Weight Loss Is Mental

Her third truth is that weight loss is mental. β€œThere are a lot of tools out there that can help! But they’re still just tools. I have to talk to myself a LOT to remind myself I didn’t suddenly gain back 60+ pounds,” she writes.

You Might Still Be Obsessed with Your Weight

She goes onto explain that obsession with your weight might not end. β€œBefore I lost weight I was really obsessed with losing weight. Now that I’ve lost weight I have times where I’m really obsessed with keeping it off. Not out of vanity but out of fear. I never want to go back to feeling how I did for so many years,” she writes.

RELATED: This Is Exactly How to Lose Body Fat This Year

Your Loved Ones Might Not Be On Board with Your New Lifestyle

Another truth? β€œNo one cares about your journey as much as you do. Meaning…it’s not anyone’s job to eat what you eat. Or exercise with you. Your spouse/partner may or may not be on board with your new lifestyle. It’s up to you to buy and prepare the right foods and find the time to exercise,” she says.

Being Skinny Won’t Give Your More Self-Worth

Finally, getting thin won’t solve your self-esteem problems. β€œBeing skinny isn’t going to give you more self worth. It might help you love your body more and appreciate what it’s done for you…but β€˜skinny’ isn’t an attribute that very many people use when they talk about why they love someone,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.