8 Mistakes That Sabotaged My Weight Loss For Years

Are you trying to lose weight but not finding much success? It's possible you are making a common mistake. Juliana Crispo is a mom of 2 kids 3 and under, a Lifetime Natural Pro Bikini Champion in 2 Federations, and a former successful Silicon Valley-based tech executive and entrepreneur.
"Today, we're talking about weight loss myths. I'm someone that has made every single one of these mistakes," she says. "These are mistakes that I made for years on my fitness journey."

Mistake 1: Only Exercising

"Mistake number one, I thought for the longest time that exercise was the key to fat loss," she says. "What I would do is I would go to the gym, I'd get on a cardio machine, I'd screw around with some weights, and then I'd go home, and I would just eat like I normally did, but I would also overcompensate because I was hungry from all that cardio. Cardio just makes me ravenous."

She Walks

Now, she avoids intense cardio. "This is why now my main source of cardio is just walking 8,000 to 10,000 steps a day because it doesn't make me very hungry," she explains.

Mistake 2: Not Getting Into a Calorie Deficit

"Also, when I'm just getting into a new weight loss phase, I prioritize getting my calorie deficit down first," she says. "I'll take one, up to two weeks just to master my calorie deficit before I even touch exercise. The reality is you don't even need exercise to lose fat. Just eat in a calorie deficit."

Also, Make Sure to Strength Train

Don't Overlook Strength Training. Cardio activity is just a tool to make it go faster, and strength training is what gives your body shape so you don't get skinny fat.

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Mistake 3: Relying on Intuitive Eating

Her third mistake? "I believed intuitive eating would work for me," she says. "Intuitive eating is a way of eating popularized by this book, and it took off in the height of diet culture because so many people have had horrible experiences with dieting." She explains that in the boo, there are ten principles of intuitive eating, "but the general gist is to be mindful and eat when you're hungry and stop when you're full."

Lots of Influencers Rely on Intuitive Eating

"Many fitness influencers to this day talk about intuitive eating as a good approach to weight loss. For example, one of the first fitness influencers I ever followed was Buff Bunny, and she posted a video called This Diet Worked for Me. In this video, she talks about how she used intuitive eating to lose weight because you don't have to track anything."

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It's Not Great for Fat Loss

However, there is a "flip side," she points out. And that is, many people maintain intuitive eating, which isn't great for fat loss. "For the longest period of time, I felt like something was wrong with me because I couldn't just listen to my body. It wasn't until I started tracking and weighing my food that I really started to learn putting a meal together with enough protein, carbs, and fats really makes me feel full, and then I'm able to do other things besides focus on food for a solid three to four hours. It was great."

Mistake 4: Fear of Tracking Calories

Her next mistake? "I was afraid of tracking calories and weighing my food," she says. For example, chicken and broccoli can help you gain weight, but if you eat too much of it, you will gain weight. You can benchmark your progress with this useful Lean Body Mass Calculator.

You Can Gain Weight From Healthy Food

"I got chubbier from eating chicken and broccoli because I felt so deprived of the foods I really loved," she says. "While trying to eat clean with this chicken and broccoli diet, I would binge on foods I actually craved late at night."

Portion Size Matters

"However, had I invested time upfront in just learning from tracking and weighing my food, I could have learned that there's no such thing as unhealthy or bad foods," she says. The important thing is focusing on "healthy portion sizes, and so I could still enjoy all the things I love in moderation on my weight loss journey without creating these fear foods of anything that fell outside of my chicken and broccoli meal plan," she says.

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You Won't Have to Track and Weigh Food Forever

"You don't have to track and weigh your food forever. Even a lot of fitness influencers say they'll go from periods of intuitive eating where they just listen to their body a little bit, and then when they start to get a little bit more fluffy, they'll bring it in, they'll start tracking and weighing their food. Again, it's not about being married to your food scale or MyFitnessPal. It's about learning and then unlearning along your journey."

Mistake 5: Not Understanding Macros

Mistake 5? "I didn't understand how to allocate macros when I was in my dieting phase," she says. "Many of you know macros are just protein, carbs, and fats. They serve different purposes to nourish your body. At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is being in a calorie deficit."

Make Sure to Fill Up

"However, the key to sustaining a calorie deficit is just don't get hungry. That's the name of the game. Don't get hungry. As soon as you get hungry, all bets are off. The little hangry monster comes out, and it's just, it's just bad."

Pay Attention to Your Macro Breakdown

"Having a general idea of the macronutrient distribution you're consuming is very important to make sure that you stay feeling full, and if you stay full, you're more likely to adhere to your calorie deficit," she says. "A macro breakdown that works for me to keep staying full, feeling satiated, and adhering to my calorie deficit is having about 30% of my calorie deficit coming from protein, 30% coming from fat, and about 40% coming from carbohydrates."

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If You Don't, You Could End Up Binging

"What happens if I'm not in the ballpark generally of hitting these macros over a period of a few days is on like day three, I'll start to get really hungry, and then all of a sudden I find myself like wandering into a seven 11 and just buying donuts and eating them, and I don't know what happened."

Mistake 6: Overcompensating

The next mistake is "huge," she says. "I would try to overcompensate when I had one of my 7-Eleven freakouts. This was mainly more so in my bikini competitor days because you had to be so black and white about your diet. What would happen is when I messed up somehow, I just like ate a donut or three, I would try and overcompensate the next day by doing more cardio or trying to eat fewer carbs and fats, and this was just a recipe for this horrible cycle of binging and over-exercising and feeling horrible, and that's just no way to live."

Don't Fall Into the "Binge and Restrict" Cycle

"Now, if that happens and I overeat on my diet for the day, I just stick to what I would normally eat on my daily diet, almost as if that 7-Eleven incident never happened. I just learn from it, and I move on. So whatever you do, if you ever have a mess up in your diet, don't ever, ever, ever try and overcompensate by doing more cardio or eating less. Just eat as if you would normally eat so that you don't fall into any binge and restrict cycle," she suggests.

Mistake 7: Fear of Building Muscle

Her next mistake? "I was afraid of building muscle," she says. She explains that building muscle is great because "the more mass and the more muscle that I have, the more I weigh, the more I can eat and not gain too much fat," she says.

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You Can Reshape Your Body with Exercise and Nutrition

"It took me years of focused effort in the gym and being methodical about my nutrition to put on the muscle mass I was able to achieve here. The cool thing I've learned through bodybuilding is that you can use training to emphasize certain parts of your body and de-emphasize others," she says. "You can literally reshape your body with the right training and nutrition, and that's what I love so much about lifting weights."

Mistake 8: Not Stacking Habits

"If I were to stack priorities when it comes to actually losing fat, it would go like this. Very foundational sleep. Get your sleep in order. Second thing, get your calorie deficit in order. Third thing, do some strength training. Focus on maintaining as much muscle mass as you have, and then maybe consider adding in some cardio," she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.