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8 Mistakes That Sabotaged My Weight Loss For Years

Avoid these pitfalls and jumpstart your journey.

Juliana Crispo

Are you trying to lose weight but not finding much success? It’s possible you are making a common mistake. Juliana Crispo is a mom of 2 kids 3 and under, a Lifetime Natural Pro Bikini Champion in 2 Federations, and a former successful Silicon Valley-based tech executive and entrepreneur.
”Today, we're talking about weight loss myths. I'm someone that has made every single one of these mistakes,” she says. “These are mistakes that I made for years on my fitness journey.”


Mistake 1: Only Exercising

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“Mistake number one, I thought for the longest time that exercise was the key to fat loss,” she says. “What I would do is I would go to the gym, I'd get on a cardio machine, I'd screw around with some weights, and then I'd go home, and I would just eat like I normally did, but I would also overcompensate because I was hungry from all that cardio. Cardio just makes me ravenous.”

She Walks

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Now, she avoids intense cardio. “This is why now my main source of cardio is just walking 8,000 to 10,000 steps a day because it doesn't make me very hungry,” she explains.

Mistake 2: Not Getting Into a Calorie Deficit

“Also, when I'm just getting into a new weight loss phase, I prioritize getting my calorie deficit down first,” she says. “I'll take one, up to two weeks just to master my calorie deficit before I even touch exercise. The reality is you don't even need exercise to lose fat. Just eat in a calorie deficit.”

Also, Make Sure to Strength Train

Slim, bodybuilder girl, lifts heavy dumbbell standing in front of the mirror while training in the gym. Sports concept, fat burning and a healthy lifestyle.Shutterstock

Don’t Overlook Strength Training. Cardio activity is just a tool to make it go faster, and strength training is what gives your body shape so you don't get skinny fat.

RELATED:12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster

Mistake 3: Relying on Intuitive Eating

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Her third mistake? “I believed intuitive eating would work for me,” she says. “Intuitive eating is a way of eating popularized by this book, and it took off in the height of diet culture because so many people have had horrible experiences with dieting.” She explains that in the boo, there are ten principles of intuitive eating, “but the general gist is to be mindful and eat when you're hungry and stop when you're full.”

Lots of Influencers Rely on Intuitive Eating

Closeup portrait young serious corporate business woman deal maker reading news message on smart mobile phone holding eating sandwich isolated grey background.Shutterstock

“Many fitness influencers to this day talk about intuitive eating as a good approach to weight loss. For example, one of the first fitness influencers I ever followed was Buff Bunny, and she posted a video called This Diet Worked for Me. In this video, she talks about how she used intuitive eating to lose weight because you don't have to track anything.”

RELATED: This Plan Is How to Lose 5 Percent Body Fat In 2 Weeks

It’s Not Great for Fat Loss

Sporty woman eating apple and preparing to make fresh juce. Healthy food lifestyleShutterstock

However, there is a “flip side,” she points out. And that is, many people maintain intuitive eating, which isn’t great for fat loss. “For the longest period of time, I felt like something was wrong with me because I couldn't just listen to my body. It wasn't until I started tracking and weighing my food that I really started to learn putting a meal together with enough protein, carbs, and fats really makes me feel full, and then I'm able to do other things besides focus on food for a solid three to four hours. It was great.”

Mistake 4: Fear of Tracking Calories

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Her next mistake? “I was afraid of tracking calories and weighing my food,” she says. For example, chicken and broccoli can help you gain weight, but if you eat too much of it, you will gain weight. You can benchmark your progress with this useful Lean Body Mass Calculator.

You Can Gain Weight From Healthy Food

“I got chubbier from eating chicken and broccoli because I felt so deprived of the foods I really loved,” she says. “While trying to eat clean with this chicken and broccoli diet, I would binge on foods I actually craved late at night.”

Portion Size Matters

Diet concept, portion control of saladShutterstock

“However, had I invested time upfront in just learning from tracking and weighing my food, I could have learned that there's no such thing as unhealthy or bad foods,” she says. The important thing is focusing on “healthy portion sizes, and so I could still enjoy all the things I love in moderation on my weight loss journey without creating these fear foods of anything that fell outside of my chicken and broccoli meal plan,” she says.

RELATED: Lose 10 Pounds in 30 Days Over 50 on Simple Animal Protein and Fruit Diet

You Won’t Have to Track and Weigh Food Forever

Tomatoes with digital kitchen scales on wooden backgroundShutterstock

“You don't have to track and weigh your food forever. Even a lot of fitness influencers say they'll go from periods of intuitive eating where they just listen to their body a little bit, and then when they start to get a little bit more fluffy, they'll bring it in, they'll start tracking and weighing their food. Again, it's not about being married to your food scale or MyFitnessPal. It's about learning and then unlearning along your journey.”

Mistake 5: Not Understanding Macros

Mistake 5? “I didn't understand how to allocate macros when I was in my dieting phase,” she says. “Many of you know macros are just protein, carbs, and fats. They serve different purposes to nourish your body. At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is being in a calorie deficit.”

Make Sure to Fill Up

Woman Suffering a Stomachache after Eating in a Restaurant. Girl with hands on her abdomen suffering after eating too muchShutterstock

“However, the key to sustaining a calorie deficit is just don't get hungry. That's the name of the game. Don't get hungry. As soon as you get hungry, all bets are off. The little hangry monster comes out, and it's just, it's just bad.”

Pay Attention to Your Macro Breakdown

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“Having a general idea of the macronutrient distribution you're consuming is very important to make sure that you stay feeling full, and if you stay full, you're more likely to adhere to your calorie deficit,” she says. “A macro breakdown that works for me to keep staying full, feeling satiated, and adhering to my calorie deficit is having about 30% of my calorie deficit coming from protein, 30% coming from fat, and about 40% coming from carbohydrates.”

RELATED: 4 Meals I Ate to Lose 30 Pounds in 12 Weeks

If You Don’t, You Could End Up Binging

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“What happens if I'm not in the ballpark generally of hitting these macros over a period of a few days is on like day three, I'll start to get really hungry, and then all of a sudden I find myself like wandering into a seven 11 and just buying donuts and eating them, and I don't know what happened.”

Mistake 6: Overcompensating

The next mistake is “huge,” she says. “I would try to overcompensate when I had one of my 7-Eleven freakouts. This was mainly more so in my bikini competitor days because you had to be so black and white about your diet. What would happen is when I messed up somehow, I just like ate a donut or three, I would try and overcompensate the next day by doing more cardio or trying to eat fewer carbs and fats, and this was just a recipe for this horrible cycle of binging and over-exercising and feeling horrible, and that's just no way to live.”

Don’t Fall Into the “Binge and Restrict” Cycle

Unhappy Woman refusing to Eat her Pizza Dish in a Restaurant. Disgruntled customer not liking the meal sending it backShutterstock

“Now, if that happens and I overeat on my diet for the day, I just stick to what I would normally eat on my daily diet, almost as if that 7-Eleven incident never happened. I just learn from it, and I move on. So whatever you do, if you ever have a mess up in your diet, don't ever, ever, ever try and overcompensate by doing more cardio or eating less. Just eat as if you would normally eat so that you don't fall into any binge and restrict cycle,” she suggests.

Mistake 7: Fear of Building Muscle

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Her next mistake? “I was afraid of building muscle,” she says. She explains that building muscle is great because “the more mass and the more muscle that I have, the more I weigh, the more I can eat and not gain too much fat,” she says.

RELATED: What Would Happen to Your Body if You Only Ate Eggs for 30 Days

You Can Reshape Your Body with Exercise and Nutrition

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“It took me years of focused effort in the gym and being methodical about my nutrition to put on the muscle mass I was able to achieve here. The cool thing I've learned through bodybuilding is that you can use training to emphasize certain parts of your body and de-emphasize others,” she says. “You can literally reshape your body with the right training and nutrition, and that's what I love so much about lifting weights.”

Mistake 8: Not Stacking Habits

“If I were to stack priorities when it comes to actually losing fat, it would go like this. Very foundational sleep. Get your sleep in order. Second thing, get your calorie deficit in order. Third thing, do some strength training. Focus on maintaining as much muscle mass as you have, and then maybe consider adding in some cardio,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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When I tell people I lost 30 pounds by changing my mindset, they stare back at me as if to say, it can't be that easy. No, it's not that easy. But it really does work.


I am a Mindset and Movement Coach and a Certified Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Professional with a B.A. in Psychology, as well as a certified fitness coach in mat pilates and barre. I like to say that I was my first client—when I gained a considerable amount of weight in college, I remember not recognizing my own reflection both physically and mentally. I tried a TON of yoyo dieting and followed an inconsistent routine.

In my senior year of college, my life changed when I was given a one-year membership to a gym. This was the start of my true passion for movement and mental strength. I learned so much about myself that continued to unfold over the years bringing us to the present day where I have married the two to become a mindset and movement coach.

Throughout my fitness career, I have met so many people that were physically fit but lacked that same health in their mindset and mental health. Everything is all connected and they truly work hand in hand in order to cultivate sustainable well-being. Being able to tap into your body's needs, staying consistent, and recognizing when your mind and body needs me more is the act of being your own health advocate and activating the power of being the author of your own story.

And every story needs a good beginning.

I remember the exact day I decided to lose weight. I was in New York City with a friend and there was this huge staircase in the subway station on 5th Avenue and 53rd Street. The escalator was not working so my friend and I had to climb the stairs. I remember how difficult it was, and saying to myself I can do this. Eventually, when I got to the top I also remember saying to myself I will climb these stairs one day without a problem. Fast forward about 2 years. I remember the feeling of accomplishment when I did just that with a yoga mat and backpack on my back.

There are two things that have gotten me through the hardest times in my life: Being able to tap into my internal strength while seeing my physical strength develop is profound. It didn’t stop there—these realizations spilled into other areas of my life creating a full transformation. Read on to learn how I lost weight and how you can, too.

1. How I Lost the Weight

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After years of yo-yo dieting and deprivation, I struggled to lose the weight I gained freshman year of college. I was given a one-year gym membership by my brother, my senior year in college. I was also introduced to Weight Watchers by my best friend's sister who recently had a baby and was using Weight Watchers to get back into shape. The combination of the two changed my life. I tried every class imaginable until I found a workout routine that worked for me. Through this I was also able to connect with like minded individuals that helped to support me in my weight-loss journey. When it came to nutrition, my curiosity was sparked! I learned the importance of hydration, having a colorful and balanced plate and eating foods that served me and my new active lifestyle. Over time this became a part of me, it became a lifestyle.

Related: 7 Best and Most Delicious Fast Food Meals Under 400 Calories for Weight Loss

2. My Advice for People Who Struggle With Maintaining a Positive Mindset While Working Toward Health and Fitness Goals

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The biggest thing in my coaching that I advise all my clients to do is write down their accomplishments! Often people are focusing on what they haven’t done vs. what you have. Having a working document or journal for you to reflect on regularly will help keep you motivated and remind you of what you are capable of.

3. Common Weight Loss Mistakes to Avoid

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They don’t do things they enjoy! They tend to hop on trends and do what other people are doing which causes them to quit. Another thing that gets in the way is the desire for a quick fix! Sustainable change takes time and consistency. Most importantly they aren’t tapping into their WHY! This is what is going to get you out of bed when you don’t feel like doing it. If you can vividly paint a picture of why you are setting yourself up for success.

Related: Best Exercises For Ozempic, Wegovy and Other GLP-1 Medicine

4. Conquer Your Fears

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I recall when I started taking classes I would always go to the back of the class in fear of doing the moves wrong. I also wore baggy clothes for fear of being judged. As my physical body got stronger so did my mental strength and mindset. I started to care less about what people thought and moved from the back of the class to the front. I was less concerned about what people thought and more concerned about showing up for myself.

💪🔥Body Booster: Write down your accomplishments! Having a journal will help keep you motivated and remind you of what you are capable of.

Nadia Murdock is a Certified Fitness Instructor at Garage Gym Reviews.

Are you trying to lose weight but not finding much success? It’s possible you are making a common mistake. Juliana Crispo is a mom of 2 kids 3 and under, a Lifetime Natural Pro Bikini Champion in 2 Federations, and a former successful Silicon Valley-based tech executive and entrepreneur.
”Today, we're talking about weight loss myths. I'm someone that has made every single one of these mistakes,” she says. “These are mistakes that I made for years on my fitness journey.”


Mistake 1: Only Exercising

Athlete doing stretching exercises on running track. Woman runner stretching leg muscles by touching his shoes and looking away.Shutterstock

“Mistake number one, I thought for the longest time that exercise was the key to fat loss,” she says. “What I would do is I would go to the gym, I'd get on a cardio machine, I'd screw around with some weights, and then I'd go home, and I would just eat like I normally did, but I would also overcompensate because I was hungry from all that cardio. Cardio just makes me ravenous.”

She Walks

Young fitness woman running at forest trail. Sporty young girl running in the park in the summer morning. Teenager running in nature. Healthy lifestyle and relax concept. Weight loss content.Shutterstock

Now, she avoids intense cardio. “This is why now my main source of cardio is just walking 8,000 to 10,000 steps a day because it doesn't make me very hungry,” she explains.

Mistake 2: Not Getting Into a Calorie Deficit

“Also, when I'm just getting into a new weight loss phase, I prioritize getting my calorie deficit down first,” she says. “I'll take one, up to two weeks just to master my calorie deficit before I even touch exercise. The reality is you don't even need exercise to lose fat. Just eat in a calorie deficit.”

Also, Make Sure to Strength Train

Slim, bodybuilder girl, lifts heavy dumbbell standing in front of the mirror while training in the gym. Sports concept, fat burning and a healthy lifestyle.Shutterstock

Don’t Overlook Strength Training. Cardio activity is just a tool to make it go faster, and strength training is what gives your body shape so you don't get skinny fat.

RELATED:12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster

Mistake 3: Relying on Intuitive Eating

Young woman eating tasty yogurt, closeupShutterstock

Her third mistake? “I believed intuitive eating would work for me,” she says. “Intuitive eating is a way of eating popularized by this book, and it took off in the height of diet culture because so many people have had horrible experiences with dieting.” She explains that in the boo, there are ten principles of intuitive eating, “but the general gist is to be mindful and eat when you're hungry and stop when you're full.”

Lots of Influencers Rely on Intuitive Eating

Closeup portrait young serious corporate business woman deal maker reading news message on smart mobile phone holding eating sandwich isolated grey background.Shutterstock

“Many fitness influencers to this day talk about intuitive eating as a good approach to weight loss. For example, one of the first fitness influencers I ever followed was Buff Bunny, and she posted a video called This Diet Worked for Me. In this video, she talks about how she used intuitive eating to lose weight because you don't have to track anything.”

RELATED: This Plan Is How to Lose 5 Percent Body Fat In 2 Weeks

It’s Not Great for Fat Loss

Sporty woman eating apple and preparing to make fresh juce. Healthy food lifestyleShutterstock

However, there is a “flip side,” she points out. And that is, many people maintain intuitive eating, which isn’t great for fat loss. “For the longest period of time, I felt like something was wrong with me because I couldn't just listen to my body. It wasn't until I started tracking and weighing my food that I really started to learn putting a meal together with enough protein, carbs, and fats really makes me feel full, and then I'm able to do other things besides focus on food for a solid three to four hours. It was great.”

Mistake 4: Fear of Tracking Calories

Calorie,Counting,On,A,Paper,With,Calculator.,Diet,And,WeightShutterstock

Her next mistake? “I was afraid of tracking calories and weighing my food,” she says. For example, chicken and broccoli can help you gain weight, but if you eat too much of it, you will gain weight. You can benchmark your progress with this useful Lean Body Mass Calculator.

You Can Gain Weight From Healthy Food

“I got chubbier from eating chicken and broccoli because I felt so deprived of the foods I really loved,” she says. “While trying to eat clean with this chicken and broccoli diet, I would binge on foods I actually craved late at night.”

Portion Size Matters

Diet concept, portion control of saladShutterstock

“However, had I invested time upfront in just learning from tracking and weighing my food, I could have learned that there's no such thing as unhealthy or bad foods,” she says. The important thing is focusing on “healthy portion sizes, and so I could still enjoy all the things I love in moderation on my weight loss journey without creating these fear foods of anything that fell outside of my chicken and broccoli meal plan,” she says.

RELATED: Lose 10 Pounds in 30 Days Over 50 on Simple Animal Protein and Fruit Diet

You Won’t Have to Track and Weigh Food Forever

Tomatoes with digital kitchen scales on wooden backgroundShutterstock

“You don't have to track and weigh your food forever. Even a lot of fitness influencers say they'll go from periods of intuitive eating where they just listen to their body a little bit, and then when they start to get a little bit more fluffy, they'll bring it in, they'll start tracking and weighing their food. Again, it's not about being married to your food scale or MyFitnessPal. It's about learning and then unlearning along your journey.”

Mistake 5: Not Understanding Macros

Mistake 5? “I didn't understand how to allocate macros when I was in my dieting phase,” she says. “Many of you know macros are just protein, carbs, and fats. They serve different purposes to nourish your body. At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is being in a calorie deficit.”

Make Sure to Fill Up

Woman Suffering a Stomachache after Eating in a Restaurant. Girl with hands on her abdomen suffering after eating too muchShutterstock

“However, the key to sustaining a calorie deficit is just don't get hungry. That's the name of the game. Don't get hungry. As soon as you get hungry, all bets are off. The little hangry monster comes out, and it's just, it's just bad.”

Pay Attention to Your Macro Breakdown

Shopping. A young pretty woman scans the qr code on a product using cellphone. Indoor. Concept of modern technologies and shopping.Shutterstock

“Having a general idea of the macronutrient distribution you're consuming is very important to make sure that you stay feeling full, and if you stay full, you're more likely to adhere to your calorie deficit,” she says. “A macro breakdown that works for me to keep staying full, feeling satiated, and adhering to my calorie deficit is having about 30% of my calorie deficit coming from protein, 30% coming from fat, and about 40% coming from carbohydrates.”

RELATED: 4 Meals I Ate to Lose 30 Pounds in 12 Weeks

If You Don’t, You Could End Up Binging

Woman eating snacks in night next to the opened fridge.Shutterstock

“What happens if I'm not in the ballpark generally of hitting these macros over a period of a few days is on like day three, I'll start to get really hungry, and then all of a sudden I find myself like wandering into a seven 11 and just buying donuts and eating them, and I don't know what happened.”

Mistake 6: Overcompensating

The next mistake is “huge,” she says. “I would try to overcompensate when I had one of my 7-Eleven freakouts. This was mainly more so in my bikini competitor days because you had to be so black and white about your diet. What would happen is when I messed up somehow, I just like ate a donut or three, I would try and overcompensate the next day by doing more cardio or trying to eat fewer carbs and fats, and this was just a recipe for this horrible cycle of binging and over-exercising and feeling horrible, and that's just no way to live.”

Don’t Fall Into the “Binge and Restrict” Cycle

Unhappy Woman refusing to Eat her Pizza Dish in a Restaurant. Disgruntled customer not liking the meal sending it backShutterstock

“Now, if that happens and I overeat on my diet for the day, I just stick to what I would normally eat on my daily diet, almost as if that 7-Eleven incident never happened. I just learn from it, and I move on. So whatever you do, if you ever have a mess up in your diet, don't ever, ever, ever try and overcompensate by doing more cardio or eating less. Just eat as if you would normally eat so that you don't fall into any binge and restrict cycle,” she suggests.

Mistake 7: Fear of Building Muscle

Fitness woman in sportswear trains shoulder muscles, doing dumbbell press while sitting on bench in gym. Back viewShutterstock

Her next mistake? “I was afraid of building muscle,” she says. She explains that building muscle is great because “the more mass and the more muscle that I have, the more I weigh, the more I can eat and not gain too much fat,” she says.

RELATED: What Would Happen to Your Body if You Only Ate Eggs for 30 Days

You Can Reshape Your Body with Exercise and Nutrition

Happy,Sporty,Fitness,Woman,Flexing,Muscles,On,Beach.,Smiling,YoungShutterstock

“It took me years of focused effort in the gym and being methodical about my nutrition to put on the muscle mass I was able to achieve here. The cool thing I've learned through bodybuilding is that you can use training to emphasize certain parts of your body and de-emphasize others,” she says. “You can literally reshape your body with the right training and nutrition, and that's what I love so much about lifting weights.”

Mistake 8: Not Stacking Habits

“If I were to stack priorities when it comes to actually losing fat, it would go like this. Very foundational sleep. Get your sleep in order. Second thing, get your calorie deficit in order. Third thing, do some strength training. Focus on maintaining as much muscle mass as you have, and then maybe consider adding in some cardio,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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If you've ever felt frustrated with dieting, you're not alone. After 15 years of trying different weight loss approaches, Martin Balcaitis, 45, Senior Vice President of Operations at Lindora in Orange County, California, finally discovered the game-changing mistake that had been holding him back all along. His transformation story proves that sometimes the smallest changes can lead to the biggest results.

The Wake-Up Call

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"I feel like I've always been trying to lose weight!" Martin tells Body Network. "But now that I'm in my mid-40s, I know that it isn't so much about the number on the scale, but my overall health for longevity – that was my real motivator this time around."

The Crucial Discovery

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Standing at 5'9" and weighing 222 pounds, Martin thought he had tried everything. Then came the revelation that changed everything: "I thought I was eating a correct portion for myself, but eyeballing wasn't my friend," he admits. "A food scale was crucial to my success."

RELATED:30 Best Protein Foods That Melt Fat Almost Instantly

The Transformation

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The results speak for themselves. In just six months, Martin dropped from 222 pounds to 165 pounds, achieving a remarkable transformation in his body composition. "My overall body fat percentage went from 36% to 15% in 6 months," he shares proudly.

A New Approach to Food

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Unlike previous attempts at weight loss, Martin's new strategy didn't involve cutting out foods entirely. "I haven't eliminated anything – which is great!" he explains. "I simply know how to manage portions and adjust my eating that day if I know I'm going to have something decadent or high-carb during the day."

A Day of Measured Eating

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Martin's daily menu is both satisfying and strategic. "Breakfast is typically one egg, some egg whites and cottage cheese blended in what I call my 'protein eggs' with spinach and some meat," he says. "Lunch will be a salad with a yogurt-based dressing and dinner is roasted vegetables and lean protein – also three Lindora snacks too!"

RELATED:10-Min Walking Workout Burns Fat at Home, Says Coach

The Workout Strategy

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Time management proved to be another crucial lesson. "Time can always get the best of us so I make sure to workout in the morning," Martin explains. "I make too many excuses to not go to the gym after work." His dedication has paid off: "I can actually see some abs poking through now!"

Dealing with Setbacks

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Martin maintains a realistic approach to challenges. "Sometimes the motivation just isn't there and you have to tell yourself that it's a marathon, not a sprint," he reflects. "Don't beat yourself up if you skip a workout or can't go the distance you wanted to."

The Power of Accountability

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Making the journey public became a powerful tool. "Be vocal about it. I told people I was trying to lose weight to help hold me accountable," he advises. His commitment extended to his wardrobe: "I donated clothes once they were too big for me – I didn't want to buy big clothes again, so I had to keep going!"

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat

A Science-Based Approach

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Martin emphasizes the importance of data in his success. "Knowledge is power, so I would encourage everyone to get a body composition analysis done so they have a true understanding of what their numbers are to make a plan of attack," he recommends.

The Path to Success

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For those inspired by his journey, Martin offers encouraging advice: "Just start! You don't have to wait for a certain day, you don't have to have a big goal in mind – just take little steps and once you see some progress it will motivate you to keep going."

RELATED:7 Simple Daily Exercises To Shrink Hanging Belly Fat

Maintaining Momentum

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His approach to staying motivated remains practical and empowering. "If I am feeling badly about my body – it is 100% in my control to fix it," he states. "Having a plan and solutions is the answer and putting that plan into action is key." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Have you tried every diet out there but still can't seem to keep the weight off? You're stuck in a cycle of restrictive eating, temporary results, and inevitable rebound. But according to one expert, the problem isn't your willpower—it's your blood sugar.


Jessie Inchauspé, known to her followers as the Glucose Goddess, is a biochemist who's challenging everything we think we know about weight loss. With over 1.3 million YouTube subscribers and a New York Times bestselling book, she's revealing why traditional dieting advice might be making your weight loss journey harder than it needs to be. Read on to discover the science-backed approach that could finally help you break free from the dieting cycle.

The Weight Loss Industry's Billion-Dollar Mistake

The multi-billion dollar diet industry has built its fortune on quick fixes and restrictive eating plans. "When I wrote my first book in 2022, even though my focus was never to help people lose weight, my publishers wanted me to put weight loss or lose weight on the cover because they know that it sells," Jessie reveals in her video podcast. But this obsession with quick results is exactly what's keeping people trapped in the weight loss cycle.

The Hidden Reason You Can't Stop Eating

What if your food cravings weren't about lack of willpower? "When we are on a glucose rollercoaster, after every glucose spike, there is a glucose dip, and this dip activates the craving center in our brain that tells us to go find some cookies, some chocolates, some chips," Jessie explains. This insight reveals why traditional diets often fail—they don't address the underlying blood sugar issues driving your hunger.

Why Your Body Fights Against Weight Loss

The real problem goes deeper than calories. "The reason that fat burning is important is not because it's going to make you lose weight. It's because if you're able to burn fat for fuel, it means that you are metabolically flexible," Jessie emphasizes. Without this flexibility, your body remains stuck in a cycle of constant hunger and energy crashes.

The Truth About Constant Hunger

If you're always hungry, there's a scientific reason: "People who are not very metabolically flexible, who rely mostly on glucose for fuel all the time, they're hungry every two hours. They get what's called low blood sugar. And if their meals are delayed or if they don't have a snack with them in their car, they can get really shaky and nauseous," Jessie explains. This constant need for food isn't normal—it's a sign your body isn't working efficiently.

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The Three Keys to Natural Weight Loss

When you focus on blood sugar stability, three powerful changes occur: "The reduction in cravings, the reduction in hunger, and the increase in burning fat for fuel," says Jessie. These changes create the perfect environment for natural, sustainable weight loss.

Why Quick-Fix Diets Make Everything Worse

"I think if your main focus is losing weight at all costs as quickly as possible, that often leads to very habits that are not sustainable, and that can actually be worse for your health and cause damage," Jessie warns. "Do not succumb to any of the crazy diets promising you fast, 10-pound in two-day weight loss. That's not what we're here for."

The Simple Changes That Transform Your Body

Instead of strict rules, Jessie advocates for easy, sustainable habits: "The hacks that I share are sustainable, easy partners that you take along with your days and your weeks and your months and your years and do whenever you can," she explains. "They don't ask you to count any calories. They don't ask you to cut out any food groups. They just teach you about what molecules are in your food and when, how, and what combination to eat your food."

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How to Break Free from Food Guilt

The beauty of this approach is its flexibility. "I like to say that they're a little bit like drink water and brush your teeth. If you can't do them one day, one week, one month, it's not a big deal," Jessie shares. "The point is not you do everything right or you're not doing it at all. It's purely take the principles with you and do them when it is easy."

The Science-Backed Results

The proof lies in the research. In a study of 2,700 people following Jessie's method for just four weeks, "90% of participants were less hungry, 89% reduced their cravings, 77% had more energy," she reports. Most importantly, 38% of those wanting to lose weight succeeded—without following a restrictive diet.

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Your Path to Sustainable Weight Loss

The most profound changes go beyond the scale. "What they had been after for a very long time was not necessarily weight loss, it was actually just to feel good in their body, to have a clear brain, to be happy to wake up in the morning with energy, to not feel so addicted to sugar all the time," Jessie reveals. By understanding and stabilizing your blood sugar, you can finally achieve the sustainable weight loss that has eluded you—without the struggle of traditional dieting. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Kiki (@kikivirk) is a weight loss influencer who has amassed a social media following for sharing all the tips and tricks that enabled her to lose a whopping 60 pounds and keep it off. In one of her viral videos – viewed over 8 million times, Kiki reveals the biggest weight loss mistake she made on her journey – and also what ultimately led to her weight loss success.


She Says Doing High Intensity Workouts Were a “Huge Mistake”

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“I was so motivated to lose weight and I wanted to see results fast, but I didn't do my research and I jumped straight in, literally into a high intensity, 90 day workout plan. Huge mistake,” Kiki says in the video.

After 45 Days She Hadn’t Lost Weight

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After a month-and-a-half, she didn't feel like she'd lost any weight. “I was overdoing it. The long, painful HIIT workouts were actually doing my body no good. They were causing it too much stress and loads of other problems,” she says.

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She Had “Weight Plateaus” and “Felt So Hungry and Fatigued”

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In another video, she specified that she was doing “high intensity cardio” five times a week in hopes it “would burn fat fast and give me my dream body,” she explained. “But instead, I had weight plateaus and felt so hungry and fatigued.

Her Fat Began to “Melt Off” When She Started Strength Training

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“Literally, as soon as I started strength training and less cardio, the fat began to melt off, and the lean muscle mass I gained gave me the tone look I'd always wanted,” she continued.

Her Program: LISS, Walking, Strength and Resistance Training, and a Short HIIT Workout

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Her program starts with doing 45 to 60 minutes of LISS cardio four times a week. She also walks 7 to 12,000 steps every day, does strength and resistance training three times a week, and a 15-minute HIIT workout once a week.

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An Expert Weighs In

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“What she says is definitely spot on,” says Kendra Gamble, HIT Fitness Training, Huntingdon Valley, PA, NPTI Certified Personal Trainer and Nutritional Consultant. “Intense cardio and intense HIIT more than twice a week will do the body more harm than good and is not the way to lose fat and get that toned look.” Instead, she agrees that “increasing your everyday steps is more of the most important and beginner things you can do to start losing fat along with getting your diet right.” Unfortunately, “fat loss is not an immediate thing and will take time and dedication but she explains it all perfectly.”

💪🔥Body Booster: If you are a beginner trying to lose weight, starting by increasing your steps and modifying your diet instead of going overboard with higher intensity workouts.

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Losing weight doesn’t have to equate to starvation, deprivation, or eating bland meals. According to one fit mom and influencer, you can eat delicious dinners, and still drop weight fast. Ashley Smith is a fit mom and nutritionist who regularly shares weight loss tips and tricks with her followers. In a new Instagram post, she reveals some of her go-to recipes for healthy, fat-burning meals. “If I wanted to lose 10 pounds in the next 6 weeks here are the 5 dinners I would eat on repeat,” she writes.

1. Lemon Garlic Shrimp with Quinoa & Roasted Veggies

Protein: 42g, Calories: 378

Ingredients: 6 oz shrimp, ½ cup cooked quinoa, 1 cup zucchini & bell peppers (roasted), 1 tsp olive oil, 1 tbsp lemon juice, 1 clove garlic (minced), salt & pepper to taste.
Directions: Sauté shrimp with garlic, lemon juice, salt, and pepper. Serve over quinoa with roasted veggies.

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2. Grilled Chicken with Mashed Cauliflower & Green Beans

Protein: 48g, Calories: 339
Ingredients: 6 oz grilled chicken breast, 1 cup mashed cauliflower (made with ½ cup steamed cauliflower, ¼ cup unsweetened almond milk, and seasonings), 1 cup steamed green beans, 1 tsp olive oil, salt, pepper, and garlic powder to taste.Directions: Grill the chicken, mash the cauliflower with almond milk and seasonings, and serve with steamed green beans.

3. Turkey & Spinach Stir-Fry with Brown Rice

Protein: 43g, Calories: 428

Ingredients: 5 oz lean ground turkey, 1 cup cooked brown rice, 1 cup sautéed spinach & mushrooms, 1 tsp coconut aminos, 1 clove garlic (minced), ½ tsp ground ginger, salt & pepper to taste.
Directions: Cook turkey with garlic, ginger, and aminos, then toss in spinach and mushrooms. Serve over brown rice.

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4. Spaghetti Squash with Ground Turkey Marinara

Protein: 41g, Calories: 314

Ingredients: 5 oz lean ground turkey, 1 cup cooked spaghetti squash, ½ cup marinara sauce, ½ cup sautéed mushrooms & zucchini, 1 tbsp nutritional yeast (for a cheesy flavor), 1 clove garlic (minced), ½ tsp oregano, red pepper flakes to taste.
Directions: Brown the turkey with garlic, oregano, and red pepper flakes. Add marinara sauce, mushrooms, and zucchini, and simmer. Serve over spaghetti squash and sprinkle with nutritional yeast.

5. Grilled Salmon with Roasted Asparagus & Wild Rice

Protein: 47g, Calories: 452

Ingredients: 5 oz grilled salmon, ½ cup cooked wild rice, 1 cup roasted asparagus, 1 tsp olive oil, 1 tbsp lemon juice, 1 clove garlic (minced), salt & pepper to taste.
Directions: Grill salmon with lemon juice, garlic, salt, and pepper. Roast asparagus and serve with wild rice. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.

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Losing weight isn’t just about cutting calories and eating less. It also involves eating the right kinds of food. “If you're looking to lose weight, choosing nutrient-dense, high-fiber, and protein-rich foods can help keep you full and support your metabolism,” says Body Network’s Resident RDN, Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CP. We asked her to put together a list of the top foods you should fuel up with to lose weight, and here are 10 of them.

Leafy Greens

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Leafy greens, including spinach, kale, arugula, Swiss chard, Romaine, and mustard greens, should be a mainstay in your refrigerator. “Low in calories but packed with fiber, vitamins, and minerals,” she says. “Leafy greens are a high-volume food, which helps with satiety while keeping calorie intake low.”

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Eggs

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Eggs might not be cheap right now, but they offer a lot of bang for the buck in terms of nutrients. “High in protein to keep you full longer,” says Collingwood. “A lot of the nutrition is in the egg yolk, but so are many calories. Split the difference using some whole eggs and combine with a few egg whites.

Lean Protein

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Next up, you need to eat a lot of lean protein, including chicken, turkey, lean beef, seafood, and other fish, to lose weight. “Helps to preserve muscle mass during weight loss,” Collingwood explains. “Helps reduce hunger and keeps you satisfied.”

Greek Yogurt

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Another item to keep stocked up on for weight loss? Greek yogurt. “High in protein and probiotics for gut health,” she says. “Greek yogurt can help with appetite control and digestion.”

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Berries

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Berries, especially blueberries, blackberries, strawberries, and raspberries are also great for losing weight as they are rich in fiber and antioxidants. “Can satisfy sweet cravings with fewer calories,” says Collingwood.

Cruciferous Vegetables

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Cruciferous vegetables like broccoli, cauliflower, and Brussels sprouts are another great option. “Low in calories but high in fiber and antioxidants and vitamins,” Collingwood says. “The high fiber content can help keep you full longer.”

Legumes

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Legumes, including lentils, chickpeas, and black beans, are essential for weight loss.

“High in plant-based protein and fiber which helps to keep you full for longer and can help stabilize blood sugar,” says Collingwood.

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Oats/Oatmeal

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Oats and oatmeal should always be in your pantry. “Whole grain that is high in soluble fiber, which aids digestion and prolongs fullness,” explains Collingwood. “Can help to regulate blood sugar due to soluble fiber. Combine with a protein (make oatmeal with milk, add protein powder, make overnight oats with Greek yogurt) for a complete meal.”

Nuts and Seeds

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Nuts and seeds are great to have on hand for healthy snacking. Collingwood likes almonds, pistachios, walnuts, hemp, chia seeds, and flaxseeds. “Packed with heart-healthy fats, fiber, and protein,” she says.

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Avocados

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And last on her list? Avocado. “High in monounsaturated fats that promote fullness. It also contains fiber and essential nutrients for weight management,” says Collingwood. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these20 Superfoods for People Over 50.

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What you ate in your twenties, thirties, and forties to lose weight might not work as you age. According to an expert, some foods shouldn’t be on your plate in your fifties and beyond. Jon Williams is a fat loss expert who helps men and women lose 20-plus pounds of body fat. In a new Instagram post, he gets honest about fat loss and diet. “The fittest people I know who are in their 50s and 60s, avoid these 8 foods at all costs when they are trying to lose weight,” he writes.

Processed Sugars

The first no-no? Processed sugars. “High in calories and low in nutrients, they can lead to weight gain, insulin resistance, and increased risk of chronic diseases,” he says.

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White Bread

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While you don’t have to go on a no-carb diet to lose weight, you might have to ditch white bread. “Made from refined flour, it lacks fiber and can cause spikes in blood sugar levels, which is particularly concerning as metabolism slows with age,” says Williams.

Fried Foods

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Another type of food you can’t eat if you want to lose weight? Fried foods. “High in unhealthy fats and calories, they can contribute to heart disease and obesity,” he says.

Soda and Sugary Drinks

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Don’t drink your calories, suggests Williams. Soda and sugary drinks should be avoided. “Loaded with sugar and empty calories, they can lead to weight gain and increase the risk of type 2 diabetes,” he explains.

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High-Sodium Foods

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Salty foods might taste good, but generally, high-sodium items should be avoided. “Processed snacks and canned soups can contain excessive salt, which is linked to high blood pressure and heart issues,” says Williams.

Pastries and Cakes

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You don’t have to avoid everything sweet, but pastries and cake aren’t going to do you any favors if you are trying to slim down. “These are often high in sugar, unhealthy fats, and refined carbohydrates, contributing to weight gain and health issues,” he says.

Trans Fats

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Read labels and avoid food with trans fats. “Found in many processed foods, these fats raise bad cholesterol levels and lower good cholesterol, increasing heart disease risk,” says Williams.

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Alcohol

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Alcohol “in excess” isn’t good for you, and won’t help you lose weight. “While moderate consumption can be okay, excessive alcohol can lead to weight gain, liver issues, and other health problems,” he says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these20 Superfoods for People Over 50.