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10 Weight Loss Mistakes Women Over 40 Need to Stop Making Now

Avoid these common pitfalls for lasting weight loss after 40.

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Struggling to lose weight after 40? You're not alone. Many women find that strategies that worked in their younger years become less effective as they age. Weight loss expertLouise Digby, Dr. Anthony Balduzzi, founder of The Fit Mother Project and mindset coachDy Ann Parham, share insights on avoiding common mistakes. Here are ten weight loss errors you might be making and how to fix them.


Following Fad Diets

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Fad diets like keto or very low-calorie plans promise quick results but aren't sustainable. Digby explains in her video, "When you cut out whole food groups, you're not giving your body all the nutrients it needs." She adds, "Carbs aren't all bad. Your body needs them for energy, brain function, and keeping your metabolism healthy."

Extreme Calorie Restriction

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Drastically cutting calories can backfire. Digby warns, "When you don't eat enough, your body slows down to save energy." This makes it harder to lose weight later on. "When you start eating normally again, your body stores extra calories as fat, so you often gain the weight back," she says.

RELATED: I Wore a 25-Pound Vest for a Year and These 7 Things Happened

Relying on Detoxes and Cleanses

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Detoxes and cleanses might sound appealing, but they can do more harm than good. Digby explains, "These programs often promise quick results, making you feel lighter and more energized. But they usually just make you lose water and muscle, not fat." These plans often cut out important foods and don't give your body enough calories, slowing down your metabolism.

Over-Exercising

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Many women think more exercise is always better, but Digby disagrees: "When you exercise too hard, your body makes more stress hormones. This can make you gain weight, especially around your belly." Dr. Balduzzi adds, "Women in their forties, fifties, and sixties need to lift weights. It is perhaps the single most effective kind of exercise."

Ignoring Age-Related Body Changes

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Our bodies change significantly after 40. Digby points out, "Hormones that control our metabolism start to drop. This can make it harder to burn fat and easier to gain weight, especially around the middle." Dr. Balduzzi adds, "When we're in our forties, fifties, and sixties, we typically burn around 200 to 350 less calories per day than when we did when we were in our twenties."

Neglecting the Impact of Stress

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Stress plays a crucial role in weight gain. Digby notes, "Our stress levels often go up as we get older, with work and family responsibilities. More stress can lead to more belly fat." Managing stress is crucial for successful weight loss after 40.

Overlooking the Emotional Aspects of Eating

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Digby emphasizes the importance of understanding emotional eating. "Food isn't just fuel. It's tied to our feelings," she explains. "If we don't deal with the emotional side of eating, we'll keep regaining weight no matter what diet we try." Becoming aware of why you eat and finding healthier ways to cope with emotions is crucial.

RELATED: 3 Truths I Tell My Patients About 16:8 Fasting as a Medical Professional

Pursuing Unsustainable Weight Loss Methods

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Both Digby and Dr. Balduzzi stress the importance of sustainable approaches. Digby states, "If you can't see yourself doing something forever, it won't lead to long-term results." Dr. Balduzzi echoes this: "We don't just want to lose 10 pounds and regain it all back."

Ignoring the Importance of Sleep

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Dr. Balduzzi emphasizes the critical role of sleep in weight loss: "Sleep is like the master clock that controls all of our main weight loss hormones, controls cortisol, controls insulin, controls thyroid hormone. When we're not getting enough sleep, we're basically shooting ourselves in the foot when it comes to our weight loss efforts."

Overcomplicating Weight Loss Strategies

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Dy Ann Parham advocates for simplicity in weight loss approaches. She says, "Forget about all the nonsense that you're hearing on the internet and just make it simple, fast long, feast well, train smart. You'll be absolutely amazed at how simple this lifestyle can be." Focus on whole, nutritious foods and consistent, enjoyable physical activity rather than complex diet plans.

RELATED: I Achieve My Ideal Body With These 16 Simple Steps Anyone Can Follow

Work With Your Body

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Avoiding these common mistakes can help women over 40 achieve lasting weight loss. It's about working with your body's changes, not against them. As Digby concludes, "When you eat and move in ways that suit your body, especially as you age, losing weight becomes much easier." And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Struggling to lose weight after 40? You're not alone. Many women find that strategies that worked in their younger years become less effective as they age. Weight loss expertLouise Digby, Dr. Anthony Balduzzi, founder of The Fit Mother Project and mindset coachDy Ann Parham, share insights on avoiding common mistakes. Here are ten weight loss errors you might be making and how to fix them.


Following Fad Diets

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Fad diets like keto or very low-calorie plans promise quick results but aren't sustainable. Digby explains in her video, "When you cut out whole food groups, you're not giving your body all the nutrients it needs." She adds, "Carbs aren't all bad. Your body needs them for energy, brain function, and keeping your metabolism healthy."

Extreme Calorie Restriction

Tired woman having rest after workout. Tired and exhausted female athlete sitting on floor at gym with a water bottle.Shutterstock

Drastically cutting calories can backfire. Digby warns, "When you don't eat enough, your body slows down to save energy." This makes it harder to lose weight later on. "When you start eating normally again, your body stores extra calories as fat, so you often gain the weight back," she says.

RELATED: I Wore a 25-Pound Vest for a Year and These 7 Things Happened

Relying on Detoxes and Cleanses

Shot of cheerful woman preparing detox juice with while blender in the kitchen at homeShutterstock

Detoxes and cleanses might sound appealing, but they can do more harm than good. Digby explains, "These programs often promise quick results, making you feel lighter and more energized. But they usually just make you lose water and muscle, not fat." These plans often cut out important foods and don't give your body enough calories, slowing down your metabolism.

Over-Exercising

Blonde young woman give up workout in gym, fail.Shutterstock/sakkmesterke

Many women think more exercise is always better, but Digby disagrees: "When you exercise too hard, your body makes more stress hormones. This can make you gain weight, especially around your belly." Dr. Balduzzi adds, "Women in their forties, fifties, and sixties need to lift weights. It is perhaps the single most effective kind of exercise."

Ignoring Age-Related Body Changes

Tired stressed old mature business woman suffering from neckpain working from home office sitting at table. Overworked senior middle aged lady massaging neck feeling hurt pain from incorrect posture.Shutterstock

Our bodies change significantly after 40. Digby points out, "Hormones that control our metabolism start to drop. This can make it harder to burn fat and easier to gain weight, especially around the middle." Dr. Balduzzi adds, "When we're in our forties, fifties, and sixties, we typically burn around 200 to 350 less calories per day than when we did when we were in our twenties."

Neglecting the Impact of Stress

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Stress plays a crucial role in weight gain. Digby notes, "Our stress levels often go up as we get older, with work and family responsibilities. More stress can lead to more belly fat." Managing stress is crucial for successful weight loss after 40.

Overlooking the Emotional Aspects of Eating

Emotional eating, mental disorder, depression, loneliness, stress. Lonely woman eating sweets and watching tv late in the night. Nerve foodShutterstock

Digby emphasizes the importance of understanding emotional eating. "Food isn't just fuel. It's tied to our feelings," she explains. "If we don't deal with the emotional side of eating, we'll keep regaining weight no matter what diet we try." Becoming aware of why you eat and finding healthier ways to cope with emotions is crucial.

RELATED: 3 Truths I Tell My Patients About 16:8 Fasting as a Medical Professional

Pursuing Unsustainable Weight Loss Methods

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Both Digby and Dr. Balduzzi stress the importance of sustainable approaches. Digby states, "If you can't see yourself doing something forever, it won't lead to long-term results." Dr. Balduzzi echoes this: "We don't just want to lose 10 pounds and regain it all back."

Ignoring the Importance of Sleep

Tired woman lying in bed can't sleep late at night with insomnia. Asian girl with funny face sick or sad depressed sleeping at home.Shutterstock

Dr. Balduzzi emphasizes the critical role of sleep in weight loss: "Sleep is like the master clock that controls all of our main weight loss hormones, controls cortisol, controls insulin, controls thyroid hormone. When we're not getting enough sleep, we're basically shooting ourselves in the foot when it comes to our weight loss efforts."

Overcomplicating Weight Loss Strategies

Happy elderly couple smiling husband and wife in aprons prepare salad together at kitchen table, chopping variety of colorful vegetables, trying to maintain healthy lifestyle eating vegetarian foodShutterstock

Dy Ann Parham advocates for simplicity in weight loss approaches. She says, "Forget about all the nonsense that you're hearing on the internet and just make it simple, fast long, feast well, train smart. You'll be absolutely amazed at how simple this lifestyle can be." Focus on whole, nutritious foods and consistent, enjoyable physical activity rather than complex diet plans.

RELATED: I Achieve My Ideal Body With These 16 Simple Steps Anyone Can Follow

Work With Your Body

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Avoiding these common mistakes can help women over 40 achieve lasting weight loss. It's about working with your body's changes, not against them. As Digby concludes, "When you eat and move in ways that suit your body, especially as you age, losing weight becomes much easier." And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you trying to lose weight but not achieving the desired results? Stella Q Rivers is a weight loss coach who is “helping driven women drop 10-30+ lbs, master food, & finally feel in control,” she writes in her Instagram bio. She lost 40 pounds and has managed to keep it off for a decade. “I went from 165lbs to 115lbs & kept it off for 10 years. My biggest REGRET? Making these 5 mistakes,” she writes in an Instagram post.

Mistake 1: Kept on Trying to Diet

Her first mistake? “I Kept on trying to diet,” she reveals. “The more I dieted, the bigger the tire around my waist got & the scale crept up that I avoided getting on it. The #1 predictor of weight GAIN is dieting.”

Mistake 2: Believed the “Fat and Funny Friend” Story

Her second mistake? “Believed my ‘I’m the fat & funny friend’ story,” she reveals. “You are who you say you are. If you’re playing the role of the fat friend, you are her. What role do you play in your family (the ‘ugly duckling’) & friend circles and HOW much weight are you keeping on your body right now because of it?” she writes.

Mistake 3: Believed “Progressionals” Over Her Body

Her third mistake? She believed “professionals” over her body. “Between dieticians, nutritionists, coaches, hypnotherapists, Jenny Craig consultants, you name it. I did it & trusted them,” she explains. “When you trust OTHER people more than yourself, you will fight your weight because you won’t *trust* yourself. Yes, get informed BUT take what you need & leave the rest.”

Mistake 4: Gave Into Every Craving in the “Name of Not Binging”

Some people will tell you to lean into cravings so you don’t overindulge. But she disagrees. Giving into every craving in the “name of not binging” was her fourth mistake. “Because of dieting, I became a binge eater. Through healing that phase of my life I was told ‘honor your craving or else you’ll binge.’ Again, listening to professionals, FEARING food & my body and gaining more weight. It didn’t feel good. When you give into every craving, you will have a weight problem & food will have the power over you.”

Mistake 5: Worked Out Too Much

Her fifth and final mistake was working out too much. “Running 7+miles a day for a thigh gap, doing HIIT workouts 6 days a week= working out like an a**hole. This contributed to the binging & feeling out of control with food, skyrocketed weight gain & avoiding the scale,” she says. “I love running & love a good HIIT session every now & then but I love listening to my body more. Result? 40+lbs down. Your relationship to yourself is the pathway to your weight loss.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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We've all been there – feeling uncomfortable in our own skin, wanting to make a change, but not knowing where to start. Amy Fritz knows this feeling all too well. After reaching her heaviest weight by the end of 2022, she felt miserable and ready for change. By making simple adjustments to her lifestyle—moving her body daily and fueling it with nutritious foods 80% of the time—Amy lost over 90 pounds in just 12 months. Now she's sharing the surprising mistakes she had to overcome to find success. Read on to discover what could be holding back your own weight loss journey.

Mistake 1: Focusing on the scale instead of how you feel

Many of us become obsessed with numbers on the scale, but Amy discovered a more powerful motivator. "Feeling healthy is so much more powerful than any number you will ever see on the scale," she explains in her post. Just two weeks into her journey, despite only losing about five pounds, Amy already noticed positive changes.

"The shame of making bad choices that I had been making for so long started to melt away," Amy shares. That feeling of health fueled her to keep going, even when the weight loss was slow. Now, a year into her journey, she craves those healthy habits. "If I have a couple of days where maybe I miss a workout or make some poor choices with my diet, I start to feel gross," Amy admits.

RELATED:I Got Into the Best Shape of My Life at 50 by Following These 6 "Basics"

Mistake 2: Neglecting mental health while focusing on physical changes

One of Amy's biggest realizations was that sustainable weight loss begins in the mind, not the body. "Until you're mentally ready, until you've really done the work with your mental health, it's not going to be sustainable or easy to try to focus on your physical health," Amy emphasizes.

Working with a therapist helped Amy overcome emotional eating and develop tools for making healthy choices while managing everyday stress. "You have to prioritize your mental health and what's important on the inside. And then that will snowball and reflect the outside," she says.

Mistake 3: Believing you must eliminate favorite foods

Perhaps the most surprising mistake Amy identified was thinking weight loss meant giving up foods she loved. "You do not have to cut out any specific foods or your favorite meals in order to lose weight," Amy states. She discovered that overly restricting certain foods creates a vicious cycle of craving, overeating, guilt, and more restriction.

Instead, Amy found healthier ways to enjoy her favorite meals. "When you have those cravings for foods, all you have to do is find healthier ways to make them," she explains. For example, pizza night became healthier by adding nutritional volume: "Maybe I sprinkle on a bunch of fresh veggies, or what I really love to do is toss some arugula and some olive oil and balsamic and top that on my pizza."

Mistake 4: Tracking calories too rigidly

Amy initially thought successful weight loss meant sticking to a strict daily calorie limit—a common but often unsustainable approach. "You don't have to track your calories by the day," Amy reveals. Instead, she discovered the power of weekly tracking.

"If you want to lose one pound a week, you have to be in at least a deficit of 3500 calories on the week," Amy explains. This flexibility allowed her to enjoy date nights without guilt while still meeting her goals. "I have date night every Friday night. And so you better be sure I use one of my larger calorie days for Friday so I can go out and enjoy myself and not have to worry and feel like I've fallen off the wagon."

RELATED:I'm 50+ and These 7 Fat-Blasting Habits Keep Me in the Best Shape of My Life

Mistake 5: Putting exercise last on your priority list

Making exercise an "if I have time" activity was a major error Amy had to correct. "You have to prioritize movement and exercise really high when you're on a journey like this. You have to make it almost your number one priority or else it's not going to get done," Amy stresses.

She learned to stop waiting for the perfect moment when everything else was in order. "Leave the kitchen a mess, leave the bedroom a mess, leave the pile of laundry, let something go so that you can go move your body because you matter and you'll feel better," Amy advises. Putting herself first with exercise actually improved her ability to handle other responsibilities.

Why waiting for motivation doesn't work

Many people make the mistake of waiting until they feel motivated to start exercising or eating better. Amy discovered that action comes first, motivation follows. "You'll start to feel good long before you see results on the scale," she points out. The feeling of making healthy choices daily becomes its own reward and generates the motivation to continue.

The perfectionism trap that sabotages progress

Amy admits she used to think everything had to be perfect before she could focus on her health. "So many times last year and before beginning this journey, I would say, man, I can only go to the gym if the whole house is clean," she recalls. This perfectionism kept her from taking action. Learning to let go of perfect and embrace progress was key to her success.

How meal repetition simplifies weight loss

Contrary to popular advice about needing endless variety, Amy found freedom in keeping meals simple. "It is okay if you found a recipe that is highly nutritional, that you love, that your whole family loves, that supports everyone's goals. It is okay to make that two or three times a week," Amy reassures.

Sheet pan dinners and taco nights became staples in her home. "We do taco night at least once a week, sometimes twice a week," she admits. Finding a few healthy meals that work and repeating them eliminated decision fatigue and simplified her journey.

RELATED:I Hit 60 and These Daily Habits Keep Me Fit and Feeling 20 Years Younger

Why adding nutrition works better than restriction

Rather than focusing on what to eliminate, Amy discovered the power of adding nutrition to her plate. "Add some more nutrition to your plate and really add some volume to your plate so that you can control the portions," she explains. This approach—eating more vegetables and nutrient-dense foods alongside smaller portions of more indulgent items—kept her satisfied without feeling deprived.

The mindset shift that makes habits stick

Eventually, Amy's healthy choices became automatic. "Now that I'm a year in, I still have a long way to go. I can truly say the feeling of eating healthy and moving my body is not only habitual, but it's something I crave," she shares. This transformation from forcing herself to do healthy activities to actually desiring them was the ultimate key to her success.

Amy's journey proves that sustainable weight loss doesn't require extreme measures or suffering. By avoiding these five unexpected mistakes—focusing too much on the scale, neglecting mental health, eliminating favorite foods, tracking calories too rigidly, and putting exercise last—she created lasting change. Her approach balanced enjoyment with progress, proving that weight loss doesn't have to be miserable to be effective. Start today by addressing these common mistakes in your own journey—you've got this! And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these20 Superfoods for People Over 50

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Struggling with stubborn fat that won't budge despite your best efforts? You're not alone. After 40, hormonal changes and decreased muscle mass can make fat loss particularly challenging. However, according to experts, common mistakes might be holding you back more than age itself.


JJ Virgin, a triple-board certified nutrition expert and four-time best-selling author, and Annette Snyder, MS, RD, CSOWM, a Certified Specialist in Obesity and Weight Management, reveal the seven critical mistakes preventing women over 40 from achieving their body composition goals.

Mistake 1: Focusing Only on Weight Loss

"Stop trying to lose weight," JJ Virgin says in her recent post. "If your sole focus was to lose weight, what should you do? You should fast as much as possible, eat as little as possible, and move as little as possible."

This approach destroys metabolism and muscle mass. Instead, focus on body composition - the ratio of fat to muscle. As Snyder explains, "A safe and sustainable rate of fat loss is 0.5-2 pounds per week while maintaining muscle mass."

How to Track Progress the Right Way

"What we measure and monitor, we can improve," says Virgin. She recommends using a combination of methods:

  • Weekly waist and hip measurements
  • Progress photos from multiple angles
  • Body composition measurements
  • Strength improvements in key exercises
  • Energy levels and recovery time.

Mistake 2: Starting Your Day Wrong

Virgin warns against the common breakfast mistake of having "a skinny latte and muffin." This combination can contain as much sugar as two hostess cupcakes, setting you up for blood sugar crashes and increased hunger. Instead, prioritize protein at breakfast, aiming for 25-30 grams to stabilize blood sugar and preserve muscle mass.

Building a Better Breakfast

Virgin shares her go-to morning routine: "I do breakfast around two hours after waking up. Start with meditation, maybe a cold plunge, then a protein-rich breakfast." She recommends:

  • Protein smoothies with clean protein powder and collagen
  • Greek-style yogurt with added protein (if dairy-tolerant)
  • Eggs with vegetables and healthy fats
  • Adding essential amino acids for extra muscle protection.

RELATED: Woman Drops 3 Dress Sizes in Her 40s By Eating These 10 High Protein Meals

Mistake 3: Avoiding Strength Training

"Forget aging gracefully. Age powerfully," Virgin declares. After 40, women can lose up to 1% muscle mass annually if not actively preventing it. More alarming is the 2-4% loss in strength and 6% loss in power. Snyder adds, "Resistance training is crucial for maintaining metabolic health and preventing age-related muscle loss."

Essential Exercises Every Woman Over 40 Needs

"Focus on functional movements that translate to real life," Virgin advises. She recommends these key exercises:

  • Squats (with or without weights)
  • Bent-over rows for upper body strength
  • Overhead presses for shoulder strength
  • Push-ups (modified as needed)
  • Pull-ups or assisted pull-ups for upper body

"These movements help maintain independence and functionality as we age," she explains.

Mistake 4: Not Tracking Body Composition

"We must know what your weight is made up of," Virgin emphasizes. Simply monitoring scale weight isn't enough. According to Snyder, "The Gold Standard for measuring body fat percentage is through a DEXA scan," though regular measurements and progress photos can also help track changes effectively.

Mistake 5: Insufficient Protein Intake

Most women drastically underestimate their protein needs. Virgin recommends 0.7 to 1 gram per pound of target body weight, eaten first at each meal. "When you eat protein first, research shows you make better food choices overall and maintain better blood sugar control," she explains.

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Smart Protein Strategies Throughout the Day

"Protein timing matters as much as total intake," Snyder explains. She recommends:

  • 25-30g protein every 3-4 hours
  • Protein-first approach at each meal
  • Post-workout protein within 30 minutes
  • Evening protein to support overnight muscle maintenance

Virgin adds, "If you're plant-based, aim for 40 grams per meal since plant proteins are typically less bioavailable."

Mistake 6: Inadequate Daily Movement

"Winners find ways," Virgin emphasizes regarding daily movement. Many women focus solely on structured exercise while remaining sedentary throughout the day. Aim for at least 8,000 steps daily, working up to 12,000 for optimal results. Remember, formal workouts can't completely offset a sedentary lifestyle.

Creating an Active Lifestyle

Virgin suggests these practical ways to increase daily movement:

  • Stand and pace during phone calls
  • Use a walking pad while working
  • Take stairs instead of elevators
  • Park farther from the entrances
  • Schedule walking meetings

"Movement doesn't need to be formal exercise," she emphasizes. "It's about finding ways to move throughout your entire day."

Mistake 7: Pursuing Quick Fixes

"Focusing on quick results usually entails either under-eating, overexercising or a combination of the two," warns Snyder. "This can increase the risk for burnout, nutritional deficiencies, and an unhealthy mindset." Instead, focus on sustainable habits you can maintain long-term.

Building Sustainable Habits

Snyder recommends focusing on these key areas for long-term success:

  • Regular meal timing
  • Proper hydration (half your body weight in ounces daily)
  • Quality sleep (7-9 hours)
  • Stress management
  • Social support systems
  • "These foundational habits support all your other efforts," she explains.

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Your Action Plan for Success

Start implementing these changes gradually:

Week 1:

  • Track current habits and measurements
  • Begin protein-first approach at breakfast
  • Start daily step counting

Week 2:

  • Add basic strength training 2-3 times weekly
  • Increase daily movement
  • Focus on proper hydration

Week 3:

  • Optimize protein at all meals
  • Add more challenging exercises
  • Implement stress management strategies

Remember: sustainable transformation takes time. While drastic measures might show quick results, they often lead to rebound weight gain and metabolic damage. By avoiding these seven common mistakes and implementing the suggested solutions, you can achieve lasting results at any age.

Track these key metrics for success:

  • Daily protein intake
  • Weekly strength training sessions
  • Daily step count
  • Body measurements (not just weight)
  • Energy levels and recovery
  • Sleep quality and duration
  • Stress levels

The path to lasting body composition change after 40 isn't about quick fixes or extreme measures. It's about building sustainable habits while avoiding common pitfalls that can derail your progress. Start implementing these changes today for a stronger, leaner tomorrow. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Struggling with stubborn belly fat that just won't budge, especially after 40? Functional medicine dietitianMay Tom, RD understands your frustration. "This is a particular pain point that drives a lot of my clients to finally come and work with me," says May. Through her practice, she's helped countless clients break free from the cycle of stubborn belly fat using science-based strategies rather than extreme dieting. Keep reading to discover the most common belly fat mistakes you might be making – and learn exactly how to fix them.


Mistake 1: Not Understanding How Belly Fat Works

"Belly fat, also known as visceral adipose tissue, has a unique relationship with insulin resistance," May explains in her post. She describes it as a vicious cycle: "When you're insulin resistant, you put on more weight around your organs. When you have more weight around your organs, they send out signals called adipokines that cause you to become more insulin resistant."

The Cleveland Clinic adds that "visceral fat surrounds your organs and can put you at risk for conditions like diabetes, heart disease, polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) and more."

Mistake 2: Waiting Too Long to Address the Problem

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"By losing 5% to 10% of your body weight, you can improve blood pressure, blood sugar, cholesterol levels, mobility, sexual function and more," states Dr. David Creel from the Cleveland Clinic. This aligns with May's observation that addressing belly fat early can prevent long-term health issues.

Mistake 3: Not Tracking Your Blood Sugar

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"Diabetes is 10 years in the making, and belly fat is a sign you're on that path," May warns. She recommends using a continuous glucose monitor (CGM) for real-time feedback. "This is real data about you," she emphasizes. "It's a total eye-opener."

Mistake 4: Relying on Artificial Sweeteners

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"Being diabetic doesn't mean converting everything to sugar-free, including Diet Coke," May cautions. The Cleveland Clinic supports this, noting that "we're still learning about the long-term effects of different low-calorie sweeteners on things like taste preferences, cravings, gut bacteria and insulin resistance."

Mistake 5: Avoiding Strategic Fasting

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May's "Nourishing Fast" approach, based on the Fasting Mimicking Diet, has shown impressive results. "Recent research with 100 participants showed significant drops in A1C, fasting glucose, insulin resistance, visceral fat, total body fat, and BMI," she reports.

Mistake 6: Doing the Wrong Type of Exercise

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The Cleveland Clinic recommends "150 minutes per week of moderate-intensity cardio exercise" for best results. May adds that "one meta-analysis of 32 studies found that HIIT and moderate-intensity aerobic exercise was more beneficial to lowering visceral adipose tissue than resistance training."

Mistake 7: Focusing Only on Ab Exercises

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"When you do sit-ups and other core-strengthening exercises, you're strengthening muscles in the abdomen, but that doesn't specifically target the fat," May explains. The Cleveland Clinic adds that "strength training helps build muscle — or at least maintain muscle as you lose fat. And muscle burns calories."

Mistake 8: Ignoring Your Saturated Fat Intake

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"Certain genes predispose you to being sensitive to saturated fat where it really adds to your waistline very quickly," May explains, recommending limiting saturated fat to 10% of daily calories.

Mistake 9: Not Activating Your AMPK

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May describes AMPK as "something that senses fuel availability in the body, and when it doesn't sense enough fuel, it activates and helps to mobilize fat." She points to dark chocolate as a natural AMPK activator.

Mistake 10: Overlooking Temperature's Impact on Fat Loss

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"One study found that whole body cryotherapy for three minutes each session reduced abdominal adiposity in menopausal women," May reports.

Mistake 11: Skimping on Fiber

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The Cleveland Clinic emphasizes that "foods that contain a high amount of soluble fiber can slow down the passage of food from your stomach to your intestine by forming a gummy gel. That means they help you feel fuller for longer."

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Mistake 12: Not Timing Your Protein Right

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"It's not that you need to be on a high-protein diet as much as you should focus on getting adequate protein that's spread throughout the day," May advises. The Cleveland Clinic adds that "protein helps keep you feeling satiated, lowers hunger hormone levels and may even help you eat less at your next meal."

Mistake 13: Underestimating the Impact of Poor Sleep

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The Cleveland Clinic explains that "when we don't sleep well or we're sleep-deprived, it can impact hunger hormones. There's actually a biochemical response to sleep deprivation that makes us want to eat more."

Mistake 14: Neglecting Your Gut Health

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"When you're eating, think I'm not just eating for me, I'm eating for 10 billion," May emphasizes, referring to gut bacteria. She warns that restrictive dieting can harm your gut microbiome: "Take care of them, they're going to take care of you." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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I Lost 50 Pounds in 5 Months and These 6 Pillars Were My Secret Weapon
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We've all been there – struggling to find an exercise routine that actually works while watching the scale refuse to budge. Kathleen Hart, Mindset & Weight Loss Coach, knows this challenge all too well. After losing 55 pounds three separate times and keeping it off for over 3 years, Kathleen has built a following of nearly 100,000 subscribers on her YouTube channel lil Piece of Hart by sharing practical, sustainable weight loss strategies. Her secret weapon? Walking 10,000 steps daily – a simple habit that helped her drop from 200 pounds to 138. Read on to discover how this accessible exercise can transform your body and mindset without complicated workout routines.

The 10,000 Step Secret

Walking might seem too simple to be effective, but Kathleen swears it's "probably the best exercise you can do for weight loss." She explains that getting her steps in every day was "literally the exact key" to how she lost over 55 pounds three times. The beauty of walking, Kathleen points out, is that unlike other exercises, it "does not feel like exercise" – it's enjoyable and incredibly beneficial for your body. Her personal sweet spot? "I aim to get about 10,000 steps every day and I feel like that is my sweet spot," Kathleen shares.

Perfect for Exercise-Haters

If traditional workouts make you cringe, you're not alone. "I hate exercising. There you go, I said it," Kathleen confesses. She doesn't enjoy home workout videos or going to the gym. Yet walking provides a perfect alternative because it's fun and doesn't feel like a chore. Kathleen tried following online workout programs but couldn't stick with them, whereas walking became something she genuinely looks forward to daily.

Anyone Can Do It

One major advantage of walking is its accessibility. "Anyone can do it, all ages, and it is a low impact workout," Kathleen emphasizes. You won't put stress on your joints or knees while still burning calories. Since most people can walk for long distances and periods, it's an exercise option that doesn't require special skills or equipment. Kathleen recommends this approach especially for those who think they can only walk for a few minutes – just aim to add slightly more time each day.

Belly Fat Buster

Looking to target stubborn belly fat? Walking might be your answer. "Walking can reduce belly fat because regular walking can help your body's response to insulin, which is where you hold your belly fat," Kathleen shares from personal experience. Plus, it boosts your metabolism, which helps with overall weight loss. While spot reduction isn't generally possible, improving insulin sensitivity through regular walking can significantly impact how your body stores fat around your midsection.

Mental Health Benefits

Physical transformation isn't the only benefit of daily walks. "Walking is awesome for your mental health," Kathleen stresses. It modifies your nervous system and can actually decrease feelings of anger and stress hormone production. Taking time for yourself during walks provides valuable "me time" that many of us overlook. Kathleen believes mindset is just as important as exercise and nutrition in your weight loss journey, making walking a powerful tool for both physical and mental wellness.

Health Beyond Weight Loss

The benefits of walking extend far beyond just losing pounds. Kathleen explains that regular walking "has the power to lower your blood sugar," reducing your overall diabetes risk. It also helps lower blood pressure and aids in healthy digestion. Additionally, walking strengthens your bones and muscles by maintaining range of motion and improving blood flow. For Kathleen, these health benefits make walking worthwhile even beyond its weight loss effects.

Vitamin D Boost

Taking your walks outdoors provides an additional benefit: natural vitamin D from sunshine. "I'm right in the sun, as you can see me squinting. This is so good for you," Kathleen says enthusiastically. This natural vitamin source contributes to better overall health and can improve your mood. Combined with the physical activity, outdoor walking creates a powerful wellness combination that indoor exercises can't match.

Better Sleep and Stress Relief

Establishing a walking routine creates positive ripple effects throughout your life. Kathleen points out that "by walking and getting more steps and getting your vitamin D and improving your digestion, you are going to get better sleep." Walking also serves as an effective stress reliever by modifying your nervous system to release anger. These benefits create a positive cycle – better sleep leads to better mood, which makes it easier to maintain healthy habits.

Start Small and Build Up

For beginners, Kathleen recommends starting slow: "See how many steps you're walking right now every single day, and just make an improvement a little bit each day." There's no need to jump from 2,000 to 10,000 steps immediately. "It doesn't have to go from 2,000 steps a day all the way up to 10,000 steps in one day," Kathleen emphasizes. When she began her weight loss journey in 2013, she was walking fewer than 2,000 steps daily with her desk job, but evening walks with her husband and dogs became a turning point.

Track Your Progress

Using a fitness tracker can significantly boost motivation. "Fitbits are a great place to start if you're just trying to track your steps," Kathleen advises, though she's since upgraded to an Apple Watch. She finds step tracking "a little bit addicting" because "you like when your Fitbit buzzes and you see your little step goal going up." This immediate feedback creates a rewarding experience that helps maintain consistency in your walking routine.

Challenge Yourself

Once you've established a walking routine, it's time to increase the challenge. Kathleen suggests walking faster: "Push yourself just a little bit faster. Start off slow if you need to and then increase how fast you're walking." For treadmill users, she recommends a structured workout: start with a 2-3 minute slow warmup, then alternate between fast walking (one minute) and medium pace (one minute) for 20-25 minutes, followed by a 2-3 minute cooldown. This interval approach maximizes calorie burn without overwhelming your body.

The 10K Steps Weight Loss Formula

Through trial and error, Kathleen discovered her personal step goal: "I aim to get about 10,000 steps every day and I feel like that is my sweet spot." This target allows her flexibility with her diet while still making progress toward her goals. "That helps me have a little bit of wiggle room with my diet and still be able to crush my goals," Kathleen explains. She shares that she's currently down to 138 pounds from her starting weight of 200 pounds after having her daughter. Finding your personal "sweet spot" might take experimentation, but Kathleen encourages consistency over perfection.

Real Results, No Magic Pills

Weight loss isn't a quick fix, as Kathleen candidly shares: "There's no magic weight loss pill. There's no like apple cider vinegar drink that you can drink that'll just make you drop pounds." Instead, she encourages readers to "start enjoying the journey and the whole thing will change for you." Walking provides a sustainable approach that can become an enjoyable part of your daily life rather than another dreaded obligation. "Losing weight is a journey," Kathleen reminds us, and her impressive 50-pound weight loss in 5 months through walking 10,000 steps daily proves that simple, consistent habits can create dramatic transformations. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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If you have over 50 pounds to lose, it can feel overwhelming. One way to ease the burden is by getting advice from weight loss warriors who have successfully gotten in shape and are sharing their solutions. Tara Dixon is a personal trainer and online coach who helps women “find the best version of themselves, lose weight & break free from fad diets,” she writes in her Instagram bio. In a recent social media post, she revealed her top 5 asked questions about how she lost 84 lbs in a year. “Just remember what worked for me might not work for everyone!” she reminded.

I Worked Out My Calorie Deficit

“How do you work out your calorie deficit?” is the top question she is asked. “I guessed at first… and guess what? I wasn’t eating enough 🤣. And then I found out about a TDEE calculator (I used a free one online) and this should give you your deficit. 3 months into my journey, I started working with a coach (worth its weight in gold if this is something you can afford). My top tips with this… always make sure you are eating enough, you can’t function and workout effectively if you don’t eat enough. Don’t stress too much over cals: try it for a week, if you’re being honest with your tracking and still not losing weight, you can lower it slightly. Keep it simple,” she said.

I Tracked My Macros

Next, she is regularly asked about how she tracked her macros. “What do I track with? NUTRACHECK. I find it simple and clear. Easy to track cals and protein,” she reveals.

I Ate Enough Protein

Protein is another core part of any weight loss journey, and Tara made sure to eat enough. “How do I get 150g protein in every day?” is another FAQ her followers have. “Plan your meals around your protein and make sure your breakfast is protein heavy so you’re not chasing your tail all day long,” she responds.

I Cut Out Alcohol

A lot of people also want to know: “Did you cut out alcohol?” she says. “I did at first as I was so determined to lose weight, but I have since reintroduced it. Just remember nothing is forever and it’s ok to stop something for a bit if it’s not serving you in a positive way.”

I Prioritized Nutrition Over Exercise

The last question: Is exercise more important than diet? “Nooooo. You cannot outrun a bad diet. For weight loss it’s all about nutrition and calorie deficit. Steps second and then exercise. So if you’re strapped for time but really want to lose weight, prioritise your nutrition,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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The Challenge That Changes Everything

We all have moments when we look in the mirror and don't recognize the person staring back. Jennifer Madison found herself at that crossroads and decided to take action. "It was honestly kind of on a whim that I decided to do this," Jennifer admits in her post. "I gave up alcohol not too long ago, just because I wanted to feel better about myself, and I felt like alcohol wasn't helping with any of my goals." Her journey began after hitting 38 days alcohol-free, coincidentally the same number of days she lasted in her previous 75 Hard attempt. This time would be different. Discover how this ordinary woman achieved extraordinary results through pure determination.

What Is 75 Hard Anyway?

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75 Hard isn't just another fitness challenge—it's a complete mental toughness program designed to transform your life through discipline. The rules are simple but demanding: take a daily progress photo, drink a gallon of water, follow a diet with no cheat meals or alcohol, complete two 45-minute workouts (one outdoors regardless of weather), and read 10 pages of a non-fiction book. Miss one task, and you start over at day one. "If you're already looking for excuses, there are plenty out there," Jennifer says. "There will always be an important event coming up. The weather won't always be 70 and sunny." But the rewards are worth every sacrifice.

The First Week Breakthrough

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Committing to something is always easier than maintaining it, especially when old habits try to pull you back. Jennifer started strong but knew the real challenge would come during her commute days. "I don't know yet if I'm going to share this, or if I want to put it out there again with the world that I'm trying again," she confessed early on. "I know my family is not going to want me to do this again, so I haven't told anyone because I truly was at a really, really dark place last time." Despite her doubts, the results came quickly—she dropped 5.2 pounds in just one week, proving that immediate payoff can fuel long-term commitment.

Overcoming Social Pressure

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Social situations become minefields when you're committed to strict habits. Jennifer faced this head-on during work dinners and celebrations. "Everyone was drinking wine. They were like, 'Oh Jen didn't get a glass.' They told the waiter it was my birthday. He got me a little shot of vodka and pineapple juice. I gave it to a co-worker," Jennifer recalls. She even resorted to smashing cake into a napkin to avoid breaking her commitment when pressured to eat dessert. While these moments were challenging, they strengthened her resolve and showed that saying "no" gets easier with practice.

The Weather Won't Stop You

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Mother Nature doesn't care about your fitness goals, but true transformation means persevering anyway. "It's pouring. So this is what I looked like coming back into work. I'm soaked. My pants are soaked. My shoes are soaked. My socks are soaked. I look like a wet dog but I got my 45 minutes in so that's what counts," Jennifer shared after a particularly brutal outdoor workout. Through rain, cold, and exhaustion, she never missed a day. Your excuses about weather conditions will seem insignificant after seeing what's possible with true commitment.

Hitting the 38-Day Milestone

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Breaking past your previous failure point creates powerful momentum. Day 38 marked a significant psychological milestone for Jennifer—the day she had given up during her first attempt. "I am feeling so happy. My spirits are very high. I am on cloud nine, honestly," Jennifer revealed. "I'm gonna accomplish it this time around. I know I'm gonna hit all 75 days." Pushing through your former breaking point proves that your past doesn't define your future. You can rewrite your story with persistence.

The Physical Transformation

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Consistent effort yields undeniable results. Jennifer lost an impressive 25 pounds during her 75 Hard journey, but the benefits went far beyond numbers on a scale. "My mom kept commenting on how my face looks so much skinnier. I just look in the mirror and I look at myself in the camera so much that I don't really notice the changes," Jennifer remarked. Sometimes others notice our transformation before we do. Your daily progress may seem small, but others will see the dramatic difference when your discipline accumulates over weeks and months.

Developing Healthy Nutrition Habits

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Food discipline isn't just about following rules—it's about developing better awareness of your body's actual needs. "Something I really struggle with and something I'm really working on is trying to control food noise and figuring out am I eating because I feel like it's time to eat or am I eating because I'm hungry," Jennifer shared. Throughout the challenge, she learned to resist social eating cues and listen to her body instead. You'll discover that many of your eating habits are based on convenience or social pressure rather than genuine hunger.

Finding Joy in Movement

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Exercise becomes something you crave rather than dread when it becomes part of your identity. Jennifer gradually shifted from reluctant workouts to enthusiastic movement. "I feel so good. If I could, I would do midday workouts all the time. I feel like I have the most energy to do my best workouts," she noticed by the end of her journey. Your relationship with physical activity can transform completely when you commit to consistent practice regardless of motivation.

The Mental Transformation

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The physical changes are impressive, but the mental shift is what truly lasts. "I give up too often and I'm changing who I am. I'm not that person anymore. I don't give up on things. I follow through with things. I accomplish my goals," Jennifer declared during the final third of her challenge. This mental toughness extends to every area of life, from career ambitions to personal relationships. You'll develop a proven track record with yourself that builds unshakable self-trust.

Life After 75 Hard

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Completing a challenge means nothing if you return to old habits. The true test comes after day 75. "In the nearly two months that have passed since doing 75 Hard, I've lost even more weight and feel better than I ever did," Jennifer reported. She maintained her reading habit, consistent workouts, outdoor walks, and even added weight training. The challenge provided the structure to develop habits that became a sustainable lifestyle. Your transformation doesn't have to end when the challenge does.

Start Your Own Transformation Today

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Jennifer's journey proves that ordinary people can achieve extraordinary results through consistent discipline. She started just like you—uncertain, with plenty of excuses and past failures. Yet 75 days of unwavering commitment completely transformed both her body and mindset. "If someone told you that you could change your entire life in just two and a half months, would you do the work necessary to make the change?" Jennifer asks. The answer is up to you, but her results speak for themselves. What could you accomplish in the next 75 days? And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.