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10 Weight Loss Mistakes Women Over 40 Need to Stop Making Now

Avoid these common pitfalls for lasting weight loss after 40.

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Struggling to lose weight after 40? You're not alone. Many women find that strategies that worked in their younger years become less effective as they age. Weight loss expert Louise Digby, Dr. Anthony Balduzzi, founder of The Fit Mother Project and mindset coach Dy Ann Parham, share insights on avoiding common mistakes. Here are ten weight loss errors you might be making and how to fix them.


Following Fad Diets

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Fad diets like keto or very low-calorie plans promise quick results but aren't sustainable. Digby explains in her video, "When you cut out whole food groups, you're not giving your body all the nutrients it needs." She adds, "Carbs aren't all bad. Your body needs them for energy, brain function, and keeping your metabolism healthy."

Extreme Calorie Restriction

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Drastically cutting calories can backfire. Digby warns, "When you don't eat enough, your body slows down to save energy." This makes it harder to lose weight later on. "When you start eating normally again, your body stores extra calories as fat, so you often gain the weight back," she says.

RELATED: I Wore a 25-Pound Vest for a Year and These 7 Things Happened

Relying on Detoxes and Cleanses

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Detoxes and cleanses might sound appealing, but they can do more harm than good. Digby explains, "These programs often promise quick results, making you feel lighter and more energized. But they usually just make you lose water and muscle, not fat." These plans often cut out important foods and don't give your body enough calories, slowing down your metabolism.

Over-Exercising

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Many women think more exercise is always better, but Digby disagrees: "When you exercise too hard, your body makes more stress hormones. This can make you gain weight, especially around your belly." Dr. Balduzzi adds, "Women in their forties, fifties, and sixties need to lift weights. It is perhaps the single most effective kind of exercise."

Ignoring Age-Related Body Changes

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Our bodies change significantly after 40. Digby points out, "Hormones that control our metabolism start to drop. This can make it harder to burn fat and easier to gain weight, especially around the middle." Dr. Balduzzi adds, "When we're in our forties, fifties, and sixties, we typically burn around 200 to 350 less calories per day than when we did when we were in our twenties."

Neglecting the Impact of Stress

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Stress plays a crucial role in weight gain. Digby notes, "Our stress levels often go up as we get older, with work and family responsibilities. More stress can lead to more belly fat." Managing stress is crucial for successful weight loss after 40.

Overlooking the Emotional Aspects of Eating

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Digby emphasizes the importance of understanding emotional eating. "Food isn't just fuel. It's tied to our feelings," she explains. "If we don't deal with the emotional side of eating, we'll keep regaining weight no matter what diet we try." Becoming aware of why you eat and finding healthier ways to cope with emotions is crucial.

RELATED: 3 Truths I Tell My Patients About 16:8 Fasting as a Medical Professional

Pursuing Unsustainable Weight Loss Methods

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Both Digby and Dr. Balduzzi stress the importance of sustainable approaches. Digby states, "If you can't see yourself doing something forever, it won't lead to long-term results." Dr. Balduzzi echoes this: "We don't just want to lose 10 pounds and regain it all back."

Ignoring the Importance of Sleep

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Dr. Balduzzi emphasizes the critical role of sleep in weight loss: "Sleep is like the master clock that controls all of our main weight loss hormones, controls cortisol, controls insulin, controls thyroid hormone. When we're not getting enough sleep, we're basically shooting ourselves in the foot when it comes to our weight loss efforts."

Overcomplicating Weight Loss Strategies

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Dy Ann Parham advocates for simplicity in weight loss approaches. She says, "Forget about all the nonsense that you're hearing on the internet and just make it simple, fast long, feast well, train smart. You'll be absolutely amazed at how simple this lifestyle can be." Focus on whole, nutritious foods and consistent, enjoyable physical activity rather than complex diet plans.

RELATED: I Achieve My Ideal Body With These 16 Simple Steps Anyone Can Follow

Work With Your Body

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Avoiding these common mistakes can help women over 40 achieve lasting weight loss. It's about working with your body's changes, not against them. As Digby concludes, "When you eat and move in ways that suit your body, especially as you age, losing weight becomes much easier." And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Struggling to lose weight after 40? You're not alone. Many women find that strategies that worked in their younger years become less effective as they age. Weight loss expert Louise Digby, Dr. Anthony Balduzzi, founder of The Fit Mother Project and mindset coach Dy Ann Parham, share insights on avoiding common mistakes. Here are ten weight loss errors you might be making and how to fix them.


Following Fad Diets

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Fad diets like keto or very low-calorie plans promise quick results but aren't sustainable. Digby explains in her video, "When you cut out whole food groups, you're not giving your body all the nutrients it needs." She adds, "Carbs aren't all bad. Your body needs them for energy, brain function, and keeping your metabolism healthy."

Extreme Calorie Restriction

Tired woman having rest after workout. Tired and exhausted female athlete sitting on floor at gym with a water bottle.Shutterstock

Drastically cutting calories can backfire. Digby warns, "When you don't eat enough, your body slows down to save energy." This makes it harder to lose weight later on. "When you start eating normally again, your body stores extra calories as fat, so you often gain the weight back," she says.

RELATED: I Wore a 25-Pound Vest for a Year and These 7 Things Happened

Relying on Detoxes and Cleanses

Shot of cheerful woman preparing detox juice with while blender in the kitchen at homeShutterstock

Detoxes and cleanses might sound appealing, but they can do more harm than good. Digby explains, "These programs often promise quick results, making you feel lighter and more energized. But they usually just make you lose water and muscle, not fat." These plans often cut out important foods and don't give your body enough calories, slowing down your metabolism.

Over-Exercising

Blonde young woman give up workout in gym, fail.Shutterstock/sakkmesterke

Many women think more exercise is always better, but Digby disagrees: "When you exercise too hard, your body makes more stress hormones. This can make you gain weight, especially around your belly." Dr. Balduzzi adds, "Women in their forties, fifties, and sixties need to lift weights. It is perhaps the single most effective kind of exercise."

Ignoring Age-Related Body Changes

Tired stressed old mature business woman suffering from neckpain working from home office sitting at table. Overworked senior middle aged lady massaging neck feeling hurt pain from incorrect posture.Shutterstock

Our bodies change significantly after 40. Digby points out, "Hormones that control our metabolism start to drop. This can make it harder to burn fat and easier to gain weight, especially around the middle." Dr. Balduzzi adds, "When we're in our forties, fifties, and sixties, we typically burn around 200 to 350 less calories per day than when we did when we were in our twenties."

Neglecting the Impact of Stress

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Stress plays a crucial role in weight gain. Digby notes, "Our stress levels often go up as we get older, with work and family responsibilities. More stress can lead to more belly fat." Managing stress is crucial for successful weight loss after 40.

Overlooking the Emotional Aspects of Eating

Emotional eating, mental disorder, depression, loneliness, stress. Lonely woman eating sweets and watching tv late in the night. Nerve foodShutterstock

Digby emphasizes the importance of understanding emotional eating. "Food isn't just fuel. It's tied to our feelings," she explains. "If we don't deal with the emotional side of eating, we'll keep regaining weight no matter what diet we try." Becoming aware of why you eat and finding healthier ways to cope with emotions is crucial.

RELATED: 3 Truths I Tell My Patients About 16:8 Fasting as a Medical Professional

Pursuing Unsustainable Weight Loss Methods

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Both Digby and Dr. Balduzzi stress the importance of sustainable approaches. Digby states, "If you can't see yourself doing something forever, it won't lead to long-term results." Dr. Balduzzi echoes this: "We don't just want to lose 10 pounds and regain it all back."

Ignoring the Importance of Sleep

Tired woman lying in bed can't sleep late at night with insomnia. Asian girl with funny face sick or sad depressed sleeping at home.Shutterstock

Dr. Balduzzi emphasizes the critical role of sleep in weight loss: "Sleep is like the master clock that controls all of our main weight loss hormones, controls cortisol, controls insulin, controls thyroid hormone. When we're not getting enough sleep, we're basically shooting ourselves in the foot when it comes to our weight loss efforts."

Overcomplicating Weight Loss Strategies

Happy elderly couple smiling husband and wife in aprons prepare salad together at kitchen table, chopping variety of colorful vegetables, trying to maintain healthy lifestyle eating vegetarian foodShutterstock

Dy Ann Parham advocates for simplicity in weight loss approaches. She says, "Forget about all the nonsense that you're hearing on the internet and just make it simple, fast long, feast well, train smart. You'll be absolutely amazed at how simple this lifestyle can be." Focus on whole, nutritious foods and consistent, enjoyable physical activity rather than complex diet plans.

RELATED: I Achieve My Ideal Body With These 16 Simple Steps Anyone Can Follow

Work With Your Body

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Avoiding these common mistakes can help women over 40 achieve lasting weight loss. It's about working with your body's changes, not against them. As Digby concludes, "When you eat and move in ways that suit your body, especially as you age, losing weight becomes much easier." And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you trying to lose weight but not achieving the desired results? Stella Q Rivers is a weight loss coach who is “helping driven women drop 10-30+ lbs, master food, & finally feel in control,” she writes in her Instagram bio. She lost 40 pounds and has managed to keep it off for a decade. “I went from 165lbs to 115lbs & kept it off for 10 years. My biggest REGRET? Making these 5 mistakes,” she writes in an Instagram post.

Mistake 1: Kept on Trying to Diet

Her first mistake? “I Kept on trying to diet,” she reveals. “The more I dieted, the bigger the tire around my waist got & the scale crept up that I avoided getting on it. The #1 predictor of weight GAIN is dieting.”

Mistake 2: Believed the “Fat and Funny Friend” Story

Her second mistake? “Believed my ‘I’m the fat & funny friend’ story,” she reveals. “You are who you say you are. If you’re playing the role of the fat friend, you are her. What role do you play in your family (the ‘ugly duckling’) & friend circles and HOW much weight are you keeping on your body right now because of it?” she writes.

Mistake 3: Believed “Progressionals” Over Her Body

Her third mistake? She believed “professionals” over her body. “Between dieticians, nutritionists, coaches, hypnotherapists, Jenny Craig consultants, you name it. I did it & trusted them,” she explains. “When you trust OTHER people more than yourself, you will fight your weight because you won’t *trust* yourself. Yes, get informed BUT take what you need & leave the rest.”

Mistake 4: Gave Into Every Craving in the “Name of Not Binging”

Some people will tell you to lean into cravings so you don’t overindulge. But she disagrees. Giving into every craving in the “name of not binging” was her fourth mistake. “Because of dieting, I became a binge eater. Through healing that phase of my life I was told ‘honor your craving or else you’ll binge.’ Again, listening to professionals, FEARING food & my body and gaining more weight. It didn’t feel good. When you give into every craving, you will have a weight problem & food will have the power over you.”

Mistake 5: Worked Out Too Much

Her fifth and final mistake was working out too much. “Running 7+miles a day for a thigh gap, doing HIIT workouts 6 days a week= working out like an a**hole. This contributed to the binging & feeling out of control with food, skyrocketed weight gain & avoiding the scale,” she says. “I love running & love a good HIIT session every now & then but I love listening to my body more. Result? 40+lbs down. Your relationship to yourself is the pathway to your weight loss.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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We've all been there – feeling uncomfortable in our own skin, wanting to make a change, but not knowing where to start. Amy Fritz knows this feeling all too well. After reaching her heaviest weight by the end of 2022, she felt miserable and ready for change. By making simple adjustments to her lifestyle—moving her body daily and fueling it with nutritious foods 80% of the time—Amy lost over 90 pounds in just 12 months. Now she's sharing the surprising mistakes she had to overcome to find success. Read on to discover what could be holding back your own weight loss journey.

Mistake 1: Focusing on the scale instead of how you feel

Many of us become obsessed with numbers on the scale, but Amy discovered a more powerful motivator. "Feeling healthy is so much more powerful than any number you will ever see on the scale," she explains in her post. Just two weeks into her journey, despite only losing about five pounds, Amy already noticed positive changes.

"The shame of making bad choices that I had been making for so long started to melt away," Amy shares. That feeling of health fueled her to keep going, even when the weight loss was slow. Now, a year into her journey, she craves those healthy habits. "If I have a couple of days where maybe I miss a workout or make some poor choices with my diet, I start to feel gross," Amy admits.

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Mistake 2: Neglecting mental health while focusing on physical changes

One of Amy's biggest realizations was that sustainable weight loss begins in the mind, not the body. "Until you're mentally ready, until you've really done the work with your mental health, it's not going to be sustainable or easy to try to focus on your physical health," Amy emphasizes.

Working with a therapist helped Amy overcome emotional eating and develop tools for making healthy choices while managing everyday stress. "You have to prioritize your mental health and what's important on the inside. And then that will snowball and reflect the outside," she says.

Mistake 3: Believing you must eliminate favorite foods

Perhaps the most surprising mistake Amy identified was thinking weight loss meant giving up foods she loved. "You do not have to cut out any specific foods or your favorite meals in order to lose weight," Amy states. She discovered that overly restricting certain foods creates a vicious cycle of craving, overeating, guilt, and more restriction.

Instead, Amy found healthier ways to enjoy her favorite meals. "When you have those cravings for foods, all you have to do is find healthier ways to make them," she explains. For example, pizza night became healthier by adding nutritional volume: "Maybe I sprinkle on a bunch of fresh veggies, or what I really love to do is toss some arugula and some olive oil and balsamic and top that on my pizza."

Mistake 4: Tracking calories too rigidly

Amy initially thought successful weight loss meant sticking to a strict daily calorie limit—a common but often unsustainable approach. "You don't have to track your calories by the day," Amy reveals. Instead, she discovered the power of weekly tracking.

"If you want to lose one pound a week, you have to be in at least a deficit of 3500 calories on the week," Amy explains. This flexibility allowed her to enjoy date nights without guilt while still meeting her goals. "I have date night every Friday night. And so you better be sure I use one of my larger calorie days for Friday so I can go out and enjoy myself and not have to worry and feel like I've fallen off the wagon."

RELATED: I'm 50+ and These 7 Fat-Blasting Habits Keep Me in the Best Shape of My Life

Mistake 5: Putting exercise last on your priority list

Making exercise an "if I have time" activity was a major error Amy had to correct. "You have to prioritize movement and exercise really high when you're on a journey like this. You have to make it almost your number one priority or else it's not going to get done," Amy stresses.

She learned to stop waiting for the perfect moment when everything else was in order. "Leave the kitchen a mess, leave the bedroom a mess, leave the pile of laundry, let something go so that you can go move your body because you matter and you'll feel better," Amy advises. Putting herself first with exercise actually improved her ability to handle other responsibilities.

Why waiting for motivation doesn't work

Many people make the mistake of waiting until they feel motivated to start exercising or eating better. Amy discovered that action comes first, motivation follows. "You'll start to feel good long before you see results on the scale," she points out. The feeling of making healthy choices daily becomes its own reward and generates the motivation to continue.

The perfectionism trap that sabotages progress

Amy admits she used to think everything had to be perfect before she could focus on her health. "So many times last year and before beginning this journey, I would say, man, I can only go to the gym if the whole house is clean," she recalls. This perfectionism kept her from taking action. Learning to let go of perfect and embrace progress was key to her success.

How meal repetition simplifies weight loss

Contrary to popular advice about needing endless variety, Amy found freedom in keeping meals simple. "It is okay if you found a recipe that is highly nutritional, that you love, that your whole family loves, that supports everyone's goals. It is okay to make that two or three times a week," Amy reassures.

Sheet pan dinners and taco nights became staples in her home. "We do taco night at least once a week, sometimes twice a week," she admits. Finding a few healthy meals that work and repeating them eliminated decision fatigue and simplified her journey.

RELATED: I Hit 60 and These Daily Habits Keep Me Fit and Feeling 20 Years Younger

Why adding nutrition works better than restriction

Rather than focusing on what to eliminate, Amy discovered the power of adding nutrition to her plate. "Add some more nutrition to your plate and really add some volume to your plate so that you can control the portions," she explains. This approach—eating more vegetables and nutrient-dense foods alongside smaller portions of more indulgent items—kept her satisfied without feeling deprived.

The mindset shift that makes habits stick

Eventually, Amy's healthy choices became automatic. "Now that I'm a year in, I still have a long way to go. I can truly say the feeling of eating healthy and moving my body is not only habitual, but it's something I crave," she shares. This transformation from forcing herself to do healthy activities to actually desiring them was the ultimate key to her success.

Amy's journey proves that sustainable weight loss doesn't require extreme measures or suffering. By avoiding these five unexpected mistakes—focusing too much on the scale, neglecting mental health, eliminating favorite foods, tracking calories too rigidly, and putting exercise last—she created lasting change. Her approach balanced enjoyment with progress, proving that weight loss doesn't have to be miserable to be effective. Start today by addressing these common mistakes in your own journey—you've got this! And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 20 Superfoods for People Over 50

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Struggling with stubborn fat that won't budge despite your best efforts? You're not alone. After 40, hormonal changes and decreased muscle mass can make fat loss particularly challenging. However, according to experts, common mistakes might be holding you back more than age itself.


JJ Virgin, a triple-board certified nutrition expert and four-time best-selling author, and Annette Snyder, MS, RD, CSOWM, a Certified Specialist in Obesity and Weight Management, reveal the seven critical mistakes preventing women over 40 from achieving their body composition goals.

Mistake 1: Focusing Only on Weight Loss

"Stop trying to lose weight," JJ Virgin says in her recent post. "If your sole focus was to lose weight, what should you do? You should fast as much as possible, eat as little as possible, and move as little as possible."

This approach destroys metabolism and muscle mass. Instead, focus on body composition - the ratio of fat to muscle. As Snyder explains, "A safe and sustainable rate of fat loss is 0.5-2 pounds per week while maintaining muscle mass."

How to Track Progress the Right Way

"What we measure and monitor, we can improve," says Virgin. She recommends using a combination of methods:

  • Weekly waist and hip measurements
  • Progress photos from multiple angles
  • Body composition measurements
  • Strength improvements in key exercises
  • Energy levels and recovery time.

Mistake 2: Starting Your Day Wrong

Virgin warns against the common breakfast mistake of having "a skinny latte and muffin." This combination can contain as much sugar as two hostess cupcakes, setting you up for blood sugar crashes and increased hunger. Instead, prioritize protein at breakfast, aiming for 25-30 grams to stabilize blood sugar and preserve muscle mass.

Building a Better Breakfast

Virgin shares her go-to morning routine: "I do breakfast around two hours after waking up. Start with meditation, maybe a cold plunge, then a protein-rich breakfast." She recommends:

  • Protein smoothies with clean protein powder and collagen
  • Greek-style yogurt with added protein (if dairy-tolerant)
  • Eggs with vegetables and healthy fats
  • Adding essential amino acids for extra muscle protection.

RELATED: Woman Drops 3 Dress Sizes in Her 40s By Eating These 10 High Protein Meals

Mistake 3: Avoiding Strength Training

"Forget aging gracefully. Age powerfully," Virgin declares. After 40, women can lose up to 1% muscle mass annually if not actively preventing it. More alarming is the 2-4% loss in strength and 6% loss in power. Snyder adds, "Resistance training is crucial for maintaining metabolic health and preventing age-related muscle loss."

Essential Exercises Every Woman Over 40 Needs

"Focus on functional movements that translate to real life," Virgin advises. She recommends these key exercises:

  • Squats (with or without weights)
  • Bent-over rows for upper body strength
  • Overhead presses for shoulder strength
  • Push-ups (modified as needed)
  • Pull-ups or assisted pull-ups for upper body

"These movements help maintain independence and functionality as we age," she explains.

Mistake 4: Not Tracking Body Composition

"We must know what your weight is made up of," Virgin emphasizes. Simply monitoring scale weight isn't enough. According to Snyder, "The Gold Standard for measuring body fat percentage is through a DEXA scan," though regular measurements and progress photos can also help track changes effectively.

Mistake 5: Insufficient Protein Intake

Most women drastically underestimate their protein needs. Virgin recommends 0.7 to 1 gram per pound of target body weight, eaten first at each meal. "When you eat protein first, research shows you make better food choices overall and maintain better blood sugar control," she explains.

RELATED: 12 Safe Yoga Poses That Make Bones Stronger After 50

Smart Protein Strategies Throughout the Day

"Protein timing matters as much as total intake," Snyder explains. She recommends:

  • 25-30g protein every 3-4 hours
  • Protein-first approach at each meal
  • Post-workout protein within 30 minutes
  • Evening protein to support overnight muscle maintenance

Virgin adds, "If you're plant-based, aim for 40 grams per meal since plant proteins are typically less bioavailable."

Mistake 6: Inadequate Daily Movement

"Winners find ways," Virgin emphasizes regarding daily movement. Many women focus solely on structured exercise while remaining sedentary throughout the day. Aim for at least 8,000 steps daily, working up to 12,000 for optimal results. Remember, formal workouts can't completely offset a sedentary lifestyle.

Creating an Active Lifestyle

Virgin suggests these practical ways to increase daily movement:

  • Stand and pace during phone calls
  • Use a walking pad while working
  • Take stairs instead of elevators
  • Park farther from the entrances
  • Schedule walking meetings

"Movement doesn't need to be formal exercise," she emphasizes. "It's about finding ways to move throughout your entire day."

Mistake 7: Pursuing Quick Fixes

"Focusing on quick results usually entails either under-eating, overexercising or a combination of the two," warns Snyder. "This can increase the risk for burnout, nutritional deficiencies, and an unhealthy mindset." Instead, focus on sustainable habits you can maintain long-term.

Building Sustainable Habits

Snyder recommends focusing on these key areas for long-term success:

  • Regular meal timing
  • Proper hydration (half your body weight in ounces daily)
  • Quality sleep (7-9 hours)
  • Stress management
  • Social support systems
  • "These foundational habits support all your other efforts," she explains.

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Your Action Plan for Success

Start implementing these changes gradually:

Week 1:

  • Track current habits and measurements
  • Begin protein-first approach at breakfast
  • Start daily step counting

Week 2:

  • Add basic strength training 2-3 times weekly
  • Increase daily movement
  • Focus on proper hydration

Week 3:

  • Optimize protein at all meals
  • Add more challenging exercises
  • Implement stress management strategies

Remember: sustainable transformation takes time. While drastic measures might show quick results, they often lead to rebound weight gain and metabolic damage. By avoiding these seven common mistakes and implementing the suggested solutions, you can achieve lasting results at any age.

Track these key metrics for success:

  • Daily protein intake
  • Weekly strength training sessions
  • Daily step count
  • Body measurements (not just weight)
  • Energy levels and recovery
  • Sleep quality and duration
  • Stress levels

The path to lasting body composition change after 40 isn't about quick fixes or extreme measures. It's about building sustainable habits while avoiding common pitfalls that can derail your progress. Start implementing these changes today for a stronger, leaner tomorrow. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Struggling with stubborn belly fat that just won't budge, especially after 40? Functional medicine dietitian May Tom, RD understands your frustration. "This is a particular pain point that drives a lot of my clients to finally come and work with me," says May. Through her practice, she's helped countless clients break free from the cycle of stubborn belly fat using science-based strategies rather than extreme dieting. Keep reading to discover the most common belly fat mistakes you might be making – and learn exactly how to fix them.


Mistake 1: Not Understanding How Belly Fat Works

"Belly fat, also known as visceral adipose tissue, has a unique relationship with insulin resistance," May explains in her post. She describes it as a vicious cycle: "When you're insulin resistant, you put on more weight around your organs. When you have more weight around your organs, they send out signals called adipokines that cause you to become more insulin resistant."

The Cleveland Clinic adds that "visceral fat surrounds your organs and can put you at risk for conditions like diabetes, heart disease, polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) and more."

Mistake 2: Waiting Too Long to Address the Problem

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"By losing 5% to 10% of your body weight, you can improve blood pressure, blood sugar, cholesterol levels, mobility, sexual function and more," states Dr. David Creel from the Cleveland Clinic. This aligns with May's observation that addressing belly fat early can prevent long-term health issues.

Mistake 3: Not Tracking Your Blood Sugar

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"Diabetes is 10 years in the making, and belly fat is a sign you're on that path," May warns. She recommends using a continuous glucose monitor (CGM) for real-time feedback. "This is real data about you," she emphasizes. "It's a total eye-opener."

Mistake 4: Relying on Artificial Sweeteners

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"Being diabetic doesn't mean converting everything to sugar-free, including Diet Coke," May cautions. The Cleveland Clinic supports this, noting that "we're still learning about the long-term effects of different low-calorie sweeteners on things like taste preferences, cravings, gut bacteria and insulin resistance."

Mistake 5: Avoiding Strategic Fasting

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May's "Nourishing Fast" approach, based on the Fasting Mimicking Diet, has shown impressive results. "Recent research with 100 participants showed significant drops in A1C, fasting glucose, insulin resistance, visceral fat, total body fat, and BMI," she reports.

Mistake 6: Doing the Wrong Type of Exercise

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The Cleveland Clinic recommends "150 minutes per week of moderate-intensity cardio exercise" for best results. May adds that "one meta-analysis of 32 studies found that HIIT and moderate-intensity aerobic exercise was more beneficial to lowering visceral adipose tissue than resistance training."

Mistake 7: Focusing Only on Ab Exercises

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"When you do sit-ups and other core-strengthening exercises, you're strengthening muscles in the abdomen, but that doesn't specifically target the fat," May explains. The Cleveland Clinic adds that "strength training helps build muscle — or at least maintain muscle as you lose fat. And muscle burns calories."

Mistake 8: Ignoring Your Saturated Fat Intake

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"Certain genes predispose you to being sensitive to saturated fat where it really adds to your waistline very quickly," May explains, recommending limiting saturated fat to 10% of daily calories.

Mistake 9: Not Activating Your AMPK

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May describes AMPK as "something that senses fuel availability in the body, and when it doesn't sense enough fuel, it activates and helps to mobilize fat." She points to dark chocolate as a natural AMPK activator.

Mistake 10: Overlooking Temperature's Impact on Fat Loss

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"One study found that whole body cryotherapy for three minutes each session reduced abdominal adiposity in menopausal women," May reports.

Mistake 11: Skimping on Fiber

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The Cleveland Clinic emphasizes that "foods that contain a high amount of soluble fiber can slow down the passage of food from your stomach to your intestine by forming a gummy gel. That means they help you feel fuller for longer."

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Mistake 12: Not Timing Your Protein Right

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"It's not that you need to be on a high-protein diet as much as you should focus on getting adequate protein that's spread throughout the day," May advises. The Cleveland Clinic adds that "protein helps keep you feeling satiated, lowers hunger hormone levels and may even help you eat less at your next meal."

Mistake 13: Underestimating the Impact of Poor Sleep

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The Cleveland Clinic explains that "when we don't sleep well or we're sleep-deprived, it can impact hunger hormones. There's actually a biochemical response to sleep deprivation that makes us want to eat more."

Mistake 14: Neglecting Your Gut Health

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"When you're eating, think I'm not just eating for me, I'm eating for 10 billion," May emphasizes, referring to gut bacteria. She warns that restrictive dieting can harm your gut microbiome: "Take care of them, they're going to take care of you." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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15 Daily Habits to Lose 5-10 Pounds in 30 Days
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Depending on your starting weight, losing five to 10 pounds in a month is possible to do in a healthy way. Making a few specific lifestyle and dietary changes and sticking to them will positively impact overall health as well as encourage weight loss. “The foundation of successful weight loss remains a healthy, calorie-controlled diet combined with increased physical activity,” says the Mayo Clinic. “For successful, long-term weight loss, you must make permanent changes in your lifestyle and health habits.” Here are 15 daily habits shown to help lose up to ten pounds in 30 days.

Eliminate Empty Calories

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Alcohol is full of empty calories, so it’s best to cut down or simply stop drinking it altogether. Every calorie counts when you’re trying to lose weight, so make sure you use those calories to fill your body with healthy, nutrient-dense choices. Drinking too much also disrupts sleep.

Are You Actually Hungry?

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Eat when you’re hungry, and only when you’re hungry. “Listening to your hunger works much better than relying on willpower,” Kayla Kopp, RD, LD, tells the Cleveland Clinic. “When you’re tempted to overeat, have a conversation with yourself: Are you feeling hungry, are you bored or are you feeling emotional? Will eating right now get you closer to your goal?”

Work Out First Thing

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Working out first thing in the morning means you don’t have to make time for it later. It also starts the day off on a good note. No excuses!

Don’t Skip Breakfast

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Studies show people who eat breakfast (provided it’s a healthy one) make better food choices for the rest of the day. "Studies have found that although people who skip breakfast eat slightly fewer calories during the day, they tend to have higher body mass index, or BMI," Christy C. Tangney, PhD, tells Rush University Medical Center.

Take the Stairs

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Walk as much as possible—park away from the grocery store entrance and take the stairs when possible. Walking will encourage fat burning and mental wellness, and you can do it throughout the day, no equipment needed.

Count Your Calories

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This one is boring but crucial—to lose weight, you need to take in less calories than you’re burning off. “For example, to lose 1 to 2 pounds a week — a rate that experts consider safe — your food consumption should provide 500 to 1,000 calories less than your total weight-maintenance calories,” says Harvard Health.

Try Intermittent Fasting

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Intermittent fasting can be a powerful weight loss tool for some. “The weight loss effects of time-restricted eating derive primarily from achieving a negative energy balance,” Richard Joseph, MD, tells Harvard Health. “If you maintain your regular diet and then limit the time window during which you eat, it is likely that you will eat a few hundred fewer calories per day.”

No Nighttime Snacking

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Snacking can undermine your healthy eating weight loss plan. “Try to eat most of your daily calories before sitting down to relax for the night,” Kopp tells the Cleveland Clinic. “Many of us have a tendency to overeat without thinking about it while we watch TV after dinner, and we tend to forget just how much we’ve had before calling it a night.”

Be Picky About Carbs

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You don’t have to eliminate carbs—but be choosy about them. “Not all carbohydrates are created equal,” says Corewell Health. “Eating a slice of white bread won’t give your body the same nutrition as eating a slice of whole grain bread. When you’re looking for options for carbohydrates, look at the ingredients. If the first ingredient is a whole grain (like whole wheat), you’re going in the right direction.”

Eliminate Temptation

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Keep junk food out of sight and out of mind. “Don’t keep problem foods around the house and/or at work,” says UC Davis Health. A problem food is a food that you are likely to eat too much of or too often if readily available.”

Get Enough Sleep

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Sleep is important for weight loss. “No one can make mindful food choices when they’re tired. Even missing an hour of sleep can increase your appetite because your body is craving that energy and food is fuel for your body,” psychologist Susan Albers, PsyD, tells the Cleveland Clinic. “You need a clear, focused head to make healthier food choices.”

Lift Weights

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“Resistance training can also be a really effective way of losing weight," Tessa Strain, physical activity epidemiologist at the University of Cambridge, tells The Telegraph. “All weight loss comes down to a calories in/calories out equation. resistance training is a really effective way of losing weight because you’re expending energy, which involves burning calories.”

Manage Stress

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Stress can undermine your weight loss efforts. “More commonly, people turn to — or away from — food as a way to help deal with stress,” says Penn Medicine. “Your metabolism can change if you regularly eat large amounts of food or don’t eat enough or at all.”

No Junk Food

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Ultra-processed foods are terrible for weight loss. Not only will they not fill you up, they could make you hungrier. “Processed and fast foods contain enhanced ingredients that hit the dopamine center in your brain and make you want more,” Dr. Albers tells the Cleveland Clinic. “They are designed to be addictive to the brain.”

Drink More Water

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Choose water over high-calorie drinks. “Sometimes we respond to thirst signals by eating — when actually what our bodies want is water,” Dr. Albers explains. “It’s easy to confuse our thirst and hunger signals, or to override thirst signals.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Focusing on long-term health and wellness will make weight loss easier.

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Can you lose a significant amount of weight just by walking every day? Yes, absolutely! Not only does walking burn fat, help lower blood pressure, and improve cholesterol levels, but it also does wonders for your mental state as well. “You need to make it part of your routine,” exercise physiologist Katie Lawton, MEd. tells Cleveland Clinic Health Essentials. “This is about adjusting your lifestyle for your health.” TikTok influencer Alex ( @alex.fitt) lost 40 pounds just by walking—here’s how she did it.

Don’t Start Big

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Alex makes the important point that it’s better to start off slow to build sustainable habits. You don’t have to kickstart your fitness regimen with two-hour walks. Even just half an hour will make a difference to your mood and your health, and encourage you to do it again the next day.

Walking After Meals

Alex says she started off her walking program by simply taking a 15 minute walk after a big meal. Research shows walking after meals can benefit blood sugar. “Exercise impacts your blood sugar quickly, often within a few minutes,” Shannon Knapp, MEd, BSN, RN, CDCES, tells the Cleveland Clinic. “And over time, physical activity helps your body use insulin more effectively, decreasing the insulin resistance we often see in diabetes.”

Walking In the Morning

Alex would start her day with a walk. “Getting outside gives you a chance to enjoy fresh air and nature,” says Henry Ford Health. “Walking, like any form of exercise, reduces stress and anxiety. You’ll start the day with a positive attitude, better able to manage challenges during the day.”

Long Walk After Dinner

Alex would save her long walk for after dinner, which studies show is very beneficial. “The closer we get to the evening, the less efficient our bodies are at using insulin to deal with blood glucose, making it harder to keep blood glucose levels healthy,” Dr Evelyn Parr from the Australian Catholic University’s Exercise and Nutrition Research Program tells the Sydney Morning Herald. “Yet this is when we have our biggest meal of the day.”

Smaller Waist

Alex says the biggest difference she noticed from walking was in her waist. “The faster, farther and more frequently you walk, the greater the benefits,” says the Mayo Clinic. “For example, you may start out as an average walker, and then work your way up to walking faster and walking a mile in a shorter amount of time than an average walker, similar to power walkers.”

Using Technology

Alex was thrilled the first time her watch buzzed when she hit 10k steps. Research shows people who track their fitness tend to be successful. “We’ve seen this rise of digital health tools in the last decade, and they provide a great way for people to access interventions to better their health,” Michele Patel, PhD, tells Stanford Medicine.

10,000 Steps a Day

No matter how long or short her walks, Alex always aims for 10,000 steps every day. “Evidence suggests that accumulating up to 10,000 steps per day is helpful for reducing chronic conditions such as cardiovascular disease, type 2 diabetes, and some forms of cancer,” John M. Jakicic, Ph.D, tells University of Kansas Medical Center. “And more recent evidence supports the benefits of reducing the risk of dementia.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Start slow and steady to build lasting habits. Even 10 minutes will make a difference.

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Denise Hamdan (@denisehamdan) is a food and fitness influencer on TikTok who regularly shares her tricks and tips on weight loss with her 71,000 followers. Hamdan lost a whopping 30 pounds by following a healthy diet and exercising. In a recent clip, she reveals her diet. “Hey y'all, here's everything I ate in one day to stay lean as someone who lost 30 pounds,” she says, revealing that she eats 1829 calories and 147 g of protein per day. Body Network’s Resident RDN, The Diet Diva, Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CPT, a Board Certified Sports Dietitian, co-author of the Flat Belly Cookbook for Dummies, also weighs in.

Breakfast

“I started my morning with my breakfast cocktail of oxygen and creatine. I just added the products to my showcase. So go check them out. I have my cocktail with Greek yogurt with strawberries and blueberries and a drizzle of granola,” she says. The total calories equal 157 and 14 g protein.

Lunch

“I'm in this phase where I eat nearly the same thing every day, and that's been scrambled eggs with cheese and spinach and some turkey bacon on the side,” she says about her lunch. “And honestly, I'm not complaining because it hits every time. Her total calories are 562 and 52 g protein.

Green Smoothie

Sometimes she will have a smoothie instead. “I made a cute little green smoothie and it was a little messy, but it was good regardless,” she says.

Pre-Workout Snack

“Later, for a pre-workout snack, I made some cute little tuna crackers with the green onion and bell pepper,” she says about the snack totaling 430 calories and 28 g protein.

OxyShred and Pre-Workout

“Then I got to the gym and made my OxyShred and pre-workout combo before hitting cardio and abs,” she continued. “It had me sweating.”

Protein Bar

“Right after my workout I had my favorite dark chocolate pretzel protein bar,” she continued.

Dinner

“And finally for dinner I made this super easy teriyaki chicken bowl over brown rice,” she said, adding that the 560 calorie and 52 gram protein meal is “so delicious and the macros forward are amazing.”

Dessert

“Lastly, for dessert, I had some chocolate 'cause I cannot end the day without a little sweet treat,” she said about the 120 calorie sweet treat.

RDN Weighs in

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“1800-1900 calories seems like a good amount for her, but I don’t know her exact age, height, weight, or exercise level,” says Collingwood. “147 grams of protein is probably more than she needs, but it is not dangerously high.”

Try Eating More Vegetables, Expert Says

“I see a little bit of fruit on the yogurt and a tiny bit of spinach in eggs and peppers in tuna but overall not much veggie intake (green smoothie was green powder and not real whole veggies) which is proven with only 16 grams of fiber for her overall day,” Collingwood continues. “I would recommend increasing veggies to aim for 25 grams of fiber each day.” She also likes how often she is eating with the meals and snacks in between. “I do worry about the OxyShred. I couldn’t find on their website anywhere exactly how much caffeine is in it and having it later in the day could definitely impact sleep since caffeine has a 5 hour half-life,” she points out.

💪🔥Body Booster: How much protein should you consume per day? Aim for 0.8 to one gram per pound of bodyweight. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week