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7 Fat Loss Mistakes Women Over 40 Need to Stop Making Right Now

Avoid these common errors sabotaging your results after 40.

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Struggling with stubborn fat that won't budge despite your best efforts? You're not alone. After 40, hormonal changes and decreased muscle mass can make fat loss particularly challenging. However, according to experts, common mistakes might be holding you back more than age itself.


JJ Virgin, a triple-board certified nutrition expert and four-time best-selling author, and Annette Snyder, MS, RD, CSOWM, a Certified Specialist in Obesity and Weight Management, reveal the seven critical mistakes preventing women over 40 from achieving their body composition goals.

Mistake 1: Focusing Only on Weight Loss

"Stop trying to lose weight," JJ Virgin says in her recent post. "If your sole focus was to lose weight, what should you do? You should fast as much as possible, eat as little as possible, and move as little as possible."

This approach destroys metabolism and muscle mass. Instead, focus on body composition - the ratio of fat to muscle. As Snyder explains, "A safe and sustainable rate of fat loss is 0.5-2 pounds per week while maintaining muscle mass."

How to Track Progress the Right Way

"What we measure and monitor, we can improve," says Virgin. She recommends using a combination of methods:

  • Weekly waist and hip measurements
  • Progress photos from multiple angles
  • Body composition measurements
  • Strength improvements in key exercises
  • Energy levels and recovery time.

Mistake 2: Starting Your Day Wrong

Virgin warns against the common breakfast mistake of having "a skinny latte and muffin." This combination can contain as much sugar as two hostess cupcakes, setting you up for blood sugar crashes and increased hunger. Instead, prioritize protein at breakfast, aiming for 25-30 grams to stabilize blood sugar and preserve muscle mass.

Building a Better Breakfast

Virgin shares her go-to morning routine: "I do breakfast around two hours after waking up. Start with meditation, maybe a cold plunge, then a protein-rich breakfast." She recommends:

  • Protein smoothies with clean protein powder and collagen
  • Greek-style yogurt with added protein (if dairy-tolerant)
  • Eggs with vegetables and healthy fats
  • Adding essential amino acids for extra muscle protection.

RELATED: Woman Drops 3 Dress Sizes in Her 40s By Eating These 10 High Protein Meals

Mistake 3: Avoiding Strength Training

"Forget aging gracefully. Age powerfully," Virgin declares. After 40, women can lose up to 1% muscle mass annually if not actively preventing it. More alarming is the 2-4% loss in strength and 6% loss in power. Snyder adds, "Resistance training is crucial for maintaining metabolic health and preventing age-related muscle loss."

Essential Exercises Every Woman Over 40 Needs

"Focus on functional movements that translate to real life," Virgin advises. She recommends these key exercises:

  • Squats (with or without weights)
  • Bent-over rows for upper body strength
  • Overhead presses for shoulder strength
  • Push-ups (modified as needed)
  • Pull-ups or assisted pull-ups for upper body

"These movements help maintain independence and functionality as we age," she explains.

Mistake 4: Not Tracking Body Composition

"We must know what your weight is made up of," Virgin emphasizes. Simply monitoring scale weight isn't enough. According to Snyder, "The Gold Standard for measuring body fat percentage is through a DEXA scan," though regular measurements and progress photos can also help track changes effectively.

Mistake 5: Insufficient Protein Intake

Most women drastically underestimate their protein needs. Virgin recommends 0.7 to 1 gram per pound of target body weight, eaten first at each meal. "When you eat protein first, research shows you make better food choices overall and maintain better blood sugar control," she explains.

RELATED: 12 Safe Yoga Poses That Make Bones Stronger After 50

Smart Protein Strategies Throughout the Day

"Protein timing matters as much as total intake," Snyder explains. She recommends:

  • 25-30g protein every 3-4 hours
  • Protein-first approach at each meal
  • Post-workout protein within 30 minutes
  • Evening protein to support overnight muscle maintenance

Virgin adds, "If you're plant-based, aim for 40 grams per meal since plant proteins are typically less bioavailable."

Mistake 6: Inadequate Daily Movement

"Winners find ways," Virgin emphasizes regarding daily movement. Many women focus solely on structured exercise while remaining sedentary throughout the day. Aim for at least 8,000 steps daily, working up to 12,000 for optimal results. Remember, formal workouts can't completely offset a sedentary lifestyle.

Creating an Active Lifestyle

Virgin suggests these practical ways to increase daily movement:

  • Stand and pace during phone calls
  • Use a walking pad while working
  • Take stairs instead of elevators
  • Park farther from the entrances
  • Schedule walking meetings

"Movement doesn't need to be formal exercise," she emphasizes. "It's about finding ways to move throughout your entire day."

Mistake 7: Pursuing Quick Fixes

"Focusing on quick results usually entails either under-eating, overexercising or a combination of the two," warns Snyder. "This can increase the risk for burnout, nutritional deficiencies, and an unhealthy mindset." Instead, focus on sustainable habits you can maintain long-term.

Building Sustainable Habits

Snyder recommends focusing on these key areas for long-term success:

  • Regular meal timing
  • Proper hydration (half your body weight in ounces daily)
  • Quality sleep (7-9 hours)
  • Stress management
  • Social support systems
  • "These foundational habits support all your other efforts," she explains.

RELATED: She Did Cardio Every Day for 30 Days and Her Doctor Was Shocked by the Results

Your Action Plan for Success

Start implementing these changes gradually:

Week 1:

  • Track current habits and measurements
  • Begin protein-first approach at breakfast
  • Start daily step counting

Week 2:

  • Add basic strength training 2-3 times weekly
  • Increase daily movement
  • Focus on proper hydration

Week 3:

  • Optimize protein at all meals
  • Add more challenging exercises
  • Implement stress management strategies

Remember: sustainable transformation takes time. While drastic measures might show quick results, they often lead to rebound weight gain and metabolic damage. By avoiding these seven common mistakes and implementing the suggested solutions, you can achieve lasting results at any age.

Track these key metrics for success:

  • Daily protein intake
  • Weekly strength training sessions
  • Daily step count
  • Body measurements (not just weight)
  • Energy levels and recovery
  • Sleep quality and duration
  • Stress levels

The path to lasting body composition change after 40 isn't about quick fixes or extreme measures. It's about building sustainable habits while avoiding common pitfalls that can derail your progress. Start implementing these changes today for a stronger, leaner tomorrow. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Struggling to lose weight after 40? You're not alone. Many women find that strategies that worked in their younger years become less effective as they age. Weight loss expertLouise Digby, Dr. Anthony Balduzzi, founder of The Fit Mother Project and mindset coachDy Ann Parham, share insights on avoiding common mistakes. Here are ten weight loss errors you might be making and how to fix them.


Following Fad Diets

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Fad diets like keto or very low-calorie plans promise quick results but aren't sustainable. Digby explains in her video, "When you cut out whole food groups, you're not giving your body all the nutrients it needs." She adds, "Carbs aren't all bad. Your body needs them for energy, brain function, and keeping your metabolism healthy."

Extreme Calorie Restriction

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Drastically cutting calories can backfire. Digby warns, "When you don't eat enough, your body slows down to save energy." This makes it harder to lose weight later on. "When you start eating normally again, your body stores extra calories as fat, so you often gain the weight back," she says.

RELATED: I Wore a 25-Pound Vest for a Year and These 7 Things Happened

Relying on Detoxes and Cleanses

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Detoxes and cleanses might sound appealing, but they can do more harm than good. Digby explains, "These programs often promise quick results, making you feel lighter and more energized. But they usually just make you lose water and muscle, not fat." These plans often cut out important foods and don't give your body enough calories, slowing down your metabolism.

Over-Exercising

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Many women think more exercise is always better, but Digby disagrees: "When you exercise too hard, your body makes more stress hormones. This can make you gain weight, especially around your belly." Dr. Balduzzi adds, "Women in their forties, fifties, and sixties need to lift weights. It is perhaps the single most effective kind of exercise."

Ignoring Age-Related Body Changes

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Our bodies change significantly after 40. Digby points out, "Hormones that control our metabolism start to drop. This can make it harder to burn fat and easier to gain weight, especially around the middle." Dr. Balduzzi adds, "When we're in our forties, fifties, and sixties, we typically burn around 200 to 350 less calories per day than when we did when we were in our twenties."

Neglecting the Impact of Stress

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Stress plays a crucial role in weight gain. Digby notes, "Our stress levels often go up as we get older, with work and family responsibilities. More stress can lead to more belly fat." Managing stress is crucial for successful weight loss after 40.

Overlooking the Emotional Aspects of Eating

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Digby emphasizes the importance of understanding emotional eating. "Food isn't just fuel. It's tied to our feelings," she explains. "If we don't deal with the emotional side of eating, we'll keep regaining weight no matter what diet we try." Becoming aware of why you eat and finding healthier ways to cope with emotions is crucial.

RELATED: 3 Truths I Tell My Patients About 16:8 Fasting as a Medical Professional

Pursuing Unsustainable Weight Loss Methods

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Both Digby and Dr. Balduzzi stress the importance of sustainable approaches. Digby states, "If you can't see yourself doing something forever, it won't lead to long-term results." Dr. Balduzzi echoes this: "We don't just want to lose 10 pounds and regain it all back."

Ignoring the Importance of Sleep

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Dr. Balduzzi emphasizes the critical role of sleep in weight loss: "Sleep is like the master clock that controls all of our main weight loss hormones, controls cortisol, controls insulin, controls thyroid hormone. When we're not getting enough sleep, we're basically shooting ourselves in the foot when it comes to our weight loss efforts."

Overcomplicating Weight Loss Strategies

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Dy Ann Parham advocates for simplicity in weight loss approaches. She says, "Forget about all the nonsense that you're hearing on the internet and just make it simple, fast long, feast well, train smart. You'll be absolutely amazed at how simple this lifestyle can be." Focus on whole, nutritious foods and consistent, enjoyable physical activity rather than complex diet plans.

RELATED: I Achieve My Ideal Body With These 16 Simple Steps Anyone Can Follow

Work With Your Body

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Avoiding these common mistakes can help women over 40 achieve lasting weight loss. It's about working with your body's changes, not against them. As Digby concludes, "When you eat and move in ways that suit your body, especially as you age, losing weight becomes much easier." And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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This content references scientific studies and academic research, and is fact-checked to ensure accuracy.

Our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians strives to be objective, unbiased, and honest.

We are committed to bringing you researched, expert-driven content to help you make more informed decisions around food, health, and wellness. We know how important making choices about your overall health is, and we strive to provide you with the best information possible.

Struggling with stubborn fat that won't budge despite your best efforts? You're not alone. After 40, hormonal changes and decreased muscle mass can make fat loss particularly challenging. However, according to experts, common mistakes might be holding you back more than age itself.


JJ Virgin, a triple-board certified nutrition expert and four-time best-selling author, and Annette Snyder, MS, RD, CSOWM, a Certified Specialist in Obesity and Weight Management, reveal the seven critical mistakes preventing women over 40 from achieving their body composition goals.

Mistake 1: Focusing Only on Weight Loss

"Stop trying to lose weight," JJ Virgin says in her recent post. "If your sole focus was to lose weight, what should you do? You should fast as much as possible, eat as little as possible, and move as little as possible."

This approach destroys metabolism and muscle mass. Instead, focus on body composition - the ratio of fat to muscle. As Snyder explains, "A safe and sustainable rate of fat loss is 0.5-2 pounds per week while maintaining muscle mass."

How to Track Progress the Right Way

"What we measure and monitor, we can improve," says Virgin. She recommends using a combination of methods:

  • Weekly waist and hip measurements
  • Progress photos from multiple angles
  • Body composition measurements
  • Strength improvements in key exercises
  • Energy levels and recovery time.

Mistake 2: Starting Your Day Wrong

Virgin warns against the common breakfast mistake of having "a skinny latte and muffin." This combination can contain as much sugar as two hostess cupcakes, setting you up for blood sugar crashes and increased hunger. Instead, prioritize protein at breakfast, aiming for 25-30 grams to stabilize blood sugar and preserve muscle mass.

Building a Better Breakfast

Virgin shares her go-to morning routine: "I do breakfast around two hours after waking up. Start with meditation, maybe a cold plunge, then a protein-rich breakfast." She recommends:

  • Protein smoothies with clean protein powder and collagen
  • Greek-style yogurt with added protein (if dairy-tolerant)
  • Eggs with vegetables and healthy fats
  • Adding essential amino acids for extra muscle protection.

RELATED: Woman Drops 3 Dress Sizes in Her 40s By Eating These 10 High Protein Meals

Mistake 3: Avoiding Strength Training

"Forget aging gracefully. Age powerfully," Virgin declares. After 40, women can lose up to 1% muscle mass annually if not actively preventing it. More alarming is the 2-4% loss in strength and 6% loss in power. Snyder adds, "Resistance training is crucial for maintaining metabolic health and preventing age-related muscle loss."

Essential Exercises Every Woman Over 40 Needs

"Focus on functional movements that translate to real life," Virgin advises. She recommends these key exercises:

  • Squats (with or without weights)
  • Bent-over rows for upper body strength
  • Overhead presses for shoulder strength
  • Push-ups (modified as needed)
  • Pull-ups or assisted pull-ups for upper body

"These movements help maintain independence and functionality as we age," she explains.

Mistake 4: Not Tracking Body Composition

"We must know what your weight is made up of," Virgin emphasizes. Simply monitoring scale weight isn't enough. According to Snyder, "The Gold Standard for measuring body fat percentage is through a DEXA scan," though regular measurements and progress photos can also help track changes effectively.

Mistake 5: Insufficient Protein Intake

Most women drastically underestimate their protein needs. Virgin recommends 0.7 to 1 gram per pound of target body weight, eaten first at each meal. "When you eat protein first, research shows you make better food choices overall and maintain better blood sugar control," she explains.

RELATED: 12 Safe Yoga Poses That Make Bones Stronger After 50

Smart Protein Strategies Throughout the Day

"Protein timing matters as much as total intake," Snyder explains. She recommends:

  • 25-30g protein every 3-4 hours
  • Protein-first approach at each meal
  • Post-workout protein within 30 minutes
  • Evening protein to support overnight muscle maintenance

Virgin adds, "If you're plant-based, aim for 40 grams per meal since plant proteins are typically less bioavailable."

Mistake 6: Inadequate Daily Movement

"Winners find ways," Virgin emphasizes regarding daily movement. Many women focus solely on structured exercise while remaining sedentary throughout the day. Aim for at least 8,000 steps daily, working up to 12,000 for optimal results. Remember, formal workouts can't completely offset a sedentary lifestyle.

Creating an Active Lifestyle

Virgin suggests these practical ways to increase daily movement:

  • Stand and pace during phone calls
  • Use a walking pad while working
  • Take stairs instead of elevators
  • Park farther from the entrances
  • Schedule walking meetings

"Movement doesn't need to be formal exercise," she emphasizes. "It's about finding ways to move throughout your entire day."

Mistake 7: Pursuing Quick Fixes

"Focusing on quick results usually entails either under-eating, overexercising or a combination of the two," warns Snyder. "This can increase the risk for burnout, nutritional deficiencies, and an unhealthy mindset." Instead, focus on sustainable habits you can maintain long-term.

Building Sustainable Habits

Snyder recommends focusing on these key areas for long-term success:

  • Regular meal timing
  • Proper hydration (half your body weight in ounces daily)
  • Quality sleep (7-9 hours)
  • Stress management
  • Social support systems
  • "These foundational habits support all your other efforts," she explains.

RELATED: She Did Cardio Every Day for 30 Days and Her Doctor Was Shocked by the Results

Your Action Plan for Success

Start implementing these changes gradually:

Week 1:

  • Track current habits and measurements
  • Begin protein-first approach at breakfast
  • Start daily step counting

Week 2:

  • Add basic strength training 2-3 times weekly
  • Increase daily movement
  • Focus on proper hydration

Week 3:

  • Optimize protein at all meals
  • Add more challenging exercises
  • Implement stress management strategies

Remember: sustainable transformation takes time. While drastic measures might show quick results, they often lead to rebound weight gain and metabolic damage. By avoiding these seven common mistakes and implementing the suggested solutions, you can achieve lasting results at any age.

Track these key metrics for success:

  • Daily protein intake
  • Weekly strength training sessions
  • Daily step count
  • Body measurements (not just weight)
  • Energy levels and recovery
  • Sleep quality and duration
  • Stress levels

The path to lasting body composition change after 40 isn't about quick fixes or extreme measures. It's about building sustainable habits while avoiding common pitfalls that can derail your progress. Start implementing these changes today for a stronger, leaner tomorrow. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians strives to be objective, unbiased, and honest.

We are committed to bringing you researched, expert-driven content to help you make more informed decisions around food, health, and wellness. We know how important making choices about your overall health is, and we strive to provide you with the best information possible.

Are you trying to lose weight but not achieving the desired results? Stella Q Rivers is a weight loss coach who is “helping driven women drop 10-30+ lbs, master food, & finally feel in control,” she writes in her Instagram bio. She lost 40 pounds and has managed to keep it off for a decade. “I went from 165lbs to 115lbs & kept it off for 10 years. My biggest REGRET? Making these 5 mistakes,” she writes in an Instagram post.

Mistake 1: Kept on Trying to Diet

Her first mistake? “I Kept on trying to diet,” she reveals. “The more I dieted, the bigger the tire around my waist got & the scale crept up that I avoided getting on it. The #1 predictor of weight GAIN is dieting.”

Mistake 2: Believed the “Fat and Funny Friend” Story

Her second mistake? “Believed my ‘I’m the fat & funny friend’ story,” she reveals. “You are who you say you are. If you’re playing the role of the fat friend, you are her. What role do you play in your family (the ‘ugly duckling’) & friend circles and HOW much weight are you keeping on your body right now because of it?” she writes.

Mistake 3: Believed “Progressionals” Over Her Body

Her third mistake? She believed “professionals” over her body. “Between dieticians, nutritionists, coaches, hypnotherapists, Jenny Craig consultants, you name it. I did it & trusted them,” she explains. “When you trust OTHER people more than yourself, you will fight your weight because you won’t *trust* yourself. Yes, get informed BUT take what you need & leave the rest.”

Mistake 4: Gave Into Every Craving in the “Name of Not Binging”

Some people will tell you to lean into cravings so you don’t overindulge. But she disagrees. Giving into every craving in the “name of not binging” was her fourth mistake. “Because of dieting, I became a binge eater. Through healing that phase of my life I was told ‘honor your craving or else you’ll binge.’ Again, listening to professionals, FEARING food & my body and gaining more weight. It didn’t feel good. When you give into every craving, you will have a weight problem & food will have the power over you.”

Mistake 5: Worked Out Too Much

Her fifth and final mistake was working out too much. “Running 7+miles a day for a thigh gap, doing HIIT workouts 6 days a week= working out like an a**hole. This contributed to the binging & feeling out of control with food, skyrocketed weight gain & avoiding the scale,” she says. “I love running & love a good HIIT session every now & then but I love listening to my body more. Result? 40+lbs down. Your relationship to yourself is the pathway to your weight loss.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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We are committed to bringing you researched, expert-driven content to help you make more informed decisions around food, health, and wellness. We know how important making choices about your overall health is, and we strive to provide you with the best information possible.

Struggling with stubborn belly fat that just won't budge, especially after 40? Functional medicine dietitianMay Tom, RD understands your frustration. "This is a particular pain point that drives a lot of my clients to finally come and work with me," says May. Through her practice, she's helped countless clients break free from the cycle of stubborn belly fat using science-based strategies rather than extreme dieting. Keep reading to discover the most common belly fat mistakes you might be making – and learn exactly how to fix them.


Mistake 1: Not Understanding How Belly Fat Works

"Belly fat, also known as visceral adipose tissue, has a unique relationship with insulin resistance," May explains in her post. She describes it as a vicious cycle: "When you're insulin resistant, you put on more weight around your organs. When you have more weight around your organs, they send out signals called adipokines that cause you to become more insulin resistant."

The Cleveland Clinic adds that "visceral fat surrounds your organs and can put you at risk for conditions like diabetes, heart disease, polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS) and more."

Mistake 2: Waiting Too Long to Address the Problem

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"By losing 5% to 10% of your body weight, you can improve blood pressure, blood sugar, cholesterol levels, mobility, sexual function and more," states Dr. David Creel from the Cleveland Clinic. This aligns with May's observation that addressing belly fat early can prevent long-term health issues.

Mistake 3: Not Tracking Your Blood Sugar

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"Diabetes is 10 years in the making, and belly fat is a sign you're on that path," May warns. She recommends using a continuous glucose monitor (CGM) for real-time feedback. "This is real data about you," she emphasizes. "It's a total eye-opener."

Mistake 4: Relying on Artificial Sweeteners

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"Being diabetic doesn't mean converting everything to sugar-free, including Diet Coke," May cautions. The Cleveland Clinic supports this, noting that "we're still learning about the long-term effects of different low-calorie sweeteners on things like taste preferences, cravings, gut bacteria and insulin resistance."

Mistake 5: Avoiding Strategic Fasting

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May's "Nourishing Fast" approach, based on the Fasting Mimicking Diet, has shown impressive results. "Recent research with 100 participants showed significant drops in A1C, fasting glucose, insulin resistance, visceral fat, total body fat, and BMI," she reports.

Mistake 6: Doing the Wrong Type of Exercise

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The Cleveland Clinic recommends "150 minutes per week of moderate-intensity cardio exercise" for best results. May adds that "one meta-analysis of 32 studies found that HIIT and moderate-intensity aerobic exercise was more beneficial to lowering visceral adipose tissue than resistance training."

Mistake 7: Focusing Only on Ab Exercises

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"When you do sit-ups and other core-strengthening exercises, you're strengthening muscles in the abdomen, but that doesn't specifically target the fat," May explains. The Cleveland Clinic adds that "strength training helps build muscle — or at least maintain muscle as you lose fat. And muscle burns calories."

Mistake 8: Ignoring Your Saturated Fat Intake

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"Certain genes predispose you to being sensitive to saturated fat where it really adds to your waistline very quickly," May explains, recommending limiting saturated fat to 10% of daily calories.

Mistake 9: Not Activating Your AMPK

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May describes AMPK as "something that senses fuel availability in the body, and when it doesn't sense enough fuel, it activates and helps to mobilize fat." She points to dark chocolate as a natural AMPK activator.

Mistake 10: Overlooking Temperature's Impact on Fat Loss

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"One study found that whole body cryotherapy for three minutes each session reduced abdominal adiposity in menopausal women," May reports.

Mistake 11: Skimping on Fiber

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The Cleveland Clinic emphasizes that "foods that contain a high amount of soluble fiber can slow down the passage of food from your stomach to your intestine by forming a gummy gel. That means they help you feel fuller for longer."

RELATED: She Lost 49 Pounds in her 40s When She Stopped Dieting and Started Doing This One Thing

Mistake 12: Not Timing Your Protein Right

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"It's not that you need to be on a high-protein diet as much as you should focus on getting adequate protein that's spread throughout the day," May advises. The Cleveland Clinic adds that "protein helps keep you feeling satiated, lowers hunger hormone levels and may even help you eat less at your next meal."

Mistake 13: Underestimating the Impact of Poor Sleep

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The Cleveland Clinic explains that "when we don't sleep well or we're sleep-deprived, it can impact hunger hormones. There's actually a biochemical response to sleep deprivation that makes us want to eat more."

Mistake 14: Neglecting Your Gut Health

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"When you're eating, think I'm not just eating for me, I'm eating for 10 billion," May emphasizes, referring to gut bacteria. She warns that restrictive dieting can harm your gut microbiome: "Take care of them, they're going to take care of you." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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We are committed to bringing you researched, expert-driven content to help you make more informed decisions around food, health, and wellness. We know how important making choices about your overall health is, and we strive to provide you with the best information possible.

Feeling frustrated with your fitness routine? You're not alone. While you might be doing everything "right," certain morning habits could be working against your body's changing hormonal landscape after 40—and a leading hormone expert has noticed a pattern.


Angela Garcia has spent 25 years watching women make the same well-intentioned mistakes. As a Registered Dietitian Nutritionist and Board-Certified Specialist in Obesity at Thrivelab, she's helped countless women navigate the complex relationship between hormones, exercise, and weight management. From her practice in San Antonio, she's identified key morning habits that are holding women back.

Here's what she wants you to stop doing—and what to do instead.

The Morning Timing That's Working Against You

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Your first few hours set the tone for your entire day—especially during menopause. "Morning habits directly impact energy levels, hormonal balance, and metabolic health," Garcia explains. During this time, fluctuations in estrogen, testosterone, and cortisol affect everything from your metabolism to bone density and muscle mass.

Why Your Old Exercise Rules Don't Work Anymore

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If you've noticed stubborn weight gain around your middle, hormones might be the culprit. "As estrogen and testosterone levels decrease, metabolism slows down, leading to increased fat storage, especially around the middle," Garcia notes. She adds that these changes also affect how your body recovers from exercise, making traditional workout approaches less effective.

The Hidden Damage You're Doing

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The changes run deeper than just weight gain. "These hormonal changes can affect muscle mass, bone density, and insulin sensitivity, making it harder to maintain a healthy weight and overall metabolic function," Garcia explains. She points out that stress compounds these issues: "Elevated cortisol levels from stress can exacerbate these issues, contributing to fatigue and slower recovery."

Morning Mistakes That Sabotage Your Progress

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Garcia identifies several common morning routine errors that can derail your progress. Skipping strength training is a major pitfall, as is overdoing cardio sessions. "Long or intense cardio sessions can elevate cortisol levels, which worsens fatigue and encourages fat storage," she warns. Other mistakes include neglecting recovery time, poor hydration, and rushing through breakfast.

RELATED: This Plan Is How to Lose 5 Percent Body Fat In 2 Weeks

The New Morning Rules You Need

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The solution starts with smarter exercise choices. "Light weightlifting or resistance band exercises can build muscle and boost metabolism," Garcia advises. She recommends starting your day with proper hydration and a balanced breakfast containing protein, healthy fats, and fiber. Short bursts of high-intensity interval training can be more effective than lengthy cardio sessions.

Why You Need More Recovery Than You Think

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Don't underestimate the importance of rest. "Failing to incorporate rest or low-intensity activities like stretching or Pilates can increase stress on the body and hinder recovery," Garcia cautions. She emphasizes that recovery isn't just about physical rest—it's about managing overall stress levels. "Activities like yoga or mindfulness exercises help reduce cortisol levels and support hormonal balance."

The Exercise Approach That Works With Your New Hormones

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Adapting your workout to your body's new needs is crucial. Garcia suggests focusing on "shorter, lower-impact strength and cardio sessions in the morning." This might include resistance bands, bodyweight exercises, or light weights. She emphasizes the importance of listening to your body and adjusting intensity based on your energy levels and symptoms.

The Simple Morning Habit You're Overlooking

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Many women overlook this simple but crucial factor. "Not drinking enough water in the morning can worsen symptoms like fatigue, poor focus, and hot flashes," Garcia points out. She recommends making hydration a priority first thing in the morning to help with energy levels and body temperature regulation.

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The Right Way to Time Your First Meal

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When you eat matters as much as what you eat. "Eating a balanced meal shortly after waking helps stabilize blood sugar levels and supports metabolic function throughout the day," Garcia explains. For women dealing with night sweats or hot flashes, she recommends opting for lighter, cooler breakfast options and maintaining consistent meal timing to support hormonal balance. "Having a lighter, cooler breakfast and spacing meals to prevent prolonged fasting can improve energy and temperature regulation." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? You might be making a mistake that is getting in the way of your progress, according to an expert. Kim Schlag is a midlife and menopause fitness specialist who helps clients achieve their weight loss goals. In a new post, she discusses the main ways people complicate weight loss and reveals what to do about it. “Ways you are making weight loss harder than it needs to be,” she writes. “Want weight loss that’s less complicated?” she asks, going into revealing the answers.

Stop Playing “Macro Tetris"

The first way you may be overcomplicating weight loss is by spending too much time calculating marcos. “Stop playing macro Tetris because research indicates that when calories and protein are equal you can lose weight just as well with a lower fat/higher carb diet as you can with a lower carb/higher fat diet,” she says.

Instead, Keep It Simple

What should you do instead? “So keep it simple,” she responds. “Track your calories and protein and then let carbs and don’t worry about tracking carbs and fat.”

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Don’t Make Spontaneous Decision

“Do you make your most important work decisions for big projects shooting from the hip? Likely you strategize & plan ahead. Do the same with the project of losing weight,” she says. “Deciding as you go what to eat complicates the process and sets you up for success at hitting your deficit calories and protein target.”

Instead, Try Meal Planning

One great way to do this is meal planning. “My most successful Fitter After 40 members & 1-1 online clients PRELOG THEIR MEALS the night before,” she says.

Eating Out Multiple Times a Week

And, the third mistake you might be making? “Eating out multiple times a week if you’re struggling to stay in your deficit calories is like going to Target & Home Goods many times per week when you’re struggling to keep to your budget,” she says.

Instead, Eat Out in a Defiicit or Eat More Meals at Home

“The calories add up fast eating out,” she says. “Way more butter and & oil hidden in there, outrageous portion sizes, and the easy-to-add-on bread, appetizers, dessert & drinks. Eating out in a deficit is a skill that takes practice to learn, and if you haven’t mastered your deficit calories in your home setting, you will likely struggle even more with take-out or restaurant meals. Prep & eat more meals at home.”

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Finally, Eat the Same Meals Deal

She offers an extra mistake. “Bonus way you’re making weight loss harder than it needs to be: you’re coming up with different meals every day. Girl, put those meals on repeat!” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are your morning habits preventing you from losing weight? Liam Topham is a diet and fitness coach who helps professionals “shed belly fat, get jacked, and feel energized by running their body like a high-performing business,” he writes in his Instagram bio. In a new post, he reveals some of the things you might be doing in the morning that are keeping you from achieving your weight loss goals. “7 morning mistakes that are keeping you fat and low energy,” he writes in the post.

Drinking Coffee Immediately

What is the first morning habit you should avoid? Drinking coffee first thing in the morning. “Your body naturally releases cortisol (stress hormone) in the morning to wake you up. Drinking caffeine immediately upon waking can spike cortisol further leading to dips in energy later. Fix it: Wait 30-60 minutes after waking before drinking coffee,” he says.

Eating a Sugary Breakfast

Eating a sugary breakfast is the second habit. “Cereal, pastries, or flavored yogurt cause a rapid spike in blood sugar, followed by a crash, making you hungrier and more tired. Fix it: Start the day with a high protein breakfast, like scrambled eggs” he says.

Not Drinking Water

Rise and hydrate. “Not drinking water,” is habit three. “You’ve just gone 7+ hours without drinking water. Dehydration can mimic hunger and fatigue, making you overeat and feel tired,” h says. “Fix it: Drink 500ml–1L of water in the morning to hydrate, reduce hunger and feel more energized.”

Poor Sleep Routine

Another habit to avoid? A poor sleep routine. “Your morning starts the night before. Get 7+ hours of quality sleep to reduce cravings, energy crashes and stress hormones spikes,” he says. “Fix it: Set a cutoff time for food (7 PM is ideal) so digestion does not disrupt your sleep and create a consistent sleep schedule.”

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Checking Your Phone First Thing

Next on his list is checking your phone first thing in the morning. “Looking at your phone immediately can lead to stress, anxiety, and overstimulation. It puts your brain into reactive mode instead of starting your day with focus,” he explains. “Fix: Delay phone use for 30-60 minutes after waking and focus on hydration, movement, or mindfulness like Morning Pages.”

Hitting Snooze

Don’t hit snooze! “When you hit snooze, you restart your sleep cycle but don’t complete it, leaving you feeling more groggy,” he says. “Fix it: Get up on the first alarm and expose yourself to bright light ASAP (sunlight or light therapy lamp).”

Not Taking a Morning Walk

The final mistake? Not taking a morning work. “Morning movement + sunlight improves circadian rhythm, energy, and mood. Exposure to natural light early in the day boosts serotonin (which later converts to melatonin for better sleep),” he says. “Fix it: A short 15-30 minute walk gets blood flowing, wakes you up, and supports fat loss.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you trying to lose weight but need some tips? Mahtab Ekay is a fat loss coach and social media influencer who lost over 20 pounds and helps others do the same. In a new Instagram post, she reveals some of her weight loss secrets. “8 calorie deficit tips you need to know if you are going to be successful with losing weight,” she writes in the video. “I have lost 20 pounds in less than 3 months, and here are my top 8 tips that will help you get better results easier and faster.”

Amp Up Your Fiber Intake

Her first tip is to eat at least 20-25g of fiber every day. “Fiber helps keep you satiated and aids in digestion. Include foods like fruits (apples, berries), vegetables (broccoli, carrots), legumes (beans, lentils), and whole grains (oats, quinoa) in your diet,” she writes.

Drink at least Half Your Weight in Pounds in Ounces of Water

Next, she recommends drinking at least half your body weight in pounds in ounces of water daily, or “ideally” two-third of her weight. “Staying hydrated is crucial for overall health and can help control hunger. For example, if you weigh 150 pounds, aim to drink 75 ounces of water daily,” she writes.

Eat 0.8 Grams of Protein Per Pound of Ideal Body Weight

Next, eat 0.8g of protein per pound of your ideal body weight. “Protein keeps you full longer and helps preserve and build muscle mass, which is essential for a toned, strong look. Include protein sources like chicken, fish, eggs, tofu, and legumes in your meals,” she says.

Gradually Increase Your Daily Steps

Next, amp up your steps! “Aim to consistently hit 8,000-12,000 steps every day. Start with small goals and increase your steps over time to boost your overall activity level,” she writes.

Lift Weights

Strength training is also key. She recommends lifting weights 3 to 5 times a week. “Weight lifting yields better results when following a structured program focused on progressive overload. This means gradually increasing the weights you lift to continuously challenge your muscles,” she writes.

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Incorporate Low-Calorie, High-Volume Foods

She also recommends incorporating low-calorie, high-volume foods into your diet. “Foods like popcorn, strawberries, and other berries are high in nutrition and low in calories. They help you feel full without consuming too many calories,” she writes.

Stop Snacking

Next, stop snacking. “Have sweets or treats as dessert after your main meals to help control cravings. This strategy helps prevent mindless snacking throughout the day,” she says.

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Sleep More Than 6 Hours

Her last tip is to sleep more than 6 hours. “This is one of the most underrated tips. Sleep deficiency can disrupt hunger hormones, making it harder to stay in a calorie deficit due to increased cravings and potential binge eating. Aim for at least 7-9 hours of quality sleep each night,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.