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Woman Loses 70 Pounds With 4 Ab Exercises and "Stopped Restricting Myself"

One weight loss warrior reveals the simple set that helped her flatten her midsection.

Nikki Gets Fit

Do you want to tone up your midsection? Achieving your abfab goals doesn’t have to be complicated, according to one weight loss warrior. Nikki (@nikkigetsfit) is a fitness enthusiast who shares her health journey via social media. In a recent post, she revealed four simple exercises that helped her tone her tummy. “My ab workout that helped me go from this to …to this,” she wrote across the video that revealed dramatic transformation photos. “It will make you sweat, but it feels amazing when you are done!”


She Does 3-4 Rounds

Nikki explains how she does her sets. “I do each exercise back to back with no rest in between. Then, I take a 3-4 minute break and do another round! I do 3-4 rounds depending on how I’m feeling that day,” she writes in her post.

Here Are the Exercises

  • 10 leg raises
  • 25 suitcase crunches
  • 30 Russian twists
  • 10 plate sit-ups.

She Does the Workout 1 to 2 Times Per Week

“I usually do this 1-2 times a week in order to strengthen my core; however, every time I post an ab workout, I feel it is important to mention that abs are made in the kitchen! My transformation has mostly come from focusing on my nutrition and eating lots of veggies & protein,” she concludes.

RELATED:10 Signs You’re Burning Fat, Not Muscle

She Did Weight Watchers

In one of her YouTube videos, Nikki elaborates on her weight loss, revealing that she dropped 70 pounds and has “maintained that loss now for another two years.” Her success is due to ditching a few habits, she claims. “I've struggled with my weight my entire life and it's been something that I never thought I could do. It's something that I've wanted to do and just focus on my health and nutrition, and I've always loved cooking and everything, but it's something I've just always struggled with,” she says.

She Stopped Eating Out One to Two Times Per Day

Nikki reveals that she and her husband would rely on “fast food and just really unhealthy, quick and easy options that were loaded with calories and just really didn't even make us feel good” for meals. “It really had gotten kind of out of control realizing how high points so many fast food items were because we weren't choosing low point items. We didn't really care. It really did impact our health, and I think that's where a huge amount of our weight gain came from,” she said. In her first month on Weight Watchers, she stopped eating out altogether.

“We didn't eat out the first month at all because we just wanted to get away from it kind of and just work on trying to find ways to cook at home,” she said. Instead, they would make “copycat meals” at home, healthier versions of their favorite foods. “It made us excited. We realized we could still eat these foods we loved and have big portions of 'em, and it wasn't as many points as the fast food options.”

She Stopped Putting Herself Down

She also worked on “stopping negativity,” she says. “I would never say the things I say to myself to anybody else, and it just didn't make sense that I was so hard and mean on myself,” she continued. She started saying nice things to herself out loud, and “it really did start to make a difference in the way I thought about things, the way that I was motivated, and it slowly started to make a difference really trying to stop those negative thoughts when they came through and trying to switch them around to thinking a more positive thought or something just not as negative,” she explained.

RELATED:She Walked 30 Days With a Weighted Vest and Learned 5 Critical Mistakes

She Became Consistent

Another game changer is when she “stopped focusing on an end result and hitting it by a certain time” and instead started “focusing on consistency.” She “focused on what I could control” and things that would make her health improve instead of the number on the scale, which surprisingly dropped as a result. “In the long run, I was able to lose the weight, but my focus was on the consistency aspect and the part that I can control and not the uncontrollable of what the number on the scale says because it changes so frequently. So when I stopped worrying so much about the end result, it really did help take so much pressure off me.”

She Gave Herself Rewards

She also started rewarding herself at the end of the month “ when I stayed consistent,” she says. “I did one month, three months, six months, and then a year,” she says, explaining that she did different rewards, and “it felt good to reward myself because it was something that I knew I had earned and I had done and I had put in the hard work for it.”

She Stopped Restricting Herself

She also “stopped restricting” herself. “In the past, I always thought this was just the best way to go about things. I always thought that this was just what was going to make me lose weight, what was going to help me have success. I pretty much thought that I had to cut everything out that I enjoyed and only eat the things that were dried out: chicken breast, salad, peppers, and bunless burgers. I thought I had to have all the most basic diet foods that everyone thinks about when they think of stuff like that and that I couldn't have any foods that I enjoyed.”

She then learned that “technically, I could have anything that I wanted” with the WW points system, “and that really helped us because we were able to incorporate still so many of the foods that we enjoy and just using our points and deciding what's a priority, what's worth it.” She realized that restricting herself too much led to binge eating, “and so when I restrict something, I just want it more and more and more, and then the second that I'm able to get it, it is just out of control.”

RELATED:10 Diet and Workout Secrets Behind WNBA Star Cameron Brink's Beach Body

She Stopped Caring About What Others Thought

Finally, she “stopped caring what others thought,” she said. She explains that when she was bigger, she “ really always felt so much shame” and was “embarrassed” about her weight. “I wanted to be healthier, but I struggled so much with other people knowing that I didn't want people to know that, and part of me not wanting people to know that also kept me in the position I was in.”

However, she stopped being afraid of telling people she wanted to get into shape. “Anyway, I just want to focus on bettering myself and the people judging people for wanting to better themselves. Like I said, they're the ones with the problem, so I just kind of thought through that and realized I just need to do what's best for me no matter what anyone thinks.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Do you want to tone up your midsection? Achieving your abfab goals doesn’t have to be complicated, according to one weight loss warrior. Nikki (@nikkigetsfit) is a fitness enthusiast who shares her health journey via social media. In a recent post, she revealed four simple exercises that helped her tone her tummy. “My ab workout that helped me go from this to …to this,” she wrote across the video that revealed dramatic transformation photos. “It will make you sweat, but it feels amazing when you are done!”


She Does 3-4 Rounds

Nikki explains how she does her sets. “I do each exercise back to back with no rest in between. Then, I take a 3-4 minute break and do another round! I do 3-4 rounds depending on how I’m feeling that day,” she writes in her post.

Here Are the Exercises

  • 10 leg raises
  • 25 suitcase crunches
  • 30 Russian twists
  • 10 plate sit-ups.

She Does the Workout 1 to 2 Times Per Week

“I usually do this 1-2 times a week in order to strengthen my core; however, every time I post an ab workout, I feel it is important to mention that abs are made in the kitchen! My transformation has mostly come from focusing on my nutrition and eating lots of veggies & protein,” she concludes.

RELATED:10 Signs You’re Burning Fat, Not Muscle

She Did Weight Watchers

In one of her YouTube videos, Nikki elaborates on her weight loss, revealing that she dropped 70 pounds and has “maintained that loss now for another two years.” Her success is due to ditching a few habits, she claims. “I've struggled with my weight my entire life and it's been something that I never thought I could do. It's something that I've wanted to do and just focus on my health and nutrition, and I've always loved cooking and everything, but it's something I've just always struggled with,” she says.

She Stopped Eating Out One to Two Times Per Day

Nikki reveals that she and her husband would rely on “fast food and just really unhealthy, quick and easy options that were loaded with calories and just really didn't even make us feel good” for meals. “It really had gotten kind of out of control realizing how high points so many fast food items were because we weren't choosing low point items. We didn't really care. It really did impact our health, and I think that's where a huge amount of our weight gain came from,” she said. In her first month on Weight Watchers, she stopped eating out altogether.

“We didn't eat out the first month at all because we just wanted to get away from it kind of and just work on trying to find ways to cook at home,” she said. Instead, they would make “copycat meals” at home, healthier versions of their favorite foods. “It made us excited. We realized we could still eat these foods we loved and have big portions of 'em, and it wasn't as many points as the fast food options.”

She Stopped Putting Herself Down

She also worked on “stopping negativity,” she says. “I would never say the things I say to myself to anybody else, and it just didn't make sense that I was so hard and mean on myself,” she continued. She started saying nice things to herself out loud, and “it really did start to make a difference in the way I thought about things, the way that I was motivated, and it slowly started to make a difference really trying to stop those negative thoughts when they came through and trying to switch them around to thinking a more positive thought or something just not as negative,” she explained.

RELATED:She Walked 30 Days With a Weighted Vest and Learned 5 Critical Mistakes

She Became Consistent

Another game changer is when she “stopped focusing on an end result and hitting it by a certain time” and instead started “focusing on consistency.” She “focused on what I could control” and things that would make her health improve instead of the number on the scale, which surprisingly dropped as a result. “In the long run, I was able to lose the weight, but my focus was on the consistency aspect and the part that I can control and not the uncontrollable of what the number on the scale says because it changes so frequently. So when I stopped worrying so much about the end result, it really did help take so much pressure off me.”

She Gave Herself Rewards

She also started rewarding herself at the end of the month “ when I stayed consistent,” she says. “I did one month, three months, six months, and then a year,” she says, explaining that she did different rewards, and “it felt good to reward myself because it was something that I knew I had earned and I had done and I had put in the hard work for it.”

She Stopped Restricting Herself

She also “stopped restricting” herself. “In the past, I always thought this was just the best way to go about things. I always thought that this was just what was going to make me lose weight, what was going to help me have success. I pretty much thought that I had to cut everything out that I enjoyed and only eat the things that were dried out: chicken breast, salad, peppers, and bunless burgers. I thought I had to have all the most basic diet foods that everyone thinks about when they think of stuff like that and that I couldn't have any foods that I enjoyed.”

She then learned that “technically, I could have anything that I wanted” with the WW points system, “and that really helped us because we were able to incorporate still so many of the foods that we enjoy and just using our points and deciding what's a priority, what's worth it.” She realized that restricting herself too much led to binge eating, “and so when I restrict something, I just want it more and more and more, and then the second that I'm able to get it, it is just out of control.”

RELATED:10 Diet and Workout Secrets Behind WNBA Star Cameron Brink's Beach Body

She Stopped Caring About What Others Thought

Finally, she “stopped caring what others thought,” she said. She explains that when she was bigger, she “ really always felt so much shame” and was “embarrassed” about her weight. “I wanted to be healthier, but I struggled so much with other people knowing that I didn't want people to know that, and part of me not wanting people to know that also kept me in the position I was in.”

However, she stopped being afraid of telling people she wanted to get into shape. “Anyway, I just want to focus on bettering myself and the people judging people for wanting to better themselves. Like I said, they're the ones with the problem, so I just kind of thought through that and realized I just need to do what's best for me no matter what anyone thinks.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to lose weight despite dieting? Ruth Soukup is a midlife health and mindset coach who personally lost almost 50 pounds. She regularly shares her tips and tricks with her hundreds of thousands of Instagram followers. In a new post, she reveals a few mistakes she made and then the one thing she did to fix them. “I lost 49 pounds in my 40s when I stopped dieting and started paying attention to this one thing,” she writes in the Instagram video.


She Was Eating Plant-Based, Counting Calories, and Running 3 to 5 Miles Per Day, But Struggled to Lose Weight

“I struggled with my weight for ten long years and failed at more diets than I can count. Even though I thought I was doing all the right things,” she writes in the post. What was she doing? “Eating plant-based,” counting her calories, and “running 3-5 miles every day.”

At 43, She Decided to Do Something Different

She wasn’t getting the results she wanted. “I couldn’t understand why nothing seemed to work or why it felt like my metabolism was just broken. At some point, I started to lose hope. Maybe you can relate. But one day, when I was 43 years old, I finally got so fed up that I decided to do something totally different,” Ruth writes.

She Did Research to Understand “The Science of Weight Loss”

“Instead of dieting, I did real research to understand the science of weight loss, especially for women over 40. I wanted to know why we gain weight as we get older and it’s so hard to lose it. I was shocked to discover that weight loss has almost nothing to do with calories and everything to do with HORMONES. That’s it. That’s the secret. The one thing,” she reveals.

She Lost 49 Pounds and Has Kept It Off

“I totally changed my focus from counting calories to simply balancing my hormones, to eating the foods that would nourish my body, and creating better habits for a sustainable lifestyle. Ultimately, making that shift is what helped me lose 49 pounds and keep it off, and I’ve now helped thousands of other women over 40 do the same,” she says.

She Stopped Calorie Counting

In another post she discusses other healthy habits that helped her lose weight fast. “I struggled with my weight for YEARS, failing at diet after diet, always believing that the problem was ME and my own lack of willpower before I was finally able to lose 49 pounds and actually keep it off. So what was my secret? It was pretty simple, actually. I just focused on my hormones. That meant I committed to stop dieting! No more counting calories—instead focused on nourishing my body,” she writes.

RELATED: Nutritionist Reveals 3 Surprising Foods She Ate to Lose 15 Pounds (Including Dessert for Dinner)

She Quit Sugar and Processed Food

She also majorly cleaned up her diet. She eliminated a few things. “I detoxed from sugar and stopped eating toxic processed food. It’s the first step in balancing your hormones,” she writes.

She Amped Up Her Protein Intake

She also refocused her diet. “I started eating a lot more healthy fat and nutrient-dense protein,” she writes. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW), but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

RELATED: Man Ate Bacon and Eggs for 30 Days and His Blood Work Stunned Doctors

She Switched From Cardio to Strength Training

She also switched up her approach to exercise. “I focused on strength training & building lean muscle mass instead of burning calories through high-intensity cardio,” she writes. According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills

She Focused on a Healthy Lifestyle

Lastly, she looked at the big picture. “I didn’t give myself a timeline. I just focused on changing my lifestyle,” she writes. “But I still lost more than 40 pounds in six months, have kept it off for more than 3 years, and now I’ve helped thousands of women do the same.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Erica Lynn is a weight loss coach and social media influencer whose mission is “helping women 40+ shed body fat.” In a recent Instagram post, she reveals that making five changes to her diet and exercise approach were pivotal in her weight loss journey. In fact, she went on to lose 13 pounds and cut her body fat in half after she made them.


She Started Doing Less Cardio

Doing “less cardio” helped Erica lose weight. “I spent my decades doing cardio for the calorie burn. I would be so proud of the 400+ calories I burned. Does that sound familiar? What I didn’t realize is that calories burned are a bunch of BS. The more cardio I did, the more my body adapted/got conditioned, the less I burned,” she says in the post.

She Amped Up Her Strength Training

She also did more strength training. “Calories burned during lifting are typically lower than cardio sessions. This is what confused me: why the hell would I spend 30 min lifting when I can burn 2x doing cardio in the same amount of time? Here’s why: cardio only burns calories at the moment, while lifting heavy shit burns calories for hours afterward. Plus, the difference between adapting to cardio (see above) & adapting to lifting is that you grow in strength and muscle size with strength training,” she writes.

RELATED: I'm a Nutritionist and Banned These 4 Harmful Food Additives From My Kitchen

She Ate More Protein

Amping up her protein intake was also pivotal. “When I started making protein the star of my plate, I started losing inches and not just weight. This is when the definition of my muscle began to show back in 2017 when I started this current fitness journey,” she writes.

Walking

She also started getting her steps in. “I used to think walking was a waste of time. I would rather do cardio to burn more calories. I was so focused on how many calories I burned vs. making sure I was moving throughout the day. Then I learned that Non-Exercise Activity Thermogenesis (NEAT) actually accounts for DOUBLE the calories burned/day compared to Exercise Activity! All those 2x/day training & hours spent in the gym weren’t adding up like I thought,” she writes.

80/20 Rule

Erica claims that following an 80/20 lifestyle is key. “I’m going to admit to you – I am a Type-A perfectionist. Why do you think I have the Level Up nickname?? I am extra with everything and can’t just do anything half-measured. However, after decades of fad diets, I’ve learned that I will NEVER be successful at SUSTAINING any results if I have to restrict foods forever. I eat 80% wholesome, clean, minimally processed, lean foods. The other 20%? Whatever the hell I want because life is too short! Through tracking macros, I’ve learned how to fit these “fun” foods into my day & developed habits to keep them under control so I don’t eat the whole bag of Doritos,” she writes.

RELATED: This Woman Lost 15 Pounds in 90 Days After She Started Eating These 4 Foods Every Day

Steps She Took to Lose Weight: Ignited Her Metabolism

In another post, she reveals the three steps she took to help her lose weight. The first was igniting her metabolism. “Learning you can’t lose weight by chronic under-eating was the most valuable lesson,” she says. Restoring my metabolism to burn more calories & maintain my weight set me up for success when I eventually dieted.”

Enjoyed Food Freedom

She also enjoyed food freedom. “Restricting food didn’t get me anywhere except binging on the foods I restricted,” she writes. “Learning to eat a balanced diet in the right macro portions while staying within my daily targets was key to breaking free from restricting & binging.”

RELATED: This Doctor Added 40 Grams of Carbs Daily and Transformed Her Energy Levels in One Week

Maximizing Workouts

It’s about quality, not quantity, when it comes to exercise, says Erica. “Boy, oh boy, was I wrong here! Too much cardio & just way too much exercise in general didn’t get me results and put me under extreme stress,” she says. “These days, my priority is strength training with a sprinkle of cardio every week. Oh… and I made getting my steps in a priority over both the above!” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Nikki (@nikkigetsfit) is a weight loss influencer and YouTuber who shares about her health journey via social media outlets. In a recent viral video, the weight loss warrior, who shed unwanted weight with the help of WW, reveals that ditching a few bad habits was instrumental in her success. We also asked The Diet Diva, Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CPT, a Board Certified Sports Dietitian, to weigh in on her tactics.


1. She Reveals That She Lost 70 Pounds with Weight Watchers

In the video Nkki reveals that she lost 70 pounds and has “maintained that loss now for another two years.” She says that a few things that she stopped doing at the start of her journey helped her succeed. “I've struggled with my weight my entire life and it's been something that I never thought I could do. It's something that I've wanted to do and just focus on my health and nutrition, and I've always loved cooking and everything, but it's something I've just always struggled with,” she says.

2. She Stopped Eating Out

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The first thing that she stopped doing was eating out one to two times a day. She explains that due to their busy schedules she and her husband would rely on “fast food and just really unhealthy, quick and easy options that were loaded with calories and just really didn't even make us feel good” for meals. When she started Weight Watchers and tracked all of her meals, she was shocked at how unhealthy they were. Even their coffee order from Dunkin’ with cream and sugar was loaded with points. “It really had gotten kind of out of control realizing how high points so many fast food items were because we weren't choosing low point items, we didn't really care. It really did impact our health and I think that's where a huge amount of our weight gain came from,” she said. Her first month on the program she stopped eating out altogether. “We didn't eat out the first month at all because we just wanted to kind of get away from it and just work on trying to find ways to cook at home,” she said. Instead, they would make “copycat meals” at home, healthier versions of their favorite foods. “It made us excited. We realized we could still eat these foods we loved and have big portions of 'em, and it wasn't as many points as the fast food options.”

RD Says: Collingwood agrees. “Most people don’t realize how quickly the sugar, fat, sodium, and calories add up in fast food and restaurant food in general. Their job is to make us want their food and come back time and time again and what tastes good is sugar and fat. When you start to look up the calories and add them up, especially with the large portion sizes, it is very eye opening how quickly things add up,” she explains. “When you can make it at home you can control the amount of fat, sugar, and sodium, or you can substitute healthier and lower calorie ingredients. We also tend to serve ourselves smaller portions at home than those served to us at restaurants.”

Related: 14 Superfoods that Sculpt a Flat Belly

3. She Stopped Being “Negative” and “Mean” to Herself

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The second thing she did “ was I really worked on stopping negativity,” she says. “I would never say the things I say to myself to anybody else, and it just didn't make sense that I was so hard and mean on myself,” she continued. She started saying nice things to herself out loud and “it really did start to make a difference in the way I thought about things, the way that I was motivated, and it slowly started to make a difference really trying to stop those negative thoughts when they came through and trying to switch them around to thinking a more positive thought or something just not as negative,” she explained.

RD Says: “Negativity breeds more negativity and focusing on the positive can be very uplifting and help with making changes in your life that can make a real difference.”

4. She Focused on Consistency

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She also “stopped focusing on an end result and hitting it by a certain time” and instead “focusing on consistency.” Instead of the number on the scale, she “focused on what I could control” and things that would make her health improve. This led to success on the scale. “In the long run I was able to lose the weight, but my focus was on the consistency aspect and the part that I can control and not the uncontrollables of what the number on the scale says because it changes so frequently. So when I stopped worrying so much about the end result, it really did help take so much pressure off me.”

RD Says: “I always tell my clients that I am not concerned with the number of the scale, but with the behaviors that are happening. If the behavior changes, the scale will follow,” Collingwood explains. “And even if weight loss doesn’t happen, if behavior changes for the better, health and wellness will improve which is also a huge win.”

5. She Rewarded Herself

nikkigetsfit2Nikki Gets Fit/YouTube

She also gave herself rewards at the end of the month “ when I stayed consistent,” she says. “I did one month, three months, six months, and then a year,” she says, explaining that she did different rewards, and “it felt good to reward myself because it was something that I knew I had earned and I had done and I had put in the hard work for it.”

RD Says: “Having something to look forward to in the form of a reward can be quite motivating and feel good when you achieve the milestone. Try to choose non-food rewards so that it is not about food but rather about the achievement,” recommends Collingwood.

6. She Stopped Restricting Herself

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She also “stopped restricting” anything. “In the past I always thought this was just the best way to go about things. I always thought that this was just what was going to make me lose weight, what was going to help me have success. I pretty much thought that I had to cut everything out that I enjoyed and only eat the things that were dried out, chicken breast, salad, peppers, and bunless burgers. I thought I had to have all the most basic diet foods that everyone thinks about when they think of stuff like that and that I couldn't have any foods that I enjoyed.” However, she soon learned that “technically I could have anything that I wanted” with the WW points system, “and that really helped us because we were able to still incorporate so many of the foods that we enjoy and just using our points and deciding what's a priority, what's worth it.” What she learned is that restricting herself too much led to binge eating, “and so when I restrict something, I just want it more and more and more, and then the second that I'm able to get it, it is just out of control.”

RD Says: “It’s not always about the ‘what’ you are eating but more about the ‘how much,’” says Collingwood. “You can eat whatever you want and still lose weight, but you just balance the portion and frequency of having that particular food. Also balancing with physical activity helps loosen the choices as well!”

Related: 5 Signs You Are Burning Fat, Not Muscle While Exercising

7. She Stopped Caring About What Others Thought

nikkigetsfit1Nikki Gets Fit/YouTube

Finally, she “stopped caring what others thought,” she said. She explains that when she was bigger, “I really always felt so much shame” and was “embarrassed” about her weight. “I wanted to be healthier, but I struggled so much with other people knowing that I didn't want people to know that and part of me not wanting people to know that also kept me in the position I was in.” However, she stopped being afraid of telling people she wanted to get into shape. “Anyway, I just want to focus on bettering myself and the people judging people for wanting to better themselves. Like I said, they're the ones with the problem, so I just kind of thought through that and realized I just need to do what's best for me no matter what anyone thinks.”

RD Says: “When you can focus on you and your health and not what other people think, you are able to focus on the right things. It is really difficult to not care at all what others think, but when you are working on yourself just for yourself rather than trying to please others to explain yourself to others you will have much more peace and happiness.”

💪🔥Body Booster: An easy way to start losing weight is cutting out not only fast food, but eating out altogether. Studies have found that the more meals you eat prepared away from home, the higher your risk of cardiovascular disease, cancer, and early death.

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Kiki (@kikivirk) is a weight loss influencer who has amassed a social media following for sharing all the tips and tricks that enabled her to lose a whopping 60 pounds and keep it off. In one of her viral videos – viewed over 8 million times, Kiki reveals the biggest weight loss mistake she made on her journey – and also what ultimately led to her weight loss success.


She Says Doing High Intensity Workouts Were a “Huge Mistake”

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“I was so motivated to lose weight and I wanted to see results fast, but I didn't do my research and I jumped straight in, literally into a high intensity, 90 day workout plan. Huge mistake,” Kiki says in the video.

After 45 Days She Hadn’t Lost Weight

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After a month-and-a-half, she didn't feel like she'd lost any weight. “I was overdoing it. The long, painful HIIT workouts were actually doing my body no good. They were causing it too much stress and loads of other problems,” she says.

Related: 5 Pilates Exercises for a Flat Stomach in 14 Days

She Had “Weight Plateaus” and “Felt So Hungry and Fatigued”

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In another video, she specified that she was doing “high intensity cardio” five times a week in hopes it “would burn fat fast and give me my dream body,” she explained. “But instead, I had weight plateaus and felt so hungry and fatigued.

Her Fat Began to “Melt Off” When She Started Strength Training

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“Literally, as soon as I started strength training and less cardio, the fat began to melt off, and the lean muscle mass I gained gave me the tone look I'd always wanted,” she continued.

Her Program: LISS, Walking, Strength and Resistance Training, and a Short HIIT Workout

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Her program starts with doing 45 to 60 minutes of LISS cardio four times a week. She also walks 7 to 12,000 steps every day, does strength and resistance training three times a week, and a 15-minute HIIT workout once a week.

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An Expert Weighs In

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“What she says is definitely spot on,” says Kendra Gamble, HIT Fitness Training, Huntingdon Valley, PA, NPTI Certified Personal Trainer and Nutritional Consultant. “Intense cardio and intense HIIT more than twice a week will do the body more harm than good and is not the way to lose fat and get that toned look.” Instead, she agrees that “increasing your everyday steps is more of the most important and beginner things you can do to start losing fat along with getting your diet right.” Unfortunately, “fat loss is not an immediate thing and will take time and dedication but she explains it all perfectly.”

💪🔥Body Booster: If you are a beginner trying to lose weight, starting by increasing your steps and modifying your diet instead of going overboard with higher intensity workouts.

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Sarah Michelle Gellar is living, breathing proof that 40s are the new 20s. The Buffy the Vampire Slayer star looks fitter at 47 than she did at 27, showing off her flat abs and toned body in Alo exercise sets all over Instagram. Her new trainer might have something to do with her body glow-up. The actress recently started working out with Coach Brach Gould, who also trains Harry Styles and Christina Milian. Here are the exercises she is doing and some other details about her approach to diet and exercise

What Her Trainer Says

Gould recently shared a video of their workout routine on Instagram. “I’ve been working with Sarah for over 6 months now and all I can say is how impressive her progress has been! She’s become stronger, fitter and more mobile by us just sticking to a programme and working on fundamentals. No fancy stuff, just consistent exercises with hard work! So proud of you!!!” he captioned it.

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These Are the Exercises She Does

In the clip, the two train at the Alo studio in Los Angeles, doing a variety of exercises:

  • Half Kneeling High Cable Pulls
  • Single Arm Kettlebell Farmers Walks with High Knee
  • Single Arm Dumbbell Lunges
  • Stability Ball Planks
  • Plate Weighed Side Steps
  • Side-to-side Medicine Ball Slams
  • Assault bike cardio.

She Has Workout Buddies

In another Instagram video, Gellar reveals that she is a fan of the workout buddy system. “It’s true what they say… girlfriends and exercise are good for your mental health. Just missing @madelyncline … and @jennkaytin …. and @samlansky …. and @realfreddieprinze,” she captioned the clip, also taken at the Alo gym.

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She Fuels Up on Green Juice Prior to Working Out

Gellar is a fan of fresh green juice. "I go every weekend to the farmers market and I get fresh kale, spinach, celery, and lettuces and I blend it all together," she told Who What Wear. "That's my favorite thing before I work out.”

Outdoor Activities

When she isn’t int he gym, she stays active outdoors. "I chase two children around which is the best recipe to stay active as they're so active," she told Body+Soul. "I'm very fortunate that I live in a climate that's beautiful year around and I try to take advantage of being outside, whether it's hiking or going to the beach and swimming and surfing. I prefer all those great outdoor activities than indoor activities – although I do love yoga. If we do yoga on the beach then I'm really happy." And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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We've all been there – feeling uncomfortable in our own skin, wanting to make a change, but not knowing where to start. Amy Fritz knows this feeling all too well. After reaching her heaviest weight by the end of 2022, she felt miserable and ready for change. By making simple adjustments to her lifestyle—moving her body daily and fueling it with nutritious foods 80% of the time—Amy lost over 90 pounds in just 12 months. Now she's sharing the surprising mistakes she had to overcome to find success. Read on to discover what could be holding back your own weight loss journey.

Mistake 1: Focusing on the scale instead of how you feel

Many of us become obsessed with numbers on the scale, but Amy discovered a more powerful motivator. "Feeling healthy is so much more powerful than any number you will ever see on the scale," she explains in her post. Just two weeks into her journey, despite only losing about five pounds, Amy already noticed positive changes.

"The shame of making bad choices that I had been making for so long started to melt away," Amy shares. That feeling of health fueled her to keep going, even when the weight loss was slow. Now, a year into her journey, she craves those healthy habits. "If I have a couple of days where maybe I miss a workout or make some poor choices with my diet, I start to feel gross," Amy admits.

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Mistake 2: Neglecting mental health while focusing on physical changes

One of Amy's biggest realizations was that sustainable weight loss begins in the mind, not the body. "Until you're mentally ready, until you've really done the work with your mental health, it's not going to be sustainable or easy to try to focus on your physical health," Amy emphasizes.

Working with a therapist helped Amy overcome emotional eating and develop tools for making healthy choices while managing everyday stress. "You have to prioritize your mental health and what's important on the inside. And then that will snowball and reflect the outside," she says.

Mistake 3: Believing you must eliminate favorite foods

Perhaps the most surprising mistake Amy identified was thinking weight loss meant giving up foods she loved. "You do not have to cut out any specific foods or your favorite meals in order to lose weight," Amy states. She discovered that overly restricting certain foods creates a vicious cycle of craving, overeating, guilt, and more restriction.

Instead, Amy found healthier ways to enjoy her favorite meals. "When you have those cravings for foods, all you have to do is find healthier ways to make them," she explains. For example, pizza night became healthier by adding nutritional volume: "Maybe I sprinkle on a bunch of fresh veggies, or what I really love to do is toss some arugula and some olive oil and balsamic and top that on my pizza."

Mistake 4: Tracking calories too rigidly

Amy initially thought successful weight loss meant sticking to a strict daily calorie limit—a common but often unsustainable approach. "You don't have to track your calories by the day," Amy reveals. Instead, she discovered the power of weekly tracking.

"If you want to lose one pound a week, you have to be in at least a deficit of 3500 calories on the week," Amy explains. This flexibility allowed her to enjoy date nights without guilt while still meeting her goals. "I have date night every Friday night. And so you better be sure I use one of my larger calorie days for Friday so I can go out and enjoy myself and not have to worry and feel like I've fallen off the wagon."

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Mistake 5: Putting exercise last on your priority list

Making exercise an "if I have time" activity was a major error Amy had to correct. "You have to prioritize movement and exercise really high when you're on a journey like this. You have to make it almost your number one priority or else it's not going to get done," Amy stresses.

She learned to stop waiting for the perfect moment when everything else was in order. "Leave the kitchen a mess, leave the bedroom a mess, leave the pile of laundry, let something go so that you can go move your body because you matter and you'll feel better," Amy advises. Putting herself first with exercise actually improved her ability to handle other responsibilities.

Why waiting for motivation doesn't work

Many people make the mistake of waiting until they feel motivated to start exercising or eating better. Amy discovered that action comes first, motivation follows. "You'll start to feel good long before you see results on the scale," she points out. The feeling of making healthy choices daily becomes its own reward and generates the motivation to continue.

The perfectionism trap that sabotages progress

Amy admits she used to think everything had to be perfect before she could focus on her health. "So many times last year and before beginning this journey, I would say, man, I can only go to the gym if the whole house is clean," she recalls. This perfectionism kept her from taking action. Learning to let go of perfect and embrace progress was key to her success.

How meal repetition simplifies weight loss

Contrary to popular advice about needing endless variety, Amy found freedom in keeping meals simple. "It is okay if you found a recipe that is highly nutritional, that you love, that your whole family loves, that supports everyone's goals. It is okay to make that two or three times a week," Amy reassures.

Sheet pan dinners and taco nights became staples in her home. "We do taco night at least once a week, sometimes twice a week," she admits. Finding a few healthy meals that work and repeating them eliminated decision fatigue and simplified her journey.

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Why adding nutrition works better than restriction

Rather than focusing on what to eliminate, Amy discovered the power of adding nutrition to her plate. "Add some more nutrition to your plate and really add some volume to your plate so that you can control the portions," she explains. This approach—eating more vegetables and nutrient-dense foods alongside smaller portions of more indulgent items—kept her satisfied without feeling deprived.

The mindset shift that makes habits stick

Eventually, Amy's healthy choices became automatic. "Now that I'm a year in, I still have a long way to go. I can truly say the feeling of eating healthy and moving my body is not only habitual, but it's something I crave," she shares. This transformation from forcing herself to do healthy activities to actually desiring them was the ultimate key to her success.

Amy's journey proves that sustainable weight loss doesn't require extreme measures or suffering. By avoiding these five unexpected mistakes—focusing too much on the scale, neglecting mental health, eliminating favorite foods, tracking calories too rigidly, and putting exercise last—she created lasting change. Her approach balanced enjoyment with progress, proving that weight loss doesn't have to be miserable to be effective. Start today by addressing these common mistakes in your own journey—you've got this! And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these20 Superfoods for People Over 50

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Losing weight doesn’t have to equate to starvation, deprivation, or eating bland meals. According to one fit mom and influencer, you can eat delicious dinners, and still drop weight fast. Ashley Smith is a fit mom and nutritionist who regularly shares weight loss tips and tricks with her followers. In a new Instagram post, she reveals some of her go-to recipes for healthy, fat-burning meals. “If I wanted to lose 10 pounds in the next 6 weeks here are the 5 dinners I would eat on repeat,” she writes.

1. Lemon Garlic Shrimp with Quinoa & Roasted Veggies

Protein: 42g, Calories: 378

Ingredients: 6 oz shrimp, ½ cup cooked quinoa, 1 cup zucchini & bell peppers (roasted), 1 tsp olive oil, 1 tbsp lemon juice, 1 clove garlic (minced), salt & pepper to taste.
Directions: Sauté shrimp with garlic, lemon juice, salt, and pepper. Serve over quinoa with roasted veggies.

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2. Grilled Chicken with Mashed Cauliflower & Green Beans

Protein: 48g, Calories: 339
Ingredients: 6 oz grilled chicken breast, 1 cup mashed cauliflower (made with ½ cup steamed cauliflower, ¼ cup unsweetened almond milk, and seasonings), 1 cup steamed green beans, 1 tsp olive oil, salt, pepper, and garlic powder to taste.Directions: Grill the chicken, mash the cauliflower with almond milk and seasonings, and serve with steamed green beans.

3. Turkey & Spinach Stir-Fry with Brown Rice

Protein: 43g, Calories: 428

Ingredients: 5 oz lean ground turkey, 1 cup cooked brown rice, 1 cup sautéed spinach & mushrooms, 1 tsp coconut aminos, 1 clove garlic (minced), ½ tsp ground ginger, salt & pepper to taste.
Directions: Cook turkey with garlic, ginger, and aminos, then toss in spinach and mushrooms. Serve over brown rice.

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4. Spaghetti Squash with Ground Turkey Marinara

Protein: 41g, Calories: 314

Ingredients: 5 oz lean ground turkey, 1 cup cooked spaghetti squash, ½ cup marinara sauce, ½ cup sautéed mushrooms & zucchini, 1 tbsp nutritional yeast (for a cheesy flavor), 1 clove garlic (minced), ½ tsp oregano, red pepper flakes to taste.
Directions: Brown the turkey with garlic, oregano, and red pepper flakes. Add marinara sauce, mushrooms, and zucchini, and simmer. Serve over spaghetti squash and sprinkle with nutritional yeast.

5. Grilled Salmon with Roasted Asparagus & Wild Rice

Protein: 47g, Calories: 452

Ingredients: 5 oz grilled salmon, ½ cup cooked wild rice, 1 cup roasted asparagus, 1 tsp olive oil, 1 tbsp lemon juice, 1 clove garlic (minced), salt & pepper to taste.
Directions: Grill salmon with lemon juice, garlic, salt, and pepper. Roast asparagus and serve with wild rice. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.