5 Things I Wish I Knew Before Losing 160 Pounds

Are you about to embark on a weight loss journey? Amber Clemens (@amber_c_fitness) is a weight loss warrior turned coach who lost a whopping 160 pounds by making a few impactful changes to her lifestyle. In a recent TikTok video, she answers an FAQ she gets: “What are some unexpected things about weight loss that I wish I had known going into it?” she says. “So here are some things I wish I would've known about weight loss going into my 160-pound weight loss journey.”

Don’t Put too Much Focus on the Numbers

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“Number one, the scale means a lot less than you think it does,” says Amber. “The scale is literally going to change 24-freaking-7. She points out that weight fluctuates due to a variety of factors, including water weight, inflammation, if you have to go to the bathroom, food that needs to be digested, body, fat, muscle, “everything,” she says. “So that number matters a lot less day to day than you think it does. What you wanna go for is an overall downward trend over a long period of time.”

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You Might Become Obsessed with “Body Checking” Yourself

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“Number two, you will become obsessed with body checking yourself,” says Amber. “I cannot tell you I was looking for every single little ounce of progress that I could see day to day. Do I like it all the time? No, but it's definitely something that I experienced.”

You Need to Be in a Calorie Deficit

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“Number three, a calorie deficit is a calorie deficit,” Amber says. “It doesn't matter what you call it. Every single program out there is only going to work if you're in a calorie deficit. So if you try something and it feels really unsustainable to you, you don't have to do that thing because in general, for most people, if you're in a calorie deficit, you will lose weight. There's not some, like magic secret out there. The secret is a calorie deficit.”

You Will Learn People’s True Character

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“Number four, you will learn people's true characters on a weight loss journey,” Amber reveals. “You might lose friends. You might realize how fat phobic some people in your life really are, and people will be a lot more comfortable being fat phobic around you because they think you are automatically fat phobic because you lost weight. And people will say some really bizarre crazy things around you.”

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Will Realize Thin Privilege Is Real

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“Number five, you will realize just how much of a thin thin privilege really is,” Amber confesses. The way that people treat me, so vastly different now because I'm in a smaller body versus when I was 300 pounds, insane,” she reveals.

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Nikki Madoch (@nikkigetsfit) is a weight loss influencer and YouTuber who shares about her health journey via social media outlets. In one of her viral videos, she reveals things she didn’t know – but wished she had – before losing weight. “I'm just talking about five things that I wish that I knew before I started my weight loss journey,” she says.

“These are just some of the things that I wish I knew before I started my journey of losing 70 pounds because it's definitely been such a learning experience,” she added. “I have had to completely change the way I think about things. I've had to switch my lifestyle around and really think about things differently to have success with this healthier lifestyle.”

You Need to Be Motivated By More Than Just Looks

“The first thing that I want to talk about that I wish I had known before I started was what was going to motivate me to lose weight. Because one thing that I feel like always caused me to just not have success with losing weight was my motivation behind it,” she says in the video.

“My reasoning behind why I wanted to lose weight for so long, I just wanted to look better. I wanted to have a flat stomach. I wanted to look like other people, and that was all it was. I just wanted to look like other people. I just wanted to be thin. I wanted to lose weight. Those were the only things that motivated me because it was what other people thought. I wanted other people to think better of me.”

Instead, Be Motivated By How You Feel

“This time around, I completely changed my way of thinking because it became a little bit more of a health scare, and I just stopped trying to think about what others thought. It almost became like, okay, this needs to be about me now.,” she says. “As I started my weight loss journey, honestly one week in, I could not believe how much better I felt after just one week.” She says she started focusing on portion control and fueling her body with healthy food, “and that motivated me more than I ever knew it could.”

She maintains “that has been what's motivated me, my entire journey. What's kept me going is how good I feel when I take care of myself: when I eat healthy, when I nourish myself, when I eat enough when I drink enough water, when I get enough sleep, when I exercise and move my body in ways that I enjoy, those things make me feel amazing. They genuinely make me feel good.”

That She Would Have More Body Dysmorphia

The next one? “I didn't know that I would have more body dysmorphia as I lost weight, and that was something that was kind of shocking to me because honestly, at my heaviest, it had gotten to the point where I just didn't care,” she says.

“Then, as I started losing weight and started focusing on every little thing, I would feel better about how I looked, but at the same time, I was noticing every little part of me. I felt like I was looking in the mirror a lot. I was checking out my stomach and my legs and just every part of me, my arms. I was so self-conscious about my loose skin that I was developing as I was losing weight.”

Be Prepared for the “Mental Game”

“I started to develop so many tendencies of just body dysmorphia, and it really got to me way more than I ever expected,” she says. “At my heavier weights, I wasn't as hard on myself about my body because I just gave up. So it was just a whole other mental game that I had to deal with going through weight loss.”

Use Your Weeklies

“The next thing that I wish I knew before I started my weight loss journey is specifically with Weight Watchers. And that is to use my weeklies,” she says.

“So when I first signed up and heard about the Weekly Bank, I kind of thought that was just like a bonus. You didn't really have to use those points and shouldn't use them. Like I thought that you would actually lose weight if you didn't use them. And so for the first couple weeks, I was too scared to use my weeklies, and I feel like, again, so many people say this, but then I started to realize, like, okay, I want to eat more. I don't want to restrict myself; I want to feel like I'm eating more and more nourishing foods, and I don't know if I lost all the weight or not eating enough, then I'd have to maintain the weight. Not eating enough is a mentality I had. So I was like, I might as well take advantage of all the points that I have.”

You Will Lose More Weight If You Use Them

“I started to eat my weekly points and very quickly noticed that it actually helped me to lose more weight. The weeks that I would use all my weeklies were always my best weigh-in weeks. I don't know if it was just a coincidence, but I think that I was just really nourishing my body, and it was just what worked for me to use my weeklies. And I hear a lot of people that have success when they do,” she says.

Don’t Eat the Same Things Over and Over Again

“The next thing that I wish I knew before starting my weight loss journey is that it is very easy to get burned out of things, and it's very important to switch things up. I learned pretty quickly in the beginning that first of all, especially when you're on WW and you find low-point things, it's exciting, especially when there are trending low-point things within, like the Weight Watchers community, and it becomes such a thing. And I would do that and get so burned out of stuff. So even like blackened chicken from Tyson, which I still love that chicken, but I burn myself out of that so quickly,” she says.

Sprinkle in New Stuff

“I go through phases, but I always have something new to mix things up, and that helps so much to stay on track because getting bored and feeling like it's just boring and repetitive sometimes can be hard to stay consistent with because I don't know, it's boring and you don't want to do it. You don't have something to look forward to,” she says.

Don’t Focus on the Number on the Scale

Her last item on the list? “Just realizing that weight and the number on the scale is not everything. I know everybody is self-conscious of their weight, but I've been so self-conscious about my weight,” she says. She explains that the number on the scale doesn’t always matter. “My body is so much more toned and strong than it was two years ago when I weighed 180 pounds,” she says.

Instead, Take Progress Pictures and Measurements

She adds that when you incorporate resistance training and weightlifting, “it's going to make a difference because muscle takes up less space than fat. So even if you weigh more and you have more muscle, you will look smaller.” She recommends taking progress pictures and measurements instead of relying on the scale. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

Kiki (@kikivirk) is a weight loss influencer who has amassed a social media following for sharing all the tips and tricks that enabled her to lose a whopping 60 pounds and keep it off. In one of her viral videos – viewed over 8 million times, Kiki reveals the biggest weight loss mistake she made on her journey – and also what ultimately led to her weight loss success.

She Says Doing High Intensity Workouts Were a “Huge Mistake”

“I was so motivated to lose weight and I wanted to see results fast, but I didn't do my research and I jumped straight in, literally into a high intensity, 90 day workout plan. Huge mistake,” Kiki says in the video.

After 45 Days She Hadn’t Lost Weight

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After a month-and-a-half, she didn't feel like she'd lost any weight. “I was overdoing it. The long, painful HIIT workouts were actually doing my body no good. They were causing it too much stress and loads of other problems,” she says.

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She Had “Weight Plateaus” and “Felt So Hungry and Fatigued”

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In another video, she specified that she was doing “high intensity cardio” five times a week in hopes it “would burn fat fast and give me my dream body,” she explained. “But instead, I had weight plateaus and felt so hungry and fatigued.

Her Fat Began to “Melt Off” When She Started Strength Training

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“Literally, as soon as I started strength training and less cardio, the fat began to melt off, and the lean muscle mass I gained gave me the tone look I'd always wanted,” she continued.

Her Program: LISS, Walking, Strength and Resistance Training, and a Short HIIT Workout

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Her program starts with doing 45 to 60 minutes of LISS cardio four times a week. She also walks 7 to 12,000 steps every day, does strength and resistance training three times a week, and a 15-minute HIIT workout once a week.

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An Expert Weighs In

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“What she says is definitely spot on,” says Kendra Gamble, HIT Fitness Training, Huntingdon Valley, PA, NPTI Certified Personal Trainer and Nutritional Consultant. “Intense cardio and intense HIIT more than twice a week will do the body more harm than good and is not the way to lose fat and get that toned look.” Instead, she agrees that “increasing your everyday steps is more of the most important and beginner things you can do to start losing fat along with getting your diet right.” Unfortunately, “fat loss is not an immediate thing and will take time and dedication but she explains it all perfectly.”

💪🔥Body Booster: If you are a beginner trying to lose weight, starting by increasing your steps and modifying your diet instead of going overboard with higher intensity workouts.