5 Things I Wish I Knew Before Losing 160 Pounds

Are you about to embark on a weight loss journey? Amber Clemens (@amber_c_fitness) is a weight loss warrior turned coach who lost a whopping 160 pounds by making a few impactful changes to her lifestyle. In a recent TikTok video, she answers an FAQ she gets: “What are some unexpected things about weight loss that I wish I had known going into it?” she says. “So here are some things I wish I would've known about weight loss going into my 160-pound weight loss journey.”

Don’t Put too Much Focus on the Numbers

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“Number one, the scale means a lot less than you think it does,” says Amber. “The scale is literally going to change 24-freaking-7. She points out that weight fluctuates due to a variety of factors, including water weight, inflammation, if you have to go to the bathroom, food that needs to be digested, body, fat, muscle, “everything,” she says. “So that number matters a lot less day to day than you think it does. What you wanna go for is an overall downward trend over a long period of time.”

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You Might Become Obsessed with “Body Checking” Yourself

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“Number two, you will become obsessed with body checking yourself,” says Amber. “I cannot tell you I was looking for every single little ounce of progress that I could see day to day. Do I like it all the time? No, but it's definitely something that I experienced.”

You Need to Be in a Calorie Deficit

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“Number three, a calorie deficit is a calorie deficit,” Amber says. “It doesn't matter what you call it. Every single program out there is only going to work if you're in a calorie deficit. So if you try something and it feels really unsustainable to you, you don't have to do that thing because in general, for most people, if you're in a calorie deficit, you will lose weight. There's not some, like magic secret out there. The secret is a calorie deficit.”

You Will Learn People’s True Character

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“Number four, you will learn people's true characters on a weight loss journey,” Amber reveals. “You might lose friends. You might realize how fat phobic some people in your life really are, and people will be a lot more comfortable being fat phobic around you because they think you are automatically fat phobic because you lost weight. And people will say some really bizarre crazy things around you.”

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Will Realize Thin Privilege Is Real

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“Number five, you will realize just how much of a thin thin privilege really is,” Amber confesses. The way that people treat me, so vastly different now because I'm in a smaller body versus when I was 300 pounds, insane,” she reveals.

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Nikki Madoch (@nikkigetsfit) is a weight loss influencer and YouTuber who shares about her health journey via social media outlets. In one of her viral videos, she reveals things she didn’t know – but wished she had – before losing weight. “I'm just talking about five things that I wish that I knew before I started my weight loss journey,” she says.

“These are just some of the things that I wish I knew before I started my journey of losing 70 pounds because it's definitely been such a learning experience,” she added. “I have had to completely change the way I think about things. I've had to switch my lifestyle around and really think about things differently to have success with this healthier lifestyle.”

You Need to Be Motivated By More Than Just Looks

“The first thing that I want to talk about that I wish I had known before I started was what was going to motivate me to lose weight. Because one thing that I feel like always caused me to just not have success with losing weight was my motivation behind it,” she says in the video.

“My reasoning behind why I wanted to lose weight for so long, I just wanted to look better. I wanted to have a flat stomach. I wanted to look like other people, and that was all it was. I just wanted to look like other people. I just wanted to be thin. I wanted to lose weight. Those were the only things that motivated me because it was what other people thought. I wanted other people to think better of me.”

Instead, Be Motivated By How You Feel

“This time around, I completely changed my way of thinking because it became a little bit more of a health scare, and I just stopped trying to think about what others thought. It almost became like, okay, this needs to be about me now.,” she says. “As I started my weight loss journey, honestly one week in, I could not believe how much better I felt after just one week.” She says she started focusing on portion control and fueling her body with healthy food, “and that motivated me more than I ever knew it could.”

She maintains “that has been what's motivated me, my entire journey. What's kept me going is how good I feel when I take care of myself: when I eat healthy, when I nourish myself, when I eat enough when I drink enough water, when I get enough sleep, when I exercise and move my body in ways that I enjoy, those things make me feel amazing. They genuinely make me feel good.”

That She Would Have More Body Dysmorphia

The next one? “I didn't know that I would have more body dysmorphia as I lost weight, and that was something that was kind of shocking to me because honestly, at my heaviest, it had gotten to the point where I just didn't care,” she says.

“Then, as I started losing weight and started focusing on every little thing, I would feel better about how I looked, but at the same time, I was noticing every little part of me. I felt like I was looking in the mirror a lot. I was checking out my stomach and my legs and just every part of me, my arms. I was so self-conscious about my loose skin that I was developing as I was losing weight.”

Be Prepared for the “Mental Game”

“I started to develop so many tendencies of just body dysmorphia, and it really got to me way more than I ever expected,” she says. “At my heavier weights, I wasn't as hard on myself about my body because I just gave up. So it was just a whole other mental game that I had to deal with going through weight loss.”

Use Your Weeklies

“The next thing that I wish I knew before I started my weight loss journey is specifically with Weight Watchers. And that is to use my weeklies,” she says.

“So when I first signed up and heard about the Weekly Bank, I kind of thought that was just like a bonus. You didn't really have to use those points and shouldn't use them. Like I thought that you would actually lose weight if you didn't use them. And so for the first couple weeks, I was too scared to use my weeklies, and I feel like, again, so many people say this, but then I started to realize, like, okay, I want to eat more. I don't want to restrict myself; I want to feel like I'm eating more and more nourishing foods, and I don't know if I lost all the weight or not eating enough, then I'd have to maintain the weight. Not eating enough is a mentality I had. So I was like, I might as well take advantage of all the points that I have.”

You Will Lose More Weight If You Use Them

“I started to eat my weekly points and very quickly noticed that it actually helped me to lose more weight. The weeks that I would use all my weeklies were always my best weigh-in weeks. I don't know if it was just a coincidence, but I think that I was just really nourishing my body, and it was just what worked for me to use my weeklies. And I hear a lot of people that have success when they do,” she says.

Don’t Eat the Same Things Over and Over Again

“The next thing that I wish I knew before starting my weight loss journey is that it is very easy to get burned out of things, and it's very important to switch things up. I learned pretty quickly in the beginning that first of all, especially when you're on WW and you find low-point things, it's exciting, especially when there are trending low-point things within, like the Weight Watchers community, and it becomes such a thing. And I would do that and get so burned out of stuff. So even like blackened chicken from Tyson, which I still love that chicken, but I burn myself out of that so quickly,” she says.

Sprinkle in New Stuff

“I go through phases, but I always have something new to mix things up, and that helps so much to stay on track because getting bored and feeling like it's just boring and repetitive sometimes can be hard to stay consistent with because I don't know, it's boring and you don't want to do it. You don't have something to look forward to,” she says.

Don’t Focus on the Number on the Scale

Her last item on the list? “Just realizing that weight and the number on the scale is not everything. I know everybody is self-conscious of their weight, but I've been so self-conscious about my weight,” she says. She explains that the number on the scale doesn’t always matter. “My body is so much more toned and strong than it was two years ago when I weighed 180 pounds,” she says.

Instead, Take Progress Pictures and Measurements

She adds that when you incorporate resistance training and weightlifting, “it's going to make a difference because muscle takes up less space than fat. So even if you weigh more and you have more muscle, you will look smaller.” She recommends taking progress pictures and measurements instead of relying on the scale. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

Kiki (@kikivirk) is a weight loss influencer who has amassed a social media following for sharing all the tips and tricks that enabled her to lose a whopping 60 pounds and keep it off. In one of her viral videos – viewed over 8 million times, Kiki reveals the biggest weight loss mistake she made on her journey – and also what ultimately led to her weight loss success.

She Says Doing High Intensity Workouts Were a “Huge Mistake”

“I was so motivated to lose weight and I wanted to see results fast, but I didn't do my research and I jumped straight in, literally into a high intensity, 90 day workout plan. Huge mistake,” Kiki says in the video.

After 45 Days She Hadn’t Lost Weight

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After a month-and-a-half, she didn't feel like she'd lost any weight. “I was overdoing it. The long, painful HIIT workouts were actually doing my body no good. They were causing it too much stress and loads of other problems,” she says.

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She Had “Weight Plateaus” and “Felt So Hungry and Fatigued”

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In another video, she specified that she was doing “high intensity cardio” five times a week in hopes it “would burn fat fast and give me my dream body,” she explained. “But instead, I had weight plateaus and felt so hungry and fatigued.

Her Fat Began to “Melt Off” When She Started Strength Training

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“Literally, as soon as I started strength training and less cardio, the fat began to melt off, and the lean muscle mass I gained gave me the tone look I'd always wanted,” she continued.

Her Program: LISS, Walking, Strength and Resistance Training, and a Short HIIT Workout

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Her program starts with doing 45 to 60 minutes of LISS cardio four times a week. She also walks 7 to 12,000 steps every day, does strength and resistance training three times a week, and a 15-minute HIIT workout once a week.

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An Expert Weighs In

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“What she says is definitely spot on,” says Kendra Gamble, HIT Fitness Training, Huntingdon Valley, PA, NPTI Certified Personal Trainer and Nutritional Consultant. “Intense cardio and intense HIIT more than twice a week will do the body more harm than good and is not the way to lose fat and get that toned look.” Instead, she agrees that “increasing your everyday steps is more of the most important and beginner things you can do to start losing fat along with getting your diet right.” Unfortunately, “fat loss is not an immediate thing and will take time and dedication but she explains it all perfectly.”

💪🔥Body Booster: If you are a beginner trying to lose weight, starting by increasing your steps and modifying your diet instead of going overboard with higher intensity workouts.

Do you want to lose more than 40 pounds? While it might seem intimidating to embark on a major weight loss journey, there are lots of weight loss warriors who have shared their success stories to keep you inspired and motivated. Many of them have revealed the easy and doable lifestyle changes they made that enabled them to slim down and keep the weight off. Here are 20 tips from nine men and women who have lost up to 165 pounds to help you achieve your weight loss goals.

Indya Ago Lost 120 Pounds by Learning How to Have a “Balanced” Approach to Food

Indya Agos (@indyaagos) is a weight loss warrior and coach who lost a whopping 120 pounds via natural methods. “Something I tell my clients when they first start coaching with me is that in order for these results to be sustainable we have to create balance,” she says. “When I first started my weight loss journey, I used to restrict myself so much,” she continues. “I would demonize so many different kinds of foods that diet culture had brainwashed me, and into believing were the reason why I wasn’t able to reach the results I was looking for.”

She Also Educated Herself on Macronutrients

Indya previously suffered from “cycles of binging, and creating a very unhealthy relationship between nutrition and my body,” she maintains. “Through proper education on macronutrients, I was able to heal this relationship. And this is how I help my clients and maintain their goals as well. Education is power.”

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She “Started Slow” and Learned “Self-Trust”

In another video, Indya reveals another tactic that helped her lose so much weight. “You got to start slow,” she says. “If you approach this from an all or nothing mentality, you are only setting yourself up for failure. A big part of this journey is regaining self-trust. You are so used to letting yourself down. The way that you build trust with yourself again is by following through with the promises that you've made to yourself.”

And Took a Deep Dive Into Her Failed Attempts at Weight Loss

Another thing she did is “going to require you to dig deep,” she says. “We need to figure out what your main excuses or your repeated point of failure chances are. You've been stuck in the same exact cycle, repeating the same narratives as to why you haven't been able to be successful in the past. If your story is that you never have any time, then we need to figure out why you're not prioritizing making time. People make time for what's important to them. If the story is that you are overwhelmed and you have no idea where to start, then it is time to reach out for help so that you have a plan of action as well as guidance.”

Raven Norwood Lost 165 Pounds By Cutting Processed Foods From Her Diet

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Raven Norwood, 28, of Huntington Beach, California, started her weight loss journey at 212 pounds and has managed to drop down to 155 pounds, losing 165 pounds in two years. In an interview with Body Network, she explains that she used to eat food containing several dyes, fast food, and packaged food with GMOs, too much MSG, and preservatives. While she didn’t eliminate “any specific food groups because balance is the key to longevity,” she did cut the above from her diet and started cooking her own meals “as much as possible.” Creating healthy relationships with all food groups is so important when it comes to keeping the weight off, she stresses. “Balance is key, so, if I want a cookie here and there, I eat the cookie… no biggie!”

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She Also Amped Up Her Water Intake

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Raven adds that “lots of water” keeps her hydrated and feeling full. According to the Mayo Clinic, hydration is important for a variety of reasons. Water helps get rid of waste through urination, perspiration, and bowel movements, keeps your temperature normal, lubricates and cushions joints, and helps protect sensitive tissues.

She Fell in Love with a Boutique Fitness Method

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Raven also encourages finding a fitness form that you love. She discovered rowing at her local Row House. “I love how boutique and specialized gyms are getting more recognition! When I first found Row House, I had never seen a gym dedicated to rowing,” she says. “And on top of that you get floorwork exercises, group fitness and the wonderful community that comes along with it! I think a lot of people would benefit from boutique gyms.”

She Took Progress Pictures

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Progress photos were also an important part of Raven’s weight loss journey. “Sometimes your mind will play tricks on you, and make you feel like you haven’t done as much as you have,” she says. If she feels discouraged, she will look at her “Day 1” photo and it will provide instant motivation. “Take photos because your mind will play tricks on you, but those photos won’t,” she says.

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Dils Less Lost 50 Pounds by Not Drinking Coffee on an Empty Stomach

Dils Lee (@dilshealth) lost 50 pounds by making a few simple lifestyle habit changes, which not only aided in weight loss, but were a game-changer in her overall health, especially with her inflammation and hormonal imbalance. One of the first changes that she made? “I stopped drinking coffee on an empty stomach and started making my breakfast look like this,” she said. “Drinking coffee on an empty stomach can lead to bloating, nausea, and anxiety, and it can also raise your cortisol levels, which can negatively impact ovulation weight and hormonal imbalances.”

She Also Switched From HIIT to Low Intensity Workouts

You don’t have to do HIIT workouts to lose weight. The second change that she made “was stopping all high intensity training while I was losing weight,” she said. “I found that I harbored a lot of inflammation in my face, arms, body, stomach, and legs everywhere.” Instead, she opted for lower intensity training. “Basically, by switching to lower intensity workouts, I've found that my waist has drastically come in. My stomach is much more flat, and I'm actually building a lot of tone and muscle in my arms and legs,” she says.

And, She Prioritized Sleep

“The fourth change that I made is that I introduced a healthy sleep routine,” Dils reveals. “My routine includes using supplements like magnesium and then not using my phone an hour before bed. Prioritizing sleep will help your body recover after physical activity. It'll also help with hormone regulation, metabolic regulation, stress and emotional wellbeing.” What are the health benefits of sleep? According to the Sleep Foundation, getting enough z’s is a mood booster, promotes heart health, regulates blood sugar, improves mental function, restores your immune system, helps relieve stress, and aids in weight loss.

Joseph Graham Jr. Lost 75 Pounds By Jump Roping and Doing Pushups

No gym, no problem. Joseph Graham Jr. (@theguywiththepinkshoes) is a fitness influencer and “crossrope athlete” who lost a whopping 75 pounds and toned up his dad bod by jumping rope and doing push ups at home. He does “harder” push ups, he says. “It's not enough to just do as many as you can and do them fast. Once you feel comfortable doing pushups, once you feel like you've kind of got it down, you have to start making it harder for yourself,” he explains. “The resistance is what builds the strength, right?

Alexandra Lost 40 Pounds by Eating the Same Meals Every Day

Online fitness coach Alexandra (@alexx.fitt) personally lost 40 pounds by eating the same meals daily. “For 1-2 months I ate the same meals every single day why? Because I was confused I didn’t know what to eat or where to start so I ate the same thing everyday,” Alexandra confesses in the caption of her video.

She Also Walks 10,000 Steps a Day

In another video she reveals that walking 10,000 steps a day was also key. “I weigh around 150lbs so walking 10k steps burns an extra 300-400 calories a day without spending hours on the stair master,” says Alexandra. “Walking can be done anywhere you don’t have to get fancy gym clothes you can literally walk in your pjs,” she adds. And, it helps regulate hunger. “Walking is not an extremely difficult exercise and it can help regulate your appetite hormones and reduce feelings of hunger,” she says.

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David Tuckfield Lost 60 Pounds EMS Workouts

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David Tuckfield, 61, dropped 60 pounds and reduced his body fat by 23 percent in 16 months by incorporating electro muscle stimulation (EMS) workouts into his routine, which he discovered at BODY20. “I was very skeptical when I first tried the EMS workouts. I was shocked after my demo workout how much I felt a difference,” he told Body Network. “For me, the amazing thing about the EMS workouts to me is that I can actually feel or sense my muscles. That was something that I had never experienced. At first I could feel them only during the workouts, but now when I exert myself I can discern which muscles are engaged. I don’t have huge or impressive muscles, but that I am more in-tune with the muscles I have. It is a good feeling to feel your muscles engage when you do an activity.” Another “great thing” about the workout “is that you really get a full workout (or better) in 20 minutes,” he says.

He Also Set Long-Term Goals

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He also started looking at weight loss as a long-term goal. “Don’t think short term. Think of it as a very long journey,” he suggests. “You will plateau, and you should just be comfortable with that. If you don’t stress out about the plateaus, you will eventually work through them.” Daily weigh-ins also helped him. “If you’ve gained weight, ask yourself what you did yesterday that would have made you gain weight. Usually the answer is obvious,” he says.

Joy Maria Lost 70 Pounds with Hot Girl Walks

Joy Maria (@therealjoyymaria/video) is a weight loss influencer and mother who lost 70 pounds in less than 11 months with the help of, wait for it, “Hot girl walks,” she reveals in a video. “Walking is a thousand percent, the most underrated way to lose weight,” she adds, “and one of my favorite things to do is walk.” She started walking to her errands, walking to and from workouts, and whenever else she could get steps in.

She Also Followed a Meal Plan

“If somebody is telling you that you can lose weight without being in a calorie deficit run because they're lying,” she adds, calling it “the most important step” to losing weight. “I know you guys have heard the saying, you cannot outrun a bad diet, and it's so true. Google, TDEE calculator. From there, put in your information. I'm gonna tell you exactly how many calories you need to eat. I ate about 1600 to 1800 calories daily, just depending on my activity level for the day. If I did two workouts that day, I would eat closer to 1800. If I had a more sedentary day, I would eat closer to 1500 to 1600.” She also followed a meal plan. “I have a seven day meal plan available at the top of my profile. It just makes it really easy when you're going to a grocery shop, when you're first starting out, when things are structured, it's gonna make it a lot easier to follow and just to stay consistent, not skipping breakfast, especially if we're exercising.”

Gen Cohen Lost 50 Pounds by Doing the 12-3-30

Gen Cohen, CNC, lost 50 pounds by doing a few different workouts, including the 12-3-30.

She said that “rather than subscribing to some crazy fitness routine, I'd commit to lifting weights three maximum four times per week and prioritize getting a 60 minute walk in per day,” in a video. “You can go to the gym and do 12-3-30. You can take your dog for a walk. You can get a walking pad and put it under your desk. I don't care how, just 60 minutes of walking.”

Joan Henning Lost 130 Pounds with Keto

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In 2019, Joan Henning started her 130-pound weight loss journey with the keto diet.“ I was able to start keto,” she says. She stayed on the low carb diet for “months.” While on keto, “I probably lost about 10 pounds because keto, it comes off quickly,” she said.

💪🔥Body Booster: Start your weight loss journey slowly and avoid an all-or-nothing mentality to prevent setting yourself up for failure. Focus on regaining self-trust by consistently following through with the promises you make to yourself.