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#1 Mistake That Prevents You From Losing Weight, According to Woman Who Lost 120 Lbs

One fitness expert explains that weight loss success isn’t just about calories in and out.

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It’s no secret that weight loss boils down to an equation: You need to burn more calories than you are taking in, otherwise known as a caloric deficit. However, before some people can get there, they may have to tackle mental obstacles. Indya Agos (@indyaagos) is a nutrition and fitness coach and social media influencer who has lost a whopping 120 pounds herself. In her videos she regularly shares the tips and tricks that helped her lose weight. In one viral video, she gets open and honest about the biggest mistake people make when trying to lose weight – and it has to do with their mind. The Body Network also asked The Diet Diva, Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CPT, a Board Certified Sports Dietitian, to weigh in.


She Says, “You Don’t Want It Bad Enough”

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“Girl, I don't think you're lazy. I just don't think you want it bad enough. How many times have you wanted something to happen in your life and you made it happen because that's how badly you wanted it?” she starts off by saying.

Not Knowing Where to Start Isn’t an Excuse. Just Start.

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“Saying, I have no idea where to start is an excuse. I understand that it's overwhelming, but you just have to start,” she continues.

Related: Here Is How to Lose Up to 20 Pounds in a Week, Says Expert

You Have to “Leave Your Comfort Zone”

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The “reason why you're not transforming your life is because you don't want to leave your comfort zone,” she maintains. “You prefer the comfort of your excuses versus facing your fears, which the underlying tone is you're scared to fail, right?”

Related: 6 Steps to Sculpt Your Ultimate Body While Melting Fat

If You Fail, You Will Learn From It

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“Failure is always an opportunity to learn, and you only fail if you quit. The only person that's holding you back from achieving the life that you want to live is yourself. And I tell you that with conviction,” she states.

Nothing Worked for Her “Until I Decided I Wanted It,” She Says

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“As somebody who's lost 120 pounds, nothing worked until I decided I wanted it. Nothing stuck until I decided I wanted it, and I went out there and I didn't take no for an answer from anyone, not even myself,” she concludes.

Related: Benchmark Your Progress with Our Lean Body Mass Calculator

RDN Weighs In

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“I agree wholeheartedly that a person needs to dig deeply into their motivations for making behavior change, especially when it comes to weight loss,” says Collingwood. “Exercise and pushing the plate away are really difficult habits to embrace. It is more fun to watch Netflix on the couch and eat yummy high calorie foods. If you don’t want it badly enough you might start but you won’t stick with it. I have people put their motivations on sticky notes around the house as reminders. I also have them review their plan every morning as part of their motivation for the day.”

💪🔥Body Booster:: Understanding your motivation plays a key part in weight loss. Spend a moment thinking about why you “want it” and remind yourself of that daily.

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It’s no secret that weight loss boils down to an equation: You need to burn more calories than you are taking in, otherwise known as a caloric deficit. However, before some people can get there, they may have to tackle mental obstacles. Indya Agos (@indyaagos) is a nutrition and fitness coach and social media influencer who has lost a whopping 120 pounds herself. In her videos she regularly shares the tips and tricks that helped her lose weight. In one viral video, she gets open and honest about the biggest mistake people make when trying to lose weight – and it has to do with their mind. The Body Network also asked The Diet Diva, Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CPT, a Board Certified Sports Dietitian, to weigh in.


She Says, “You Don’t Want It Bad Enough”

@indyaagos

Tell me I’m worng #weightlossmotivation #wightlossjourney #weightlossprogress #weightlosstransformation #fatlosstipsforwomen #fitnessmotivation #nutritiontipsforfatloss #weightlosscoach

“Girl, I don't think you're lazy. I just don't think you want it bad enough. How many times have you wanted something to happen in your life and you made it happen because that's how badly you wanted it?” she starts off by saying.

Not Knowing Where to Start Isn’t an Excuse. Just Start.

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“Saying, I have no idea where to start is an excuse. I understand that it's overwhelming, but you just have to start,” she continues.

Related: Here Is How to Lose Up to 20 Pounds in a Week, Says Expert

You Have to “Leave Your Comfort Zone”

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The “reason why you're not transforming your life is because you don't want to leave your comfort zone,” she maintains. “You prefer the comfort of your excuses versus facing your fears, which the underlying tone is you're scared to fail, right?”

Related: 6 Steps to Sculpt Your Ultimate Body While Melting Fat

If You Fail, You Will Learn From It

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“Failure is always an opportunity to learn, and you only fail if you quit. The only person that's holding you back from achieving the life that you want to live is yourself. And I tell you that with conviction,” she states.

Nothing Worked for Her “Until I Decided I Wanted It,” She Says

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“As somebody who's lost 120 pounds, nothing worked until I decided I wanted it. Nothing stuck until I decided I wanted it, and I went out there and I didn't take no for an answer from anyone, not even myself,” she concludes.

Related: Benchmark Your Progress with Our Lean Body Mass Calculator

RDN Weighs In

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“I agree wholeheartedly that a person needs to dig deeply into their motivations for making behavior change, especially when it comes to weight loss,” says Collingwood. “Exercise and pushing the plate away are really difficult habits to embrace. It is more fun to watch Netflix on the couch and eat yummy high calorie foods. If you don’t want it badly enough you might start but you won’t stick with it. I have people put their motivations on sticky notes around the house as reminders. I also have them review their plan every morning as part of their motivation for the day.”

💪🔥Body Booster:: Understanding your motivation plays a key part in weight loss. Spend a moment thinking about why you “want it” and remind yourself of that daily.

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Are you trying to lose weight but aren’t sure how? Dan Go, weight loss and fitness coach and founder of High Performance, successfully lost weight and is helping other people do the same. In a recent viral video, he reveals a few faux pas you might be making that are preventing you from losing weight. “Here are the five weight loss mistakes that have kept me fat and how to fix them,” he says.


Losing Weight Can Be Frustrating

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“Losing weight can be one of the most frustrating things that you do in your entire life. And a lot of people don't even know the hidden missteps that cause them to keep the weight on in the first place. And social media doesn't make this any easier. If you've ever been on social media, you have seen every single food on a planet being demonized in one way or the other,” he says. “And you've also had people that simplify the process of weight loss by just telling you to eat less and move more, which is as helpful as telling someone who wants to make money to just earn more and spend less.”

However, It’s Probably Because You Are Making Mistakes

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“The truth about losing weight is that you don't have bad genetics, you don't have a slow metabolism, nor are you too old,” he says. “Instead, there are a few hidden mistakes that keep you from losing fat despite all of your hard work.”

Mistake 1: Underestimating How Much Food Is Going Into Your Body

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“Mistake number one is underestimating how much food was going into my body,” he explains. “When I first started to lose weight, I was eating healthy, but then every time I would step on the scale, I would see the same number, and sometimes I would even see the weight scale go up. I thought my metabolism was getting slow and I was getting too old. Mind you, I was 30 years old at this time. The truth was I wasn't tracking my food properly.”

Count Your Calories

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“Now, one thing I need to mention is that calories are not all that matter, but they still do matter,” he says, admitting that he didn’t realize how many calories he was consuming even though he was eating healthy food. “Now, this doesn't mean that you have to track for the rest of your life, but you do want to get really exact about how much each food looks. And what I mean by that is, putting the raw versions of these foods on a weight scale, and you wanna be tracking it by the grams,” he says. “Also, you'll be so surprised at what slips through the cracks in terms of the things that you snack on, the sauces that you use, and all other forms of just hidden calories that you're not even privy to in the first place.”

Mistake 2: Putting Too Much Emphasis on Cardio and Running

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“My next mistake is something that I see a lot of people doing, which is putting too much of an emphasis on cardio,” he says. He says that he sees a lot of people running to lose weight. “One of the worst ways to lose weight is being in a calorie deficit and using running or cardio as your primary means of exercise,” he says. “Yes, you are going to lose weight, but a significant portion of that weight is gonna be muscle as well.”

Instead, Walk

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Instead, he recommends walking 10,000 steps a day. Or, if you are running, you need to supplement with strength training.

Mistake 3: Not Eating Enough Protein

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Mistake number three is not eating enough protein. He explains that when you do this, you might lose body fat and lean mass. “The reality is that when you lose lean mass along with body fat, what happens as a result is your metabolism goes down.”

RELATED: The Ultimate Guide to Getting Fit as a Pear Body Type

Split Up Protein Intake Throughout the Day

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Protein is the single most important macronutrient when it comes to changing your body composition when it comes to losing weight,” he notes. “When it comes to building a physique, a high protein intake reduces appetite and also balances a lot of weight-regulating hormones. Most importantly, it helps you keep, if not build, all of that hard-earned muscle. Now, in order to maintain muscle, if not build some muscle, you want to keep yourself at 0.8 to one gram per pound of body weight. And you wanna split this up between three to four meals a day. And this is gonna help you go from just losing weight to actually burning body fat.”

Mistake 4: Taking Flexible Dieting Way Too Far

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The fourth mistake is “taking flexible dieting way too far,” he says. “In the fitness circles, you're going to see a lot of people saying that you need to keep your diet flexible in order to make this thing sustainable. And as long as calories are kept equal, you are going to lose weight regardless of the types of foods that you put into your body.” While he agrees there are benefits, “it doesn't really work well for people who have legit food addictions to the point where they will eat junk food to the level of being in a food coma. It's like telling someone who has a legit food addiction towards chips that they can eat chips as part of their healthy lifestyle is like telling an alcoholic that they can have a shot at bourbon to keep things flexible.”

Set Boundaries and Rules

“If there's anything that I know about addictions, I've dealt with it in my life. It's the fact that abstinence is one of the best tools when it comes to removing addiction from your life,” he admits. “Now, this doesn't mean that your life has to be all about just eating whole foods and single-ingredient foods and all that kind of stuff. What this means is that you should have very hard and set boundaries and rules, especially if food addiction has been an issue in your life. Being flexible is cool when it comes to your diet, but also you have to understand your limits as well, especially if you have ever dealt with any type of food addiction.”

RELATED: Top 20 Superfoods You Should Eat Every Day After Age 50

Mistake 5: Focusing Too Much on Weight Loss

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“Now my final mistake, my fly in the face of everything that I just talked about, which is the concept of just focusing way too much on weight loss,” he says. “Something I realized on my journey to get lean is the fact that I had no control over what the scale told me every single day that I stepped on it. I had no control over my inches. I had no control over these outcomes. The only thing I did have control over was the foods that I was putting into my mouth, the exercises that I was doing, the information that I was taking in to get myself to this place that I needed to be.”

Instead, Focus on Your Healthy Lifestyle

“Something I realized is that the more you obsess about outcomes, the more you invite anxiety into your life. And this is because you're trying to control something that you just don't have any control over. My biggest win when it came to this whole getting in shape process was letting go of even trying to lose weight in the first place and putting the focus on the person that I was becoming and the lifestyle that I was creating,” he admits. “So that weight loss or getting lean or burning body fat was just a byproduct of my behaviors and actions. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you trying to lose weight but aren’t really getting anywhere? According to experts, you might be going about your weight loss journey the wrong way. In fact, even some of the top diet and fitness experts have made weight loss mistakes themselves. Body Network spoke to a few trainers and nutritionists and asked them about the biggest missteps they took on their fitness journeys.


1. Going Overboard with Calorie Counting

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While it is good to keep tabs on your food consumption, Risa Sheppard, Master Pilates trainer, creator of The Sheppard Method, advises not to go overboard. “Counting every calorie of every piece of food,” is one of the mistakes she made. “It became time consuming and frustrating.”

Related: I Lost Belly Fat & 17 Pounds With These 6 Simple Hacks

2. Starving Your Body of Carbs

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Mr. America Jason Kozma, a personal trainer in Los Angeles, reveals the biggest mistake he made while preparing for a bodybuilding competition. “I had gotten too heavy bulking up to add more muscle mass,” he explains. He spent four months dieting for a spring show “and still didn’t get in shape.” After a short break he reset his goal to a fall show and dove headlong into his diet. “I was using an extremely low carb approach as I felt I had too much fat yet to burn. What I actually did was I starved my muscles of carbohydrates for so long that at the end my body couldn’t assimilate carbohydrates and I couldn’t ‘pump u’ for the show,” he continues. “My body fat measured lower than ever for this show but I didn’t look as good as I had a year and a half prior at a higher body fat level. The net result was that I lost muscle using this approach: I was actually smaller and lighter than I was before the ‘bulk up.’” Note: He still won the show!

3. Doing Too Much Cardio

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Diet and fitness expert Adita Yrizarry-Lang, ISCA, NASM, ACE, AFAA, reveals that one of the biggest mistakes she made was doing too much cardio. “When I first started in fitness, this was the prescription…do a lot of cardio. The reality is that you burn more calories when you have muscle on your body, combining weights with cardio is the right way to do it,” she says.

4. Not Looking at Serving Size on Packages

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Yrizarry-Lang claims that another mistake is only looking at calories on a package, and not the serving size. “We were mesmerized by the lo-cal labeling on a package,” she says. “Unfortunately, we never looked at the serving size and then came to realize we were ingesting too many calories at a time.”

5. Falling Victim to Low Fat, Highly Processed Foods

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Just because something is low-fat doesn’t make it healthy. Yrizarry-Lang says that some people consume “too many processed carbs, because they are low fat.” While this might be okay for runners, going for 10 to 20 mile runs, “those carbs convert to fat,” for most of us.

Related: Alexia Clark Flaunts Chiseled Midsection and Reveals 3 Ab Mistakes You Are Making

6. Daily Weigh-Ins

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Weighing oneself every single day is another mistake, says Sheppard. “It can be discouraging,” she explains. “Try to weigh yourself less and pay more attention to how your clothes are fitting. Remember muscle weighs more fat so if you are on an intense exercise regime the muscle you gain will trim in less but may not show on the scale.”

7. Crash Diets

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If a diet seems too good to be true, it probably is. “The all-time worst” mistake people make is going on crash diets. Why? You might “lose weight at the moment” but you will “gain it back with a few extra pounds,” says Yrizarry-Lang. “This slows down the metabolism and makes it even harder to lose weight at a later date.”

8. Focusing on Exercise for Weight Loss

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One of the biggest mistakes people make is “thinking more exercise will cause them to lose weight,” says Sheppard. “80 percent is dieting and 20 percent is exercise,” she reminds.

9. Falling Victim to “Get Thin Fast” Scams

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Sheppard strongly advises against any products or diet that claim to help with rapid weight loss. “Do not succumb to quick weight loss scams or dangerous pills. Remember Rome wasn’t built in a day and neither is weight loss,” she says.

Related: 15 Foods That Fight Fat

10. Comparing Yourself to Others

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Remember that your fitness journey is your own and “comparing yourself to other people” will “only add to your stress and discouragement,” says Sheppard. “We are all built differently with different bone structure and hereditary genes. Love who you are inside and it will reflect on your outside.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Beware of low-fat, processed foods. Unless you run for 20 miles a day, you should probably pass on a highly processed energy bar – those carbs might convert to fat unless you are working them off.

Are you trying to lose weight but not finding much success? It’s possible you are making a common mistake. Juliana Crispo is a mom of 2 kids 3 and under, a Lifetime Natural Pro Bikini Champion in 2 Federations, and a former successful Silicon Valley-based tech executive and entrepreneur.
”Today, we're talking about weight loss myths. I'm someone that has made every single one of these mistakes,” she says. “These are mistakes that I made for years on my fitness journey.”


Mistake 1: Only Exercising

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“Mistake number one, I thought for the longest time that exercise was the key to fat loss,” she says. “What I would do is I would go to the gym, I'd get on a cardio machine, I'd screw around with some weights, and then I'd go home, and I would just eat like I normally did, but I would also overcompensate because I was hungry from all that cardio. Cardio just makes me ravenous.”

She Walks

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Now, she avoids intense cardio. “This is why now my main source of cardio is just walking 8,000 to 10,000 steps a day because it doesn't make me very hungry,” she explains.

Mistake 2: Not Getting Into a Calorie Deficit

“Also, when I'm just getting into a new weight loss phase, I prioritize getting my calorie deficit down first,” she says. “I'll take one, up to two weeks just to master my calorie deficit before I even touch exercise. The reality is you don't even need exercise to lose fat. Just eat in a calorie deficit.”

Also, Make Sure to Strength Train

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Don’t Overlook Strength Training. Cardio activity is just a tool to make it go faster, and strength training is what gives your body shape so you don't get skinny fat.

RELATED:12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster

Mistake 3: Relying on Intuitive Eating

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Her third mistake? “I believed intuitive eating would work for me,” she says. “Intuitive eating is a way of eating popularized by this book, and it took off in the height of diet culture because so many people have had horrible experiences with dieting.” She explains that in the boo, there are ten principles of intuitive eating, “but the general gist is to be mindful and eat when you're hungry and stop when you're full.”

Lots of Influencers Rely on Intuitive Eating

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“Many fitness influencers to this day talk about intuitive eating as a good approach to weight loss. For example, one of the first fitness influencers I ever followed was Buff Bunny, and she posted a video called This Diet Worked for Me. In this video, she talks about how she used intuitive eating to lose weight because you don't have to track anything.”

RELATED: This Plan Is How to Lose 5 Percent Body Fat In 2 Weeks

It’s Not Great for Fat Loss

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However, there is a “flip side,” she points out. And that is, many people maintain intuitive eating, which isn’t great for fat loss. “For the longest period of time, I felt like something was wrong with me because I couldn't just listen to my body. It wasn't until I started tracking and weighing my food that I really started to learn putting a meal together with enough protein, carbs, and fats really makes me feel full, and then I'm able to do other things besides focus on food for a solid three to four hours. It was great.”

Mistake 4: Fear of Tracking Calories

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Her next mistake? “I was afraid of tracking calories and weighing my food,” she says. For example, chicken and broccoli can help you gain weight, but if you eat too much of it, you will gain weight. You can benchmark your progress with this useful Lean Body Mass Calculator.

You Can Gain Weight From Healthy Food

“I got chubbier from eating chicken and broccoli because I felt so deprived of the foods I really loved,” she says. “While trying to eat clean with this chicken and broccoli diet, I would binge on foods I actually craved late at night.”

Portion Size Matters

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“However, had I invested time upfront in just learning from tracking and weighing my food, I could have learned that there's no such thing as unhealthy or bad foods,” she says. The important thing is focusing on “healthy portion sizes, and so I could still enjoy all the things I love in moderation on my weight loss journey without creating these fear foods of anything that fell outside of my chicken and broccoli meal plan,” she says.

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You Won’t Have to Track and Weigh Food Forever

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“You don't have to track and weigh your food forever. Even a lot of fitness influencers say they'll go from periods of intuitive eating where they just listen to their body a little bit, and then when they start to get a little bit more fluffy, they'll bring it in, they'll start tracking and weighing their food. Again, it's not about being married to your food scale or MyFitnessPal. It's about learning and then unlearning along your journey.”

Mistake 5: Not Understanding Macros

Mistake 5? “I didn't understand how to allocate macros when I was in my dieting phase,” she says. “Many of you know macros are just protein, carbs, and fats. They serve different purposes to nourish your body. At the end of the day, the only thing that matters is being in a calorie deficit.”

Make Sure to Fill Up

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“However, the key to sustaining a calorie deficit is just don't get hungry. That's the name of the game. Don't get hungry. As soon as you get hungry, all bets are off. The little hangry monster comes out, and it's just, it's just bad.”

Pay Attention to Your Macro Breakdown

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“Having a general idea of the macronutrient distribution you're consuming is very important to make sure that you stay feeling full, and if you stay full, you're more likely to adhere to your calorie deficit,” she says. “A macro breakdown that works for me to keep staying full, feeling satiated, and adhering to my calorie deficit is having about 30% of my calorie deficit coming from protein, 30% coming from fat, and about 40% coming from carbohydrates.”

RELATED: 4 Meals I Ate to Lose 30 Pounds in 12 Weeks

If You Don’t, You Could End Up Binging

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“What happens if I'm not in the ballpark generally of hitting these macros over a period of a few days is on like day three, I'll start to get really hungry, and then all of a sudden I find myself like wandering into a seven 11 and just buying donuts and eating them, and I don't know what happened.”

Mistake 6: Overcompensating

The next mistake is “huge,” she says. “I would try to overcompensate when I had one of my 7-Eleven freakouts. This was mainly more so in my bikini competitor days because you had to be so black and white about your diet. What would happen is when I messed up somehow, I just like ate a donut or three, I would try and overcompensate the next day by doing more cardio or trying to eat fewer carbs and fats, and this was just a recipe for this horrible cycle of binging and over-exercising and feeling horrible, and that's just no way to live.”

Don’t Fall Into the “Binge and Restrict” Cycle

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“Now, if that happens and I overeat on my diet for the day, I just stick to what I would normally eat on my daily diet, almost as if that 7-Eleven incident never happened. I just learn from it, and I move on. So whatever you do, if you ever have a mess up in your diet, don't ever, ever, ever try and overcompensate by doing more cardio or eating less. Just eat as if you would normally eat so that you don't fall into any binge and restrict cycle,” she suggests.

Mistake 7: Fear of Building Muscle

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Her next mistake? “I was afraid of building muscle,” she says. She explains that building muscle is great because “the more mass and the more muscle that I have, the more I weigh, the more I can eat and not gain too much fat,” she says.

RELATED: What Would Happen to Your Body if You Only Ate Eggs for 30 Days

You Can Reshape Your Body with Exercise and Nutrition

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“It took me years of focused effort in the gym and being methodical about my nutrition to put on the muscle mass I was able to achieve here. The cool thing I've learned through bodybuilding is that you can use training to emphasize certain parts of your body and de-emphasize others,” she says. “You can literally reshape your body with the right training and nutrition, and that's what I love so much about lifting weights.”

Mistake 8: Not Stacking Habits

“If I were to stack priorities when it comes to actually losing fat, it would go like this. Very foundational sleep. Get your sleep in order. Second thing, get your calorie deficit in order. Third thing, do some strength training. Focus on maintaining as much muscle mass as you have, and then maybe consider adding in some cardio,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? Make this year your weight loss success story by avoiding some diet and fitness strategies that may be backfiring. Tameika Gentles is a fitness coach and weight loss warrior who dropped a whopping 100 pounds sustainably. In a new post, she reveals a few of the things she avoided doing that enabled her to lose a lot of weight. “5 controversial things I DO NOT recommend if you’re trying to lose 50 pounds or more (and I’ve lost 100 lbs…),” she writes across the Instagram video.


She’s Lost 100 Pounds and Kept It Off After Failing Over and Over Again

“I’ve been there—tried it all and failed HARD. But after losing 100 lbs and keeping it off, here’s what I’ve learned,” she continues in the post. “And what I’m sharing isn’t about what’s good or bad—it’s about what’s NOT necessary for long-term success.”

You “Don’t Need to Do” These 5 Things to Lose Weight

“No shame to those who choose these methods—do what works for YOU! This message is for the people who feel like they have to follow these trends to succeed. I’m here to tell you: you don’t. If you’re kicking off your weight loss journey in 2025, here are five things you don’t need to do,” she says.

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1. Fasting

Fasting is the first thing you don’t need to do in order to lose weight. “Fasting can work for some, but it’s not a must for results. Skipping meals often leads to overeating later, slows your metabolism, and can mess with your hormones. Sustainable weight loss is about finding balance, not extremes,” she writes.

2. Low Carb Diet

The second thing you don’t need to do? Go on low-carb diets. “Cutting carbs might lead to quick results, but is it realistic for life? Carbs fuel your body and mind—they’re not the enemy. You don’t need to cut out entire food groups to see progress,” she says.

3. Excessive Exercise

The third thing you don’t need to do? Excessive exercise. “More isn’t always better. It’s about consistency. 30 minutes of daily movement for a year beats an intense 3-week overhaul that leads to burnout and months of inactivity,” she writes.

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4. Detoxes

Number four? Detoxes. “Save your money. Your liver and kidneys are built-in detox powerhouses. Most detoxes are unnecessary (and some are even harmful). Focus on real, nourishing food instead,” she says.

5. Weight Loss Pills/Supplements

Weight loss pills and supplements are also not needed. “They’re often unregulated, unsustainable, and don’t address the behaviors that lead to lasting change. I lost 100 lbs without them, and my clients succeed without them, too. You don’t need them,” she says.

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Instead, Focus on Balance, Consistency, and What Works for You

“The key to sustainable weight loss isn’t doing what’s trendy—it’s finding what works for YOU. Starting your 2025 journey? Remember, you don’t need to follow extreme trends to see real, lasting progress. Focus on balance, consistency, and what fits your life,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians strives to be objective, unbiased, and honest.

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Are you trying to glow-up and transform your body? It may be as simple as shifting your mindset, says one expert. Raman Sekhon is a weight loss warrior and PCOS coach who transformed her life by making some changes. In a new pose she reveals some of the simple things she did that helped her achieve success. “I’ve lost 15 lbs in the past 3ish months, but the biggest transformation wasn’t my body.. it was my mindset,” she says. She then goes on to reveal “5 things that changed everything” for her “can change it for you, too.”

She Started Saying No

“I started saying no to the things that don’t serve me anymore,” is the first thing she did. “For the longest time out of guilt I would say yes to things that just didn’t make me feel good, like when people would tell me to drink alcohol or eat certain foods even though I knew they just weren’t going to make feel good. but I just didn’t want to say no and hurt their feelings.bI started choosing myself first and saying no kindly!”

She Started Priotizing Herself

She also prioritized herself. “Choosing to show up for myself every day even on the days I didn’t want to, because I deserve to prioritize myself,” she writes.

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She Focused on Results

“Trusting the process instead of focusing on the results,” is the third shift she made. “It’s so easy to get focused on where you want to go, but learning to trust the process and enjoy it will make it a lot easier and enjoyable! I like to think of it as delayed gratification,” she writes.

Walking 10,000 Steps Per Day

Another healthy habit that was a game-changer? “Walking every day!” she says. “Goal is to hit more than 10k steps - it’s honestly the easiest way to burn fat without feeling like you’re trying to lose weight.” A 2018 study published in the journal Obesity found a link between walking 10,000 steps a day and weight loss and weight management. Other studies published by the Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine also linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure and fewer strokes.

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Doing Things to Feel Good

Her final shift? Changing her reason why. “Shifting my mindset from saying things like ‘I have to do it’ to ‘I choose to do it because it makes me feel good,’” she writes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians strives to be objective, unbiased, and honest.

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Are you looking for a new method to help you lose weight fast and keep it off? One expert claims to have the magic formula. Keith Ozment is a fitness and weight loss coach specializing in helping people over 30 "repair metabolism, build muscle & burn fat!" he writes in his Instagram bio. In a new post, he reveals his no-fail method to get his clients in the best shape of their lives. "I wish more people 40+ knew how easy it is to lose fat with the 40-30-20 Method. It's not what you think," he wrote across the Instagram video. He goes on to explain how it works.

Start Your Day with 40 Grams of Protein

First, the 40. "Start your day with 40g of protein. A breakfast smoothie with protein powder, berries, and almond milk or overnight oats with Greek yogurt and protein powder are great options," he writes in. his post. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW) but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

Walk for 30 Minutes

Next up, the 30. "Walk for 30 minutes daily. Split it into two 15-minute sessions if needed. Walking boosts metabolism, reduces stress, and aids fat loss," he says. A 2018 study published in the journal Obesity found a link between walking 10,000 steps a day and weight loss and weight management. Other studies published by the Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine also linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure and fewer strokes.

Lift Weights for 20 Minutes

And finally, the 20. "Dedicate 20 minutes to weightlifting 3-4 days a week," he adds. According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills.

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He goes onto reveal a simple 4-day split:

Day 1: Upper Body Push

  • Push-Ups or Chest Press (3×12)
  • Dumbbell Shoulder Press (3×10-12)
  • Tricep Dips or Overhead Extensions (3×12).

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Day 2: Lower Body

  • Goblet Squats (3×12)
  • Romanian Deadlifts (3×10-12)
  • Glute Bridges or Step-Ups (3×12/leg).

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Day 3: Upper Body Pull

  • Bent-Over Rows (3×12)
  • Pull-Ups or Lat Pulldown (3×10-12)
  • Bicep Curls (3×12).

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Day 4: Full Body + Core

  • Deadlifts (3×12)
  • Dumbbell Clean and Press (3×10)
  • Plank Holds (3×30-60 sec)

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Do you find yourself struggling to look over your shoulder while driving? Maybe you're battling with that persistent ache between your shoulder blades after a long day at work, or you can't seem to reach overhead without discomfort. These are all telltale signs of reduced thoracic mobility – a common condition that's affecting more people than ever before.

Meet Liv, a mobility expert who's transformed not only her own upper back pain but also helped her 500K YouTube subscribers discover the power of mobility-based strength training. Through her innovative 'Yoga Rebel Method,' she combines strength training and yoga to create effective, accessible solutions for everyday mobility challenges.

"You may not even realize this, but chances are you have reduced mobility in your thoracic spine," Liv explains. "That can look like stiffness in the shoulders and struggling to lift your arms overhead, or perhaps a throbbing burning pain between your shoulder blades and towards your neck after a long day at the desk."

Why These Moves Matter

"Reduced thoracic mobility has been widely studied and shown to directly correlate to increased prevalence of upper back, shoulder, and neck pain," Liv shares in her post. Instead of waiting for pain to develop, she's developed three quick, beginner-friendly exercises that can make a significant difference in just five minutes.

The Game-Changing First Move: Thoracic Pullover

"This is by far my favorite because I found it to be the most effective," Liv reveals. "It's an absolute game changer for your overhead reach and your shoulder mobility." All you need is a light weight and either a yoga block or foam roller.

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Setting Up for Success

Proper setup is crucial for this exercise. "Position the foam roller or yoga block beneath your upper back right below the point where your shoulder blades end," Liv instructs. She emphasizes keeping your "knees bent and feet on the ground so that your lower back stays in a neutral position."

Perfect Your Pullover Form

"Take your weight lengthways into both hands and reach it up towards the sky," Liv guides. The movement should be controlled and mindful. "Think of reaching the weight backwards as opposed to downward here, as if you're trying to make your arms feel as long as they possibly can."

Avoid Common Mistakes

Liv points out a crucial form tip: "Your body will naturally want your belly to press forwards to make this move easier, but unfortunately less effective." Instead, she advises to "keep a slight bit of tension in your core here to keep your lower back in neutral." Remember, "Yours does not need to look the same as mine. This just depends on your range of motion."

Advanced Pullover Options

For those looking to progress, Liv suggests using an exercise bench: "You also have the option of dropping the hips lower than the chest as the arms extend to put a greater stretch on the lats and chase some bigger mobility gains." Start with 10 repetitions, focusing on quality over quantity.

The Power of Rotation

The second exercise targets rotational mobility – a crucial movement pattern that Liv explains has surprising benefits. "Not only does this range of motion make reversing the car much easier, but training your rotational mobility is going to improve your core strength, improve your lower back health, and is likely to improve your hip mobility as well."

Master the Twist

Lying on your side with knees bent at 90 degrees, extend your weighted arm toward the ceiling. "Allow that weight to keep traveling into the twist as far as your body is capable," Liv guides. "That might be all the way to the floor or it might not. Either is fine. Everyone is different."

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Progress Your Rotation

For those ready for more challenge, Liv offers a progression: "If your arm quite comfortably makes it all the way to the floor and this doesn't feel too challenging for you, do this exercise with the bottom leg slid out straight. This allows the top knee to drop to the floor, creating a deeper twist in the body." Take six repetitions on each side.

The Ultimate Doorway Stretch

The final exercise, which Liv describes as "so satisfying," requires only a doorway, pole, or wall. "I love this move for how many areas it targets all at once," she shares. This comprehensive stretch brings together all elements of thoracic mobility.

Perfect Your Stretch Position

Position yourself about a forearm's distance from your chosen surface. "Take your outer leg, the one furthest away from the wall, and cross it behind the other leg, placing down onto the knife edge of the foot," Liv instructs. Then, "reach up as far as you can with the arm furthest from the wall, then reach overhead to grab the frame or simply place your fingertips onto the wall."

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Maximize the Stretch

The key to this stretch is in the details: "Use the bottom hand to press the wall away from you, allowing your body to lean away from the wall into a little bit of a banana shape." Liv explains that "the top hand grips and pulls back against the frame or the pole, and then think of turning your chest up towards the ceiling to really get into that side body stretch."

Creating Lasting Change

Hold each stretch for 20-30 seconds, repeating 2-3 times per side. As Liv confirms, "In just five minutes of these moves, you can make an impactful difference to your thoracic mobility and subsequently the quality of your life and how good you feel living within your body."

Transform your upper back mobility today with these simple yet powerful exercises. As Liv's experience shows, just five minutes of focused mobility work can lead to significant improvements in how you move and feel. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss these 3 Simple Stretches Made This Coach More Flexible in 2 Weeks.