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This Coach Transformed Her Body After Stopping These 5 Common Mistakes

One expert reveals mistakes she made and what to do instead.

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Are your diet and fitness mistakes keeping you from achieving your body transformation goals? You might be making them and don’t even know it. Tay, one half of Healthy Living with Brooke and Tay, is a DPT and Certified Macro Coach who, along with her sister, helps simplify fat loss for women. In a new Instagram post, she discusses her own journey and what she has learned along the way. “These mistakes were costing me TIME & progress,” she writes, going on to reveal 5 of them and also revealing what she did instead that helped her shape up fast.


Mistake One: Not Eating Enough

Her first mistake? “Not eating enough,” she reveals in her post. “This is the biggest factor. In order to build muscle, you need to be eating at maintenance or even slightly above/ surplus. Yes, you may gain muscle initially with a deficit, but eating for too long in a deficit does not help build muscle.”

RELATED: Woman Lost Fat in Her 40s by Doing These 2 Things

Mistake Two: Fasted Workouts

Her second mistake? “Working out fasted,” she writes. “If you work out super early, try having carbs pre-workout to help give you the energy you need. Aim for about 30-45 grams of carbs. I eat a banana & rice cake before my morning workout/ walk since I get up at 4:45.”

Mistake Three: Not Upping Weights

Mistake number 3: This is failing to abide by the principle of progressive overload. “Using the same weights,” she says. “You can’t stay at the same weight forever. Increase the weight, even if you get fewer reps.”

Mistake Four: Not Going Through the Full Range of Motion

Next up, she messed up by only partially doing exercises. “Go through the full range of motion. This is key. Aim for performing exercises slowly, intentionally & focus on going through the whole range of motion,” she says.

Mistake Five: Being Scared of Eating More

Mistake five has to do with diet. “Being scared of eating more. This ties back to number 1, but just try it out. I get it can be scary. I have upped my carbs from 200 to 300 in the past months & I have nothing negative to say. I am eating about 2,300 calories daily & will continue to eat more. From someone who barely ate above 1,400 calories a few years ago, this is huge,” she says.

RELATED: She Lost 12 Pounds in 90 Days by Adding This One Thing to Her Walking Routine

What She Did Instead: Amped Up Protein

In another post, she reveals other habits that helped her transform her body. “I enjoyed high protein meals and ate four meals a day,” she says. She specified she “hit my protein goal” daily. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW) but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

What She Did Instead: Walked More

She also started walking more. “I walked 10k steps a day,” she writes. She also “walked in the AM” to ensure she didn’t bow out. A 2018 study published in the journal Obesity found a link between walking 10,000 steps a day and weight loss and weight management. Other studies published by the Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine also linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure, and fewer strokes.

What She Did Instead: Counted Macros and Ate Whole Foods

“I focused on macros & whole ingredients,” she continued. “I still indulged in some of my favorite foods from time to time without tracking.” She strongly recommends learning how to calculate yours. “I had NO idea how learning about macros would better my life. Prior, I had no idea about proteins, carbs & fats and why all are important & how they help fuel me and give me energy,” she says.

RELATED: 8 Foods a Doctor Says to Eat Because "Your Body's Going to Struggle to Hold Onto That as Fat"

What She Did Instead: She Slept More

Getting enough rest was also a game-changer. She “slept well” during her fat loss period. What are the health benefits of sleep? According to the Sleep Foundation, getting enough z’s is a mood booster, promotes heart health, regulates blood sugar, improves mental function, restores your immune system, helps relieve stress, and aids in weight loss. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss 12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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Are your diet and fitness mistakes keeping you from achieving your body transformation goals? You might be making them and don’t even know it. Tay, one half of Healthy Living with Brooke and Tay, is a DPT and Certified Macro Coach who, along with her sister, helps simplify fat loss for women. In a new Instagram post, she discusses her own journey and what she has learned along the way. “These mistakes were costing me TIME & progress,” she writes, going on to reveal 5 of them and also revealing what she did instead that helped her shape up fast.


Mistake One: Not Eating Enough

Her first mistake? “Not eating enough,” she reveals in her post. “This is the biggest factor. In order to build muscle, you need to be eating at maintenance or even slightly above/ surplus. Yes, you may gain muscle initially with a deficit, but eating for too long in a deficit does not help build muscle.”

RELATED: Woman Lost Fat in Her 40s by Doing These 2 Things

Mistake Two: Fasted Workouts

Her second mistake? “Working out fasted,” she writes. “If you work out super early, try having carbs pre-workout to help give you the energy you need. Aim for about 30-45 grams of carbs. I eat a banana & rice cake before my morning workout/ walk since I get up at 4:45.”

Mistake Three: Not Upping Weights

Mistake number 3: This is failing to abide by the principle of progressive overload. “Using the same weights,” she says. “You can’t stay at the same weight forever. Increase the weight, even if you get fewer reps.”

Mistake Four: Not Going Through the Full Range of Motion

Next up, she messed up by only partially doing exercises. “Go through the full range of motion. This is key. Aim for performing exercises slowly, intentionally & focus on going through the whole range of motion,” she says.

Mistake Five: Being Scared of Eating More

Mistake five has to do with diet. “Being scared of eating more. This ties back to number 1, but just try it out. I get it can be scary. I have upped my carbs from 200 to 300 in the past months & I have nothing negative to say. I am eating about 2,300 calories daily & will continue to eat more. From someone who barely ate above 1,400 calories a few years ago, this is huge,” she says.

RELATED: She Lost 12 Pounds in 90 Days by Adding This One Thing to Her Walking Routine

What She Did Instead: Amped Up Protein

In another post, she reveals other habits that helped her transform her body. “I enjoyed high protein meals and ate four meals a day,” she says. She specified she “hit my protein goal” daily. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW) but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

What She Did Instead: Walked More

She also started walking more. “I walked 10k steps a day,” she writes. She also “walked in the AM” to ensure she didn’t bow out. A 2018 study published in the journal Obesity found a link between walking 10,000 steps a day and weight loss and weight management. Other studies published by the Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine also linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure, and fewer strokes.

What She Did Instead: Counted Macros and Ate Whole Foods

“I focused on macros & whole ingredients,” she continued. “I still indulged in some of my favorite foods from time to time without tracking.” She strongly recommends learning how to calculate yours. “I had NO idea how learning about macros would better my life. Prior, I had no idea about proteins, carbs & fats and why all are important & how they help fuel me and give me energy,” she says.

RELATED: 8 Foods a Doctor Says to Eat Because "Your Body's Going to Struggle to Hold Onto That as Fat"

What She Did Instead: She Slept More

Getting enough rest was also a game-changer. She “slept well” during her fat loss period. What are the health benefits of sleep? According to the Sleep Foundation, getting enough z’s is a mood booster, promotes heart health, regulates blood sugar, improves mental function, restores your immune system, helps relieve stress, and aids in weight loss. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss 12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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Are you trying to lose weight but are holding on to bad habits? Adelina Jordan is a 52-year-old fitness trainer and coach whose mission is “proving age is just a number,” according to her Instagram bio. In a new post she reveals some changes she made to her routine that enabled her to get into her best shape ever. “Entering my 50s I realized I had to let go of some habits that were holding me back from becoming my best self .. physically and mentally,” she writes. “5 habits that I broke up with in my 50s that transformed my body and mind.”

Shifting Goals From Losing Weight to Building Muscle

The first thing she did was switch from scale weight goals to strength and muscle building. “I stopped focusing on the number on the scale and shifted my focus to building strength and muscle. This mindset change has not only improved my physique but is key to overall health and longevity,” she writes.

Committing to Consistent Strength Training and Daily Movement

She also started working out daily. “I now prioritize strength training 4-5 days a week, along with hitting 8-10k steps daily. This combination has helped me stay active, strong, and energized every day,” she writes. “I no longer look for the latest Instagram workouts or the cardio that has the most intensity. Progressive overload training and daily walks are key components to my regimen.”

Less People Pleasing, More Peace

Next, she did less people pleasing and found peace. “I learned to say ‘no’ when necessary and placed firm boundaries, prioritizing my peace and mental well-being over trying to make everyone else happy. My circle has become smaller but I now enjoy quality time with those whose morals and values are in line with my own,” she writes.

Focusing on Nutrition

She also started recognizing nutrition is key to maintaining her physique. “I’ve learned that fueling my body with whole foods, hitting my protein goals, and meal prepping are essential to staying on track and maintaining my progress. Nutrition is the foundation of both my health and my physique,” she writes.

Finding Balance for a Sustainable Lifestyle

Finally she discovered balance, which helped her maintain a sustainable lifestyle. “Moderation is key. Instead of labeling foods as ‘good’ or ‘bad,’ I’ve embraced a balanced approach to eating and living. This mindset shift has made accountability and control more manageable, allowing me to enjoy the journey without feeling restricted,” she writes. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI Hit 60 and These 15 Anti-Aging Foods Keep Me Fit and Feeling 20 Years Younger.

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Dierdre Rae is showing off her before-and-after transformation – in a crop top. In a new social media post, the London-based certified health and wellness coach discusses her health journey, revealing how she overcame an eating disorder to become the healthiest version of herself. In the before photo from 2019, she did “hours of exercise every day, massively undereating for days and then binging, the body is constantly swollen and bloated.” Now, in 2024, she has a more balanced approach to diet and exercise and is healthier than ever. Here is how she did it.


She Achieved “Food Freedom” After a 10-Year-Long Eating Disorder Battle

“Food freedom is never something I thought I’d be able to have (for reference, I’m around the same weight in both photos). It was a 10-year battle, but here we are over 5 years later - intuitive eating, never calorie counting, doing the exercise I enjoy, resting without guilt, and not constantly thinking and worrying about food/body image,” she writes in her post. “If you’re struggling, I have a free binge guide in my bio 🫶🏻 (just some tips from me that helped heal binge eating habits for myself, some of my friends, and clients 💗), but here are a few things that helped me start to recover.”

She Read This Book

First, she suggests ordering a book. Buying the book ‘brain over binge’ by Kathryn Hansen (in her Amazon storefront or on audible, was a game-changer. “There’s a book and a recovery guide, make sure you get the book,” she says.

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She Balanced Her Breakfast

Next, she tackled her diet, starting with breakfast. “Eating a balanced breakfast (protein, fats, AND carbs) the morning after a binge/overeating to balance out blood sugars,” she says.

She Quit Dieting

After years of yo-yo dieting and seriously restricting food, Dierdre gave up crash diets for good. “I completely stopped dieting and trying to lose weight (had to sit with that anxiety),” she writes.

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She Reversed Negative Thoughts

She also changed her thought process. “I started standing up for myself by not letting unchecked intrusive thoughts come into my brain. I reversed any negative thought about my body and food into something I’d believe,” she writes.

She Shifted From “Intense Cardio” to Weight Lifting and Walking

She also shifted her approach to exercise. “I stopped all intense cardio while recovering. I only weight lifted and walked. (intense cardio can mimic binge symptoms and make you ravenous),” she explains.

She Incorporated “Fear Foods” Into Her Diet

And lastly, she “ate and incorporated my fear foods EVERY day,” she reveals. “It helped to take away the feeling that if I ate something ‘bad,’ the whole day wasn’t ruined; therefore, I was less likely to binge (I had cake after lunch every day for an entire summer). IT’S NORMAL to overeat it in the beginning, but it’s about practicing taking those foods off of the pedestal we’ve placed them on.”

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Stretching Is Also Important

She discusses how important and “underrated” stretching is in another post. “Getting workouts in is incredible, but mobilizing your body has just as many benefits. I know that stretching is easy to skip out on, especially after you’ve finished a workout. Still, even a few minutes of stretching can have massive benefits,” she writes, listing benefits such as muscle recovery, injury prevention, increased range of motion in joints, enhanced muscle performance, can help improve posture, promotes blood circulation, can relieve stress, enhances athletic performance, and reduces muscle stiffness and soreness. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? It could be because you are saying the wrong things to yourself. Hannah White is a personal trainer and online coach who uses her personal experience of losing weight to help others achieve their diet and fitness goals. In a recent post, she revealed a lot of the mistakes she made and things she said to herself that prevented her from losing weight. “The five things limiting beliefs and ‘excuses’ were some of the MAIN things holding me back from achieving my fitness goals in my 30s,” she writes.


She Stopped Saying She Was Too Old to Lift Weights

The first things she quit saying? “I’m too old to start lifting weights,” she reveals. “Age is just a number, and if you’re still able to move your body, then there are ALWAYS things you can do! “If you can sit down & stand up from a chair 🪑 You can ‘Squat.’ If you can pick up shopping bags off the floor 🛍️ You can ‘Deadlift.’ Start small & build from there. You’ll be surprised at what you’re able to achieve with consistency.”

She Stopped Blaming It On Her Metabolism

The second thing she stopped saying: “I have a slow metabolism & can’t lose belly fat,” she reveals. “If you have a diagnosed medical condition, then you should absolutely seek help from your doctor! But for everybody else… your activity level & diet are the main factors that impact your ability to lose belly fat.”

She Stopped Blaming It On Being Premenopausal

Next, she stopped making an excuse that “I’m perimenopausal now, which is making it hard to lose weight,” she says. “True. But it is not the actual hormones that affect your metabolism. Hormones massively affect how we feel, yes! And how we feel affects our daily actions and habits.”

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These Things Helped

She recommends doing these things to help:

  • Improving the quality of your sleep
  • Managing stress
  • Reducing alcohol & caffeine
  • Focusing on fuelling your body correctly
  • Daily walks and regular weight training.

She Stopped Blaming It On Genetics

“It’s my genetics” is another excuse she stopped making. “Genetics play a role. Let’s face it. We’re not all created the same. Some people inherit a higher basal metabolic rate (BMR), which means they burn more calories when they are at rest. And some people are more ‘naturally’ athletic. However, lifestyle choices & actions also affect your BMR & what your body is capable of!”

She Stopped Saying She Didn’t Have Times

The last thing she stopped saying? “I don’t have time to exercise & eat healthy,” she reveals. “You don’t need to be perfect to make progress with your fat loss & fitness goals. “Doing small things consistently will make a MASSIVE difference, especially if you’re starting from scratch.”

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Here Are Some Tips

She offers the following tips to help with weight loss. “Things like going for a 10min daily walk, eating more protein, adding a portion of fruit or veg to each meal, drinking a glass of water every hour or so, etc.,” she recommends.

She Stopped Exercising to Lose Weight

In another post, she reveals three mistakes she stopped making to lose fat in her 40s. “I stopped seeing exercise as a way to burn calories and started training to get stronger instead,” she says. “This really helped to shape and tone my physique, as getting stronger meant that I built muscle and lost fat in all the right places. Plus, the extra muscle I built burns more calories at rest, so I found I was able to eat more food and still lose weight.”

She Stopped Trying to Eat Less Food

“I stopped just trying to eat less food and started tracking my macros and eating the right quantities of nutrients for me and my goals,” she continues. “This gave me more energy for my workouts and got rid of my sugar cravings for good. “It also allowed me to still eat all the foods I enjoyed without feeling guilty as I knew I was eating what I should be.”

RELATED: Nutritionist Reveals the 3 Morning Habits That Helped Her Clients Burn Fat Without Dieting

She Stopped Drinking Alcohol

“I stopped drinking alcohol,” she says. “This one speaks for itself. Better sleep. More energy. Less anxiety and mood swings. More focus on my goals. Also, it’s not just the empty calories in alcohol that affect your weight loss efforts. Alcohol halts your body’s ability to burn fat and build muscle. So it’s definitely something to reduce or eliminate completely if you want the best results.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Do you feel like your face is “puffier” and “fluffier” than it used to be? There might be a reason for that, according to one expert. Katie Hardage Penland is a fitness coach who helps people “workout smarter, not harder.” In a new social media post, she discusses how she depuffed and defluffed her face. “40+ Ladies. I realize I was not overweight by definition in my before picture, and that’s not what this post is about. I had hit my 40s and noticed I started to feel puffier/fluffier,” she writes in the Instagram post.


Running Was Leaving Her with Inflammation

“What once worked for me (running) was actually making me feel worse. I could feel it: in my face, arms, tummy…Long story short, I had to make changes. Here are three that made a huge difference,” she writes at the start of the post.

She Swapped Running for Walking

The first thing she did was swapped running for walking. “Now, my runner people don’t freak out…running obviously has great benefits, but losing fat and toning up is not one of them. I’ve been an avid runner my whole life. If you are excessively running and feeling bad, that’s a sign you need to reevaluate what’s happening to your body,” she writes.

She Focused on Macros Over Calories

Next, she focused on macros, not calories. “Nutrition is important for any age, but especially for midlife mommas! Our bodies are naturally losing muscle as we age, so fueling ourselves with the right macro split can make all the difference!” she writes in the post.

She Incorporated Strength Training

Finally, she incorporated three strength training days a week. “Remember what I just said about us losing muscle as we age?! That’s a BIG problem if you aren’t focused on building it. Muscle burns more calories than fat. It’s more metabolically active than fat tissue, so it burns more calories…not just during a workout but way after, too…like while you’re watching Netflix. If you stop focusing on calories burned in your one treadmill sweat session and start focusing on building some muscle so you can burn more all day, you would see a BIG change in that extra fluff!” she writes.

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She Used to Spend “Hours” at the Gym

In another post she elaborates on how she changed her approach to fitness. “I used to hit the gym for hours on the daily. I would hop on the treadmill, run some miles, piddle around the weight section for a bit, and then throw in some abs or stretches at the end. The problem I had?! NOTHING CHANGED! I was working out so hard, but seeing no positive change for it,” she says.

Her Approach Didn’t Work

“I knew nutrition played a part in that so I counted/restricted calories and started to GAIN weight (and I don’t mean muscle)! I knew something wasn’t right. For the amount of effort I was putting in, the reward should be much better. ‼️Fast forward to now…I learned how to pair my workouts WITH macros and it changed it all for me‼️” she continued.

She Focuses on Progressive Overload

“I follow 30-minute workouts that focus on a progressive overload format. I pair these with the RIGHT macros for my age and body’s needs! This helped balance my hormones, improved my cortisol levels, increased my energy, and improved my sleep…which all resulted in burning crazy fat and building muscle!” she says.

She Pairs Short HIIT Workouts with Lower Carb Days

Here is an example. “I pair a short, HIIT workout with a lower carb day. Your body’s number one preferred source of energy comes from carbs. When you don’t have those to pull from it dips into your fat stores instead! Pair that with a fat-burning workout like HIIT, and watch what happens,” she says.

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She Pairs Higher Carb Days with 30 Minute Strength Training Workouts

“On the flip side, I pair my higher carb days with 30-minute strength training workouts…to have the energy, to build the muscle which helps burn more fat all day. If you’re not seeing the change you want to see, try this method!” she says. “Work smarter, not harder!” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 31 Fitness Tips Every Beginner Needs to Look Sexy, According to Coaches.

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Weight loss in your 50s and 60s may seem impossible – but it’s not. According to one expert, you may even be able to shed pounds by doubling your calorie intake. Ilene Block is the founder of Silver and Strong, a coaching company that specializes in helping women over 50 get into the best shape of their lives. She lost 40 pounds at 61 (and 55 pounds altogether) by making a few simple changes to her routine. “At 61 and overweight, I went from eating 1,000 calories a day to over 2,000 in six month,s and here’s what happened,” she writes. “I lost 40 lbs!” she reveals in the post. “A reverse diet is the process of gradually increasing your calories over time to repair your metabolism. Here’s how you do it,” she says.

Assess Your Starting Point

First, assess your starting point. The first thing to do is track current intake. “Log everything you eat for a few days to confirm you’re consuming 1,000 calories,” says Ilene. Next, establish maintenance needs. “Use a calculator or consult a coach to estimate your true maintenance calories.”

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Set Your Goals

Next, set your goals, starting with shifting your focus to building muscle. “Weight training will help ensure that the additional calories you are eating are used for muscle growth and repair rather than fat storage,” she writes. Also, accept temporary weight fluctuations. “A slight weight increase is normal and doesn’t mean fat gain. If you’re eating more, especially carbs, your body will retain a certain amount of water,” she says.

Increase Calories Gradually

Next, she recommends increasing calories gradually. “Start with +5-10% per week,” she writes. “Add 50–100 calories to your daily intake each week, focusing on nutrient-dense foods.”

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Prioritize Macronutrients

Another essential thing to do is prioritize macronutrients.

Protein: “Aim for 1g per pound of goal body weight,” she suggests.

Carbs: “Gradually increase carbs to fuel workouts and promote recovery (this should be the remainder of your calories,” she says.

Fats: “Maintain healthy fat intake (20-30% of total calories),” she adds.

Monitor Progress and Adjust

And monitor progress and make adjustments. “Track Your Metrics: Monitor your weight and measurements (chest, waist, hips, thigh), and how you feel (energy, sleep, mood),” she writes. “If no significant weight gain occurs, increase calories again the following week.”

Incorporate Resistance Training

Next comes exercise, which she recommends resistance training. “Lift heavy weights 3-5 times per week to maximize muscle growth and metabolic adaptation,” she says. Also, avoid excess cardio. “Too much cardio can counteract calorie increases by burning through them.”

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Transition to Maintenance

Now it’s time to transition to maintenance. “Once you reach 2,000 calories (or your calculated maintenance level), stay consistent (and be patient to get here). You should be experiencing improved energy and the freedom to eat more without gaining weight,” she writes.

Do a Cut to Lose Body Fat

Lastly, it’s time to do a cut to lose body fat. “After being in maintenance for several months, if you want to lose body fat, you can now do a traditional diet (where you are in a caloric deficit) and lose fat while maintaining your muscle mass,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? You may be in denial about a few key truths, says an expert. Brooke Ralphs is an online fitness and nutrition coach (CPT and CNC) who helps her clients burn fat and sustainably build muscle. In a new post, she reveals a few key revelations that enabled her to lose weight finally. “I went from 225lbs to 135lbs naturally, but only after I was brutally honest with myself about these things,” she writes.

Her Actual Weight

The first truth she had to confront? “What I weighed,” she said. “Hiding from the scale wasn't helping me. I realized I could only change what I could face. So I decided to face it over and over again and detach moral value to it.”

How Much She Was Exercising

The second truth she had to face? “How much I was moving my body and willing to move my body. I had to be honest with myself that I said I worked out 5x a week but in reality it was 2. (I'd try for 5 at the beginning and couldn't do it)” she writes.

She Was Eating Her Feelings

Another truth was the reason why she was eating and that “a huge reason I gained weight was because I ate my feelings,” she said. “I had to be honest about why I turned to food and had to start expressing my feelings and work on them in a new way.”

Calories and Tracking Weren’t the Problem

“I had to be honest that calories and tracking weren't the problem and to stop demonizing it,” she continues. “It's not an enemy. Calories are just a measured energy unit and I had to stop seeing it as an enemy but a tool.”

She Had to Try New Things

Truth number five? “If I was going to go somewhere I've never gone (like get to a goal weight and stay there for good) then I had to accept that I'd have to do the thing that I've never done before. Which is stay consistent with something that I could realistically do and enjoy,” she writes.

Losing Weight Takes Time

Another truth? Losing weight doesn’t happen overnight. “Had to face reality that I didn't gain it in 2 weeks so I couldn't lose it that fast either,” she writes.

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Not Every Day Is Good

She also realized that she wasn’t going to win every day. “Had to be honest with myself that there will be days that don't go the way I wanted and will want to quit,” she said.

There’s No Perfect Time to Start

Next, today is a good day to get started. “Had to realize there's no perfect time to start, a perfect circumstance to workout. A perfect anything,” she said.

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It Wasn’t Always Fun

She also realized that a weight loss journey isn’t always fun. “I had to be honest that I wasn't going to like it at first. Getting out of your comfort zone isn't supposed to be pleasant,” she said.

Food Isn’t the Enemy

And finally, food isn’t the enemy. “I had to be honest that I saw food as the enemy but that I need to make food my best friend that supports me,” she said. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you over 40 and trying to lose weight? Getting in shape can be overwhelming. However, it doesn’t have to be. One personal trainer maintains that all you need to do is master five simple exercises. Caroline Idiens is a fitness influencer and personal trainer with over 25 years of professional experience helping clients achieve their fitness goals. In a new post, she reveals a few key moves to help you shape up. “5 exercises you need to do at 40+ to build strength💪🏻add weights as you progress,” she writes.

Squats

The first exercise? Squats. “Squats are a brilliant compound functional move building lower body strength and engaging the core,” she says. “You can do bodyweight squats or use weights/bands. This exercise works quadriceps, glutes, hamstrings, core.”

Lunges

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Next up, another glute buster, lunges, a “functional move,” she explains. “You can do forward, reverse & lateral lunges. This exercise works glutes, hamstrings, quads. Again add weights as needed.”

Push-Ups

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Another exercise that offers a lot of bang for its buck? Push-ups, “a brilliant bodyweight exercise that build upper body strength & engage the core. Modify as needed (e.g incline push-ups against the wall or a chair),” she says. “This exercise works your chest, shoulders, triceps, and core.”

Rows

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Rows, either with body weight or actual weights, as you progress. “Rows strengthen your back, improve your posture. Great functional move. They work the back muscles as well as engaging the arms & shoulders & core for stability,” she says.

Planks

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And last but not least, planks. They are “a great exercise for building upper body & core strength,” she says. “They work your deep core muscles.”

Lift Weights

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“Strength training is vital as you age. My passion has always been strength training, and never more so than today,” Caroline previously wrote for Sheer Luxe. “Once we hit 30, our bone density and muscle mass decrease. Strength training plays a significant role in preventing this loss and we can actually build new bone by using weights. This can help reduce the risk of osteoporosis, which women are so susceptible to, especially post-menopause.”

There Are Lots of Benefits

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“Moreover, strength training gives you such a feeling of power in everyday life – it’ll help with sleep, anxiety, co-ordination and will also help you manage your weight,” she wrote, adding that it “won’t make you bulky,” despite popular misconception. “It’s a myth that using weights will make you bulky – unless you are using very heavy weights and dramatically changing your diet, this simply isn’t true. It’s also important to remember that you can’t spot reduce fat. Your body works as a whole and, whilst you can tone a particular area, working the full body consistently along with a sensible diet will make the difference.”

Science Supports Strength Training for Weight Loss

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According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills.

She Also Recommends Cardio

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“In an ideal world, combine weights with cardio,” Caroline adds. Why is it important to do both? “While you may burn more calories in a cardio workout, strength training builds muscle. The two aren’t mutually exclusive and, for a leaner, fitter body, you should combine the two. Cardio is essential for heart health and for building stamina and endurance. At the same time, when we lift weights, we build muscle, boost metabolism and reduce our risk of injury,” she says.

Diet Matters

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And, you can’t out-exercise a bad diet. “People think they can exercise, eat rubbish and still see great results,” she recently told The Daily Mail. “Sadly it doesn’t work like that. It’s about balance and moderation.” As for one main meal tip? “And protein with every meal – you need it for strength training,” she says.

Here Is What She Eats in a Day

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Caroline starts her day with tea, coffee, and a banana. Then, after her 9 am workout class, she has breakfast, usually scrambled egg and avocado on sourdough. For lunc,h she likes chicken salad. Dinner might be a teriyaki salmon noodle stir-fry. As for snacks, she might have fruit and a bit of chocolate in the afternoon. She also drinks a lot of water. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.