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She Broke 9 "Weight Loss Rules" and Lost 45 Pounds — Here's How

Break these common rules and start seeing real results.

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I Lost 45 Pounds and Kept It Off With These Simple Changes
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Have you been following all the "right" weight loss advice but still struggling to see results? You're not alone. For years, I followed conventional wisdom that actually made losing weight harder, not easier. Katie Dunlop, a certified personal trainer, transformed her body by shedding 45 pounds and flattening her belly—but only after she started breaking the very rules she thought were helping her. Discover which weight loss rules might be sabotaging your progress and what actually works instead.


1. I Stopped Assuming Healthy Foods Automatically Lead to Weight Loss

"I started eating all these healthy foods like avocados and nuts and made dressings with tons of oils," Katie shares in her post. "I was eating healthy, but when it came to losing weight, it just wasn't happening." While nutritious foods are essential for your health, Katie learned that calories still matter. Studies show people underestimate calories from healthy foods by up to 50%. That "healthy" meal might be twice as calorie-dense as you think.

RELATED:I Got My Best Body After 50 and Here’s How You Can, Too

2. I Rejected the "No Eating After 7 PM" Rule

Katie admits, "I would cut myself off at seven, even if I hadn't had dinner or enough to eat. What usually happened is that I'd end up binging at night." Breaking this arbitrary time rule transformed her approach. The time you eat doesn't matter for fat loss—it's your total daily intake that counts, Katie discovered. You can eat dinner at 10 PM and still lose weight if you stay within your overall calorie goals. For digestion, Katie now recommends a two-hour window before sleep without eating.

3. I Started Embracing Carbs, Not Cutting Them

"If you cut carbs out of your diet, you'll probably notice initial weight loss because you're eating less," Katie explains, "but it's definitely not going to help you lose weight long-term." Breaking this popular diet rule was game-changing. Research shows cutting carbs can be particularly harmful for women since we need them to balance hormones and energy levels. Katie warns that eliminating carbs increases stress and cortisol levels, making fat loss even harder over time.

RELATED:I'm a Nutritionist and These are the Best Banana Recipes For Weight Loss

4. I Stopped Believing in Spot Reduction

"You can't say, 'Oh, I have this belly fat right here. How do I get rid of my belly fat? How do I get rid of my love handles?'" Katie points out. "We cannot spot reduce it." Instead of focusing on targeted exercises promising to melt fat from specific areas, Katie learned that overall strength training and caloric deficit were the keys. Women typically hold weight in the lower belly and triceps, so these areas improve as overall body fat decreases.

5. I Quit Stressing About Eating Every 2-3 Hours

"I remember I would stress about this. I would be on the clock waiting, thinking 'Shoot, I gotta keep it going, I gotta make sure I'm eating every two to three hours,'" Katie recalls. Breaking this rule freed her from unnecessary stress. Research shows your total daily nutrition matters more than eating frequency. Katie now focuses on balanced meals with healthy fats, proteins, carbohydrates, and fiber rather than obsessing over timing.

6. I Stopped Fearing Fat in My Diet

Katie admits, "I was convinced for years that my low-fat yogurts, low-fat cookies, low-fat crackers were good for me and would help me maintain a lower weight—and they didn't." Breaking this rule transformed her nutrition. Healthy fats from avocados, nuts, and olive oils are essential for hormone balance and feeling satisfied. The problem with many low-fat products, Katie discovered, is their high sugar content, which can be more harmful than moderate amounts of good fats.

RELATED:Tone Sagging Arms in 2 Weeks With These 5 Exercises

7. I Stopped Relying on the Scale to Track Progress

"The scale is not the best way to track your fat loss," Katie emphasizes. "As women especially, the scale goes up and down three to five pounds day to day, week to week, depending on our cycle and water retention." Breaking free from scale obsession gave Katie a more accurate view of her progress. When gaining muscle while losing fat, the scale can be particularly misleading. Katie now recommends taking photos and measurements instead.

8. I Abandoned the "All or Nothing" Approach

"I used to live in this all-or-nothing mentality, and it would be the greatest excuse I ever had," Katie shares. "I'd say, 'It's never going to work because I can't meal prep' or 'I can't make all my food at home.'" Katie rejected the rule that you must eat "clean" 100% of the time. She ditched "cheat days" in favor of an 80/20 lifestyle where making better choices most of the time allows for flexibility without derailing progress.

RELATED:What Happens When You Quit Soda, According to a Nutritionist

9. I Rejected the "Slowing Metabolism After 30" Myth

"Every day I hear that once you turn 30, your metabolism starts going downhill, or once you hit 40, or during perimenopause or menopause, nothing works anymore," Katie notes. Breaking this rule changed her entire perspective on aging and fitness. Research shows metabolism doesn't significantly change from ages 20 to 60. What does change is muscle mass—we lose 3-5% of muscle every decade after 30. Katie now knows that strength training becomes more important with age, not less. "All the data shows that no matter what age or phase you're at, the more you increase and focus on strength training and protein intake, the more you'll continue to see results."

Remember, sustainable weight loss isn't about following arbitrary rules—it's about understanding what actually works for your body. Which of these "rules" have you been following? Breaking them might be exactly what you need to finally see results.

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Have you been following all the "right" weight loss advice but still struggling to see results? You're not alone. For years, I followed conventional wisdom that actually made losing weight harder, not easier. Katie Dunlop, a certified personal trainer, transformed her body by shedding 45 pounds and flattening her belly—but only after she started breaking the very rules she thought were helping her. Discover which weight loss rules might be sabotaging your progress and what actually works instead.

1. I Stopped Assuming Healthy Foods Automatically Lead to Weight Loss

"I started eating all these healthy foods like avocados and nuts and made dressings with tons of oils," Katie shares in her post. "I was eating healthy, but when it came to losing weight, it just wasn't happening." While nutritious foods are essential for your health, Katie learned that calories still matter. Studies show people underestimate calories from healthy foods by up to 50%. That "healthy" meal might be twice as calorie-dense as you think.

RELATED:I Got My Best Body After 50 and Here’s How You Can, Too

2. I Rejected the "No Eating After 7 PM" Rule

Katie admits, "I would cut myself off at seven, even if I hadn't had dinner or enough to eat. What usually happened is that I'd end up binging at night." Breaking this arbitrary time rule transformed her approach. The time you eat doesn't matter for fat loss—it's your total daily intake that counts, Katie discovered. You can eat dinner at 10 PM and still lose weight if you stay within your overall calorie goals. For digestion, Katie now recommends a two-hour window before sleep without eating.

3. I Started Embracing Carbs, Not Cutting Them

"If you cut carbs out of your diet, you'll probably notice initial weight loss because you're eating less," Katie explains, "but it's definitely not going to help you lose weight long-term." Breaking this popular diet rule was game-changing. Research shows cutting carbs can be particularly harmful for women since we need them to balance hormones and energy levels. Katie warns that eliminating carbs increases stress and cortisol levels, making fat loss even harder over time.

RELATED:I'm a Nutritionist and These are the Best Banana Recipes For Weight Loss

4. I Stopped Believing in Spot Reduction

"You can't say, 'Oh, I have this belly fat right here. How do I get rid of my belly fat? How do I get rid of my love handles?'" Katie points out. "We cannot spot reduce it." Instead of focusing on targeted exercises promising to melt fat from specific areas, Katie learned that overall strength training and caloric deficit were the keys. Women typically hold weight in the lower belly and triceps, so these areas improve as overall body fat decreases.

5. I Quit Stressing About Eating Every 2-3 Hours

"I remember I would stress about this. I would be on the clock waiting, thinking 'Shoot, I gotta keep it going, I gotta make sure I'm eating every two to three hours,'" Katie recalls. Breaking this rule freed her from unnecessary stress. Research shows your total daily nutrition matters more than eating frequency. Katie now focuses on balanced meals with healthy fats, proteins, carbohydrates, and fiber rather than obsessing over timing.

6. I Stopped Fearing Fat in My Diet

Katie admits, "I was convinced for years that my low-fat yogurts, low-fat cookies, low-fat crackers were good for me and would help me maintain a lower weight—and they didn't." Breaking this rule transformed her nutrition. Healthy fats from avocados, nuts, and olive oils are essential for hormone balance and feeling satisfied. The problem with many low-fat products, Katie discovered, is their high sugar content, which can be more harmful than moderate amounts of good fats.

RELATED:Tone Sagging Arms in 2 Weeks With These 5 Exercises

7. I Stopped Relying on the Scale to Track Progress

"The scale is not the best way to track your fat loss," Katie emphasizes. "As women especially, the scale goes up and down three to five pounds day to day, week to week, depending on our cycle and water retention." Breaking free from scale obsession gave Katie a more accurate view of her progress. When gaining muscle while losing fat, the scale can be particularly misleading. Katie now recommends taking photos and measurements instead.

8. I Abandoned the "All or Nothing" Approach

"I used to live in this all-or-nothing mentality, and it would be the greatest excuse I ever had," Katie shares. "I'd say, 'It's never going to work because I can't meal prep' or 'I can't make all my food at home.'" Katie rejected the rule that you must eat "clean" 100% of the time. She ditched "cheat days" in favor of an 80/20 lifestyle where making better choices most of the time allows for flexibility without derailing progress.

RELATED:What Happens When You Quit Soda, According to a Nutritionist

9. I Rejected the "Slowing Metabolism After 30" Myth

"Every day I hear that once you turn 30, your metabolism starts going downhill, or once you hit 40, or during perimenopause or menopause, nothing works anymore," Katie notes. Breaking this rule changed her entire perspective on aging and fitness. Research shows metabolism doesn't significantly change from ages 20 to 60. What does change is muscle mass—we lose 3-5% of muscle every decade after 30. Katie now knows that strength training becomes more important with age, not less. "All the data shows that no matter what age or phase you're at, the more you increase and focus on strength training and protein intake, the more you'll continue to see results."

Remember, sustainable weight loss isn't about following arbitrary rules—it's about understanding what actually works for your body. Which of these "rules" have you been following? Breaking them might be exactly what you need to finally see results.

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Are you struggling to lose weight despite dieting? Ruth Soukup is a midlife health and mindset coach who personally lost almost 50 pounds. She regularly shares her tips and tricks with her hundreds of thousands of Instagram followers. In a new post, she reveals a few mistakes she made and then the one thing she did to fix them. “I lost 49 pounds in my 40s when I stopped dieting and started paying attention to this one thing,” she writes in the Instagram video.


She Was Eating Plant-Based, Counting Calories, and Running 3 to 5 Miles Per Day, But Struggled to Lose Weight

“I struggled with my weight for ten long years and failed at more diets than I can count. Even though I thought I was doing all the right things,” she writes in the post. What was she doing? “Eating plant-based,” counting her calories, and “running 3-5 miles every day.”

At 43, She Decided to Do Something Different

She wasn’t getting the results she wanted. “I couldn’t understand why nothing seemed to work or why it felt like my metabolism was just broken. At some point, I started to lose hope. Maybe you can relate. But one day, when I was 43 years old, I finally got so fed up that I decided to do something totally different,” Ruth writes.

She Did Research to Understand “The Science of Weight Loss”

“Instead of dieting, I did real research to understand the science of weight loss, especially for women over 40. I wanted to know why we gain weight as we get older and it’s so hard to lose it. I was shocked to discover that weight loss has almost nothing to do with calories and everything to do with HORMONES. That’s it. That’s the secret. The one thing,” she reveals.

She Lost 49 Pounds and Has Kept It Off

“I totally changed my focus from counting calories to simply balancing my hormones, to eating the foods that would nourish my body, and creating better habits for a sustainable lifestyle. Ultimately, making that shift is what helped me lose 49 pounds and keep it off, and I’ve now helped thousands of other women over 40 do the same,” she says.

She Stopped Calorie Counting

In another post she discusses other healthy habits that helped her lose weight fast. “I struggled with my weight for YEARS, failing at diet after diet, always believing that the problem was ME and my own lack of willpower before I was finally able to lose 49 pounds and actually keep it off. So what was my secret? It was pretty simple, actually. I just focused on my hormones. That meant I committed to stop dieting! No more counting calories—instead focused on nourishing my body,” she writes.

RELATED: Nutritionist Reveals 3 Surprising Foods She Ate to Lose 15 Pounds (Including Dessert for Dinner)

She Quit Sugar and Processed Food

She also majorly cleaned up her diet. She eliminated a few things. “I detoxed from sugar and stopped eating toxic processed food. It’s the first step in balancing your hormones,” she writes.

She Amped Up Her Protein Intake

She also refocused her diet. “I started eating a lot more healthy fat and nutrient-dense protein,” she writes. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW), but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

RELATED: Man Ate Bacon and Eggs for 30 Days and His Blood Work Stunned Doctors

She Switched From Cardio to Strength Training

She also switched up her approach to exercise. “I focused on strength training & building lean muscle mass instead of burning calories through high-intensity cardio,” she writes. According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills

She Focused on a Healthy Lifestyle

Lastly, she looked at the big picture. “I didn’t give myself a timeline. I just focused on changing my lifestyle,” she writes. “But I still lost more than 40 pounds in six months, have kept it off for more than 3 years, and now I’ve helped thousands of women do the same.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Have you been struggling to lose weight but aren’t sure where to start? One expert has some game-changing advice on how to do it. Cara Peterkin is a fitness professional and YouTuber who weighs 250 pounds. “Now I'm 140 pounds, and I'm gonna tell you exactly how I lost the weight,” she says, revealing that the process took two and a half years, “and I've maintained my weight for the past year.”


Childhood Eating Habits Shaped Her Relationship with Food

Cara reveals that she grew up with unhealthy eating habits. “Quick backstory: my parents were all about ease, easily getting food to us, which meant minimal cooking. We go to Chick-fil-A, we'll go to McDonald's, we'll go to the Mexican restaurant, quick box mac and cheese, whatever was easy. That's what they did. And that set the tone for my relationship with food for the rest of my life,” she says in her post.

She Gained a Lot of Weight During Her First Two Pregnancies But Lost It

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Cara first struggled with her weight when she got pregnant at 15 and went from 150 to 192 pounds. “Typically pregnant women should only gain about 20 to 25 pounds, according to Google, but I gained 42 pounds,” she says. However, she lost it pretty easily because she was young, following a calorie deficit and exercising. When she went to college, the “food inconsistency” and “unhealthy patterns really started to return,” she says. “I definitely gained the college 30, so I went from 150 to 180. Her senior year of college she got pregnant again and went from 180 to 225 pounds.

“That was tough. I definitely looked at myself differently, and I had to adjust. I tried to adjust to the weight and just said, ‘Hey Karen, you may be that girl over 200 pounds, and you need to accept it.’ But I was so uncomfortable. I tried different weight loss methods, and I started with Weight Watchers, which got me down to about 200 pounds.”

She Ended Up 250 Pounds After Her Last Pregnancy and Couldn’t Lose It

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She then “had to kick it in high gear “ and tried to clean her diet and eliminate processed foods. “With diet, exercise, plenty of strength training, and walking, I was able to get to about 160 pounds, which was amazing. Of course, life happened. What does that mean? I went through a depression, I went through different things in my life, and I ended up gaining weight a little bit, a little bit, a little bit, a little bit until it was a lot of it and ended up at about 190 pounds average. And it was tough. I would do different yo-yo diets, try different methods, get down to 180, but always would creep back up to that 190.” During her last pregnancy, she started at 190 pounds and went up to 250 pounds. “I could not even fathom being at that number, but I was there. I will tell you that it was probably the hardest thing for me to accept, but I just made it work.” Then COVID happened, and she remained at 250, battling postpartum depression.

She Hit Her Breaking Point

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Cara’s “breaking point” and “aha” moment happened when she had an interview and couldn’t fit into her size 16 pants. “I immediately ran to the store to buy that bigger size. But once I saw the size 18 and that number, it hit me like, Kara, what's going on? You've never been this size. What are you gonna do differently? I did not let myself buy those size 18 pants, and that was my breaking point. I knew I had to make a change because I couldn't buy that bigger size.”

She Lost Her First 35 Pounds with Weight Watchers and OrangeTheory

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In March of 2021, she tried Weight Watchers again, pairing it with OrangeTheory, losing 35 pounds and getting down to 215. “I still had a long way to go,” she said, revealing that according to her BMI, her healthy weight range is 140 to 160. You can benchmark your progress with this useful Lean Body Mass Calculator.

Then, She Eliminated Processed Foods

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In 2022, she really changed the game. “That's where the real change began. I eliminated all processed foods and only shopped the outside skirts of the grocery store. So protein, dairy, fruits and veggies. That was my main diet,” she said.

She Also Tracked and Measured Her Food

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“I tracked everything I ate with my Fitness Pal. I measured everything I ate. I prioritized getting that water in, and I minimized fast food or eating out because of the amount of sodium that they put in the food. Once I implemented that change, my weight just started to fall off,” she continues.

The First Month Was Hard, But It Got Easier

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“Now, I will say it wasn't easy. I'm not going to lie to you. It is the hardest thing I ever had to do, and it took me about a full month of getting through the diet change for me to really accept it. After that, I stopped craving chocolate or candy or ice cream, and I was able to just go with the flow on average. I was losing about a pound and a half to two pounds a week, and it just started to fall off,” she says.

RELATED:She Lost 9 Pounds in 4 Weeks With This Simple 1,600 Calorie Meal Plan

She Also Started Walking 30 Minutes a Day

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“Another thing that I did that helped me lose the weight was walking 30 minutes a day. That was huge,” she admits. “I thought I had to go kill myself in another OrangeTheory class or maybe at a boot camp. But walking truly helped me, along with some YouTube videos, like different weights that I could use or different strength training videos that really helped, too. But I didn't have to pay for a gym membership. I just got outside and walked and changed my diet, and the weight started to fall off. “

She Has Maintained the Weight Loss

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She has managed to keep it off by maintaining the same eating habits, “still walking 30 minutes a day, along with definitely having my treat meals and trying to balance them out, and so far it's kept the weight off beautifully,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to achieve your weight loss goals? Kiana Monle is a holistic wellness influencer who dropped over 30 pounds and shares her tips and tricks on social media. In a new post, she reveals a few things she did to drop weight. “Before, I felt heavy. I was uncomfortable in my body and was sick of hovering around the same weight for years on end. I got sick and tired of being sick and tired! So I made some changes. BIG ones,” she says in the post, revealing five things she did to lose 35 pounds.

She Got Into a Calorie Deficit

The first thing she did was get into a calorie deficit. “For the first 6 months, I meticulously tracked my calories. I know this isn't for everyone, but it was so helpful to know how much I was eating, and how much I had left to play around with. IMO, this was the biggest game changer,” she says.

RELATED:10-Min Walking Workout Burns Fat at Home, Says Coach

She Went “Back to Basics”

Next, she went “back to basics,” she says. “I used to eat a ton of sweets. It became a cycle, and my weight soared. To reset, I went back to the basics--whole foods , no cakes or cookies. Yes, that first few days were tough (almost caved for some insomnia cookies) but it was worth it. After a week or so I stopped craving so many sweets. I also started to enjoy whole foods more. I later re-introduced cakes, cookies, etc!”

She Exercised

She also started to exercise. “I've always been somewhat active when it came to workouts, but as someone who worked from home, I got maaaybe 1K steps in a day. To move more, I worked out 3X a week (doing @heatherrobertsoncom 's 12 week program) and later added walks 5X a week. Once I finished the plan, I did the second one for a bit before ditching, lifting altogether, and focused on cardio (my fave),” she says.

She Treated Herself to “Daily Fun Foods”

Next, she started treating herself to “daily fun foods,” she reveals. “I reset my palate, but I still kept things fun. My daily treat would be popcorn and a chocolate truffle (huge fan of both!).”

RELATED:17 Pre-Meal Foods That Burn Fat Like Ozempic, According to an Expert

She Focused on Consistency

Finally, she focused on consistency. “Daily commitment was key. For those first 6 months, when I lost 20 pounds, I would stick to my eating and workout plan. No cheat days, no going off script. I simply built in rest days, and if I ate out, I'd have it fit into my daily calories,” she writes.

She Is Now Focused on Balance

“Now as I maintain my goal weight, it's about finding balance,” she reveals at the end of the post. “It's not always easy, but I'm excited to document it here!” And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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Do you want to lose weight simply by making a few simple changes? Melissa Chiappone, AKA Mel the Midlife Health & Fitness Coach, lost 38 pounds in her late 40s and helps other women do the same. In a new social media post, she delves into her transformation, revealing what it took to slim down. “Doing three things consistently for the last five years has changed my entire life!


At 45, She Weighed 171 Pounds

Melissa explains that she used to struggle with weight. “Just 5 years ago, at age 45, I weighed 171 lbs at 5’7”. I was heavier than I had been while I was pregnant. I blamed it on hormones and perimenopause,” she says in the post.

These Were Her Unhealthy Habits

“I was eating salad almost every single day, but I would binge at night. I was running 3 miles almost every single day. I was drinking 3-4 times a week. I’d buy box wine because I wouldn’t drink a single bottle, and it works. It just goes to waste (at least that’s what I told myself, but it was always available),” she continues.

Now She Is Almost 50 and Weighs 133 Pounds

However, she decided to change her life. “Fast forward 5 years to the present, and I will turn 50 in November,” she writes. “I weigh 133 pounds. I feel and look better than I did in my 20s,” she writes.

Here Is What She Did

Melissa changed her approach to exercise and diet. “I repaired my relationship with food. I gave up running and started walking. I rarely eat salad! I drink 3-4/month if that,” she reveals.

She Walked at Least 8,000 Steps a Day

“Doing these three things consistently changed my entire life,” she says. “These three things can change your life too. I promise.” The first thing she did? “Walking 8k steps minimum each day (usually aim for 10k),” she says.

She Lifted Weights

Melissa also incorporated strength training into her routine. “Started weight training a minimum of 4 times per week,” she says. According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills

She Amped Up Her Protein Intake

She also amped up her protein intake. “Started prioritizing protein and Whole Foods, but don’t restrict any foods,” she concluded. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW) but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

Building Strength Is Key, She Says in Another Post

In another post, she discusses the importance of building strength. “Strong is the new confidence! If your goal is to be strong and confident in midlife and beyond, keep reading! Forget the old ideas of what confidence looks like. In midlife, it’s all about being STRONG,” she writes.

RELATED:This Mom Lost 135 Pounds Without Exercise and These Are the Foods She Cut Out

It Helps Build Confidence

“The truth is, when you build physical strength, your confidence follows naturally. It’s not just about how you look—it’s about what your body can do. Every rep, every set, and every step forward is a reminder of your power and resilience. This is empowerment!” she continues.

And, Changes Your Mindset

“When you focus on getting stronger, you’re not just changing your muscles—you’re changing your mindset. Strong women aren’t just confident in their bodies, and they’re confident in their lives. Long gone are the days of women wanting to be skinny!” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Perimenopause can be a frustrating time for anyone trying to lose weight, especially if you are still relying on the habits that worked for you in your thirties. However, it is still possible to burn fat and slim down, if you make some simple changes to your routine. Ashley DiGiacomo Schwartz is a fitness and nutrition coach who transformed her body during perimenopause and helps other women do the same. “Perimenopause can be hard, but you can be making it exponentially harder if you have bad habits that exacerbate the symptoms and speed up the process,” she writes in a recent post. “10 habits you need to boost your metabolism in perimenopause.”

Amp Up Your Protein Intake

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The first habit is starting your day with 30 to 50 grams of protein. “Protein helps stabilize blood sugar, support muscle growth, and reduces cravings which is a must in perimenopause,” she says.

Eat Breakfast

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Ashley doesn’t recommend skipping breakfast or intermittent fasting. “Eat Breakfast or consume something with protein within 30 min of waking up,” she says. “No more coffee on an empty stomach or fasting. We need to bring our cortisol down in the morning to increase our fat burning potential. Cortisol is highest first thing in the morning.”

Lift Weights

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Next, she suggests prioritizing strength training. “30 min 3-4 times a week is ideal and helps maintain muscle, metabolism, and bone density,” she says.

Eat Fruits and Veggies with Every Meal

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Also, make sure to pack in the product. “Eat a veggie or fruit at every meal. Aim for 25-30g of fiber daily to support gut health, estrogen detox, and blood sugar balance,” she says.

Hydrate First Thing

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Wake up and drink water. “Hydrate first thing in the morning before coffee,” she suggests. “You can add a pinch of sea salt to 8 oz of water first thing in the morning for better hydration and energy.”

Take Magnesium Glycinate Before Bed

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She’s also an advocate of taking magnesium glycinate before bed. “Magnesium supports deep sleep, muscle relaxation, blood sugar control and stress resilience—essential in perimenopause,” she says.

Get Some Sun

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Her last tip? Get outside for some Vitamin D. “Try to get 10 Minutes of morning sun outside (or sunlamp) Natural light regulates cortisol and melatonin, improving mood, energy, and sleep,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? Sometimes we become our own worst enemy in the weight loss process, and need to incorporate some core healthy habits into our routine. Gillian Ferguson of The Macro Method is a women’s nutrition coach and social media influencer who lost 50 pounds and helps others do the same. In a new post, she shares “5 ways to make your fat loss easier.”

Strength Training

Almost every expert is going to tell you, that if you want to lose weight, you need to lift weights. “Muscle burns 3x more calories at rest than fat & 🔥 for your metabolism. Plus, when you lose the body fat you want muscle on your body so you look toned + sculpted,” Ferguson writes about strength training. According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills

Walking

The next habit that will make weight loss easier? Walking. “Increasing your TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) by a few hundred calories through walking will help you achieve an overall calorie deficit more easily. BONUS: post meal walks help regulate blood sugar and aid in digestion,” she writes. Most experts recommend 10,000 steps per day. A 2018 study published in the journal Obesity found a link between walking 10,000 steps a day and weight loss and weight management.

Hydrate

Drinking water is another important habit to simplify weight loss. “Dehydration can disguise itself as hunger,” says Ferguson. “Plus, staying well-hydrated can slightly boost your metabolism 🔥 also more efficiently process and eliminate fat.”

Sleep

Don’t sleep on sleep! Rest helps your body regenerate. “Sleep is really the lead domino in your health and has a big impact on your hormones, hunger, and metabolism. Life is harder when you’re tired,” says Ferguson.

Amp Up Your Fiber Intake

Finally, amp up your fiber intake, which she says is the “missing” puzzle piece. “Yes to protein! Yes to managing calories! And ALSO YES to eating enough fiber. Improved satiation, feel fuller for longer, better digestion, regulate blood sugar,” she writes. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.

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Do you want to lose weight while still enjoying delicious food? Corey House is a fitness trainer specializing in helping people over 40 shed fat and build muscle using the methods that enabled him to drop 56 pounds. In a new social media post, he reveals his “cheat code meals” for weight loss. “5 high protein, low calorie meals so good it felt like I was cheating when I dropped 56 pounds of fat,” he wrote.

Losing Weight Is All About Infusing Lifestyle with Healthy Food

“OK, so a long time ago I came to the reality that losing weight and keeping it off was LESS about restriction and deprivation… and MORE about the fusion of lifestyle and healthy food. One of the first things I have my coaching clients do is craft a list of ‘healthier’ foods that they actually enjoy eating and will help them make progress toward their fat loss & fitness goals. And sometimes… we stumble upon food combinations and meal creations that are SO freaking good, they make you feel like you’re cheating. These are their Sustainable Nutrition Staples. Here are five ✋ that I ate on repeat when I was dropping 56 pounds (and STILL eat today),” he says.

Blueberry Greek Yogurt Bowl

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Nutritional Information: 56g Protein / 360 Calories

Ingredients

  • 1.5 cups plain non-fat Greek yogurt
  • 1/4 cup blueberries
  • 1 scoop vanilla whey protein
  • 1 Tbsp honey drizzled on top.

BBQ Chicken Flatbread Pizza

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Nutritional Information: 69g Protein / 563 Calories

Ingredients

  • 1 sheet Lavash flatbread
  • 8 oz. seasoned grilled chicken
  • 1/4 cup sugar-free BBQ sauce
  • Chopped red onion & bell pepper
  • 1/2 low-fat mozzarella cheese.

High Protein Burrito Bowl

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Nutritional Information: 42g Protein / 490 Calories

Ingredients

  • 6 oz. lean ground beef w/taco seasoning
  • 1/2 cup sauteed bell peppers & onion
  • 1/2 cup refried beans
  • 1/4 cup shredded cheddar cheese
  • 2 Tbsp. low-fat sour cream.

Chipotle Chicken Bowl

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Nutritional Information: 43g Protein / 440 Calories

Ingredients

  • 6 oz. seasoned grilled chicken
  • 1/2 cup cooked white rice
  • 1 cup sauteed bell peppers & red onion
  • 2 Tbsp medium/hot salsa.

Meat Sauce & Spaghetti Squash

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Nutritional Information: 57g Protein / 613 Calories

Ingredients

  • 1/2 roasted spaghetti squash
  • 6 oz. 93% lean ground beef
  • 1/2 Rao’s marinara sauce
  • 1 Tbsp. grated parmesan cheese
And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week