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I Ditched the Gym for Pilates & Walking to Achieve the Dream Body I Love

Fitness influencer Sivan Tayer says lifting heavy weights isn't always the answer.

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By Leah GrothApr 24, 2024
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Many people swear by gym workouts to achieve their best body ever. However, pumping iron isn’t a slim-down magic potion for everyone. Sivan Tayer, a fitness influencer on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube, claims that she couldn’t achieve her dream body until she shifted her approach to fitness and found the perfect workout for her body. "If you're struggling to find your perfect routine and diet plan, my biggest advice is to first ask yourself what your biggest priority in yourself is," Tayer told us here at Body Network. "Is it weight loss? Muscle gain? Slim upper body and thicker lower body? Then comes the routine. The smaller you want an area, the easier you go on it. The bigger you want an area, the harder you go on it. In the end, we are working not only to get the body and health of our dreams, but to maintain that body as well."

1. She Was Doing It All Wrong

Blonde young woman give up workout in gym, fail.Shutterstock/sakkmesterke

“POV: you realized that lifting heavy 4-5x a week was not it and all you needed to do was pilates, hit glutes, and walk to achieve your dream physique,” she wrote in a post showing off her body. In a September 2023 TikTok, Tayer explained that it wasn’t until she stopped following the advice of other fitness influencers that she got the body she wanted. She told us: "What I found traditional was lifting heavy constantly, and counting calories and macros. At first, I was losing fat, but I would constantly feel tired and I developed a bad relationship with food. Eventually, my looks started to not look the way I wanted. I looked puffy, and bigger than what I wanted because everyone always posted that 'lifting heavy' wouldn't make you get big, and it's the only right way to get to your goals. My gut began to not react well to processed/artificial 'protein' supplements, and honestly the list just goes on."

“My journey on getting slim and toned arms was not an easy one, but I'm going to show you what I did,” she explained in the post. Tayer says she “held a lot of fat” in her arms, “so it was really tough for me to know what I had to do specifically through social media.”

Related: 20 Foods That Strip Belly Flab

2. She Did the Opposite of What Gym Rats Were Saying

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“A lot of people said, ‘Oh, lift heavy upper body, eat more, whatever. You're not going to gain so much. It's super hard for women to gain mass up there.’” However, “that was not the case” with her. “Me personally, I had to do almost the opposite of what these gym rats were saying to get this look of the slim and toned arms. And when I talk about it on social media, a lot of people tend to get at me about it, but this is my results and it worked for me and it might work for a lot of people,” she added.

“I truly believe one of the biggest factors and my arms getting smaller was doing low weight-high reps, and I really feel like just lifting heavy was just not doing it for me,” she continued, “So I don't hit upper body at the gym, but I do Pilates and replacement of that.”

3. She Discovered Pilates

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Pilates is “the best thing I've ever done for myself, you get smaller anywhere,” she claims. “You do have to have a good diet, but I just felt like lifting heavy made me hungry all the time. So lifting lighter really did make a difference for me, not just in my looks, but my appetite as well. That's why I say lifting lighter can definitely help your super big appetite that came from lifting heavy.”

We asked her about the biggest challenges or misconceptions she faced when she started incorporating Pilates and walking into her fitness routine. She told us: "The biggest misconception about pilates is that it's not enough, and can leave you 'skinny fat,' which is not true at all. A lot of people fail to realize that there are many forms and levels to Pilates. If done right, you can achieve amazing results with just pilates and some walking. Of course, your goals also depend. But for relatively any person who doesn't want to look like a big strong person, pilates and walking is the way to go. Most fashion models that you follow on socials do way more pilates and walking."

Related: I Lost 30 Pounds With These 4 Easy Exercises

4. And It’s Working for Her

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"I just added Pilates into my daily routine. Since there are different levels and forms of pilates and it's extremely beneficial to walk every day, you don't really need to take rest days as often because you are never really overworking your body or muscles the way weightlifting will. It's also often less time-consuming and walking is something you can incorporate into your day-to-day life will healthy lifestyle habits," she told us.

A 2021 study found that Pilates helped reduce body weight and body fat percentage in overweight and obese participants. It also found that the longer a person performed Pilates, the more significant the weight loss. “Ultimately, I'm not trying to discourage people who have different goals or lift heavy. This is just my experience and I hope this helped some of you guys too, she concluded in the video.

5. Most People Benefit from Upper Body Lifting

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Philadelphia-based trainer Kendra Gamble of HIT Fitness explains that while it is true that it’s really hard for women to gain muscle mass in rare cases, some people tend to bulk up more than others, usually due to genetics. However, most people will benefit from upper body lifting and this “shouldn’t scare women from doing” these types of workouts.

6. This is the Biggest Thing She Learned

"A lot of people forget the part where diet is about 80% of your results and when you think about it, if we are running marathons or doing some pretty intense activity, our bodies tend to want to eat much more," she told us. "Most times, we tend to eat more calories than what our body lost even during those intense workouts because of how 'hangry' we get (especially for people who struggle to lose weight). The BIGGEST thing I learned is that you need to more revolve your life around healthier eating habits, especially when it comes to portion control, and what way to make it much easier than not stressing your body out as much."

Related: This is the #1 Carb You Could Eat For Your Body

7. Here's Her Advice to Others Looking to Lose Weight

"Whatever you do, try it out and if it doesn't work, do your minor tweaks until you've cracked the code for YOUR body," she told us. "Cortisol levels are also something not talked about enough so definitely try to make a note of how your body reacts to certain workouts and foods over a week or more of doing that!"
She added: "Never feel like someone knows your body better even if it's more popular to weight lift and do intense HIIT workouts or someone told you what works best for you. You know your body, so listen to it."
@sivan.tm

feel free to ask questions💕 #gymjourney #workout #pilates

💪🔥Body Booster: While most women won’t bulk up from heavy weight lifting, some people are more genetically predisposed to gaining more muscle mass. If you are one of them you could benefit from doing a low impact workout like Pilates.

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Many people swear by gym workouts to achieve their best body ever. However, pumping iron isn’t a slim-down magic potion for everyone. Sivan Tayer, a fitness influencer on Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube, claims that she couldn’t achieve her dream body until she shifted her approach to fitness and found the perfect workout for her body. "If you're struggling to find your perfect routine and diet plan, my biggest advice is to first ask yourself what your biggest priority in yourself is," Tayer told us here at Body Network. "Is it weight loss? Muscle gain? Slim upper body and thicker lower body? Then comes the routine. The smaller you want an area, the easier you go on it. The bigger you want an area, the harder you go on it. In the end, we are working not only to get the body and health of our dreams, but to maintain that body as well."

1. She Was Doing It All Wrong

Blonde young woman give up workout in gym, fail.Shutterstock/sakkmesterke

“POV: you realized that lifting heavy 4-5x a week was not it and all you needed to do was pilates, hit glutes, and walk to achieve your dream physique,” she wrote in a post showing off her body. In a September 2023 TikTok, Tayer explained that it wasn’t until she stopped following the advice of other fitness influencers that she got the body she wanted. She told us: "What I found traditional was lifting heavy constantly, and counting calories and macros. At first, I was losing fat, but I would constantly feel tired and I developed a bad relationship with food. Eventually, my looks started to not look the way I wanted. I looked puffy, and bigger than what I wanted because everyone always posted that 'lifting heavy' wouldn't make you get big, and it's the only right way to get to your goals. My gut began to not react well to processed/artificial 'protein' supplements, and honestly the list just goes on."

“My journey on getting slim and toned arms was not an easy one, but I'm going to show you what I did,” she explained in the post. Tayer says she “held a lot of fat” in her arms, “so it was really tough for me to know what I had to do specifically through social media.”

Related: 20 Foods That Strip Belly Flab

2. She Did the Opposite of What Gym Rats Were Saying

Woman,lifting,dumbbells,Weight,fitness,gym,exercise, weightsShutterstock

“A lot of people said, ‘Oh, lift heavy upper body, eat more, whatever. You're not going to gain so much. It's super hard for women to gain mass up there.’” However, “that was not the case” with her. “Me personally, I had to do almost the opposite of what these gym rats were saying to get this look of the slim and toned arms. And when I talk about it on social media, a lot of people tend to get at me about it, but this is my results and it worked for me and it might work for a lot of people,” she added.

“I truly believe one of the biggest factors and my arms getting smaller was doing low weight-high reps, and I really feel like just lifting heavy was just not doing it for me,” she continued, “So I don't hit upper body at the gym, but I do Pilates and replacement of that.”

3. She Discovered Pilates

Pilates,Exercises,Reformer,Bed,workout,fitness,gym,exerciseShutterstock

Pilates is “the best thing I've ever done for myself, you get smaller anywhere,” she claims. “You do have to have a good diet, but I just felt like lifting heavy made me hungry all the time. So lifting lighter really did make a difference for me, not just in my looks, but my appetite as well. That's why I say lifting lighter can definitely help your super big appetite that came from lifting heavy.”

We asked her about the biggest challenges or misconceptions she faced when she started incorporating Pilates and walking into her fitness routine. She told us: "The biggest misconception about pilates is that it's not enough, and can leave you 'skinny fat,' which is not true at all. A lot of people fail to realize that there are many forms and levels to Pilates. If done right, you can achieve amazing results with just pilates and some walking. Of course, your goals also depend. But for relatively any person who doesn't want to look like a big strong person, pilates and walking is the way to go. Most fashion models that you follow on socials do way more pilates and walking."

Related: I Lost 30 Pounds With These 4 Easy Exercises

4. And It’s Working for Her

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"I just added Pilates into my daily routine. Since there are different levels and forms of pilates and it's extremely beneficial to walk every day, you don't really need to take rest days as often because you are never really overworking your body or muscles the way weightlifting will. It's also often less time-consuming and walking is something you can incorporate into your day-to-day life will healthy lifestyle habits," she told us.

A 2021 study found that Pilates helped reduce body weight and body fat percentage in overweight and obese participants. It also found that the longer a person performed Pilates, the more significant the weight loss. “Ultimately, I'm not trying to discourage people who have different goals or lift heavy. This is just my experience and I hope this helped some of you guys too, she concluded in the video.

5. Most People Benefit from Upper Body Lifting

,Female,Athlete,Dumbbells,weights,lifting,gym,exerciseShutterstock

Philadelphia-based trainer Kendra Gamble of HIT Fitness explains that while it is true that it’s really hard for women to gain muscle mass in rare cases, some people tend to bulk up more than others, usually due to genetics. However, most people will benefit from upper body lifting and this “shouldn’t scare women from doing” these types of workouts.

6. This is the Biggest Thing She Learned

"A lot of people forget the part where diet is about 80% of your results and when you think about it, if we are running marathons or doing some pretty intense activity, our bodies tend to want to eat much more," she told us. "Most times, we tend to eat more calories than what our body lost even during those intense workouts because of how 'hangry' we get (especially for people who struggle to lose weight). The BIGGEST thing I learned is that you need to more revolve your life around healthier eating habits, especially when it comes to portion control, and what way to make it much easier than not stressing your body out as much."

Related: This is the #1 Carb You Could Eat For Your Body

7. Here's Her Advice to Others Looking to Lose Weight

"Whatever you do, try it out and if it doesn't work, do your minor tweaks until you've cracked the code for YOUR body," she told us. "Cortisol levels are also something not talked about enough so definitely try to make a note of how your body reacts to certain workouts and foods over a week or more of doing that!"
She added: "Never feel like someone knows your body better even if it's more popular to weight lift and do intense HIIT workouts or someone told you what works best for you. You know your body, so listen to it."
@sivan.tm

feel free to ask questions💕 #gymjourney #workout #pilates

💪🔥Body Booster: While most women won’t bulk up from heavy weight lifting, some people are more genetically predisposed to gaining more muscle mass. If you are one of them you could benefit from doing a low impact workout like Pilates.

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I Lost 70 Pounds in 8 Months Without Going to the Gym. Here Is How

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By Leah GrothOct 01, 2024
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Do you want to lose weight without having to go to the gym? Tarn Kaur is an online fitness coach, social media influencer, and weight loss warrior. She often shares tips and tricks on how to slim down in a healthy and sustainable way. In a recent TikTok, she revealed that she lost an average of 10 pounds a month without having to hit the gym. “I lost 71 pounds, and I did all of this without going to the gym,” she says, going on to reveal how she did it.

Walking Is the Key to Weight Loss, She Says

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How I lost weight without gym!🤍 #weightlossjourney #weightlosstransformation #weightlossjourneyuk #weightlossprogress

The secret to her weight loss success? Putting on some sneakers. “My biggest tip I can give you is actually go out and get yourself walking. It sounds so simple, and it sounds like you won’t really do much, but it absolutely changed everything for me,” she said.

She Started Walking to Feel Better

“So when I was at my largest, I was always out of breath, always. My mental health wasn’t that great, and I was always fatigued and low energy. So what I decided to do, and this is where I didn’t really focus on the scales. I just wanted to feel better. I went for a walk, and that’s how everything began,” she says.

She Focused On Walking Daily to Establish a Habit

“The biggest tip I can give you is you don’t need to walk 10,000, 20,000, or 30,000 steps a day, but what you need to do is start to build that habit of movement. Whether that’s going out for 1,000 steps or you’re not even counting, but just walking every single day around the block, around your area and building that up over time,” she explained.

She Didn’t Go to the Gym Until After Her Fat Loss Stage

She went on to lose 70 pounds over an eight month period of time, “and I only started working out near the end when I wanted to tone up and my body felt quite soft per se,” she claims. “I really wanted to tone up, and that’s when I started doing home workouts again. I didn’t go to the gym during that fat loss phase.”

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She Walked Every Day

“What I did do, though, is go for a walk every single day without fail. It didn’t need to be 10,000 steps every single day, but I made that a real key habit of mine. And once I started to really build that consistency and discipline of going out every single day, everything else stacked on top quite easily,” she explained.

It Actually Stuck

“I was someone that would never stick to anything for more than a week. I tried all of the silly diets,” she says. “And what actually stuck is just trying to make my body feel better and not focusing on what the scale said.”

She Started Walking More and More Steps

“I started off quite slow because I was so unhealthy and so overweight. I was out of breath just going around the block. That eventually progressed over months, weeks and weeks, months and months, days and days. It progressed to 10 to 12,000 steps a day, and it just became so easy. My legs were so toned even though the rest of me still needed work. My legs literally could take me anywhere, and they did.”

It Helped Her Mental Health

“It just became a real kind of need in my everyday routine to go out, not only for my body and for exercise and for endorphins, but for my mental health. During that time, I had time for myself. I put my headphones on, I completely shifted my mindset,” she says.

RELATED: I Lost 120 Pounds by Cutting Out These Common Foods I'll Never Eat Again

She Shifted Her Mindset

“I didn’t see it as ‘Oh, I need to go for a walk because I need to lose weight.’ I just changed it to ‘I want to go for a walk, I want some alone time, I wanna listen to my favorite podcast, I wanna catch up with a friend on the phone, I wanna get some fresh air.’”

The Biggest Takeaway? Start Slow and Be Consistent

“Honestly, it sounds so simple, but the most important thing is you need to start so slowly and so easily on this journey that you feel like you’re not doing anything. That’s what I felt like, and it changed everything. I am now in the best shape of my life. I feel great mentally and physically, and honestly, just take that first step. That literal first step, be consistent with it,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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I Added These Simple Things to My Walking Routine And Now I See "Better Results"

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By Leah GrothAug 07, 2024
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Alexandrea Garza (@alexandreagarza) is a social media influencer who regularly shares about all the health habits that keep her in shape. In one of her viral posts, she revealed that after several months of the same exercise routine, she started hitting a plateau. However, after making a few simple tweaks, she is making more progress. “I've been doing the same workout routine for eight or nine months now, but I'm actually starting to see much better results within the past couple of weeks. And I'll tell you what I've changed,” she says in the clip.

She Walks 10,000 Steps Per Day

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How I’m starting to see better results from my workouts. This + adding in more protein and im seeing a difference within weeks. #pilates #10ksteps #walkingroutine

“So I always get my 10,000 steps in a day. I go for a walk. I'm getting ready to go for one right now,” she starts off. 10,000 steps is the gold standard if you want to lose weight, according to science. One study published in Obesity found a link between walking 10,000 steps a day and weight loss and weight management. Other studies – including those published in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine – linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure, and fewer strokes.

But She Upped Her Game, Transitioning to “Power Walks”

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“But instead of just doing a leisurely walk, I now do power walks,” she reveals. I actually use my Peloton app. I do their outdoor walks, so they're kind of like interval power walks, moderate walks, or just much faster walks. I feel it so much more in my legs and my glutes and my hamstrings,” she continued. It's such a better workout.”

Related: #1 Hack to Make Maintaining Your Weight Loss Easy, According to Nutritionist

She Also Does Pilates

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She also does Pilates, which, according to research, helps increase muscle strength, endurance, and flexibility and improves posture and balance. “I've been doing that for about nine-ish months now. I used to just do kind of classic on the reformer, low, slower paced,” she says.

She Increased the Level

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Similar to tweaking her walking routine, she amped up her Pilates workouts on the reformer. “I've moved up to their highest level, which is called mixed equipment. So, it's much heavier resistance. It's like a true strength workout, and I'm sweating. It's just much harder,” she says.

She Claims Her Results Are “Much Better”

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The result? “So I'm doing the same workouts, but I've just leveled up the intensity while still keeping it low-impact, and I've seen much better results so far,” she explains.

Related: I Started to Walk 1 Mile Every Day and Here’s How I Made It Happen

Why It Is Important to “Level Up” Intensity Over Time

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When it comes to weight loss and building muscle, you need to regularly amp up intensity if you want to continue seeing results. This is called hitting a plateau. “To lose more weight, you need to either increase your physical activity or decrease the calories you eat. Using the same approach that worked at first may maintain your weight loss, but it won't lead to more weight loss,” explains the Mayo Clinic. In terms of exercise, you can either work out longer or harder.

💪🔥Body Booster: If you have hit a “plateau” in your weight loss or fat-burning journey, either amp up your fitness intensity or opt for longer workouts. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss 12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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I'm 70 but Look 40 After Sculpting My Body with 2 Unexpected Exercises

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Liz Hilliard, 70, is living, breathing proof that age is just a number. The pilates instructor, who trains out of her studio Hilliard Studio Method, discovered the workout when she was 48, and completely transformed her approach to health. Over the years she has managed to learn a few things about longevity, revealing her secrets in an interview with Body Network.

Liz Used to Rely on Traditional Workouts

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Liz, who lives in Charlotte, North Carolina, explains that she was athletic throughout her childhood and enjoyed playing basketball and other team sports. “Traditional workouts always felt boring and offered minimal results for the time and energy put into them, " she says. Until I was in my late 40s, I relied on tennis and walking as my main sources of exercise.

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She Discovered Pilates at Age 48

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“At age 48, I attended my first Pilates class and immediately felt incredibly challenged. I even had fun, which led me to become certified in Pilates,” she says. In 2002, she opened her first personal Pilates training studio. “It was a successful business, and my clients were seeing real results. However, at age 51, while going through menopause, I noticed despite my Pilates workout, my belly fat was increasing, and my overall strength was decreasing as well, aka flabby arms and sagging bottom."

Fusing Strength Training with Pilates Was a Game-Changer

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"Inspired by my daughter, who was getting married and sculpting up for her wedding, I began researching heavy resistance training and hired my own personal trainer to try to sculpt my 51-year-old, menopausal body. We implemented heavy weight training, and I was determined to debunk the ‘bulking’ myth that most women feel about weightlifting," Liz says.

"The short story is that adding heavier resistance training to my core-centric Pilates workout began to sculpt my body in ways I hadn’t seen before using only traditional Pilates. That’s when I devised my Method. By incorporating heavy resistance with the core-centric exercises of Pilates, the Hilliard Studio Method was born."

She Shaved Inches Off Her Waistline

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Hillard, who has since authored the book "Be Powerful: Find Your Strength at Any Age" and co-hosts the Be Powerful Podcast, has remained 135 pounds throughout most of her life. “Muscle weighs more than fat, so I was replacing adipose tissue with muscle. My body was sculpting and changing at a rapid rate, especially given that I was in the throes of menopause. I lost inches around my waist, my arms became strong and sculpted, my abs flattened, and my glutes lifted. My entire body changed over the course of a year or less,” she says.

She Works Out 4 to 5 Times a Week

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What are the most important things she learned about getting in shape? “Find a workout that you enjoy, or you won’t stick with it. Our lives are busy, so finding a workout that efficiently provides resistance combined with stretch and enough cardio is essential. I do my workout at Hilliard Studio Method 4 to 5 times a week because we change the workout daily, moving through compound exercising and utilizing different resistance tools like balls, gliders, and bands to continuously cause muscle confusion and avoid the dreadful plateau, both mentally and physically. We keep the work fun and evolving, low impact yet high intensity. The amazing side effect of getting in physical shape is that one’s mental and emotional outlook becomes far more positive. Strength training like I do at HSM is the fountain of youth,” she continues.

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Get Your Steps In

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Her top workout suggestions? “Walk every day and everywhere. Get outside as often as possible to walk in nature. Bonus points if you walk with a friend. It’s built-in mental and physical therapy, which will not only help keep you fit but also lift your mood and keep your mind creative,” she says.

Strength Train Four Times a Week

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Also, strength training 4 times per week. “Strength training is an absolute requirement for healthy aging and simply means load-bearing exercises that require your muscles to engage. This can include anything from hand weights, resistance bands, weighted balls or any weighted object that taxes and builds skeletal muscles. Skeletal muscle strength allows the body to burn calories and maintain a healthy weight while setting the body up for success when inevitable accidents happen, so you are far less likely to avoid falling and breaking bones,” she says.

It’s Never Too Late to Get in Shape

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What is her message for women out there who are struggling to get in shape? “It’s never too late, and you’re never too old or out of shape to start exercising. By simply getting out of your chair and going for a 20-minute walk, you’ll have the immediate feedback of feeling better physically, mentally, and emotionally,” she says.

Make Exercise Social

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She also recommends connecting with friends to walk, workout, “and just talk every day,” she says. “Walking and talking with a friend or acquaintance is the perfect combo for both physical and mental health! Add resistance training to your workout, which can be as simple as a plank for as long as you can hold it until you work for up to a minute. Then go for 2 minutes or more. This is resistance training and incredible for your core and overall fitness! Then add a pushup on your knees, which is basically a moving plank that strengthens your arms, back, and core, not to mention flattens your abs. Do as many as you can, and try to work up to 20 or more. Mostly, just keep moving every single day. Our bodies are designed to move. The fastest way to early aging is to stop moving. The move it or lose it cliché is true.”

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Try the Hilliard Studio Method at Home

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She says she “takes working out to the next level to produce results that are nothing short of a total mind-body transformation for women and men of all ages and stages,” she says. “Hilliard Studio Method group classes are designed to be taken on a regular basis. Each class is different from the day before. Our energetic and encouraging trainers utilize a variety of powerful movements and workout tools in a high intensity, low impact method driven by empowering, beat-driven music; think personal training in a group setting.” Her classes can also be done virtually via an online streaming platform and live Zoom classes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 20 Superfoods for People Over 50.

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I Stopped Doing These 3 Things and Lost 40 Pounds

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Online fitness coach Alexandra (@alexx.fitt) has amassed a following on TikTok and Instagram by sharing videos about her weight loss. In her many viral videos, she reveals the simple but effective changes she made to her lifestyle that enabled her to drop the weight fast. In a new Instagram video, she gets specific about the “3 things” she “stopped doing to lose 40 pounds.”

She Stepped Away From the Scale

The first thing Alex did was stop weighing herself, she writes. “Why? The scale was messing with my head, so I threw it off my balcony.”

She Stopped Counting Calories

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Lots of health experts recommend counting calories, but that didn’t work for Alex. “I stopped counting calories and stuck to a schedule. I ate breakfast at 8 a.m., a snack at 11, lunch at 1, a snack at 3, and dinner at 6. And yeah, your schedule may be different, but if you have 5 minutes to check TikTok or like this post, you have 5 minutes to grab an apple or pick up a protein bar and throw it in your purse,” she writes.

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She Stopped Doing Workouts She Hated

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Her third lifestyle change? “I stopped doing the workouts I hated,” she claims. I remember I’d always do 40 minutes on the Stairmaster (it didn’t help me lose weight, only raise my cortisol levels), and on the days I was lazy, I’d skip the gym altogether just because I didn’t want to do cardio. Now, my only cardio is walking.”

Her advice? “Start implementing a routine that makes you happy and works for you, not anyone else,” she concludes the post.

Here’s How She Used Walking for Weight Loss

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As for exercise, in some of her other videos, Alex elaborated on how walking helped with her weight loss. Not only would she walk for 20-30 minutes in the morning, but she would take a short 10-15 minute walk after lunch.

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Try to Walk 30 to 60 Minutes a Day, Says Another Expert

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“You can do 30-60 minutes all at one time, or you can do a few 10-15 minute bouts of exercise throughout the day. Whatever works for you,” says The Diet Diva, Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CPT, a Board Certified Sports Dietitian. “Either way, you are raising your metabolism and teaching your body to burn calories.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Just because experts recommend habits, like counting calories, weighing yourself, or doing specific workouts, doesn’t mean they will work for you. If they don’t, make changes accordingly.

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Fitness Coach Lost 44 Pounds When She Stopped Doing These 5 Things

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Are you trying to lose weight, doing everything you think you should be, but the number on the scale won’t budge? According to an expert, it’s possible that you are doing the wrong things and don’t even know it. Laura Denys is a fitness and nutrition coach with over 1.3 million Instagram followers. In a new social media post, she discusses her weight loss journey and admits that she couldn’t lose weight until she changed her approach to diet and fitness. Here are the 5 things she stopped doing to lose 44 pounds.


Stop Following Diets

The cabbage soup diet, keto, cleanses or other trendy diets may seem like a quick fix for weight loss. However, if you are seriously restricting yourself and going on crash diets to lose weight, you could be getting in your own way, according to Laura. “Stop following diets,” she says. “Go to get out of that ‘all or nothing’ mindset.”

Stop Skipping Meals

It can be tempting to miss a meal to cut calories from your day, but Laura doesn’t recommend it because oftentimes, it will lead to you eating more later in the day. “Stop skipping meals, used to think going all day without eating was gonna help me get results but it only caused me to binge eat at midnight,” she says.

Stop Overdoing It with Exercise

Also, don’t go too hard with exercise. “Stop exhausting yourself and learn to rest. I used to do hours on the stair master now I only walk/run for my cardio,” she says.

Stop Restricting Yourself

And, you don’t have to go to extremes with your diet. “Stop restricting yourself and had to learn portion control,” she says. You can even enjoy sweet treats. “I learned to enjoy dessert in moderation,” she says.

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Stop Setting Weight Loss Goals

And her final tip might come as a surprise. “Stop having goals,” she says. “Think that you could lose 2-5lbs a week consistently and would put so much pressure on myself. But as a female your weight changes daily so some weeks l’d lose 2lbs and than gain a lb the next week.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Fitness Expert Says Fit Women in Their 40s Have These 6 Things in Common

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Are you over 40 and struggling to lose weight? Julie Clouse is a social media influencer and fitness and macros expert who tries to “inspire others to be the best version of themselves.” In a new social media post she reveals a few of the habits all the fittest women she knows share. “Not to be dramatic but…There is no secret. The fittest women I know in their 40s have these 6 things in common. They ALL DO THIS!!!” she writes.

Strength Training

The first habit they share? “They prioritize strength training,” she says. “Fittest women in their 40s consistently lift heavy weights, focusing on progressive overload to build muscle and maintain strength.”

Healthy Diet

The next thing they have in common is a healthy diet. “They eat for their goals,” she explains. “They track their macros, prioritize protein (about 1g per pound of body weight), and fuel their bodies with balanced nutrition instead of following fad diets.”

Daily Activity

Another thing they do? “They stay active daily,” she says. “They prioritize NEAT (non-exercise activity thermogenesis) by walking, staying active, and avoiding a sedentary lifestyle, aiming for at least 8-10k steps a day.”

Stress Management

They also understand the importance of mental health and self-care. “They manage stress and recovery,” she writes. “They take rest days, prioritize sleep, and understand that recovery is just as important as workouts. Many practice mindfulness or stress management techniques.”

Patience and Discipline

The fifth habit they share? “They embrace patience and discipline,” she says. “They know results take time and stay disciplined even when progress feels slow.”

Consistency

And what is the most significant piece that ties this all together? “They are CONSISTENT,” she says. “No matter how busy life gets, they show up for themselves day after day. They don’t rely on motivation; they rely on habits they’ve built over time.”

Bonus Tips: Just Start

She also offers some bonus tips. “Just start,” she suggests. “Instead of getting overwhelmed about 6 things you feel like you need to change. Pick 1 start there.”

Don’t Focus on Perfection

“You do NOT have to be perfect. If you’ve been here long enough, I share how to incorporate a sustainable life style with your busy lives and families,” she adds.

Stay the Trail

Next, just keep going. “Yes, it will be hard at first. Yes, there will be days you’re wondering if you’re making progress. Stay the trail. This is for the long term. This is for longevity with your kids and spouses. This is for YOU!” she says.

Take One Hour for Yourself

She also stresses the importance of taking care of yourself and not feeling guilty for it. “Self care is not selfish. You deserve 1 hour to yourself,” she says.

Focus on Losing One Pound a Week

Finally, aim for one pound a week and celebrate it. “Losing 1lb a week is a BIG DEAL!! Imagine if you gained a lb a week. Give yourself grace. The slow way is the fast way for the long term,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Nutrition Coach Reveals 6 High-Protein Desserts for Fat Loss

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Do you have a sweet tooth and are struggling to lose weight? According to an expert, you can still indulge in dessert while burning fat. Brittney Blanco is a Macros Nutrition Coach and social media influencer who regularly shares her creative weight loss meal recipes with her followers. In a new Instagram post, she reveals some delicious go-to desserts to help you lose weight. “6 High-Protein Desserts That Taste Like Cheat Meals 😍 (But Aren’t!)” she titled it. She adds in the video that they have “hardly any calories.”

They Are Low-Calorie, High Protein, with “Amazing” Macros

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According to Blanco, just because a food is sweet doesn’t mean it is bad for you. “Craving something sweet but want to stay on track? 🍪💪 Here are 6 guilt-free, high-protein desserts with almost zero calories (okay, super low-cal 😉) and amazing macros,” she writes. “🎯 High protein, low calorie, and completely satisfying! Which one are you making first?”

Protein Mug Cake

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Her first dessert? Protein Mug Cake. It has 150 calories, 20 grams of protein, 4 grams of carbs, and 5g of fat per serving. “Mix protein powder, almond flour, baking powder, and almond milk. Microwave for 1 min—instant dessert magic!” she says.

Greek Yogurt Parfait

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Her second go-to dessert is a Greek Yogurt Parfait with 120 calories, 15 grams of protein, 8 grams of carbs, and 2 grams of fat. “Layer nonfat Greek yogurt, stevia, and sugar-free syrup with berries. So simple, so good,” she says.

Protein Ice Cream

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If you love ice cream, try Blanco’s Protein Ice Cream, which is simple to make and has just 100 calories, 20 grams of protein, 3 grams of carbs, and zero fat. “Blend protein powder, almond milk, ice, and xanthan gum. Freeze for 1 hour = creamy heaven,” she writes.

Chocolate Protein Pudding

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Chocolate Protein Pudding is her fourth dessert with 90 calories, 18 grams of protein, 4 grams of carbs, and one gram of fat. “Mix casein protein, unsweetened cocoa powder, and almond milk. Chill, top with sugar-free whipped cream,” she says.

Peanut Butter Protein Balls

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Peanut butter fans will love Brittney’s Peanut Butter Protein Balls. One serving has 140 calories, 10 grams of protein, 6 grams of carbohydrates, and six fat grams. “Mix protein powder, powdered peanut butter, almond milk, and stevia into balls. Perfect grab-and-go snack!” she says.

Protein Brownie Batter

Are you constantly licking out the brownie batter bowl? Try Brittney’s Protein Brownie Batter with 80 calories, 12 grams of protein, 3 grams of carbs, and 2 grams of fat. “Mix whey protein, cocoa powder, sugar-free syrup, and a splash of water for a fudgy treat,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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