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I'm 45 and Lost 60 Pounds After I Stopped Making This "Crucial" Mistake

How a single change led to massive results.

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If you've ever felt frustrated with dieting, you're not alone. After 15 years of trying different weight loss approaches, Martin Balcaitis, 45, Senior Vice President of Operations at Lindora in Orange County, California, finally discovered the game-changing mistake that had been holding him back all along. His transformation story proves that sometimes the smallest changes can lead to the biggest results.


The Wake-Up Call

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"I feel like I've always been trying to lose weight!" Martin tells Body Network. "But now that I'm in my mid-40s, I know that it isn't so much about the number on the scale, but my overall health for longevity – that was my real motivator this time around."

The Crucial Discovery

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Standing at 5'9" and weighing 222 pounds, Martin thought he had tried everything. Then came the revelation that changed everything: "I thought I was eating a correct portion for myself, but eyeballing wasn't my friend," he admits. "A food scale was crucial to my success."

RELATED:30 Best Protein Foods That Melt Fat Almost Instantly

The Transformation

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The results speak for themselves. In just six months, Martin dropped from 222 pounds to 165 pounds, achieving a remarkable transformation in his body composition. "My overall body fat percentage went from 36% to 15% in 6 months," he shares proudly.

A New Approach to Food

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Unlike previous attempts at weight loss, Martin's new strategy didn't involve cutting out foods entirely. "I haven't eliminated anything – which is great!" he explains. "I simply know how to manage portions and adjust my eating that day if I know I'm going to have something decadent or high-carb during the day."

A Day of Measured Eating

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Martin's daily menu is both satisfying and strategic. "Breakfast is typically one egg, some egg whites and cottage cheese blended in what I call my 'protein eggs' with spinach and some meat," he says. "Lunch will be a salad with a yogurt-based dressing and dinner is roasted vegetables and lean protein – also three Lindora snacks too!"

RELATED:10-Min Walking Workout Burns Fat at Home, Says Coach

The Workout Strategy

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Time management proved to be another crucial lesson. "Time can always get the best of us so I make sure to workout in the morning," Martin explains. "I make too many excuses to not go to the gym after work." His dedication has paid off: "I can actually see some abs poking through now!"

Dealing with Setbacks

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Martin maintains a realistic approach to challenges. "Sometimes the motivation just isn't there and you have to tell yourself that it's a marathon, not a sprint," he reflects. "Don't beat yourself up if you skip a workout or can't go the distance you wanted to."

The Power of Accountability

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Making the journey public became a powerful tool. "Be vocal about it. I told people I was trying to lose weight to help hold me accountable," he advises. His commitment extended to his wardrobe: "I donated clothes once they were too big for me – I didn't want to buy big clothes again, so I had to keep going!"

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat

A Science-Based Approach

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Martin emphasizes the importance of data in his success. "Knowledge is power, so I would encourage everyone to get a body composition analysis done so they have a true understanding of what their numbers are to make a plan of attack," he recommends.

The Path to Success

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For those inspired by his journey, Martin offers encouraging advice: "Just start! You don't have to wait for a certain day, you don't have to have a big goal in mind – just take little steps and once you see some progress it will motivate you to keep going."

RELATED:7 Simple Daily Exercises To Shrink Hanging Belly Fat

Maintaining Momentum

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His approach to staying motivated remains practical and empowering. "If I am feeling badly about my body – it is 100% in my control to fix it," he states. "Having a plan and solutions is the answer and putting that plan into action is key." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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If you've ever felt frustrated with dieting, you're not alone. After 15 years of trying different weight loss approaches, Martin Balcaitis, 45, Senior Vice President of Operations at Lindora in Orange County, California, finally discovered the game-changing mistake that had been holding him back all along. His transformation story proves that sometimes the smallest changes can lead to the biggest results.

The Wake-Up Call

Martin Balcaitis

Copyright Martin Balcaitis

"I feel like I've always been trying to lose weight!" Martin tells Body Network. "But now that I'm in my mid-40s, I know that it isn't so much about the number on the scale, but my overall health for longevity – that was my real motivator this time around."

The Crucial Discovery

Woman in gloves puts raw chicken breasts in a plate on a digital weighing scale to prepare delicious food at home. Homemade cooking concept.​Understanding True Protein ContentShutterstock

Standing at 5'9" and weighing 222 pounds, Martin thought he had tried everything. Then came the revelation that changed everything: "I thought I was eating a correct portion for myself, but eyeballing wasn't my friend," he admits. "A food scale was crucial to my success."

RELATED:30 Best Protein Foods That Melt Fat Almost Instantly

The Transformation

Martin Balcaitis

Copyright Martin Balcaitis

The results speak for themselves. In just six months, Martin dropped from 222 pounds to 165 pounds, achieving a remarkable transformation in his body composition. "My overall body fat percentage went from 36% to 15% in 6 months," he shares proudly.

A New Approach to Food

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Unlike previous attempts at weight loss, Martin's new strategy didn't involve cutting out foods entirely. "I haven't eliminated anything – which is great!" he explains. "I simply know how to manage portions and adjust my eating that day if I know I'm going to have something decadent or high-carb during the day."

A Day of Measured Eating

Woman hands breaking an egg to separate egg white and yolks and egg shells at the backgroundShutterstock

Martin's daily menu is both satisfying and strategic. "Breakfast is typically one egg, some egg whites and cottage cheese blended in what I call my 'protein eggs' with spinach and some meat," he says. "Lunch will be a salad with a yogurt-based dressing and dinner is roasted vegetables and lean protein – also three Lindora snacks too!"

RELATED:10-Min Walking Workout Burns Fat at Home, Says Coach

The Workout Strategy

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Time management proved to be another crucial lesson. "Time can always get the best of us so I make sure to workout in the morning," Martin explains. "I make too many excuses to not go to the gym after work." His dedication has paid off: "I can actually see some abs poking through now!"

Dealing with Setbacks

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Martin maintains a realistic approach to challenges. "Sometimes the motivation just isn't there and you have to tell yourself that it's a marathon, not a sprint," he reflects. "Don't beat yourself up if you skip a workout or can't go the distance you wanted to."

The Power of Accountability

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Making the journey public became a powerful tool. "Be vocal about it. I told people I was trying to lose weight to help hold me accountable," he advises. His commitment extended to his wardrobe: "I donated clothes once they were too big for me – I didn't want to buy big clothes again, so I had to keep going!"

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat

A Science-Based Approach

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Martin emphasizes the importance of data in his success. "Knowledge is power, so I would encourage everyone to get a body composition analysis done so they have a true understanding of what their numbers are to make a plan of attack," he recommends.

The Path to Success

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For those inspired by his journey, Martin offers encouraging advice: "Just start! You don't have to wait for a certain day, you don't have to have a big goal in mind – just take little steps and once you see some progress it will motivate you to keep going."

RELATED:7 Simple Daily Exercises To Shrink Hanging Belly Fat

Maintaining Momentum

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His approach to staying motivated remains practical and empowering. "If I am feeling badly about my body – it is 100% in my control to fix it," he states. "Having a plan and solutions is the answer and putting that plan into action is key." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you trying to lose weight but not achieving the desired results? Stella Q Rivers is a weight loss coach who is “helping driven women drop 10-30+ lbs, master food, & finally feel in control,” she writes in her Instagram bio. She lost 40 pounds and has managed to keep it off for a decade. “I went from 165lbs to 115lbs & kept it off for 10 years. My biggest REGRET? Making these 5 mistakes,” she writes in an Instagram post.

Mistake 1: Kept on Trying to Diet

Her first mistake? “I Kept on trying to diet,” she reveals. “The more I dieted, the bigger the tire around my waist got & the scale crept up that I avoided getting on it. The #1 predictor of weight GAIN is dieting.”

Mistake 2: Believed the “Fat and Funny Friend” Story

Her second mistake? “Believed my ‘I’m the fat & funny friend’ story,” she reveals. “You are who you say you are. If you’re playing the role of the fat friend, you are her. What role do you play in your family (the ‘ugly duckling’) & friend circles and HOW much weight are you keeping on your body right now because of it?” she writes.

Mistake 3: Believed “Progressionals” Over Her Body

Her third mistake? She believed “professionals” over her body. “Between dieticians, nutritionists, coaches, hypnotherapists, Jenny Craig consultants, you name it. I did it & trusted them,” she explains. “When you trust OTHER people more than yourself, you will fight your weight because you won’t *trust* yourself. Yes, get informed BUT take what you need & leave the rest.”

Mistake 4: Gave Into Every Craving in the “Name of Not Binging”

Some people will tell you to lean into cravings so you don’t overindulge. But she disagrees. Giving into every craving in the “name of not binging” was her fourth mistake. “Because of dieting, I became a binge eater. Through healing that phase of my life I was told ‘honor your craving or else you’ll binge.’ Again, listening to professionals, FEARING food & my body and gaining more weight. It didn’t feel good. When you give into every craving, you will have a weight problem & food will have the power over you.”

Mistake 5: Worked Out Too Much

Her fifth and final mistake was working out too much. “Running 7+miles a day for a thigh gap, doing HIIT workouts 6 days a week= working out like an a**hole. This contributed to the binging & feeling out of control with food, skyrocketed weight gain & avoiding the scale,” she says. “I love running & love a good HIIT session every now & then but I love listening to my body more. Result? 40+lbs down. Your relationship to yourself is the pathway to your weight loss.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Kiki (@kikivirk) is a weight loss influencer who has amassed a social media following for sharing all the tips and tricks that enabled her to lose a whopping 60 pounds and keep it off. In one of her viral videos – viewed over 8 million times, Kiki reveals the biggest weight loss mistake she made on her journey – and also what ultimately led to her weight loss success.


She Says Doing High Intensity Workouts Were a “Huge Mistake”

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“I was so motivated to lose weight and I wanted to see results fast, but I didn't do my research and I jumped straight in, literally into a high intensity, 90 day workout plan. Huge mistake,” Kiki says in the video.

After 45 Days She Hadn’t Lost Weight

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After a month-and-a-half, she didn't feel like she'd lost any weight. “I was overdoing it. The long, painful HIIT workouts were actually doing my body no good. They were causing it too much stress and loads of other problems,” she says.

Related: 5 Pilates Exercises for a Flat Stomach in 14 Days

She Had “Weight Plateaus” and “Felt So Hungry and Fatigued”

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In another video, she specified that she was doing “high intensity cardio” five times a week in hopes it “would burn fat fast and give me my dream body,” she explained. “But instead, I had weight plateaus and felt so hungry and fatigued.

Her Fat Began to “Melt Off” When She Started Strength Training

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“Literally, as soon as I started strength training and less cardio, the fat began to melt off, and the lean muscle mass I gained gave me the tone look I'd always wanted,” she continued.

Her Program: LISS, Walking, Strength and Resistance Training, and a Short HIIT Workout

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Her program starts with doing 45 to 60 minutes of LISS cardio four times a week. She also walks 7 to 12,000 steps every day, does strength and resistance training three times a week, and a 15-minute HIIT workout once a week.

Related: Patrick Mahomes' "Natural Dad Bod" Has Everyone Talking. Here's How to Ditch It, According to Expert

An Expert Weighs In

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“What she says is definitely spot on,” says Kendra Gamble, HIT Fitness Training, Huntingdon Valley, PA, NPTI Certified Personal Trainer and Nutritional Consultant. “Intense cardio and intense HIIT more than twice a week will do the body more harm than good and is not the way to lose fat and get that toned look.” Instead, she agrees that “increasing your everyday steps is more of the most important and beginner things you can do to start losing fat along with getting your diet right.” Unfortunately, “fat loss is not an immediate thing and will take time and dedication but she explains it all perfectly.”

💪🔥Body Booster: If you are a beginner trying to lose weight, starting by increasing your steps and modifying your diet instead of going overboard with higher intensity workouts.

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Katie Dunlop, a fitness influencer and certified personal trainer, transformed her body and her life by shedding 45 pounds and getting rid of stubborn stomach fat. In a recent YouTube video, Katie shared the key dietary changes that helped her reach her goals. She revealed that her weight loss success wasn’t just about exercise; it involved being more mindful of her food choices and cutting out certain items that were sneaking extra calories and sugar into her daily routine.


Through consistency, dedication, and small, sustainable changes, Katie not only achieved her weight loss goals but also became an inspiration to thousands of others. By cutting out these six specific foods, which she once thought were healthy or harmless, Katie finally saw the results she wanted. Here's a look at the six foods she eliminated and how these small shifts made a big difference.

I Ditched Sugary Coffee Creamers

"I was a huge international delight girl, and this is not just to hate on this brand; it's just that it was my brand. I did international delight, French vanilla coffee creamer in my coffee every day," she says in the video. "So that was an excess of 20 to 25 grams of sugar first thing in the morning before 7:00 AM. I'm like, let's just get a little cup of sugar in here, and 24 grams of sugar is the daily recommended amount of added sugar."

I Cut Out Fiber and Protein Bars

"So I used to eat fiber bars or protein bars every single day. I would use them as meal replacements, thinking that they were healthy, but that wasn't the case," she says in the video.

"The problem with most of these bars is they have so many unnecessary added ingredients. So ideally, I try to keep my bars to 10 grams of protein or more, six grams of sugar or less, and it's hard to find any bars that have that, that also don't have just a bunch of chemicals in the ingredient list or fake sugars and stuff."

I Stopped My Nightly Frozen Yogurt Habit

"In college, we had a yogurt land down the street from us, and this is when frozen yogurt was it. And so we went a couple of times, and then we just kept going and kept going. We ended up going almost every single night we could walk to it," she says in the video.

"Well, in a small, like a cup serving of most of those frozen yogurts, they have 25 grams of sugar. And then on top of it, I felt like it was a gateway drug. I don't know how to describe it. Then you're like, oh, a little gram cracker, a little granola, that's healthy. Oh, a little coconut spread. You just start adding and adding, and all of a sudden, you have 500 extra calories a day that I didn't need."

I Gave Up the Special K Diet

"Does anyone remember the Special K diet? Anyone? Am I dating myself? Okay, so you know the Special K cereal, the brand cereal, they've removed all of this from their website. I went digging, I could find nothing. It was a real thing though," she says in the video.

"It was basically the idea that you were to swap two meals a day with Special K cereal, and they claim that you could lose six pounds and a pant size in two weeks."

RELATED:I Lost 70 Pounds and Beat Binge Eating With These 6 Steps

I Stopped Snacking on Veggie Chips

"I was duped into thinking that veggie chips were so much healthier than potato chips or the hint of lime toss. I was obsessed with it. They were veggies, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong. It took me so long to realize that they were not at all healthier," she says in the video.

"The whole process that they have to go through in order to make them into chips basically just takes most of the nutrients out of them. And you are left with just a vegetable-colored shaped potato chip."

I Stopped Eating After 9 PM

"I had to stop eating after 9:00 PM, and let's just say there's not a magical time. So don't think, oh my gosh, 9:00 PM said I stopped eating at seven. This is not a problem for me. It may still be 9:00 PM, which was my time," she says in the video.

"The reason why I had to give myself a time at night to stop eating was because I would just keep going. Those cravings would hit me mentally or physically, and I didn't really know how to control them. The bottom line was I wasn't making healthy choices after 9:00 PM."

RELATED:Top 10 Leafy Greens to Burn Fat You Should Eat Every Day

The Power of Small Changes

"When I did that, those hundreds of excess calories were cut from my diet when I cut out the creamers with all the sugars and fake stuff. When I stopped eating all these fiber bars and cereals and all these little things that I thought were healthy, I actually started getting results," she says in the video.

"Yes, I was moving my body, but I wasn't doing anything crazy. You guys know I started 10 minutes a day and I moved up to, I do 30 to 45 minutes a day now. But it's those little tiny things that add up."

By making these changes and being mindful of her food choices, Katie was able to lose 45 pounds and transform her body. Her story highlights the importance of identifying and eliminating hidden sources of excess calories and sugar in our diets. And if you enjoyed this, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Do you want to lose weight by making a few simple changes to your diet? Katie Dunlop (@LoveSweatFitness) is an influencer who lost 45 pounds and went on to become a certified personal trainer, helping others achieve their weight loss goals. In a viral YouTube video, she “really racked her brain” and revealed everything she did – and stopped doing – to lose 45 pounds “and keep it off for like eight-plus years now,” she says.


I Stopped Over Exercising

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“Number one thing I stopped doing that helped me lose all of that weight was over-exercising,” says Katie, explaining that what she did for years caused her “to fail” because she would go like full throttle crazy thinking I needed to work out for an hour or two hours every single day.” However, after a few weeks, she would “crash and burn so hard and end up doing nothing for probably a month or two.”

Why? Because It Leads to Burn Out

“So it's like these big highs and lows, right? You like to go full craziness, and you just get burnt out.,” she says, adding that your body “can’t handle that mentally” and “you get tired and exhausted.” And “if you're not setting up goals in a strategic way and giving yourself micro-goals, you're gonna end up failing because you don't have that constant motivation. You're not seeing results right away, and all you're feeling is exhausted and tired, and that does not work for anyone. So I had to give up over-exercising and find a way to move my body every day and start healthy habits and really just start to build.”

Commit to 10 Minutes of Exercise Daily

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“I just committed to 10 minutes every single day, and that usually turned into more than 10 minutes. But 10 minutes was super manageable, and it made sure I wasn't overdoing it so that I could be consistent over time,” says Katie.

I Stopped Weighing Myself Daily

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“Number two thing I stopped doing every single day, and this is one that if you take nothing else away from this, this is the one you need to make sure you do. I stopped weighing myself every day,” says Katie. “I literally went through a period of time where I would weigh myself every single day.”

Why? Body Weight Fluctuates Daily

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“And here's the thing, you guys: Your body weight fluctuates every single day,” she points out. “It can depend on how much food you've had, if you've gone to the bathroom if you've been drinking a ton of water if you're on your period. All of those things and more can impact your body a couple of pounds here and there. So, if you're weighing yourself every day, it is going to be devastating and discouraging when you're trying to reach goals and make changes. If you're seeing the scale go up and down and up and down, you gotta stop doing it.”

Instead, I Weighed Myself Every Four Weeks and Took Photos and Measurements

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“What I started doing was setting a goal for myself to weigh myself every four weeks, but I also started taking photos and measurements. And those two things are really important because there's more than just this number on the scale, right?” says Katie. "If you have a standard scale, all you're gonna get is a number. And what does that mean? Like there's so much more to it than your actual weight, and things change as you start to live a healthy lifestyle.”

I Also Invested in a Comprehensive Scale

“The other thing I did was I started to use a better scale, like one that actually gives you more information,” she says, revealing that she splurged on the Body Analyzer from Vanity Planet. “You guys, this is the best at-home scale you can get because it not only tells you your overall weight, but it breaks down your water weight, your bone density, your muscle mass,” she continues, “so you can get more information and understand as you're making change, if you're gaining fat, if you're gaining muscle, like how much water weight is in there.” She recommends using it once a month.

RELATED: Lose 30 Pounds in 3 Months Without Starving Yourself

I Stopped Comparing Myself to Others

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“The third thing I stopped doing, and this one is tricky, I stopped scrolling so much,” she says. “I literally used to get trapped on Facebook and Instagram when it first started coming around and just scrolling and scrolling and looking at people and comparing myself and scrolling through magazines.”

It Was “So Unhealthy”

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“We're constantly bombarded by images of people that we think we're supposed to look like. I compared myself to my friends. I compared myself to other women I saw in real life and on TV, and on the internet everywhere. And it's so unhealthy. Like it was probably one of the most emotionally draining things that I was doing for myself,” she explains. It “was really causing me to get back into these depressed moods that wouldn't allow me to have the motivation to keep going because I'd be like, ‘I can never get there. I'm never gonna look like that.’ But the thing is, you're not supposed to look like that,” she points out. “You're supposed to look like you like the healthiest version of you that you can possibly be.”

If I Scroll and Think Negatively, I Stop and Say Something Positive

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“What I started doing is I gave myself a little bit of a rule. I would say I could scroll all day long, but the second that my brain started either thinking negatively about someone I was looking at or thinking negatively about myself, I had to stop, and I had to say something positive. And I think that's good because depending on your mood, it can really dictate and impact how you feel and how you perceive information and like how you see things,” she points out. “So just flip the script, be positive, and you'll feel so much better.”

RELATED: What Happens to Your Body When You Stop Eating Processed Meats

I Stopped Netflix Binging

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“The fourth thing I stopped doing was binging so much on Netflix. And this one's hard 'cause I really love shows and movies. I just always have. But it's so easy to get sucked into like the Netflix or whatever, TV, YouTube, vortex when you're like off work, and you're tired, and you just wanna sit on the couch, and you then go into like watching land and then you don't get your workouts in, or you're like more likely to snack mindlessly, right?”

Instead, I Did Productive Things

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“So I stopped binging, but sort of, I just flipped it. So I was like, okay, well, I'm not gonna just like sit here for three hours and watch a bunch of TV 'cause now I'm not being productive. I'm getting more tired and not wanting to go do things even more,” she says.

My Rule Is, I Can Watch My Shows While Doing Cardio

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“So now my rule is I either have to be on the treadmill doing cardio to watch my Netflix shows, or I have to have already worked out,” she explains. “So if it didn't already work out, then I'm not gonna watch it. Or if I really, really wanna watch it, then I like to go to the gym and go on the treadmill.”

I Gave Up Diets

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And the final but most important sacrifice she made? “You gotta give up diets,” she says. “So we all have a diet, but you need to stop being on diets. The difference is that a healthy diet is just like how you fuel your body and nourish yourself every single day, right? Your diet is your nutrition, how you're feeding yourself.” She says that she tried every diet under the sun, “and I ended up sick after most of 'em. If I ever lost weight on them, I gained it all right back, which is like fluctuating up and down, jacked up my metabolism.”

RELATED:Irresistible Smoothie Recipes to Kickstart Your Weight Loss Journey in 30 Days

I Added Healthier Things Instead of Being Overly Restrictive

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“You have to find something that works in your life that you can maintain long term all the time,” she continues. “So I focused on adding healthier things into my diet all the time. Instead of cutting stuff out and restricting, I would add things in, add more veggies, add more water, like add more of the good stuff so you have less room for the bad stuff. And then I would start eliminating certain things where I'm like, okay, well, I know these really, really bad processed carbohydrates aren't good for my body. And so, what can I swap those for? That's a healthier option without giving up carbs because we need them.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Start with just 10 minutes of exercise each day. Keeping it short and simple makes it easier to stay consistent over time.

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Most of us have started a weight loss journey at some point, excited about the possibilities but unsure of what lies ahead. Nikki Madoch, an ASM Certified Personal Trainer and Certified Nutrition Coach, transformed her life by losing 70 pounds on the Weight Watchers program and has maintained her results for over three years. "I started back in April of 2020, and I just signed up with WW. It was kind of a fluke thing," Nikki shares about her journey that began unexpectedly but led to lasting change. These hard-earned insights from her experience will help you navigate your own weight loss journey with greater confidence and fewer surprises along the way.

Focus on How You Feel, Not How You Look

Finding what truly motivates you makes all the difference in maintaining a healthy lifestyle. For years, Nikki focused solely on appearance as motivation. "I just wanted to look better. I wanted to have a flat stomach. I wanted to look like other people," she admits. But when she shifted her focus to how good she felt after eating nutritious foods, drinking enough water, and moving her body, everything changed. "One week in I could not believe how much better I felt after just one week," Nikki reveals. That feeling became her driving force, not the number on the scale or her reflection in the mirror.

Lasting Motivation Comes From Unexpected Places

The unexpected rewards of healthy habits can become your strongest motivation. "I always thought that if I could just lose weight it would make me happy with how I looked and that's what would keep me going, and it has not been that at all," Nikki explains. Instead, she discovered that feeling energetic and capable became much more important than appearance. "The biggest thing has been being able to be active the way I want to be and to just feel better all around," she shares about what truly drives her healthy choices now. As you begin your journey, pay attention to improvements in your energy levels, sleep quality, and mood – these benefits often prove more meaningful in the long run.

Body Image Can Get More Complicated, Not Less

Surprisingly, body image issues can intensify during weight loss. "I didn't know that I would have more body dysmorphia as I lost weight," Nikki reveals. As she became more focused on her changing body, she found herself examining every detail and feeling more self-conscious than before. "I was so self-conscious about my loose skin that I was developing as I was losing weight," she explains. At her heaviest, she had reached a point of not caring about her appearance, but during weight loss, she became hyper-aware of every change. Remember that this mental adjustment is normal, and focusing on strength and health rather than appearance can help manage these feelings.

Learn to Be Kind to Yourself

Learning to be gentle with yourself during difficult moments is crucial for long-term success. "There was a point in my journey, and I feel like it was like the winter the first winter of my first year of weight loss, that I was really struggling just kind of picking apart every part of me and feeling like I wasn't doing good enough," Nikki shares. These feelings of inadequacy can sabotage progress if left unchecked. Developing a practice of self-compassion – treating yourself with the same kindness you would offer a friend – helps navigate the inevitable tough days. Remember that perfection isn't required for progress, and each day offers a fresh opportunity to make choices aligned with your goals.

Don't Shortchange Your Nutrition

With Weight Watchers specifically, using your weekly points allowance can actually boost your results. "The weeks that I would use all my weeklies were always my best weigh-in weeks," Nikki shares. Initially, she thought weekly points were just extras you shouldn't use if you wanted maximum weight loss. "I kind of thought that was just like bonus like you didn't really have to use those points and you shouldn't use them," she admits. However, she discovered that spreading these points throughout the week on satisfying foods like protein bars, nuts, or peanut butter helped her feel more nourished and lose weight more effectively. Don't view these resources as "cheating" – they're designed to make your plan sustainable.

Find Balance Between Flexibility and Structure

Learning how to incorporate favorite foods in moderation prevents feelings of deprivation. "I kind of want to eat more. I don't want to restrict. I want to feel like I'm eating more and more nourishing foods," Nikki explains about her approach to using her weekly points allowance. She realized that nourishing her body properly was essential for long-term success. "If I like lost all the weight not eating enough, then I'd have to maintain the weight not eating enough," she points out about the importance of establishing sustainable habits from the beginning. This balanced approach taught her that lasting weight loss doesn't require eliminating joy from eating – it's about finding a middle ground that supports your goals.

Keep Your Meals Interesting

Variety is crucial for long-term success. "It is very easy to get burned out of things and it's very important to switch things up," Nikki explains. She learned quickly that eating the same low-point foods repeatedly led to boredom and frustration. "I got so burned out of those different things and realized that I could start to mix things up and it would just keep things interesting and keep me on track," she shares. Try adding one new recipe each week or finding multiple ways to prepare your favorite meals. Creating variety in your meals makes healthy eating something to look forward to rather than a chore, which Nikki found essential for staying consistent over years rather than just weeks or months.

Establish a Few Go-To Options

Identifying a few reliable, enjoyable meals provides stability within your flexible routine. "Definitely find like your staple items," Nikki advises, noting that some consistency can actually support long-term adherence. Despite emphasizing variety, she admits, "It got that way with like my protein coffee. I haven't gotten sick of those and I've still made them the same for three and a half years now." Having a handful of go-to options that you genuinely enjoy removes decision fatigue and provides reliable nutrition when life gets hectic. The key is balancing these staples with enough new options to prevent monotony while maintaining the comfort of familiar favorites.

Don't Obsess Over the Scale

Your weight is just one measure of progress, and sometimes not the most meaningful one. "Weight and the number on the scale is not everything," Nikki emphasizes. Despite losing 70 pounds, she never reached her initial target weight – and that's completely fine. "To this day, I still haven't gotten down to 170 at all. I got down to 180 and maybe like 178 at a few points. But now I'm back up to 190. And it is totally fine," she explains. At 190 pounds on her 6-foot frame, she's healthier and more toned than when she weighed less but had less muscle. Progress pictures, how clothes fit, and increased strength are often better indicators of success than the number on the scale.

Take Progress Photos

Visual records of your progress provide powerful motivation when the scale doesn't reflect your efforts. "I'm actually really happy that I did start taking progress pictures from the start," Nikki reflects. These images became invaluable when her weight loss plateaued after she began strength training. "I really did have good success with the scale, but then it started to plateau especially when I started to lift weights," she explains. She could visually see how her body composition was changing even when the numbers weren't moving. Nikki recommends taking regular photos and considering measurements (something she wishes she had done) to track non-scale victories. These records offer concrete evidence of progress during inevitable plateaus.

Redefine What Success Means to You

Changing how you measure success creates a healthier relationship with your body and your goals. "My body is so much more toned and strong than it was two years ago when I weighed 180 pounds," Nikki shares, explaining that at her current 190 pounds, she's actually healthier than when she weighed less. This realization transformed how she viewed success. Rather than chasing a specific number she had arbitrarily set based on her high school weight, she learned to value strength, energy, and overall health. "I'm actually the healthiest I've ever been," she says about her current state. As you navigate your own journey, regularly reassess what success looks like for you and be willing to adjust your goals as you learn more about what truly serves your wellbeing. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Between work, family, and everything else life throws your way, finding time to prepare healthy meals can feel impossible. Michelle Roots, a kinesiologist, personal trainer, and nutrition coach with over 18 years of experience, has mastered the art of quick, effective meal prep. "I'm a wife, a busy mama of two little boys, and I run two businesses," says Michelle in her post. "Often I'm working until eight o'clock at night, and when I come home, I don't have time to cook a fancy Instagram-worthy meal." Michelle created these six high-protein meals—all ready in under 10 minutes—to help people "increase lean muscle and decrease body fat to become the strongest, leanest, healthiest versions of themselves." These simple meals will keep you on track with your fat loss goals without spending hours in the kitchen.

Your 10-Minute Taco Bowl

This metabolism-boosting twist on taco night packs in protein and nutrients without the extra calories. Start with a base of quick-cook brown rice (Michelle recommends the 90-second packs for when meal prep isn't possible). Add pre-made taco meat and steamed frozen broccoli for fiber and volume. "I always buy bags of frozen broccoli from Costco—they're one of my favorite things because I actually just love broccoli loaded with fiber, high volume to keep me feeling full, and of course loaded with micronutrients," Michelle explains. Based on your daily nutrition needs, finish with a dollop of sour cream and sprinkle of cheese. This protein-rich meal comes together in minutes and helps fuel fat loss while keeping you satisfied.

Protein-Packed Kale Salad in Minutes

Turn store-bought salad kits into fat-burning meals with this grab-and-go strategy. Michelle makes this a weekly staple: "When I'm at the grocery store on either a Sunday or Monday, I will always pick up one or two of these kale salads just to have in the fridge and again just to have in a pinch versus stopping for fast food." Simply pour your kale salad into a bowl and add protein—pre-cooked chicken, leftover salmon, or shrimp. Michelle's surprising favorite protein add-in? "Do not knock it till you try it... I will do two whole eggs and liquid egg whites, scramble that in a pan, and I will throw the scrambled eggs into the salad." For extra nutrients, add sliced cucumber, berries, and just half to three-quarters of the provided dressing. This quick meal supports fat loss while delivering essential proteins for muscle maintenance.

Fat-Burning 10-Minute Stir Fry

This protein-rich alternative to takeout helps burn fat while satisfying cravings. Start with a bag of stir-fry vegetables heated in a pan. "Another thing I like to throw in on top of that is I always have a bag of frozen edamame beans in the freezer so I will take those edamame beans, a few servings, and I throw those into the pan too—just more protein and so many more nutrients," Michelle explains. Add brown rice (meal prepped or from quick-cook packs) and your protein of choice—pre-cooked chicken, shrimp, salmon, or steak. When really pressed for time, Michelle suggests: "When in doubt I just need a quick protein, I will scramble some eggs and toss it into the stir fry and mix it all up." Finish with a lower-sugar sauce like Naked and Saucy teriyaki sesame ginger for a metabolism-boosting meal in minutes.

No-Cook Tuna Protein Bowl for Fat Loss

When you need protein without cooking, this fat-burning combo delivers results fast. "Again a super easy go-to—this is great for lunch, this is great to make and take on the go with you, or a quick dinner when you get home late and you're exhausted and you don't feel like cooking," Michelle says. Simply mix a can of tuna with half a mashed avocado. Add mustard for flavor—"I personally really love mustard so I will put a little bit of mustard in there and I will mix that all up," Michelle shares. Serve over spinach for extra nutrients or spread on whole grain toast for a complete meal. The combination of lean protein and healthy fats helps control hunger while supporting metabolism—perfect for fat loss without complicated cooking.

Muscle-Building Protein Pasta in 10 Minutes

Transform comfort food into a fat-burning, muscle-building powerhouse with this simple swap. "Easy high protein meal number five is a high protein pasta, so either a lentil pasta or a chickpea pasta," Michelle explains. These alternatives pack significantly more protein than regular pasta, supporting metabolism and muscle growth. Add an additional protein boost: "What I like to do is add some shrimp to it, or another great idea is to mix in some cottage cheese with your tomato sauce and add that to the pasta." Include steamed vegetables for additional volume and nutrients. Michelle highlights an added benefit: "The cool thing about this one is you can make a big portion for yourself and you will have leftovers for the next day and possibly the day after depending on what your serving sizes are going to look like." This quick meal supports your body's fat-burning potential while keeping hunger at bay.

Your 10-Minute Fat-Burning Protein Plate

This customizable formula boosts metabolism with whatever ingredients you have handy. "Last but not least a super easy pick a protein, baked sweet potato, and pick a steamed veggie so asparagus or broccoli—something that you enjoy to eat," Michelle explains. Choose any protein—pre-cooked chicken, quick-cooking salmon in the air fryer, or Michelle's shortcut option: "Now this could be, guess what, scrambled eggs—mix in cottage cheese to your scrambled eggs to increase the protein portion." Pair with a microwave or air-fried sweet potato and steamed vegetables for a complete meal. "I'll bake a sweet potato either microwave or in the air fryer and then steam some broccoli and eat that and call it a day," Michelle says. This balanced combination provides the perfect mix of protein, complex carbs, and nutrients to support fat burning and muscle maintenance without complicated recipes.

The 10-Minute Secret to Sustainable Fat Loss

"Call me boring, but I honestly feel food is just fuel," Michelle says, cutting through the Instagram-perfect meal culture. These six quick, protein-rich meals deliver what matters—results. "I am able to stay lean, I don't feel starving, I don't feel deprived, I don't feel like I'm on a diet," Michelle emphasizes. The real key to fat loss isn't complicated recipes but consistent, simple nutrition choices. "When I am coming home from work at 8:15 and I'm starving, I know that I'm not stopping even at a healthier fast food restaurant—I know I'm going home because I have these options ready to go." By adapting these meal frameworks to your tastes and nutrition targets, you'll build the sustainable habits needed for lasting fat loss. As Michelle puts it, "If you really want to see changes in your body composition, if you want to reach your fat loss goals, if you want to start to see some muscle definition and not only see it but maintain these results, you need to start building these healthy habits." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you dieting and exercising but still hanging onto belly weight? Camden Mamian is a metabolic expert and fitness trainer who helps his clients repair their hormones to lose weight. In a new social media post, he reveals the biggest missteps you might be making, causing you to hold onto weight in your midsection. “Your body will keep storing fat in your lower belly and hips until you stop making these mistakes,” he writes.

You Are likely Making a Mistake

Here’s the truth: “Fat loss isn’t magic, it’s science. And odds are, you might be making one (or more) of these mistakes,” he writes.

You’re Running on Coffee and Wine

One common mistake? Running on coffee and alcohol. “Surviving on caffeine all day and winding down with wine at night? Multiple drinks throughout the week can throw off your macros, disrupt sleep, and leave you exhausted the next day—making fat loss feel impossible,” he writes.

You’re Eating Too Little

Another common mistake? “Trying to survive on 1,200 calories while chasing kids and busy at work? No wonder you’re exhausted. Overly aggressive deficits aren’t sustainable and leave your metabolism hurting making that binging cycle even worse!” he says.

You’re Not Moving Enough

Not exercising enough will also have you holding onto weight. “Yes, you’re busy. But even if you work out 3-4 times a week, the rest of the day matters too. Walking, playing with your kids, and staying active outside the gym are crucial for long-term fat loss,” he writes.

You’re All in…Til the Weekend

If you are all in during the week, but majorly cheating on the weekend, it could be having serious consequences. “Monday - Thursday, you’re on point. Then Friday - Sunday? It’s a free-for-all. If you’re only hitting your goals 57% of the time, progress is going to be slow. Consistency over time is what truly gets results,” he writes.

No Meal Planning, No Success

If you aren’t meal-prepping, you are making a big mistake. “No groceries, no plan, and no clue what’s for dinner? That’s when bad choices happen. A little preparation goes a long way in setting yourself up for success,” he points out.

You’re Guessing Instead of Tracking

Don’t try guessing in lieu of tracking. “You wouldn’t guess your kids’ school schedule, so why guess your food intake? Tracking isn’t forever, but it’s a powerful tool to help you understand what your body actually needs,” he says.

You Want Results Yesterday

Be patient, results take time. “A couple of good weeks doesn’t undo years of habits. Give yourself at least 3 months of consistency before deciding if something is working. (But it shouldn’t force you to restrict)” he concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.