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I'm 45 and Lost 60 Pounds After I Stopped Making This "Crucial" Mistake

How a single change led to massive results.

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If you've ever felt frustrated with dieting, you're not alone. After 15 years of trying different weight loss approaches, Martin Balcaitis, 45, Senior Vice President of Operations at Lindora in Orange County, California, finally discovered the game-changing mistake that had been holding him back all along. His transformation story proves that sometimes the smallest changes can lead to the biggest results.


The Wake-Up Call

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"I feel like I've always been trying to lose weight!" Martin tells Body Network. "But now that I'm in my mid-40s, I know that it isn't so much about the number on the scale, but my overall health for longevity – that was my real motivator this time around."

The Crucial Discovery

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Standing at 5'9" and weighing 222 pounds, Martin thought he had tried everything. Then came the revelation that changed everything: "I thought I was eating a correct portion for myself, but eyeballing wasn't my friend," he admits. "A food scale was crucial to my success."

RELATED:30 Best Protein Foods That Melt Fat Almost Instantly

The Transformation

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The results speak for themselves. In just six months, Martin dropped from 222 pounds to 165 pounds, achieving a remarkable transformation in his body composition. "My overall body fat percentage went from 36% to 15% in 6 months," he shares proudly.

A New Approach to Food

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Unlike previous attempts at weight loss, Martin's new strategy didn't involve cutting out foods entirely. "I haven't eliminated anything – which is great!" he explains. "I simply know how to manage portions and adjust my eating that day if I know I'm going to have something decadent or high-carb during the day."

A Day of Measured Eating

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Martin's daily menu is both satisfying and strategic. "Breakfast is typically one egg, some egg whites and cottage cheese blended in what I call my 'protein eggs' with spinach and some meat," he says. "Lunch will be a salad with a yogurt-based dressing and dinner is roasted vegetables and lean protein – also three Lindora snacks too!"

RELATED:10-Min Walking Workout Burns Fat at Home, Says Coach

The Workout Strategy

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Time management proved to be another crucial lesson. "Time can always get the best of us so I make sure to workout in the morning," Martin explains. "I make too many excuses to not go to the gym after work." His dedication has paid off: "I can actually see some abs poking through now!"

Dealing with Setbacks

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Martin maintains a realistic approach to challenges. "Sometimes the motivation just isn't there and you have to tell yourself that it's a marathon, not a sprint," he reflects. "Don't beat yourself up if you skip a workout or can't go the distance you wanted to."

The Power of Accountability

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Making the journey public became a powerful tool. "Be vocal about it. I told people I was trying to lose weight to help hold me accountable," he advises. His commitment extended to his wardrobe: "I donated clothes once they were too big for me – I didn't want to buy big clothes again, so I had to keep going!"

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat

A Science-Based Approach

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Martin emphasizes the importance of data in his success. "Knowledge is power, so I would encourage everyone to get a body composition analysis done so they have a true understanding of what their numbers are to make a plan of attack," he recommends.

The Path to Success

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For those inspired by his journey, Martin offers encouraging advice: "Just start! You don't have to wait for a certain day, you don't have to have a big goal in mind – just take little steps and once you see some progress it will motivate you to keep going."

RELATED:7 Simple Daily Exercises To Shrink Hanging Belly Fat

Maintaining Momentum

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His approach to staying motivated remains practical and empowering. "If I am feeling badly about my body – it is 100% in my control to fix it," he states. "Having a plan and solutions is the answer and putting that plan into action is key." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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If you've ever felt frustrated with dieting, you're not alone. After 15 years of trying different weight loss approaches, Martin Balcaitis, 45, Senior Vice President of Operations at Lindora in Orange County, California, finally discovered the game-changing mistake that had been holding him back all along. His transformation story proves that sometimes the smallest changes can lead to the biggest results.

The Wake-Up Call

Martin Balcaitis

Copyright Martin Balcaitis

"I feel like I've always been trying to lose weight!" Martin tells Body Network. "But now that I'm in my mid-40s, I know that it isn't so much about the number on the scale, but my overall health for longevity – that was my real motivator this time around."

The Crucial Discovery

Woman in gloves puts raw chicken breasts in a plate on a digital weighing scale to prepare delicious food at home. Homemade cooking concept.​Understanding True Protein ContentShutterstock

Standing at 5'9" and weighing 222 pounds, Martin thought he had tried everything. Then came the revelation that changed everything: "I thought I was eating a correct portion for myself, but eyeballing wasn't my friend," he admits. "A food scale was crucial to my success."

RELATED:30 Best Protein Foods That Melt Fat Almost Instantly

The Transformation

Martin Balcaitis

Copyright Martin Balcaitis

The results speak for themselves. In just six months, Martin dropped from 222 pounds to 165 pounds, achieving a remarkable transformation in his body composition. "My overall body fat percentage went from 36% to 15% in 6 months," he shares proudly.

A New Approach to Food

Man eats, eating​What To Do InsteadShutterstock

Unlike previous attempts at weight loss, Martin's new strategy didn't involve cutting out foods entirely. "I haven't eliminated anything – which is great!" he explains. "I simply know how to manage portions and adjust my eating that day if I know I'm going to have something decadent or high-carb during the day."

A Day of Measured Eating

Woman hands breaking an egg to separate egg white and yolks and egg shells at the backgroundShutterstock

Martin's daily menu is both satisfying and strategic. "Breakfast is typically one egg, some egg whites and cottage cheese blended in what I call my 'protein eggs' with spinach and some meat," he says. "Lunch will be a salad with a yogurt-based dressing and dinner is roasted vegetables and lean protein – also three Lindora snacks too!"

RELATED:10-Min Walking Workout Burns Fat at Home, Says Coach

The Workout Strategy

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Time management proved to be another crucial lesson. "Time can always get the best of us so I make sure to workout in the morning," Martin explains. "I make too many excuses to not go to the gym after work." His dedication has paid off: "I can actually see some abs poking through now!"

Dealing with Setbacks

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Martin maintains a realistic approach to challenges. "Sometimes the motivation just isn't there and you have to tell yourself that it's a marathon, not a sprint," he reflects. "Don't beat yourself up if you skip a workout or can't go the distance you wanted to."

The Power of Accountability

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Making the journey public became a powerful tool. "Be vocal about it. I told people I was trying to lose weight to help hold me accountable," he advises. His commitment extended to his wardrobe: "I donated clothes once they were too big for me – I didn't want to buy big clothes again, so I had to keep going!"

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat

A Science-Based Approach

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Martin emphasizes the importance of data in his success. "Knowledge is power, so I would encourage everyone to get a body composition analysis done so they have a true understanding of what their numbers are to make a plan of attack," he recommends.

The Path to Success

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For those inspired by his journey, Martin offers encouraging advice: "Just start! You don't have to wait for a certain day, you don't have to have a big goal in mind – just take little steps and once you see some progress it will motivate you to keep going."

RELATED:7 Simple Daily Exercises To Shrink Hanging Belly Fat

Maintaining Momentum

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His approach to staying motivated remains practical and empowering. "If I am feeling badly about my body – it is 100% in my control to fix it," he states. "Having a plan and solutions is the answer and putting that plan into action is key." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you trying to lose weight but not achieving the desired results? Stella Q Rivers is a weight loss coach who is “helping driven women drop 10-30+ lbs, master food, & finally feel in control,” she writes in her Instagram bio. She lost 40 pounds and has managed to keep it off for a decade. “I went from 165lbs to 115lbs & kept it off for 10 years. My biggest REGRET? Making these 5 mistakes,” she writes in an Instagram post.

Mistake 1: Kept on Trying to Diet

Her first mistake? “I Kept on trying to diet,” she reveals. “The more I dieted, the bigger the tire around my waist got & the scale crept up that I avoided getting on it. The #1 predictor of weight GAIN is dieting.”

Mistake 2: Believed the “Fat and Funny Friend” Story

Her second mistake? “Believed my ‘I’m the fat & funny friend’ story,” she reveals. “You are who you say you are. If you’re playing the role of the fat friend, you are her. What role do you play in your family (the ‘ugly duckling’) & friend circles and HOW much weight are you keeping on your body right now because of it?” she writes.

Mistake 3: Believed “Progressionals” Over Her Body

Her third mistake? She believed “professionals” over her body. “Between dieticians, nutritionists, coaches, hypnotherapists, Jenny Craig consultants, you name it. I did it & trusted them,” she explains. “When you trust OTHER people more than yourself, you will fight your weight because you won’t *trust* yourself. Yes, get informed BUT take what you need & leave the rest.”

Mistake 4: Gave Into Every Craving in the “Name of Not Binging”

Some people will tell you to lean into cravings so you don’t overindulge. But she disagrees. Giving into every craving in the “name of not binging” was her fourth mistake. “Because of dieting, I became a binge eater. Through healing that phase of my life I was told ‘honor your craving or else you’ll binge.’ Again, listening to professionals, FEARING food & my body and gaining more weight. It didn’t feel good. When you give into every craving, you will have a weight problem & food will have the power over you.”

Mistake 5: Worked Out Too Much

Her fifth and final mistake was working out too much. “Running 7+miles a day for a thigh gap, doing HIIT workouts 6 days a week= working out like an a**hole. This contributed to the binging & feeling out of control with food, skyrocketed weight gain & avoiding the scale,” she says. “I love running & love a good HIIT session every now & then but I love listening to my body more. Result? 40+lbs down. Your relationship to yourself is the pathway to your weight loss.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Kiki (@kikivirk) is a weight loss influencer who has amassed a social media following for sharing all the tips and tricks that enabled her to lose a whopping 60 pounds and keep it off. In one of her viral videos – viewed over 8 million times, Kiki reveals the biggest weight loss mistake she made on her journey – and also what ultimately led to her weight loss success.


She Says Doing High Intensity Workouts Were a “Huge Mistake”

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“I was so motivated to lose weight and I wanted to see results fast, but I didn't do my research and I jumped straight in, literally into a high intensity, 90 day workout plan. Huge mistake,” Kiki says in the video.

After 45 Days She Hadn’t Lost Weight

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After a month-and-a-half, she didn't feel like she'd lost any weight. “I was overdoing it. The long, painful HIIT workouts were actually doing my body no good. They were causing it too much stress and loads of other problems,” she says.

Related: 5 Pilates Exercises for a Flat Stomach in 14 Days

She Had “Weight Plateaus” and “Felt So Hungry and Fatigued”

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In another video, she specified that she was doing “high intensity cardio” five times a week in hopes it “would burn fat fast and give me my dream body,” she explained. “But instead, I had weight plateaus and felt so hungry and fatigued.

Her Fat Began to “Melt Off” When She Started Strength Training

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“Literally, as soon as I started strength training and less cardio, the fat began to melt off, and the lean muscle mass I gained gave me the tone look I'd always wanted,” she continued.

Her Program: LISS, Walking, Strength and Resistance Training, and a Short HIIT Workout

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Her program starts with doing 45 to 60 minutes of LISS cardio four times a week. She also walks 7 to 12,000 steps every day, does strength and resistance training three times a week, and a 15-minute HIIT workout once a week.

Related: Patrick Mahomes' "Natural Dad Bod" Has Everyone Talking. Here's How to Ditch It, According to Expert

An Expert Weighs In

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“What she says is definitely spot on,” says Kendra Gamble, HIT Fitness Training, Huntingdon Valley, PA, NPTI Certified Personal Trainer and Nutritional Consultant. “Intense cardio and intense HIIT more than twice a week will do the body more harm than good and is not the way to lose fat and get that toned look.” Instead, she agrees that “increasing your everyday steps is more of the most important and beginner things you can do to start losing fat along with getting your diet right.” Unfortunately, “fat loss is not an immediate thing and will take time and dedication but she explains it all perfectly.”

💪🔥Body Booster: If you are a beginner trying to lose weight, starting by increasing your steps and modifying your diet instead of going overboard with higher intensity workouts.

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Katie Dunlop, a fitness influencer and certified personal trainer, transformed her body and her life by shedding 45 pounds and getting rid of stubborn stomach fat. In a recent YouTube video, Katie shared the key dietary changes that helped her reach her goals. She revealed that her weight loss success wasn’t just about exercise; it involved being more mindful of her food choices and cutting out certain items that were sneaking extra calories and sugar into her daily routine.


Through consistency, dedication, and small, sustainable changes, Katie not only achieved her weight loss goals but also became an inspiration to thousands of others. By cutting out these six specific foods, which she once thought were healthy or harmless, Katie finally saw the results she wanted. Here's a look at the six foods she eliminated and how these small shifts made a big difference.

I Ditched Sugary Coffee Creamers

"I was a huge international delight girl, and this is not just to hate on this brand; it's just that it was my brand. I did international delight, French vanilla coffee creamer in my coffee every day," she says in the video. "So that was an excess of 20 to 25 grams of sugar first thing in the morning before 7:00 AM. I'm like, let's just get a little cup of sugar in here, and 24 grams of sugar is the daily recommended amount of added sugar."

I Cut Out Fiber and Protein Bars

"So I used to eat fiber bars or protein bars every single day. I would use them as meal replacements, thinking that they were healthy, but that wasn't the case," she says in the video.

"The problem with most of these bars is they have so many unnecessary added ingredients. So ideally, I try to keep my bars to 10 grams of protein or more, six grams of sugar or less, and it's hard to find any bars that have that, that also don't have just a bunch of chemicals in the ingredient list or fake sugars and stuff."

I Stopped My Nightly Frozen Yogurt Habit

"In college, we had a yogurt land down the street from us, and this is when frozen yogurt was it. And so we went a couple of times, and then we just kept going and kept going. We ended up going almost every single night we could walk to it," she says in the video.

"Well, in a small, like a cup serving of most of those frozen yogurts, they have 25 grams of sugar. And then on top of it, I felt like it was a gateway drug. I don't know how to describe it. Then you're like, oh, a little gram cracker, a little granola, that's healthy. Oh, a little coconut spread. You just start adding and adding, and all of a sudden, you have 500 extra calories a day that I didn't need."

I Gave Up the Special K Diet

"Does anyone remember the Special K diet? Anyone? Am I dating myself? Okay, so you know the Special K cereal, the brand cereal, they've removed all of this from their website. I went digging, I could find nothing. It was a real thing though," she says in the video.

"It was basically the idea that you were to swap two meals a day with Special K cereal, and they claim that you could lose six pounds and a pant size in two weeks."

RELATED:I Lost 70 Pounds and Beat Binge Eating With These 6 Steps

I Stopped Snacking on Veggie Chips

"I was duped into thinking that veggie chips were so much healthier than potato chips or the hint of lime toss. I was obsessed with it. They were veggies, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong. It took me so long to realize that they were not at all healthier," she says in the video.

"The whole process that they have to go through in order to make them into chips basically just takes most of the nutrients out of them. And you are left with just a vegetable-colored shaped potato chip."

I Stopped Eating After 9 PM

"I had to stop eating after 9:00 PM, and let's just say there's not a magical time. So don't think, oh my gosh, 9:00 PM said I stopped eating at seven. This is not a problem for me. It may still be 9:00 PM, which was my time," she says in the video.

"The reason why I had to give myself a time at night to stop eating was because I would just keep going. Those cravings would hit me mentally or physically, and I didn't really know how to control them. The bottom line was I wasn't making healthy choices after 9:00 PM."

RELATED:Top 10 Leafy Greens to Burn Fat You Should Eat Every Day

The Power of Small Changes

"When I did that, those hundreds of excess calories were cut from my diet when I cut out the creamers with all the sugars and fake stuff. When I stopped eating all these fiber bars and cereals and all these little things that I thought were healthy, I actually started getting results," she says in the video.

"Yes, I was moving my body, but I wasn't doing anything crazy. You guys know I started 10 minutes a day and I moved up to, I do 30 to 45 minutes a day now. But it's those little tiny things that add up."

By making these changes and being mindful of her food choices, Katie was able to lose 45 pounds and transform her body. Her story highlights the importance of identifying and eliminating hidden sources of excess calories and sugar in our diets. And if you enjoyed this, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Do you want to lose weight by making a few simple changes to your diet? Katie Dunlop (@LoveSweatFitness) is an influencer who lost 45 pounds and went on to become a certified personal trainer, helping others achieve their weight loss goals. In a viral YouTube video, she “really racked her brain” and revealed everything she did – and stopped doing – to lose 45 pounds “and keep it off for like eight-plus years now,” she says.


I Stopped Over Exercising

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“Number one thing I stopped doing that helped me lose all of that weight was over-exercising,” says Katie, explaining that what she did for years caused her “to fail” because she would go like full throttle crazy thinking I needed to work out for an hour or two hours every single day.” However, after a few weeks, she would “crash and burn so hard and end up doing nothing for probably a month or two.”

Why? Because It Leads to Burn Out

“So it's like these big highs and lows, right? You like to go full craziness, and you just get burnt out.,” she says, adding that your body “can’t handle that mentally” and “you get tired and exhausted.” And “if you're not setting up goals in a strategic way and giving yourself micro-goals, you're gonna end up failing because you don't have that constant motivation. You're not seeing results right away, and all you're feeling is exhausted and tired, and that does not work for anyone. So I had to give up over-exercising and find a way to move my body every day and start healthy habits and really just start to build.”

Commit to 10 Minutes of Exercise Daily

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“I just committed to 10 minutes every single day, and that usually turned into more than 10 minutes. But 10 minutes was super manageable, and it made sure I wasn't overdoing it so that I could be consistent over time,” says Katie.

I Stopped Weighing Myself Daily

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“Number two thing I stopped doing every single day, and this is one that if you take nothing else away from this, this is the one you need to make sure you do. I stopped weighing myself every day,” says Katie. “I literally went through a period of time where I would weigh myself every single day.”

Why? Body Weight Fluctuates Daily

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“And here's the thing, you guys: Your body weight fluctuates every single day,” she points out. “It can depend on how much food you've had, if you've gone to the bathroom if you've been drinking a ton of water if you're on your period. All of those things and more can impact your body a couple of pounds here and there. So, if you're weighing yourself every day, it is going to be devastating and discouraging when you're trying to reach goals and make changes. If you're seeing the scale go up and down and up and down, you gotta stop doing it.”

Instead, I Weighed Myself Every Four Weeks and Took Photos and Measurements

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“What I started doing was setting a goal for myself to weigh myself every four weeks, but I also started taking photos and measurements. And those two things are really important because there's more than just this number on the scale, right?” says Katie. "If you have a standard scale, all you're gonna get is a number. And what does that mean? Like there's so much more to it than your actual weight, and things change as you start to live a healthy lifestyle.”

I Also Invested in a Comprehensive Scale

“The other thing I did was I started to use a better scale, like one that actually gives you more information,” she says, revealing that she splurged on the Body Analyzer from Vanity Planet. “You guys, this is the best at-home scale you can get because it not only tells you your overall weight, but it breaks down your water weight, your bone density, your muscle mass,” she continues, “so you can get more information and understand as you're making change, if you're gaining fat, if you're gaining muscle, like how much water weight is in there.” She recommends using it once a month.

RELATED: Lose 30 Pounds in 3 Months Without Starving Yourself

I Stopped Comparing Myself to Others

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“The third thing I stopped doing, and this one is tricky, I stopped scrolling so much,” she says. “I literally used to get trapped on Facebook and Instagram when it first started coming around and just scrolling and scrolling and looking at people and comparing myself and scrolling through magazines.”

It Was “So Unhealthy”

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“We're constantly bombarded by images of people that we think we're supposed to look like. I compared myself to my friends. I compared myself to other women I saw in real life and on TV, and on the internet everywhere. And it's so unhealthy. Like it was probably one of the most emotionally draining things that I was doing for myself,” she explains. It “was really causing me to get back into these depressed moods that wouldn't allow me to have the motivation to keep going because I'd be like, ‘I can never get there. I'm never gonna look like that.’ But the thing is, you're not supposed to look like that,” she points out. “You're supposed to look like you like the healthiest version of you that you can possibly be.”

If I Scroll and Think Negatively, I Stop and Say Something Positive

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“What I started doing is I gave myself a little bit of a rule. I would say I could scroll all day long, but the second that my brain started either thinking negatively about someone I was looking at or thinking negatively about myself, I had to stop, and I had to say something positive. And I think that's good because depending on your mood, it can really dictate and impact how you feel and how you perceive information and like how you see things,” she points out. “So just flip the script, be positive, and you'll feel so much better.”

RELATED: What Happens to Your Body When You Stop Eating Processed Meats

I Stopped Netflix Binging

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“The fourth thing I stopped doing was binging so much on Netflix. And this one's hard 'cause I really love shows and movies. I just always have. But it's so easy to get sucked into like the Netflix or whatever, TV, YouTube, vortex when you're like off work, and you're tired, and you just wanna sit on the couch, and you then go into like watching land and then you don't get your workouts in, or you're like more likely to snack mindlessly, right?”

Instead, I Did Productive Things

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“So I stopped binging, but sort of, I just flipped it. So I was like, okay, well, I'm not gonna just like sit here for three hours and watch a bunch of TV 'cause now I'm not being productive. I'm getting more tired and not wanting to go do things even more,” she says.

My Rule Is, I Can Watch My Shows While Doing Cardio

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“So now my rule is I either have to be on the treadmill doing cardio to watch my Netflix shows, or I have to have already worked out,” she explains. “So if it didn't already work out, then I'm not gonna watch it. Or if I really, really wanna watch it, then I like to go to the gym and go on the treadmill.”

I Gave Up Diets

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And the final but most important sacrifice she made? “You gotta give up diets,” she says. “So we all have a diet, but you need to stop being on diets. The difference is that a healthy diet is just like how you fuel your body and nourish yourself every single day, right? Your diet is your nutrition, how you're feeding yourself.” She says that she tried every diet under the sun, “and I ended up sick after most of 'em. If I ever lost weight on them, I gained it all right back, which is like fluctuating up and down, jacked up my metabolism.”

RELATED:Irresistible Smoothie Recipes to Kickstart Your Weight Loss Journey in 30 Days

I Added Healthier Things Instead of Being Overly Restrictive

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“You have to find something that works in your life that you can maintain long term all the time,” she continues. “So I focused on adding healthier things into my diet all the time. Instead of cutting stuff out and restricting, I would add things in, add more veggies, add more water, like add more of the good stuff so you have less room for the bad stuff. And then I would start eliminating certain things where I'm like, okay, well, I know these really, really bad processed carbohydrates aren't good for my body. And so, what can I swap those for? That's a healthier option without giving up carbs because we need them.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Start with just 10 minutes of exercise each day. Keeping it short and simple makes it easier to stay consistent over time.

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After 50, your body loses 1-2% of muscle mass yearly – a condition that slows metabolism and decreases strength. Thomas DeLauer, nutrition coach to professional athletes with 3.68 million YouTube subscribers, reveals the specific protein amount that can rebuild this lost muscle. His research cuts through conflicting advice to provide a precise formula that works specifically for older adults. Learn exactly how much protein you need and when to consume it to maintain strength and mobility for years to come.

Your Body Loses Muscle Faster Than You Realize

Your body undergoes significant changes as you age, particularly when it comes to muscle maintenance. "After 40, you lose about 1-2% of your muscle mass per year," DeLauer explains in his post. This condition, called sarcopenia, creates an imbalance between muscle growth signals and breakdown signals in your body. As DeLauer points out, the forces that signal muscle breakdown increase while your body's ability to build muscle diminishes, creating a challenging situation that requires deliberate nutritional strategies to overcome.

Why Your Muscles Stop Responding to Protein

Your body's muscle-building capacity changes with age due to several biological factors. DeLauer explains that there's a reduction in satellite cells, which are essential for muscle repair after exercise. "Satellite cells hover above existing muscle cells, and when we break down a muscle, these cells fuse to it and allow rebuilding," says DeLauer. Additionally, your muscles experience increased protein degradation rates and slower ATP generation, making it harder to maintain strength and muscle mass without intervention.

The Hidden Absorption Problem After 50

Age affects how efficiently your body processes protein from your meals. According to DeLauer, research published in PLOS One revealed fascinating differences between young and older adults. "Once protein was actually absorbed, muscle protein synthesis was the same between older people and younger people," says DeLauer. However, older adults showed a 16% lower muscle protein synthesis rate after eating, indicating that while your muscles can still build effectively, getting the protein there becomes more challenging as you age.

The Magic Number: 1.6 Grams Per Kilogram

The research points to a specific protein requirement for rebuilding muscle after 50. "You want to be consuming about 1.6 grams of protein per kilogram of body weight over the course of the day," DeLauer advises. This translates to approximately 0.8-1 gram of protein per pound of body weight daily. For a 200-pound person, that means aiming for about 200 grams of protein spread throughout the day, which is substantially higher than what many adults over 50 typically consume.

Why Meal Timing Changes Everything

Spreading your protein intake evenly throughout the day yields better results than consuming the same amount unevenly. "Newer research suggests that if you're over 50, consuming 40 grams of protein with each meal yielded much better protein synthesis results than eating it unevenly," says DeLauer. This consistent approach helps maintain metabolic flexibility and keeps your muscles consistently supplied with the building blocks they need for maintenance and growth.

The Exercise Secret That Maximizes Protein Uptake

Exercise dramatically improves your body's ability to use protein effectively. DeLauer emphasizes that "once protein is in the system and actually doing its job, muscle protein synthesis is pretty much the same when you're older than it was when you're younger." Resistance training, even at light intensity, enhances insulin sensitivity for protein to enter your muscles. This combination of proper protein intake and consistent exercise explains why some individuals in their 60s and 70s maintain impressive muscle mass.

How Your Protein Needs Increase By Decade

Your protein requirements should increase progressively as you age. "Each decade that you get older from 40, 50, 60, you should probably be increasing the amount of protein you consume by another quarter to half a gram of protein per pound of body weight," DeLauer recommends. This progressive increase helps counteract the natural decline in protein absorption and utilization that comes with aging, ensuring your muscles receive adequate nutrition despite physiological changes.

Why Higher Protein Won't Harm Your Health

Many people worry about potential health consequences of increased protein intake. DeLauer addresses this concern directly: "You might be wondering, is this hard on my kidneys? Is this hard on the body? Not really if you're hydrated and you're getting enough fiber." He emphasizes that muscle breakdown is far more detrimental to overall health than a properly implemented higher-protein diet. Prioritizing sufficient protein intake allows you to maintain muscle mass and continue living an active, healthy life regardless of age. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Losing weight doesn't always mean achieving the toned, defined body you've been working toward. After shedding 45 pounds, Katie Dunlop found herself smaller but still "soft and squishy" – not seeing the muscle definition in her arms, legs, and belly that she wanted. Through consistent effort and strategic habits, she transformed her physique beyond just losing fat. These six daily non-negotiables took Katie from simply being smaller to having a lean, toned appearance – and they could help you see similar results.

Walk 10,000 Steps Every Day

Walking might seem too simple to be effective, but Katie insists it's a game-changer for leaning out. "Getting in as many steps as you possibly can is going to be the ultimate hack as you're trying to lean out and get more tone," Katie shares in her post. She aims for 10,000-12,000 steps daily, which increases NEAT (non-exercise activity thermogenesis) - the calories you burn just existing in daily life. "When I don't get my steps in, I feel way more bloated, I feel like it's a lot harder for me to burn fat and lose fat on my body," Katie reveals. Walking also improves digestion, which helps reduce bloating and puffiness.

Prioritize High-Protein, Nutrient-Dense Foods

Protein is essential for achieving that toned look. "Protein becomes even more important to make sure you're able to maintain and add muscle mass," Katie explains. She recommends aiming for 20-30 grams of protein per meal (about a palm-sized chicken breast), totaling at least 100 grams daily. "More lean muscle means more fat burning, calorie burning, even at rest," she points out. Katie also suggests front-loading protein earlier in the day to ensure you meet your targets and to help with energy for workouts and recovery.

Strength Train At Least 3 Times Weekly

Cardio helps burn fat, but strength training gives you that coveted toned look. "If you're looking for more of that toned look, not just like lean, not just not puffy and soft, you need to be strength training three times a week, at least," Katie emphasizes. She compares cardio to renting a house (paying in while you're doing it) versus strength training as an investment property that continues paying off even at rest. "What happened when I started strength training three times a week? My body tightened up, I started losing fat faster, and I actually got that toned look start to like pop through," Katie reveals.

Take The Right Supplements

While whole foods should be your primary nutrition source, strategic supplements can enhance your results. "Even with a great diet, we need the right supplements to help us building muscle, burn fat more efficiently, have better energy and balance out our hormones," Katie explains. Her five essential recommendations include: protein powder (20+ grams per serving), omega-3 fatty acids (supports fat metabolism and reduces inflammation), creatine (5 grams daily for energy and recovery), L-glutamine (for muscle recovery and gut health), and electrolytes (without added sugar).

Prioritize Deep Sleep and Recovery

You can do everything else right, but without adequate sleep, your results will suffer. "If you're not sleeping at least seven hours a night, your body's going to hold on to more fat, you're going to have increases in cortisol levels, your stress levels are going to be higher, you're going to crave more junk food," Katie warns. Quality sleep is non-negotiable for recovery, muscle building, and fat burning. "That sleep is one of the most important things for our recovery, for our body to be able to build the muscles, in our body to burn fat, we need that time," she insists.

Stay Consistent Without Extreme Dieting

Understanding your macronutrient needs without obsessive tracking creates sustainable results. "One of the biggest mistakes people make is going too hard, too extreme, too fast," Katie cautions. She recommends avoiding "cheat days" which can be mentally detrimental and counterproductive. "What happens when you're able to do that is you start to lose the weight a bit more effortlessly because you're not stressed about all these things, your body's actually using that food for fuel and you're able to recover, lose fat and feel really good," Katie shares.

Focus on Compound Exercises and Progressive Overload

When it comes to strength training, not all approaches are equally effective. "Most important thing when you're strength training besides the amount of days you're doing is to make sure you're doing compound exercises, but also really focusing on progressive overload," Katie emphasizes. Compound exercises work multiple muscle groups simultaneously, giving you more bang for your buck. Progressive overload means continually challenging yourself. "It's the idea that every time you go and do something, whether it's a squat, bicep curl, whatever, every time you do that you're trying to go harder and do more," Katie explains. This consistent challenge forces your muscles to adapt and grow.

Balance Your Macros Without Obsessive Tracking

While protein is crucial, paying attention to your overall macronutrient balance creates optimal results. "Having an idea of how much protein you need, and how much carbs you need, what fats you need to actually get results is really important," Katie advises. However, she stresses that this doesn't mean obsessively counting every calorie or macro. Instead, focus on understanding your body's needs without going to extremes. "So that doesn't mean you have to track them crazy," she reassures. Katie recommends following a structured meal plan initially to learn what balanced nutrition looks like for your body and goals.

Create Accountability Through Community

Transformation happens faster with support. "Commit today. Let's commit to each other. We're in this together. Let's hold each other accountable," Katie encourages. She believes strongly in the power of community to maintain motivation and consistency. Finding workout buddies, online groups, or even just sharing your goals with others creates a support system that keeps you showing up even on tough days. Katie suggests connecting with others on the same journey: "If you see anyone else who is doing the same thing as you, comment on their comment as well so we can all connect and really be that support system." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Most of us have tried crash diets or intense workout plans only to give up weeks later. Ellen Thompson, a certified personal trainer with over 15 years in the fitness industry, understands this struggle. As Area Personal Training Manager at Blink Fitness, she's helped hundreds of clients achieve sustainable weight loss through simple, consistent habits. Read on to discover the practical strategies that actually work in the real world.

Set Realistic Expectations

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Weight loss doesn't happen overnight, and that's perfectly normal. "The main challenge I see people facing is unrealistic expectations," says Thompson. Most people give up because they don't see dramatic results within days. Sustainable weight loss takes time, and understanding this from the start sets you up for success. Thompson emphasizes that consistency with both training and nutrition will eventually yield results, but patience is essential. Remember that gradual changes are more likely to become permanent parts of your lifestyle.

Balance Cardio With Strength Training

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Hitting the treadmill isn't enough if you want lasting results. "Another challenge I see is people only focusing on cardio and neglecting weights," Thompson points out. While cardiovascular exercise burns calories during your workout, strength training builds muscle that increases your metabolism all day long. Thompson recommends incorporating some form of resistance training into your routine at least twice weekly. This doesn't necessarily mean heavy weightlifting—bodyweight exercises, resistance bands, or even household items can provide enough resistance to preserve and build muscle.

Choose Small Habits Over Dramatic Changes

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You don't need to overhaul your entire life to lose weight. "Small habits are easier to stick with! They are realistic!" Thompson explains. Rather than attempting to follow a perfect diet or intense exercise regimen, focus on adding simple, sustainable changes to your routine. Thompson suggests starting with basic adjustments like drinking more water or taking short daily walks. These small shifts require minimal effort but compound over time to create significant results, making them much more likely to become permanent parts of your lifestyle.

Prioritize Protein With Every Meal

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One simple change can dramatically impact your weight loss journey. "Eat a palm-sized portion of protein with every meal—breakfast, lunch, and dinner—yes, breakfast too!" says Thompson. Protein keeps you feeling full longer, which naturally reduces snacking and overeating. Thompson recommends options like lentils, beans, tofu, eggs, or protein powder to satisfy this requirement. For busy days, keep protein bars or pre-made shakes on hand to ensure you never miss this crucial nutritional element. Just be mindful of added sugars in packaged protein products.

Take A Post-Meal Walk

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Movement doesn't require a gym membership or special equipment. "Do a ten-minute walk after lunch or dinner," Thompson advises. This brief activity improves digestion, helps balance blood sugar levels, and increases your daily calorie burn. Thompson suggests making these walks enjoyable by taking phone calls, listening to podcasts, or simply using the time to decompress from your day. The key is consistency—even on busy days, ten minutes is short enough to fit into most schedules but long enough to provide real benefits.

Hydrate Before Eating

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This simple trick helps distinguish between hunger and thirst. "Drink a full glass of water 10-15 minutes before you eat," Thompson recommends. Our bodies often confuse thirst signals with hunger, leading to unnecessary calorie consumption. By hydrating before meals and snacks, you'll naturally eat less while staying properly hydrated. Thompson suggests keeping a water bottle with you throughout the day as a visual reminder. If you dislike plain water, try adding slices of fruit or herbs for natural flavor without calories.

Fill Half Your Plate With Vegetables

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Create a simple visual guide for portion control. "At lunch and dinner, fill half your plate with non-starchy vegetables before adding other foods," says Thompson. This strategy automatically controls calories while ensuring you get crucial nutrients and fiber. Thompson emphasizes that convenience is key—frozen vegetables and pre-packaged salads are perfectly acceptable options. The fiber in vegetables helps you feel satisfied with fewer calories, making this perhaps the simplest yet most effective strategy for natural portion control.

Establish a Kitchen "Closing Time"

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Evening snacking often sabotages weight loss efforts. "Pick a time to 'close' your kitchen—meaning no more snacking for the night," Thompson suggests. Late-night eating frequently stems from boredom or habit rather than genuine hunger. Thompson recommends setting a reasonable cutoff time, such as 8:00 PM, and sticking to it consistently. However, she adds an important caveat: "If you are actually hungry, plan a snack before closing time." This approach respects your body's needs while preventing mindless grazing.

What to Expect: The First Weeks

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Your efforts will show results sooner than you might think. "Within 1-2 weeks you can expect to lose 2-4 pounds," Thompson says. Beyond the scale, you'll likely notice improved digestion and growing awareness of your body's true hunger signals. Thompson explains that energy levels typically begin improving during this initial period as well. These early wins, while modest, provide crucial motivation to continue with your new habits.

What to Expect: The First Months

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Consistency pays off with visible changes. "Within 2-3 months you can expect to lose 4-12+ pounds," says Thompson. Your clothes will fit differently, your endurance will improve, and you'll have established a sustainable routine. Thompson notes that by this point, many of these initially challenging habits will have become second nature. The compound effect of small, consistent changes becomes increasingly apparent, reinforcing your commitment to maintaining these simple but effective strategies. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.