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I Lost 180 Pounds in 14 Months and These Are My 5 Non-Negotiables That Changed My Life

Discover the key strategies that helped one woman shed half her body weight and keep it off for good.

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Have you ever felt like you've tried every diet under the sun only to return to where you started? Carla Piera FitzGerald knows that feeling all too well. As a weight loss warrior and educator on her YouTube channel Half of Carla, she's been through the ups and downs of countless diets. But everything changed when she discovered her five non-negotiables for sustainable weight loss. In just 14 months, Carla managed to lose an astounding 180 pounds – over half her original body weight. Here's how she did it, along with expert insights from registered dietitian Annette Snyder.


The Journey Begins

Carla's weight loss journey wasn't just about shedding pounds; it was a complete life transformation. "By showing up for myself, I transformed my entire life, overhauled my mental health, changed careers, changed my entire outlook on life, and lost over half my body weight," she shares in her video.

Her story is one of perseverance and self-discovery. "From as early as I can remember, I battled with my weight. I lived with disordered eating habits from the tender age of 5, wrestling with issues like bulimia, binge eating disorder, food addiction, depression, and anxiety," Carla reveals in her video. Here are her 5 non-negotiables:

1. Daily Walking

For Carla, walking became a cornerstone of her weight loss strategy. "Walking was the only exercise that I did in order to lose weight," she explains in her video. "I walked every single day of my weight loss bar. I think about three or four days because I was sick, genuinely sick every other day."

Annette Snyder, MS, RD, CSOWM, adds: "Regular physical activity, such as daily walking, can significantly boost weight loss efforts. It not only burns calories but also improves overall health and well-being."

2. Calorie Counting

Carla found that calorie counting was crucial for her success. "As part of the Body Sims program, you count calories. There is no sin counting, there are no points, there are no net carbohydrates, or anything else. The important thing that you're counting is your calories, and the calories that you are given are a limit, not a target," she explains in her video.

Snyder comments: "While calorie counting can be effective, it's important to focus on nutrient-dense foods rather than just numbers. This ensures you're getting proper nutrition while managing your intake."

RELATED:10 Anti-Aging Foods for Younger-Looking Skin You Should Eat Every Day

3. Meal Planning

"A non-negotiable for me was meal planning," Carla states in her video. "It helped with food wastage. The second is that it helped with decision fatigue."

Snyder agrees: "Meal planning can be a game-changer for weight loss. It helps you stay on track with your nutrition goals and reduces the likelihood of impulsive, less healthy food choices."

4. Working on Mental Health

Carla emphasizes the importance of mental health in her journey. "My body and my obesity was the physical manifestation of my poor mental health and my poor relationship with myself and my shame," she reveals.

Snyder adds: "The psychological aspect of weight loss is often underestimated. Addressing mental health issues and developing a healthy relationship with food is crucial for long-term success."

RELATED:7 Realistic Tricks to Lose Arm Fat That Fitness Coach Swears By

5. Focusing on Habits, Not Willpower

"I had to find a way to work on those habits that got me to being overweight," Carla explains in her video. "I had to dismantle them and imprint and place new habits into my life."

Snyder concurs: "Sustainable weight loss is about creating lasting lifestyle changes, not short-term diets.

Building healthy habits is key to maintaining weight loss in the long run."

The Importance of Realistic Expectations

Carla's approach emphasizes the importance of patience and realistic expectations. Snyder adds valuable insight here: "0.5-2 lb loss/wk is a realistic expectation for those implementing healthy habits to see weight loss. A person can really only lose 1-1.5% of body fat per week, so if someone is losing about that percentage, it may very likely be just water weight or potentially muscle mass."

RELATED:Woman Tried the Stairmaster Every Day for 30 Minutes for 14 Days, Here’s What She Didn’t See Coming

How to Lose Weight Safely

Carla's journey demonstrates that sustainable weight loss is possible with the right mindset and strategies. By focusing on these five non-negotiables – daily walking, calorie counting, meal planning, mental health, and habit formation – she was able to achieve remarkable results.

Snyder concludes with an important reminder: "Whatever your goals are, may they serve you on the inside, too. And remember, regardless of what your body shape and size is at any point in your journey, you are a worthy human who deserves kindness."

Carla's story serves as an inspiration to anyone struggling with their weight. By adopting these non-negotiables and approaching weight loss with patience and self-compassion, you too can achieve your health and fitness goals. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? You might need to make some lifestyle shifts, says one weight loss warrior-slash-expert. Hilary Carver is a fat loss coach who lost 100 pounds naturally and helps her clients do the same. In a new post, she reveals a few key things she learned on her journey that can help you lose weight as well. “I lost 100 pounds naturally. Here’s what I learned,” she writes.

She Started Taking Action

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“A decade ago, I stood exactly where you are. I felt stuck in my body. Tired. Frustrated. Overwhelmed by the thought of starting again because, honestly, I wasn’t sure if I could follow through this time. But something shifted. I realized that if I wanted my life to change, I had to stop waiting for the ‘perfect time’ and start taking imperfect action,” she says.

She Lost 100 Pounds with No Crash Diets or Quick Fixes

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“Over the next few years, I lost 100 pounds naturally. No crash diets. No quick fixes. I followed the exact framework I teach my clients—and it didn’t just transform my body... it changed my life. Here are the MOST important lessons I learned along the way,” she continued.

You Can’t Outwork a Bad Diet

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First, she learned that you can’t outwork a bad diet. “For years, I thought I could exercise my way to results without addressing what I was eating. Spoiler: It didn’t work. When I finally learned how to make meal prep & planning simple, track my food without obsessing, and eat in a way that didn’t feel restrictive—everything changed,” she writes.

Mindset is the Real Work

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Next, she realized that changing her mindset is the hardest part. “I had to face the excuses, the self-sabotage, and the limiting beliefs that kept me stuck. It wasn’t about motivation—it was about choosing to show up for myself, even on the hard days,” she says.

Your Lifestyle Will Make or Break You

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Lifestyle is also important. “The secret to losing 100 pounds wasn’t in doing more. It was in building small, consistent habits that worked with my life—not against it. These small changes stacked up into a BIG transformation,” she says.

Nobody Is Coming to Save You

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She also learned that “nobody is coming to save you.” “This one stings, but it’s the truth: If you want the transformation, you have to take accountability. You have to stop blaming your circumstances and start owning your choices. The moment I stopped making excuses, I started making progress.”

It’s Worth It

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“This journey isn’t just about losing weight. It’s about gaining confidence, energy, and control over your life. It’s about becoming the version of you who feels proud when she looks in the mirror,” she concludes. “I know how overwhelming it feels to start, but I also know what’s waiting for you on the other side of your excuses—and it is SO worth it.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Have you ever felt like you've tried every diet under the sun only to return to where you started? Carla Piera FitzGerald knows that feeling all too well. As a weight loss warrior and educator on her YouTube channel Half of Carla, she's been through the ups and downs of countless diets. But everything changed when she discovered her five non-negotiables for sustainable weight loss. In just 14 months, Carla managed to lose an astounding 180 pounds – over half her original body weight. Here's how she did it, along with expert insights from registered dietitian Annette Snyder.


The Journey Begins

Carla's weight loss journey wasn't just about shedding pounds; it was a complete life transformation. "By showing up for myself, I transformed my entire life, overhauled my mental health, changed careers, changed my entire outlook on life, and lost over half my body weight," she shares in her video.

Her story is one of perseverance and self-discovery. "From as early as I can remember, I battled with my weight. I lived with disordered eating habits from the tender age of 5, wrestling with issues like bulimia, binge eating disorder, food addiction, depression, and anxiety," Carla reveals in her video. Here are her 5 non-negotiables:

1. Daily Walking

For Carla, walking became a cornerstone of her weight loss strategy. "Walking was the only exercise that I did in order to lose weight," she explains in her video. "I walked every single day of my weight loss bar. I think about three or four days because I was sick, genuinely sick every other day."

Annette Snyder, MS, RD, CSOWM, adds: "Regular physical activity, such as daily walking, can significantly boost weight loss efforts. It not only burns calories but also improves overall health and well-being."

2. Calorie Counting

Carla found that calorie counting was crucial for her success. "As part of the Body Sims program, you count calories. There is no sin counting, there are no points, there are no net carbohydrates, or anything else. The important thing that you're counting is your calories, and the calories that you are given are a limit, not a target," she explains in her video.

Snyder comments: "While calorie counting can be effective, it's important to focus on nutrient-dense foods rather than just numbers. This ensures you're getting proper nutrition while managing your intake."

RELATED:10 Anti-Aging Foods for Younger-Looking Skin You Should Eat Every Day

3. Meal Planning

"A non-negotiable for me was meal planning," Carla states in her video. "It helped with food wastage. The second is that it helped with decision fatigue."

Snyder agrees: "Meal planning can be a game-changer for weight loss. It helps you stay on track with your nutrition goals and reduces the likelihood of impulsive, less healthy food choices."

4. Working on Mental Health

Carla emphasizes the importance of mental health in her journey. "My body and my obesity was the physical manifestation of my poor mental health and my poor relationship with myself and my shame," she reveals.

Snyder adds: "The psychological aspect of weight loss is often underestimated. Addressing mental health issues and developing a healthy relationship with food is crucial for long-term success."

RELATED:7 Realistic Tricks to Lose Arm Fat That Fitness Coach Swears By

5. Focusing on Habits, Not Willpower

"I had to find a way to work on those habits that got me to being overweight," Carla explains in her video. "I had to dismantle them and imprint and place new habits into my life."

Snyder concurs: "Sustainable weight loss is about creating lasting lifestyle changes, not short-term diets.

Building healthy habits is key to maintaining weight loss in the long run."

The Importance of Realistic Expectations

Carla's approach emphasizes the importance of patience and realistic expectations. Snyder adds valuable insight here: "0.5-2 lb loss/wk is a realistic expectation for those implementing healthy habits to see weight loss. A person can really only lose 1-1.5% of body fat per week, so if someone is losing about that percentage, it may very likely be just water weight or potentially muscle mass."

RELATED:Woman Tried the Stairmaster Every Day for 30 Minutes for 14 Days, Here’s What She Didn’t See Coming

How to Lose Weight Safely

Carla's journey demonstrates that sustainable weight loss is possible with the right mindset and strategies. By focusing on these five non-negotiables – daily walking, calorie counting, meal planning, mental health, and habit formation – she was able to achieve remarkable results.

Snyder concludes with an important reminder: "Whatever your goals are, may they serve you on the inside, too. And remember, regardless of what your body shape and size is at any point in your journey, you are a worthy human who deserves kindness."

Carla's story serves as an inspiration to anyone struggling with their weight. By adopting these non-negotiables and approaching weight loss with patience and self-compassion, you too can achieve your health and fitness goals. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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We adhere to structured guidelines for sourcing information and linking to other resources, including scientific studies and medical journals.

If you have any concerns about the accuracy of our content, please reach out to our editors by e-mailing editors@bodynetwork.com.

Do you want to lose 44 pounds in three months? It may be as simple as incorporating some healthy habits into your lifestyle. Talia Fawaz is a social media influencer who boasts over 147,000 followers on Instagram, sharing about everything from her lifestyle to how she stays in shape. She recently posted a viral video about her weight loss, revealing how she lost an average of nearly 15 pounds per month. Here are ten changes she made to her lifestyle to lose weight.


I Focused on Changing My Diet

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“First things first is food,” Talia says in the video. “I feel like food is actually super obvious.” She explains that if you don’t eat well and expect to lose weight, “it's not gonna happen.” She adds that she started losing weight by eating healthier.

It’s also “really important to know what you're eating, so I would definitely recommend eating at home and cutting out the outside food,” she says. “I wouldn't say cut it out completely, eat like once in a week, something you like from out, but most importantly is like eating at home because I feel like you really know what's in your food and I feel like, it's like a less likely chance that there are some ingredients there that you don't know that could be like stopping you from your weight loss goals.”

RELATED: 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week

I Implemented Volume Eating

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Another one of her tricks? “I did a lot of volume eating,” says Talia. “I ate a lot of broccoli,” she continued. “I had a lot of salads, I had a lot of spinach, I had a lot of lettuce, cauliflower, and so many vegetables that will actually keep me full for a long time.”

I Amped Up My Protein Intake

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She also amped up protein, consuming it “with each and every dish of mine,” she says. “Sea bass fish, broccoli, and a salad would be like my lunch. Like that was a truly a daily thing, and I actually enjoyed it so much.” She recommends pairing a protein with “just volume, volume fruits if that makes sense.”

RELATED: How I Lost 30 Pounds in 90 Days on the Mediterranean Diet

I Practiced Self-Discipline

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“Commitment and self-discipline” are also key, she says. “A lot of people ask me, ‘How are you motivated?’” she says. “Like it's literally a war in your head.” But instead of saying that you will start tomorrow, you have to be unwilling to give up.

I Maintained a Positive Mindset

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You also need a “positive mindset” towards weight loss. This might involve not listening to your head, or if you do, and decide you want McDonald’s, get back on track the next day without beating yourself up.

I Had a Balanced Approach

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It’s also important to have “a balance,” says Talia. ”So it would be more like a lifestyle thing rather than a diet for a short period of time.” You can't have the mindset where you diet for a month and then eat whatever you want. “You have to make it like a lifestyle change.”

I Exercised

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She also started working out. “I did not have access to a gym like when I was trying to lose weight. So I would literally jog around my compound, jog around my area for about an hour or 30 minutes, and it was actually really fun. It wasn't like sprinting or jogging; it was usually like light jogging,” she revealed. She recommends 30 minutes of exercise a day to “slowly progress towards your goals.”

RELATED: 17 Ways Your Body Reacts When You Quit Ozempic

I Made It a Lifestyle Change

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She emphasizes the importance of making it “more of a lifestyle change” and not being overly restrictive. “Just don't, don't restrict yourself and make it more of a lifestyle thing than a temporary thing because that's the only way it's gonna work.”

Finally, “Make this a fun journey,” she says. “You know, I feel like cooking is so therapeutic, so make it fun. If you want a cake, make it a healthy cake. If you want pizza, make it healthy pizza. All the recipes are all online.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Eat plenty of low-calorie, high-volume foods like broccoli, salads, spinach, lettuce, and cauliflower to feel full for longer. These vegetables are great for weight loss as they keep you satisfied without adding many calories to your diet.

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If you've ever felt frustrated with dieting, you're not alone. After 15 years of trying different weight loss approaches, Martin Balcaitis, 45, Senior Vice President of Operations at Lindora in Orange County, California, finally discovered the game-changing mistake that had been holding him back all along. His transformation story proves that sometimes the smallest changes can lead to the biggest results.

The Wake-Up Call

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"I feel like I've always been trying to lose weight!" Martin tells Body Network. "But now that I'm in my mid-40s, I know that it isn't so much about the number on the scale, but my overall health for longevity – that was my real motivator this time around."

The Crucial Discovery

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Standing at 5'9" and weighing 222 pounds, Martin thought he had tried everything. Then came the revelation that changed everything: "I thought I was eating a correct portion for myself, but eyeballing wasn't my friend," he admits. "A food scale was crucial to my success."

RELATED:30 Best Protein Foods That Melt Fat Almost Instantly

The Transformation

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The results speak for themselves. In just six months, Martin dropped from 222 pounds to 165 pounds, achieving a remarkable transformation in his body composition. "My overall body fat percentage went from 36% to 15% in 6 months," he shares proudly.

A New Approach to Food

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Unlike previous attempts at weight loss, Martin's new strategy didn't involve cutting out foods entirely. "I haven't eliminated anything – which is great!" he explains. "I simply know how to manage portions and adjust my eating that day if I know I'm going to have something decadent or high-carb during the day."

A Day of Measured Eating

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Martin's daily menu is both satisfying and strategic. "Breakfast is typically one egg, some egg whites and cottage cheese blended in what I call my 'protein eggs' with spinach and some meat," he says. "Lunch will be a salad with a yogurt-based dressing and dinner is roasted vegetables and lean protein – also three Lindora snacks too!"

RELATED:10-Min Walking Workout Burns Fat at Home, Says Coach

The Workout Strategy

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Time management proved to be another crucial lesson. "Time can always get the best of us so I make sure to workout in the morning," Martin explains. "I make too many excuses to not go to the gym after work." His dedication has paid off: "I can actually see some abs poking through now!"

Dealing with Setbacks

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Martin maintains a realistic approach to challenges. "Sometimes the motivation just isn't there and you have to tell yourself that it's a marathon, not a sprint," he reflects. "Don't beat yourself up if you skip a workout or can't go the distance you wanted to."

The Power of Accountability

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Making the journey public became a powerful tool. "Be vocal about it. I told people I was trying to lose weight to help hold me accountable," he advises. His commitment extended to his wardrobe: "I donated clothes once they were too big for me – I didn't want to buy big clothes again, so I had to keep going!"

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat

A Science-Based Approach

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Martin emphasizes the importance of data in his success. "Knowledge is power, so I would encourage everyone to get a body composition analysis done so they have a true understanding of what their numbers are to make a plan of attack," he recommends.

The Path to Success

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For those inspired by his journey, Martin offers encouraging advice: "Just start! You don't have to wait for a certain day, you don't have to have a big goal in mind – just take little steps and once you see some progress it will motivate you to keep going."

RELATED:7 Simple Daily Exercises To Shrink Hanging Belly Fat

Maintaining Momentum

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His approach to staying motivated remains practical and empowering. "If I am feeling badly about my body – it is 100% in my control to fix it," he states. "Having a plan and solutions is the answer and putting that plan into action is key." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Do you have a significant amount of weight to lose? Start your journey by making a handful of changes, suggests one expert. Jess Dukes is a weight loss coach specializing in helping “busy moms lose weight for the last time,” she writes in her social media bio. In a new post, she reveals five things she “wish people knew” about losing weight. “These 5 things will change everything,” she maintains.

You Can Do It Fast, Or Right

Number one? “You can do it fast, or you can do it right,” she says. “The fast way? Crash diets, over-exercising, obsessing over numbers—leading to burnout, frustration, and starting over again. The right way? Discipline, consistency, and a balanced lifestyle. It’s not flashy or instant, but it works—and it lasts.”

Small, Consistent Efforts Beat Extreme, Occasional Ones

“Small efforts, done daily, beat extreme efforts, done occasionally,” she continues. “Even 5-10 minutes a day will take you further than a single all-out workout once a week. Progress isn’t about going hard—it’s about showing up again and again.”

Counting Calories Isn’t a Secret Weapon

Number three? “Counting calories isn’t the secret weapon,” she says. “Your body is smarter than an app. Instead of obsessing over numbers, start listening to your hunger cues. Are you eating because you’re hungry—or because you’re bored, stressed, or emotional? Slow down. Eat with intention. Trust your body, and it will work with you, not against you.”

The Scale Doesn’t Define Your Progress

Don’t let the scale define your progress. “It’s one tool—but it doesn’t tell the whole story. Instead of fixating on a number, ask yourself: Do I feel stronger? More energized? Happier? How do my clothes fit? Real progress is about more than weight—it’s about who you’re becoming,” she says.

Start Small and Stack Your Wins

And, number five, “Start small. Stack your wins,” she recommends. “You don’t have to flip your whole life upside down. Start with one habit—drink more water, add a veggie to every meal, take a 10-minute walk. Nail it, then build from there. Small wins create momentum, and momentum creates results.”

She Also Swears By a Food Rule: There Are No Off Limit Foods

In another recent post, she shares her one food rule. “There are no off limit foods,” she writes. “For years, I labeled foods as ‘good’ or ‘bad.’ And if it was ‘bad,’ I wanted it even more. I’d tell myself, ‘No, you can’t have that.’ But that only made the craving stronger. Eventually, I’d cave, overeat, and drown in guilt. Sound familiar?”

One Food Can’t Ruin Your Progress

“Here’s what I learned the hard way: No single food can ruin your progress—unless you let it. Once I stopped labeling foods, everything changed. I started eating the foods I love in a way that actually feels good. Yes, that includes pizza nights with my family and dessert whenever I truly want it,” she says.

You Stop Craving Foods When You Don’t Deprive Yourself

“At first, I was scared. I thought, ‘If I allow myself treats, I’ll never stop.’ But guess what? The opposite happened. When I gave myself permission to eat what I wanted, I realized I didn’t crave treats as much as I thought. Sometimes, I’d take a bite and think, ‘I don’t even want this right now.’ Turns out, it wasn’t the food I’d been craving—it was the freedom to stop feeling so restricted,” she continues. “The more you restrict something, the more you want it. Instead, enjoy what you love mindfully and without guilt,” she says.

Plan Treats Intentionally

She is also intentional about treat planning. “When you know you can have that brownie on Friday, there’s no need to binge on it today. And ask yourself—are you eating it because you truly want it, or because you’re stressed?” she writes.

Change the Language You Use Around Food and Focus on How They Make You Feels

Changing the language you use around food is also key. “Stop calling foods ‘cheats’ or ‘bad.’ Food is just food. Some fuel your body, some fuel your soul—both have their place,” she says. Focus on how foods make you feel. “Pay attention to how you feel after you eat. Choose foods that leave you feeling energized and satisfied—not sluggish or stuffed,” she says.

You Can Achieve Food Freedom Too

“By letting go of restrictions and tuning into what my body really needs, I built a healthier relationship with food—one that lets me enjoy life and hit my goals. If you’re stuck in the cycle of restriction, know this: You can break free,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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The battle against belly fat after 40 can feel like an uphill struggle. Those changes in our waistline seem to happen overnight, leaving many of us wondering if this widening middle is simply our new reality. Tracy Campoli understands this frustration firsthand. At 49, this certified personal trainer, Pilates instructor, and health coach balances her professional expertise with the real-life challenges of being a mom in menopause. "It's really frustrating seeing these changes that can happen in our bodies as we get older," Tracy says, "but we don't have to accept all of them as just being 'that's just how it is'." Tracy discovered that 20-second workout intervals were key to her transformation. Read on to discover how her Tabata-style workouts and other practical strategies can help you reduce belly fat at any age.

The 20-Second Workout That Changed Everything

Forget endless crunches - they're not the answer to reducing belly fat. "What we want to do is implement the right kinds of workouts," Tracy advises. For women over 40, she discovered that Tabata and HIIT (High-Intensity Interval Training) workouts were the most effective approach for burning fat and building lean muscle.

"Tabata is really my favorite because you're doing 20 seconds of intense work and then you have a 10-second break built in," Tracy explains. This 20-second interval approach became her secret weapon. "What that's gonna help you to do is burn fat and increase your lean muscle mass - that's what's gonna help you see that slimming in your middle."

RELATED:I'm a Nutritionist and These are the Best Banana Recipes For Weight Loss

Focus on Strength

Strength training is equally important. Tracy emphasizes that your body itself provides resistance: "Your body is a source of weight and resistance." Whether through Pilates, resistance bands, light weights, or bodyweight exercises, incorporating strength work helps prevent the menopausal widening many women experience.

Why Her Old Workouts Weren't Working

"Back in the day, you know I grew up in the 80s myself, we were told if you want to have a slimmer middle, you got to do crunches all day long," Tracy shares. "That's not the case. By now we know that that is not true at all."

Instead of focusing solely on abdominal exercises, Tracy found that combining cardio intervals with strength training gave her the best results. In her fitness membership Total Body Transformation, she incorporates "strength training inside of the cardio workout so that you're getting basically more bang for your buck."

Chill Out To Slim Down

Your stress levels could be directly contributing to that stubborn belly fat. "Reducing your stress level is like a direct line to decreasing your waistline," Tracy explains. She points to that common experience of clothes feeling looser after vacation despite enjoying richer foods - that's your body responding positively to reduced stress levels.

The science is clear: stress elevates cortisol, which has a direct link to increased belly fat. "When we are stressed out, what happens? Our cortisol levels rise in an unhealthy manner, and so that is a direct link to our belly fat," Tracy says. She recommends simple stress-reduction techniques like nature walks, connecting with friends, practicing yoga, or even just taking three deep breaths. These small actions can make a significant difference in both your stress levels and your waistline.

Eat This, Not That

Proper nutrition becomes increasingly important as we age. "Especially if you're in your 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond, it's really important that we are fueling our bodies with nutrient-dense food," Tracy emphasizes.

For women over 40, adequate protein is essential for building lean muscle mass. "You want to be making sure especially over 40 that you have adequate protein. That protein is going to really help to create lean muscle mass," Tracy advises. She recommends a balanced approach with plenty of vegetables, fresh fruits, and proper hydration.

Rather than obsessing over individual food choices, she suggests taking a "bird's-eye view" of your daily nutrition. "A lot of women will come to me and say 'I had three cookies so I messed it all up'," Tracy shares, explaining that occasional indulgences won't derail your progress when your overall diet remains nutrient-dense.

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Dress Smart, Look Slimmer

How you dress can significantly impact both how you look and how you feel about your body. "If you're wearing big floppy tents or just hiding, that's actually going to make you look worse," Tracy warns, acknowledging it seems counterintuitive.

On days when you're feeling less than your best, Tracy suggests putting more effort into your presentation, not less. "Those days when I feel like a troll... I feel like a completely different person when I actually brush my hair, put on some makeup, and dress in a way that makes me feel pretty," she shares. This outside-in approach can boost your confidence and actually make you appear slimmer.

You're Not Invisible After 40

Tracy is passionate about women of all ages feeling visible and valued. "One of my missions is that women of every age and every stage of life know that they are worthy of being seen," she says passionately. "You are not just doomed to being invisible after the age of 40, 50, or 60. Yes, you are still beautiful. Yes, you are still attractive. Yes, you are worthy of showing up in the world in the best way that you know how to be."

She encourages women to find styles that make them feel good about themselves, whether through online inspiration or fashion magazines.

My Ballet Trick That Works Every Time

Drawing from her lifelong ballet training, Tracy shares one final tip: lightly engaging your abdominal muscles throughout the day. "We're never letting our belly go; we're always lifting the belly up and in," Tracy explains, clarifying this isn't about uncomfortable "sucking in" but rather a gentle engagement of your deep abdominal muscles.

"This is not a size thing because I used to do this when I was pregnant and my belly was out to here," she notes. "This is about just lightly engaging the muscles, those deep muscles in your abdominals."
This simple practice improves posture, creates a longer, leaner appearance, and can even help prevent back pain, especially important as we spend more time sitting. "It's going to improve your posture, make you look leaner, make you look slimmer, and help prevent back pain," Tracy confirms. With practice, this engagement becomes automatic, creating lasting improvements in both appearance and well-being.

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Start Today, See Results Tomorrow

Tracy emphasizes that consistency is key with all these approaches. The 20-second Tabata intervals might seem brief, but when performed regularly, they create significant changes. "When you do it with time, you don't even have to think about it anymore. It just becomes like a natural part of your day," she explains about her techniques.

By combining strategic 20-second workouts, stress reduction, smart nutrition, confident dressing, and simple posture adjustments, Tracy transformed her menopausal middle—and believes you can too.

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Diet and exercise are two components of weight loss. However, if you want to transform your body, there are additional habits you need to incorporate into your routine. Amulya M is a weight loss coach and influencer who helps her followers lose weight and transform their lives. In a new viral post, she reveals her plan for a four-month transformation. “For the next 4 months become addicted to these 7 habits, and you’ll be unrecognizable by June 2025,” she writes.

Wake Up Early

Her first transformation habit is waking up earlier. According to Amulya, it gives you more time to workout, plan your day, work on business, and be more productive. “It is a huge life hack and gives you more time to achieve your goals,” she says.

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Write Down Your Thoughts Before Bed

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Next, she recommends writing down your thoughts before bed. “Journaling before bed will improve your quality of and sleep,” she says. “You’ll be unrecognizable.” Not sure what to write down? She suggests “your goals for tomorrow” and “what you’re grateful for.”

Learn an Online Skill

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Her third transformative habit? “Learning an online skill 30 minutes a day,” she says. “With inflation and taxes rising, an online skill can save you financially.” She recommends skills like selling digital products, investing, and affiliate marketing.

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Exercise Four Times a Week

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She also recommends exercising four times a week and prioritizing mental health. “You also need good physical health,” she says, revealing a few exercises with the best results, including running, swimming, and lifting weights. “These will strengthen and tone your body,” she writes.

Sit in Silence

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“Sit in silence 10 minutes a day,” she adds. “Your mind is racing with hundreds of thoughts every minute.” She suggests taking just 10 minutes to sit in silence, practice mindfulness, and be present in the moment. “This is an underrated habit for your mental health, but very powerful,” she says.

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Sleep

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Make sure to get your rest. “Create a proper sleep schedule,” she says, adding that sleep is essential for your performance and mental health, reducing stress and improving your mood.

Repeat

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Her last tip? Be consistent and repeat these habits every single day, week, and month. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Once you hit 40, your metabolism slows down a bit. Paying attention to nutrition becomes more important to prevent weight gain or lose some pounds you may have accumulated. Maintaining or building muscle is also more complex, so good nutrition is key. As an experienced nutrition coach and nutritionist who spends a lot of time helping my clients lose weight, I often advise my clients to eat certain types of food to fuel fat loss. These are the best foods for weight loss if you are over 40.

Lean Protein

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My first recommendation is lean protein, including chicken, fish, lean beef, tofu, eggs, and Greek yogurt. These foods help support muscle mass and keep you full longer. I recommend spreading protein throughout the day, having some at each meal especially breakfast. Also, choose grilled or baked instead of fried.

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Leafy Greens

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Another one of the best foods for weight loss is any leafy green. My favorites are spinach, kale, arugula, and romaine. Not only are these veggies low in calories, but they are also high in fiber and essential nutrients. An added bonus? Leafy greens are super high in antioxidants for disease fighting.

Berries

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Another great food for weight loss that also serves as a sweet treat? Berries. Personally, my favorites are blackberries, blueberries, strawberries, and raspberries. What makes this type of fruit so special? Berries are packed with fiber, which promotes satiety and good digestive health. They are also low in sugar compared to other fruits and high in antioxidants.

Healthy Fats

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Healthy fats – including avocados, nuts, and olives – are also excellent fat burners. They help keep you feeling full and satisfied, support brain and heart health, and are needed to help regulate hormones, which is crucial for weight management over 40.

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Probiotic-Rich Foods

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Don’t sleep on probiotic-rich foods like Greek yogurt, kimchi, and other fermented foods. these food types aid digestion and help immune and gut health.

Whole Grains

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Lastly, when it comes to carbs, fill your plate with whole grains. I recommend quinoa, brown rice, and oats. They provide long-lasting energy and fiber to keep you full, help regulate blood sugar levels, and aids in supporting gut health. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.