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3 Simple Secrets to Getting Lean While Eating What You Love

Alexandra Redmond shares her secrets.

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According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, nearly half of Americans try to lose weight every year. According to an Everyday Health survey, 79 percent of people believed that reaching their target weight would make them “happier.” However, Alexandra Redmond, a fitness influencer with over 431,00 followers on Instagram, is living, breathing proof that leaner isn’t always. In an Instagram post, Redmond reveals that being super lean isn’t necessarily the key to happiness.


1. Why I Gave Up on Getting Lean and Found My Happy Medium

“Unless you have the genetics, achieving this level of leanness requires more sacrifice than the average person is willing to give,” she wrote in the caption of the post. “I used to think that if I looked the part and was ‘shredded,’ people would trust me more, I’d be happier and more ‘credible’. What it actually did was mess with my mental and physical health and had me focusing more on my imperfections than ever,” she admits. “I think everyone has a ‘happy medium’ where they feel their best, can enjoy foods they love AND feel good in their body."

2. The Hidden Costs of Having Abs

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In the video, which she titled “Things I Wish I Knew Before Getting This Lean,” she explains that while “having abs might be cool,” there are also disadvantages of being at such a low body fat percent. For one, it “can actually hurt your hormone health,” she says.

Related: I'm a Bikini Fitness Competitor and Here's My #1 Rule for Weight Loss

3. Being Lean Ruined My Happiness and Social Life

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And, “being this lean” did not bring her any more happiness than she had at a higher body fat percentage. “I thought it would help my body image, but it actually made me fixate more on my imperfections than ever,” she confessed. She also had to sacrifice her social life. “If I went out to eat with my family or friends, I would actually pack my own food,” she said. “This level of leanness is not sustainable and it certainly didn't make me a more qualified coach,” she concluded.

4. A Study Reveals the Surprising Link Between Obesity and Happiness

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Research has found that while weight loss can come with mental health benefits, seriously restricting or avoiding foods can lead to disordered and psychological problems. In fact, a study published in the International Journal of Epidemiology found that people who are obese were generally happier than those who are thin and also have a calmer state of mind.

Related: What Happens When You Quit Soda, According to a Nutritionist

5. Finding Your Happy Medium

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This doesn’t mean you are better off being obese, as obesity is linked to a number of health conditions, including type 2 diabetes, heart disease, and some cancers. As Redmond mentions, a “happy medium,” a weight where you feel healthy but not deprived, is the ideal goal.

💪🔥Body Booster: While the majority of people believe that getting leaner and skinnier will make them happier, research doesn’t support this.

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According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, nearly half of Americans try to lose weight every year. According to an Everyday Health survey, 79 percent of people believed that reaching their target weight would make them “happier.” However, Alexandra Redmond, a fitness influencer with over 431,00 followers on Instagram, is living, breathing proof that leaner isn’t always. In an Instagram post, Redmond reveals that being super lean isn’t necessarily the key to happiness.


1. Why I Gave Up on Getting Lean and Found My Happy Medium

“Unless you have the genetics, achieving this level of leanness requires more sacrifice than the average person is willing to give,” she wrote in the caption of the post. “I used to think that if I looked the part and was ‘shredded,’ people would trust me more, I’d be happier and more ‘credible’. What it actually did was mess with my mental and physical health and had me focusing more on my imperfections than ever,” she admits. “I think everyone has a ‘happy medium’ where they feel their best, can enjoy foods they love AND feel good in their body."

2. The Hidden Costs of Having Abs

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In the video, which she titled “Things I Wish I Knew Before Getting This Lean,” she explains that while “having abs might be cool,” there are also disadvantages of being at such a low body fat percent. For one, it “can actually hurt your hormone health,” she says.

Related: I'm a Bikini Fitness Competitor and Here's My #1 Rule for Weight Loss

3. Being Lean Ruined My Happiness and Social Life

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And, “being this lean” did not bring her any more happiness than she had at a higher body fat percentage. “I thought it would help my body image, but it actually made me fixate more on my imperfections than ever,” she confessed. She also had to sacrifice her social life. “If I went out to eat with my family or friends, I would actually pack my own food,” she said. “This level of leanness is not sustainable and it certainly didn't make me a more qualified coach,” she concluded.

4. A Study Reveals the Surprising Link Between Obesity and Happiness

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Research has found that while weight loss can come with mental health benefits, seriously restricting or avoiding foods can lead to disordered and psychological problems. In fact, a study published in the International Journal of Epidemiology found that people who are obese were generally happier than those who are thin and also have a calmer state of mind.

Related: What Happens When You Quit Soda, According to a Nutritionist

5. Finding Your Happy Medium

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This doesn’t mean you are better off being obese, as obesity is linked to a number of health conditions, including type 2 diabetes, heart disease, and some cancers. As Redmond mentions, a “happy medium,” a weight where you feel healthy but not deprived, is the ideal goal.

💪🔥Body Booster: While the majority of people believe that getting leaner and skinnier will make them happier, research doesn’t support this.

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Our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians strives to be objective, unbiased, and honest.

We are committed to bringing you researched, expert-driven content to help you make more informed decisions around food, health, and wellness. We know how important making choices about your overall health is, and we strive to provide you with the best information possible.

Have you tried every diet out there but still can't seem to keep the weight off? You're stuck in a cycle of restrictive eating, temporary results, and inevitable rebound. But according to one expert, the problem isn't your willpower—it's your blood sugar.


Jessie Inchauspé, known to her followers as the Glucose Goddess, is a biochemist who's challenging everything we think we know about weight loss. With over 1.3 million YouTube subscribers and a New York Times bestselling book, she's revealing why traditional dieting advice might be making your weight loss journey harder than it needs to be. Read on to discover the science-backed approach that could finally help you break free from the dieting cycle.

The Weight Loss Industry's Billion-Dollar Mistake

The multi-billion dollar diet industry has built its fortune on quick fixes and restrictive eating plans. "When I wrote my first book in 2022, even though my focus was never to help people lose weight, my publishers wanted me to put weight loss or lose weight on the cover because they know that it sells," Jessie reveals in her video podcast. But this obsession with quick results is exactly what's keeping people trapped in the weight loss cycle.

The Hidden Reason You Can't Stop Eating

What if your food cravings weren't about lack of willpower? "When we are on a glucose rollercoaster, after every glucose spike, there is a glucose dip, and this dip activates the craving center in our brain that tells us to go find some cookies, some chocolates, some chips," Jessie explains. This insight reveals why traditional diets often fail—they don't address the underlying blood sugar issues driving your hunger.

Why Your Body Fights Against Weight Loss

The real problem goes deeper than calories. "The reason that fat burning is important is not because it's going to make you lose weight. It's because if you're able to burn fat for fuel, it means that you are metabolically flexible," Jessie emphasizes. Without this flexibility, your body remains stuck in a cycle of constant hunger and energy crashes.

The Truth About Constant Hunger

If you're always hungry, there's a scientific reason: "People who are not very metabolically flexible, who rely mostly on glucose for fuel all the time, they're hungry every two hours. They get what's called low blood sugar. And if their meals are delayed or if they don't have a snack with them in their car, they can get really shaky and nauseous," Jessie explains. This constant need for food isn't normal—it's a sign your body isn't working efficiently.

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The Three Keys to Natural Weight Loss

When you focus on blood sugar stability, three powerful changes occur: "The reduction in cravings, the reduction in hunger, and the increase in burning fat for fuel," says Jessie. These changes create the perfect environment for natural, sustainable weight loss.

Why Quick-Fix Diets Make Everything Worse

"I think if your main focus is losing weight at all costs as quickly as possible, that often leads to very habits that are not sustainable, and that can actually be worse for your health and cause damage," Jessie warns. "Do not succumb to any of the crazy diets promising you fast, 10-pound in two-day weight loss. That's not what we're here for."

The Simple Changes That Transform Your Body

Instead of strict rules, Jessie advocates for easy, sustainable habits: "The hacks that I share are sustainable, easy partners that you take along with your days and your weeks and your months and your years and do whenever you can," she explains. "They don't ask you to count any calories. They don't ask you to cut out any food groups. They just teach you about what molecules are in your food and when, how, and what combination to eat your food."

RELATED:10 Hacks to Burn More Fat While Walking, According to Scientist

How to Break Free from Food Guilt

The beauty of this approach is its flexibility. "I like to say that they're a little bit like drink water and brush your teeth. If you can't do them one day, one week, one month, it's not a big deal," Jessie shares. "The point is not you do everything right or you're not doing it at all. It's purely take the principles with you and do them when it is easy."

The Science-Backed Results

The proof lies in the research. In a study of 2,700 people following Jessie's method for just four weeks, "90% of participants were less hungry, 89% reduced their cravings, 77% had more energy," she reports. Most importantly, 38% of those wanting to lose weight succeeded—without following a restrictive diet.

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Your Path to Sustainable Weight Loss

The most profound changes go beyond the scale. "What they had been after for a very long time was not necessarily weight loss, it was actually just to feel good in their body, to have a clear brain, to be happy to wake up in the morning with energy, to not feel so addicted to sugar all the time," Jessie reveals. By understanding and stabilizing your blood sugar, you can finally achieve the sustainable weight loss that has eluded you—without the struggle of traditional dieting. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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As a registered dietitian who lost a hundred pounds and kept it off, I know the struggle of weight loss all too well. It started at a young age, with summers spent at weight loss camps and school years marked by yo-yo dieting. This cycle continued for years, leading me to a point where I was 215 pounds at just five feet two inches tall.


The constant battle with weight took a toll not only on my body but also on my self-esteem. But it was this very struggle that ignited my passion for nutrition and set me on a path to discover a sustainable way to lose weight. Now, as a Registered Dietitian with a Master's degree in Nutrition and Dietetics, my ideas have worked for literally thousands of people, through my work as a nutritionist and best-selling author of You Can Drop It!, the book based on my successful 2B Mindset program.

Now, I’ve encapsulated those principles into my new cookbook, Love The Food That Loves You Back, featuring 100 recipes that serve up big portions and super nutritious food. Here's a sneak peek about how the foods can work for you—and a mouth-watering dessert-for-breakfast recipe at the end.

1. You Don’t Have to Give Up Great Taste to Lose Weight

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Love The Food That Loves You Back is filled with recipes that are not just healthy but delicious and satisfying. They reflect my journey and philosophy: you don't have to give up great taste to lose weight. In fact, I believe in eating high-volume, low-calorie foods that allow you to enjoy hearty portions without the guilt. These are the recipes that helped me transition from a lifestyle of takeout and fast food to one where I could still enjoy eating and see progress on the scale. In the cookbook, you'll find an array of recipes that cater to all meals of the day, for all members of your family. These recipes are the embodiment of my weight loss journey and my professional knowledge as a dietitian. They are designed to help you lose weight without feeling like you're on a diet.

Related: 12 Best Foods For Women to Build Muscle

2. How to Eat Food and Lose Weight

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Losing 100 pounds was just the start of my journey. The real success has been in maintaining that weight loss and helping others do the same. Through my cookbook and the 2B Mindset program, I want to share the joy of eating well and living healthily. I believe that everyone deserves to love the food they eat and to love the way they feel. Here are the cornerstones of Love The Food That Loves You Back in a nutshell:

1. Embrace Healthy Foods and Transform Your Relationship with Food: You can shift from using food as a coping mechanism for emotional distress to celebrating it through healthy, delicious recipes.

2. Eat Smart, Not Less: I advocate for choosing nutrient-rich foods over merely reducing food quantity.

3. Prioritize Vegetables and Proteins: I emphasize the importance of incorporating more vegetables and proteins, often overlooked in the typical American diet.

4. Break Food Myths: Let's debunk the myth that tasty food is unhealthy and show how nutritious food can also be delicious.

5. Recognize the Holistic Impact of Food: Let's acknowledge the profound influence of food on overall health, including gene expression, microbiome, and brain chemistry.

6. Encourage Creative and Mindful Cooking: I hope to inspire creativity in the kitchen and promote mindful consumption with tools and methods for balanced serving sizes. I believe in offering a range of serving size suggestions to cater to different body types and needs.

7. Encourage a Responsive Eating Approach: Unlike other restrictive "diet" cookbooks, I recommend eating more if still hungry, focusing on vegetables and proteins, and introduce the “More? Sure!” Model for smart filling up.

As you can see, the goal of Love The Food That Loves You Back is to help you enjoy your favorite foods and flavors while improving your eating habits and mindset. It’s about learning to crave nutritious foods, not just tolerate them. I want to inspire you to get creative in the kitchen with recipes that taste like comfort food and make you feel amazing. Remember, this is not a weight loss book, but a journey to love the foods that genuinely love your body back.

3. These Meals Were the Cornerstone of My Weight Loss Journey

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I'm thrilled to share with you the very meals that have been a cornerstone of my weight loss journey. The cookbook kicks off with breakfast – it's not just the first meal of the day; it's a celebration of a fresh start. I've packed in recipes like Chocolate Cream Rolls, Protein Oats, and a game-changing Tempeh BLT. Or try Seasonal Breakfast Boats, featuring the exotic tastes of papaya and sweet potato. Make them a morning ritual that'll have you feeling full, reducing those 11 am cravings.

But wait, there's more! You'll discover a world where veggies become your new best friends. I'm talking about dishes like Thai Peanut Hearts of Palm Spaghetti and Eggplant Sesame Noodles – meals that'll make you rethink everything you thought you knew about plant-based eating. And for my fellow crunch enthusiasts, the Roasted Wonders section is a treasure trove. You’ll make Eggplant Parm Fries and Air Fried Mini Bell Peppers. This isn't just about eating well; it's about loving every bite along your journey to health and happiness.

Related: 14 Ways to Get Back in Shape

4. Here’s One of My Favorite Recipes From the Book

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CHOCOLATE CREAM ROLLS

Who wouldn't want "cake" for breakfast???

Serves 2

Ingredients

2 bananas

4 eggs

1 tsp. vanilla extract

1½ cups plain Greek yogurt (nonfat or 2 percent) or dairy-free “Greek style” yogurt

1 tbsp. cocoa powder

Pinch of salt

1 tbsp. honey, maple syrup, or monk fruit (or use stevia drops to taste)

Directions

  1. Preheat oven to 350 F. Cover a rimmed baking sheet or rectangle cooking dish with parchment paper and spray with oil.
  2. Blend bananas, eggs, and vanilla extract in a blender. Pour batter on to the baking sheet and bake for 25 minutes.
  3. In the meantime, whip the yogurt with the cocoa powder, salt, and sweetener of choice in a bowl and set aside.
  4. Allow the sheet pan banana “cake” to cool. When cooled, spread the yogurt topping evenly over the sheet pan. Slice lengthwise down the center and roll. Serve along with berries and enjoy.

Note: Stores well covered in the refrigerator, so you can prep the recipe in advance and enjoy the second serving on the next day.

Love The Food That Loves You Backis available now on Amazon or wherever books are sold. Ilana Muhlstein, creator of the 2B Mindset and author of You Can Drop It!, holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Nutrition and Dietetics, a Registered Dietitian License, and a Master's degree in Nutrition and Dietetics. Her expertise lies in nutrition and weight management, particularly in pediatric obesity, metabolic syndrome, healthy eating, and lifestyle choices. She also specializes in nutrition education and counseling.

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Our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians strives to be objective, unbiased, and honest.

We are committed to bringing you researched, expert-driven content to help you make more informed decisions around food, health, and wellness. We know how important making choices about your overall health is, and we strive to provide you with the best information possible.

Frustrated with love handles that just won't budge? If you've tried everything from endless side crunches to restrictive diets with no success, you're not alone. "It would be amazing if we could do a particular exercise that targeted love handle fat only, but there is no known way currently to spot reduce fat," says Jenna Collins, a certified personal trainer who's helped thousands transform their bodies. With over 400,000 YouTube subscribers and 25 years of fitness expertise, Collins has developed a science-backed approach that delivers real results. Here's her proven system that actually works for eliminating those stubborn love handles.


Why Love Handles Are So Stubborn

"Love handles don't appear overnight," Jenna explains in her post. "They develop over the years through excess calorie consumption and various factors like stress, medication, and genetics." She notes that women, especially after menopause, are more prone to storing fat in this area due to decreased estrogen levels.

"They don't appear because you went on vacation for a week and ate too much food," Jenna emphasizes. "This happens over a long period of time. Often, in the years, we've become so used to our bad habits that the problem can go undetected or, more likely, ignored."

RELATED:She Could Have Lost Weight Faster If She Had Known These 5 Fat Loss Tricks

Step 1: The Nutrition Strategy That Makes the Difference

The foundation of losing love handles starts with smart eating. "You need to be in a calorie deficit to lose fat," Jenna emphasizes. "This means consuming fewer calories than you burn daily." She recommends reducing your daily caloric intake by no more than 500 calories to lose fat at a sustainable pace.

"Definitely don't jump in and reduce your calories to the bare minimum in the hopes of speeding up fat loss," Jenna warns. "This will always result in gaining the weight back very fast. The truth is you're looking at many months and possibly even years, depending on how much fat you need to lose."

The Protein Rule That Protects Your Muscles While Burning Fat

Protein intake is crucial to maintaining muscle while losing fat. "If you're not getting adequate protein in your diet, you can start to lose muscle, especially while in a calorie deficit," Jenna explains. She recommends consuming 0.7-1 gram of protein per kilogram of body weight daily.

Step 2: The Exercise Approach That Really Works

Surprisingly, the most effective exercise isn't what most people expect. "If I had to choose one exercise for all people and all fitness levels, walking is your best exercise to lose fat," Jenna reveals. She notes that "walking for 45 minutes at a steady pace can burn as many calories as a 15-minute HIIT workout."

For optimal results, combine walking with strength training. "Resistance training will help you to tone and build muscle, and the more lean muscle mass you have, the more calories your body will burn at rest. Yes, that's right. At rest, doing nothing."

Start Here: Your Simple 3-Day Workout Plan for Results

For beginners, Jenna recommends "a full body workout three times per week. Two could be shorter HIIT workouts with or without equipment, and one could be lower intensity weights." As you progress, you can advance to more specialized routines.

RELATED:10 Warning Signs Your Calories Are Dangerously Low

Step 3: The Missing Link - Sustainable Consistency

"If you can't put the first two steps into practice consistently and make it a lifestyle change rather than seeing it as a challenge, then those steps are pointless," Jenna states firmly. "You don't need to jump in with both feet and make drastic changes overnight. For some, this might work, but for most people, this won't work."

Work With Your Body Type, Not Against It

She highlights working with your unique body type: "We really just need to accept that we all have different body shapes. You can't go comparing your body shape to someone else's. Work with your own body and don't try to shape it the way somebody else is built."

Breaking Through Plateaus

When progress stalls, Jenna shares her proven solution: the refeed day. "After some time being in a calorie deficit, your body will reduce the amount of calories it burns. This is your body's way of going into survival mode," she explains. By strategically increasing carbohydrates for one day, "you're signaling to your body that you are getting enough calories, and there's no need to lower your metabolism."

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Your Blueprint for Success

"Combine the science and a lifestyle change that works for you, meaning something that is sustainable and enjoyable for you long-term," Jenna concludes. The key to success lies in the combination of proper nutrition, strategic exercise, and unwavering consistency. While the journey requires patience, following these science-backed steps will lead to real, lasting results. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Do you want to lose 50 pounds in three months without having to spend hours at the gym? Nicole Collet is a social media influencer who lost a whopping 130 pounds — and 50 pounds in just three months. On her YouTube channel she shares “easy weight loss tips, small changes & quick, easy meals” that helped her “drop the guilt around food, enjoy the journey & lose the weight for good!” In one of them she reveals the three “Lazy Girl” steps that enabled her and her husband to slim down fast.


This Is Her “Lazy Girl’s Guide to Weight Loss”

“When I was 275 pounds, I wanted to lose weight, but I was really struggling. I didn't really have any self-discipline. I had a really hard time making and sticking to a plan and I knew I needed to find a way to get results without doing a lot of work to get them. So I wanna share my Lazy Girl's Guide to Weight Loss,” she says in the clip.

It Consists of “Three Easy Steps”

“It's three easy steps and it made sticking to what I was doing effortless so that I was able to lose 50 pounds of fat in three months,” she says. She explains that she and her husband, Kyle, lost the same amount of weight and have kept it off for over nine years, in an “efficient” manner. “We've learned you work smarter, not harder. Meaning we like to maximize the results and minimize the amount of effort that you have to put in to get the results.”

1. Focus on Diet — Not Exercise

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“Number one, don't waste too much time on exercise. Diet is the key. I can't tell you how many years and how much time I wasted on thinking that exercise was gonna help me lose weight. The thing is you can out-train a bad diet,” Nicole says.

Make Sure You Are in a Caloric Deficit

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“Getting your diet in check is like 95% of what's gonna get you the weight loss results. You have to be in a calorie deficit to lose weight. That's the only rule, meaning you need to consume less calories than you burn. You have to get your diet in check first and then the exercise becomes the cherry on the cake,” she says.

Focus on Portion Size

She explains that she and her husband “didn't change anything that we were eating. Instead we started portioning it out. So for example, we were eating a bag of chips, a family-sized bag of chips every single night for a snack each. Instead of giving up the chips or like changing, we just shared the bag and split it into a bowl,” she says. “So we were automatically eating less calories. We were going in a calorie deficit without changing what we were eating, just eating a bit less. And this is obviously a decent sized portion. So that really helped.”

Read the Label and Use the Suggested Serving Size

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“We both had emotional eating, really bad. Any sort of number counting, number tracking, calorie counting. We couldn't do it. It triggered our emotional eating. So the easiest way to start portioning food was literally on the backs of packages. There's a serving size,” she says. “So we literally started using the backs of packages.

If You Aren’t Losing Weight at the End of the Week, Adjust the Serving Size

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Then they would weigh themselves at the end of the week. “If we lost weight, we knew those serving sizes were good. If we didn't lose weight or we gained weight, we knew to pull back just a little bit because we didn't wanna take away too much because that just caused us to fail in the past.”

Also, Switch From Regular Versions to the Low Cal Alternative

“The other thing that's like a super lazy way to do something, to get in a calorie deficit without even thinking, we literally just switched from what we were eating the regular version to the low cal version. So for example, like I tell the story all the time, I was drinking seven regular cans of Dr. Pepper every single day. That's almost a thousand calories in liquid. But I wasn't ready to give it up and I wasn't ready to eliminate some of the cans. So I literally just switched from regular pop to diet pop. I saved myself almost a thousand calories a day. I still was drinking seven cans of pop but it was diet. So I still got the pop, but I was in a calorie deficit because I was consuming less calories without feeling like I was giving anything up.”

2. Stock Up on No-Cook Food Options

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“Number two, the second step is to always have no-cook food options on hand, like at all times,” she continues. “Always have things in the house that require no cooking at all. Maybe a microwave, but that's it because you're gonna have days where you don't wanna do the meal prep, you don't have time, you are really hungry and you forgot to prep your meal and you need food now or you're gonna go off track. So it's really important to have those things.”

Don’t Waste Time Meal Prepping

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“Kyle and I tried the hours of complicated long meal preps and it really by, you know, after a few months of doing it we were like this is not sustainable. We won't, we don't wanna do this for the rest of our lives,” Nicole continues. “You kind of wanna remove all the excuses that yes you're gonna have to stop your weight loss journey.”

Here Are Some No-Cook Options she Likes

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One no cook option she likes is lean turkey pepperonis from Costco. “They don't taste like turkey at all. She also likes ham slices, cottage cheese, plain Greek yogurt, egg whites, high protein oatmeal, protein ice cream, rotisserie chicken from Costco, Uncle Ben's Bistro Express rice, and low calorie soup.

3. Prioritize Low Calorie, Protein, and Fiber

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“Number three, the third easy step is to prioritize low calorie, protein, and fiber,” she says. “Just by adding protein and fiber into every single meal, they both help you feel fuller, longer. Fiber is slow digesting so it helps you feel fuller, longer. Protein lowers your hunger hormone ghrelin and again helps you feel fuller longer. So by putting that at every meal, you're automatically gonna get fuller, quicker and for longer.”

Make Protein the Base of Your Meal

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“You're gonna be less likely to overeat by making your base some sort of protein. Also, you don't have to put a lot of effort because if you automatically make a meal plan, you put protein in fiber at every meal and you make those your bases like lean protein, rotisserie chicken,” she says.

Drink Protein Milk

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Another easy way to get protein is via protein milk, like Fair Life, “which is 80 calories a cup,” she says. It also has 14 grams of protein “and I believe regular milk if you do like the 2%, it's 130 calories a cup and only like nine grams of protein.”

Add It to Your Cereal

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If you are a cereal eater, “just have a smaller bowl and you don't change the amount of milk, just change the kind, add the protein and the lower calorie milk,” she suggests. “You're gonna feel fuller eating your cereal. You're also gonna be eating less calories because it's a bit of a smaller bowl, a lower calorie milk. You'll be in a calorie deficit eating what you like, not doing any work. You're still eating cereal and milk just a little bit less and a little lower calorie.”

You Can Still Eat Carbs

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She also maintains that you can eat carbs and lose weight if you stay in a deficit. “You can eat anything you want: cereal, pizza, we ate all of that the whole time we were losing weight. It's about how much, not what kind of food you're eating.”

Eat More Fiber to Feel Full

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As for fiber she recommends whole grain toast. “Two slices is 170 calories and six grams of protein. So if you choose the whole grain carbs, you get protein in that too,” she says. “And the fiber in it also helps you feel full.”

Bottom Line: Get Rid of Excuses

The bottom line? “We're trying to get rid of excuses because when you try to change, your brain is gonna give you every excuse in the book to not change and not get the results. But by doing this Lazy Girl's Guide to Weight Loss doing these three easy steps, it's gonna feel effortless,” says Nicole.

This Works Better Than “Taking Food Groups Away,” She Says

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“You're gonna be questioning, am I actually dieting? Like I get to eat what I like. I'm just eating a lower calorie version and I'm losing weight. Like I'm not giving anything up. I'm not feeling deprived. And eating all food groups,” she continues. “We were shocked. We ate a portion of low calorie ice cream and two low cal cookies pretty much every night when we were losing weight in the beginning and we couldn't believe we were getting results eating all the food groups because we'd spent years taking food groups away.”

You Can “Eat What You Like”

“You can eat regular food, you can eat what you like, you don't have to take anything away. You don't have to spend thousands of dollars to lose weight and you don't have to spend hours and hours of your time to lose the weight. Make it simple. Follow these three steps. Choose food that you love. Choose food in your budget.”

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Are you prioritizing protein intake but not losing the weight you hoped to? You might be making a common – but fixable – mistake. Sarah Bouchard is a Nutrition Coach & Educator who helps women over 35 “ditch diet confusion & simplify nutrition” for “Sustainable fat loss + healthy body composition,” she explains in her Instagram bio. In a new social media post she reveals some diet faux pas you might be committing. “5 dieting traps that are stalling your fat loss and body recomp even though you are eating high protein,” she writes. After revealing each “trap,” she goes on to suggest what to do instead.

Hitting a Protein Target Without Considering Quality or Distribution

Her first trap? Hitting a protein target without considering quality or distribution. “Simply consuming ‘enough’ protein isn’t doing it. The quality, density, & timing of protein intake directly impact muscle retention & satiety,” she says.

What to Do Instead

The solution? “Choose quality proteins & distribute protein intake more evenly across meals to stimulate muscle synthesis multiple times per day—not just at dinner,” she writes.

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Setting Calories Too Low

The next mistake is setting calories too low. “Severe calorie restriction reduces total daily energy expenditure (TDEE). Your body compensates by decreasing how much you move & making you more energy-efficient, which slows fat loss,” she says.

What to Do Instead

The solution? “Keep your deficit modest—just below maintenance,” she recommends. “Prioritize protein & fiber to increase the thermic effect of food (TEF) & satiety. Increase daily movement like walking to support TDEE rather than reducing ‘calories in’ even further.”

Overemphasizing Protein While Neglecting Fiber & Carbs

Mistake three is overemphasizing protein while neglecting fiber and carbs. “Protein is just one part of the satiety equation. A high-protein diet without fiber-rich carbohydrates can slow digestion, impact gut health, and leave you feeling ravenous,” she says.

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What to Do Instead

Make sure you are balancing macros. “Ensure you’re including fiber from fruits, vegetables, & starches at every meal to support digestion, blood sugar control, & satiety,” she suggests.

Unrealistic Expectations

Another mistake is setting unrealistic expectations. “Fat loss takes time. If you’ve ever lost 5 lbs in a week on keto, it was likely water weight, not body fat. Quick results aren’t sustainable, & constant weight fluctuations can be discouraging,” she writes.

What to Do Instead

Her solution? “Shift focus from short-term outcomes to long-term consistency. Instead of chasing the scale, prioritize the behaviors that create fat loss—training, nutrition, & recovery,” she says.

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Chronic Dieting

Her last mistake is chronic dieting. “Constantly being in a deficit can lead to metabolic adaptation, lack of nutrients, hormonal problems, and a higher risk of binge-restrict cycles,” she points out.

What to Do Instead

She has a solution to the problem. “Periodize your deficit,” she suggests. “Include diet breaks & consider calorie cycling to avoid diet fatigue and promote long-term adherence.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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I Lost 134 Pounds After Saying Goodbye to These 6 Habits
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We've all been there – standing in front of the pantry, fighting the urge to grab that sugary snack we know we shouldn't eat. For Christina Jordan, a Board Certified Master Nutritionist at Fit Body Weight Loss, this struggle was all too real. After successfully losing 134 pounds and reversing Type 2 Diabetes, thyroid issues, and autoimmune conditions through healthy eating, she's sharing the key habits she had to break to achieve lasting success. If you're ready to transform your relationship with food, these insights could be exactly what you need.

1. Ignoring Water Intake

"You should be drinking one gallon of water a day," Jordan says in her post. "I know it's a lot, but those cravings for carbohydrates and sugars are often signs that you're dehydrated." She recommends carrying a gallon jug and gradually working up to the full amount, noting that proper hydration is crucial for managing cravings.

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2. Removing Without Replacing

When it comes to breaking addictions, Jordan learned a valuable lesson: "You can't just remove an addiction; you have to replace it," she shares. "It's like ripping off a chunk of your skin – you create a gaping hole that needs to be filled." She suggests finding healthier alternatives, such as naturally sweetened beverages or herbal teas, to replace sugary sodas.

3. Skipping Essential Nutrients

"You have to have all three – protein, complex carbs, and healthy fats – to feel satiated," Jordan explains. She recommends incorporating specific foods like avocados (one per day) or a measured portion of almonds (9-12 count) to maintain balanced nutrition and prevent cravings.

4. Overlooking Physical Activity

"Don't give in to cravings – go do something else," Jordan advises. "Even 10 minutes of exercise will totally calm your sugar cravings." She personally uses exercise as a powerful tool to reprogram her brain's response to sugar cravings, often choosing to walk or use the treadmill when cravings strike.

5. Expecting Immediate Results

"Breaking an addiction takes time," Jordan reminds us. "You're not going to quit craving sugar forever after one day." She explains that it takes approximately 67 days for the brain to heal and form new neural pathways, making it essential to maintain consistency during this period.

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6. Fighting Cravings Without a Strategy

Jordan shares a unique approach to managing cravings: "I have a little band on my wrist that I've been wearing for about 11 or 12 years. Whenever my brain starts to get out of control, I give that little band a tiny snap." This simple technique serves as a pattern interrupter, helping to maintain focus on health goals.

The Science Behind Sugar Addiction

"Breaking sugar is harder than breaking a cocaine addiction because the brain fires off the same way as cocaine," Jordan reveals. She points out that sugar's societal acceptance makes it particularly challenging to overcome, as it's present in many everyday situations and celebrations.

Managing the Transition

"If you're snapping at your kids or family, here's the deal: make sure you're getting enough healthy fats," Jordan advises. She suggests incorporating MCT oil into smoothies, protein shakes, or beverages to help manage mood swings during the sugar detox process.

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Finding Healthy Alternatives

Jordan shares her personal strategy for replacing sugary drinks: "I discovered amazing, naturally sugar-free, organic iced teas that taste delicious. I sweeten them with lemons, limes, or oranges." She emphasizes the importance of being open to trying new options and finding what works for you.

The Path to Success

"After a while, your brain will heal those neural connector pathways," Jordan encourages. She maintains that with a 90-day commitment to new habits, you can successfully overcome sugar addiction. "It gets easier because your body heals, your brain heals, and new, better habits replace the old ones." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you trying to tone your arms after 50? One expert claims to know the secret. Kristine Rucker, aka The Arm Coach, is a fitness coach and influencer specializing in helping people tone their arms. In a new post, she reveals the one secret you need to learn if you want strong arms. “The real reason you’re not getting the arms you want…and it’s NOT your workouts,” she says.

She Thought Her Workouts Were the Problem

“For the longest time, I thought my workouts were the problem. Maybe I wasn’t lifting heavy enough. Maybe I wasn’t doing the right exercises. Maybe I needed more reps, different movements, a better routine,” she says in the post.

It Was Actually Her Mindset

“So, I kept searching for the perfect plan. But no matter what I tried, my arms didn’t change the way I wanted them to,” she says. “And then I realized—it wasn’t my workouts holding me back. It was my mindset.”

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She Stuck in an “All-Or-Nothing” Cycle

“I was stuck in an all-or-nothing cycle. Some days, I was on fire, pushing myself hard, eating ‘perfectly.’ Other days, I’d fall off track and think, Oh well, I already messed up. Might as well start over Monday. Sound familiar?” she says.

You Need to Stay Consistent

Here’s the truth: “It’s not your workouts,” she says. “It’s your ability to stay consistent. And that consistency doesn’t come from forcing yourself—it comes from loving self-discipline.”

And Guide Yourself with Care

“Loving self-discipline isn’t about being strict—it’s about guiding yourself with care. It’s about making choices that feel good in the long run, not just in the moment. It’s what keeps you going, even when motivation fades,” she says.

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Everything Changed When She Stopped Fighting Herself

“When I stopped fighting myself and started practicing gentle, loving discipline, everything changed. My workouts finally worked—not because they were different, but because I was different,” she says.

Tracking Is Also Important

In another post, she reveals another tactic that helps tone arms: Tracking. “Why tracking is the fastest way to toned arms: Because what you measure, you improve,” she says.

She Used to Wing It

“I used to wing it—showing up to workouts, hoping for progress, but never really knowing if I was getting stronger. And because I wasn’t tracking anything, I’d get discouraged and quit before I ever saw real results,” she said.

Tracking Gave Her Proof, Kept Her Consistent, and Helped Her Focus on Progress

Then she started writing things down. “Tracking gave me proof. I wasn’t guessing anymore—I could see my strength improving week by week,” she says. “It kept me consistent. Seeing my progress in front of me made it easier to keep going. It helped me focus on progress, not perfection. Instead of obsessing over the mirror, I focused on how much stronger I was getting,” she continued.

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It Worked

It proved to be a successful tactic. “The moment I stopped relying on ‘feeling’ like I was making progress and actually tracked it, I got the toned arms I’d been chasing for years,” she said. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss these 3 Simple Stretches Made This Coach More Flexible in 2 Weeks.