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7 Weight Loss Mistakes This Fitness Coach Wishes She Never Made

One trainer reveals the habits she is changing in 2025.

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Are you ready to make some changes and become the healthiest version of yourself in 2025? It might be time to kick some bad habits, one expert claims. Holland Birkemeyer is a fitness coach who helps “women transform their body with heavy strength training, macros, and easy, high-protein recipes.” In one of her first posts of the year, she reveals three key habits she is changing for the new year. “Things I’m saying no to in 2025,” she writes across the Instagram video. “Here’s the deal… For years, I stuck to routines that worked at the time, but as I’ve learned more about my body and goals, I’ve realized some things needed to shift. So for 2025, I’m making a few changes that just make sense for where I’m at now,” she adds in the post.


She Won’t Be Meal Prepping Once Per Week

The first habit she is ditching? Meal prepping once per week. “I’ve been a one-and-done meal prepper for years, but by Friday, I’m out of food and eating out more than I’d like. In 2025, I’m doubling up and prepping twice a week (Sunday AND Thursday). This way, I’ll have fresh meals all week, and no more scrambling on the weekends,” she writes.

She Won’t Be Waking Up at 4 A.M.

The next habit she left in 2024 is waking up at 4 a.m. “I love an early morning, but doing it every single day has definitely taken a toll. My cycles had shortened to 21-22 days (hello, stress), so I started using a sunrise alarm a few months ago and letting my body wake up naturally. It’s made such a difference—I’m up to 23-24 day cycles now, and I feel way more rested. Working on hormones is my number one goal for my upcoming building phase! So yeah, I’m not setting that 4 a.m. alarm anymore. 😂 I’m naturally waking up at 5-5:30, and that’s good for me!” she says.

RELATED: Top Nutritionist Says Stop These 7 Macro Mistakes for Weight Loss

She Won’t Be Consuming Gluten and Dairy

And finally, she is ditching gluten and dairy. “I’m not perfect—I still love some regular cheese here and there—but staying about 90% gluten- and dairy-free has been a game changer for me. 🙌🏼 My acne has cleared up 😭😭😭 I could cry… seriously… and I feel so much better overall. It’s one of those things that just works for me, so I’m sticking with it!” she writes.

It’s “Okay to Evolve”

“My point? It’s okay to evolve,” she concludes. “Your habits should serve your goals and make your life easier, not harder. That’s exactly why I created Foodies with Booties—to help you balance your fitness, nutrition, and lifestyle in a way that works for YOU.”

RELATED: She Lost 22 Pounds by Following These 5 Intuitive Eating Rules

She Will Make Sure She Is Eating Enough

In another post she reveals some more habits that she wish she knew when she was younger about weight loss. The first is that she would tell herself to eat more. “1200-calorie diets aren’t it. Your body needs fuel to build muscle and lose fat. Starving yourself isn’t the answer,” she says.

She Will Also Choose Weights Over Cardio

Next, she would lift weights over cardio. “I thought cardio would make me ‘toned.’ Nope. Lifting is where the magic happens for real body composition changes,” she continues.

She Will Stick to a Plan

Third, she would tell herself to find a plan and stick to it. “Switching workouts every week won’t get you results. Follow a program for 6-8 weeks, and trust the process,” she says.

RELATED: Nutrition Coach Reveals 7 Calorie Deficit Tips to Help You Lose 20 Pounds

She Will Lift Heavy

Next up, lift heavy. “If you’re breezing through your sets, it’s too easy. Big mistake. 😅 Add weight. You won’t get bulky—you’ll get strong AF and this will make the muscles ‘pop’ underneath the layer of fat,” she writes.

She Will Stop Expecting Overnight Results

And, finally, stop expecting overnight results. “Progress takes time. Show up, stay consistent, and you’ll get there,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are your diet and fitness mistakes keeping you from achieving your body transformation goals? You might be making them and don’t even know it. Tay, one half of Healthy Living with Brooke and Tay, is a DPT and Certified Macro Coach who, along with her sister, helps simplify fat loss for women. In a new Instagram post, she discusses her own journey and what she has learned along the way. “These mistakes were costing me TIME & progress,” she writes, going on to reveal 5 of them and also revealing what she did instead that helped her shape up fast.


Mistake One: Not Eating Enough

Her first mistake? “Not eating enough,” she reveals in her post. “This is the biggest factor. In order to build muscle, you need to be eating at maintenance or even slightly above/ surplus. Yes, you may gain muscle initially with a deficit, but eating for too long in a deficit does not help build muscle.”

RELATED: Woman Lost Fat in Her 40s by Doing These 2 Things

Mistake Two: Fasted Workouts

Her second mistake? “Working out fasted,” she writes. “If you work out super early, try having carbs pre-workout to help give you the energy you need. Aim for about 30-45 grams of carbs. I eat a banana & rice cake before my morning workout/ walk since I get up at 4:45.”

Mistake Three: Not Upping Weights

Mistake number 3: This is failing to abide by the principle of progressive overload. “Using the same weights,” she says. “You can’t stay at the same weight forever. Increase the weight, even if you get fewer reps.”

Mistake Four: Not Going Through the Full Range of Motion

Next up, she messed up by only partially doing exercises. “Go through the full range of motion. This is key. Aim for performing exercises slowly, intentionally & focus on going through the whole range of motion,” she says.

Mistake Five: Being Scared of Eating More

Mistake five has to do with diet. “Being scared of eating more. This ties back to number 1, but just try it out. I get it can be scary. I have upped my carbs from 200 to 300 in the past months & I have nothing negative to say. I am eating about 2,300 calories daily & will continue to eat more. From someone who barely ate above 1,400 calories a few years ago, this is huge,” she says.

RELATED: She Lost 12 Pounds in 90 Days by Adding This One Thing to Her Walking Routine

What She Did Instead: Amped Up Protein

In another post, she reveals other habits that helped her transform her body. “I enjoyed high protein meals and ate four meals a day,” she says. She specified she “hit my protein goal” daily. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW) but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

What She Did Instead: Walked More

She also started walking more. “I walked 10k steps a day,” she writes. She also “walked in the AM” to ensure she didn’t bow out. A 2018 study published in the journal Obesity found a link between walking 10,000 steps a day and weight loss and weight management. Other studies published by the Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine also linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure, and fewer strokes.

What She Did Instead: Counted Macros and Ate Whole Foods

“I focused on macros & whole ingredients,” she continued. “I still indulged in some of my favorite foods from time to time without tracking.” She strongly recommends learning how to calculate yours. “I had NO idea how learning about macros would better my life. Prior, I had no idea about proteins, carbs & fats and why all are important & how they help fuel me and give me energy,” she says.

RELATED: 8 Foods a Doctor Says to Eat Because "Your Body's Going to Struggle to Hold Onto That as Fat"

What She Did Instead: She Slept More

Getting enough rest was also a game-changer. She “slept well” during her fat loss period. What are the health benefits of sleep? According to the Sleep Foundation, getting enough z’s is a mood booster, promotes heart health, regulates blood sugar, improves mental function, restores your immune system, helps relieve stress, and aids in weight loss. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss 12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? You might be making a mistake that is getting in the way of your progress, according to an expert. Kim Schlag is a midlife and menopause fitness specialist who helps clients achieve their weight loss goals. In a new post, she discusses the main ways people complicate weight loss and reveals what to do about it. “Ways you are making weight loss harder than it needs to be,” she writes. “Want weight loss that’s less complicated?” she asks, going into revealing the answers.

Stop Playing “Macro Tetris"

The first way you may be overcomplicating weight loss is by spending too much time calculating marcos. “Stop playing macro Tetris because research indicates that when calories and protein are equal you can lose weight just as well with a lower fat/higher carb diet as you can with a lower carb/higher fat diet,” she says.

Instead, Keep It Simple

What should you do instead? “So keep it simple,” she responds. “Track your calories and protein and then let carbs and don’t worry about tracking carbs and fat.”

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.

Don’t Make Spontaneous Decision

“Do you make your most important work decisions for big projects shooting from the hip? Likely you strategize & plan ahead. Do the same with the project of losing weight,” she says. “Deciding as you go what to eat complicates the process and sets you up for success at hitting your deficit calories and protein target.”

Instead, Try Meal Planning

One great way to do this is meal planning. “My most successful Fitter After 40 members & 1-1 online clients PRELOG THEIR MEALS the night before,” she says.

Eating Out Multiple Times a Week

And, the third mistake you might be making? “Eating out multiple times a week if you’re struggling to stay in your deficit calories is like going to Target & Home Goods many times per week when you’re struggling to keep to your budget,” she says.

Instead, Eat Out in a Defiicit or Eat More Meals at Home

“The calories add up fast eating out,” she says. “Way more butter and & oil hidden in there, outrageous portion sizes, and the easy-to-add-on bread, appetizers, dessert & drinks. Eating out in a deficit is a skill that takes practice to learn, and if you haven’t mastered your deficit calories in your home setting, you will likely struggle even more with take-out or restaurant meals. Prep & eat more meals at home.”

RELATED:12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster

Finally, Eat the Same Meals Deal

She offers an extra mistake. “Bonus way you’re making weight loss harder than it needs to be: you’re coming up with different meals every day. Girl, put those meals on repeat!” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you ready to make some changes and become the healthiest version of yourself in 2025? It might be time to kick some bad habits, one expert claims. Holland Birkemeyer is a fitness coach who helps “women transform their body with heavy strength training, macros, and easy, high-protein recipes.” In one of her first posts of the year, she reveals three key habits she is changing for the new year. “Things I’m saying no to in 2025,” she writes across the Instagram video. “Here’s the deal… For years, I stuck to routines that worked at the time, but as I’ve learned more about my body and goals, I’ve realized some things needed to shift. So for 2025, I’m making a few changes that just make sense for where I’m at now,” she adds in the post.


She Won’t Be Meal Prepping Once Per Week

The first habit she is ditching? Meal prepping once per week. “I’ve been a one-and-done meal prepper for years, but by Friday, I’m out of food and eating out more than I’d like. In 2025, I’m doubling up and prepping twice a week (Sunday AND Thursday). This way, I’ll have fresh meals all week, and no more scrambling on the weekends,” she writes.

She Won’t Be Waking Up at 4 A.M.

The next habit she left in 2024 is waking up at 4 a.m. “I love an early morning, but doing it every single day has definitely taken a toll. My cycles had shortened to 21-22 days (hello, stress), so I started using a sunrise alarm a few months ago and letting my body wake up naturally. It’s made such a difference—I’m up to 23-24 day cycles now, and I feel way more rested. Working on hormones is my number one goal for my upcoming building phase! So yeah, I’m not setting that 4 a.m. alarm anymore. 😂 I’m naturally waking up at 5-5:30, and that’s good for me!” she says.

RELATED: Top Nutritionist Says Stop These 7 Macro Mistakes for Weight Loss

She Won’t Be Consuming Gluten and Dairy

And finally, she is ditching gluten and dairy. “I’m not perfect—I still love some regular cheese here and there—but staying about 90% gluten- and dairy-free has been a game changer for me. 🙌🏼 My acne has cleared up 😭😭😭 I could cry… seriously… and I feel so much better overall. It’s one of those things that just works for me, so I’m sticking with it!” she writes.

It’s “Okay to Evolve”

“My point? It’s okay to evolve,” she concludes. “Your habits should serve your goals and make your life easier, not harder. That’s exactly why I created Foodies with Booties—to help you balance your fitness, nutrition, and lifestyle in a way that works for YOU.”

RELATED: She Lost 22 Pounds by Following These 5 Intuitive Eating Rules

She Will Make Sure She Is Eating Enough

In another post she reveals some more habits that she wish she knew when she was younger about weight loss. The first is that she would tell herself to eat more. “1200-calorie diets aren’t it. Your body needs fuel to build muscle and lose fat. Starving yourself isn’t the answer,” she says.

She Will Also Choose Weights Over Cardio

Next, she would lift weights over cardio. “I thought cardio would make me ‘toned.’ Nope. Lifting is where the magic happens for real body composition changes,” she continues.

She Will Stick to a Plan

Third, she would tell herself to find a plan and stick to it. “Switching workouts every week won’t get you results. Follow a program for 6-8 weeks, and trust the process,” she says.

RELATED: Nutrition Coach Reveals 7 Calorie Deficit Tips to Help You Lose 20 Pounds

She Will Lift Heavy

Next up, lift heavy. “If you’re breezing through your sets, it’s too easy. Big mistake. 😅 Add weight. You won’t get bulky—you’ll get strong AF and this will make the muscles ‘pop’ underneath the layer of fat,” she writes.

She Will Stop Expecting Overnight Results

And, finally, stop expecting overnight results. “Progress takes time. Show up, stay consistent, and you’ll get there,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you struggling to lose weight? Make this year your weight loss success story by avoiding some diet and fitness strategies that may be backfiring. Tameika Gentles is a fitness coach and weight loss warrior who dropped a whopping 100 pounds sustainably. In a new post, she reveals a few of the things she avoided doing that enabled her to lose a lot of weight. “5 controversial things I DO NOT recommend if you’re trying to lose 50 pounds or more (and I’ve lost 100 lbs…),” she writes across the Instagram video.


She’s Lost 100 Pounds and Kept It Off After Failing Over and Over Again

“I’ve been there—tried it all and failed HARD. But after losing 100 lbs and keeping it off, here’s what I’ve learned,” she continues in the post. “And what I’m sharing isn’t about what’s good or bad—it’s about what’s NOT necessary for long-term success.”

You “Don’t Need to Do” These 5 Things to Lose Weight

“No shame to those who choose these methods—do what works for YOU! This message is for the people who feel like they have to follow these trends to succeed. I’m here to tell you: you don’t. If you’re kicking off your weight loss journey in 2025, here are five things you don’t need to do,” she says.

RELATED: Nutritionist Lost 80 Pounds With These 5 Daily Habits

1. Fasting

Fasting is the first thing you don’t need to do in order to lose weight. “Fasting can work for some, but it’s not a must for results. Skipping meals often leads to overeating later, slows your metabolism, and can mess with your hormones. Sustainable weight loss is about finding balance, not extremes,” she writes.

2. Low Carb Diet

The second thing you don’t need to do? Go on low-carb diets. “Cutting carbs might lead to quick results, but is it realistic for life? Carbs fuel your body and mind—they’re not the enemy. You don’t need to cut out entire food groups to see progress,” she says.

3. Excessive Exercise

The third thing you don’t need to do? Excessive exercise. “More isn’t always better. It’s about consistency. 30 minutes of daily movement for a year beats an intense 3-week overhaul that leads to burnout and months of inactivity,” she writes.

RELATED: This Coach Lost 110 Pounds by Walking More and These 4 Simple Changes

4. Detoxes

Number four? Detoxes. “Save your money. Your liver and kidneys are built-in detox powerhouses. Most detoxes are unnecessary (and some are even harmful). Focus on real, nourishing food instead,” she says.

5. Weight Loss Pills/Supplements

Weight loss pills and supplements are also not needed. “They’re often unregulated, unsustainable, and don’t address the behaviors that lead to lasting change. I lost 100 lbs without them, and my clients succeed without them, too. You don’t need them,” she says.

RELATED: Top Nutrition MD Reveals 5 Signs You're Eating Too Much Protein

Instead, Focus on Balance, Consistency, and What Works for You

“The key to sustainable weight loss isn’t doing what’s trendy—it’s finding what works for YOU. Starting your 2025 journey? Remember, you don’t need to follow extreme trends to see real, lasting progress. Focus on balance, consistency, and what fits your life,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you trying to lose weight but aren’t really getting anywhere? According to experts, you might be going about your weight loss journey the wrong way. In fact, even some of the top diet and fitness experts have made weight loss mistakes themselves. Body Network spoke to a few trainers and nutritionists and asked them about the biggest missteps they took on their fitness journeys.


1. Going Overboard with Calorie Counting

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While it is good to keep tabs on your food consumption, Risa Sheppard, Master Pilates trainer, creator of The Sheppard Method, advises not to go overboard. “Counting every calorie of every piece of food,” is one of the mistakes she made. “It became time consuming and frustrating.”

Related: I Lost Belly Fat & 17 Pounds With These 6 Simple Hacks

2. Starving Your Body of Carbs

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Mr. America Jason Kozma, a personal trainer in Los Angeles, reveals the biggest mistake he made while preparing for a bodybuilding competition. “I had gotten too heavy bulking up to add more muscle mass,” he explains. He spent four months dieting for a spring show “and still didn’t get in shape.” After a short break he reset his goal to a fall show and dove headlong into his diet. “I was using an extremely low carb approach as I felt I had too much fat yet to burn. What I actually did was I starved my muscles of carbohydrates for so long that at the end my body couldn’t assimilate carbohydrates and I couldn’t ‘pump u’ for the show,” he continues. “My body fat measured lower than ever for this show but I didn’t look as good as I had a year and a half prior at a higher body fat level. The net result was that I lost muscle using this approach: I was actually smaller and lighter than I was before the ‘bulk up.’” Note: He still won the show!

3. Doing Too Much Cardio

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Diet and fitness expert Adita Yrizarry-Lang, ISCA, NASM, ACE, AFAA, reveals that one of the biggest mistakes she made was doing too much cardio. “When I first started in fitness, this was the prescription…do a lot of cardio. The reality is that you burn more calories when you have muscle on your body, combining weights with cardio is the right way to do it,” she says.

4. Not Looking at Serving Size on Packages

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Yrizarry-Lang claims that another mistake is only looking at calories on a package, and not the serving size. “We were mesmerized by the lo-cal labeling on a package,” she says. “Unfortunately, we never looked at the serving size and then came to realize we were ingesting too many calories at a time.”

5. Falling Victim to Low Fat, Highly Processed Foods

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Just because something is low-fat doesn’t make it healthy. Yrizarry-Lang says that some people consume “too many processed carbs, because they are low fat.” While this might be okay for runners, going for 10 to 20 mile runs, “those carbs convert to fat,” for most of us.

Related: Alexia Clark Flaunts Chiseled Midsection and Reveals 3 Ab Mistakes You Are Making

6. Daily Weigh-Ins

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Weighing oneself every single day is another mistake, says Sheppard. “It can be discouraging,” she explains. “Try to weigh yourself less and pay more attention to how your clothes are fitting. Remember muscle weighs more fat so if you are on an intense exercise regime the muscle you gain will trim in less but may not show on the scale.”

7. Crash Diets

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If a diet seems too good to be true, it probably is. “The all-time worst” mistake people make is going on crash diets. Why? You might “lose weight at the moment” but you will “gain it back with a few extra pounds,” says Yrizarry-Lang. “This slows down the metabolism and makes it even harder to lose weight at a later date.”

8. Focusing on Exercise for Weight Loss

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One of the biggest mistakes people make is “thinking more exercise will cause them to lose weight,” says Sheppard. “80 percent is dieting and 20 percent is exercise,” she reminds.

9. Falling Victim to “Get Thin Fast” Scams

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Sheppard strongly advises against any products or diet that claim to help with rapid weight loss. “Do not succumb to quick weight loss scams or dangerous pills. Remember Rome wasn’t built in a day and neither is weight loss,” she says.

Related: 15 Foods That Fight Fat

10. Comparing Yourself to Others

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Remember that your fitness journey is your own and “comparing yourself to other people” will “only add to your stress and discouragement,” says Sheppard. “We are all built differently with different bone structure and hereditary genes. Love who you are inside and it will reflect on your outside.”

💪🔥Body Booster: Beware of low-fat, processed foods. Unless you run for 20 miles a day, you should probably pass on a highly processed energy bar – those carbs might convert to fat unless you are working them off.

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Do you want to lose weight but aren’t sure which habits are hurting or helping you? One expert has some suggestions. Luisana Carrero is a nutrition coach and social media influencer who knows how to lose weight and keep it off from personal experience. In a new social media post, she opens up about her journey. “4 mistakes I had to stop making before I could finally lose 28 pounds in 4 months,” she writes. “I used to think something was wrong with me, blaming my hormones and lack of willpower…Until I realized I was making these mistakes.”

Mistake: Eating Clean But Not Paying Attention to Calories

Her first mistake? “Eating clean without paying attention to the amount of calories I was consuming,” she says. “I thought eating clean meant I’d automatically lose weight 😅, but I didn’t realize that even healthy foods can lead to weight gain if you’re eating too much.”

Fix: She Used a Macro Calculator

How did she correct this mistake? “Instead, I started measuring my portions to ensure I was actually in a calorie deficit,” she writes. She recommends using a macro calculator.

Mistake: Rewarding Herself with Cheat Meals

Another mistake she made? Rewarding herselff with “cheat meals,” she says. “I’d be ‘good’ all week, then go overboard on cheat meals, turning one meal into an entire weekend of indulgence.

RELATED:10-Min Walking Workout Burns Fat at Home, Says Coach

Fix: Eating Mostly Healthy But Including Food She Loves

What does she do instead? “I incorporated a healthy balance of the foods I love into my daily diet (10-20% of my total calories). This made dieting less stressful and helped me stay consistent long enough,” she reveals.

Mistake: Neglecting Daily Movement

Another mistake she made? “Neglecting daily movement,” she writes. “I used to sit all day and assumed my 1-hour workouts were enough, but they weren’t.”

Fix: Daily Walks

Her fix was adding steps to her day. “Walking became a non-negotiable for me. I committed to hitting 10,000 steps every day, I do this by going on walks or using my walking pad,” she says.

Mistake: Surrounding Herself with People Who Didn’t Support Her Goals

Her final mistake? “Surrounding myself with people who didn’t support my goals,” she writes. “‘Friends’ would make fun of my choices, and I let it get to me.”

Fix: Setting Boundaries

How did she fix this? “I started setting boundaries and distanced myself from negativity. Prioritizing my own health and happiness became my focus,” she writes.

RELATED:30 Best Protein Foods That Melt Fat Almost Instantly

These Small Changes Made a Big Difference

The bottom line? “These small but impactful changes completely transformed my life and I’m sure they’ll help you too,” she writes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Do you want to lose weight but aren’t sure what foods to eat and which to avoid? Ruth Soukup is a midlife health and mindset coach who lost almost 50 pounds. She regularly shares her tips and tricks with hundreds of thousands of Instagram followers. “I lost 49 pounds at age 43 without dieting or Ozempic,” she writes. In two posts, she reveals 7 foods she eats “pretty much every day” and 7 she avoids. “I struggled with my weight for YEARS before I finally stopped dieting once and for all, and just focused on balancing my hormones instead. In the process, I lost 49 pounds and have kept it off, without ever counting calories,” she says.

What She Eats: Animal Protein

Animal protein is the first item on her list. “This usually includes bone broth and farm fresh eggs in the morning, chicken at lunch, and either beef, chicken, pork, or fish at dinnertime,” she says.

RELATED:12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster

Healthy Fat

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She also makes sure to eat healthy fat. “This mostly comes from avocado oil, EVOO, and butter, but also full fat dairy—heavy cream, cream cheese, cheese, sour cream, greek yogurt, and cottage cheese,” she says.

Vegetables

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She eats lots of veggies, too. “Lots of broccoli, cauliflower, spinach, asparagus, bell peppers, onions, garlic, tomatoes, carrots, and Brussels Sprouts. I don’t eat a ton of salad, unless it’s a good Caesar with homemade dressing, which I make every few weeks,” she says.

Fresh Berries

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Fruits are also on her shopping list, especially fresh berries. “Mostly strawberries, blueberries, and raspberries,” she writes.

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat

Fermented Foods

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“I try to eat at least a little bit of fermented food every day for the probiotics,” she says. “My favorite is kimchi, but I’ll also do fresh sauerkraut or kefir, and I make my own fermented ketchup (scroll down in my feed for the recipe.)”

Starches

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Starches are also part of her diet. “I don’t tend to eat a ton of starchy food, but I do love real sourdough bread, and I also sometimes make potatoes or jasmine rice to go with dinner, depending on what we’re having,” she says.

Seasonings

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She also invests money in seasoning. “Generally lots of salt, pepper, garlic & onion powder, fresh herbs and hot sauce,” she writes. One of her favorites? The Green Dragon sauce from Trader Joes.

She Doesn’t Eat: Vegetable Oil

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In another post, she reveals what she eliminated from her diet. “Vegetable oil or any other highly processed seed oils, as well as Crisco and margarine,” she writes. “These are all so toxic and highly inflammatory! I also tend to avoid any processed foods that contain these oils. Instead, I cook with butter, avocado oil, and olive oil.”

Sugar

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She also stays away from sugar. “If I do need to use a sweetener for a recipe, I typically stick to monkfruit or allulose or a blend of those two,” she says.

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High Fructose Corn Syrup

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High fructose corn syrup is another no-no. “Another highly toxic and inflammatory ingredient I try to avoid that is sadly way too common in so many processed foods,” she writes

Packaged Side Dishes

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Ruth also recommends avoiding packaged side dishes, “such as mac and cheese, stuffing, rice pilaf blends, scalloped potatoes, hamburger helper, etc.” These are highly processed foods.

Breakfast Cereal

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Ruth strongly suggests staying away from breakfast cereal. Most of it is highly processed and contains lots of additives and sugar. If you want to eat cereal, opt for a higher-fiber, lower-sugar option.

Brownie and Cake Mix

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Brownies and cake mixes are also on her list of things to avoid. If you do enjoy baking, try cooking from scratch using healthier flours and sweeteners, which will result in a less processed and more nutritious product.

Fruit Juice

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According to Ruth, fruit juice may sound nutritious, but you should stay away. ”Except for Clamato, which we use for Bloody Marys on the weekend! The rest of it is just pure sugar,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you trying to lose weight and tackling nutrition, but nothing works? You might be making a common mistake. Randy Kotey, aka “The Flat Tummy Coach,” is a weight loss and fitness coach who helps his clients “lose weight and reduce bloat,” per his social media bio. In a new social media post, he gets honest about what it takes to get in shape, especially with nutrition. “Here are five common mistakes women often make when trying to lose belly fat,” he says.

Skipping Meals

You might think that skipping a meal helps you eat less throughout the day and will lead to weight loss. However, according to Kotey, this isn’t the case. In fact, it can make you put on weight instead. “Skipping meals, especially breakfast, can slow down metabolism and lead to overeating later in the day, making it harder to lose belly fat,” he writes.

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Relying on Low-Fat or Diet Foods

You are wrong if you are walking around the grocery store believing that low-fat and diet foods are the right option for weight loss. “Many low-fat or diet-labeled foods are high in sugar or artificial ingredients, which can contribute to belly fat. It’s better to focus on whole, nutrient-dense foods,” he says.

Not Eating Enough Protein

One major mistake women make is not eating enough protein, per Kotey. “Protein is essential for maintaining muscle mass and boosting metabolism. Not getting enough can make it harder to lose belly fat and maintain weight loss,” he writes. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW) but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

Overeating Healthy Fats

Healthy fats can help your body burn fat. But eating too much of them will have the opposite effect. “While healthy fats like avocados, nuts, and olive oil are good for you, they are also calorie-dense. Overeating them can lead to an excess calorie intake, hindering belly fat loss,” Kotey explains.

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Drinking High-Calorie Beverages

Don’t drink your calories, even if they offer some health benefits. “Consuming sugary drinks, including fruit juices, smoothies, and certain ‘health’ drinks, can add a lot of hidden calories. These beverages can spike blood sugar levels, leading to increased belly fat. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.