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Weight Loss Coach Dropped 40 Pounds When She Stopped Making These 5 Mistakes

One expert and weight loss warrior reveals how she had to change her habits in order to lose weight.

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Are you trying to lose weight but not achieving the desired results? Stella Q Rivers is a weight loss coach who is “helping driven women drop 10-30+ lbs, master food, & finally feel in control,” she writes in her Instagram bio. She lost 40 pounds and has managed to keep it off for a decade. “I went from 165lbs to 115lbs & kept it off for 10 years. My biggest REGRET? Making these 5 mistakes,” she writes in an Instagram post.


Mistake 1: Kept on Trying to Diet

Her first mistake? “I Kept on trying to diet,” she reveals. “The more I dieted, the bigger the tire around my waist got & the scale crept up that I avoided getting on it. The #1 predictor of weight GAIN is dieting.”

Mistake 2: Believed the “Fat and Funny Friend” Story

Her second mistake? “Believed my ‘I’m the fat & funny friend’ story,” she reveals. “You are who you say you are. If you’re playing the role of the fat friend, you are her. What role do you play in your family (the ‘ugly duckling’) & friend circles and HOW much weight are you keeping on your body right now because of it?” she writes.

Mistake 3: Believed “Progressionals” Over Her Body

Her third mistake? She believed “professionals” over her body. “Between dieticians, nutritionists, coaches, hypnotherapists, Jenny Craig consultants, you name it. I did it & trusted them,” she explains. “When you trust OTHER people more than yourself, you will fight your weight because you won’t *trust* yourself. Yes, get informed BUT take what you need & leave the rest.”

Mistake 4: Gave Into Every Craving in the “Name of Not Binging”

Some people will tell you to lean into cravings so you don’t overindulge. But she disagrees. Giving into every craving in the “name of not binging” was her fourth mistake. “Because of dieting, I became a binge eater. Through healing that phase of my life I was told ‘honor your craving or else you’ll binge.’ Again, listening to professionals, FEARING food & my body and gaining more weight. It didn’t feel good. When you give into every craving, you will have a weight problem & food will have the power over you.”

Mistake 5: Worked Out Too Much

Her fifth and final mistake was working out too much. “Running 7+miles a day for a thigh gap, doing HIIT workouts 6 days a week= working out like an a**hole. This contributed to the binging & feeling out of control with food, skyrocketed weight gain & avoiding the scale,” she says. “I love running & love a good HIIT session every now & then but I love listening to my body more. Result? 40+lbs down. Your relationship to yourself is the pathway to your weight loss.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you trying to lose weight but not achieving the desired results? Stella Q Rivers is a weight loss coach who is “helping driven women drop 10-30+ lbs, master food, & finally feel in control,” she writes in her Instagram bio. She lost 40 pounds and has managed to keep it off for a decade. “I went from 165lbs to 115lbs & kept it off for 10 years. My biggest REGRET? Making these 5 mistakes,” she writes in an Instagram post.

Mistake 1: Kept on Trying to Diet

Her first mistake? “I Kept on trying to diet,” she reveals. “The more I dieted, the bigger the tire around my waist got & the scale crept up that I avoided getting on it. The #1 predictor of weight GAIN is dieting.”

Mistake 2: Believed the “Fat and Funny Friend” Story

Her second mistake? “Believed my ‘I’m the fat & funny friend’ story,” she reveals. “You are who you say you are. If you’re playing the role of the fat friend, you are her. What role do you play in your family (the ‘ugly duckling’) & friend circles and HOW much weight are you keeping on your body right now because of it?” she writes.

Mistake 3: Believed “Progressionals” Over Her Body

Her third mistake? She believed “professionals” over her body. “Between dieticians, nutritionists, coaches, hypnotherapists, Jenny Craig consultants, you name it. I did it & trusted them,” she explains. “When you trust OTHER people more than yourself, you will fight your weight because you won’t *trust* yourself. Yes, get informed BUT take what you need & leave the rest.”

Mistake 4: Gave Into Every Craving in the “Name of Not Binging”

Some people will tell you to lean into cravings so you don’t overindulge. But she disagrees. Giving into every craving in the “name of not binging” was her fourth mistake. “Because of dieting, I became a binge eater. Through healing that phase of my life I was told ‘honor your craving or else you’ll binge.’ Again, listening to professionals, FEARING food & my body and gaining more weight. It didn’t feel good. When you give into every craving, you will have a weight problem & food will have the power over you.”

Mistake 5: Worked Out Too Much

Her fifth and final mistake was working out too much. “Running 7+miles a day for a thigh gap, doing HIIT workouts 6 days a week= working out like an a**hole. This contributed to the binging & feeling out of control with food, skyrocketed weight gain & avoiding the scale,” she says. “I love running & love a good HIIT session every now & then but I love listening to my body more. Result? 40+lbs down. Your relationship to yourself is the pathway to your weight loss.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you trying to lose weight, doing everything you think you should be, but the number on the scale won’t budge? According to an expert, it’s possible that you are doing the wrong things and don’t even know it. Laura Denys is a fitness and nutrition coach with over 1.3 million Instagram followers. In a new social media post, she discusses her weight loss journey and admits that she couldn’t lose weight until she changed her approach to diet and fitness. Here are the 5 things she stopped doing to lose 44 pounds.


Stop Following Diets

The cabbage soup diet, keto, cleanses or other trendy diets may seem like a quick fix for weight loss. However, if you are seriously restricting yourself and going on crash diets to lose weight, you could be getting in your own way, according to Laura. “Stop following diets,” she says. “Go to get out of that ‘all or nothing’ mindset.”

Stop Skipping Meals

It can be tempting to miss a meal to cut calories from your day, but Laura doesn’t recommend it because oftentimes, it will lead to you eating more later in the day. “Stop skipping meals, used to think going all day without eating was gonna help me get results but it only caused me to binge eat at midnight,” she says.

Stop Overdoing It with Exercise

Also, don’t go too hard with exercise. “Stop exhausting yourself and learn to rest. I used to do hours on the stair master now I only walk/run for my cardio,” she says.

Stop Restricting Yourself

And, you don’t have to go to extremes with your diet. “Stop restricting yourself and had to learn portion control,” she says. You can even enjoy sweet treats. “I learned to enjoy dessert in moderation,” she says.

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Stop Setting Weight Loss Goals

And her final tip might come as a surprise. “Stop having goals,” she says. “Think that you could lose 2-5lbs a week consistently and would put so much pressure on myself. But as a female your weight changes daily so some weeks l’d lose 2lbs and than gain a lb the next week.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Most of us know the crushing feeling of looking in the mirror and not recognizing the person staring back. James Marsden was there too, carrying an extra 50 pounds that represented more than just weight—it was physical proof of his mental struggles. "Those extra 50 pounds were not just fat, it was proof of how lazy, useless and depressed I truly was," James admits in his post. As a weight loss coach who now helps busy office workers transform their bodies without upending their lives, James has guided over 300 clients to sustainable results through practical nutrition, mindset shifts, and habit change. His journey revealed that the real battle isn't fought in the gym but in your head. Keep reading to discover the seven basic mistakes that were holding James back—fixing them might be exactly what you need to finally see results, too.

Your mind gives up too soon

Your brain is constantly trying to protect you from discomfort, even when that discomfort leads to growth. James discovered this when working out with a friend who pushed him beyond what he thought was his limit. "I was about to put the weights down when he just said, one more rep. So I pushed another rep, then he said one more again," James recalls. "Five more reps beyond what I thought was my limit. It hit me like a ton of bricks." Your body is capable of so much more than your mind allows. The real transformation happens when you push past these mental barriers. As James learned, "Progressive overload isn't just waffle. It's the only way that your body changes."

You think in all-or-nothing terms

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We've all been there—one slice of pizza turns into "might as well eat the whole thing because my diet is already ruined." This all-or-nothing thinking sabotaged James for months. "I remember sitting in my car outside of a fast food place with an empty bag, feeling worthless, like shit on my shoe. I was about to give up completely because I'd failed," James says. The breakthrough came when he did the math and realized that one meal represents just 5% of his weekly nutrition. One bad choice can't undo all your progress unless you let it. As James puts it, "When you mess up, just make the next meal good. This simple mindset shift is why I never fully quit again."

You worry too much about what others think

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That paralyzing fear that everyone is judging your every move at the gym? It's all in your head. James spent three months avoiding unfamiliar equipment because he was terrified of looking stupid. "I'd walk around pretending that I knew what I was doing, terrified everyone was judging me," James admits. But when he finally tried something new, he realized, "Nobody gives a damn. Everyone was completely focused on their own workout." The reality is that people are too wrapped up in their own fitness journeys to notice yours. As James learned, "Don't let your fear of judgment rob you of your results."

You don't track your progress

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For months, James thought he was eating right but couldn't understand why nothing changed. "The first three months of my journey, I saw no results. I actually got a lot bigger," James says. "I thought I was eating right, but I couldn't understand why the scales wasn't moving." Everything changed when he started tracking. "My breakthrough came when I started to track everything. My calories, my protein, my weight at the gym," James explains. He discovered he was consuming nowhere near enough protein. Your memory and perception will constantly lie to you about what you ate and how hard you worked. As James puts it, "What gets measured gets managed. If you're not tracking, you're just guessing."

You rely too much on the scale

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Motivation will inevitably die at some point. James hit this wall four months in, when the scale hadn't moved for weeks. "I felt exhausted. Started to wonder, was it even worth it?" James recalls. That negative inner voice got louder: "Look at yourself. Still fat. This isn't working. Just quit like you always do." He almost listened until he compared current photos to his before pictures. "The scale might not have moved, but my body had changed. My shoulders were way more defined. My waist was smaller," James says. These visual proofs silenced that lying voice in his head. "Take pictures from day one. Even if you hate how you look," James advises. "When motivation does die, and it will, those photos become your fuel."

You focus too much on cardio, not enough on nutrition

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Endless cardio sessions might make you feel virtuous, but they won't transform your body if your nutrition is off. "I was killing myself on the treadmill while ignoring what's on your plate," James admits. "Every day, 45 minute grueling cardio sessions, thinking I was burning fat, that I'd be so tired at the end of it that I'd need more food." When he finally tracked his nutrition and increased his protein intake from 50 to 150 grams daily while training less, his body transformed. "You cannot outrun a bad diet," James emphasizes. "One hour of intense cardio burns 500 calories, which is just one large muffin. But protein, it builds muscle, burns fat, and it's a 24-7 advocate for your body." Your diet determines 80% of your results; the gym handles the remaining 20%.

You blame your genetics

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Blaming genetics is the ultimate cop-out that removes all responsibility. "It was my genetics. This was my favourite excuse," James confesses. "I would tell myself this week in, week out, just so I didn't have to feel responsible, so I didn't have to have the problem and deal with it." Your brain creates convenient stories to protect your habits and keep you comfortable. As James realized, "Your brain will create stories to protect your habits." The solution? Find one person who has achieved what you want and immerse yourself in their content and mindset. Their beliefs will gradually become yours. James learned that "Most weight loss isn't about your body. It's about reprogramming your mind."

You give up when progress slows down

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Transformation doesn't occur on a perfect upward trajectory. "Four months in, I was there. The scale hadn't moved in weeks," James remembers. That's exactly when most people quit, just before breakthrough results appear. James discovered that plateaus are normal parts of the journey, not signs that you're failing. Looking back at his before pictures during these tough times provided the perspective he needed to keep going. "When motivation does die, and it will, those photos become your fuel," James emphasizes. Every time you choose to persist when you'd rather quit, you're not just changing your body—you're rebuilding your mental resilience.

You expect fast results

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Weight loss takes time, and James had to learn patience. "I thought I was eating right, but I couldn't understand why the scales wasn't moving," he says. Society conditions us to expect immediate results, but real transformation happens gradually. James discovered that consistent small actions compound over time, creating lasting change. Rather than looking for dramatic weekly losses, he learned to appreciate subtle improvements in energy, strength, and how his clothes fit. The 50 pounds didn't disappear overnight—they melted away through consistent application of these lessons. Sustainable weight loss isn't about quick fixes; it's about building habits that last.

You try to do it all alone

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James's breakthrough moment came when a friend pushed him past his limits in the gym. "After my usual pathetic effort, I was about to put the weights down when he just said, one more rep," James recalls. That outside perspective revealed how much more he was capable of. Many of us try to tackle weight loss in isolation, either from embarrassment or believing we should be able to figure it out ourselves. But having support—whether a friend, coach, or community—provides accountability, perspective, and encouragement when motivation wanes. James learned that the right support system doesn't just make the journey easier; it makes success more likely.

You forget the mental game matters most

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At its core, James's transformation wasn't about diets or workout plans—it was about changing his relationship with himself. "Your brain made you overweight. You cannot trust it," he realized. All seven mistakes share a common thread: the battle happens in your mind before it happens in your body. "Most weight loss isn't about your body. It's about reprogramming your mind," James emphasizes. When you address the mental patterns that created your current reality, physical transformation follows naturally. That's how James lost 50 pounds, and that's the blueprint he now shares with his clients—proof that sustainable change starts from within. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to lose weight because you aren’t being honest with yourself? Hilary Carver is a fat loss coach who lost 100 pounds naturally and helps her clients do the same. In a new social media post, she gets real and brutally honest about the lies she told herself that were keeping her overweight. “Five lies that almost kept me stuck in a body I felt miserable in, that's probably keeping you stuck too,” she writes.

You Can Become the Person You Want to Be

“If you think you need to eat as little as possible, work 1000x harder, or wait until you hit your ‘goal weight’ to feel confident, it’s time to stop believing the BS that’s keeping you stuck,” she writes, adding that there may be “5 lies holding you back” and preventing you from becoming “the hot, aligned woman you’re meant to be.”

Overcoming These 5 Lies Helped Her Lose 100 Pounds

“Story time: all five of these are struggles that I had when I started my 100 pound weight loss transformation. And if I’m being really, really honest, there were many more lies than just these five,” she said.

Don’t Be Overwhelmed

“Getting started felt so overwhelming because of so many failed attempts before and past dieting history, the overwhelming amount of conflicting information I was reading and not knowing where to start, and an overall negative mindset. I’m just here to tell you as somebody who’s been there, you don’t have to stay stuck. You truly don’t. You are so much more capable than you realize. Just needed you to know,” she said.

Lie Number One

Lie number one is, “You think you need to eat as little as possible to lose weight,” she writes. “Starving yourself isn't sexy. It's miserable. If you want to lose weight and feel better, you need to eat enough to fuel your body, build your dream physique, and still enjoy the foods you love. You don't need to eat less you need to eat smarter.”

Lie Number Two

Lie number two: You believe you have to wreck yourself in the gym. “Endless cardio sessions, soul-crushing workouts. No thanks. The truth? You don't need to spend hours in the gym to see results. You'll see better results when you choose movement you actually enjoy because it feels freaking good.

Lie Number Three

The next lie? “You think you'll finally feel confident when you hit your weight goal,” she states. “Confidence isn't a number on a scale. Hot and aligned women decide to show up as their most confident selves now, not 20 pounds from now because when you feel good about yourself, the rest falls into place.

Lie Number Four

“Lie number four, you think it has to be all or nothing,” she states. “One bad meal doesn't ruin your progress. One missed workout doesn't mean you failed. Women who get in their hottest best bodies don't let small setbacks throw them off track. They show up stay consistent and keep moving forward.

Lie Number Five

Line number five? “You believe you're just meant to feel stuck. You're not stuck. You just haven't been given the right tools. Hot women don't settle for excuses. They decide that their best body and best life are worth working for, and they make it happen,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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We've all been there – feeling uncomfortable in our own skin, wanting to make a change, but not knowing where to start. Amy Fritz knows this feeling all too well. After reaching her heaviest weight by the end of 2022, she felt miserable and ready for change. By making simple adjustments to her lifestyle—moving her body daily and fueling it with nutritious foods 80% of the time—Amy lost over 90 pounds in just 12 months. Now she's sharing the surprising mistakes she had to overcome to find success. Read on to discover what could be holding back your own weight loss journey.

Mistake 1: Focusing on the scale instead of how you feel

Many of us become obsessed with numbers on the scale, but Amy discovered a more powerful motivator. "Feeling healthy is so much more powerful than any number you will ever see on the scale," she explains in her post. Just two weeks into her journey, despite only losing about five pounds, Amy already noticed positive changes.

"The shame of making bad choices that I had been making for so long started to melt away," Amy shares. That feeling of health fueled her to keep going, even when the weight loss was slow. Now, a year into her journey, she craves those healthy habits. "If I have a couple of days where maybe I miss a workout or make some poor choices with my diet, I start to feel gross," Amy admits.

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Mistake 2: Neglecting mental health while focusing on physical changes

One of Amy's biggest realizations was that sustainable weight loss begins in the mind, not the body. "Until you're mentally ready, until you've really done the work with your mental health, it's not going to be sustainable or easy to try to focus on your physical health," Amy emphasizes.

Working with a therapist helped Amy overcome emotional eating and develop tools for making healthy choices while managing everyday stress. "You have to prioritize your mental health and what's important on the inside. And then that will snowball and reflect the outside," she says.

Mistake 3: Believing you must eliminate favorite foods

Perhaps the most surprising mistake Amy identified was thinking weight loss meant giving up foods she loved. "You do not have to cut out any specific foods or your favorite meals in order to lose weight," Amy states. She discovered that overly restricting certain foods creates a vicious cycle of craving, overeating, guilt, and more restriction.

Instead, Amy found healthier ways to enjoy her favorite meals. "When you have those cravings for foods, all you have to do is find healthier ways to make them," she explains. For example, pizza night became healthier by adding nutritional volume: "Maybe I sprinkle on a bunch of fresh veggies, or what I really love to do is toss some arugula and some olive oil and balsamic and top that on my pizza."

Mistake 4: Tracking calories too rigidly

Amy initially thought successful weight loss meant sticking to a strict daily calorie limit—a common but often unsustainable approach. "You don't have to track your calories by the day," Amy reveals. Instead, she discovered the power of weekly tracking.

"If you want to lose one pound a week, you have to be in at least a deficit of 3500 calories on the week," Amy explains. This flexibility allowed her to enjoy date nights without guilt while still meeting her goals. "I have date night every Friday night. And so you better be sure I use one of my larger calorie days for Friday so I can go out and enjoy myself and not have to worry and feel like I've fallen off the wagon."

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Mistake 5: Putting exercise last on your priority list

Making exercise an "if I have time" activity was a major error Amy had to correct. "You have to prioritize movement and exercise really high when you're on a journey like this. You have to make it almost your number one priority or else it's not going to get done," Amy stresses.

She learned to stop waiting for the perfect moment when everything else was in order. "Leave the kitchen a mess, leave the bedroom a mess, leave the pile of laundry, let something go so that you can go move your body because you matter and you'll feel better," Amy advises. Putting herself first with exercise actually improved her ability to handle other responsibilities.

Why waiting for motivation doesn't work

Many people make the mistake of waiting until they feel motivated to start exercising or eating better. Amy discovered that action comes first, motivation follows. "You'll start to feel good long before you see results on the scale," she points out. The feeling of making healthy choices daily becomes its own reward and generates the motivation to continue.

The perfectionism trap that sabotages progress

Amy admits she used to think everything had to be perfect before she could focus on her health. "So many times last year and before beginning this journey, I would say, man, I can only go to the gym if the whole house is clean," she recalls. This perfectionism kept her from taking action. Learning to let go of perfect and embrace progress was key to her success.

How meal repetition simplifies weight loss

Contrary to popular advice about needing endless variety, Amy found freedom in keeping meals simple. "It is okay if you found a recipe that is highly nutritional, that you love, that your whole family loves, that supports everyone's goals. It is okay to make that two or three times a week," Amy reassures.

Sheet pan dinners and taco nights became staples in her home. "We do taco night at least once a week, sometimes twice a week," she admits. Finding a few healthy meals that work and repeating them eliminated decision fatigue and simplified her journey.

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Why adding nutrition works better than restriction

Rather than focusing on what to eliminate, Amy discovered the power of adding nutrition to her plate. "Add some more nutrition to your plate and really add some volume to your plate so that you can control the portions," she explains. This approach—eating more vegetables and nutrient-dense foods alongside smaller portions of more indulgent items—kept her satisfied without feeling deprived.

The mindset shift that makes habits stick

Eventually, Amy's healthy choices became automatic. "Now that I'm a year in, I still have a long way to go. I can truly say the feeling of eating healthy and moving my body is not only habitual, but it's something I crave," she shares. This transformation from forcing herself to do healthy activities to actually desiring them was the ultimate key to her success.

Amy's journey proves that sustainable weight loss doesn't require extreme measures or suffering. By avoiding these five unexpected mistakes—focusing too much on the scale, neglecting mental health, eliminating favorite foods, tracking calories too rigidly, and putting exercise last—she created lasting change. Her approach balanced enjoyment with progress, proving that weight loss doesn't have to be miserable to be effective. Start today by addressing these common mistakes in your own journey—you've got this! And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these20 Superfoods for People Over 50

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Tired of weight loss promises that never materialize? Maria Lucey, a registered dietitian with a proven track record of helping hundreds of people shed unwanted pounds, combines psychology and science for effective results. "Life is too short to spend it constantly on a diet," Maria explains in her post. Her approach focuses on six powerful daily habits that fuel fat loss, build muscle, and make weight loss feel achievable without misery. Incorporate these science-backed strategies into your routine to transform your body and finally reach your weight loss goals this year.

Power Up Your Morning With Protei

Starting your day with at least 20-30 grams of protein creates the foundation for successful weight loss. "This sets the metabolic tone for the day. It stabilizes your blood sugar levels, reduces food cravings, and helps you maintain your lean muscle mass," explains Maria. Instead of saving calories with a small breakfast, front-load your day with protein-rich options like overnight oats with Greek yogurt, cottage cheese on whole grain toast, eggs, or protein smoothies. The results can be dramatic – Maria notes that clients who try this approach for just two weeks are often "mind blown with how their hunger and cravings changed and how much more control they had when they sat down for their evening meal."

Understand Your Personal Carb Needs

Carbohydrates aren't the enemy, but knowing your body's specific needs makes all the difference. "Carbs give you energy, and you need energy to function day to day and to live your best life," Maria emphasizes. For most women, 30-40 grams of starchy carbohydrates per meal works well, while men can generally handle 40-50 grams. If you have insulin resistance, PCOS, prediabetes, or are experiencing menopause, Maria recommends aiming for the lower range of 20-30 grams. Remember, these numbers refer only to starchy carbs like oats, rice, pasta, and whole grains – not carbs from fruits, vegetables, or dairy. For reference, Maria points out that "a half a cup of oats will give you around 30 grams of carbohydrates. Similarly, two slices of whole grain bread will give you 30 grams."

Make Daily Movement Your Priority

Forget spending hours on intense cardio workouts. "Losing weight is not about hours of cardio, but it is about getting in more movement every day," Maria advises. High-intensity workouts might burn calories in the moment but often increase hunger, undermining your efforts. Instead, focus on increasing your daily steps. If you typically walk 3,000-4,000 steps, aim for 7,000-8,000. Already at that level? Push for 10,000. According to Maria, the calories burned through everyday activities (your NEAT) contribute more to weight loss than a 45-minute workout. Plus, walking provides mental health benefits that positively impact your food choices: "If you go outside for 10 minutes of fresh air and a brisk walk, you're gonna come back feeling so much more in control." Even brief 10-minute walks (about 1,000 steps each) throughout your day can transform your weight loss journey.

Balance Each Meal With The Essential Trio

Creating balanced meals provides the nutritional foundation for sustainable weight loss. "Think protein, fiber, and healthy fats at every single meal," Maria recommends. "This combination naturally controls hunger. It stabilizes your blood sugar, and it supports your metabolism." For most women, aim for 30 grams of protein and 8-10 grams of fiber per meal, with a healthy portion of fats. Practical examples include grilled chicken with avocado and roasted vegetables, or salmon with quinoa and sautéed greens. Even a simple sandwich can become a balanced meal with whole grain bread, lean protein, and added vegetables. This balanced approach forms part of the five-step system Maria uses with clients for effective weight loss.

Incorporate Regular Strength Training

"Lifting weights will help you burn calories all day long," Maria explains, highlighting why strength training 3-4 times weekly (or 1-2 times for beginners) should be part of your routine. Unlike cardio, which only burns calories during the activity, strength training elevates your metabolism throughout the day. Women concerned about looking bulky can relax – building significant muscle takes considerable time and dedicated effort. The benefits extend beyond appearance: "More muscle equals a higher metabolism equals more fat loss," says Maria. She compares muscles to sponges that, after a workout, "soak up sugar from your bloodstream much more efficiently," improving insulin sensitivity and reducing disease risk. As you progress, the increased strength makes maintaining weight loss and everyday activities easier.

Practice Mindful, Intentional Eating

How you eat matters just as much as what you eat. "Research suggests that people consume 10 to 25% more calories when they are eating in front of the television compared to when they're eating without any distractions," Maria points out. Even worse, distracted eating affects your next meal too: "When we don't pay attention when we're eating, our brain does not fully register what we have consumed, making us much more likely to overeat later." Put down your phone, turn off the TV, and focus entirely on your meal. Maria advocates for mindful, distraction-free meals to help tune into your body's natural hunger and fullness cues. This simple shift can lead to naturally eating less, better portion control, improved blood sugar levels, and lower cholesterol.

Create Your Sustainable Weight Loss Formula

Combining these six powerful habits creates a practical approach to losing 25lbs without feeling deprived. "Losing weight is not about feeling miserable long-term," Maria emphasizes. Start your day with protein, understand your personal carb needs, increase daily movement, balance your meals, incorporate strength training, and eat mindfully. These habits work together to transform your body and relationship with food. Maria's science-backed approach focuses on making weight loss feel achievable and sustainable, allowing you to reach your goals and "get on with living your best life." By implementing these strategies consistently, you're not just losing weight – you're creating healthier habits that last. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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As a Certified Personal Trainer, I've helped thousands of clients maintain their strength as they age. Many people don't realize that muscle loss begins in our 30s and accelerates after 50, affecting everything from metabolism to mobility. The good news? It's never too late to rebuild. These six exercises are designed specifically for adults over 50 who want to regain strength, improve balance, and enhance overall quality of life.

Why Your Muscles Need Extra Attention After 50

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As people age, they face multiple natural, age-related challenges that include muscle loss, reduced protein synthesis, hormonal shifts, and lifestyle factors like inactivity and poor nutrition. These challenges make it difficult to both gain muscle and maintain strength.

In order to combat these challenges as a trainer, it is important to create personalized, targeted strategies. This has shaped my approach by taking the time to carefully evaluate each client's starting health level to get a baseline and learn their goals. I then meticulously create a plan that strategically incorporates strength training with a balanced nutrition, lifestyle changes, and a high-level of motivation.

How Strength Training Benefits Your Aging Body

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Strength training is particularly important to fight the natural muscle-loss that comes with aging by increasing muscle mass and strength. It additionally aids in improving balance, maintaining bone density, enhancing overall physical fitness, and reducing the risk of falls and injuries. Consistent strength training can also help with enhanced metabolic health to reduce the potential risk of diabetes and improved cardiovascular health.

1. Squats: The Foundation Builder

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How to do it step-by-step:

  • Stand with your feet straight and shoulder-width apart.
  • Place your hands either on your hips or hold your arms straight in front of you at shoulder-height.
  • Bend your knees while keeping your back straight.
  • Lower to a 90-degree angle.
  • Slowly stand back up and repeat.

How often and how many reps/sets: Aim to do squats two to three times per week with completing three sets of 10 to 15 reps each session.

Why it works: Squats are great because they engage major lower muscle groups that include the quadriceps, hamstrings, glutes, and calves. They also aid in strengthening the core and lower back. This is an exercise that challenges the body to work harder through resistance, creating increased muscle mass and strength.

Mistakes to avoid: Remember to not lean forward or arch your back throughout the exercise as these mistakes can lead to injuries.

2. Lunges: Balance and Strength Combined

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How to do it step-by-step:

  • Begin with your feet together and shoulder-width apart.
  • Place your hands on your hips.
  • Take a step forward with one leg.
  • Bend your knees until at a 90-degree angle.
  • Raise your body back up.
  • Bring the front foot back to the start position.
  • Repeat with the opposite leg.

How often and how many reps/sets: Like squats, lunges should be worked on two to three times a week with two to three sets of 10 to 15 reps each side.

Why it works: Lunges work the same muscle groups as squats, but instead this contributes to overall muscle maintenance and gains. These are also helpful to improve balance and stability, crucial in avoiding falls as we age.

Mistakes to avoid: Mistakes to avoid with lunges include taking too short or long of a step, leaning too far forward, and having your front knee push out over your toes.

3. Tricep Dips: Upper Body Strength Builder

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How to do it step-by-step:

  • Sit on the ground in front of a chair or bench.
  • Place your feet flat on the ground.
  • Put your palm on the chair or bench with your fingers facing forward.
  • Lift your hips off the ground.
  • Lower your body back down by bending your elbows.
  • Press down on your hands to straighten your arms back to the raised position.

How often and how many reps/sets: For the most effective results, perform tricep dips with two to three sets of 10 to 15 reps from two to three times per week.

Why it works: Similar to squats, this is a resistance exercise for the upper-body that targets the triceps, a muscle that naturally weakens with age. Tricep dips help to stimulate muscle protein synthesis and spark muscle growth.

Mistakes to avoid: Maximize the exercise by not rounding or shrugging your shoulders and completing the full range of motion.

4. Push-Ups: Total Upper Body Strengthener

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How to do it step-by-step:

  • Lie flat on your stomach.
  • Put your hands next to your chest.
  • Press up on your hands to lift off the ground.
  • Bend your elbows to lower back to the ground and repeat.

How often and how many reps/sets: Work on push-ups two to three times per week with sets of eight to 12 reps. You should be looking to complete three to five sets during each session.

Why it works: Push-ups are another resistance workout to stimulate muscle growth and repair. The challenge of push-ups forces your muscles to adapt and become stronger, assisting in slowing down or reversing the natural decline in muscle mass.

Mistakes to avoid: It is important to avoid flaring your elbows out as your lower to the ground. You also want to keep from sagging or raising your hips in order to target the proper muscle groups.

5. Sit-Ups: Core Power Builder

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How to do it step-by-step:

  • Lie on your back.
  • Bend your knees so your feet are flat on the floor.
  • Cross your arms and place your hands on the opposite shoulder or interlock your hands behind your head.
  • Curl your body up towards your knees.
  • Slowly control your body back down to the ground.

How often and how many reps/sets: Look to complete two to three sets of 10 to 15 reps from three to five days a week when it comes to sit-ups.

Why it works: Sit-ups are effective in strengthening your rectus abdominis, obliques, and hip flexors – improving core stability and reducing the risk of falls with age. These can additionally help with muscle endurance improvement.

Mistakes to avoid: Avoid arching your back or pulling on your neck when doing sit-ups. Focus on engaging your core and controlling the movement to properly do this workout.

6. Plank: Full-Body Stability Master

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How to do it step-by-step:

  • Lie flat on the floor with your stomach down.
  • Place your hands or elbows under your shoulders.
  • Push up off the ground to raise your body.
  • Hold the position for a pre-selected duration.

How often and how many reps/sets: Planks should be completed two to three times per week with three sets of eight to 12 reps and a one-minute rest between each set.

Why it works: Work on planks to improve balance, posture, and overall body function by activating your core, glutes, hamstrings, and lower back to maintain and build strength.

Mistakes to avoid: The most common mistakes to avoid are sagging or raising your hips. Keep your body in a straight line to get a proper workout completed

Your Weekly Workout Plan for Optimal Results

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Split the days into muscle-group specific sessions. For example, day one would be lower body and core, day two is for upper body, day three is rest or light activity, day four is full body, day five is rest or light activity, day six is core and upper body, then day seven is for rest.

An example of the breakdown would be:

Day 1 – Lower Body and Core

  • Squats: 3 sets of 10-15
  • Lunges: 2-3 sets of 10-15 per side
  • Sit-Ups: 2-3 sets of 10-15
  • Planks: 3 sets of 8-12 30-second holds

Day 2 – Upper Body

  • Push-Ups: 3-5 sets of 8-12
  • Tricep Dips: 2-3 sets of 10-15
  • Plank: 3 sets of 8-12 30-second holds

Day 3 – Rest or Light Activity

Day 4 – Full Body

  • Squats: 3 sets of 10-15
  • Lunges: 2-3 sets of 10-15 per side
  • Push-Ups: 3-5 sets of 8-12
  • Tricep Dips: 2-3 sets of 10-15
  • Sit-Ups: 2-3 sets of 10-15
  • Plank: 3 sets of 8-12 30-second holds

Day 5 – Rest or Light Activity

  • Walking, yoga, stretching, mobility

Day 6 – Core and Upper Body

  • Push-Ups: 3-5 sets of 8-12
  • Tricep Dips: 2-3 sets of 10-15
  • Sit-Ups: 2-3 sets of 10-15
  • Plank: 3 sets of 8-12 30-second holds

Day 7 - Rest

What Results to Expect From Your New Routine

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Constancy is the key to any workout routine and generating the best results.

After four weeks, people would experience increased energy and stamina, better joint mobility and flexibility, improved balance and stability, slight strength improvements, and more muscle awareness.

At the end of eight weeks, there will be noticeable strength gains and visibly leaner muscle tone to go along with better endurance and recovery and potential weight loss or body composition changes.

Committing to this routine for 12 weeks will lead to consistent and sustainable strength improvements, better functional fitness, enhanced body confidence, reduced join pain or stiffness, lower risk of injury, and improved mental health.

One Final Tip for Getting Started

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Start by focusing on form over weight. Mastering the movements first with controlled reps will lead to amplified results over time and reduce injury risk. As you begin feeling more comfortable, you can gradually increase the resistance to challenge yourself. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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Chicken Salad

One item she loves is the chicken. “I am definitely a salad person, $4.99. This is one of my favorite chicken salads. The homemade chicken salad is so fire. I really, really love it,” she says, noting that it’s 10 ounces, and already made. “You can make a sandwich, you can put it on top of a salad, and it's a really, really good amount.”

Tuna Salad

She is also a fan of tuna salad. “If you like tuna, it's made with albacore, so it's more juicy, has a little bit of celery, green onions. These are just great, great options when you're on the run and you want to come grab it. I feel like for lunch, right, this is a lot better, a much better choice than going to McDonald's or somewhere and picking up something that's super carby, super full of just junk.”

Mozzarella and Tomato Salad

She moves on to a mozzarella and tomato salad with just four grams of carbs. “Just ready to go. Boom.”

Greek Salad

Next up, a Greek salad, “same scenario, it has chicken in it. Four grams of carbs, I love it. $5.99, you have a nice salad with chicken.”

Kettle Cooked Chicken Soup

Her next item is kettle cooked chicken soup at $4.99. “I've heard good things about this guy,” she says. “It's six carbs minus the fiber. So four carbs per cup,” she adds. “All you have to do is warm it up.”

Lobster Bisque

The lobster bisque is “going viral on TikTok,” she says, noting that it’s “a low-carb pasta” and makes a “little fancy dinner.”

Chicken Fajitas

Next up, chicken fajitas. “It's already seasoned chicken breast with peppers, onions, 15 ounces. Keeping it really low carb at three grams of carbs per serving.” She recommends serving it with rice and salad.

Hard Boiled Eggs or Egg Bites

Hard-boiled eggs, for $2.99, and egg bites are a great item to keep in your fridge. The egg bites “have spinach and kale and then the cheese and uncured bacon,” she says.

Greek Nonfat Yogurt

She also stocks up on Greek nonfat yogurt. “They have plain. I usually love the plain because I'd rather add my stevia and my sweetener and kind of control that. They are great because you can “grab one and eat it in the car” or make it into a parfait, add it to smoothies, or use it in salad dressing.

Cottage Cheese

“We all know that cottage cheese is definitely having its moment,” she says, holding up a huge container of organic cottage cheese.

Truffle Marcona Almonds

“Let me show you the one thing I pick up every single time I come here. If you have not tried these, right here, the truffle Marcona almonds. They are everything,” she claims. She eats them with “a little beef jerky” which makes a “great snack in the car.”

Raw Almonds

She also gets raw almonds. “one pound of roasted and unsalted for $5.99.” She says they are low carb, but high in calories, “so you just want to be careful with that.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.