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Weight Loss Coach Dropped 40 Pounds When She Stopped Making These 5 Mistakes

One expert and weight loss warrior reveals how she had to change her habits in order to lose weight.

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Are you trying to lose weight but not achieving the desired results? Stella Q Rivers is a weight loss coach who is “helping driven women drop 10-30+ lbs, master food, & finally feel in control,” she writes in her Instagram bio. She lost 40 pounds and has managed to keep it off for a decade. “I went from 165lbs to 115lbs & kept it off for 10 years. My biggest REGRET? Making these 5 mistakes,” she writes in an Instagram post.


Mistake 1: Kept on Trying to Diet

Her first mistake? “I Kept on trying to diet,” she reveals. “The more I dieted, the bigger the tire around my waist got & the scale crept up that I avoided getting on it. The #1 predictor of weight GAIN is dieting.”

Mistake 2: Believed the “Fat and Funny Friend” Story

Her second mistake? “Believed my ‘I’m the fat & funny friend’ story,” she reveals. “You are who you say you are. If you’re playing the role of the fat friend, you are her. What role do you play in your family (the ‘ugly duckling’) & friend circles and HOW much weight are you keeping on your body right now because of it?” she writes.

Mistake 3: Believed “Progressionals” Over Her Body

Her third mistake? She believed “professionals” over her body. “Between dieticians, nutritionists, coaches, hypnotherapists, Jenny Craig consultants, you name it. I did it & trusted them,” she explains. “When you trust OTHER people more than yourself, you will fight your weight because you won’t *trust* yourself. Yes, get informed BUT take what you need & leave the rest.”

Mistake 4: Gave Into Every Craving in the “Name of Not Binging”

Some people will tell you to lean into cravings so you don’t overindulge. But she disagrees. Giving into every craving in the “name of not binging” was her fourth mistake. “Because of dieting, I became a binge eater. Through healing that phase of my life I was told ‘honor your craving or else you’ll binge.’ Again, listening to professionals, FEARING food & my body and gaining more weight. It didn’t feel good. When you give into every craving, you will have a weight problem & food will have the power over you.”

Mistake 5: Worked Out Too Much

Her fifth and final mistake was working out too much. “Running 7+miles a day for a thigh gap, doing HIIT workouts 6 days a week= working out like an a**hole. This contributed to the binging & feeling out of control with food, skyrocketed weight gain & avoiding the scale,” she says. “I love running & love a good HIIT session every now & then but I love listening to my body more. Result? 40+lbs down. Your relationship to yourself is the pathway to your weight loss.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you trying to lose weight but not achieving the desired results? Stella Q Rivers is a weight loss coach who is “helping driven women drop 10-30+ lbs, master food, & finally feel in control,” she writes in her Instagram bio. She lost 40 pounds and has managed to keep it off for a decade. “I went from 165lbs to 115lbs & kept it off for 10 years. My biggest REGRET? Making these 5 mistakes,” she writes in an Instagram post.

Mistake 1: Kept on Trying to Diet

Her first mistake? “I Kept on trying to diet,” she reveals. “The more I dieted, the bigger the tire around my waist got & the scale crept up that I avoided getting on it. The #1 predictor of weight GAIN is dieting.”

Mistake 2: Believed the “Fat and Funny Friend” Story

Her second mistake? “Believed my ‘I’m the fat & funny friend’ story,” she reveals. “You are who you say you are. If you’re playing the role of the fat friend, you are her. What role do you play in your family (the ‘ugly duckling’) & friend circles and HOW much weight are you keeping on your body right now because of it?” she writes.

Mistake 3: Believed “Progressionals” Over Her Body

Her third mistake? She believed “professionals” over her body. “Between dieticians, nutritionists, coaches, hypnotherapists, Jenny Craig consultants, you name it. I did it & trusted them,” she explains. “When you trust OTHER people more than yourself, you will fight your weight because you won’t *trust* yourself. Yes, get informed BUT take what you need & leave the rest.”

Mistake 4: Gave Into Every Craving in the “Name of Not Binging”

Some people will tell you to lean into cravings so you don’t overindulge. But she disagrees. Giving into every craving in the “name of not binging” was her fourth mistake. “Because of dieting, I became a binge eater. Through healing that phase of my life I was told ‘honor your craving or else you’ll binge.’ Again, listening to professionals, FEARING food & my body and gaining more weight. It didn’t feel good. When you give into every craving, you will have a weight problem & food will have the power over you.”

Mistake 5: Worked Out Too Much

Her fifth and final mistake was working out too much. “Running 7+miles a day for a thigh gap, doing HIIT workouts 6 days a week= working out like an a**hole. This contributed to the binging & feeling out of control with food, skyrocketed weight gain & avoiding the scale,” she says. “I love running & love a good HIIT session every now & then but I love listening to my body more. Result? 40+lbs down. Your relationship to yourself is the pathway to your weight loss.” And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are you trying to lose weight, doing everything you think you should be, but the number on the scale won’t budge? According to an expert, it’s possible that you are doing the wrong things and don’t even know it. Laura Denys is a fitness and nutrition coach with over 1.3 million Instagram followers. In a new social media post, she discusses her weight loss journey and admits that she couldn’t lose weight until she changed her approach to diet and fitness. Here are the 5 things she stopped doing to lose 44 pounds.


Stop Following Diets

The cabbage soup diet, keto, cleanses or other trendy diets may seem like a quick fix for weight loss. However, if you are seriously restricting yourself and going on crash diets to lose weight, you could be getting in your own way, according to Laura. “Stop following diets,” she says. “Go to get out of that ‘all or nothing’ mindset.”

Stop Skipping Meals

It can be tempting to miss a meal to cut calories from your day, but Laura doesn’t recommend it because oftentimes, it will lead to you eating more later in the day. “Stop skipping meals, used to think going all day without eating was gonna help me get results but it only caused me to binge eat at midnight,” she says.

Stop Overdoing It with Exercise

Also, don’t go too hard with exercise. “Stop exhausting yourself and learn to rest. I used to do hours on the stair master now I only walk/run for my cardio,” she says.

Stop Restricting Yourself

And, you don’t have to go to extremes with your diet. “Stop restricting yourself and had to learn portion control,” she says. You can even enjoy sweet treats. “I learned to enjoy dessert in moderation,” she says.

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Stop Setting Weight Loss Goals

And her final tip might come as a surprise. “Stop having goals,” she says. “Think that you could lose 2-5lbs a week consistently and would put so much pressure on myself. But as a female your weight changes daily so some weeks l’d lose 2lbs and than gain a lb the next week.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to lose weight because you aren’t being honest with yourself? Hilary Carver is a fat loss coach who lost 100 pounds naturally and helps her clients do the same. In a new social media post, she gets real and brutally honest about the lies she told herself that were keeping her overweight. “Five lies that almost kept me stuck in a body I felt miserable in, that's probably keeping you stuck too,” she writes.

You Can Become the Person You Want to Be

“If you think you need to eat as little as possible, work 1000x harder, or wait until you hit your ‘goal weight’ to feel confident, it’s time to stop believing the BS that’s keeping you stuck,” she writes, adding that there may be “5 lies holding you back” and preventing you from becoming “the hot, aligned woman you’re meant to be.”

Overcoming These 5 Lies Helped Her Lose 100 Pounds

“Story time: all five of these are struggles that I had when I started my 100 pound weight loss transformation. And if I’m being really, really honest, there were many more lies than just these five,” she said.

Don’t Be Overwhelmed

“Getting started felt so overwhelming because of so many failed attempts before and past dieting history, the overwhelming amount of conflicting information I was reading and not knowing where to start, and an overall negative mindset. I’m just here to tell you as somebody who’s been there, you don’t have to stay stuck. You truly don’t. You are so much more capable than you realize. Just needed you to know,” she said.

Lie Number One

Lie number one is, “You think you need to eat as little as possible to lose weight,” she writes. “Starving yourself isn't sexy. It's miserable. If you want to lose weight and feel better, you need to eat enough to fuel your body, build your dream physique, and still enjoy the foods you love. You don't need to eat less you need to eat smarter.”

Lie Number Two

Lie number two: You believe you have to wreck yourself in the gym. “Endless cardio sessions, soul-crushing workouts. No thanks. The truth? You don't need to spend hours in the gym to see results. You'll see better results when you choose movement you actually enjoy because it feels freaking good.

Lie Number Three

The next lie? “You think you'll finally feel confident when you hit your weight goal,” she states. “Confidence isn't a number on a scale. Hot and aligned women decide to show up as their most confident selves now, not 20 pounds from now because when you feel good about yourself, the rest falls into place.

Lie Number Four

“Lie number four, you think it has to be all or nothing,” she states. “One bad meal doesn't ruin your progress. One missed workout doesn't mean you failed. Women who get in their hottest best bodies don't let small setbacks throw them off track. They show up stay consistent and keep moving forward.

Lie Number Five

Line number five? “You believe you're just meant to feel stuck. You're not stuck. You just haven't been given the right tools. Hot women don't settle for excuses. They decide that their best body and best life are worth working for, and they make it happen,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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We've all been there – feeling uncomfortable in our own skin, wanting to make a change, but not knowing where to start. Amy Fritz knows this feeling all too well. After reaching her heaviest weight by the end of 2022, she felt miserable and ready for change. By making simple adjustments to her lifestyle—moving her body daily and fueling it with nutritious foods 80% of the time—Amy lost over 90 pounds in just 12 months. Now she's sharing the surprising mistakes she had to overcome to find success. Read on to discover what could be holding back your own weight loss journey.

Mistake 1: Focusing on the scale instead of how you feel

Many of us become obsessed with numbers on the scale, but Amy discovered a more powerful motivator. "Feeling healthy is so much more powerful than any number you will ever see on the scale," she explains in her post. Just two weeks into her journey, despite only losing about five pounds, Amy already noticed positive changes.

"The shame of making bad choices that I had been making for so long started to melt away," Amy shares. That feeling of health fueled her to keep going, even when the weight loss was slow. Now, a year into her journey, she craves those healthy habits. "If I have a couple of days where maybe I miss a workout or make some poor choices with my diet, I start to feel gross," Amy admits.

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Mistake 2: Neglecting mental health while focusing on physical changes

One of Amy's biggest realizations was that sustainable weight loss begins in the mind, not the body. "Until you're mentally ready, until you've really done the work with your mental health, it's not going to be sustainable or easy to try to focus on your physical health," Amy emphasizes.

Working with a therapist helped Amy overcome emotional eating and develop tools for making healthy choices while managing everyday stress. "You have to prioritize your mental health and what's important on the inside. And then that will snowball and reflect the outside," she says.

Mistake 3: Believing you must eliminate favorite foods

Perhaps the most surprising mistake Amy identified was thinking weight loss meant giving up foods she loved. "You do not have to cut out any specific foods or your favorite meals in order to lose weight," Amy states. She discovered that overly restricting certain foods creates a vicious cycle of craving, overeating, guilt, and more restriction.

Instead, Amy found healthier ways to enjoy her favorite meals. "When you have those cravings for foods, all you have to do is find healthier ways to make them," she explains. For example, pizza night became healthier by adding nutritional volume: "Maybe I sprinkle on a bunch of fresh veggies, or what I really love to do is toss some arugula and some olive oil and balsamic and top that on my pizza."

Mistake 4: Tracking calories too rigidly

Amy initially thought successful weight loss meant sticking to a strict daily calorie limit—a common but often unsustainable approach. "You don't have to track your calories by the day," Amy reveals. Instead, she discovered the power of weekly tracking.

"If you want to lose one pound a week, you have to be in at least a deficit of 3500 calories on the week," Amy explains. This flexibility allowed her to enjoy date nights without guilt while still meeting her goals. "I have date night every Friday night. And so you better be sure I use one of my larger calorie days for Friday so I can go out and enjoy myself and not have to worry and feel like I've fallen off the wagon."

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Mistake 5: Putting exercise last on your priority list

Making exercise an "if I have time" activity was a major error Amy had to correct. "You have to prioritize movement and exercise really high when you're on a journey like this. You have to make it almost your number one priority or else it's not going to get done," Amy stresses.

She learned to stop waiting for the perfect moment when everything else was in order. "Leave the kitchen a mess, leave the bedroom a mess, leave the pile of laundry, let something go so that you can go move your body because you matter and you'll feel better," Amy advises. Putting herself first with exercise actually improved her ability to handle other responsibilities.

Why waiting for motivation doesn't work

Many people make the mistake of waiting until they feel motivated to start exercising or eating better. Amy discovered that action comes first, motivation follows. "You'll start to feel good long before you see results on the scale," she points out. The feeling of making healthy choices daily becomes its own reward and generates the motivation to continue.

The perfectionism trap that sabotages progress

Amy admits she used to think everything had to be perfect before she could focus on her health. "So many times last year and before beginning this journey, I would say, man, I can only go to the gym if the whole house is clean," she recalls. This perfectionism kept her from taking action. Learning to let go of perfect and embrace progress was key to her success.

How meal repetition simplifies weight loss

Contrary to popular advice about needing endless variety, Amy found freedom in keeping meals simple. "It is okay if you found a recipe that is highly nutritional, that you love, that your whole family loves, that supports everyone's goals. It is okay to make that two or three times a week," Amy reassures.

Sheet pan dinners and taco nights became staples in her home. "We do taco night at least once a week, sometimes twice a week," she admits. Finding a few healthy meals that work and repeating them eliminated decision fatigue and simplified her journey.

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Why adding nutrition works better than restriction

Rather than focusing on what to eliminate, Amy discovered the power of adding nutrition to her plate. "Add some more nutrition to your plate and really add some volume to your plate so that you can control the portions," she explains. This approach—eating more vegetables and nutrient-dense foods alongside smaller portions of more indulgent items—kept her satisfied without feeling deprived.

The mindset shift that makes habits stick

Eventually, Amy's healthy choices became automatic. "Now that I'm a year in, I still have a long way to go. I can truly say the feeling of eating healthy and moving my body is not only habitual, but it's something I crave," she shares. This transformation from forcing herself to do healthy activities to actually desiring them was the ultimate key to her success.

Amy's journey proves that sustainable weight loss doesn't require extreme measures or suffering. By avoiding these five unexpected mistakes—focusing too much on the scale, neglecting mental health, eliminating favorite foods, tracking calories too rigidly, and putting exercise last—she created lasting change. Her approach balanced enjoyment with progress, proving that weight loss doesn't have to be miserable to be effective. Start today by addressing these common mistakes in your own journey—you've got this! And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these20 Superfoods for People Over 50

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Kiki (@kikivirk) is a weight loss influencer who has amassed a social media following for sharing all the tips and tricks that enabled her to lose a whopping 60 pounds and keep it off. In one of her viral videos – viewed over 8 million times, Kiki reveals the biggest weight loss mistake she made on her journey – and also what ultimately led to her weight loss success.


She Says Doing High Intensity Workouts Were a “Huge Mistake”

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“I was so motivated to lose weight and I wanted to see results fast, but I didn't do my research and I jumped straight in, literally into a high intensity, 90 day workout plan. Huge mistake,” Kiki says in the video.

After 45 Days She Hadn’t Lost Weight

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After a month-and-a-half, she didn't feel like she'd lost any weight. “I was overdoing it. The long, painful HIIT workouts were actually doing my body no good. They were causing it too much stress and loads of other problems,” she says.

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She Had “Weight Plateaus” and “Felt So Hungry and Fatigued”

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In another video, she specified that she was doing “high intensity cardio” five times a week in hopes it “would burn fat fast and give me my dream body,” she explained. “But instead, I had weight plateaus and felt so hungry and fatigued.

Her Fat Began to “Melt Off” When She Started Strength Training

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“Literally, as soon as I started strength training and less cardio, the fat began to melt off, and the lean muscle mass I gained gave me the tone look I'd always wanted,” she continued.

Her Program: LISS, Walking, Strength and Resistance Training, and a Short HIIT Workout

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Her program starts with doing 45 to 60 minutes of LISS cardio four times a week. She also walks 7 to 12,000 steps every day, does strength and resistance training three times a week, and a 15-minute HIIT workout once a week.

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An Expert Weighs In

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“What she says is definitely spot on,” says Kendra Gamble, HIT Fitness Training, Huntingdon Valley, PA, NPTI Certified Personal Trainer and Nutritional Consultant. “Intense cardio and intense HIIT more than twice a week will do the body more harm than good and is not the way to lose fat and get that toned look.” Instead, she agrees that “increasing your everyday steps is more of the most important and beginner things you can do to start losing fat along with getting your diet right.” Unfortunately, “fat loss is not an immediate thing and will take time and dedication but she explains it all perfectly.”

💪🔥Body Booster: If you are a beginner trying to lose weight, starting by increasing your steps and modifying your diet instead of going overboard with higher intensity workouts.

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We've all fallen into the trap of seeking the "perfect" diet or exercise plan, only to find ourselves frustrated when results don't materialize. Cori Lefkowith, founder of Redefining Strength and fitness expert with over 800,000 YouTube subscribers, has been there too. Through years of experience, she's identified key mistakes that held back her progress and that of countless clients. "The real secret to results is to be Goldilocks and look for that thing that's just right," says Cori. Her insights could save you months of wasted effort on your fitness journey - read on to discover the weight loss mistakes she wishes she'd avoided sooner.

1. Fighting Cravings Too Hard

One of the biggest mistakes is constantly battling against food cravings. "Sometimes it's better to give in to cravings than fight them," Cori explains in her post. When we deplete our self-control by constantly restricting, we often end up overeating later. "Sometimes indulging is what we need to stay consistent, find that lifestyle balance and stay on track longer," she adds.

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2. Avoiding "Unhealthy" Substitutes

Demonizing diet drinks and other substitute products can actually work against you. Cori advises, "Drink your diet drink. Fake sweeteners have become super demonized and while the data really doesn't support that demonization." She believes that "having that diet soda may actually help you stay more consistent and be healthier overall" by satisfying cravings without derailing your entire plan.

3. Cutting Out Restaurant Meals

Trying to be perfect by avoiding restaurants altogether is unsustainable. "Often when we start a new diet, we avoid going out because it isn't as easy to stay on track. But this can also backfire and make us feel like we're that person always on a diet," Cori points out. Instead, she recommends planning meals out and working them into your routine for better long-term adherence.

4. Expecting Fast Results Without Sacrifice

Many people want quick transformations without the necessary commitment. "If you want fast results, you better be ready to sacrifice," Cori states bluntly. "The faster we want results, the more we have to be really dedicated and perfect in those changes, especially to start." Understanding this reality from the beginning helps set proper expectations.

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5. Not Recognizing Your Starting Point

Not acknowledging how long you've struggled affects your journey. "The longer you've struggled, the longer your struggle," Cori admits. Someone who just gained weight recently will see faster results than someone who's carried extra weight for years. "The longer you've had the weight on, the less you're familiar with what you need to do, the harder it will be to really get the ball rolling," she explains.

6. Getting Caught in the Guilt Cycle

Feeling guilty about imperfections can be more damaging than the slip-ups themselves. "Stop feeling guilty," Cori emphasizes. "We're human. We're never going to be perfect." This guilt often leads to days of poor choices, whereas accepting occasional mishaps allows you to move forward more effectively. "It's the guilt that changes our habits and mindsets for days after that actually adds up," she notes.

7. Making Workouts Longer Instead of Better

Many people mistakenly focus on workout duration rather than quality. "Stop just exercising for longer. Focus on making your workouts longer is a waste of time, period," Cori asserts. Excessive exercise can trigger hormonal issues and metabolic adaptations that actually hinder weight loss. Using your limited training time wisely is far more effective.

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8. Turning Strength Workouts Into Cardio Sessions

Avoiding proper rest during strength training is counterproductive. "Don't turn your strength workouts into just cardio," warns Cori. "Too often we seek to just feel work from our workouts. To be tired and burn a ton of calories." This approach can prevent muscle building and actually make you look less toned. "When you do strength work, don't fear rest. Don't feel like you have to be destroyed or out of breath every single workout," she advises.

9. Seeking Perfection Over Consistency

Striving for the perfect plan often leads to failure. Cori believes finding your personal balance is critical: "We need to find that combination of what's right and what we can do consistently. That sweet spot is where the magic happens." Creating a sustainable approach based on your individual needs leads to better long-term results than following someone else's "perfect" program.

10. Making Too Many Changes At Once

Attempting to overhaul your entire lifestyle immediately sets you up for burnout. "Results really come from 1% improvements and meeting ourselves where we're at," Cori concludes. Small, manageable changes that you can maintain consistently will always outperform dramatic but unsustainable transformations. Focus on gradual progress rather than overnight perfection. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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Are you struggling to lose those last few pounds and shed your final layer of fat? Lindsay Dudley is a cortisol coach who helps moms over 40 increase energy, decrease stress, and accelerate weight loss goals by regulating cortisol levels. She often shares her tricks and secrets for dropping pounds. In a new Instagram post, she discusses getting rid of stubborn body fat. “The secret to losing that last layer of fat,” she says, revealing the three tips.

You’re Cutting Calories and Doing Cardio, But the Scale Isn’t Moving

“Does this sound familiar,” she writes. “You’re cutting calories and eating less, but the scale just won’t move—or worse, it’s creeping up. You’re grinding through tough cardio sessions, yet that belly fat seems to have taken up permanent residence. You feel like you are doing all the right things, but the weight keeps piling on.”

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Your Body Might Be in Fat Storage Mode

“Here’s what might be happening: Your body could be in fat-storage mode, and there’s actual science to explain it. Sometimes the very habits we think are helping us can actually work against us,” she says. “What I do and recommend to my clients to achieve sustainable results,” she adds, revealing the three habits.

Eat Enough Protein

“Ensure you’re eating enough protein! Protein is essential for fat loss because it preserves muscle, boosts metabolism, and keeps you feeling full. Aim to eat 0.8 to 1 gram of protein per pound of body weight daily to support fat burning and maintain lean muscle,” she writes. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW), but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

Ditch the Endless Cardio

Next, “ditch the endless cardio!” she says. “Overdoing it on high-intensity workouts can raise cortisol levels, which encourages belly fat. Swap some of those sessions for strength training to build muscle and boost fat burning—even while you rest.” According to the Mayo Clinic, strength and weight training help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills

Balance Your Hormones

The third tip? “Balance your hormones!!! As we age, hormones (like cortisol) have a huge impact on fat storage. The right nutrition and supplements to support hormone health can make a big difference.”

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These Three Things Were Game-Changing for Her

She maintains that doing these things was the ultimate game-changer. “These small shifts helped me lose 6 pounds and keep it off at 43 even after having two incredible boys!! Once I made the changes, everything started to fall into place,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Leslie Bibb has been stealing scenes this season on This White Lotus as part of the salacious swimsuit-clad friend trio, which includes Michelle Monaghan and Carrie Coon. A few things you might not know about the gorgeous blonde actress? One, she is married to her White Lotus costar Sam Rockwell, whom she has been with for over 15 years. Two, she has been acting for nearly 30 years. Brace yourself for number three: In November, she turned 50. If you are curious how she manages to look half her age, Body Network rounded up her top diet and fitness habits.

She Hydrates in the Morning

Bibb starts her day by hydrating. “I try to drink water first thing in the morning. Sometimes it's hard, I try to get as much water in me, at least like 20 ounces so I can check that off the list. As Sam likes to say, I hydrate,” she told The Zoe Report.

She Does Yoga

“I am a morning person, by the way, so I like to get up early and I like to listen to some jazz. And then I try to do yoga with my yoga teacher, this wonderful teacher in Los Angeles, Jenny Brill. It just gets me back in my body,” she told TZR. “I think yoga is like a treat for myself because I do a private [lesson], which is nice.” She added: “Yoga for me has been a really centering, good thing.”

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She Meditates

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Leslie likes to get her zen on. “I always try to meditate. I've done a meditation class. I have a mantra. I have it all. But it's hard sometimes. My brain can get a little busy,” she says.

She Makes Her Own Hummus and Curries

Leslie Bibb and Sam Rockwell at the Los Angeles premiere of 'Tag' held at the Regency Village Theatre in Westwood, USA on June 7, 2018.

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She also confessed that her “new obsession” is cooking, particularly two things. “One is instead of buying cans of beans, doing an old school dry beans: soaking them overnight, and then making my own hummus so I'm not buying it. Doing it truly from scratch, so if I'm making chili, all my beans are dry, and then it's nothing from a can. Then the second thing I've really gotten into is learning how to make curries. I would say that coconut milk, and coconut cream, and curries have become my new obsession in the kitchen. I'm obsessed with making a Thai Curry,” she told TZR.

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She Invests in Cooking Gadgets

LOS ANGELES - JAN 10:  LESLIE BIBB ABC All Star Winter TCA Party 2012  on January 10, 2012 in Pasadena, CA

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She also invests in cooking gadgets to make healthy eating easier. “My Ninja is my thing. It's a go-to ... And I don't even think I've scratched the surface of what it can do. I make my own pesto, I make my own hummus, the other day I made from scratch cauliflower soup. And this is the other thing, I'm really into making my own broth. I do my own vegetable stock or my own chicken stock. It's so silly and corny, but I love it. I have a thing about opening a fridge and seeing a full fridge or a full freezer, like the way my aunts and my mom always used to have when I was a kid. It just makes me feel faith, and like I'm taken care of if there's food in the house in that way,” she says.

She Drinks Her Greens.

PARK CITY, UT-JAN 28: Actress Leslie Bibb attends the "Don Verdean" premiere at the Eccles Theater during the 2015 Sundance Film Festival on January 28, 2015 in Park City, Utah.

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Bibb told New York Magazine that she loves Athletic Greens. “The first thing I do in the morning is drink this. I love that it simplifies taking a ton of supplements. It doesn’t have a weird taste to it,” she says. “The color green gets a really bad wrap. Dare I say there’s a hint of vanilla in this, but it doesn’t taste the way it looks.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.