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I Lost 45 Pounds by Stopping These 5 Surprisingly Bad Habits

These health habits may help you lose weight too.

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Katie Dunlop, CPT, CSN, and influencer (@lovesweatfitness) is an expert and influencer who has lost 45 pounds and totally transformed her body. On her various social media platforms, including YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook, she shares all her tips and tricks to getting into the best shape of her life. In one viral video, she reveals that a fundamental part of her weight loss had to do with ditching 5 bad habits. “When I was going through that journey, there were a lot of things I was doing to try to lose weight that later I realized were actually making me gain weight. And I guarantee you're doing at least one of these,” she says in the video. We also asked The Diet Diva, Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CPT, a Board Certified Sports Dietitian, to weigh in on her tactics.


1. Reduce Caffeine Intake

The first thing she started doing that had a huge impact on her losing weight? “I stopped ignoring the silent killer, and that silent killer is cortisol, which is our stress hormone,” she explains, adding that cortisol increases when you have an increase in caffeine, “which blew my mind because all the diet pills I was taking, the coffee diets I was doing, all of that was about having more caffeine to try to lose weight,” she says. “But when you increase your caffeine, it increases your cortisol. So my appetite was sped up and my metabolism slowed down and I ended up gaining way more weight.” She strongly suggests not taking diet pills or amping up your caffeine intake if you are trying to lose weight. One way to do this is to switch to a half-caffeinated drink as it will “allow you to lose more weight.” Or, she suggests just waiting until later in the day to have your coffee “because your cortisol is highest in the morning.”Caffeine can be very dangerous, “especially for someone with undiagnosed underlying heart conditions,” says Collingwood. “A cup or two of coffee is not a big deal, but when you add coffee and diet pills and pre-workout drinks and energy drinks, etc. it can add up to a whole lot of caffeine.” She also agrees that caffeine raises cortisol levels, “which when chronically high can be dangerous.”

Related: 9 Ways to Get 6-Pack Abs in 60 Days According to Science

2. Don’t Skip Breakfast

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The second thing she did was she stopped skipping breakfast. “This is something most women do when they're trying to lose weight. You think if you skip breakfast, you'll cut out some extra calories or you'll maybe just be able to wait a while and then you'll eat less throughout the day. But really when you skip breakfast, it actually makes you hungrier, it makes you make poor choices the rest of the day, and you end up gaining more weight,” she maintains. She claims that when she started eating breakfast again, she saw “such better results” with weight loss. If you are busy in the morning she recommends meal prepping overnight oats, “so you have something healthy you can grab and go.” She adds that when you eat breakfast, “it also helps lower those cortisol levels I was just talking about, so you're going to have an increase in your metabolism and see better results faster.” Collingwood agrees about breakfast. “I have found in myself and in clients throughout the years that most people make up for the calories not eaten when they skip breakfast and then some,” she says. “Some people lose weight initially when they skip breakfast but after a period of time the body adjusts by lowering metabolism and a plateau happens. Breakfast foods are typically high in nutrients so it is an excellent time to get whole grains, dairy, fruit, fiber rich foods, protein, and more.”

3. Stop Demonizing All Sugar

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The third thing Katie did was she stopped “demonizing” all sugar. “I used to be a sugar crazy person where I would read every single label and if it had even a gram of sugar, I wouldn't eat it. And that wasn't really the right approach either because that stressed me out and made me crazy,” she said. It also led her “to eat a lot of sugar-free foods that had artificial sweeteners that can also slow down your metabolism,” she admits. Now, she mostly pays attention to the added sugars in foods versus natural sugars “The daily recommended amount of added sugar is only 24 grams, but the average American eats 68 grams of added sugar a day. That's crazy,” she points out. “So while I don't want us freaking out about counting every banana or apple we eat, it is really important that you pay attention to the added sugars in food because they add up so quickly and can completely destroy your weight loss goals.”Some added sugar is absolutely fine, notes Collingwood, “and most health organizations recommend no more than 10% of your calories coming from added sugars,” she says. “Natural sugars from fruit and milk have a lot of nutritional value associated with them and should not be counted when assessing sugar intake for the day. Added sugars also don’t fill you up and are often in foods that have very little nutritional value.”

Related: I Lost 10 Pounds in 50 Days with These 5 Changes

4. Stop Program Hopping

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The fourth thing she stopped doing was “program hopping,” she reveals. “When I was first trying to lose weight, I was always grasping at straws, trying to just find something that I thought would be a quick fix. Like, ‘Oh, if I do this class, it's going to help me lose all this weight in a couple of weeks. Or if I do cardio for hours a day, I'm going to lose weight.’ And when I didn't see results within a week or two, I would change to the next thing and the next thing,” she explains, pointing out that the issue with this is that your body needs “consistency” to actually see results. “You're going to get the best changes and best results if you're consistent for at least two months. That doesn't mean you have to do the exact same workout every single day, but it means you need to have a consistent routine and program week after week for a minimum of two months to be able to see those results,” she says.

Doing a variety of exercises like resistance training and aerobic (zone 2 steady state and some HIIT) “is good to work different muscles and work in different zones of intensity,” says Collingwood. “That being said, going from workout to workout may not be good psychologically and when trying to establish a routine,” she points out. “Pick a few different things you like to do and follow a weekly schedule. For example, run one day, go to a cycle class one day, swim laps one day, do yoga one day, and lift weights a few days a week.”

Related: 7 Weight Loss Myths You Should NEVER Follow, According to Expert

5. Stop Trash Talking Yourself

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The fifth and “truly, this made the biggest change” is that she “stopped trash talking” herself. “When you're in that place where you're feeling discouraged, you're feeling emotional, you don't like your physical body in the moment and the way that you've been treating it, it's really hard not to get down on yourself. It's hard not to beat yourself up. But what happens when you do that is you end up focusing on the person you were in the past, those behaviors that got you there, right? Maybe the overeating, that cycle of yo-yo dieting, and you focus too much on the past or maybe your current state, and that really does lead you to have more erratic weight loss,” she says. “You're going to go really hard for a little bit and then you'll get discouraged again and you'll go really hard and you end up, yo-yoing, that's exactly what I did for years and years and years. So what you need to do instead is you need to focus on that version of yourself that you want to become.”

Collingwood agrees. “Focusing on what your body is capable of is much more empowering than putting yourself down in front of the mirror or feeling bad when you can’t keep up with someone else at the gym,” she says. “Love yourself for your own abilities and don’t compare yourself to others. Celebrate the small wins along the way. Celebrate the accomplishments and focus on how you are improving and getting stronger instead of putting yourself down.”

💪🔥Body Booster: If you are a breakfast person, don’t skip it. Experts say that even though you may be cutting calories by refraining from the meal, you will likely make it up – and then some – later in the day.

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We've consulted with our team of licensed nutritionists and dietitians to bring you informed recommendations for food products, health aids and nutritional goods to safely and successfully guide you toward making better diet and nutrition choices. We strive to only recommend products that adhere to our philosophy of eating better while still enjoying what you eat.

Katie Dunlop, CPT, CSN, and influencer (@lovesweatfitness) is an expert and influencer who has lost 45 pounds and totally transformed her body. On her various social media platforms, including YouTube, Instagram, and Facebook, she shares all her tips and tricks to getting into the best shape of her life. In one viral video, she reveals that a fundamental part of her weight loss had to do with ditching 5 bad habits. “When I was going through that journey, there were a lot of things I was doing to try to lose weight that later I realized were actually making me gain weight. And I guarantee you're doing at least one of these,” she says in the video. We also asked The Diet Diva, Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CPT, a Board Certified Sports Dietitian, to weigh in on her tactics.


1. Reduce Caffeine Intake

The first thing she started doing that had a huge impact on her losing weight? “I stopped ignoring the silent killer, and that silent killer is cortisol, which is our stress hormone,” she explains, adding that cortisol increases when you have an increase in caffeine, “which blew my mind because all the diet pills I was taking, the coffee diets I was doing, all of that was about having more caffeine to try to lose weight,” she says. “But when you increase your caffeine, it increases your cortisol. So my appetite was sped up and my metabolism slowed down and I ended up gaining way more weight.” She strongly suggests not taking diet pills or amping up your caffeine intake if you are trying to lose weight. One way to do this is to switch to a half-caffeinated drink as it will “allow you to lose more weight.” Or, she suggests just waiting until later in the day to have your coffee “because your cortisol is highest in the morning.”Caffeine can be very dangerous, “especially for someone with undiagnosed underlying heart conditions,” says Collingwood. “A cup or two of coffee is not a big deal, but when you add coffee and diet pills and pre-workout drinks and energy drinks, etc. it can add up to a whole lot of caffeine.” She also agrees that caffeine raises cortisol levels, “which when chronically high can be dangerous.”

Related: 9 Ways to Get 6-Pack Abs in 60 Days According to Science

2. Don’t Skip Breakfast

Avocado toast with poached egg on a wooden board. Breakfast concept.Shutterstock

The second thing she did was she stopped skipping breakfast. “This is something most women do when they're trying to lose weight. You think if you skip breakfast, you'll cut out some extra calories or you'll maybe just be able to wait a while and then you'll eat less throughout the day. But really when you skip breakfast, it actually makes you hungrier, it makes you make poor choices the rest of the day, and you end up gaining more weight,” she maintains. She claims that when she started eating breakfast again, she saw “such better results” with weight loss. If you are busy in the morning she recommends meal prepping overnight oats, “so you have something healthy you can grab and go.” She adds that when you eat breakfast, “it also helps lower those cortisol levels I was just talking about, so you're going to have an increase in your metabolism and see better results faster.” Collingwood agrees about breakfast. “I have found in myself and in clients throughout the years that most people make up for the calories not eaten when they skip breakfast and then some,” she says. “Some people lose weight initially when they skip breakfast but after a period of time the body adjusts by lowering metabolism and a plateau happens. Breakfast foods are typically high in nutrients so it is an excellent time to get whole grains, dairy, fruit, fiber rich foods, protein, and more.”

3. Stop Demonizing All Sugar

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The third thing Katie did was she stopped “demonizing” all sugar. “I used to be a sugar crazy person where I would read every single label and if it had even a gram of sugar, I wouldn't eat it. And that wasn't really the right approach either because that stressed me out and made me crazy,” she said. It also led her “to eat a lot of sugar-free foods that had artificial sweeteners that can also slow down your metabolism,” she admits. Now, she mostly pays attention to the added sugars in foods versus natural sugars “The daily recommended amount of added sugar is only 24 grams, but the average American eats 68 grams of added sugar a day. That's crazy,” she points out. “So while I don't want us freaking out about counting every banana or apple we eat, it is really important that you pay attention to the added sugars in food because they add up so quickly and can completely destroy your weight loss goals.”Some added sugar is absolutely fine, notes Collingwood, “and most health organizations recommend no more than 10% of your calories coming from added sugars,” she says. “Natural sugars from fruit and milk have a lot of nutritional value associated with them and should not be counted when assessing sugar intake for the day. Added sugars also don’t fill you up and are often in foods that have very little nutritional value.”

Related: I Lost 10 Pounds in 50 Days with These 5 Changes

4. Stop Program Hopping

Katie_Dunlop2Love Sweat Fitness/Facebook

The fourth thing she stopped doing was “program hopping,” she reveals. “When I was first trying to lose weight, I was always grasping at straws, trying to just find something that I thought would be a quick fix. Like, ‘Oh, if I do this class, it's going to help me lose all this weight in a couple of weeks. Or if I do cardio for hours a day, I'm going to lose weight.’ And when I didn't see results within a week or two, I would change to the next thing and the next thing,” she explains, pointing out that the issue with this is that your body needs “consistency” to actually see results. “You're going to get the best changes and best results if you're consistent for at least two months. That doesn't mean you have to do the exact same workout every single day, but it means you need to have a consistent routine and program week after week for a minimum of two months to be able to see those results,” she says.

Doing a variety of exercises like resistance training and aerobic (zone 2 steady state and some HIIT) “is good to work different muscles and work in different zones of intensity,” says Collingwood. “That being said, going from workout to workout may not be good psychologically and when trying to establish a routine,” she points out. “Pick a few different things you like to do and follow a weekly schedule. For example, run one day, go to a cycle class one day, swim laps one day, do yoga one day, and lift weights a few days a week.”

Related: 7 Weight Loss Myths You Should NEVER Follow, According to Expert

5. Stop Trash Talking Yourself

Katie_Dunlop3Love Sweat Fitness/Facebook

The fifth and “truly, this made the biggest change” is that she “stopped trash talking” herself. “When you're in that place where you're feeling discouraged, you're feeling emotional, you don't like your physical body in the moment and the way that you've been treating it, it's really hard not to get down on yourself. It's hard not to beat yourself up. But what happens when you do that is you end up focusing on the person you were in the past, those behaviors that got you there, right? Maybe the overeating, that cycle of yo-yo dieting, and you focus too much on the past or maybe your current state, and that really does lead you to have more erratic weight loss,” she says. “You're going to go really hard for a little bit and then you'll get discouraged again and you'll go really hard and you end up, yo-yoing, that's exactly what I did for years and years and years. So what you need to do instead is you need to focus on that version of yourself that you want to become.”

Collingwood agrees. “Focusing on what your body is capable of is much more empowering than putting yourself down in front of the mirror or feeling bad when you can’t keep up with someone else at the gym,” she says. “Love yourself for your own abilities and don’t compare yourself to others. Celebrate the small wins along the way. Celebrate the accomplishments and focus on how you are improving and getting stronger instead of putting yourself down.”

💪🔥Body Booster: If you are a breakfast person, don’t skip it. Experts say that even though you may be cutting calories by refraining from the meal, you will likely make it up – and then some – later in the day.

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If you've ever felt frustrated with dieting, you're not alone. After 15 years of trying different weight loss approaches, Martin Balcaitis, 45, Senior Vice President of Operations at Lindora in Orange County, California, finally discovered the game-changing mistake that had been holding him back all along. His transformation story proves that sometimes the smallest changes can lead to the biggest results.

The Wake-Up Call

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"I feel like I've always been trying to lose weight!" Martin tells Body Network. "But now that I'm in my mid-40s, I know that it isn't so much about the number on the scale, but my overall health for longevity – that was my real motivator this time around."

The Crucial Discovery

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Standing at 5'9" and weighing 222 pounds, Martin thought he had tried everything. Then came the revelation that changed everything: "I thought I was eating a correct portion for myself, but eyeballing wasn't my friend," he admits. "A food scale was crucial to my success."

RELATED:30 Best Protein Foods That Melt Fat Almost Instantly

The Transformation

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The results speak for themselves. In just six months, Martin dropped from 222 pounds to 165 pounds, achieving a remarkable transformation in his body composition. "My overall body fat percentage went from 36% to 15% in 6 months," he shares proudly.

A New Approach to Food

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Unlike previous attempts at weight loss, Martin's new strategy didn't involve cutting out foods entirely. "I haven't eliminated anything – which is great!" he explains. "I simply know how to manage portions and adjust my eating that day if I know I'm going to have something decadent or high-carb during the day."

A Day of Measured Eating

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Martin's daily menu is both satisfying and strategic. "Breakfast is typically one egg, some egg whites and cottage cheese blended in what I call my 'protein eggs' with spinach and some meat," he says. "Lunch will be a salad with a yogurt-based dressing and dinner is roasted vegetables and lean protein – also three Lindora snacks too!"

RELATED:10-Min Walking Workout Burns Fat at Home, Says Coach

The Workout Strategy

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Time management proved to be another crucial lesson. "Time can always get the best of us so I make sure to workout in the morning," Martin explains. "I make too many excuses to not go to the gym after work." His dedication has paid off: "I can actually see some abs poking through now!"

Dealing with Setbacks

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Martin maintains a realistic approach to challenges. "Sometimes the motivation just isn't there and you have to tell yourself that it's a marathon, not a sprint," he reflects. "Don't beat yourself up if you skip a workout or can't go the distance you wanted to."

The Power of Accountability

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Making the journey public became a powerful tool. "Be vocal about it. I told people I was trying to lose weight to help hold me accountable," he advises. His commitment extended to his wardrobe: "I donated clothes once they were too big for me – I didn't want to buy big clothes again, so I had to keep going!"

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat

A Science-Based Approach

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Martin emphasizes the importance of data in his success. "Knowledge is power, so I would encourage everyone to get a body composition analysis done so they have a true understanding of what their numbers are to make a plan of attack," he recommends.

The Path to Success

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For those inspired by his journey, Martin offers encouraging advice: "Just start! You don't have to wait for a certain day, you don't have to have a big goal in mind – just take little steps and once you see some progress it will motivate you to keep going."

RELATED:7 Simple Daily Exercises To Shrink Hanging Belly Fat

Maintaining Momentum

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His approach to staying motivated remains practical and empowering. "If I am feeling badly about my body – it is 100% in my control to fix it," he states. "Having a plan and solutions is the answer and putting that plan into action is key." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you eating less and exercising more and still can’t seem to lose weight? Lacey Iskra is a health coach who specializes in “root cause healing,” helping “women get to the root cause of their symptoms, lose fat & increase their energy,” she explains in her Instagram bio. In a recent video, she reveals some of the habits she had to give up in order to health her gut and lose weight. “6 crappy habits I had to quit to heal my hormones and lose 20 pounds of fat,” she writes in the video.

She Had to Shift Her Perspective From Eating Less and Working Out More

“I also had to give up a massive belief…A belief I had carried for most of my life,” she continues. “That in order to look and feel how I wanted I just had to eat less and move more. The belief was not working for me and also not serving me. Because I did that. I skipped meals, ate salads multiple times a day and refused to eat anything that wasn’t labelled low calorie.

She Wasn’t Losing Weight and Was “Puffy” and “Exhausted”

“And by following and listening this belief i dug my body into a deep hole,” she says. “Where nothing was working and I felt so stuck. I couldn’t possible eat any less or move any more and yet I was still bloated, puffy, overweight and exhausted.”

She Finally Admitted That the Habits Were Hurting Her

“Once I admitted that my daily habits were hurting me more then serving me I promised myself to start making changes and these were the first habits I kicked to the curb!!” she says, going onto to reveal the list.

Here Are the Bad Habits She Quit

  • Drinking coffee on an empty stomach
  • Working out 7 days a week and never taking rest days
  • Doom scrolling on my phone before bed
  • Rushing through everything absolutely as fast as possible
  • Undereating and skipping meals
  • Running multiple times per week.

She Also Recommends Modifying Current Habits

In another post, she reveals how modifying her daily habits and adding to them was also a game changer. “I still relax on the couch every night … now I just wear a castor oil pack,” she writes. “I still drink a litre of water every morning …now It just has two nettle teabags in it.”

She Also Tweaked Her Diet and Workouts

“I still hit 8000-10,000 steps per day….now I just do it outside instead of in. I still eat 4 meals a day ….now I just make sure its mainly whole foods. I still eat breakfast….now I just make it double the size lol,” she continued. The bottom line? Making small changes to you habits can result in a big, positive impact. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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Most of us know the crushing feeling of looking in the mirror and not recognizing the person staring back. James Marsden was there too, carrying an extra 50 pounds that represented more than just weight—it was physical proof of his mental struggles. "Those extra 50 pounds were not just fat, it was proof of how lazy, useless and depressed I truly was," James admits in his post. As a weight loss coach who now helps busy office workers transform their bodies without upending their lives, James has guided over 300 clients to sustainable results through practical nutrition, mindset shifts, and habit change. His journey revealed that the real battle isn't fought in the gym but in your head. Keep reading to discover the seven basic mistakes that were holding James back—fixing them might be exactly what you need to finally see results, too.

Your mind gives up too soon

Your brain is constantly trying to protect you from discomfort, even when that discomfort leads to growth. James discovered this when working out with a friend who pushed him beyond what he thought was his limit. "I was about to put the weights down when he just said, one more rep. So I pushed another rep, then he said one more again," James recalls. "Five more reps beyond what I thought was my limit. It hit me like a ton of bricks." Your body is capable of so much more than your mind allows. The real transformation happens when you push past these mental barriers. As James learned, "Progressive overload isn't just waffle. It's the only way that your body changes."

You think in all-or-nothing terms

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We've all been there—one slice of pizza turns into "might as well eat the whole thing because my diet is already ruined." This all-or-nothing thinking sabotaged James for months. "I remember sitting in my car outside of a fast food place with an empty bag, feeling worthless, like shit on my shoe. I was about to give up completely because I'd failed," James says. The breakthrough came when he did the math and realized that one meal represents just 5% of his weekly nutrition. One bad choice can't undo all your progress unless you let it. As James puts it, "When you mess up, just make the next meal good. This simple mindset shift is why I never fully quit again."

You worry too much about what others think

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That paralyzing fear that everyone is judging your every move at the gym? It's all in your head. James spent three months avoiding unfamiliar equipment because he was terrified of looking stupid. "I'd walk around pretending that I knew what I was doing, terrified everyone was judging me," James admits. But when he finally tried something new, he realized, "Nobody gives a damn. Everyone was completely focused on their own workout." The reality is that people are too wrapped up in their own fitness journeys to notice yours. As James learned, "Don't let your fear of judgment rob you of your results."

You don't track your progress

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For months, James thought he was eating right but couldn't understand why nothing changed. "The first three months of my journey, I saw no results. I actually got a lot bigger," James says. "I thought I was eating right, but I couldn't understand why the scales wasn't moving." Everything changed when he started tracking. "My breakthrough came when I started to track everything. My calories, my protein, my weight at the gym," James explains. He discovered he was consuming nowhere near enough protein. Your memory and perception will constantly lie to you about what you ate and how hard you worked. As James puts it, "What gets measured gets managed. If you're not tracking, you're just guessing."

You rely too much on the scale

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Motivation will inevitably die at some point. James hit this wall four months in, when the scale hadn't moved for weeks. "I felt exhausted. Started to wonder, was it even worth it?" James recalls. That negative inner voice got louder: "Look at yourself. Still fat. This isn't working. Just quit like you always do." He almost listened until he compared current photos to his before pictures. "The scale might not have moved, but my body had changed. My shoulders were way more defined. My waist was smaller," James says. These visual proofs silenced that lying voice in his head. "Take pictures from day one. Even if you hate how you look," James advises. "When motivation does die, and it will, those photos become your fuel."

You focus too much on cardio, not enough on nutrition

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Endless cardio sessions might make you feel virtuous, but they won't transform your body if your nutrition is off. "I was killing myself on the treadmill while ignoring what's on your plate," James admits. "Every day, 45 minute grueling cardio sessions, thinking I was burning fat, that I'd be so tired at the end of it that I'd need more food." When he finally tracked his nutrition and increased his protein intake from 50 to 150 grams daily while training less, his body transformed. "You cannot outrun a bad diet," James emphasizes. "One hour of intense cardio burns 500 calories, which is just one large muffin. But protein, it builds muscle, burns fat, and it's a 24-7 advocate for your body." Your diet determines 80% of your results; the gym handles the remaining 20%.

You blame your genetics

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Blaming genetics is the ultimate cop-out that removes all responsibility. "It was my genetics. This was my favourite excuse," James confesses. "I would tell myself this week in, week out, just so I didn't have to feel responsible, so I didn't have to have the problem and deal with it." Your brain creates convenient stories to protect your habits and keep you comfortable. As James realized, "Your brain will create stories to protect your habits." The solution? Find one person who has achieved what you want and immerse yourself in their content and mindset. Their beliefs will gradually become yours. James learned that "Most weight loss isn't about your body. It's about reprogramming your mind."

You give up when progress slows down

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Transformation doesn't occur on a perfect upward trajectory. "Four months in, I was there. The scale hadn't moved in weeks," James remembers. That's exactly when most people quit, just before breakthrough results appear. James discovered that plateaus are normal parts of the journey, not signs that you're failing. Looking back at his before pictures during these tough times provided the perspective he needed to keep going. "When motivation does die, and it will, those photos become your fuel," James emphasizes. Every time you choose to persist when you'd rather quit, you're not just changing your body—you're rebuilding your mental resilience.

You expect fast results

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Weight loss takes time, and James had to learn patience. "I thought I was eating right, but I couldn't understand why the scales wasn't moving," he says. Society conditions us to expect immediate results, but real transformation happens gradually. James discovered that consistent small actions compound over time, creating lasting change. Rather than looking for dramatic weekly losses, he learned to appreciate subtle improvements in energy, strength, and how his clothes fit. The 50 pounds didn't disappear overnight—they melted away through consistent application of these lessons. Sustainable weight loss isn't about quick fixes; it's about building habits that last.

You try to do it all alone

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James's breakthrough moment came when a friend pushed him past his limits in the gym. "After my usual pathetic effort, I was about to put the weights down when he just said, one more rep," James recalls. That outside perspective revealed how much more he was capable of. Many of us try to tackle weight loss in isolation, either from embarrassment or believing we should be able to figure it out ourselves. But having support—whether a friend, coach, or community—provides accountability, perspective, and encouragement when motivation wanes. James learned that the right support system doesn't just make the journey easier; it makes success more likely.

You forget the mental game matters most

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At its core, James's transformation wasn't about diets or workout plans—it was about changing his relationship with himself. "Your brain made you overweight. You cannot trust it," he realized. All seven mistakes share a common thread: the battle happens in your mind before it happens in your body. "Most weight loss isn't about your body. It's about reprogramming your mind," James emphasizes. When you address the mental patterns that created your current reality, physical transformation follows naturally. That's how James lost 50 pounds, and that's the blueprint he now shares with his clients—proof that sustainable change starts from within. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Katie Dunlop, a fitness influencer and certified personal trainer, transformed her body and her life by shedding 45 pounds and getting rid of stubborn stomach fat. In a recent YouTube video, Katie shared the key dietary changes that helped her reach her goals. She revealed that her weight loss success wasn’t just about exercise; it involved being more mindful of her food choices and cutting out certain items that were sneaking extra calories and sugar into her daily routine.


Through consistency, dedication, and small, sustainable changes, Katie not only achieved her weight loss goals but also became an inspiration to thousands of others. By cutting out these six specific foods, which she once thought were healthy or harmless, Katie finally saw the results she wanted. Here's a look at the six foods she eliminated and how these small shifts made a big difference.

I Ditched Sugary Coffee Creamers

"I was a huge international delight girl, and this is not just to hate on this brand; it's just that it was my brand. I did international delight, French vanilla coffee creamer in my coffee every day," she says in the video. "So that was an excess of 20 to 25 grams of sugar first thing in the morning before 7:00 AM. I'm like, let's just get a little cup of sugar in here, and 24 grams of sugar is the daily recommended amount of added sugar."

I Cut Out Fiber and Protein Bars

"So I used to eat fiber bars or protein bars every single day. I would use them as meal replacements, thinking that they were healthy, but that wasn't the case," she says in the video.

"The problem with most of these bars is they have so many unnecessary added ingredients. So ideally, I try to keep my bars to 10 grams of protein or more, six grams of sugar or less, and it's hard to find any bars that have that, that also don't have just a bunch of chemicals in the ingredient list or fake sugars and stuff."

I Stopped My Nightly Frozen Yogurt Habit

"In college, we had a yogurt land down the street from us, and this is when frozen yogurt was it. And so we went a couple of times, and then we just kept going and kept going. We ended up going almost every single night we could walk to it," she says in the video.

"Well, in a small, like a cup serving of most of those frozen yogurts, they have 25 grams of sugar. And then on top of it, I felt like it was a gateway drug. I don't know how to describe it. Then you're like, oh, a little gram cracker, a little granola, that's healthy. Oh, a little coconut spread. You just start adding and adding, and all of a sudden, you have 500 extra calories a day that I didn't need."

I Gave Up the Special K Diet

"Does anyone remember the Special K diet? Anyone? Am I dating myself? Okay, so you know the Special K cereal, the brand cereal, they've removed all of this from their website. I went digging, I could find nothing. It was a real thing though," she says in the video.

"It was basically the idea that you were to swap two meals a day with Special K cereal, and they claim that you could lose six pounds and a pant size in two weeks."

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I Stopped Snacking on Veggie Chips

"I was duped into thinking that veggie chips were so much healthier than potato chips or the hint of lime toss. I was obsessed with it. They were veggies, wrong, wrong, wrong, wrong. It took me so long to realize that they were not at all healthier," she says in the video.

"The whole process that they have to go through in order to make them into chips basically just takes most of the nutrients out of them. And you are left with just a vegetable-colored shaped potato chip."

I Stopped Eating After 9 PM

"I had to stop eating after 9:00 PM, and let's just say there's not a magical time. So don't think, oh my gosh, 9:00 PM said I stopped eating at seven. This is not a problem for me. It may still be 9:00 PM, which was my time," she says in the video.

"The reason why I had to give myself a time at night to stop eating was because I would just keep going. Those cravings would hit me mentally or physically, and I didn't really know how to control them. The bottom line was I wasn't making healthy choices after 9:00 PM."

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The Power of Small Changes

"When I did that, those hundreds of excess calories were cut from my diet when I cut out the creamers with all the sugars and fake stuff. When I stopped eating all these fiber bars and cereals and all these little things that I thought were healthy, I actually started getting results," she says in the video.

"Yes, I was moving my body, but I wasn't doing anything crazy. You guys know I started 10 minutes a day and I moved up to, I do 30 to 45 minutes a day now. But it's those little tiny things that add up."

By making these changes and being mindful of her food choices, Katie was able to lose 45 pounds and transform her body. Her story highlights the importance of identifying and eliminating hidden sources of excess calories and sugar in our diets. And if you enjoyed this, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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There's nothing quite like the moment when you've reached your weight loss goal and realize the real work is just beginning. YouTube sensationLiezl Jayne Strydom is familiar with this journey, having successfully lost 30 pounds in just 12 weeks and maintained her results long-term. "It's not about being perfect," she states repeatedly. Her philosophy centers on consistency rather than perfection, focusing on nutrient-dense, protein-rich meals that keep her satisfied throughout the day.

Getting Out of the Winter Rut

"To get out of my rut, get out of the winter rut, I like to do just a few simple things," Liezl explains in her recent post. "I like to change up my routine so things feel fresh, change up my meals and my workouts a bit so that I can just feel like I'm working towards some new goals." This refreshed mindset helped her stay motivated during her weight loss journey and continues to serve her well during maintenance.

Protein-Packed Breakfast Smoothie

"I've been making this breakfast every single day this week. This week, it's my favorite. It's just really simple," says Liezl. Her recipe combines one cup of frozen mango, half a cup of frozen raspberries, and half a cup of frozen strawberries. She adds about three-quarters to one cup of coconut yogurt, one small scoop of vanilla protein powder, and water to blend. "It's like a giant strawberry milkshake for breakfast," she explains.

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Morning Movement Matters

"I just finished a workout. So I'm a little bit sweaty, a little bit hot, ready for my breakfast," Liezl shares. For her, exercise isn't about punishment but rather a consistent part of her routine that complements her nutrition. This balanced approach helped her lose weight in a sustainable way and now helps her maintain her results.

Nutrient-Dense Lunch Bowl

"It's a perfect lunch for me—quick, very healthy, and full of protein," Liezl explains about her midday meal. She starts with arugula, adds roasted sweet potatoes, and two seven-minute boiled eggs. "I always like to add something really filling to my salads like sweet potato or rice or quinoa," she notes. A drizzle of olive oil and coconut aminos brings everything together, with sunflower and pumpkin seeds for crunch.

Prioritizing Meal Prep

"I've got these roasted sweet potatoes. I cooked them yesterday," Liezl explains. This simple habit of having healthy options ready makes maintaining her weight loss easier. "All the work of these fruits, or the melons, is just cutting it up. But if you've got it cut up, then you can just have it ready to go in the fridge," she adds when discussing her afternoon snack.

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Refreshing Afternoon Treat

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"I prepped some chia pudding the other day. And I also prepped this little fruit salad," Liezl shares. Her afternoon pick-me-up features chia pudding topped with watermelon, cantaloupe, grapes, and pecans. "That makes a very good after lunch snack," she notes, showing how simple combinations can satisfy sweet cravings naturally.

Dairy-Free Alternatives

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"I love coconut yogurt, but any kind of plain yogurt will actually work," Liezl explains. For her afternoon coffee, she shares, "What I've really been liking in my coffee lately is I use just coconut milk in a can, light coconut milk. It's like so creamy, a little bit sweet, just naturally sweet. It's dairy-free, obviously."

Quick 10-Minute Dinner

"This is something that I make when I don't have a lot of time or when I just want something super quick," says Liezl. "This is a five to 10 minute dinner. So fast." She steams green beans while cooking ramen noodles, then adds pre-cooked chicken. "After I drain the noodles, I actually just put them right back in the pot with the stove turned down to low. And I just throw all the chicken pieces in there," she explains, adding oil and coconut aminos before covering to heat everything through.

Mindful Evening Indulgence

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"I'm not trying to lose weight at the moment, so I don't count my calories. I only do that when I'm trying to lose weight," Liezl explains. Her evening ritual includes ginger tea paired with a small piece of dark chocolate. "And it's chocolate time. A little bit of chocolate," she says simply. "I'm going to go enjoy my chocolate and my tea and just relax a little bit this evening."

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The Protein Priority

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"I am trying to eat quite a lot of protein at the moment. I try to get roughly a hundred grams of protein a day," Liezl notes. "I'm not like counting it. I just kind of have learned what kind of things have protein in them. So just having the eggs for lunch, having some protein powder in my smoothie for breakfast, having the chicken in my dinner. All those proteins accumulate."

Understanding Your Calorie Needs

"I'm not trying to lose weight at the moment, so I don't count my calories. I only do that when I'm trying to lose weight," Liezl explains. "But I thought some of you guys might want to know how many calories that I'm eating. So it says that I ate 2,227 calories today and 95 grams of protein. That's pretty good."

Flexible Framework, Not Rigid Rules

"It's not about being perfect. It is not about being perfect," Liezl emphasizes twice. "I have found that when I am putting in a little bit of effort, taking care of myself, I just feel so much better," she says. "When I don't [take care of myself], it really affects my confidence. And then I'm like thinking, oh, I need to change all these things about myself."

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Summer-Ready Confidence

"Getting summer ready really just means feeling healthy, strong, confident in my skin," says Liezl. "You know, comfortable showing a little bit more skin after winter. In winter I get like, feel like a bit scruffy after winter, like I've just been bundled up so much." Her approach focuses on making small changes that yield big results in both physical appearance and mental well-being.

Finding Inspiration, Not Perfection

"I hope that you enjoyed this video. I hope that it just gives you a bit of motivation, a bit of inspiration, maybe a recipe or two to try," Liezl says. By sharing her realistic day of eating, she demonstrates that sustainable weight management doesn't require extreme restriction. As she puts it, it's about "just getting out of the rut a bit, just changing up a few things, doing some exercise, eating some healthy meals." And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you trying to lose weight, but not sure what to eat? You probably know that to burn body fat, you need to follow a high-protein, low-calorie diet. Some foods are better than others when it comes to meeting these criteria. Regina Trakhtman is an influencer and weight loss coach who dropped 7% body fat after kids at 39 and helps other women do the same. In a new social media post, she shares some of the foods she eats to lose weight quickly. “When I need more protein without extra calories, these are 6 things I eat,” she writes. “Here are my high protein, low calorie go-to’s!”

Egg Whites

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The first food she recommends? Egg whites. “Pure protein, zero fat, low calorie. Add them to oats, make an omelet, or mix into shakes for a protein boost!” she says.

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Non-Fat Greek Yogurt

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Not all yogurt is healthy. Many have added sugars. However, non-fat Greek yogurt should be a staple in any fat loss diet. “15-20g of protein per cup with barely any fat! Perfect as a snack, in smoothies, or even as a creamy sauce base. It’s the most versatile ingredient!” she says.

Protein Powder

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Another item to add to your menu if you are trying to lose weight? Protein powder. “A quick and easy way to boost protein without extra fat or carbs. Mix it with water, almond milk, or even coffee!” she says.

Canned Tuna (in Water)

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She also eats canned tuna, in water, often. “Lean, high-protein, and low-calorie. Great in salads, wraps, or straight from the can with mustard. There’s one at Trader Joe’s that I’ve been obsessed with!” she says.

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Low-Fat Cottage Cheese

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Most health experts maintain that low-fat cottage cheese should be an essential in your fat loss diet. “Packed with casein protein (slow-digesting) to keep you full longer without excess calories,” she writes.

Deli Turkey or Chicken (Low-Sodium)

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Not all deli meat is healthy but she does recommend turkey or chicken. “Easy grab-and-go protein with barely any fat. Roll it up with mustard or eat it straight for a snack! My fav? Roll it in a crispy piece of lettuce 🥬 or in an @egglifefoods everything wrap,” she says.

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BONUS: Sugar-free Jello with Greek Yogurt + Protein Powder

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Sugar-free Jello with Greek yogurt + protein powder is the perfect high-protein dessert hack. “You’ll thank me later,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.

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Are you trying to lose weight, but aren’t sure what to eat? Breakfast is the most important meal of the day, as it fuels your body for fat loss and muscle growth. Body Network spoke with Elaine Morrison, a pilates instructor and nutritional therapy practitioner who helps women look their best from the inside out, and asked her: What do you eat for breakfast when you want to lose weight? Her answer may surprise you.

Make Sure Your Breakfast Is Balanced

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“Eating a satiating breakfast that includes enough protein, healthy fat, and fiber will help you maintain steady energy (balanced blood sugar) and make better food choices throughout the day,” says Morrison. “It will help you to feel full and cut down on unnecessary snacking. You'll also have better energy and less brain fog. Balancing blood sugar is key to supporting fat loss.”

Aim for 30 Grams of Protein

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Morrison recommends starting by choosing protein and aiming for 30 grams of protein.

Some examples:

  • 2 eggs (1 egg = 6 grams of protein) + 2 chicken sausage
  • 2 eggs + 1/2 cup of cottage cheese (scramble the cottage cheese into the eggs for a creamy texture)
  • 1 serving of protein powder + 2/3 cup of greek yogurt.

Here’s What to Do When Traveling

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“When traveling, most airports have Starbucks,” Morrison says. “I tell clients to purchase two servings of the egg white bites (a total of 4), which will give them 24 grams of protein. Purchase an apple if they have it, or bring one with you, and you will have a well-balanced meal.”

Then, Choose a Healthy Fat

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Next, make sure you have a healthy fat. “Eggs contain 5 grams of fat/egg, so you'll get enough from eating eggs,” she says. “Choose cottage cheese or Greek yogurt that are low to full fat and that will give you your healthy fat. If you're using protein powder and Greek yogurt to make a smoothie, depending on how much fat is in the yogurt, you can also add a tablespoon of nut butter.”

Amp Up Your Fiber Intake

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Next, choose non-starchy vegetables or fruit to add fiber to your meal. “Fiber helps keep you feeling full and supports healthy blood sugar levels,” she says.

Non-starchy vegetables: Saute, roast, or steam broccoli, cauliflower, Brussels sprouts, spinach, carrots, asparagus.

Fruit with fiber: blueberries, blackberries, raspberries, apples, pears. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat