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He Lost 50 Pounds When He Stopped Making These 7 Basic Mistakes

Stop trying so hard: simple mindset shifts that actually work.

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Most of us know the crushing feeling of looking in the mirror and not recognizing the person staring back. James Marsden was there too, carrying an extra 50 pounds that represented more than just weight—it was physical proof of his mental struggles. "Those extra 50 pounds were not just fat, it was proof of how lazy, useless and depressed I truly was," James admits in his post. As a weight loss coach who now helps busy office workers transform their bodies without upending their lives, James has guided over 300 clients to sustainable results through practical nutrition, mindset shifts, and habit change. His journey revealed that the real battle isn't fought in the gym but in your head. Keep reading to discover the seven basic mistakes that were holding James back—fixing them might be exactly what you need to finally see results, too.


Your mind gives up too soon

Your brain is constantly trying to protect you from discomfort, even when that discomfort leads to growth. James discovered this when working out with a friend who pushed him beyond what he thought was his limit. "I was about to put the weights down when he just said, one more rep. So I pushed another rep, then he said one more again," James recalls. "Five more reps beyond what I thought was my limit. It hit me like a ton of bricks." Your body is capable of so much more than your mind allows. The real transformation happens when you push past these mental barriers. As James learned, "Progressive overload isn't just waffle. It's the only way that your body changes."

You think in all-or-nothing terms

A slice of hot Italian pizza with stretching cheese. Pizza four cheeses with basil.​1. High-Fat FoodsShutterstock

We've all been there—one slice of pizza turns into "might as well eat the whole thing because my diet is already ruined." This all-or-nothing thinking sabotaged James for months. "I remember sitting in my car outside of a fast food place with an empty bag, feeling worthless, like shit on my shoe. I was about to give up completely because I'd failed," James says. The breakthrough came when he did the math and realized that one meal represents just 5% of his weekly nutrition. One bad choice can't undo all your progress unless you let it. As James puts it, "When you mess up, just make the next meal good. This simple mindset shift is why I never fully quit again."

You worry too much about what others think

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That paralyzing fear that everyone is judging your every move at the gym? It's all in your head. James spent three months avoiding unfamiliar equipment because he was terrified of looking stupid. "I'd walk around pretending that I knew what I was doing, terrified everyone was judging me," James admits. But when he finally tried something new, he realized, "Nobody gives a damn. Everyone was completely focused on their own workout." The reality is that people are too wrapped up in their own fitness journeys to notice yours. As James learned, "Don't let your fear of judgment rob you of your results."

You don't track your progress

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For months, James thought he was eating right but couldn't understand why nothing changed. "The first three months of my journey, I saw no results. I actually got a lot bigger," James says. "I thought I was eating right, but I couldn't understand why the scales wasn't moving." Everything changed when he started tracking. "My breakthrough came when I started to track everything. My calories, my protein, my weight at the gym," James explains. He discovered he was consuming nowhere near enough protein. Your memory and perception will constantly lie to you about what you ate and how hard you worked. As James puts it, "What gets measured gets managed. If you're not tracking, you're just guessing."

You rely too much on the scale

Woman (only feet to be seen) standing on bathroom scale measuring her weight controlling her dieting resultsShutterstock

Motivation will inevitably die at some point. James hit this wall four months in, when the scale hadn't moved for weeks. "I felt exhausted. Started to wonder, was it even worth it?" James recalls. That negative inner voice got louder: "Look at yourself. Still fat. This isn't working. Just quit like you always do." He almost listened until he compared current photos to his before pictures. "The scale might not have moved, but my body had changed. My shoulders were way more defined. My waist was smaller," James says. These visual proofs silenced that lying voice in his head. "Take pictures from day one. Even if you hate how you look," James advises. "When motivation does die, and it will, those photos become your fuel."

You focus too much on cardio, not enough on nutrition

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Endless cardio sessions might make you feel virtuous, but they won't transform your body if your nutrition is off. "I was killing myself on the treadmill while ignoring what's on your plate," James admits. "Every day, 45 minute grueling cardio sessions, thinking I was burning fat, that I'd be so tired at the end of it that I'd need more food." When he finally tracked his nutrition and increased his protein intake from 50 to 150 grams daily while training less, his body transformed. "You cannot outrun a bad diet," James emphasizes. "One hour of intense cardio burns 500 calories, which is just one large muffin. But protein, it builds muscle, burns fat, and it's a 24-7 advocate for your body." Your diet determines 80% of your results; the gym handles the remaining 20%.

You blame your genetics

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Blaming genetics is the ultimate cop-out that removes all responsibility. "It was my genetics. This was my favourite excuse," James confesses. "I would tell myself this week in, week out, just so I didn't have to feel responsible, so I didn't have to have the problem and deal with it." Your brain creates convenient stories to protect your habits and keep you comfortable. As James realized, "Your brain will create stories to protect your habits." The solution? Find one person who has achieved what you want and immerse yourself in their content and mindset. Their beliefs will gradually become yours. James learned that "Most weight loss isn't about your body. It's about reprogramming your mind."

You give up when progress slows down

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Transformation doesn't occur on a perfect upward trajectory. "Four months in, I was there. The scale hadn't moved in weeks," James remembers. That's exactly when most people quit, just before breakthrough results appear. James discovered that plateaus are normal parts of the journey, not signs that you're failing. Looking back at his before pictures during these tough times provided the perspective he needed to keep going. "When motivation does die, and it will, those photos become your fuel," James emphasizes. Every time you choose to persist when you'd rather quit, you're not just changing your body—you're rebuilding your mental resilience.

You expect fast results

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Weight loss takes time, and James had to learn patience. "I thought I was eating right, but I couldn't understand why the scales wasn't moving," he says. Society conditions us to expect immediate results, but real transformation happens gradually. James discovered that consistent small actions compound over time, creating lasting change. Rather than looking for dramatic weekly losses, he learned to appreciate subtle improvements in energy, strength, and how his clothes fit. The 50 pounds didn't disappear overnight—they melted away through consistent application of these lessons. Sustainable weight loss isn't about quick fixes; it's about building habits that last.

You try to do it all alone

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James's breakthrough moment came when a friend pushed him past his limits in the gym. "After my usual pathetic effort, I was about to put the weights down when he just said, one more rep," James recalls. That outside perspective revealed how much more he was capable of. Many of us try to tackle weight loss in isolation, either from embarrassment or believing we should be able to figure it out ourselves. But having support—whether a friend, coach, or community—provides accountability, perspective, and encouragement when motivation wanes. James learned that the right support system doesn't just make the journey easier; it makes success more likely.

You forget the mental game matters most

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At its core, James's transformation wasn't about diets or workout plans—it was about changing his relationship with himself. "Your brain made you overweight. You cannot trust it," he realized. All seven mistakes share a common thread: the battle happens in your mind before it happens in your body. "Most weight loss isn't about your body. It's about reprogramming your mind," James emphasizes. When you address the mental patterns that created your current reality, physical transformation follows naturally. That's how James lost 50 pounds, and that's the blueprint he now shares with his clients—proof that sustainable change starts from within. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Most of us know the crushing feeling of looking in the mirror and not recognizing the person staring back. James Marsden was there too, carrying an extra 50 pounds that represented more than just weight—it was physical proof of his mental struggles. "Those extra 50 pounds were not just fat, it was proof of how lazy, useless and depressed I truly was," James admits in his post. As a weight loss coach who now helps busy office workers transform their bodies without upending their lives, James has guided over 300 clients to sustainable results through practical nutrition, mindset shifts, and habit change. His journey revealed that the real battle isn't fought in the gym but in your head. Keep reading to discover the seven basic mistakes that were holding James back—fixing them might be exactly what you need to finally see results, too.

Your mind gives up too soon

Your brain is constantly trying to protect you from discomfort, even when that discomfort leads to growth. James discovered this when working out with a friend who pushed him beyond what he thought was his limit. "I was about to put the weights down when he just said, one more rep. So I pushed another rep, then he said one more again," James recalls. "Five more reps beyond what I thought was my limit. It hit me like a ton of bricks." Your body is capable of so much more than your mind allows. The real transformation happens when you push past these mental barriers. As James learned, "Progressive overload isn't just waffle. It's the only way that your body changes."

You think in all-or-nothing terms

A slice of hot Italian pizza with stretching cheese. Pizza four cheeses with basil.​1. High-Fat FoodsShutterstock

We've all been there—one slice of pizza turns into "might as well eat the whole thing because my diet is already ruined." This all-or-nothing thinking sabotaged James for months. "I remember sitting in my car outside of a fast food place with an empty bag, feeling worthless, like shit on my shoe. I was about to give up completely because I'd failed," James says. The breakthrough came when he did the math and realized that one meal represents just 5% of his weekly nutrition. One bad choice can't undo all your progress unless you let it. As James puts it, "When you mess up, just make the next meal good. This simple mindset shift is why I never fully quit again."

You worry too much about what others think

Tired young man feel pain eyestrain holding glasses rubbing dry irritated eyes fatigued from computer work, stressed man suffer from headache bad vision sight problem sit at home table using laptopShutterstock

That paralyzing fear that everyone is judging your every move at the gym? It's all in your head. James spent three months avoiding unfamiliar equipment because he was terrified of looking stupid. "I'd walk around pretending that I knew what I was doing, terrified everyone was judging me," James admits. But when he finally tried something new, he realized, "Nobody gives a damn. Everyone was completely focused on their own workout." The reality is that people are too wrapped up in their own fitness journeys to notice yours. As James learned, "Don't let your fear of judgment rob you of your results."

You don't track your progress

Healthy diet. Male hands holding a smartphone and keeping track of the calories of his food with a fitness appTrick 2: Strategic Food Tracking for SuccessShutterstock

For months, James thought he was eating right but couldn't understand why nothing changed. "The first three months of my journey, I saw no results. I actually got a lot bigger," James says. "I thought I was eating right, but I couldn't understand why the scales wasn't moving." Everything changed when he started tracking. "My breakthrough came when I started to track everything. My calories, my protein, my weight at the gym," James explains. He discovered he was consuming nowhere near enough protein. Your memory and perception will constantly lie to you about what you ate and how hard you worked. As James puts it, "What gets measured gets managed. If you're not tracking, you're just guessing."

You rely too much on the scale

Woman (only feet to be seen) standing on bathroom scale measuring her weight controlling her dieting resultsShutterstock

Motivation will inevitably die at some point. James hit this wall four months in, when the scale hadn't moved for weeks. "I felt exhausted. Started to wonder, was it even worth it?" James recalls. That negative inner voice got louder: "Look at yourself. Still fat. This isn't working. Just quit like you always do." He almost listened until he compared current photos to his before pictures. "The scale might not have moved, but my body had changed. My shoulders were way more defined. My waist was smaller," James says. These visual proofs silenced that lying voice in his head. "Take pictures from day one. Even if you hate how you look," James advises. "When motivation does die, and it will, those photos become your fuel."

You focus too much on cardio, not enough on nutrition

Sporty man training on walking treadmill at home, closeup​Effortless NEAT BoostShutterstock

Endless cardio sessions might make you feel virtuous, but they won't transform your body if your nutrition is off. "I was killing myself on the treadmill while ignoring what's on your plate," James admits. "Every day, 45 minute grueling cardio sessions, thinking I was burning fat, that I'd be so tired at the end of it that I'd need more food." When he finally tracked his nutrition and increased his protein intake from 50 to 150 grams daily while training less, his body transformed. "You cannot outrun a bad diet," James emphasizes. "One hour of intense cardio burns 500 calories, which is just one large muffin. But protein, it builds muscle, burns fat, and it's a 24-7 advocate for your body." Your diet determines 80% of your results; the gym handles the remaining 20%.

You blame your genetics

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Blaming genetics is the ultimate cop-out that removes all responsibility. "It was my genetics. This was my favourite excuse," James confesses. "I would tell myself this week in, week out, just so I didn't have to feel responsible, so I didn't have to have the problem and deal with it." Your brain creates convenient stories to protect your habits and keep you comfortable. As James realized, "Your brain will create stories to protect your habits." The solution? Find one person who has achieved what you want and immerse yourself in their content and mindset. Their beliefs will gradually become yours. James learned that "Most weight loss isn't about your body. It's about reprogramming your mind."

You give up when progress slows down

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Transformation doesn't occur on a perfect upward trajectory. "Four months in, I was there. The scale hadn't moved in weeks," James remembers. That's exactly when most people quit, just before breakthrough results appear. James discovered that plateaus are normal parts of the journey, not signs that you're failing. Looking back at his before pictures during these tough times provided the perspective he needed to keep going. "When motivation does die, and it will, those photos become your fuel," James emphasizes. Every time you choose to persist when you'd rather quit, you're not just changing your body—you're rebuilding your mental resilience.

You expect fast results

Person walking to Freedom Concept​Here’s How Many Calories You Can Burn WalkingShutterstock

Weight loss takes time, and James had to learn patience. "I thought I was eating right, but I couldn't understand why the scales wasn't moving," he says. Society conditions us to expect immediate results, but real transformation happens gradually. James discovered that consistent small actions compound over time, creating lasting change. Rather than looking for dramatic weekly losses, he learned to appreciate subtle improvements in energy, strength, and how his clothes fit. The 50 pounds didn't disappear overnight—they melted away through consistent application of these lessons. Sustainable weight loss isn't about quick fixes; it's about building habits that last.

You try to do it all alone

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James's breakthrough moment came when a friend pushed him past his limits in the gym. "After my usual pathetic effort, I was about to put the weights down when he just said, one more rep," James recalls. That outside perspective revealed how much more he was capable of. Many of us try to tackle weight loss in isolation, either from embarrassment or believing we should be able to figure it out ourselves. But having support—whether a friend, coach, or community—provides accountability, perspective, and encouragement when motivation wanes. James learned that the right support system doesn't just make the journey easier; it makes success more likely.

You forget the mental game matters most

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At its core, James's transformation wasn't about diets or workout plans—it was about changing his relationship with himself. "Your brain made you overweight. You cannot trust it," he realized. All seven mistakes share a common thread: the battle happens in your mind before it happens in your body. "Most weight loss isn't about your body. It's about reprogramming your mind," James emphasizes. When you address the mental patterns that created your current reality, physical transformation follows naturally. That's how James lost 50 pounds, and that's the blueprint he now shares with his clients—proof that sustainable change starts from within. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Coach Lost 50 Pounds with the Help of These 5 Sunday Habits
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Are you struggling to lose weight? It might be time to change some of your health habits. Gillian Ferguson of The Macro Method is a women’s nutrition coach and social media influencer “Helping you ditch diets & transform your body through macros, movement & mindset,” she maintains on her page. In a new social media post, she reveals the changes she made to lose weight. “I’ve lost 50 lbs over the last 3 1/2 years and totally transformed myself to have a lean, strong + healthy mom bod,” she writes. “Here’s what changed.”

No More Quick Fixes

The first thing she did was stop relying on quick fixes. “I stopped wasting time + money + energy on quick fixes. The constant back & forth and always searching for the next best thing was exhausting me more than I even knew,” she writes.

She Changed Her Mindset

She also changed her mindset and turned her thinking around. “I stopped believing other people were ‘lucky’ or had it easier than I do,” she says.

She Stopped Making Excuses

Another major change she made? “I stopped making excuses,” she wrote.

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She Started Being Accountable

She also started being accountable. “I committed to an approach and a coach - and wow the accountability was everything I needed,” she said.

She Got Her Priorities in Order

She got her priorities in order. “I started focusing on what I wanted MOST vs what I wanted in the moment,” she said.

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She Committed to Her Habits

She committed to her habits. “I focused hard on nailing my daily habits and routines. This ended up being critical to carry me through tough times,” she says.

She Didn’t Listen to Outside Noise

She also didn’t listen to outside chatter. “I drowned out the noise and stayed in my lane - NO MATTER WHAT,” she writes.

Boundary Setting

Boundary setting was instrumental in her success. “I learned how to set boundaries,” she writes about her eighth habit.

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She Stopped Cheating

She also didn’t allow herself to feel entitled to cheat days. “I stopped treating every weekend and holiday and vacation and girls night out and date night and party like an excuse to go off the rails,” she writes.

She Stopped Treating Herself to Junk and Booze

She stopped using junk food and booze as a crutch. “I learned I don’t need junky food and a lot of alcohol to have an amazing time,” she says.

She Stopped Trying to Out Exercise a Bad Diet

“I stopped trying to use exercise as a way to outdo a bad diet. Instead exercise and nutrition work together,” she says about her eleventh change.

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She Stopped Labeling Food as Good or Bad

She also changed the way she looks at food. “I stopped thinking of foods as good or bad and eliminated the concept of a ‘cheat meal,’” she says.

She Started Walking

She also started getting her steps in. “I started walking - a lot,” she says. A 2018 study published in the journal Obesity found a link between walking 10,000 steps a day and weight loss and weight management. Other studies published by the Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine also linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure, and fewer strokes.

She Changed Her Relationship with Alcohol

She stopped drinking her calories and relying on booze. “I totally changed my relationship with alcohol,” she says.

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She Prioritized Self-Care

Finally, she started prioritizing self-care. “I realized that taking care of myself as a mom isn’t a luxury, it’s a necessity. I am 1000% a better mom and wife now that I feel good & strong & healthy in my own skin,” she writes.

She Took the Timeline Away

“And this is a big big one and it didn’t happen until I had already lost a chunk of weight and started to feel really good about myself ….I took the timeline away and started really loving the whole process. I stopped wanting to be smaller and I started wanting to be stronger,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Do you want to lose weight but aren’t sure which habits are hurting or helping you? One expert has some suggestions. Luisana Carrero is a nutrition coach and social media influencer who knows how to lose weight and keep it off from personal experience. In a new social media post, she opens up about her journey. “4 mistakes I had to stop making before I could finally lose 28 pounds in 4 months,” she writes. “I used to think something was wrong with me, blaming my hormones and lack of willpower…Until I realized I was making these mistakes.”

Mistake: Eating Clean But Not Paying Attention to Calories

Her first mistake? “Eating clean without paying attention to the amount of calories I was consuming,” she says. “I thought eating clean meant I’d automatically lose weight 😅, but I didn’t realize that even healthy foods can lead to weight gain if you’re eating too much.”

Fix: She Used a Macro Calculator

How did she correct this mistake? “Instead, I started measuring my portions to ensure I was actually in a calorie deficit,” she writes. She recommends using a macro calculator.

Mistake: Rewarding Herself with Cheat Meals

Another mistake she made? Rewarding herselff with “cheat meals,” she says. “I’d be ‘good’ all week, then go overboard on cheat meals, turning one meal into an entire weekend of indulgence.

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Fix: Eating Mostly Healthy But Including Food She Loves

What does she do instead? “I incorporated a healthy balance of the foods I love into my daily diet (10-20% of my total calories). This made dieting less stressful and helped me stay consistent long enough,” she reveals.

Mistake: Neglecting Daily Movement

Another mistake she made? “Neglecting daily movement,” she writes. “I used to sit all day and assumed my 1-hour workouts were enough, but they weren’t.”

Fix: Daily Walks

Her fix was adding steps to her day. “Walking became a non-negotiable for me. I committed to hitting 10,000 steps every day, I do this by going on walks or using my walking pad,” she says.

Mistake: Surrounding Herself with People Who Didn’t Support Her Goals

Her final mistake? “Surrounding myself with people who didn’t support my goals,” she writes. “‘Friends’ would make fun of my choices, and I let it get to me.”

Fix: Setting Boundaries

How did she fix this? “I started setting boundaries and distanced myself from negativity. Prioritizing my own health and happiness became my focus,” she writes.

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These Small Changes Made a Big Difference

The bottom line? “These small but impactful changes completely transformed my life and I’m sure they’ll help you too,” she writes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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We've all been there – feeling uncomfortable in our own skin, wanting to make a change, but not knowing where to start. Amy Fritz knows this feeling all too well. After reaching her heaviest weight by the end of 2022, she felt miserable and ready for change. By making simple adjustments to her lifestyle—moving her body daily and fueling it with nutritious foods 80% of the time—Amy lost over 90 pounds in just 12 months. Now she's sharing the surprising mistakes she had to overcome to find success. Read on to discover what could be holding back your own weight loss journey.

Mistake 1: Focusing on the scale instead of how you feel

Many of us become obsessed with numbers on the scale, but Amy discovered a more powerful motivator. "Feeling healthy is so much more powerful than any number you will ever see on the scale," she explains in her post. Just two weeks into her journey, despite only losing about five pounds, Amy already noticed positive changes.

"The shame of making bad choices that I had been making for so long started to melt away," Amy shares. That feeling of health fueled her to keep going, even when the weight loss was slow. Now, a year into her journey, she craves those healthy habits. "If I have a couple of days where maybe I miss a workout or make some poor choices with my diet, I start to feel gross," Amy admits.

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Mistake 2: Neglecting mental health while focusing on physical changes

One of Amy's biggest realizations was that sustainable weight loss begins in the mind, not the body. "Until you're mentally ready, until you've really done the work with your mental health, it's not going to be sustainable or easy to try to focus on your physical health," Amy emphasizes.

Working with a therapist helped Amy overcome emotional eating and develop tools for making healthy choices while managing everyday stress. "You have to prioritize your mental health and what's important on the inside. And then that will snowball and reflect the outside," she says.

Mistake 3: Believing you must eliminate favorite foods

Perhaps the most surprising mistake Amy identified was thinking weight loss meant giving up foods she loved. "You do not have to cut out any specific foods or your favorite meals in order to lose weight," Amy states. She discovered that overly restricting certain foods creates a vicious cycle of craving, overeating, guilt, and more restriction.

Instead, Amy found healthier ways to enjoy her favorite meals. "When you have those cravings for foods, all you have to do is find healthier ways to make them," she explains. For example, pizza night became healthier by adding nutritional volume: "Maybe I sprinkle on a bunch of fresh veggies, or what I really love to do is toss some arugula and some olive oil and balsamic and top that on my pizza."

Mistake 4: Tracking calories too rigidly

Amy initially thought successful weight loss meant sticking to a strict daily calorie limit—a common but often unsustainable approach. "You don't have to track your calories by the day," Amy reveals. Instead, she discovered the power of weekly tracking.

"If you want to lose one pound a week, you have to be in at least a deficit of 3500 calories on the week," Amy explains. This flexibility allowed her to enjoy date nights without guilt while still meeting her goals. "I have date night every Friday night. And so you better be sure I use one of my larger calorie days for Friday so I can go out and enjoy myself and not have to worry and feel like I've fallen off the wagon."

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Mistake 5: Putting exercise last on your priority list

Making exercise an "if I have time" activity was a major error Amy had to correct. "You have to prioritize movement and exercise really high when you're on a journey like this. You have to make it almost your number one priority or else it's not going to get done," Amy stresses.

She learned to stop waiting for the perfect moment when everything else was in order. "Leave the kitchen a mess, leave the bedroom a mess, leave the pile of laundry, let something go so that you can go move your body because you matter and you'll feel better," Amy advises. Putting herself first with exercise actually improved her ability to handle other responsibilities.

Why waiting for motivation doesn't work

Many people make the mistake of waiting until they feel motivated to start exercising or eating better. Amy discovered that action comes first, motivation follows. "You'll start to feel good long before you see results on the scale," she points out. The feeling of making healthy choices daily becomes its own reward and generates the motivation to continue.

The perfectionism trap that sabotages progress

Amy admits she used to think everything had to be perfect before she could focus on her health. "So many times last year and before beginning this journey, I would say, man, I can only go to the gym if the whole house is clean," she recalls. This perfectionism kept her from taking action. Learning to let go of perfect and embrace progress was key to her success.

How meal repetition simplifies weight loss

Contrary to popular advice about needing endless variety, Amy found freedom in keeping meals simple. "It is okay if you found a recipe that is highly nutritional, that you love, that your whole family loves, that supports everyone's goals. It is okay to make that two or three times a week," Amy reassures.

Sheet pan dinners and taco nights became staples in her home. "We do taco night at least once a week, sometimes twice a week," she admits. Finding a few healthy meals that work and repeating them eliminated decision fatigue and simplified her journey.

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Why adding nutrition works better than restriction

Rather than focusing on what to eliminate, Amy discovered the power of adding nutrition to her plate. "Add some more nutrition to your plate and really add some volume to your plate so that you can control the portions," she explains. This approach—eating more vegetables and nutrient-dense foods alongside smaller portions of more indulgent items—kept her satisfied without feeling deprived.

The mindset shift that makes habits stick

Eventually, Amy's healthy choices became automatic. "Now that I'm a year in, I still have a long way to go. I can truly say the feeling of eating healthy and moving my body is not only habitual, but it's something I crave," she shares. This transformation from forcing herself to do healthy activities to actually desiring them was the ultimate key to her success.

Amy's journey proves that sustainable weight loss doesn't require extreme measures or suffering. By avoiding these five unexpected mistakes—focusing too much on the scale, neglecting mental health, eliminating favorite foods, tracking calories too rigidly, and putting exercise last—she created lasting change. Her approach balanced enjoyment with progress, proving that weight loss doesn't have to be miserable to be effective. Start today by addressing these common mistakes in your own journey—you've got this! And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these20 Superfoods for People Over 50

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Are you trying to lose weight but aren’t getting the results you want? You could be making easy-to-change mistakes in your morning routine, claims an expert. Stefanie is a weight loss warrior who has dropped 33 pounds and helps others do the same. In a new social media post, she reveals morning habits that will prevent you from achieving your goals. “Here are five things you should avoid in the morning if you want to lose weight,” she writes.

Don’t Skip Breakfast

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While some claim intermittent fasting is the key to losing weight, Stefanie disagrees. She believes that skipping breakfast is a big mistake. “A healthy breakfast stimulates the metabolism and helps to avoid cravings throughout the day,” she writes.

Don’t Drink Too Little Water

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“Too little water to drink” is a significant mistake if you are trying to lose weight, says Stefanie. “Hydration is crucial for metabolism. Start the day with a glass of water to get your body going,” she says. According to the Mayo Clinic, hydration is essential for various reasons. Water helps eliminate waste through urination, perspiration, and bowel movements, keeps your temperature regular, lubricates and cushions joints, and helps protect sensitive tissues.

Don’t Eat High-Sugar Foods

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“Eating high-sugar foods,” first thing in the morning is a sure-fire way to derail your diet. “Avoid sugary cereals or pastries in the morning, as they quickly increase and drop blood sugar levels, which leads to cravings,” she says.

Don’t Be Sedentary

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Another mistake in the morning that many people make is that they “Do not move,” she says. “Morning exercise, be it a short walk or light stretching, can boost the metabolism and prepare the body for the day.”

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Don’t Drink Too Much Coffee

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Coffee may give you energy to start the day, but don’t overdo it, warns Stefanie. “Drink too much coffee,” is her fifth and final morning mistake. “Coffee in moderation is okay, but too much caffeine can suppress the appetite and later lead to eating. Try to even out the coffee with enough water,” she suggests. According to the Cleveland Clinic, drinking coffee in moderation has several benefits. “It acts on your brain to improve memory, mood, reaction times, and mental function,” they say, citing a study finding that caffeine can improve endurance and performance during exercise. It is also antioxidant-rich, can ward off diabetes, prevent neurologic disease, lower cancer risk, and ward off depression, they point out. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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We've all been there – struggling to find an exercise routine that actually works while watching the scale refuse to budge. Kathleen Hart, Mindset & Weight Loss Coach, knows this challenge all too well. After losing 55 pounds three separate times and keeping it off for over 3 years, Kathleen has built a following of nearly 100,000 subscribers on her YouTube channel lil Piece of Hart by sharing practical, sustainable weight loss strategies. Her secret weapon? Walking 10,000 steps daily – a simple habit that helped her drop from 200 pounds to 138. Read on to discover how this accessible exercise can transform your body and mindset without complicated workout routines.

The 10,000 Step Secret

Walking might seem too simple to be effective, but Kathleen swears it's "probably the best exercise you can do for weight loss." She explains that getting her steps in every day was "literally the exact key" to how she lost over 55 pounds three times. The beauty of walking, Kathleen points out, is that unlike other exercises, it "does not feel like exercise" – it's enjoyable and incredibly beneficial for your body. Her personal sweet spot? "I aim to get about 10,000 steps every day and I feel like that is my sweet spot," Kathleen shares.

Perfect for Exercise-Haters

If traditional workouts make you cringe, you're not alone. "I hate exercising. There you go, I said it," Kathleen confesses. She doesn't enjoy home workout videos or going to the gym. Yet walking provides a perfect alternative because it's fun and doesn't feel like a chore. Kathleen tried following online workout programs but couldn't stick with them, whereas walking became something she genuinely looks forward to daily.

Anyone Can Do It

One major advantage of walking is its accessibility. "Anyone can do it, all ages, and it is a low impact workout," Kathleen emphasizes. You won't put stress on your joints or knees while still burning calories. Since most people can walk for long distances and periods, it's an exercise option that doesn't require special skills or equipment. Kathleen recommends this approach especially for those who think they can only walk for a few minutes – just aim to add slightly more time each day.

Belly Fat Buster

Looking to target stubborn belly fat? Walking might be your answer. "Walking can reduce belly fat because regular walking can help your body's response to insulin, which is where you hold your belly fat," Kathleen shares from personal experience. Plus, it boosts your metabolism, which helps with overall weight loss. While spot reduction isn't generally possible, improving insulin sensitivity through regular walking can significantly impact how your body stores fat around your midsection.

Mental Health Benefits

Physical transformation isn't the only benefit of daily walks. "Walking is awesome for your mental health," Kathleen stresses. It modifies your nervous system and can actually decrease feelings of anger and stress hormone production. Taking time for yourself during walks provides valuable "me time" that many of us overlook. Kathleen believes mindset is just as important as exercise and nutrition in your weight loss journey, making walking a powerful tool for both physical and mental wellness.

Health Beyond Weight Loss

The benefits of walking extend far beyond just losing pounds. Kathleen explains that regular walking "has the power to lower your blood sugar," reducing your overall diabetes risk. It also helps lower blood pressure and aids in healthy digestion. Additionally, walking strengthens your bones and muscles by maintaining range of motion and improving blood flow. For Kathleen, these health benefits make walking worthwhile even beyond its weight loss effects.

Vitamin D Boost

Taking your walks outdoors provides an additional benefit: natural vitamin D from sunshine. "I'm right in the sun, as you can see me squinting. This is so good for you," Kathleen says enthusiastically. This natural vitamin source contributes to better overall health and can improve your mood. Combined with the physical activity, outdoor walking creates a powerful wellness combination that indoor exercises can't match.

Better Sleep and Stress Relief

Establishing a walking routine creates positive ripple effects throughout your life. Kathleen points out that "by walking and getting more steps and getting your vitamin D and improving your digestion, you are going to get better sleep." Walking also serves as an effective stress reliever by modifying your nervous system to release anger. These benefits create a positive cycle – better sleep leads to better mood, which makes it easier to maintain healthy habits.

Start Small and Build Up

For beginners, Kathleen recommends starting slow: "See how many steps you're walking right now every single day, and just make an improvement a little bit each day." There's no need to jump from 2,000 to 10,000 steps immediately. "It doesn't have to go from 2,000 steps a day all the way up to 10,000 steps in one day," Kathleen emphasizes. When she began her weight loss journey in 2013, she was walking fewer than 2,000 steps daily with her desk job, but evening walks with her husband and dogs became a turning point.

Track Your Progress

Using a fitness tracker can significantly boost motivation. "Fitbits are a great place to start if you're just trying to track your steps," Kathleen advises, though she's since upgraded to an Apple Watch. She finds step tracking "a little bit addicting" because "you like when your Fitbit buzzes and you see your little step goal going up." This immediate feedback creates a rewarding experience that helps maintain consistency in your walking routine.

Challenge Yourself

Once you've established a walking routine, it's time to increase the challenge. Kathleen suggests walking faster: "Push yourself just a little bit faster. Start off slow if you need to and then increase how fast you're walking." For treadmill users, she recommends a structured workout: start with a 2-3 minute slow warmup, then alternate between fast walking (one minute) and medium pace (one minute) for 20-25 minutes, followed by a 2-3 minute cooldown. This interval approach maximizes calorie burn without overwhelming your body.

The 10K Steps Weight Loss Formula

Through trial and error, Kathleen discovered her personal step goal: "I aim to get about 10,000 steps every day and I feel like that is my sweet spot." This target allows her flexibility with her diet while still making progress toward her goals. "That helps me have a little bit of wiggle room with my diet and still be able to crush my goals," Kathleen explains. She shares that she's currently down to 138 pounds from her starting weight of 200 pounds after having her daughter. Finding your personal "sweet spot" might take experimentation, but Kathleen encourages consistency over perfection.

Real Results, No Magic Pills

Weight loss isn't a quick fix, as Kathleen candidly shares: "There's no magic weight loss pill. There's no like apple cider vinegar drink that you can drink that'll just make you drop pounds." Instead, she encourages readers to "start enjoying the journey and the whole thing will change for you." Walking provides a sustainable approach that can become an enjoyable part of your daily life rather than another dreaded obligation. "Losing weight is a journey," Kathleen reminds us, and her impressive 50-pound weight loss in 5 months through walking 10,000 steps daily proves that simple, consistent habits can create dramatic transformations. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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If you have over 50 pounds to lose, it can feel overwhelming. One way to ease the burden is by getting advice from weight loss warriors who have successfully gotten in shape and are sharing their solutions. Tara Dixon is a personal trainer and online coach who helps women “find the best version of themselves, lose weight & break free from fad diets,” she writes in her Instagram bio. In a recent social media post, she revealed her top 5 asked questions about how she lost 84 lbs in a year. “Just remember what worked for me might not work for everyone!” she reminded.

I Worked Out My Calorie Deficit

“How do you work out your calorie deficit?” is the top question she is asked. “I guessed at first… and guess what? I wasn’t eating enough 🤣. And then I found out about a TDEE calculator (I used a free one online) and this should give you your deficit. 3 months into my journey, I started working with a coach (worth its weight in gold if this is something you can afford). My top tips with this… always make sure you are eating enough, you can’t function and workout effectively if you don’t eat enough. Don’t stress too much over cals: try it for a week, if you’re being honest with your tracking and still not losing weight, you can lower it slightly. Keep it simple,” she said.

I Tracked My Macros

Next, she is regularly asked about how she tracked her macros. “What do I track with? NUTRACHECK. I find it simple and clear. Easy to track cals and protein,” she reveals.

I Ate Enough Protein

Protein is another core part of any weight loss journey, and Tara made sure to eat enough. “How do I get 150g protein in every day?” is another FAQ her followers have. “Plan your meals around your protein and make sure your breakfast is protein heavy so you’re not chasing your tail all day long,” she responds.

I Cut Out Alcohol

A lot of people also want to know: “Did you cut out alcohol?” she says. “I did at first as I was so determined to lose weight, but I have since reintroduced it. Just remember nothing is forever and it’s ok to stop something for a bit if it’s not serving you in a positive way.”

I Prioritized Nutrition Over Exercise

The last question: Is exercise more important than diet? “Nooooo. You cannot outrun a bad diet. For weight loss it’s all about nutrition and calorie deficit. Steps second and then exercise. So if you’re strapped for time but really want to lose weight, prioritise your nutrition,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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The Challenge That Changes Everything

We all have moments when we look in the mirror and don't recognize the person staring back. Jennifer Madison found herself at that crossroads and decided to take action. "It was honestly kind of on a whim that I decided to do this," Jennifer admits in her post. "I gave up alcohol not too long ago, just because I wanted to feel better about myself, and I felt like alcohol wasn't helping with any of my goals." Her journey began after hitting 38 days alcohol-free, coincidentally the same number of days she lasted in her previous 75 Hard attempt. This time would be different. Discover how this ordinary woman achieved extraordinary results through pure determination.

What Is 75 Hard Anyway?

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75 Hard isn't just another fitness challenge—it's a complete mental toughness program designed to transform your life through discipline. The rules are simple but demanding: take a daily progress photo, drink a gallon of water, follow a diet with no cheat meals or alcohol, complete two 45-minute workouts (one outdoors regardless of weather), and read 10 pages of a non-fiction book. Miss one task, and you start over at day one. "If you're already looking for excuses, there are plenty out there," Jennifer says. "There will always be an important event coming up. The weather won't always be 70 and sunny." But the rewards are worth every sacrifice.

The First Week Breakthrough

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Committing to something is always easier than maintaining it, especially when old habits try to pull you back. Jennifer started strong but knew the real challenge would come during her commute days. "I don't know yet if I'm going to share this, or if I want to put it out there again with the world that I'm trying again," she confessed early on. "I know my family is not going to want me to do this again, so I haven't told anyone because I truly was at a really, really dark place last time." Despite her doubts, the results came quickly—she dropped 5.2 pounds in just one week, proving that immediate payoff can fuel long-term commitment.

Overcoming Social Pressure

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Social situations become minefields when you're committed to strict habits. Jennifer faced this head-on during work dinners and celebrations. "Everyone was drinking wine. They were like, 'Oh Jen didn't get a glass.' They told the waiter it was my birthday. He got me a little shot of vodka and pineapple juice. I gave it to a co-worker," Jennifer recalls. She even resorted to smashing cake into a napkin to avoid breaking her commitment when pressured to eat dessert. While these moments were challenging, they strengthened her resolve and showed that saying "no" gets easier with practice.

The Weather Won't Stop You

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Mother Nature doesn't care about your fitness goals, but true transformation means persevering anyway. "It's pouring. So this is what I looked like coming back into work. I'm soaked. My pants are soaked. My shoes are soaked. My socks are soaked. I look like a wet dog but I got my 45 minutes in so that's what counts," Jennifer shared after a particularly brutal outdoor workout. Through rain, cold, and exhaustion, she never missed a day. Your excuses about weather conditions will seem insignificant after seeing what's possible with true commitment.

Hitting the 38-Day Milestone

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Breaking past your previous failure point creates powerful momentum. Day 38 marked a significant psychological milestone for Jennifer—the day she had given up during her first attempt. "I am feeling so happy. My spirits are very high. I am on cloud nine, honestly," Jennifer revealed. "I'm gonna accomplish it this time around. I know I'm gonna hit all 75 days." Pushing through your former breaking point proves that your past doesn't define your future. You can rewrite your story with persistence.

The Physical Transformation

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Consistent effort yields undeniable results. Jennifer lost an impressive 25 pounds during her 75 Hard journey, but the benefits went far beyond numbers on a scale. "My mom kept commenting on how my face looks so much skinnier. I just look in the mirror and I look at myself in the camera so much that I don't really notice the changes," Jennifer remarked. Sometimes others notice our transformation before we do. Your daily progress may seem small, but others will see the dramatic difference when your discipline accumulates over weeks and months.

Developing Healthy Nutrition Habits

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Food discipline isn't just about following rules—it's about developing better awareness of your body's actual needs. "Something I really struggle with and something I'm really working on is trying to control food noise and figuring out am I eating because I feel like it's time to eat or am I eating because I'm hungry," Jennifer shared. Throughout the challenge, she learned to resist social eating cues and listen to her body instead. You'll discover that many of your eating habits are based on convenience or social pressure rather than genuine hunger.

Finding Joy in Movement

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Exercise becomes something you crave rather than dread when it becomes part of your identity. Jennifer gradually shifted from reluctant workouts to enthusiastic movement. "I feel so good. If I could, I would do midday workouts all the time. I feel like I have the most energy to do my best workouts," she noticed by the end of her journey. Your relationship with physical activity can transform completely when you commit to consistent practice regardless of motivation.

The Mental Transformation

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The physical changes are impressive, but the mental shift is what truly lasts. "I give up too often and I'm changing who I am. I'm not that person anymore. I don't give up on things. I follow through with things. I accomplish my goals," Jennifer declared during the final third of her challenge. This mental toughness extends to every area of life, from career ambitions to personal relationships. You'll develop a proven track record with yourself that builds unshakable self-trust.

Life After 75 Hard

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Completing a challenge means nothing if you return to old habits. The true test comes after day 75. "In the nearly two months that have passed since doing 75 Hard, I've lost even more weight and feel better than I ever did," Jennifer reported. She maintained her reading habit, consistent workouts, outdoor walks, and even added weight training. The challenge provided the structure to develop habits that became a sustainable lifestyle. Your transformation doesn't have to end when the challenge does.

Start Your Own Transformation Today

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Jennifer's journey proves that ordinary people can achieve extraordinary results through consistent discipline. She started just like you—uncertain, with plenty of excuses and past failures. Yet 75 days of unwavering commitment completely transformed both her body and mindset. "If someone told you that you could change your entire life in just two and a half months, would you do the work necessary to make the change?" Jennifer asks. The answer is up to you, but her results speak for themselves. What could you accomplish in the next 75 days? And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.