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Woman Tried the Dopamine Menu to Break Free From Her Phone and Here's What Happened

Transform your screen time into meaningful moments with this science-backed approach.

Christopher Roback
By Christopher RobackDec 23, 2024
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Like many of us, Sophie found herself trapped in an endless cycle of screen time. Every free moment, every little break, became another opportunity to reach for her phone. "In our free time, it's so easy to slip into doom scrolling, mindless browsing, or binge-watching," she admits. But through a simple yet powerful tool called the dopamine menu, this creator of Malama Life discovered a way to break free.

After trading her fast-paced Korean lifestyle for a mindful life in Portugal, where she lives with her husband and two dogs, Sophie has been sharing her journey toward intentional living with over 700,000 YouTube subscribers. Her latest experiment with the dopamine menu didn't just help her overcome phone addiction – it transformed her entire approach to daily joy.

Understanding the Dopamine Menu

A dopamine menu is a personalized list of activities that naturally boost your mood and make you feel good. It's essentially a self-care toolkit you can turn to instead of your phone when you need a pick-me-up. Dr. Mike Sevilla, a family physician, explains, "A dopamine menu is a group of activities that would give you a positive dopamine experience, and many would call these positive self-care behaviors."

How This Menu Changes Your Brain

The menu works by dividing activities into sections like appetizers (quick, easy activities), main courses (longer, more engaging tasks), and desserts (special treats). By choosing these activities instead of reaching for your phone, you naturally boost your dopamine levels, which is associated with feelings of pleasure and reward. As psychotherapist Michelle Hunt notes, "Understanding and addressing dopamine levels can significantly enhance an individual's ability to cope with the ups and downs of daily life."

Create Your Phone-Free Joy List

"In the busyness of life, we forget what really brings us joy and fall into habits that don't really serve us," Sophie explains in her post. Her solution? Creating a detailed menu of alternatives to scrolling. "It's like having a written list of our go-to activities to help us make better choices," she adds, comparing it to avoiding grocery shopping when hungry – a simple strategy that prevents impulsive decisions.

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat

Quick Alternatives to Phone Breaks

Sophie's breakthrough came when she identified her phone triggers. "I noticed I tend to reach for my phone whenever I need a little break," she shares. Her solution was simple but effective: "Making a herbal infusion instead of consuming more information. This is an actual break from my day, and I always feel refreshed afterwards."

Make Better Choices Easy

"You know how they say to build good habits, we have to make it as easy as possible?" Sophie asks. She demonstrates this by keeping a yoga mat next to her desk, making movement an easy alternative to phone scrolling. "Sometimes it even turns into a mini workout session," she notes, followed by breathing exercises that help calm her nerves.

Use Music Instead of Social Media

"Nothing resonates with us emotionally quite like music," Sophie shares. Instead of opening social media apps, she now reaches for her earbuds. "No matter what's going on in my life, no matter how hectic things get, listening to my favorite playlist can instantly aid my mood," she explains. Whether in the car, cooking, or showering, music provides the emotional boost she used to seek from her phone.

Replace Scrolling With Creating

For longer breaks, Sophie turned to creative projects. "Our current creative project is to make all the art pieces for our home," she reveals. "It's rewarding to learn things along the way and also to display something that we made ourselves." This hands-on approach provides a more fulfilling alternative to endless content consumption.

RELATED:12 Everyday Food Swaps That Helped This Mom Drop 120 Pounds Without Feeling Hungry

Learn Instead of Like

"Learning a slow skill is the best way to slow down and appreciate the gradual progress," Sophie advises. Whether it's playing an instrument, baking from scratch, or in her case, learning Portuguese, the key is finding joy in the journey. She proves that even a few minutes – time usually spent scrolling – can contribute to meaningful progress.

Feed Your Body, Not Your Feed

Instead of mindlessly snacking while scrolling, Sophie emphasizes mindful nourishment. "Having healthy homemade snacks around is so crucial," she says, sharing her excitement about creating new recipes like chia pudding and chocolate-drizzled almond butter dates. This approach transforms snack time from a distracted phone session into a moment of intentional self-care.

Look Up, Not Down

"The purpose of a sensory walk is to discover new sights and sounds," Sophie explains. She now uses her camera to notice details she'd usually miss while looking at her phone. "Most of us have to be on our screens for a big chunk of the day, so going out, getting fresh air and discovering new things is the best way to reset our senses again."

RELATED:10 Warning Signs Your Body Needs More Protein Right Now

Shop Your Closet, Not Your Apps

For the "specials" section of her menu, Sophie replaced online shopping with creative alternatives. "If I ever feel the urge to buy something, I'll go into my closet and just try on all of my clothes," she shares. This practice helps her appreciate what she already owns while creating new outfit combinations – without opening a single shopping app.

Find Real-World Joy

Sophie's favorite phone-free discovery has been exploring Lisbon's parks. "They're so unique to the neighborhood, the trees, the views, the energy is all so different," she enthuses. Her simple yet profound observation captures the essence of life beyond screens: "We really don't need much at all to feel good sometimes. Just sitting quietly on a bench and watching life go by is all we need."

"You'd be surprised how a few small changes in our day can make such a big difference," Sophie concludes. Ready to create your own menu of phone-free happiness? And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Christopher Roback
By Christopher RobackDec 23, 2024
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Christopher Roback is an experienced news journalist specializing in political, science, and crime news.
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Like many of us, Sophie found herself trapped in an endless cycle of screen time. Every free moment, every little break, became another opportunity to reach for her phone. "In our free time, it's so easy to slip into doom scrolling, mindless browsing, or binge-watching," she admits. But through a simple yet powerful tool called the dopamine menu, this creator of Malama Life discovered a way to break free.

After trading her fast-paced Korean lifestyle for a mindful life in Portugal, where she lives with her husband and two dogs, Sophie has been sharing her journey toward intentional living with over 700,000 YouTube subscribers. Her latest experiment with the dopamine menu didn't just help her overcome phone addiction – it transformed her entire approach to daily joy.

Understanding the Dopamine Menu

A dopamine menu is a personalized list of activities that naturally boost your mood and make you feel good. It's essentially a self-care toolkit you can turn to instead of your phone when you need a pick-me-up. Dr. Mike Sevilla, a family physician, explains, "A dopamine menu is a group of activities that would give you a positive dopamine experience, and many would call these positive self-care behaviors."

How This Menu Changes Your Brain

The menu works by dividing activities into sections like appetizers (quick, easy activities), main courses (longer, more engaging tasks), and desserts (special treats). By choosing these activities instead of reaching for your phone, you naturally boost your dopamine levels, which is associated with feelings of pleasure and reward. As psychotherapist Michelle Hunt notes, "Understanding and addressing dopamine levels can significantly enhance an individual's ability to cope with the ups and downs of daily life."

Create Your Phone-Free Joy List

"In the busyness of life, we forget what really brings us joy and fall into habits that don't really serve us," Sophie explains in her post. Her solution? Creating a detailed menu of alternatives to scrolling. "It's like having a written list of our go-to activities to help us make better choices," she adds, comparing it to avoiding grocery shopping when hungry – a simple strategy that prevents impulsive decisions.

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat

Quick Alternatives to Phone Breaks

Sophie's breakthrough came when she identified her phone triggers. "I noticed I tend to reach for my phone whenever I need a little break," she shares. Her solution was simple but effective: "Making a herbal infusion instead of consuming more information. This is an actual break from my day, and I always feel refreshed afterwards."

Make Better Choices Easy

"You know how they say to build good habits, we have to make it as easy as possible?" Sophie asks. She demonstrates this by keeping a yoga mat next to her desk, making movement an easy alternative to phone scrolling. "Sometimes it even turns into a mini workout session," she notes, followed by breathing exercises that help calm her nerves.

Use Music Instead of Social Media

"Nothing resonates with us emotionally quite like music," Sophie shares. Instead of opening social media apps, she now reaches for her earbuds. "No matter what's going on in my life, no matter how hectic things get, listening to my favorite playlist can instantly aid my mood," she explains. Whether in the car, cooking, or showering, music provides the emotional boost she used to seek from her phone.

Replace Scrolling With Creating

For longer breaks, Sophie turned to creative projects. "Our current creative project is to make all the art pieces for our home," she reveals. "It's rewarding to learn things along the way and also to display something that we made ourselves." This hands-on approach provides a more fulfilling alternative to endless content consumption.

RELATED:12 Everyday Food Swaps That Helped This Mom Drop 120 Pounds Without Feeling Hungry

Learn Instead of Like

"Learning a slow skill is the best way to slow down and appreciate the gradual progress," Sophie advises. Whether it's playing an instrument, baking from scratch, or in her case, learning Portuguese, the key is finding joy in the journey. She proves that even a few minutes – time usually spent scrolling – can contribute to meaningful progress.

Feed Your Body, Not Your Feed

Instead of mindlessly snacking while scrolling, Sophie emphasizes mindful nourishment. "Having healthy homemade snacks around is so crucial," she says, sharing her excitement about creating new recipes like chia pudding and chocolate-drizzled almond butter dates. This approach transforms snack time from a distracted phone session into a moment of intentional self-care.

Look Up, Not Down

"The purpose of a sensory walk is to discover new sights and sounds," Sophie explains. She now uses her camera to notice details she'd usually miss while looking at her phone. "Most of us have to be on our screens for a big chunk of the day, so going out, getting fresh air and discovering new things is the best way to reset our senses again."

RELATED:10 Warning Signs Your Body Needs More Protein Right Now

Shop Your Closet, Not Your Apps

For the "specials" section of her menu, Sophie replaced online shopping with creative alternatives. "If I ever feel the urge to buy something, I'll go into my closet and just try on all of my clothes," she shares. This practice helps her appreciate what she already owns while creating new outfit combinations – without opening a single shopping app.

Find Real-World Joy

Sophie's favorite phone-free discovery has been exploring Lisbon's parks. "They're so unique to the neighborhood, the trees, the views, the energy is all so different," she enthuses. Her simple yet profound observation captures the essence of life beyond screens: "We really don't need much at all to feel good sometimes. Just sitting quietly on a bench and watching life go by is all we need."

"You'd be surprised how a few small changes in our day can make such a big difference," Sophie concludes. Ready to create your own menu of phone-free happiness? And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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5 Things This Health Coach Quit Doing to Beat Binge Eating and Transform Her Body

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By Leah GrothOct 13, 2024
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Dierdre Rae is showing off her before-and-after transformation – in a crop top. In a new social media post, the London-based certified health and wellness coach discusses her health journey, revealing how she overcame an eating disorder to become the healthiest version of herself. In the before photo from 2019, she did “hours of exercise every day, massively undereating for days and then binging, the body is constantly swollen and bloated.” Now, in 2024, she has a more balanced approach to diet and exercise and is healthier than ever. Here is how she did it.

She Achieved “Food Freedom” After a 10-Year-Long Eating Disorder Battle

“Food freedom is never something I thought I’d be able to have (for reference, I’m around the same weight in both photos). It was a 10-year battle, but here we are over 5 years later - intuitive eating, never calorie counting, doing the exercise I enjoy, resting without guilt, and not constantly thinking and worrying about food/body image,” she writes in her post. “If you’re struggling, I have a free binge guide in my bio 🫶🏻 (just some tips from me that helped heal binge eating habits for myself, some of my friends, and clients 💗), but here are a few things that helped me start to recover.”

She Read This Book

First, she suggests ordering a book. Buying the book ‘brain over binge’ by Kathryn Hansen (in her Amazon storefront or on audible, was a game-changer. “There’s a book and a recovery guide, make sure you get the book,” she says.

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She Balanced Her Breakfast

Next, she tackled her diet, starting with breakfast. “Eating a balanced breakfast (protein, fats, AND carbs) the morning after a binge/overeating to balance out blood sugars,” she says.

She Quit Dieting

After years of yo-yo dieting and seriously restricting food, Dierdre gave up crash diets for good. “I completely stopped dieting and trying to lose weight (had to sit with that anxiety),” she writes.

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She Reversed Negative Thoughts

She also changed her thought process. “I started standing up for myself by not letting unchecked intrusive thoughts come into my brain. I reversed any negative thought about my body and food into something I’d believe,” she writes.

She Shifted From “Intense Cardio” to Weight Lifting and Walking

She also shifted her approach to exercise. “I stopped all intense cardio while recovering. I only weight lifted and walked. (intense cardio can mimic binge symptoms and make you ravenous),” she explains.

She Incorporated “Fear Foods” Into Her Diet

And lastly, she “ate and incorporated my fear foods EVERY day,” she reveals. “It helped to take away the feeling that if I ate something ‘bad,’ the whole day wasn’t ruined; therefore, I was less likely to binge (I had cake after lunch every day for an entire summer). IT’S NORMAL to overeat it in the beginning, but it’s about practicing taking those foods off of the pedestal we’ve placed them on.”

RELATED: I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 4 Fall Comfort Foods That Can Help You Lose Weight

Stretching Is Also Important

She discusses how important and “underrated” stretching is in another post. “Getting workouts in is incredible, but mobilizing your body has just as many benefits. I know that stretching is easy to skip out on, especially after you’ve finished a workout. Still, even a few minutes of stretching can have massive benefits,” she writes, listing benefits such as muscle recovery, injury prevention, increased range of motion in joints, enhanced muscle performance, can help improve posture, promotes blood circulation, can relieve stress, enhances athletic performance, and reduces muscle stiffness and soreness. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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3 Things That Helped Me Break the Cycle of Yo-Yo Dieting

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By Leah GrothApr 19, 2024
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Are you struggling to break the pattern of yo-yo dieting? Fitness influencer and online coach Jenna Rizzo helps women get in shape in a natural way – via diet and exercise. In one of her posts, she discusses the push-and-pull of dieting and how to break it. “If you are sick of yo-yo dieting and gaining and losing the same 10 to 20 pounds, listen up. My name's Jen. I've been a fitness coach for the past six years, and I specialize in women's weight loss,” she says in the clip. Body Network’s Resident RDN, The Diet Diva, Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CPT, a Board Certified Sports Dietitian and co-author of the Flat Belly Cookbook for Dummies, weighs in on what she has to say.

Rizzo Would Diet Monday Through Friday and Indulge on the Weekends

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“Back when I first started my fitness journey, I fell into a really bad cycle of yo-yo dieting,” Rizzo confesses. “I would restrict myself so much during the week and lose a bunch of weight Monday through Friday, but weekends were like my Achilles heel, like I would go crazy and eat everything. Here are the three things that help me break the cycle once and for all.”

She Let Go of Perfection

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“Number one, I let go of trying to be perfect on my diet throughout the week,” she explains. “When I say I tracked everything, I mean it, every gram, every ounce, every milliliter, everything was accounted for. I had it in my brain that I was either a hundred percent perfect or a hundred percent off the rail and there was no in between. So letting go of that mentality is truly what helped me find balance. And I do still track now if I'm just trying to tighten up, but it's much more laid back. I'm just tracking to make sure I'm eating enough and actually getting enough protein in.”

Related: This Is Exactly How to Lose Body Fat This Year

She Loosened Her Food Rules

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“Number two, I slowly let go of these food rules that I'd set for myself, like eating super low calorie on a day,” she says, adding that she stopped telling herself “that some foods are good and some foods are cheating foods.” Once she let go of the rules, “food just became food again,” she said. “Like I eat healthy now because it makes me feel good, not because I have some anxiety about getting out of shape.”

She Allowed Herself to What She Wanted, When She Wanted It

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This led her to number three. “I allowed myself to eat the foods I wanted, and no doubt this was the hardest one to control in the beginning,” she said. “But once I started to allow myself to just eat kind of whatever I wanted when it sounded good to me, it allowed food to not be such a big deal anymore. So it wasn't something I felt like I needed to binge on because I couldn't have it again, if that makes sense.”

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Body Network's Expert Weighs In

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Being too regimented and “weighing and measuring every morsel of food you eat definitely takes the fun out of eating and creates an atmosphere of guilt when you have a minor little slip,” agrees Collingwood. However, tracking for a while is “great for awareness of how many calories are in foods and approximately how many you are getting in a day, but getting too strict has it’s downfalls and can create an eating disorder mindset,” she says.

As for food rules, having the mindset of balance is key to fueling yourself well, she says. “Your attitude on food can go a long way to a peaceful mind. If you are constantly attaching guilt or praise to certain foods you are putting too much emotion into foods and that can then affect your mental and emotional state in other areas of your life. Looking at food as nourishing and positive for health instead of evil for weight gain is a huge step for a lot of chronic dieters,” she explains. And, too strict rules lead to rules being broken “and sometimes going way overboard the other way,” she says.

“I have seen people undo 6 days of really strict eating in just one ‘cheat’ meal because they eat way too much in that meal. Allowing yourself to have all kinds of foods in moderation rather than binging helps to maintain normalized eating and a feeling of peace around food.”

💪🔥Body Booster: If you are struggling with binge eating or yo-yo dieting, try and reset your relationship with food.

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8 Things That Helped Me Break My Sugar Addiction and Lose 30 Pounds

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By Leah GrothJun 14, 2024
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Are you struggling to lose weight? Vivian Ngo (@vivianngo) is a fat loss coach and the creator of Team Evolve, a fat loss mastery program utilizing the tools that helped her get into the best shape of her life. In her viral TikTok and YouTube videos she reveals her secrets to breaking her sugar addiction and unhealthy binge-eating habits so that she could lose 30 pounds and get into the best shape of her life.

She Struggled with Yo-Yo Dieting for 10 Years

“I thought that I would be stuck in the Yo-yo dieting, binge eating, restricting my calories, and then overeating, losing the weight just to gain it all back. I genuinely thought that I was going to be stuck in that cycle for the rest of my life because I was in it for over 10 years,” Ngo says in a YouTube clip.

She Says “Nothing Worked”

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“I felt like I tried everything, everything, and nothing worked. Nothing kept the weight off. And I can tell you right now that I'm sitting here today down 30 pounds, kept it off for years, and I have never felt better in my skin,” she claims.

However, Now She Has Tools to Overcome It

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By far one of the HARDEST habits I’ve ever had to break. ↴ I was terrified of getting fat that I couldn’t NOT overcompensate my binges. It wasn’t until I was dead set on OVERCOMING binge eating once and for all, That I knew I had to stop the restricting portion in order to stop the bingeing portion, because they fed into one another. But once you teach your mind & body that it won’t be punished for overeating or bingeing, And you start leaning into kindness & compassion for yourself… SHOCKINGLY: the binges stop, too. But it’s scary at first, because you’re so terrified to gain weight that the thoughts of wanting to restrict are SO strong. Learning how to sit with those thoughts, but NOT listen to them is a vital part of recovery. You CAN do it, my friend. ✨ If you’re READY to overcome yo-yo dieting and MASTER your emotions and lifestyle habits so you can *master* your fat loss, once and for all, feel free to visit my website and apply for 1-on-1 coaching with me: www.teamevolve.co/ #healthyeatingtips #healthyeatinghabits #fatlosshabits #fatlosstipsandtricks #weightlosstipsandtricks #weightlossforwomen

What were the tools that helped her? In another TikTok clip, she claims that “eliminating this habit” helped her “overcome ten years of binge eating.”

1. She Stopped “Overcompensating” Post Binge

She explains that she would binge and then try to remedy the situation. “Overcompensating a binge by undereating/doing a bunch of cardio the next day” was the first habit she had to break.

She Had to Overcome Her Binge Eating Instead

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“I was terrified of getting fat that I couldn’t NOT overcompensate my binges. It wasn’t until I was dead set on OVERCOMING binge eating once and for all” that she discovered the second tool.

2. She Had to Stop Restricting Portions

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“I knew I had to stop the restricting portion in order to stop the binging portion because they fed into one another,” she said. “But once you teach your mind & body that it won’t be punished for overeating or binging.”

She Maintains She Used to Exercise Just as Much

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Being consistent with working out is *not* enough to get you the results that you want: let’s talk about it! ↴ If you’re like me or the women I work with, your goal is to get toned meaning: you want to lose body fat, and look fit + strong without looking bulky. So you’ve heard that you should start lifting weights if you want to get toned, so you do - but even though you’re being consistent in the gym, you’re really not seeing much change in your body like you want to. Sounds about right? Here’s why: ↴ Lifting weights will help you build strength + muscle which is *amazing* - but to really see a difference in your physique, You will need to lose body fat that is laying on top of your hard-earned muscle in order to really see a difference in your body. To lose body fat, you need to be in a calorie deficit, And the BEST way to ensure you’re in a calorie deficit isn’t just be eating healthy *most* of the time, It’s by being accountable to what you’re putting in your body 24/7 by weighing out your food and tracking it every day: Monday through Sunday! And if you’re already quite active and being consistent in the gym, It’s THAT much more important that you need to be diligent with your tracking + diet day-to-day! 🌸 If you’re interested in working with me 1-on-1, check out my coaching on my website at: www.teamevolve.co/ ✨ #fatlosstransformations #fatlossbeforeandafter #weightlossbeforeandafter #weightlosstransformations #armfatloss #tonedarms

In another TikTok video, she reveals another important tool. She shows a before-and-after photo, claiming that she did the “exact same workouts, lifting weights, and doing incline walking on the treadmill” five days a week in both photos.

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3. She Had to Stop Binging on Sugar and Drinking

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“So why do I look so different in this photo? I was eating pretty healthy, but I would have cravings at night, and I would often binge on sugar at night. On the weekends, I like to go out to eat. I would drink, and I would kind of go off my healthy eating plan. But during the week, I was eating pretty healthy. So I thought,” she says.

4. And, She Had to Start Tracking Calories

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“In this photo, I was tracking my calories. I was weighing all of my food and logging all of my food in my FitnessPal Monday through Sunday, every single day, every single meal, I was accountable to everything I was putting my body. That was the biggest difference between these two photos here. I was eating pretty healthy some days off here, and I knew exactly what was going into my body every day,” she revealed.

5. She Also Stopped Making Food “Good and Bad”

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How I overcame binge eating / yo-yo dieting after being stuck for 10 years. ❤️ If you’re ready to commit to your healing journey and overcome yo-yo dieting once and for all, visit my website to work with me: www.teamevolve.co/ ✨ #fatlosshabits #weightlosstipsandtricks #emotionaleatingcoach #overeating #overeatinghelp

In another TikTok she adds that she had to look at food differently to lose weight. “I had to stop making foods good and bad because that is why I was binge eating. I would only let myself eat high protein, veggies, no carbs. That's it,” she said.

She Used to Use Eating “Bad” Food as an Excuse to Binge

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“And anytime I would have a food that I would consider, not high protein, not vegetables, not low carb, anything unhealthy, fast food, going out to eat a piece of candy, bite of a cookie, anything, I would use that as an excuse to binge because I would say, oh, I've already fallen off for today, so I might as well have everything that I've restricted myself from and start again tomorrow, and I will promise myself I'll be good tomorrow. I promised myself I'll be good Monday,” she continued.

RELATED: 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week

6. So, She Started to “Slowly Incorporate” Sugar and Fast Food

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“And the reason why I was so stuck in my weight loss journey is because I couldn't stop binging. The reason I was binging is that I couldn't stop restricting myself, and it wasn't until I started to slowly incorporate sugar, going out to eat burgers, french fries, McDonald's, and Taco Bell, all these things that I previously thought were horrible, so bad, so unhealthy would make me fat, it wasn't until I started to make my peace with these foods, allow myself to have them incorporate them into my nutrition plan that I finally stopped binging after ten long years, and I actually was able to look and feel my best while eating all these, what I used to think were bad foods.”

7. She Also Started Planning

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In another TikTok revealing “habits that helped me lose OVER 30 lbs of body fat,” Ngo adds that planning is key. “Planning in advance is CRUCIAL. Deciding what I want to eat last minute almost NEVER leads me to make choices that are actually filling + satisfying,” she writes.

She Plans the Night Before

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She reveals that she plans what and when she is going to eat the night before. She also “has a game plan for what to do when I want to eat out of boredom.”

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8. She Also Takes Progress Photos

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Another one of her tricks to stay on track? She doesn’t rely on the scale. “Use progress photos instead,” she recommends.

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She Broke Up with These 5 Bad Habits at 46 and Lost 10 Pounds in 2 Months

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Are your unhealthy habits keeping you from achieving your weight loss goals? Heather Eisenberg is a nutrition coach and personal trainer who helps women over 40 “lose weight with nutrition & fitness,” she writes in her Instagram bio. In a new social media post, she discusses some of the bad habits she had to give up in order to lose 10 pounds in 2 months at 46. “We all have habits that we want to break…Losing weight in your 40s can feel like a struggle, but small changes can make a big difference!” she writes. “Here are 5 habits I let go of that kickstarted my journey.”

Mindless Snacking

The first habit she had to ditch was mindless snacking. “I used to grab snacks throughout the day without even thinking about it—whether I was bored, stressed, or just because the food was there. Now I make sure to have balanced meals that keep me satisfied longer, and when I need a snack, I choose something with protein and fiber, like Greek yogurt or an apple with almond butter,” she writes in her post.

Skipping Meals

The next habit she parted ways with was skipping meals. “I used to skip meals, especially breakfast, thinking I was saving calories. But in reality, it would just lead to overeating later in the day,” she says. “Now, I make time for regular meals—especially breakfast, which sets the tone for my day. A quick smoothie or some eggs and veggies in the morning helps me feel energized and prevents those late-afternoon cravings.”

Processed Foods

The third habit? Relying on processed foods.
”Frozen dinners or packaged snacks were a go-to because they were easy. But I realized they were packed with hidden sugars, sodium, and unhealthy fats,” she says. “I swapped them out for whole foods—lean proteins, veggies, and healthy carbs. Meal prepping on Sundays was a game changer. It is much easier to avoid the temptation of quick, unhealthy options during the week, and I actually feel more energized after eating real food.”

Late Night Eating

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was something else she had to ditch. “Eating late at night had become a bad habit. I started closing the kitchen after dinner, giving myself at least 2-3 hours before bed without food. This not only helped me avoid unnecessary calories but also improved my sleep,” she writes.

Overthinking Workouts

The fifth habit she had to let go of was overthinking workouts. “I used to think that if I didn’t have an hour to hit the gym or couldn’t do a perfect workout, it wasn’t worth it. Now, I prioritize movement in any form—whether it’s a 20-minute walk, or a quick bodyweight workout,” she writes.

Breaking Up with Bad Habits Isn’t Easy, But the Results Are “Worth It”

While quitting unhealthy habits and replacing them with ones that will help you achieve your goals isn’t easy, it pays off in the end, she maintains. “Breaking up with these habits took time, but the results were worth it!”

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She Also Stopped Cutting Out Entire Food Groups

In another post, she reveals a few more habits she ditched in order to lose weight. The first? Cutting out entire food groups.
”Eliminating carbs or fats may seem like the answer, but it’s not sustainable. Your body needs a mix of carbs, proteins, and healthy fats to thrive. Cutting out entire food groups can mess with your energy levels, hormones, and mindset. Balance is the key — there’s room for everything when you approach food mindfully,” she writes.

And, She Stopped Giving Up Foods That She Loves

Another thing she stopped doing? Giving up foods that she loves. “Let’s be honest — life without ice cream or pizza sounds miserable! I’ve learned that allowing myself to enjoy these foods in moderation keeps me sane and on track. Depriving yourself often leads to bingeing or feeling like you’ve failed. Including foods you love makes healthy eating a lifestyle, not a punishment,” she writes.

She Stopped Relying Solely on Cardio

Once she stopped relying solely on cardio, it also changed the game.
”I used to think cardio was the best way to lose weight, but resistance training changed everything. Lifting weights builds muscle, boosts your metabolism, and helps you feel stronger and more confident. Cardio has benefits, but strength training reshapes your body in a way cardio alone can’t,” she writes.

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And, She Stopped Letting the Scale Dictate Progress

And, lastly, she stopped letting the scale dictate progress.
”The scale is just one number, and it doesn’t tell the whole story. Your energy, strength, how your clothes fit, and how you feel are all signs of progress. If you let the scale control your mood, you’ll miss out on the real wins. Focus on the bigger picture — it’s way more rewarding,” she writes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Mom Lost 60 Pounds and Shares 6 Bits of “Brutal Honesty”

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Are you curious about what to expect after achieving your weight loss goals? You might be surprised what it is like, says one weight loss warrior. Emily Christensen is a social media influencer who lost 60 pounds after undergoing weight loss surgery and adopting a healthy lifestyle. She regularly shares tips and tricks with her followers about how she did it. In a new post, she reveals the truth about being overweight and thin. “Some brutal honesty from who has spent the majority of her life feeling fat and longed to be skinny,” she writes in the Instagram post.

When You Lose Weight, More Problems Surface

The first truth? You might find underlying problems after slimming down. “When you’re over weight that’s the only problem you want to solve. Once you lose the weight you realize how many underlying things are going on that have *actually* been causing issues. I’m talking relationships, spending, parenting,” she says.

Being Skinny Doesn’t Mean You Are Healthy

The second thing she learned? “Being skinny doesn’t mean you’re healthy,” she says. “When I was at my lowest weight I had lost a lot of muscle. Rebuilding that is kind of scary but I know it’ll serve me when I’m a fit grandma.”

Weight Loss Is Mental

Her third truth is that weight loss is mental. “There are a lot of tools out there that can help! But they’re still just tools. I have to talk to myself a LOT to remind myself I didn’t suddenly gain back 60+ pounds,” she writes.

You Might Still Be Obsessed with Your Weight

She goes onto explain that obsession with your weight might not end. “Before I lost weight I was really obsessed with losing weight. Now that I’ve lost weight I have times where I’m really obsessed with keeping it off. Not out of vanity but out of fear. I never want to go back to feeling how I did for so many years,” she writes.

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Your Loved Ones Might Not Be On Board with Your New Lifestyle

Another truth? “No one cares about your journey as much as you do. Meaning…it’s not anyone’s job to eat what you eat. Or exercise with you. Your spouse/partner may or may not be on board with your new lifestyle. It’s up to you to buy and prepare the right foods and find the time to exercise,” she says.

Being Skinny Won’t Give Your More Self-Worth

Finally, getting thin won’t solve your self-esteem problems. “Being skinny isn’t going to give you more self worth. It might help you love your body more and appreciate what it’s done for you…but ‘skinny’ isn’t an attribute that very many people use when they talk about why they love someone,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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4 Protein Mistakes Preventing You From Losing Weight

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Are you on a high-protein diet for fat loss but can’t seem to lose weight? You could be making a common mistake, according to an expert. Cherisse Kozloski is a nutrition coach and personal trainer who helps her clients lose weight and keep it off. In a new post, she discusses some slip-ups that many seem to be making. Most women eating a high protein diet but not losing fat are making these common mistakes,” she writes. “Are these mistakes stopping your progress?”

Mistake 1: You Aren’t Counting Calories

The first mistake? “Not paying attention to your overall calories,” she reveals. “Eating more protein doesn’t automatically mean fat loss. If you’re not mindful of your portions, you could be consuming more calories than you burn, a surplus is a surplus.”

Solution: Measure or Weigh Your Food

How can you correct this? “Weigh or measure your food at least for a little while so you can get a good idea of what a serving size actually is,” she suggests.

Mistake 2: Choosing Food Labeled “High Protein

The second mistake people make? “Choosing foods labeled as ‘high protein’” she says. “Many foods labeled ‘high protein’ actually aren’t.”

Solution: Calculate Yourself

Her solution? Do your own calculations. “Remember the 10/1 rule for every 100 calories you want to get at least 10 grams of protein to be considered high protein,” she says.

Mistake 3: Skipping Healthy Fats

Mistake three has to do with going too low-fat. “Skipping healthy fats,” she says. “Avoiding fats completely can leave you hungry, mess with your hormones, and make it harder to stick to your diet.”

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Solution: Eat Healthy Fats

The solution is simple. “Add fats into your diet like avocado, olive oil, and nuts,” she says. “But remember they are calorie dense so be mindful of how much you’re consuming.”

Mistake 4: Eating too Many Processed Foods

The fourth and final mistake? Just because something is high in protein doesn’t mean it’s good for you. “Eating too many processed foods,” is a no-no. “Protein bars and shakes are convenient but often packed with sugar and additives,” she says.

Solution: Eat Whole Food Protein Sources

Instead, stay away from packaged foods and shop the grocery store's perimeter. “Focus on whole-food protein sources like shrimp, boneless chicken thighs, and eggs to nourish your body and support fat loss,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these20 Superfoods for People Over 50.

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Coach Lost 20 Pounds by Doing These 5 Things

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Are you just getting started on your weight loss journey and are overwhelmed by all the advice you are getting? According to one expert, there is a simple, foolproof approach. Dylan Hornof is a personal trainer and fitness coach who transformed her body and helps others do the same. In a new social media post, she reveals that a handful of habits were instrumental in her weight loss. “5 things I’ve done to lose 20lbs and keep it off for years,” she writes in the post.

Drinking Less Alcohol

You might consider putting down the bottle if you are drinking your calories. Dylan reveals that drinking less helped her lose more weight. “I worked through my relationship with alcohol - I had to break the habit of drinking multiple days on the weekend,” she said. There is another non-weight-related benefit. “This helped me lose lbs and lower a lot of inflammation in my body and face)” she says.

Walking More

Dylan also recommends walking. “A walk a day (move your body more) it’s that simple. We are not meant to sit all day. Outside, on a treadmill - get your steps in!” she says. How much should you walk for weight loss, according to science? A 2018 study published in Obesity found a link between walking 10,000 steps a day and weight loss and weight management. Other studies published by the Journal of American Medical Association (JAMA) in JAMA Neurology and in JAMA Internal Medicine also linked walking 10,000 steps a day to less dementia and less cardiovascular disease overall, with less heart disease, less heart failure, and fewer strokes.

Eating Consistently

It can be tempting to starve yourself to lose weight. However, Dylan points out that you need to fuel your body. “Ate MORE food consistently. Hear me out - when you’re eating 1,200 calories and falling off all the time you’re not going see results. Up your calories and find consistency with your food,” she says.

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Strength Training with Purpose

Dylan points out that you should focus on quality over quantity in your strength training workout. “I train with purpose. My weight lifting is intentional - I push myself and challenge myself with the weights I use,” she says.

Focusing on Whole Foods

And finally, she cleaned up her diet. “I stopped hitting my macros with whatever food I could fit in. I choose to eat 90% whole foods everyday (I do believe in balance and I am a huge foodie - you CAN fit ‘fun’ foods in) but focusing on more clean foods helped me feel less ‘puffy’.” she writes. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missI’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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