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Woman Tried the Dopamine Menu to Break Free From Her Phone and Here's What Happened

Transform your screen time into meaningful moments with this science-backed approach.

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Like many of us, Sophie found herself trapped in an endless cycle of screen time. Every free moment, every little break, became another opportunity to reach for her phone. "In our free time, it's so easy to slip into doom scrolling, mindless browsing, or binge-watching," she admits. But through a simple yet powerful tool called the dopamine menu, this creator of Malama Life discovered a way to break free.


After trading her fast-paced Korean lifestyle for a mindful life in Portugal, where she lives with her husband and two dogs, Sophie has been sharing her journey toward intentional living with over 700,000 YouTube subscribers. Her latest experiment with the dopamine menu didn't just help her overcome phone addiction – it transformed her entire approach to daily joy.

Understanding the Dopamine Menu

A dopamine menu is a personalized list of activities that naturally boost your mood and make you feel good. It's essentially a self-care toolkit you can turn to instead of your phone when you need a pick-me-up. Dr. Mike Sevilla, a family physician, explains, "A dopamine menu is a group of activities that would give you a positive dopamine experience, and many would call these positive self-care behaviors."

How This Menu Changes Your Brain

The menu works by dividing activities into sections like appetizers (quick, easy activities), main courses (longer, more engaging tasks), and desserts (special treats). By choosing these activities instead of reaching for your phone, you naturally boost your dopamine levels, which is associated with feelings of pleasure and reward. As psychotherapist Michelle Hunt notes, "Understanding and addressing dopamine levels can significantly enhance an individual's ability to cope with the ups and downs of daily life."

Create Your Phone-Free Joy List

"In the busyness of life, we forget what really brings us joy and fall into habits that don't really serve us," Sophie explains in her post. Her solution? Creating a detailed menu of alternatives to scrolling. "It's like having a written list of our go-to activities to help us make better choices," she adds, comparing it to avoiding grocery shopping when hungry – a simple strategy that prevents impulsive decisions.

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat

Quick Alternatives to Phone Breaks

Sophie's breakthrough came when she identified her phone triggers. "I noticed I tend to reach for my phone whenever I need a little break," she shares. Her solution was simple but effective: "Making a herbal infusion instead of consuming more information. This is an actual break from my day, and I always feel refreshed afterwards."

Make Better Choices Easy

"You know how they say to build good habits, we have to make it as easy as possible?" Sophie asks. She demonstrates this by keeping a yoga mat next to her desk, making movement an easy alternative to phone scrolling. "Sometimes it even turns into a mini workout session," she notes, followed by breathing exercises that help calm her nerves.

Use Music Instead of Social Media

"Nothing resonates with us emotionally quite like music," Sophie shares. Instead of opening social media apps, she now reaches for her earbuds. "No matter what's going on in my life, no matter how hectic things get, listening to my favorite playlist can instantly aid my mood," she explains. Whether in the car, cooking, or showering, music provides the emotional boost she used to seek from her phone.

Replace Scrolling With Creating

For longer breaks, Sophie turned to creative projects. "Our current creative project is to make all the art pieces for our home," she reveals. "It's rewarding to learn things along the way and also to display something that we made ourselves." This hands-on approach provides a more fulfilling alternative to endless content consumption.

RELATED:12 Everyday Food Swaps That Helped This Mom Drop 120 Pounds Without Feeling Hungry

Learn Instead of Like

"Learning a slow skill is the best way to slow down and appreciate the gradual progress," Sophie advises. Whether it's playing an instrument, baking from scratch, or in her case, learning Portuguese, the key is finding joy in the journey. She proves that even a few minutes – time usually spent scrolling – can contribute to meaningful progress.

Feed Your Body, Not Your Feed

Instead of mindlessly snacking while scrolling, Sophie emphasizes mindful nourishment. "Having healthy homemade snacks around is so crucial," she says, sharing her excitement about creating new recipes like chia pudding and chocolate-drizzled almond butter dates. This approach transforms snack time from a distracted phone session into a moment of intentional self-care.

Look Up, Not Down

"The purpose of a sensory walk is to discover new sights and sounds," Sophie explains. She now uses her camera to notice details she'd usually miss while looking at her phone. "Most of us have to be on our screens for a big chunk of the day, so going out, getting fresh air and discovering new things is the best way to reset our senses again."

RELATED:10 Warning Signs Your Body Needs More Protein Right Now

Shop Your Closet, Not Your Apps

For the "specials" section of her menu, Sophie replaced online shopping with creative alternatives. "If I ever feel the urge to buy something, I'll go into my closet and just try on all of my clothes," she shares. This practice helps her appreciate what she already owns while creating new outfit combinations – without opening a single shopping app.

Find Real-World Joy

Sophie's favorite phone-free discovery has been exploring Lisbon's parks. "They're so unique to the neighborhood, the trees, the views, the energy is all so different," she enthuses. Her simple yet profound observation captures the essence of life beyond screens: "We really don't need much at all to feel good sometimes. Just sitting quietly on a bench and watching life go by is all we need."

"You'd be surprised how a few small changes in our day can make such a big difference," Sophie concludes. Ready to create your own menu of phone-free happiness? And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Like many of us, Sophie found herself trapped in an endless cycle of screen time. Every free moment, every little break, became another opportunity to reach for her phone. "In our free time, it's so easy to slip into doom scrolling, mindless browsing, or binge-watching," she admits. But through a simple yet powerful tool called the dopamine menu, this creator of Malama Life discovered a way to break free.


After trading her fast-paced Korean lifestyle for a mindful life in Portugal, where she lives with her husband and two dogs, Sophie has been sharing her journey toward intentional living with over 700,000 YouTube subscribers. Her latest experiment with the dopamine menu didn't just help her overcome phone addiction – it transformed her entire approach to daily joy.

Understanding the Dopamine Menu

A dopamine menu is a personalized list of activities that naturally boost your mood and make you feel good. It's essentially a self-care toolkit you can turn to instead of your phone when you need a pick-me-up. Dr. Mike Sevilla, a family physician, explains, "A dopamine menu is a group of activities that would give you a positive dopamine experience, and many would call these positive self-care behaviors."

How This Menu Changes Your Brain

The menu works by dividing activities into sections like appetizers (quick, easy activities), main courses (longer, more engaging tasks), and desserts (special treats). By choosing these activities instead of reaching for your phone, you naturally boost your dopamine levels, which is associated with feelings of pleasure and reward. As psychotherapist Michelle Hunt notes, "Understanding and addressing dopamine levels can significantly enhance an individual's ability to cope with the ups and downs of daily life."

Create Your Phone-Free Joy List

"In the busyness of life, we forget what really brings us joy and fall into habits that don't really serve us," Sophie explains in her post. Her solution? Creating a detailed menu of alternatives to scrolling. "It's like having a written list of our go-to activities to help us make better choices," she adds, comparing it to avoiding grocery shopping when hungry – a simple strategy that prevents impulsive decisions.

RELATED:8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat

Quick Alternatives to Phone Breaks

Sophie's breakthrough came when she identified her phone triggers. "I noticed I tend to reach for my phone whenever I need a little break," she shares. Her solution was simple but effective: "Making a herbal infusion instead of consuming more information. This is an actual break from my day, and I always feel refreshed afterwards."

Make Better Choices Easy

"You know how they say to build good habits, we have to make it as easy as possible?" Sophie asks. She demonstrates this by keeping a yoga mat next to her desk, making movement an easy alternative to phone scrolling. "Sometimes it even turns into a mini workout session," she notes, followed by breathing exercises that help calm her nerves.

Use Music Instead of Social Media

"Nothing resonates with us emotionally quite like music," Sophie shares. Instead of opening social media apps, she now reaches for her earbuds. "No matter what's going on in my life, no matter how hectic things get, listening to my favorite playlist can instantly aid my mood," she explains. Whether in the car, cooking, or showering, music provides the emotional boost she used to seek from her phone.

Replace Scrolling With Creating

For longer breaks, Sophie turned to creative projects. "Our current creative project is to make all the art pieces for our home," she reveals. "It's rewarding to learn things along the way and also to display something that we made ourselves." This hands-on approach provides a more fulfilling alternative to endless content consumption.

RELATED:12 Everyday Food Swaps That Helped This Mom Drop 120 Pounds Without Feeling Hungry

Learn Instead of Like

"Learning a slow skill is the best way to slow down and appreciate the gradual progress," Sophie advises. Whether it's playing an instrument, baking from scratch, or in her case, learning Portuguese, the key is finding joy in the journey. She proves that even a few minutes – time usually spent scrolling – can contribute to meaningful progress.

Feed Your Body, Not Your Feed

Instead of mindlessly snacking while scrolling, Sophie emphasizes mindful nourishment. "Having healthy homemade snacks around is so crucial," she says, sharing her excitement about creating new recipes like chia pudding and chocolate-drizzled almond butter dates. This approach transforms snack time from a distracted phone session into a moment of intentional self-care.

Look Up, Not Down

"The purpose of a sensory walk is to discover new sights and sounds," Sophie explains. She now uses her camera to notice details she'd usually miss while looking at her phone. "Most of us have to be on our screens for a big chunk of the day, so going out, getting fresh air and discovering new things is the best way to reset our senses again."

RELATED:10 Warning Signs Your Body Needs More Protein Right Now

Shop Your Closet, Not Your Apps

For the "specials" section of her menu, Sophie replaced online shopping with creative alternatives. "If I ever feel the urge to buy something, I'll go into my closet and just try on all of my clothes," she shares. This practice helps her appreciate what she already owns while creating new outfit combinations – without opening a single shopping app.

Find Real-World Joy

Sophie's favorite phone-free discovery has been exploring Lisbon's parks. "They're so unique to the neighborhood, the trees, the views, the energy is all so different," she enthuses. Her simple yet profound observation captures the essence of life beyond screens: "We really don't need much at all to feel good sometimes. Just sitting quietly on a bench and watching life go by is all we need."

"You'd be surprised how a few small changes in our day can make such a big difference," Sophie concludes. Ready to create your own menu of phone-free happiness? And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

FACT CHECKED BY Christopher Roback
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If you have any concerns about the accuracy of our content, please reach out to our editors by e-mailing editors@bodynetwork.com.

Dierdre Rae is showing off her before-and-after transformation – in a crop top. In a new social media post, the London-based certified health and wellness coach discusses her health journey, revealing how she overcame an eating disorder to become the healthiest version of herself. In the before photo from 2019, she did “hours of exercise every day, massively undereating for days and then binging, the body is constantly swollen and bloated.” Now, in 2024, she has a more balanced approach to diet and exercise and is healthier than ever. Here is how she did it.


She Achieved “Food Freedom” After a 10-Year-Long Eating Disorder Battle

“Food freedom is never something I thought I’d be able to have (for reference, I’m around the same weight in both photos). It was a 10-year battle, but here we are over 5 years later - intuitive eating, never calorie counting, doing the exercise I enjoy, resting without guilt, and not constantly thinking and worrying about food/body image,” she writes in her post. “If you’re struggling, I have a free binge guide in my bio 🫶🏻 (just some tips from me that helped heal binge eating habits for myself, some of my friends, and clients 💗), but here are a few things that helped me start to recover.”

She Read This Book

First, she suggests ordering a book. Buying the book ‘brain over binge’ by Kathryn Hansen (in her Amazon storefront or on audible, was a game-changer. “There’s a book and a recovery guide, make sure you get the book,” she says.

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She Balanced Her Breakfast

Next, she tackled her diet, starting with breakfast. “Eating a balanced breakfast (protein, fats, AND carbs) the morning after a binge/overeating to balance out blood sugars,” she says.

She Quit Dieting

After years of yo-yo dieting and seriously restricting food, Dierdre gave up crash diets for good. “I completely stopped dieting and trying to lose weight (had to sit with that anxiety),” she writes.

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She Reversed Negative Thoughts

She also changed her thought process. “I started standing up for myself by not letting unchecked intrusive thoughts come into my brain. I reversed any negative thought about my body and food into something I’d believe,” she writes.

She Shifted From “Intense Cardio” to Weight Lifting and Walking

She also shifted her approach to exercise. “I stopped all intense cardio while recovering. I only weight lifted and walked. (intense cardio can mimic binge symptoms and make you ravenous),” she explains.

She Incorporated “Fear Foods” Into Her Diet

And lastly, she “ate and incorporated my fear foods EVERY day,” she reveals. “It helped to take away the feeling that if I ate something ‘bad,’ the whole day wasn’t ruined; therefore, I was less likely to binge (I had cake after lunch every day for an entire summer). IT’S NORMAL to overeat it in the beginning, but it’s about practicing taking those foods off of the pedestal we’ve placed them on.”

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Stretching Is Also Important

She discusses how important and “underrated” stretching is in another post. “Getting workouts in is incredible, but mobilizing your body has just as many benefits. I know that stretching is easy to skip out on, especially after you’ve finished a workout. Still, even a few minutes of stretching can have massive benefits,” she writes, listing benefits such as muscle recovery, injury prevention, increased range of motion in joints, enhanced muscle performance, can help improve posture, promotes blood circulation, can relieve stress, enhances athletic performance, and reduces muscle stiffness and soreness. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

FACT CHECKED BY Christopher Roback
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Have you tried everything to lose weight but can’t seem to get in shape? Richa Prasad, along with her partner Lucy, is a nutritionist and ex-engineer with a psychology degree turned weight loss coach who helps people get into their best shape ever. In a viral YouTube video, she discusses her own weight loss struggles. “The one habit that got me to my dream body when I had failed for seven years before then was sticking to a system that bridged the journey from past me to dream me,” she says in the clip. “And I have taught the same system to hundreds of my successful weight loss students. So I know the system will work for you if you use it correctly.” Here is everything you need to know about the game-changing habit.


Her “Flawed Ideas, Thoughts, and Beliefs” Kept Her From Losing Weight

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She starts off by explaining the background of the habit. “The problem is when I just straight up explain the system, people always end up using it wrong. I want to save you my seven painful trial and error years by sharing my cautionary tale of flawed ideas, thoughts, and beliefs so that when I reveal the system, you grasp how to use it correctly and can do so immediately after this video ends,” she says.

She Grew Up Believing That “Adulthood and Being Overweight” Was Synonymous

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“I grew up believing that adulthood and being overweight are synonymous,” she admits. “As kids, we look at the world around us and without a doubt believe that what we're seeing is all there is to life,” she said, adding that “every adult around me was overweight. So that's what would happen to me too. I made peace with that inevitability.”

However, She Was Shocked When It Happened

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“And yet when it happened, I wasn't ready,” she says, recalling a time when she was shopping and noticed that a shirt didn’t fit right. “I made my way home and googled how to lose weight, and the first thing that popped up was something called the GM Diet. I lasted one and a half days on it. Looking back, this makes sense because it's essentially a starvation diet, but I did not know that back then.”

She Concluded That Weight Loss Had to Be a “Painful Process”

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She concluded that “losing weight must be a painful process. So naturally, when I saw weight loss programs that called for replacing all of my current eating habits in one go or working out for six days a week when currently my main workout was making it to the kitchen and back, ‘Oh, hey, could you bring me some popcorn too?’ sometimes I didn't question it. I figured weight loss is painful, so this is how it must be.”

She “Bought Into the Dream” of Marketing Programs Used by the Diet and Health Industry

“It also didn't help that I bought into the dream sold by the marketing of these programs. They featured chiseled abs and mesmerizing body weight stunts. I figured this is what ultimate health and fitness look like, so of course, I want that. All of these beliefs kept me committed to program after program, all of which felt unsustainable, but I figured that's the sacrifice needed for being healthy and fit.”

She Had the Best Intentions But Would Always Fail

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She explained that she would start her weeks “with the intention to prep all my breakfast and lunches,” but by day three, she would be eating junk food. She would also spend lots of money on expensive, rigorous workouts, “only to find myself so sore by day eight that my hamstrings groaned with every step.”

She Thought Accountability Was the Issue

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She thought maybe her problem was accountability. “I just need to find a trainer, nutritionist, or a group fitness class to keep me consistent,” was something she believed. “It turns out spending thousands of dollars is still not enough to keep me consistent. I think I showed up to my trainer sessions maybe half the time.”

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Her 50 Percent Consistency Would Leave Her Vowing to Be More Consistent

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“This 50% consistency would lead me to two types of reactions,” she says. When her weight was up, she would “acknowledge that I was only half consistent” and “vowed to be more consistent, which I would be for two weeks until I fell back to my old patterns,” she says.

She Also Experienced “Distorted Reality” and Would Chase One Weight Loss Program After Another

“The second was the fun house mirror type where I'd fall into a distorted reality because my mind could remember all the uncomfortable soreness after workouts and the times I exhausted my willpower,” she explains. “I would see my weight go up and think, ‘I'm doing so much. Why am I not losing weight?’ This would spiral me into chasing new weight loss programs one after another.”

She Was Stuck in the Cycle for Years

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“All of this made my first two beliefs stronger and stronger. I was stuck in the cycle for years until a fateful flight from Seattle to Boston. I remember trying to down a ham bagel sandwich while running for the gate. I got onto the flight, and suddenly, I felt like I couldn't breathe. I called for the air host, who put it down to flying anxiety. Now, I've flown since I was four and been skydiving, so flying anxiety is not a problem I have. When I landed in Boston, still miraculously alive, I figured that was a one-off look, but then it happened again,” she says.

She Couldn’t Breathe and Went to Doctors

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“I visited cardiologists who hooked me up to a 24/7 heart monitor. The results were that there was nothing wrong, and yet I can't breathe. Episodes kept happening again and again and again. I felt helpless.”

She Decided to Change Her Way of Looking at the Cycle

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“I looked at the cycle with new somber eyes, and the first thing I decided was that I was not going to tell myself stories that didn't serve me. How does it benefit me to think that adulthood is synonymous with being overweight? What do I gain from believing that being healthy and fit means sacrificing taste, a social life, and joyful movement? Instead, I detached myself from these stories,” she explains.

She Decided to Focus on “Systems Over Goals”

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She decided to trend “toward habits I believe are healthy,’ she says. “Essentially, I decided to focus on systems over goals. Detaching from timelines naturally led me to question my goal as well. I didn't care anymore for 21 pounds in 21 days, toned in 30 days, or how she lost 50 pounds in three months.”

She Shied Away From “Get Fit Quick” Programs

She shied away from “get fit quick” programs. She focused on health and fitness, “and if I continue on the path to word it en route, my breathing problems would get solved,” she says.

But Her Motivation Kept Dying

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“However, my motivation kept dying every few weeks despite using that very same system that eventually worked for me. It was only months later I realized that bodyweight skills don't compel me in my soul kind of way. I realized I had been blindly trying to achieve goals laid out by society and media.”

She Started Lifting Her Own Bodyweight

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“When my goal was to do mad bodyweight skills, the targets boil down to better nutrition to lose excess fat. So lifting my own body weight is easier resistance training that's focused on calisthenics and mobility.”

She Started Focusing on Fueling Her Dream Life

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“And then, once I realized my actual dream life, my targets changed to better nutrition with choices geared toward fueling my travels work and adventures resistance training, but the mix focused on endurance building for long walks, bikes, and swims cardio because my dream life involves a lot of hiking, biking, and swimming and make time for hobbies, sleep and rest. Without them, I would burn out and probably won't be as prolific in my old age as my inspirations.”

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After Achieving Her Targets She Narrowed Them Into Keystone Habits

Once she had her targets, she “further narrowed them into habits,” she explains. “The most important thing is to prioritize one to two new keystone habits for a month. A keystone habit is one in which if you don't get it right, the chances of other habits happening drops drastically.”

Her First Keystone Habit Was Sleeping and Waking at the Same Time Daily, and Second, Not Checking Her Phone After Work

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“During some honest self-interrogating, I admitted to my tendency to cancel everything if I feel I'm falling behind at work. Accordingly, my first keystone habits were sleeping and waking up at the same time daily,” she continues. “If I don't do this, I start off my day feeling behind, which makes doing my habits difficult. Second, I will not check my phone until after work. This stops me from procrastinating and falling behind on my tasks, which in turn stems from my tendency to cancel exercise and meal plans in order to catch up on work.”

While Unrelated to Weight Loss, It Helped Her Lose Weight

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“My starting keystone habits weren't even directly related to weight loss. No wonder my chasing weight loss programs wasn't working because the problem was how my life around my nutrition and exercise habits squeezed out any possibility of being consistent at any weight loss habit,” she points out.

She Broke the Habits Into Smaller Chucnks

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“Then, in my habit sheet, I further broke down these two keystone habits into smaller chunks: retired to bed by 8:30 PM, left phone outside bedroom for proper rest, got out of bed by 6:30 AM. didn't check phone until after work.”

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She Also Added an Optional Habit, Walking 6,000 Steps Three Times a Week

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“Since my keystone habits turned out to not be weight loss specific, I decided to also add an optional habit that I felt 10 out of 10 confident about meeting: Walk 6,000 steps three times a week. Note that this is optional, meaning that if I'm unable to meet it, I will drop this one without mental fuss or guilt,” she explains.

She Then Set Up Her Environment Accordingly

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“Next is setting up my environment to maximize my chances of meeting the habits to help me retire to bed,” she says. “By 8:30 PM, I set up an alarm on my Amazon Echo for 8:15 PM, and then again at 8:30 PM, I left my phone charger in the living room instead of my bedroom. I also throw my phone under the couch since out-of-sight, out-of-mind really works for me. I set an alarm at 6:15 AM and 6:30 AM and bought a lamp that mimics sunrise,” she says.

She Also Made It Impossible to Make Excuses

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“And finally, I plotted a route around my neighborhood that adds up to 6,000 steps. This may sound ridiculous because I could just go out for a walk and get 6,000 steps, but I'm gonna be straight with you. My ability to find excuses to not start something is astounding, and the only way to combat it is to plan so that when it is time to do my habit, I can be mindless.”

She Set Up a Tracking Habit Sheet

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“Next comes tracking in the habit sheet. At the end of every day, I enter one. If I made the habit, I would enter a zero. The gray blocks are where I'm not targeting to make that habit for that day. If I don't meet all my targets for that day, I enter a note with a reflection for the day on what happened and what I'll do tomorrow. For example, there were times when I didn't make it to bed by 8:30 PM, so I installed a Chrome extension that blocks all of the internet at 8:30 PM, no matter what I was doing. This brought me right back on track. Next day onward to meeting my goals, and finally, at the end of every month, I reflect on what happened last month and what to do next month to start.”

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She Reaccesses Her Goals and Dream Life

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She then reaccesses her goals and her dream life, deciding if she wants to “add, remove, or edit anything.” If there isn't a change “in a way that changes my targets, I look at my habits from last month with less than 80% completion rate. That's right. I don't expect a hundred percent completion on any habit because that's impossible,” she says.

She Aims for 80 Percent Completion

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“I'm not a machine, but I do expect a completion of more than 80% on each habit. As an example, here's my reflection from October: five out of 11 of my targeted habits had less than an 80% completion rate. Resistance training was 44%, but that was because I injured myself, so I kept the same targets for November, but for walks, I didn't see a good reason for the lack of consistency, so I decided to reduce the frequency to four times a week instead of seven times a week in October, and it goes on for my other habits.”

She Continued Improving It

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“All of that time in the past, I spent chasing the best workout or meal plan, and that wasn't even the issue. It was the rest of my life I needed to change, and here is proof,” she says. “In November, you can see strength completion rate went up to a hundred percent, walks to 88%, and even the habits that are less than 80% are still way closer to the 80% threshold. And since I'm doing well on most of my habits in November, I could choose to add a new habit or I could continue to first get all my habits to over 80% completion rate for the next month.”

The System “Changed” Her Life

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“The system has changed my life. Some examples of how, after seven years of being stuck, I reached my dream body within a year and have maintained it without tracking for eight years now, I used to burn out all the time from overworking. I haven't crashed into burnout in a long time. My addiction to mindlessly consuming media has reduced drastically, making room for hobbies and creative projects,” she says.

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Start By Figuring Out Targets

“The steps in the system can take some time, like identifying the right targets toward your dream life, but it's so worth it,” she says. “The first thing to figure out is where to start with your targets. Hint: nutrition is 80% of weight loss,” she says. “In fact, my co-coach Lucy took it to the next level, where she lost a hundred percent through nutrition alone. So that's right, zero exercise.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to break the pattern of yo-yo dieting? Fitness influencer and online coach Jenna Rizzo helps women get in shape in a natural way – via diet and exercise. In one of her posts, she discusses the push-and-pull of dieting and how to break it. “If you are sick of yo-yo dieting and gaining and losing the same 10 to 20 pounds, listen up. My name's Jen. I've been a fitness coach for the past six years, and I specialize in women's weight loss,” she says in the clip. Body Network’s Resident RDN, The Diet Diva, Tara Collingwood, MS, RDN, CSSD, LD/N, ACSM-CPT, a Board Certified Sports Dietitian and co-author of the Flat Belly Cookbook for Dummies, weighs in on what she has to say.


Rizzo Would Diet Monday Through Friday and Indulge on the Weekends

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“Back when I first started my fitness journey, I fell into a really bad cycle of yo-yo dieting,” Rizzo confesses. “I would restrict myself so much during the week and lose a bunch of weight Monday through Friday, but weekends were like my Achilles heel, like I would go crazy and eat everything. Here are the three things that help me break the cycle once and for all.”

She Let Go of Perfection

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“Number one, I let go of trying to be perfect on my diet throughout the week,” she explains. “When I say I tracked everything, I mean it, every gram, every ounce, every milliliter, everything was accounted for. I had it in my brain that I was either a hundred percent perfect or a hundred percent off the rail and there was no in between. So letting go of that mentality is truly what helped me find balance. And I do still track now if I'm just trying to tighten up, but it's much more laid back. I'm just tracking to make sure I'm eating enough and actually getting enough protein in.”

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She Loosened Her Food Rules

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“Number two, I slowly let go of these food rules that I'd set for myself, like eating super low calorie on a day,” she says, adding that she stopped telling herself “that some foods are good and some foods are cheating foods.” Once she let go of the rules, “food just became food again,” she said. “Like I eat healthy now because it makes me feel good, not because I have some anxiety about getting out of shape.”

She Allowed Herself to What She Wanted, When She Wanted It

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This led her to number three. “I allowed myself to eat the foods I wanted, and no doubt this was the hardest one to control in the beginning,” she said. “But once I started to allow myself to just eat kind of whatever I wanted when it sounded good to me, it allowed food to not be such a big deal anymore. So it wasn't something I felt like I needed to binge on because I couldn't have it again, if that makes sense.”

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Body Network's Expert Weighs In

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Being too regimented and “weighing and measuring every morsel of food you eat definitely takes the fun out of eating and creates an atmosphere of guilt when you have a minor little slip,” agrees Collingwood. However, tracking for a while is “great for awareness of how many calories are in foods and approximately how many you are getting in a day, but getting too strict has it’s downfalls and can create an eating disorder mindset,” she says.

As for food rules, having the mindset of balance is key to fueling yourself well, she says. “Your attitude on food can go a long way to a peaceful mind. If you are constantly attaching guilt or praise to certain foods you are putting too much emotion into foods and that can then affect your mental and emotional state in other areas of your life. Looking at food as nourishing and positive for health instead of evil for weight gain is a huge step for a lot of chronic dieters,” she explains. And, too strict rules lead to rules being broken “and sometimes going way overboard the other way,” she says.

“I have seen people undo 6 days of really strict eating in just one ‘cheat’ meal because they eat way too much in that meal. Allowing yourself to have all kinds of foods in moderation rather than binging helps to maintain normalized eating and a feeling of peace around food.”

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Are you struggling to lose weight? Vivian Ngo (@vivianngo) is a fat loss coach and the creator of Team Evolve, a fat loss mastery program utilizing the tools that helped her get into the best shape of her life. In her viral TikTok and YouTube videos she reveals her secrets to breaking her sugar addiction and unhealthy binge-eating habits so that she could lose 30 pounds and get into the best shape of her life.


She Struggled with Yo-Yo Dieting for 10 Years

“I thought that I would be stuck in the Yo-yo dieting, binge eating, restricting my calories, and then overeating, losing the weight just to gain it all back. I genuinely thought that I was going to be stuck in that cycle for the rest of my life because I was in it for over 10 years,” Ngo says in a YouTube clip.

She Says “Nothing Worked”

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“I felt like I tried everything, everything, and nothing worked. Nothing kept the weight off. And I can tell you right now that I'm sitting here today down 30 pounds, kept it off for years, and I have never felt better in my skin,” she claims.

However, Now She Has Tools to Overcome It

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By far one of the HARDEST habits I’ve ever had to break. ↴ I was terrified of getting fat that I couldn’t NOT overcompensate my binges. It wasn’t until I was dead set on OVERCOMING binge eating once and for all, That I knew I had to stop the restricting portion in order to stop the bingeing portion, because they fed into one another. But once you teach your mind & body that it won’t be punished for overeating or bingeing, And you start leaning into kindness & compassion for yourself… SHOCKINGLY: the binges stop, too. But it’s scary at first, because you’re so terrified to gain weight that the thoughts of wanting to restrict are SO strong. Learning how to sit with those thoughts, but NOT listen to them is a vital part of recovery. You CAN do it, my friend. ✨ If you’re READY to overcome yo-yo dieting and MASTER your emotions and lifestyle habits so you can *master* your fat loss, once and for all, feel free to visit my website and apply for 1-on-1 coaching with me: www.teamevolve.co/ #healthyeatingtips #healthyeatinghabits #fatlosshabits #fatlosstipsandtricks #weightlosstipsandtricks #weightlossforwomen

What were the tools that helped her? In another TikTok clip, she claims that “eliminating this habit” helped her “overcome ten years of binge eating.”

1. She Stopped “Overcompensating” Post Binge

She explains that she would binge and then try to remedy the situation. “Overcompensating a binge by undereating/doing a bunch of cardio the next day” was the first habit she had to break.

She Had to Overcome Her Binge Eating Instead

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“I was terrified of getting fat that I couldn’t NOT overcompensate my binges. It wasn’t until I was dead set on OVERCOMING binge eating once and for all” that she discovered the second tool.

2. She Had to Stop Restricting Portions

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“I knew I had to stop the restricting portion in order to stop the binging portion because they fed into one another,” she said. “But once you teach your mind & body that it won’t be punished for overeating or binging.”

She Maintains She Used to Exercise Just as Much

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Being consistent with working out is *not* enough to get you the results that you want: let’s talk about it! ↴ If you’re like me or the women I work with, your goal is to get toned meaning: you want to lose body fat, and look fit + strong without looking bulky. So you’ve heard that you should start lifting weights if you want to get toned, so you do - but even though you’re being consistent in the gym, you’re really not seeing much change in your body like you want to. Sounds about right? Here’s why: ↴ Lifting weights will help you build strength + muscle which is *amazing* - but to really see a difference in your physique, You will need to lose body fat that is laying on top of your hard-earned muscle in order to really see a difference in your body. To lose body fat, you need to be in a calorie deficit, And the BEST way to ensure you’re in a calorie deficit isn’t just be eating healthy *most* of the time, It’s by being accountable to what you’re putting in your body 24/7 by weighing out your food and tracking it every day: Monday through Sunday! And if you’re already quite active and being consistent in the gym, It’s THAT much more important that you need to be diligent with your tracking + diet day-to-day! 🌸 If you’re interested in working with me 1-on-1, check out my coaching on my website at: www.teamevolve.co/ ✨ #fatlosstransformations #fatlossbeforeandafter #weightlossbeforeandafter #weightlosstransformations #armfatloss #tonedarms

In another TikTok video, she reveals another important tool. She shows a before-and-after photo, claiming that she did the “exact same workouts, lifting weights, and doing incline walking on the treadmill” five days a week in both photos.

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3. She Had to Stop Binging on Sugar and Drinking

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“So why do I look so different in this photo? I was eating pretty healthy, but I would have cravings at night, and I would often binge on sugar at night. On the weekends, I like to go out to eat. I would drink, and I would kind of go off my healthy eating plan. But during the week, I was eating pretty healthy. So I thought,” she says.

4. And, She Had to Start Tracking Calories

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“In this photo, I was tracking my calories. I was weighing all of my food and logging all of my food in my FitnessPal Monday through Sunday, every single day, every single meal, I was accountable to everything I was putting my body. That was the biggest difference between these two photos here. I was eating pretty healthy some days off here, and I knew exactly what was going into my body every day,” she revealed.

5. She Also Stopped Making Food “Good and Bad”

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How I overcame binge eating / yo-yo dieting after being stuck for 10 years. ❤️ If you’re ready to commit to your healing journey and overcome yo-yo dieting once and for all, visit my website to work with me: www.teamevolve.co/ ✨ #fatlosshabits #weightlosstipsandtricks #emotionaleatingcoach #overeating #overeatinghelp

In another TikTok she adds that she had to look at food differently to lose weight. “I had to stop making foods good and bad because that is why I was binge eating. I would only let myself eat high protein, veggies, no carbs. That's it,” she said.

She Used to Use Eating “Bad” Food as an Excuse to Binge

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“And anytime I would have a food that I would consider, not high protein, not vegetables, not low carb, anything unhealthy, fast food, going out to eat a piece of candy, bite of a cookie, anything, I would use that as an excuse to binge because I would say, oh, I've already fallen off for today, so I might as well have everything that I've restricted myself from and start again tomorrow, and I will promise myself I'll be good tomorrow. I promised myself I'll be good Monday,” she continued.

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6. So, She Started to “Slowly Incorporate” Sugar and Fast Food

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“And the reason why I was so stuck in my weight loss journey is because I couldn't stop binging. The reason I was binging is that I couldn't stop restricting myself, and it wasn't until I started to slowly incorporate sugar, going out to eat burgers, french fries, McDonald's, and Taco Bell, all these things that I previously thought were horrible, so bad, so unhealthy would make me fat, it wasn't until I started to make my peace with these foods, allow myself to have them incorporate them into my nutrition plan that I finally stopped binging after ten long years, and I actually was able to look and feel my best while eating all these, what I used to think were bad foods.”

7. She Also Started Planning

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In another TikTok revealing “habits that helped me lose OVER 30 lbs of body fat,” Ngo adds that planning is key. “Planning in advance is CRUCIAL. Deciding what I want to eat last minute almost NEVER leads me to make choices that are actually filling + satisfying,” she writes.

She Plans the Night Before

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She reveals that she plans what and when she is going to eat the night before. She also “has a game plan for what to do when I want to eat out of boredom.”

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8. She Also Takes Progress Photos

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Another one of her tricks to stay on track? She doesn’t rely on the scale. “Use progress photos instead,” she recommends.

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Let's face it—hitting 40 comes with some unwelcome surprises for most of us. Suddenly, those extra pounds seem to appear out of nowhere, and the weight loss strategies that worked in your 30s just don't cut it anymore. But before you throw in the towel, here's some good news: certain foods can actually help kick your metabolism back into gear.

We've dug into the latest research from top medical institutions and talked to leading experts to uncover the foods that can help you burn fat after 40. No fad diets or miracle pills—just real, science-backed nutrition that works.

Why Your Body Changes After 40 (And What to Do About It)

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"It doesn't matter what you've always done before—that doesn't fly anymore," saysDr. Monica Christmas, who runs the menopause program at University of Chicago Medicine. She's seen countless patients struggle with the same story. "When your hormone levels drop, your body starts losing muscle, and that means you're burning fewer calories even at rest."

Dr. Robert Creel from Cleveland Clinic puts it bluntly: "Your muscles are like engines that burn fuel. The more muscle you have, the more calories you burn just sitting on your couch." After 40, maintaining that engine becomes job number one.

Ready to refuel your body's fat-burning potential? Let's dive into the foods that can help.

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1. Lean Proteins

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Think of protein as your body's ultimate fat-fighting fuel. Chicken, fish, lean beef, tofu—they all help preserve precious muscle mass that naturally diminishes after 40.

Here's something fascinating from Harvard researchers: your body burns 15-30% of protein calories during digestion, compared to just 5-10% for carbs and a measly 0-3% for fats. That extra calorie burn happens automatically, just by choosing protein-rich foods.

Dr. Roger Blumenthal from Johns Hopkins Medicine loves to remind his patients: "Your muscles are literally the engines that burn calories in your body. Feed them right, and they'll work for you around the clock."

How to enjoy it: Start your day with eggs and veggies, grab a grilled chicken salad for lunch, or try a palm-sized portion of wild salmon for dinner. Aim for 25-30 grams of protein at each meal to keep your metabolism humming.

2. Greek Yogurt

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That creamy container of Greek yogurt in your fridge? It's actually a secret weapon against stubborn fat. With double the protein of regular yogurt and a healthy dose of probiotics, it's a one-two punch for your metabolism.

Dietitians at the Cleveland Clinic have found that the probiotics in yogurt help balance gut bacteria—which might be even more important after 40, when digestive efficiency naturally declines. Plus, the calcium in Greek yogurt has been linked to lower levels of belly fat, which becomes more of an issue with age.

How to enjoy it: Skip the sugary flavored versions and go for plain. Add a drizzle of honey and berries for a satisfying snack, use it as a sour cream replacement, or blend it into smoothies for a protein boost.

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3. Fatty Fish

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Salmon, mackerel, and sardines aren't just delicious—they're packed with omega-3 fatty acids that fight the inflammation that often increases after 40.

Scientists at the NIH discovered something remarkable: omega-3s can increase your resting metabolic rate by up to 14% and boost fat burning during exercise by a whopping 27%. Talk about a winning combination.

"When we look at heart health after 40, fatty fish really shines," says a cardiologist at Johns Hopkins Medicine. "The same omega-3s that protect your heart are also helping reduce that internal inflammation that makes weight loss so difficult in midlife."

How to enjoy it: Aim for two servings of fatty fish weekly. Try simple grilled salmon with lemon or sardines on whole-grain toast for lunch, or add mackerel to your favorite salad.

4. Whole Grains

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Forget what you've heard about cutting all carbs. Your body after 40 still needs them—just the right kind.

Researchers at Cleveland Clinic found something surprising when they studied whole grains in people under 50: those eating whole grains instead of refined ones had three times better blood pressure readings. That's huge for metabolic health, which directly impacts how well you burn fat.

"Whole grains provide steady energy without the crashes," explains a nutrition researcher at Cleveland Clinic. "After 40, those energy crashes can trigger stress hormones that promote fat storage, especially around the middle."

How to enjoy them: Start your day with steel-cut oats, swap white rice for brown or quinoa, and choose whole grain bread with at least 3 grams of fiber per slice.

5. Eggs

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Eggs have made a major comeback in nutrition circles, and for good reason. They're nature's perfect little package of high-quality protein, vitamin D, and choline—a nutrient that helps your body burn fat and is often lacking in our diets.

Research from the University of Connecticut found something interesting: people who eat eggs for breakfast naturally eat fewer calories throughout the day. The protein and healthy fats keep hunger hormones in check—a major win when battling age-related weight gain.

How to enjoy them: A two-egg breakfast with veggies and a slice of whole-grain toast makes a perfect metabolism-boosting morning meal. Hard-boiled eggs also make great portable snacks when you need something satisfying on the go.

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6. Legumes

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Lentils, black beans, and chickpeas might not be the sexiest foods in your kitchen, but they pack a one-two punch against age-related weight gain: fiber and protein.

Harvard researchers have found that this combination helps stabilize blood sugar—crucial after 40 when insulin resistance becomes more common. When your blood sugar stays steady, you avoid the energy crashes that lead to cravings and overeating.

How to enjoy them: Toss chickpeas into your salad, add lentils to soups, try bean-based pasta, or whip up a quick lunch of black bean and avocado wrap.

7. Green Tea

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Green tea isn't just a soothing ritual—it's loaded with compounds that give your metabolism a gentle nudge in the right direction.

NIH research shows that the catechins and caffeine in green tea work together to boost metabolism beyond what caffeine alone can do. While no single food or drink works miracles, green tea drinkers consistently show better results in weight management studies.

How to enjoy it: Replace your afternoon coffee with green tea, or start your morning with a cup. For maximum benefits, brew your own rather than buying bottled versions with added sugar.

8. Nuts and Seeds

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"They're calorie-dense, but that doesn't mean you should avoid them," says Harvard Health about nuts and seeds. In fact, people who regularly eat nuts tend to be leaner than those who don't—seemingly contradicting their high calorie count.

The protein, fiber, and healthy fats in almonds, walnuts, and flaxseeds create the perfect satisfied feeling that helps prevent overeating. Plus, they require more energy to digest than many other snacks.

How to enjoy them: Stick to about 1/4 cup (a small handful) daily. Add a tablespoon of ground flaxseeds to your morning smoothie, sprinkle chopped walnuts on your salad, or grab a small handful of almonds for an afternoon snack

RELATED:20 Superfoods for People Over 50

9. Leafy Greens

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You've heard it your whole life: eat your greens. After 40, this advice becomes even more crucial.

"When we look at the most successful weight managers after midlife, high vegetable intake is always a common factor," notes a dietitian at Mayo Clinic. "The fiber fills you up, the nutrients support metabolism, and the volume satisfies hunger cues—all with minimal calories."

How to enjoy them: Start meals with a simple salad, add spinach to smoothies (you won't taste it), wrap sandwich fillings in large lettuce leaves instead of bread, or roast kale with a little olive oil for a crunchy snack.

10. Water

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It sounds too simple to be true, but researchers at the University of Utah discovered that properly hydrated people burn more calories than those who are even slightly dehydrated. In fact, dehydration can slow metabolism by as much as 3%—and many of us walk around mildly dehydrated without even realizing it.

After 40, our thirst signals often become less reliable, making conscious hydration even more important.

How to enjoy it: Start the day with a full glass of water, keep a refillable bottle with you, add fruit slices or herbs for natural flavor, and eat water-rich foods like cucumber, watermelon, and strawberries.

Putting It All Together: Your After-40 Eating Strategy

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Here's what Dr. M. Regina Castro from Mayo Clinic tells her patients who are struggling with midlife weight changes: "You need to reset your body's metabolic expectations through consistent, gradual changes. Your meals should feature lean proteins alongside fruits and vegetables—this combination supports your changing metabolism."

Cleveland Clinic experts have another crucial tip: when you eat matters too. "Your body processes the exact same food differently depending on the time of day," they explain. "After 40, eating earlier in the day tends to work better for metabolism than late-night meals."

Dr. Christmas cuts right to the chase with her patients: "You can't exercise your way out of a bad diet, and you can't eat your way out of being inactive. After 40, you need both pieces working together."

The Bottom Line

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These 10 foods aren't magical—they work by supporting your body's changing needs after 40. They help maintain muscle mass, reduce inflammation, stabilize blood sugar, and keep your energy levels steady—all crucial factors in maintaining a healthy weight in midlife and beyond.

The best news? They're delicious, accessible, and can easily become part of your everyday eating. No extreme diets or bizarre superfoods required—just real, wholesome nutrition that works with your body, not against it.

It’s important to remember that weight management after 40 is about more than just food. Regular strength training, quality sleep, stress management, and staying hydrated all work together with good nutrition to keep your metabolism running at its best. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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We spend hours hunched over desks and slouched on couches, rarely challenging our bodies to move the way they naturally should. Digital coachLaura Try, with over 170,000 YouTube subscribers, invites us to reclaim a fundamental human position that many of us have lost: the deep squat. "Modern-day living and this chair-filled life is causing some of us to move less and with less range of motion," Laura explains. Try this simple test to discover where your mobility stands—you might be surprised at what you learn about your body.

What Is the Deep Squat Test?

The deep squat test challenges you to hold a deep squat position for as long as possible, ideally reaching the full 10 minutes. "The deep squat, otherwise known as the Asian or primal squat, is meant to be a resting position," Laura says. The challenge requires no equipment and can be done anywhere. It's not just about holding the position but assessing how your body responds to this natural human posture.

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The Lost Resting Position

What we now consider an exercise was once a normal resting position. Babies naturally squat with ease, and people of all ages in many cultures around the world use this position daily. It's not about age or special abilities—it's about regular practice. Laura points out, "They do it all the time and perhaps we should too." Being able to get into a deep squat is an indicator of total body mobility.

Why We Struggle With Squatting

Modern living has dramatically reduced our need to get low to the ground. "Once upon a time we'd have crouched down to light a fire, prepare our meals or investigate an edible plant growing on the ground. Now we have most things that we need at a convenient height," Laura notes. Our chair-dependent lifestyle has created what fitness expert Kelly Starrett calls "an imbalance between the environment and organism"—the way we live doesn't match what our bodies are designed to do.

Benefits Beyond Flexibility

The deep squat offers more than just improved mobility. "This concertina effect, even though our body is folded over, it kind of untangles the body by unlocking the ankles, hips and back," Laura explains. Regular practice can help with total body alignment, potentially reducing lower back pain and other issues. The position creates a full-body stretching and strengthening effect that counters the tightness from sedentary living.

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Making the Squat Accessible

Not everyone can immediately drop into a perfect deep squat—and that's perfectly okay. "Practicing this doesn't require you to be miserable; it can be enjoyable," Laura reassures. She suggests several modifications: placing something under your heels, using the wall for support, or even sitting on a low block. The goal isn't perfection but spending time in a version of the position that works for your body.

Laura's Personal Journey

Even fitness professionals struggle with this fundamental movement. "Believe me when I say six or seven years ago I could not get into a deep squat let alone stay here," Laura admits. Her ankles were tight, her shins would burn, and her hips and lower back would scream in protest. The position felt completely unnatural to her at first, defying the idea that it could ever be restful. Yet with consistent practice, her body adapted.

The "Use It or Lose It" Principle

Our bodies adapt to the demands we place on them—or don't place on them. "If we don't use our bodies and joints to their full range of motion what happens? They tighten up, use it or lose it," Laura emphasizes. By regularly practicing the deep squat, we signal to our body that this range of motion is important, helping to maintain or restore natural mobility that many people lose over time.

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Beyond Static Holding

The deep squat isn't just about getting down and staying down. "The thing about doing this is it isn't just about getting down here and staying down here but having the ability to get up from this position too which requires leg strength," Laura explains. This functional movement builds both mobility and strength, supporting everyday movements and potentially reducing injury risk as we age.

Making It Part of Daily Life

You don't need to set aside special time for deep squat practice. "Do a bit of weeding in your garden in this position, do some playtime with your children or grandchildren in this position, watch some TV in this position," Laura suggests. Even short periods throughout the day add up. The key is consistency, not duration—even 10 seconds at a time can help restore this natural movement pattern.

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The Routine That Worked for Laura

Consistent practice yields results, even if progress seems impossible at first. "The routine that really helped me get better at my deep squat over the years is the Ido Portal squat routine," Laura shares. She incorporated a shortened version into her warm-up routine for years, not realizing how much she had improved until suddenly the position felt comfortable. The transformation happened gradually through consistent practice over nine years.

A Test of Mental Resilience

The squat test challenges your mind as much as your body. "I can't say it's particularly comfortable; my hips feel really tight, my lower back is stretched, and my shins are burning a little bit," Laura admits at the nine-minute mark of her demonstration. Yet she persists, showing that mental fortitude is part of the process. The test builds not just physical capacity but also the ability to sit with discomfort.

Start Where You Are

Everyone's squat journey begins at a different place. Laura encourages readers to try the test regardless of their current ability level. "If you're trying this then I'd love to know how you're doing and how it feels," she says, inviting community participation. Whether you can hold the position for 10 seconds or 10 minutes, the key is starting the process of reclaiming this fundamental movement pattern. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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The bad news? There is no such thing as a fountain of youth. The good? There are foods you can eat to improve longevity. “Our skin reflects our overall health, and diet plays a massive role. The combination of the antioxidant effect manifests in improving the cell barrier, increased collagen production, and the enhancement of the natural oils in the skin, reflected in vibrant, youthful, and luminous skin and a reduction of fine lines and wrinkles. When skin is unhealthy, these are much more visible,” explainsMelanie Abeyta, Aesthetic Nurse Practitioner, Longevity Coach, and Owner of Harmony Aesthetics Center. She recommends focusing on an anti-inflammatory-based diet with lots of fresh fruit, water, and probiotics, which can help balance your gut, affecting your skin. “Incorporating these foods into your diet should be easy, and a variety of at least four of these foods, if not more, should be eaten daily,” she says.

Almond Milk

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Almond milk is an excellent source of vitamin E, a known antioxidant. “Antioxidants protect cells from damage caused by free radicals which can often cause irreversible damage to the skin because it contributes to collagen and elastin depletion,” says Abeyta. Collagen and elastin are essential substances that give the skin elasticity and firmness. “The collagen and elastin supply of the skin is depleted after prolonged exposure to free radicals. As you age, your body cannot replenish the depleted supply; this is the primary cause of wrinkles, fine lines, and other skin blemishes. Vitamin E, present in almond milk, protects the skin from the harmful effects of free radicals and this makes the skin healthy and younger-looking.”

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Avocado

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“Avocado is great because it contains Vitamins C and E and essential fatty acids that decrease inflammation and redness and improve fine lines and wrinkles. It also contains antioxidants that are important to prevent UV damage and help shed dead skin cells on the skin's surface,” she continues.

Blueberries

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Blueberries are high in Vitamins A and C, which have a high antioxidant content to help protect the skin from sun damage. “Vitamin A is a precursor to retinol and has a strong antioxidant and anti-aging effect,” says Abeyta.

Carrots

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Carrots are not only good for your eyes but are also excellent for smooth skin, says Abeyta. “Carotenoids, found in carrots, are your protection from everyday pollutants and will prevent wrinkles. The beta carotene in carrots is a skin-friendly nutrient converted to vitamin A inside the body and can protect your skin from the sun’s harmful rays. It also helps repair skin tissues while protecting the skin from harmful radiation,” she explains.

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Coconut

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“Coconut is not only highly nutritious and rich in fiber, vitamins, and minerals, but it also helps support the natural chemical balance of the skin to help prevent wrinkles and functions as a protective antioxidant,” says Abeyta. “It's also great for hydrating both skin and hair and helps prevent dehydration when taken by mouth, as it contains loads of electrolytes. Coconut also helps control dandruff.”

Cucumber

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Cucumber is a natural anti-inflammatory vegetable that can calm and soothe skin. “Plus, it is loaded with antioxidants and nutrients such as vitamin C and folic acid, which help reduce swelling and puffiness,” she adds. “Vitamin C helps stimulate new cell growth, and folic acid helps fight environmental toxins that can make your skin look tired or age prematurely. When combined, these help your skin look firmer and healthier. Cucumber can also help reduce breakouts as it can help cleanse the skin and tighten pores.”

Green Tea

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Green Tea is high in antioxidants, such as Vitamin C, and has anti-aging benefits that help fight free radicals to protect your skin from environmental stressors that can damage and age it. “It also contains Vitamin A, which is known to help improve the skin’s texture, and Vitamin B, which helps reduce redness. Plus, it has soothing properties and will help brighten the skin,” Abeyta explains.

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Nuts

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Nuts such as walnuts and almonds not only help strengthen the skin cell barrier but also the natural oil barrier of the skin, which ultimately helps prevent sun damage. “Because they contain antioxidants, vitamins, and healthy fats, they will help reduce the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles and skin pigmentation while improving the overall appearance of the skin,” she explains.

Olive Oil

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Olive oil contains four major antioxidants, which allow it to work as a cleanser and moisturizer. “Among these antioxidants are Vitamins A and E. Vitamin E has anti-aging benefits because it helps restore skin elasticity, reducing wrinkles,” Abeyta maintains.

Pumpkin

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Pumpkin is loaded with beta-carotene, a powerful antioxidant. “This converts to Vitamin A which helps prevent wrinkles and keep your skin youthful and moisturized. This is the perfect food if you are experiencing dry skin. Pumpkin is also loaded with Vitamin C, another antioxidant that protects collagen and boosts our immune systems,” says the expert.

Spinach

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Spinach is high in Vitamin C, which is essential for collagen production, and Vitamin A, which is vital for combatting inflammation and promoting cell turnover, which is essential for anti-aging. “Spinach is also rich in beta-carotene, which allows proper moisture retention in the skin to help fight wrinkles while removing dead skin cells for healthier, brighter skin,” Abeyta maintains.

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Sweet Potatoes

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“Sweet potatoes contain 200% of the recommended daily value of Vitamin A, which helps promote the growth of new skin cells and increases the rate at which this happens, leaving you with vibrant skin,” says Abeyta. Also, from one sweet potato, you’ll get three grams of fiber, which keeps your digestive tract healthy. “A functioning digestive tract can help keep breakouts to a minimum.”

Tomatoes

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Tomatoes are rich in vitamins A, B, C, K, alpha and beta-carotene, lutein, and lycopene. “Lycopene is especially beneficial because it’s a carotenoid with a powerful anti-cancer effect. These are all great antioxidants that help the skin maintain healthy collagen and reduce the risk of skin damage,” she claims.

Turmeric

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“Turmeric has brightening and anti-inflammatory properties, which help with melasma and inflamed acne. It will also help soothe and even out the skin, boost collagen production, and help with hyperpigmentation. Because it contains curcumin, a potent antioxidant, it will help neutralize free radicals that damage skin cells and contribute to aging,” Abeyta tells us. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.