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Coach Transformed Her Perimenopause with These 8 “Non-Negotiable” Habits

She is in the “best shape” of her life at 41 while putting in “way less effort,” she claims

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Are you starting to experience hormonal changes that are getting in the way of your weight loss? Marci Nevin is a perimenopause weight loss and wellness coach who helps women in perimenopause lose weight, get their “energy and waistline back,” and “beat belly fat and bloating,” she says in her Instagram bio. In a new social media post she reveals a handful of daily habit that help her keep fat at bay in her forties. “My daily non-negotiables that help me stay lean with less effort as a 41 year old woman in perimenopause,” she writes.


She Used to Go Over the Top with Diet and Exercise

“All through my 20s and up until my early 30s, I hustled my a** off to maintain a lean and fit physique. I was lifting 5-6 days a week, doing cardio, and adding extra conditioning types of workouts on top of it. While also eating a restrictive diet and rarely allowing myself to indulge in any food that wasn't ‘clean’,” she writes.

When She Put in “Less Effort” Her Body Transformed

It wasn't untilher health “hit rock bottom” and was forced to slow down that her body transformed. “But with way less effort. Wild, right?” she says. “Now at 41, I'm in the best shape of my life, and I easily maintain a body that is lean year round without putting in so much intense work or giving up the food I love. This is my playbook.”

1. She Doesn’t Hit Snooze

Marci’s health habits start literally the second she wakes up. “I never ever EVER hit snooze,” she writes. “Instead I get up right away, make my bed and start my morning routine.”

2. Meditation

Next up, she gets her zen on and focuses her mind. “I meditate, journal, and prayer to prime my mind and set the tone for the day,’ she says.

3. Walking

“I follow that up with a walk during sunrise. This has helped more than anything with keeping me energized and focused throughout the day and helping with sleep,” she continues. She calls walking, the “real secret weapon” for maintaining her weight. “I get 10,000 steps minimum,” she says.

4. Macro Tracking

Next up, she focuses on nutrition. “I track my macros so I know exactly how many calories I'm eating. Even though I no longer pre-log my days, I always have an idea of what my meals will look like and repeat the same ones often to reduce decision fatigue. I always get 100-120 g of protein and 25 g of fiber daily,” she writes.

5. Strength Training

Strength training is also part of her program. “ I move my body every day. Lifting is the priority and I do that 4x/week using a program designed for building muscle. I do Zone 2 cardio for heart and brain health,” she says.

6. Hydration

She also makes sure to hydrate. “I drink 20 oz of water first thing in the morning and before going for coffee or caffeine,” she writes.

7. High Protein Breakfast

Don’t sleep on your first meal of the day. “I also eat a big a**, high protein breakfast that keeps my hunger and cravings in check all day so I don't end up mindlessly snacking,” she says.

8. Sleep

Her last habit is giving her body the opportunity to regenerate and recharge. “I'm in bed by 9:30 and aim for a minimum of 7 hours sleep. I have a calming routine to help me relax and am off screens at least 1 hour before,” she writes.

Her Approach Is Sustainable

“I'm not special. But am a testament to what you can achieve with a sustainable approach and consistent effort. If you want it you still gotta work for it. But that can be done in a way that feels more easeful and enjoyable,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you starting to experience hormonal changes that are getting in the way of your weight loss? Marci Nevin is a perimenopause weight loss and wellness coach who helps women in perimenopause lose weight, get their “energy and waistline back,” and “beat belly fat and bloating,” she says in her Instagram bio. In a new social media post she reveals a handful of daily habit that help her keep fat at bay in her forties. “My daily non-negotiables that help me stay lean with less effort as a 41 year old woman in perimenopause,” she writes.

She Used to Go Over the Top with Diet and Exercise

“All through my 20s and up until my early 30s, I hustled my a** off to maintain a lean and fit physique. I was lifting 5-6 days a week, doing cardio, and adding extra conditioning types of workouts on top of it. While also eating a restrictive diet and rarely allowing myself to indulge in any food that wasn't ‘clean’,” she writes.

When She Put in “Less Effort” Her Body Transformed

It wasn't untilher health “hit rock bottom” and was forced to slow down that her body transformed. “But with way less effort. Wild, right?” she says. “Now at 41, I'm in the best shape of my life, and I easily maintain a body that is lean year round without putting in so much intense work or giving up the food I love. This is my playbook.”

1. She Doesn’t Hit Snooze

Marci’s health habits start literally the second she wakes up. “I never ever EVER hit snooze,” she writes. “Instead I get up right away, make my bed and start my morning routine.”

2. Meditation

Next up, she gets her zen on and focuses her mind. “I meditate, journal, and prayer to prime my mind and set the tone for the day,’ she says.

3. Walking

“I follow that up with a walk during sunrise. This has helped more than anything with keeping me energized and focused throughout the day and helping with sleep,” she continues. She calls walking, the “real secret weapon” for maintaining her weight. “I get 10,000 steps minimum,” she says.

4. Macro Tracking

Next up, she focuses on nutrition. “I track my macros so I know exactly how many calories I'm eating. Even though I no longer pre-log my days, I always have an idea of what my meals will look like and repeat the same ones often to reduce decision fatigue. I always get 100-120 g of protein and 25 g of fiber daily,” she writes.

5. Strength Training

Strength training is also part of her program. “ I move my body every day. Lifting is the priority and I do that 4x/week using a program designed for building muscle. I do Zone 2 cardio for heart and brain health,” she says.

6. Hydration

She also makes sure to hydrate. “I drink 20 oz of water first thing in the morning and before going for coffee or caffeine,” she writes.

7. High Protein Breakfast

Don’t sleep on your first meal of the day. “I also eat a big a**, high protein breakfast that keeps my hunger and cravings in check all day so I don't end up mindlessly snacking,” she says.

8. Sleep

Her last habit is giving her body the opportunity to regenerate and recharge. “I'm in bed by 9:30 and aim for a minimum of 7 hours sleep. I have a calming routine to help me relax and am off screens at least 1 hour before,” she writes.

Her Approach Is Sustainable

“I'm not special. But am a testament to what you can achieve with a sustainable approach and consistent effort. If you want it you still gotta work for it. But that can be done in a way that feels more easeful and enjoyable,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Do you want to majorly glow up in just a month? One expert has a plan for you. Cara Metz is a 50-year-old fitness trainer with over 20 years of experience and over 616,000 followers on Instagram. In a new social media post, she reveals exactly what she did to transform her body in four weeks. “Tired, bloated, and struggling. That was me at the beginning of the year! Here’s EXACTLY what I did to feel like ME again!” she writes in a post.

15-Minute Workouts, 5x a Week

The first thing she did was 15-minute workouts five times a week. “Focused on breath, technique & consistency using my BUILD plan. Prioritized strength & conditioning, because midlife women NEED muscle!” she writes.

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Whole Food Nutrition with 80/20 Balance

She also followed the 80/20 diet, focusing on whole foods. “Following my BUILD & PUSH plan, REAL food made for women over 40. No calorie counting, no deprivation, just simple, effective meals. 20% wiggle room, because life is for living!” she said.

Managing Stress

Managing stress was also a key part of her approach. “You can’t remove stress, but you CAN learn to handle it better. Deep breaths, count to 10, let go of the small stuff,” she says.

Daily Walks

She also took daily walks for connection and movement. “Walked every day, movement is key to staying strong, happy & independent. Walking side-by-side = the best way to talk & connect!” she said.

10-Minute Morning Meditation

Another zen habit she took up? Meditation. She spent 10 minutes every morning meditating. “Creates my force field bubble to handle life’s chaos!” she writes.

Reading Before Bed for Better Sleep

And, before bed, she started reading and stopped eating. “No eating after 7PM + one chapter before bed = game-changer!” she writes.

The Combination Is Effective

“The 4 Pillars: Movement, Nutrition, Sleep & Stress,” she concludes. “Focusing on ALL 4 is what truly transformed my energy, digestion & body.”

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15-Minute Workouts Are a “Game Changer”

In another post, she reveals that she relies on short but intense workouts. “15 minute workouts have been a game changer for me and the ladies who are part of the Cara Fitness family. Do you feel you need to workout for longer? If yes. Why?” she asks.

Do Each Exercise for 50 Seconds

Cara gives the “workout breakdown” and explains that you should do each exercise for 50 seconds each with 10 seconds of rest in between. Then, “repeat the sequence 3 times for a 15 minute workout,” she says.

Here Are the Exercises

  1. Cross bicep curl
  2. Tricep kickbacks & hold
  3. Upright row & clean
  4. Back to front & front drive
  5. Stepping shoulder press.
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Have you struggled to lose weight but failed time and time again? You may have to shift your mindset, says one influencer. Ashley Hughes is a mother of four who regularly shares her weight loss journey. In a new video, she reveals that establishing three healthy habits was a core part of her slim-down success, ultimately helping her drop 40 pounds.


It’s Never Too Late to Reinvent Yourself, She Says

At the start of the clip, she explains that she wants to discuss “reinventing yourself” using her own story. “I think most of us at some point think it's too late to create changes, even if deep down we really want something,” she says in the video. She hit a point “where I felt I wasn't in control of so many areas of my life, and that I just needed to accept where I was physically, financially, emotionally, really, I just felt every aspect of my life just felt sad,” she said.

She Struggled to Lose Weight for Years

“Up until that point, I had done countless weight loss challenges in my life,” she continued, explaining that after having each of her babies, “the weight seemed just to be a little more difficult to get off. You know, I'd gain weight with each pregnancy and then not lose all of it. And then I was pregnant again, which meant more weight.”

She Hit Rock Bottom

She finally hit a bottom with her weight. “This was all me. And I could accept my past decisions of never finding time to exercise and not paying attention to my nutrition. I could have accepted that this is just who I am. So why bother even trying? For a while, I actually did feel that way because I had tried so many things in the past, yet I always found myself back here, back in the same routine of eating habits and having no physical activity, a part of my daily routine. This is where I ended up every single time.”

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A Discussion with Her Husband Sparked Change

However, on the last day of October, she sat down with her husband and talked about “all of the areas of my life that I wasn't happy with and that I really wanted to change,” she says. “What was interesting was the whole month of October when I was living in a state of acceptance, you know, accepting the fact that my past decisions had made up my life and that this was just who I was.”

She Decided She “Deserved More”

“When I sat down with my husband, and I had this conversation with him and just opened up about the fact that I wasn't happy and I wanted to change at that moment, I immediately felt better. I felt happier. I felt excited. It was like this moment of realizing, no, I am the creator of my life, and I get to decide what my next chapter looks like. That immediately lit a flame inside me. And I believe it takes this realization moment for all of us to decide we want more or deserve more finally, and we're far more capable of maybe what we are accomplishing,” she says.

She Committed to 6 Months

“On November 1st, I remember waking up with a new feeling inside of me that I wanted to change but wasn't sure how I was going to go about it,” she admits. She “stumbled across a little graphic on Instagram that said something along the lines of, if you committed yourself to six months of doing these things on this checklist — some of those items were working out four to five times a week, personal development, going for walks, getting eight hours of sleep, cutting out negativity — and I remember reading that and feeling a fire inside of me, and I knew that I had to do this. I had to commit myself to six months of really trying.”

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She Focused on Personal Development

And so she started “spending time daily in personal development, meditating and focusing on removing negativity from my life, which included negative thoughts or self-talk, this was literally the answer I needed to change my life and to reinvent myself completely,” she continues. She also stopped staying up late and eating unhealthy food. “Let me tell you something I really found to be true during this whole journey. The day you decide to change, and you wake up, and you're crossing things off your checklist that are helping you move the needle towards your goals, you will never be happier than when you are working towards something,” she says.

Habit 1: Immerse Yourself Into Your New Lifestyle

What are some different ways to apply this idea and create a new daily routine that you will stick to? Here are the three habits. The first is “to immerse yourself into the world of whatever it is you're trying to go after,” she says. “To really completely reinvent yourself, you've got to be eating, sleeping, breathing, this new lifestyle.”

She recommends “following accounts on social media that will inspire you every single day to stick to your new lifestyle, unfollow anyone who maybe causes you to have negative thoughts or will distract you from becoming this new version of yourself, find podcasts, YouTube, videos, books, eBooks, all things related to your topic,” she suggests. “Maybe you've heard of the power of proximity, who you surround yourself with, you become, and this can absolutely be virtual. You don't have to know these people to be inspired by them and for them to influence your daily decisions.”

Habit 2: Create Daily Action Step Goals

“I would also make a point to create daily action step goals. Make the action your goal. So, instead of saying, my goal is to lose 20 pounds, that can be your big goal, but your goal today is to get your workout in and to stick to your meal plan. When the day is over, you will feel so much more accomplished because you achieved your goal,” she says. “When you do this consistently, your big goal happens by default. This can be applied to any goal you have. Create action step goals on a daily, weekly, and monthly basis that are bringing you closer to your big goal.”

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Check in with Yourself Nightly

“A very important step is to check in with yourself every single night. Reflect on your day and the decisions you made. Did you make decisions based on your old past self, or did you make choices? This renewed higher version of yourself would make the simplest way to stay on track when it comes to reinventing yourself is to consider your highest self in every decision you make each day. Is this the choice the higher version of you would make? If not, don't do it, and eventually, you will become this person. In fact, the decisions that used to be so hard or uncomfortable for you to make will become uncomfortable for you not to make them because this is just who you are now. This is the new you,” she concludes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Hot flashes, weight gain, and mood swings can make menopause feel like your body has turned against you. Even simple daily activities become challenging when you're dealing with night sweats and fatigue. But fitness expertLucy Wyndham-Read has turned her personal journey of resilience into a mission to help women thrive during this transition. With nearly 30 years of fitness training experience and 2.4 million YouTube followers, Lucy combines her military discipline with deep understanding of women's health to create effective, accessible workouts. Her approach, born from both professional expertise and personal transformation, makes fitness feel achievable for women at any stage of their menopause journey. Read on to discover a 15-minute workout that can help reduce menopause symptoms and restore your confidence—no equipment needed.

Understanding Menopause

"Menopause is a point in time when you've gone 12 consecutive months without a menstrual period. It happens, on average, at age 52," says Cleveland Clinic. During this time, "your ovaries stop producing reproductive hormones," leading to various physical and emotional changes. These hormonal shifts can begin years before menopause officially occurs, during a stage called perimenopause, which can last "eight to 10 years before menopause."

Recognizing Common Symptoms

The Cleveland Clinic identifies several key symptoms of menopause, including "irregular periods, hot flashes, night sweats, difficulty sleeping, emotional changes, and joint and muscle aches and pains." Exercise can help address many of these symptoms, which is why Lucy's program focuses on comprehensive fitness. "The average length of menopause symptoms is about seven years," they note, making it crucial to develop sustainable exercise habits.

Warm-Up: Essential Preparation

"We're going to start with a quick little warmup," Lucy says in her post, emphasizing the importance of properly preparing your body. The warm-up includes 10 side steps, hamstring curls, and alternating punches. "This is just going to really help mobilize through your joints and warm up your body," she explains, keeping the preparation brief but effective at just 40 seconds.

Core Focus: Managing Menopausal Weight Changes

The Cleveland Clinic notes that weight gain can be a common menopause symptom due to hormonal changes, as "you may start to lose muscle as you get older, which can affect how your body gains weight." Addressing this, Lucy introduces targeted exercises: "We're going to really work those abs," she explains, focusing on movements that "help to reduce that visceral fat that's that deeper fat that we find we often gain when we're menopausal."

Cardiovascular Health: A Critical Component

The Cleveland Clinic warns that "after menopause, your risk for cardiovascular disease tends to increase" due to multiple factors, including "the loss of estrogen" and "increased blood pressure." Lucy's workout addresses this through integrated cardio: "Exercise really does become your best friend," she shares, explaining how these movements support "bone health, joint health, heart health, brain health, metabolic health, and mental health."

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Bone Health: Preventing Osteoporosis

"People lose an average of 25% of their bone mass from the time of menopause to age 60," states the Cleveland Clinic, largely due to estrogen loss. Lucy specifically addresses this through impact training: "The great thing is with doing these walking moves, what we're doing is we're really actually helping with your lower body bone health here as well. Because every time we stamp that foot down, it creates a piso chemical reaction which really helps build a stronger bone."

Multi-Directional Movement: Comprehensive Fitness

"Your body moves in three different directions," Lucy explains while leading lateral steps with punches. "These are way more effective than doing planks or crunches. It's far better to be standing up and doing these exercises," she advises. This approach helps maintain functional fitness, which becomes increasingly important as the Cleveland Clinic notes that "maintaining physical activity" is crucial for managing menopause symptoms.

Mental Wellbeing: Managing Emotional Changes

The Cleveland Clinic identifies several emotional changes during menopause, including "anxiety, depression, mood changes and tension." Lucy addresses the mental health aspect of menopause fitness: "This stage of our life is where I've embraced it and I feel more confident - we know who we are as women and it's a time that we can still enjoy life."

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Nutrition and Lifestyle Support

The Cleveland Clinic emphasizes the importance of "lifestyle changes" in managing menopause symptoms. Lucy complements this with specific nutritional advice: "Protein is really key," she notes, but advises to "get protein through its natural sources" rather than supplements. She also recommends berries and dark chocolate (in moderation) for their antioxidant properties, and stresses the importance of staying hydrated during menopause.

Treatment Options and Exercise Benefits

While the Cleveland Clinic notes that "there are many different types of treatments for managing menopause symptoms," including hormone therapy and medication, they emphasize that "lifestyle adjustments" play a crucial role. Lucy's approach makes these adjustments accessible: "You don't need any equipment. You could even do this, let's be honest, in your pajamas."

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Long-Term Health Investment

"What you and I have done is we've just invested in your future health," Lucy concludes. This aligns with the Cleveland Clinic's guidance that managing menopause symptoms effectively requires a comprehensive approach. The workout combines cardiovascular exercise, strength training, and flexibility work to address the various physical and emotional challenges of menopause while building a foundation for long-term health. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you in your late thirties or early forties and struggling to lose weight? You may need to update a few simple habits, says one expert. Gabrielle Carolyn is a hormone and cortisol coach who specializes in helping women over 40 “lose fat” and “gain energy” in the “natural” way. In a new social media post, she discusses her own journey of losing 12 pounds leading up to 40 and getting in the best shape of her life. “Curious how I finally broke through my fat loss plateau?” she writes in the post, going on to reveal the four game-changing habits that enabled her to do it.


She Struggled to Lose Baby Weight in Her Mid-30s

“Turning 40 in July has me feeling amazing! But last year? It was a different story. After having my kids in my mid-30s, I struggled to lose that extra weight. It felt impossible… until I found a routine that really worked for me. Now, I’m so excited to share what made the difference!” she writes in the post.

Cortisol Was the Culprit, She Claims

Cortisol, the “stress hormone,” can “make fat loss—especially around the belly—super frustrating,” she continues. “Getting a handle on healthy cortisol is what changed everything.” Here are the four key changes she made to help her lose weight and keep it off.

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1. She Switched Up Her Workouts

The first thing she did? “Switched up my workouts,” she revealed. “I moved from cardio to strength training, which boosted my metabolism and helped burn more calories.”

Strength Training Is Great for Weight Loss

The Mayo Clinic supports strength and weight training to help reduce body fat, preserve and increase lean muscle mass, and burn calories more efficiently. Strength training may also help you:

  • Develop strong bones
  • Manage your weight
  • Enhance your quality of life
  • Manage chronic conditions
  • Sharpen your thinking skills

2. She Prioritized Sleep

She also stresses the importance of getting enough rest. “Prioritized sleep,” is her second healthy habit for losing weight. “Getting consistent, quality rest balanced my hormones and improved how I felt overall,” she says.

Other Benefits of Sleep

According to the Sleep Foundation, weight loss is one of the many benefits of getting enough sleep. Others are, it is a mood booster, promotes heart health, regulates blood sugar, improves mental function, restores your immune system, helps relieve stress, and aids in weight loss.

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3. She Hydrated

Drinking liquids was also key in her journey, she claims. She explains that she “stayed hydrated,” and it was very beneficial. “Upping my water intake and adding electrolytes with trace minerals helped me stay energized and balanced,” she says.

Benefits of Hydration and How Much Water You Should Drink

What is so important about hydration? The Mayo Clinic explains that water helps get rid of waste through urination, perspiration, and bowel movements, keeps your temperature normal, lubricates and cushions joints, and helps protect sensitive tissues. According to the U.S. National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine, men should drink about 15.5 cups (3.7 liters) of fluids a day and women about 11.5 cups (2.7 liters) of fluids.

4. She Took the “Right” Supplements

To compensate for nutritional deficiencies, she took “the right supplements,” she continues. “My Cortisol Combo was the game-changer in managing stress and staying on track.”

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The “Small Changes” Made a Big Difference

Bottom line? She claims that incorporating a few key habits was a huge game-changer in her weight loss journey. “These small changes have helped me keep off those 12 pounds for over a year, and I’ve never felt better,” she writes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Do you want to lose weight but aren’t sure which habits are hurting or helping you? One expert has some suggestions. Luisana Carrero is a nutrition coach and social media influencer who knows how to lose weight and keep it off from personal experience. In a new social media post, she opens up about her journey. “4 mistakes I had to stop making before I could finally lose 28 pounds in 4 months,” she writes. “I used to think something was wrong with me, blaming my hormones and lack of willpower…Until I realized I was making these mistakes.”

Mistake: Eating Clean But Not Paying Attention to Calories

Her first mistake? “Eating clean without paying attention to the amount of calories I was consuming,” she says. “I thought eating clean meant I’d automatically lose weight 😅, but I didn’t realize that even healthy foods can lead to weight gain if you’re eating too much.”

Fix: She Used a Macro Calculator

How did she correct this mistake? “Instead, I started measuring my portions to ensure I was actually in a calorie deficit,” she writes. She recommends using a macro calculator.

Mistake: Rewarding Herself with Cheat Meals

Another mistake she made? Rewarding herselff with “cheat meals,” she says. “I’d be ‘good’ all week, then go overboard on cheat meals, turning one meal into an entire weekend of indulgence.

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Fix: Eating Mostly Healthy But Including Food She Loves

What does she do instead? “I incorporated a healthy balance of the foods I love into my daily diet (10-20% of my total calories). This made dieting less stressful and helped me stay consistent long enough,” she reveals.

Mistake: Neglecting Daily Movement

Another mistake she made? “Neglecting daily movement,” she writes. “I used to sit all day and assumed my 1-hour workouts were enough, but they weren’t.”

Fix: Daily Walks

Her fix was adding steps to her day. “Walking became a non-negotiable for me. I committed to hitting 10,000 steps every day, I do this by going on walks or using my walking pad,” she says.

Mistake: Surrounding Herself with People Who Didn’t Support Her Goals

Her final mistake? “Surrounding myself with people who didn’t support my goals,” she writes. “‘Friends’ would make fun of my choices, and I let it get to me.”

Fix: Setting Boundaries

How did she fix this? “I started setting boundaries and distanced myself from negativity. Prioritizing my own health and happiness became my focus,” she writes.

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These Small Changes Made a Big Difference

The bottom line? “These small but impactful changes completely transformed my life and I’m sure they’ll help you too,” she writes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Do you want to lose weight but aren’t sure what foods to eat and which to avoid? Ruth Soukup is a midlife health and mindset coach who lost almost 50 pounds. She regularly shares her tips and tricks with hundreds of thousands of Instagram followers. “I lost 49 pounds at age 43 without dieting or Ozempic,” she writes. In two posts, she reveals 7 foods she eats “pretty much every day” and 7 she avoids. “I struggled with my weight for YEARS before I finally stopped dieting once and for all, and just focused on balancing my hormones instead. In the process, I lost 49 pounds and have kept it off, without ever counting calories,” she says.

What She Eats: Animal Protein

Animal protein is the first item on her list. “This usually includes bone broth and farm fresh eggs in the morning, chicken at lunch, and either beef, chicken, pork, or fish at dinnertime,” she says.

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Healthy Fat

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She also makes sure to eat healthy fat. “This mostly comes from avocado oil, EVOO, and butter, but also full fat dairy—heavy cream, cream cheese, cheese, sour cream, greek yogurt, and cottage cheese,” she says.

Vegetables

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She eats lots of veggies, too. “Lots of broccoli, cauliflower, spinach, asparagus, bell peppers, onions, garlic, tomatoes, carrots, and Brussels Sprouts. I don’t eat a ton of salad, unless it’s a good Caesar with homemade dressing, which I make every few weeks,” she says.

Fresh Berries

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Fruits are also on her shopping list, especially fresh berries. “Mostly strawberries, blueberries, and raspberries,” she writes.

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Fermented Foods

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“I try to eat at least a little bit of fermented food every day for the probiotics,” she says. “My favorite is kimchi, but I’ll also do fresh sauerkraut or kefir, and I make my own fermented ketchup (scroll down in my feed for the recipe.)”

Starches

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Starches are also part of her diet. “I don’t tend to eat a ton of starchy food, but I do love real sourdough bread, and I also sometimes make potatoes or jasmine rice to go with dinner, depending on what we’re having,” she says.

Seasonings

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She also invests money in seasoning. “Generally lots of salt, pepper, garlic & onion powder, fresh herbs and hot sauce,” she writes. One of her favorites? The Green Dragon sauce from Trader Joes.

She Doesn’t Eat: Vegetable Oil

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In another post, she reveals what she eliminated from her diet. “Vegetable oil or any other highly processed seed oils, as well as Crisco and margarine,” she writes. “These are all so toxic and highly inflammatory! I also tend to avoid any processed foods that contain these oils. Instead, I cook with butter, avocado oil, and olive oil.”

Sugar

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She also stays away from sugar. “If I do need to use a sweetener for a recipe, I typically stick to monkfruit or allulose or a blend of those two,” she says.

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High Fructose Corn Syrup

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High fructose corn syrup is another no-no. “Another highly toxic and inflammatory ingredient I try to avoid that is sadly way too common in so many processed foods,” she writes

Packaged Side Dishes

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Ruth also recommends avoiding packaged side dishes, “such as mac and cheese, stuffing, rice pilaf blends, scalloped potatoes, hamburger helper, etc.” These are highly processed foods.

Breakfast Cereal

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Ruth strongly suggests staying away from breakfast cereal. Most of it is highly processed and contains lots of additives and sugar. If you want to eat cereal, opt for a higher-fiber, lower-sugar option.

Brownie and Cake Mix

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Brownies and cake mixes are also on her list of things to avoid. If you do enjoy baking, try cooking from scratch using healthier flours and sweeteners, which will result in a less processed and more nutritious product.

Fruit Juice

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According to Ruth, fruit juice may sound nutritious, but you should stay away. ”Except for Clamato, which we use for Bloody Marys on the weekend! The rest of it is just pure sugar,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you trying to lose weight and tackling nutrition, but nothing works? You might be making a common mistake. Randy Kotey, aka “The Flat Tummy Coach,” is a weight loss and fitness coach who helps his clients “lose weight and reduce bloat,” per his social media bio. In a new social media post, he gets honest about what it takes to get in shape, especially with nutrition. “Here are five common mistakes women often make when trying to lose belly fat,” he says.

Skipping Meals

You might think that skipping a meal helps you eat less throughout the day and will lead to weight loss. However, according to Kotey, this isn’t the case. In fact, it can make you put on weight instead. “Skipping meals, especially breakfast, can slow down metabolism and lead to overeating later in the day, making it harder to lose belly fat,” he writes.

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Relying on Low-Fat or Diet Foods

You are wrong if you are walking around the grocery store believing that low-fat and diet foods are the right option for weight loss. “Many low-fat or diet-labeled foods are high in sugar or artificial ingredients, which can contribute to belly fat. It’s better to focus on whole, nutrient-dense foods,” he says.

Not Eating Enough Protein

One major mistake women make is not eating enough protein, per Kotey. “Protein is essential for maintaining muscle mass and boosting metabolism. Not getting enough can make it harder to lose belly fat and maintain weight loss,” he writes. According to clinical trials, consuming more protein than the recommended dietary allowance not only reduces body weight (BW) but also enhances body composition by decreasing fat mass while preserving fat-free mass (FFM) in both low-calorie and standard-calorie diets.

Overeating Healthy Fats

Healthy fats can help your body burn fat. But eating too much of them will have the opposite effect. “While healthy fats like avocados, nuts, and olive oil are good for you, they are also calorie-dense. Overeating them can lead to an excess calorie intake, hindering belly fat loss,” Kotey explains.

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Drinking High-Calorie Beverages

Don’t drink your calories, even if they offer some health benefits. “Consuming sugary drinks, including fruit juices, smoothies, and certain ‘health’ drinks, can add a lot of hidden calories. These beverages can spike blood sugar levels, leading to increased belly fat. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.