Many women avoid weight training, fearing they'll become too muscular or believing it's too late to start. Rae Bright of @LiveYourselfYoung proves these concerns are unfounded. At 53, Rae started competing in bodybuilding competitions and even outperformed her husband in certain exercises. Now she is 58, and her journey from being too intimidated to enter a gym to becoming stronger than many younger people offers insights for women looking to transform their health and strength after 50.
The Surprising Strength Women Over 50 Can Build
Think you can't build significant strength after 50? Think again. "I am healthier, stronger and more confident in my 50s than I was in my 20s," Rae says in her video. She even proudly notes the one body part where she's stronger than her husband: calves. Weight training offers women over 50 vital benefits, including stronger bones, reduced heart disease risk, improved metabolism, enhanced fat loss, stress relief, and mood improvement. The science confirms that resistance training helps slow the aging process at a cellular level.
Choose Your Training Space Wisely
Finding the right environment makes all the difference in consistency. "Getting motivated is the first challenge to start your weight training journey," Rae explains. She recommends deciding whether you prefer training at home, joining a gym, or combining both approaches. Rae herself began at home in her 40s because she felt too intimidated by gym environments. Even in a small space, effective workouts are possible—as she demonstrates with footage of her son and daughter-in-law training in a tiny room.
Start With These Simple Equipment Essentials
Don't let equipment concerns prevent you from beginning. "All that strength training is, is using resistance to create work for your muscles," Rae explains. She recommends starting with bodyweight exercises before introducing basic tools like resistance bands and light dumbbells. Focus first on mastering proper form and technique before increasing weights. This gradual approach helps prevent injury while building a strong foundation for impressive strength gains later.
Find The Right Support System
Having proper guidance dramatically increases your chances of success. "In my experience, whatever you decide, home or gym, you need some support, you need some guidance," says Rae. She credits her husband Andrew with helping build her confidence when she finally committed to gym training at 50. For those without a knowledgeable training partner, she recommends investing in a personal trainer initially to learn proper form and technique. Use your trainer as "an educational tool so that you learn from them."
Follow This Simple Weekly Training Schedule
Consistency matters more than marathon sessions. "The NHS recommends that every adult fits in a minimum of two strength training sessions a week, hitting all the major muscle groups," Rae shares. She cites research suggesting older adults can build significant muscle mass with just two 40-minute sessions weekly. Rae's current routine includes alternating upper and lower body days with appropriate rest periods—a schedule that helped her become strong enough to compete in bodybuilding at 54. Remember that proper recovery becomes increasingly important after 50.
Track Every Lift To Maximize Progress
Recording your workouts provides concrete evidence of improvement. "This is a really good motivational tool when you look back and see how far you've come," says Rae. She emphasizes that tracking helps with progressive overload—the gradual increase in challenge necessary for continued strength gains. Keep a simple log of exercises, weights, repetitions, and how you felt during each session. This habit helps identify which exercises are contributing most to your progress.
Master Proper Breathing For Pelvic Protection
Breathing technique becomes crucial as women age, particularly for pelvic floor health. "One thing I do differently now than before my surgery is focus on my breathing when I lift," Rae explains, referring to her recovery from pelvic organ prolapse surgery. She recommends inhaling during the lowering phase of movements and exhaling while lifting. This natural breathing pattern helps protect your pelvic floor while maximizing strength. For specific health concerns, she suggests beginning with seated exercises to maintain proper form with less pressure.
Make Strength A Lifelong Priority
Consistency creates lasting transformation. "I want to encourage other women in their 50s to not only start weight training, but to keep going for life," urges Rae. She emphasizes that building strength becomes increasingly essential for maintaining independence and quality of life as we age. Even with just two sessions weekly, women over 50 can develop impressive strength that enhances everyday activities and prevents age-related decline. As Rae proves by outlifting her husband in certain exercises, age is no barrier to becoming remarkably strong.