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Rekindle Intimacy in 4 Weeks With These Tips

Carol Queen, PhD, offers tips on how to reignite the spark in your love life.

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Are you feeling like the fire is waning between you and your partner? It may be time to work on rekindling the fire between you. Carol Queen, PhD, Sexologist, is an award-winning author of over twenty books about sexuality and maintains that you can get your sex life back on track in less than four weeks. Here is everything you need to know about rekindling intimacy.


There Are Two Types of Intimacy: Physical and Emotional

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There are two kinds of intimacy to consider, according to Dr. Queen. Physical intimacy, aka sex (non-sexual physical connection like cuddling might count as part of this sort for some, not for others), and also emotional intimacy. “These are (often, or at least expected to be) connected in ongoing relationships; they are also potentially separate from each other when things get tough in a relationship, so that, for instance, in some, the emotional intimacy and love stays steady while sex wanes, or vice versa,” she says.

You Don’t Need Both for a Relationship

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“You don't absolutely have to have both for a relationship—asexuals might not, for instance—but if a relationship is based on lacking either thing, it should be agreed upon by the participants. This keeps the terms of the relationship consent-based,” continues Dr. Queen. “And I should note that when people are engaged casually or in poly contexts, they might also be separate—or together to whatever degree a casual situation allows for intimacy.”

RELATED: This Is Exactly How to Lose Body Fat This Year

Examine Your Relationship and What You Want From It

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Before you go into a four-week process with your significant other, Dr. Queen recommends closely considering your relationship, what you expected from it and want from it, and what you have:

  • Has anything about your patterns of intimacy changed since the beginning? (That might be different than just realizing something seems lacking and realizing it is important to you to try to fix.)
  • Are you operating on assumptions about relationships or agreements you made together?
  • Has anything changed in your circumstances? (Common examples: had a child; ill health; stress from outside the relationship, such as work issues or a sick parent); menopause; erectile or arousal issues; an affair or some other sort of betrayal; etc.)
  • You'll want to do this so you can communicate with your partner about what you perceive to be going on, how it affects you, and how you hope you can pivot together to address it.

Next, Get Your Partner Involved

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The next step is getting your partner involved in thinking about where you are together.

  • Your partner should also consider the above questions, or you can talk it through with them.
  • When you talk, make sure you both are as unstressed as possible, agree that it's a good time to talk about Issues (if it's not, arrange a different time), and can focus on one another.
  • The next step is to share your perceptions and ask about theirs—the goal is to get on the same page regarding what you might work on together (or at least spell out what you agree might need to be fixed).
  • Note: While our relationships are certainly important to us, a conversation like this might raise red flags you shouldn't ignore. For example, your partner doesn't see a problem at all, is irritable, hostile, or minimizes your perceptions, or gets super-defensive, blames, or shames.
  • If red flags are present, your rekindling work would likely be more successful with a couple's therapist to guide you. (TBH it might even signal that this is a relationship that should be ended and not rekindled. Extreme responses might even signal a safety issue.)

Your Issues Might Be Communication Based

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“If your issues are particularly emotion-based and seem to revolve around your communication, your ideas about romance or connection, and generally the health of the relationship outside the bedroom, here are some possibly relevant things to consider and/or change,” she says.

  • the way you communicate (with love, care, respect—or not)
  • the way you deal with it if you're not on the same page about something
  • how do you let each other know you're important to each other
  • the amount of time you spend together
  • whether both feel supported by the other

You Might Need to Cultivate New Habits

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“You might want to cultivate new habits,” she says.

  • around emotionally intimate time together
  • meaningful activities or rituals (quality time, together time)
  • You may need to work on your communication styles if they are out of alignment

Other Common Issues

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There are some other common issues, she adds:

  • for partners to assume they know what the other's POV is
  • to have gendered ideas about relationships, intimacy, and sex
  • to have the possibility of truly open communication cause anxiety (again—maybe therapy here!)

Don’t Make Assumptions

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“Issues in a sexual relationship are often tangled up in the above. It's common for partners to assume things about their relationship,” says Dr. Queen. These include:

  • when their partner wants sex (or not)
  • how they feel about sex in general
  • whether they are getting turned on and coming
  • mistakenly personalizing it when their partner is stressed about something that affects their sex life ("They don't find me attractive anymore")
  • love and "finding the one" equals good sex

Other Issues

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Other issues, according to Dr. Queen, can include:

  • resisting their partner's requests or suggestions
  • faking interest and orgasm
  • turning away from sex because they are ashamed to share about an issue (like ED, for instance, or sexual pain conditions)
  • the many stress-related life changes I mentioned above

Communication Is Key

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“Partners in a sexual rut or drought need to open up about their beliefs, expectations, desires, experiences, and limits. (Again, maybe a therapy thing!),” says Dr. Queen. As well as:

  • listening non judgmentally
  • evaluating whether our beliefs/assumptions are on base
  • addressing shame and any past trauma
  • breaking down your sexual relationship and considering how you communicate about it, initiate, get turned on (kissing, "foreplay," etc.), and deal with orgasm.
  • learning more about sex, “especially the sex you and your partner have and/or want to have

Your Timeline May Vary

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It might take more or less than four weeks. “That's because partners have different needs and degrees of ease or difficulty with all this,” says Dr. Queen.

RELATED: 7 Essential Minerals That Boost Your Weight Loss Journey

Books She Recommends

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Dr. Queen recommends the following books and workbooks.

💪🔥Body Booster: The first thing to examine if intimacy is waning is your communication skills.

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Are you feeling like the fire is waning between you and your partner? It may be time to work on rekindling the fire between you. Carol Queen, PhD, Sexologist, is an award-winning author of over twenty books about sexuality and maintains that you can get your sex life back on track in less than four weeks. Here is everything you need to know about rekindling intimacy.


There Are Two Types of Intimacy: Physical and Emotional

Couple sitting on sofa at home in front of fireplace, rear view.Shutterstock

There are two kinds of intimacy to consider, according to Dr. Queen. Physical intimacy, aka sex (non-sexual physical connection like cuddling might count as part of this sort for some, not for others), and also emotional intimacy. “These are (often, or at least expected to be) connected in ongoing relationships; they are also potentially separate from each other when things get tough in a relationship, so that, for instance, in some, the emotional intimacy and love stays steady while sex wanes, or vice versa,” she says.

You Don’t Need Both for a Relationship

Image of happy excited young friends loving couple chefs on the kitchen eat tasty pasta.Shutterstock

“You don't absolutely have to have both for a relationship—asexuals might not, for instance—but if a relationship is based on lacking either thing, it should be agreed upon by the participants. This keeps the terms of the relationship consent-based,” continues Dr. Queen. “And I should note that when people are engaged casually or in poly contexts, they might also be separate—or together to whatever degree a casual situation allows for intimacy.”

RELATED: This Is Exactly How to Lose Body Fat This Year

Examine Your Relationship and What You Want From It

Healthy runners running in Stockholm city cityscape background. Riddarholmskyrkan church in the background, Sweden, Europe. Healthy multiracial young adults, asian woman, caucasian man.Shutterstock

Before you go into a four-week process with your significant other, Dr. Queen recommends closely considering your relationship, what you expected from it and want from it, and what you have:

  • Has anything about your patterns of intimacy changed since the beginning? (That might be different than just realizing something seems lacking and realizing it is important to you to try to fix.)
  • Are you operating on assumptions about relationships or agreements you made together?
  • Has anything changed in your circumstances? (Common examples: had a child; ill health; stress from outside the relationship, such as work issues or a sick parent); menopause; erectile or arousal issues; an affair or some other sort of betrayal; etc.)
  • You'll want to do this so you can communicate with your partner about what you perceive to be going on, how it affects you, and how you hope you can pivot together to address it.

Next, Get Your Partner Involved

Young couple strolling in the parkShutterstock

The next step is getting your partner involved in thinking about where you are together.

  • Your partner should also consider the above questions, or you can talk it through with them.
  • When you talk, make sure you both are as unstressed as possible, agree that it's a good time to talk about Issues (if it's not, arrange a different time), and can focus on one another.
  • The next step is to share your perceptions and ask about theirs—the goal is to get on the same page regarding what you might work on together (or at least spell out what you agree might need to be fixed).
  • Note: While our relationships are certainly important to us, a conversation like this might raise red flags you shouldn't ignore. For example, your partner doesn't see a problem at all, is irritable, hostile, or minimizes your perceptions, or gets super-defensive, blames, or shames.
  • If red flags are present, your rekindling work would likely be more successful with a couple's therapist to guide you. (TBH it might even signal that this is a relationship that should be ended and not rekindled. Extreme responses might even signal a safety issue.)

Your Issues Might Be Communication Based

couple fightingShutterstock

“If your issues are particularly emotion-based and seem to revolve around your communication, your ideas about romance or connection, and generally the health of the relationship outside the bedroom, here are some possibly relevant things to consider and/or change,” she says.

  • the way you communicate (with love, care, respect—or not)
  • the way you deal with it if you're not on the same page about something
  • how do you let each other know you're important to each other
  • the amount of time you spend together
  • whether both feel supported by the other

You Might Need to Cultivate New Habits

Lake Louise Banff National Park in the Canadian Rocky Mountains. A young couple of men and women sitting on a rock by the lake during a cold day in Autumn in Canada watching the sunset at the lakeShutterstock

“You might want to cultivate new habits,” she says.

  • around emotionally intimate time together
  • meaningful activities or rituals (quality time, together time)
  • You may need to work on your communication styles if they are out of alignment

Other Common Issues

Beautiful couple is having sex in bed at homeShutterstock

There are some other common issues, she adds:

  • for partners to assume they know what the other's POV is
  • to have gendered ideas about relationships, intimacy, and sex
  • to have the possibility of truly open communication cause anxiety (again—maybe therapy here!)

Don’t Make Assumptions

Sentimental happy couple in love bondingShutterstock

“Issues in a sexual relationship are often tangled up in the above. It's common for partners to assume things about their relationship,” says Dr. Queen. These include:

  • when their partner wants sex (or not)
  • how they feel about sex in general
  • whether they are getting turned on and coming
  • mistakenly personalizing it when their partner is stressed about something that affects their sex life ("They don't find me attractive anymore")
  • love and "finding the one" equals good sex

Other Issues

hand of young woman having sex on bedroomShutterstock

Other issues, according to Dr. Queen, can include:

  • resisting their partner's requests or suggestions
  • faking interest and orgasm
  • turning away from sex because they are ashamed to share about an issue (like ED, for instance, or sexual pain conditions)
  • the many stress-related life changes I mentioned above

Communication Is Key

Cheerful couple awaking and looking at each other in bedShutterstock

“Partners in a sexual rut or drought need to open up about their beliefs, expectations, desires, experiences, and limits. (Again, maybe a therapy thing!),” says Dr. Queen. As well as:

  • listening non judgmentally
  • evaluating whether our beliefs/assumptions are on base
  • addressing shame and any past trauma
  • breaking down your sexual relationship and considering how you communicate about it, initiate, get turned on (kissing, "foreplay," etc.), and deal with orgasm.
  • learning more about sex, “especially the sex you and your partner have and/or want to have

Your Timeline May Vary

Couple feet under sheets on the bed at home.Shutterstock

It might take more or less than four weeks. “That's because partners have different needs and degrees of ease or difficulty with all this,” says Dr. Queen.

RELATED: 7 Essential Minerals That Boost Your Weight Loss Journey

Books She Recommends

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Dr. Queen recommends the following books and workbooks.

💪🔥Body Booster: The first thing to examine if intimacy is waning is your communication skills.

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Sleep, movement, nutrition, and stress reduction are the foundations for optimizing any and all aspects of sexual health. When it comes to each of these 4 factors, it's not enough to simply tell my patients to do better. I have to provide them with tangible guidance on how to make the next better decision.


Eat These Foods

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For nutrition, I provide recommendations on convenient and healthy snacks that are high in protein.

  • Chickpeas: Vitamin B6, found in chickpeas, has been known to regulate testosterone, estrogen production, serotonin and dopamine, all of which can lead to an increased libido and increase in sex hormones.
  • Edamame: Going through menopause? Soy-based foods, including tofu and edamame, are rich in isoflavone compounds. These compounds can attach to estrogen receptors within the body, functioning as phytoestrogens. They trigger a gentle estrogen-like effect, potentially enhancing your arousal.
  • Carrots: Beta-carotene supports the endocrine system, which i turn can help boost libido.
  • Snack Packs of Nuts: Zero pun intended.Omega-3s, Zinc and L-arginine, found in snack packs of nuts, can help you perform.

Those are all good options. Portion control is key. Minimizing added sugars is also crucial. By eating anti-inflammatory foods and limiting pro-inflammatory foods, we can improve all aspects of sexual functioning.

Related: I Lost Over 129 Pounds with the Help of This Cereal Hack

Do Aerobic Exercise

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Aerobic exercise, turns out, may be just as effective as viagra to treat ED. If that's not a reason to move our bodies, I don't know what is! Some of my favorite examples of aerobic exercise include running and swimming but even dancing counts—anything that gets your heart pumping.

Reduce Stress

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And stress—stress in our lives related to anything may impact libido. If work, a person/people, situations are causing us stress, our bodies may respond in a way that reduces sex drive. Consider a massage, as that can also be a part of foreplay.

Related: “Tough Love” Dieting Advice From a Weight Loss Coach

Get Better Sleep and Checked For Sleep Apnea

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When it comes to sleep, I recommend sleep apnea testing for many of the men who see me. Nighttime urination, low testosterone, erectile dysfunction, low libido, and fatigue are all common symptoms of sleep apnea (it's not just about snoring) and oftentimes, my patients present with several of these symptoms. The ideal amount of sleep per night is 7 to 9 hours.

💪🔥Body Booster: Boost your libido by incorporating carrots, rich in beta-carotene, into your diet to support your endocrine system.

Amy Pearlman, MD, is a Board-Certified Urologist and Co-Founder of Prime Institute.

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Want to look fit after 40? Your timing is perfect. Midlife is the time to move, strengthen muscles, and stretch more. Just be sure to approach your goal holistically. You will look fit after 40 if you care for all aspects of your health: mind, body, and soul. This includes focusing on nutrition and exercise of course, but also self-care, mental health, and quality of life. The happier you are in all these aspects, the healthier you will be. Prioritize yourself, and then you can take better care of others.


(How would I know? I am an ACE certified fitness professional, and also a graduate of the Institute of Integrative Nutrition, certified in health and wellness coaching. I teach Spin at least 3 days a week and personally work out at least 6-7 days a week.) It’s never too late to get started and reap the benefits of physical fitness. Read on for 13 ways to look fit after 40.

Do This Workout

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The World Health Organization and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) recommend at least 150 to 300 minutes of moderate exercise or 75 to 150 minutes of vigorous aerobic exercise a week for adults up to age 64. However, the first thing I would suggest if you have not been physically active is to consult your physician. Assess your physical condition.

With an okay from the doctor, I would suggest you start with 2-3 days of weight or strength training and 3-4 days of cardio for 20-30 minutes of moderate activity. Don’t forget to add balance exercises and stretching at the end of a workout. The older we get we lose mobility and elasticity.

Eat Like This

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A good diet alongside a well-planned fitness program will go a long way. Step one, make sure you are drinking plenty of water. Eat a balanced diet. All food groups are your friends. Don’t eliminate carbs; eat healthy carbs like oats, sweet potatoes, and brown rice. Carbohydrates are fuel, so limit them at bedtime and eat them after your workout. Be sure to eat plenty of protein and lots of veggies and fruit.

Create a Routine

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Create a routine and stick with it. If you commit to fitness, it becomes more of a hobby than a chore. You will make friends where you workout (especially if you have a routine and go at the same time every day, you see the same people) and begin to enjoy the time you spend there.

Learn to Love to Cook

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Cooking can be a task or a chore, but it can be fun if you try new recipes or cook with family. You are in control of what you cook so that you can manage your diet more closely.

RELATED:5 High-Protein Breakfast Foods, According to a Dietitian

Find a Fitness Class You Love

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New activities can be tough, so try different fitness classes. Consider yoga, Pilates, strength training classes, water aerobics, cycling classes, Tai Chi, dance classes, and functional fitness

Try New Foods

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People always eat the same foods, especially when managing their diet. It is okay to branch out and try new things. The variety of foods will keep you excited.

Create New Hobbies

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Create new hobbies with your partner and family friends. Think of things you can do with friends and family that are beyond going out to eat and drink. How about a walk around the neighborhood or a bike ride? Create moments that are more interactive and less sedentary.

Take Up a New Activity

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You are never too old to try new things. Pickleball is all the rage. Why not give it a try? Maybe that isn’t for you but bowling or gardening. All things get you moving, so it is good for you.

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Join a Club

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Clubs are a great way to be healthy and to make new friends. Not all clubs are book clubs; you can join yoga, walking, or tennis clubs. It is also a great way to learn something new.

Set a Goal

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Set a goal like walking or running a race. Having a goal to look forward to keeps you on track and gives you something to look forward to.

Travel More

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Traveling is great for the mind and soul. It brings joy and happiness. It adds an element if surprise and allows you to try new things.

Sanitize Your Friends List

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You must make sure you spend time with people who bring value to your life and make you happy. If they don’t, it is okay to walk away.

RELATED: 10 Fitness Myths and the Truth Behind Them

Feed Your Brain

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Listen to more podcasts - feed your brain. Just like you exercise your body, you must continue exercising your brain. So many free inspirational podcasts are available to help fill your happiness cup. One I am enjoying lately is The Gratitudeology Podcast by Jamie Hess.

💪🔥Body Booster: Start with 2-3 days of weight or strength training and 3-4 days of cardio for 20-30 minutes of moderate activity.

Denise Vitola is an ACE-certified fitness instructor, a spin instructor, and a health and wellness coach.
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Have you ever felt like you're spinning your wheels in your fitness journey, not seeing the results you crave despite consistent effort? You're not alone. Olivia Jarvis, a popular social media influencer in the fitness space, recently shared her struggle and subsequent breakthrough in a popular video. After six years of consistent gym attendance without achieving her desired results, Olivia finally cracked the code to reinvention in just six months. Here's how she did it - and how you can, too.


Prioritize Your Health

Olivia realized she had been coasting and training regularly but without specific goals. "When I actually look back, like last year I coasted. I trained regularly, but I didn't really have any specific fitness goals," she admits in the video. She emphasizes the importance of making health a top priority, recognizing its impact on overall happiness and energy levels.

Consistency is Key

"I have followed the exact program for over eight weeks," Olivia shares in the video. She stresses the importance of consistently following a progressive program and doing the same exercises week after week to track progress effectively.

Action Over Overthinking

Olivia found herself caught in analysis paralysis. She advises in the video, "When you're constantly changing stuff, it is just so hard to gauge what's actually working." She recommends committing to a program and giving it time before making changes.

Commit to Reinvention

"I genuinely just got to a point where I just thought I don't like what I see in the mirror. I don't recognize myself," Olivia confesses. She emphasizes the importance of committing to change when you're not happy with how you feel or look.

Lift Heavy and Progressive Overload

A game-changer for Olivia was lifting heavier weights and focusing on progressive overload. "It's only when I've been literally overhead pressing like 16 kg up to 20 kg that I've actually seen physical changes in the shape and definition," she reveals in the video.

Daily Meditation

Olivia incorporated a 10-minute daily meditation into her routine. "I can't even begin to explain how much calmer and how much more I get done in a day," she says in the video, noting improvements in concentration and reduced overthinking.

RELATED: 10 Power-Packed High-Fiber Snacks Nutritionist Swear By

Reduce Caffeine Intake

Cutting back on caffeine made a significant difference for Olivia. "I was thinking, gosh, I don't remember always being this anxious," she reflects in the video. She noticed improvements in anxiety levels and sleep quality after reducing her caffeine consumption.

RELATED: How Many Steps Should You Take To Lose Fat (And 4 Sneaky Ways to Hit It)

Create Accountability

Olivia emphasizes the power of community and accountability. She created the Flowness Club, where members check in daily with their progress. "Accountability is what you need," she asserts, noting how it's helped her push herself further.

Set a Bedtime Before a Morning Alarm

"For years, I spent so long setting a 6:00 AM alarm, and then I'd be in bed at midnight and always be so tired," Olivia admits in the video. She found that setting a consistent bedtime before focusing on wake-up time significantly improved her sleep quality and morning routine.

RELATED: The 4 High-Protein Breakfast That Torches Stubborn Fat, According to Top Trainer

Final Word

Olivia's journey demonstrates that reinvention is possible with the right approach. "You literally have all the answers," she encourages. "It is all inside. It's just getting quiet enough and getting honest with yourself." By implementing these nine steps, you can break through plateaus and achieve the transformation you've been seeking.

As Olivia says, "It is only you that's going to change." Are you ready to start your reinvention journey? And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Remember when you thought you had it all figured out in your twenties? We've all been there. Former college basketball player turned fitness enthusiastKeltie O'Connor knows this feeling all too well. With 672K YouTube subscribers and years of experience in fitness and wellness, she's learned valuable lessons about health that she wishes she had known earlier. Here are her insights that could help you avoid common pitfalls and fast-track your wellness journey.


Get Smart About Frozen Foods

"Buy frozen berries," Keltie advises in her video. "It's a cheap, affordable way to get fiber, vitamins, and antioxidants." She emphasizes that frozen fruits and vegetables are an economical solution for maintaining a nutrient-rich diet.

Embrace Salt in Your Diet

Contrary to popular belief, Keltie explains that salt isn't always the enemy. "If you're an athlete and you're sweating a lot, you're losing electrolytes. Those cramps you're getting in the middle of the night could be from not having enough sodium in your diet."

Protect Your Skin Daily

"I loved tanning beds growing up," Keltie admits, reflecting on past mistakes. She now emphasizes the importance of using a hydrating full-body sunscreen daily, not just during beach days or vacations.

Diversify Your Fitness Influences

Keltie recommends following a variety of fitness professionals: "Follow experts with degrees and certifications, local professionals, and people similar to you but 5-10 years ahead in their journey." This prevents getting stuck in fitness echo chambers.

Master Proper Form First

"I wasted a lot of years because I got too eager with weight training," Keltie shares. She emphasizes the importance of perfecting form before increasing weights to prevent wasted time and potential injuries.

Prioritize Quality Sleep

According to Keltie, sleep is "the best legal cognitive and performance-enhancing substance." She discovered that morning workouts improved her sleep quality compared to evening sessions.

Value Flexibility

"Being inflexible isn't a flex," Keltie states firmly. She explains that greater flexibility and mobility lead to better athletic performance and fewer aches and pains.

Address Muscle Weakness

Keltie learned that persistent tightness might indicate weakness rather than just inflexibility. "Sometimes what feels like tight muscles is actually underdeveloped muscle groups," she explains.

Embrace Short Workouts

"A workout doesn't have to be an hour," Keltie emphasizes. She promotes the value of even 10-minute training sessions when that's all you can manage.

Double Cleanse Your Skin

Keltie shares her skincare revelation: "I realized I didn't even wash my face properly." She now advocates for a two-step cleansing process to thoroughly remove makeup and dirt.

Avoid Diet Culture Traps

"Don't be fooled – it's still a diet," Keltie warns about various eating trends. She encourages focusing on understanding nutrition basics rather than following restrictive eating patterns.

Find Your Fitness Community

Keltie stresses the importance of community in maintaining a healthy lifestyle. "When sports ended, I felt very isolated," she recalls, emphasizing how finding a fitness community changed everything.

Stop Obsessing Over Small Calories

"That 30 calories from your coffee creamer is not going to make you gain 30 pounds," Keltie states, addressing common calorie anxieties. She encourages enjoying food within reasonable balance.

Fuel Your Workouts Properly

"You don't run to eat. You eat to run," Keltie emphasizes, highlighting the importance of proper fueling for exercise rather than using exercise as punishment for eating.

Invest in Quality Footwear

Keltie recommends replacing running shoes at least annually. "It's expensive, but you know what's more expensive? All the physio you'll need from running in worn-out shoes."

Start Your Day with a Walk

"Starting your day with a walk outside will change your life," Keltie shares. She credits her morning walks for sparking creativity and clearing mental fog.

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Protect Your Eyes

Keltie warns about excessive screen time, noting how her vision deteriorated after long hours of video editing. She recommends the 20-20-20 rule: every 20 minutes, look at something 20 feet away for 20 seconds.

Understand Your Skin Conditions

"The bump on the back of your arms is not pimples, it's KP," Keltie explains, referring to keratosis pilaris. She found relief through regular exfoliation and moisturizing.

Think Long-Term About Body Changes

Keltie cautions against following body modification trends, sharing her personal experience with breast implants. "Body types go in and out of fashion," she notes, suggesting focusing on more temporary trends like clothing instead.

Manage Your Finances

"Financial health is one of the pillars of health because of the amount of stress debt will cause you," Keltie states, emphasizing the importance of basic financial literacy.

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Dance More Often

Keltie promotes dancing as both excellent cardio and a mood booster. "Dancing ranked as number one even over SSRIs in improving mood," she shares, though noting this isn't a replacement for prescribed medication.

Practice Mindfulness

"Anxiety is fear of the future. Depression is a regret of the past. Happiness is being in the present," Keltie reflects, sharing her approach to mental wellness.

Embrace Aging

"It is not downhill after 25," Keltie assures. She explains how proper self-care can actually make you feel better with each passing year.

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Create a Supportive Environment

Keltie emphasizes how environment shapes habits: "Your apartment, your office, your school, your locker, your car – that's everything. Your habits can change by just changing your environment."

Appreciate Getting Older

"Aging is a gift and every year older isn't a failure, it's a success," Keltie concludes, encouraging a positive perspective on aging while still maintaining good health practices.

As Keltie notes, you don't have to implement all these habits at once. Start with what resonates most with you and gradually build your own sustainable, healthy lifestyle. These insights aren't just for 25-year-olds – they're valuable at any age, helping you create a healthier, more balanced life. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss 40 Health Symptoms That Can Be More Serious Than You Think.

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That afternoon slump, stubborn weight, and nagging food cravings might all have one surprising culprit: carbohydrates. Dr. Mindy Pelz, bestselling author of "Fast Like a Girl" and expert in women's health, has identified key warning signs that your body is getting too many carbs. With her YouTube channel garnering over 75 million views and her podcast featuring health-conscious celebrities, Dr. Pelz brings practical wisdom about nutrition that cuts through the confusion. Discover these four telltale signs your carb intake might be causing problems and learn simple adjustments you can make starting today.

Understanding the Carb Effect

Before addressing warning signs, it's essential to understand how carbs affect your body differently than other nutrients. "There are three macronutrients - carbohydrates, protein, and fat," Dr. Pelz explains in her recent post. Each creates a distinct blood sugar response. Carbs trigger dramatic spikes followed by crashes, while protein offers a gentler rise and fall. Fat actually "puts the brakes on blood sugar," according to Dr. Pelz, helping maintain stable levels throughout the day. This rollercoaster effect from carb-heavy meals explains many common health complaints.

Your Energy Crashes After Meals

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The first red flag is post-meal fatigue. "You should be energized after a meal. You shouldn't be sleepy after a meal," Dr. Pelz emphasizes. That drowsiness after holiday feasts isn't from turkey's tryptophan as commonly believed - it's from the carb crash. Dr. Pelz notes that "a 2020 study found that blood sugar spikes cause fatigue and trouble concentrating." When you experience that mid-afternoon energy slump after lunch, it's likely your meal contained too many carbohydrates, triggering both tiredness and mental fog.

You Can't Control Your Cravings

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Constant hunger and specific cravings for sweets or caffeine signal excessive carb consumption. "When blood sugar comes down very quickly because you had just like this pure carb meal, your body's so smart that it's going to be like, 'Hey, I need you to eat more carbs again,'" Dr. Pelz explains. This creates a vicious cycle of craving, eating, crashing, and craving again. Dr. Pelz references a revealing 2011 study that "divided people into two groups... a low carb, high fat group, and a high carb, low fat group" and found the low-carb participants experienced "a significant decrease in food cravings, especially for sugar."

Your Weight Loss Has Stalled

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If you're struggling to shed pounds despite your efforts, your carb intake might be the culprit. "If you're struggling to lose weight, low carb is really an awesome plan," says Dr. Pelz, drawing from her clinical experience. She clarifies that "low carb doesn't mean low protein" - increasing protein while reducing carbs helps control hunger and supports weight management. Dr. Pelz cites compelling evidence: "A 2004 study found that six months on a low carb diet led to twice as much weight loss than a high carb diet." This explains why some "diet" foods actually sabotage weight loss efforts when they're high in carbohydrates.

Your Skin Is Breaking Out

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Your complexion might be revealing carb overload. "Eating a lot of carbs can start to create an inflammatory response in your skin," Dr. Pelz warns. This connection is especially strong with sugar, white rice, and refined bread. For those battling acne, Dr. Pelz strongly recommends eliminating sugar completely as a first step. She references research supporting this approach: "A 2020 review found that when the glycemic load in people's diets went up, they saw greater increases in skin inflammation and acne." The study specifically linked these skin issues to higher sugar consumption.

Not All Carbs Are Created Equal

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Dr. Pelz wants to correct a common misconception: "Carbs are not the enemy, but man-made carbs - not a lot there." She distinguishes between "dead" processed carbs like pasta and beneficial carbs from nature. "Good carbs are nature's carbs," Dr. Pelz explains, referring to fruits, vegetables, potatoes, and quinoa that provide essential nutrients. She even makes an exception for sourdough bread, noting it's "not a dead food" because fermentation creates beneficial enzymes and probiotics, unlike most processed grain products.

Try the One-Week Natural Carb Challenge

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Ready to see if carbs are affecting you? Dr. Pelz suggests a simple experiment: "What if just for the next week, I decide no man-made carbs, I'm only eating nature's carbs." This straightforward approach allows you to quickly determine how different carbohydrates affect your body. Dr. Pelz emphasizes she isn't "anti-carb" - she advocates for "smart carbs" eaten in appropriate amounts. "We need them," she notes, explaining carbohydrates are essential for creating neurotransmitters like serotonin and hormones like progesterone.

Listen to Your Body's Signals

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Your body communicates clearly when your diet isn't optimal. "If I'm tired after a meal, I'm like, hmm, what'd I do to that meal?" says Dr. Pelz, sharing that fatigue is her personal indicator of excessive carb consumption. By paying attention to how foods make you feel, you can customize your carbohydrate intake to your unique needs. Dr. Pelz reminds us that there's no "absolutely perfect diet" that works for everyone - it's about discovering what works specifically for your body and recognizing these four warning signs when they appear.

Morning Matters Most

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Be especially careful with breakfast choices. "Those that had a high carb diet in the morning had the worst cravings," Dr. Pelz explains, which is why she advises against breakfast cereal, orange juice, and even some protein drinks if they're carb-heavy. Starting your day with carbs virtually guarantees afternoon cravings and energy crashes. Instead, focus on protein and healthy fats in the morning to maintain stable blood sugar. If you do include higher-carb meals, Dr. Pelz suggests "mid afternoon... for an early dinner" followed by a walk to utilize the glucose effectively.

Finding Your Personal Carb Balance

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The key takeaway isn't eliminating carbs entirely but being intentional about which ones you choose and when you eat them. "I'm not anti-carb. I just want to make sure we're eating smart carbs," Dr. Pelz clarifies. She also notes timing matters, especially "eating them for women at the right time of our cycle." When you find your personal carb balance by monitoring these four warning signs - fatigue, cravings, weight resistance, and skin problems - you'll enjoy better energy, mental clarity, and overall health without giving up carbs completely. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.

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Weight loss journeys often feel like navigating a maze with too many dead ends and false promises. For Brittany Rose, GLP-1 medications finally provided the key that unlocked sustainable success, helping her shed over 100 pounds since November 2022. Through her candid YouTube videos, she's documented everything from her very first injection to her current maintenance phase, sharing both triumphs and challenges along the way. If you're considering or already using GLP-1 therapy, these essential insights from someone who's walked the path will help you avoid common pitfalls and focus on what truly matters for your success.

Trust Only Your Doctor With Dosing Decisions

When it comes to medication management, only one opinion truly matters. "Your decisions regarding your dosaging, regarding how often you take the medicine, regarding anything that involves injecting a medicine into your body should only be discussedwith or you should only take advice from your doctor," Brittany says in her post. Despite the wealth of dosing advice floating around online, these are medical decisions that should remain between you and your healthcare provider. Brittany always frames her experiences as personal rather than prescriptive, reminding viewers that what works for one person could be dangerous for another.

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It's Not As Complicated As The Internet Claims

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The GLP-1 journey doesn't require elaborate supplement regimens or extreme dietary restrictions. "It's simple. It's a simple thing. You do not need to stress about all of the extra protein supplements and all the extra vitamins and all of the extra things that the internet will tell you that you need," Brittany states firmly. She advocates for a sustainable approach—eating healthy foods most of the time while maintaining a calorie deficit that comes naturally with GLP-1 medications. Brittany notes that unlike temporary diets, this is a lifestyle change: "We're going back to, this isn't a diet. This isn't something that you need to obsess over. This is something that you are doing for most likely the rest of your life."

Water Will Save Your GLP-1 Experience

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The simplest remedy for many GLP-1 side effects costs nothing and requires no prescription. "Water is going to save your life," Brittany insists, explaining that proper hydration addresses multiple common complaints: "Being dehydrated makes your body retain water. It makes you not feel good. It makes you be puffy. It makes you have a headache. It makes you be constipated." She notes that her worst days consistently correlate with inadequate water intake. Her practical tip for staying hydrated? Keep a dedicated water cup by the sink as a constant reminder, taking small sips throughout the day rather than forcing down large amounts at once.

Your Journey Won't Look Like Anyone Else's

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Comparing your progress to others online can quickly become discouraging. "Monitor your own progress and try not to compare yourself to everybody else," Brittany advises after noticing how other content creators reached milestones faster than she did. She recommends keeping a detailed journal tracking everything from dosages to reactions, along with regular photos to document changes that might not register on the scale. Brittany also suggests limiting social media consumption around GLP-1 content: "I have a couple of people that I watch or listen to and the rest of it, I don't... because I don't want to oversaturate myself and be getting information from so many different sources."

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Therapy Is The Missing Prescription

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Perhaps the most overlooked component of successful weight loss is addressing the psychological factors that contributed to weight gain initially. "I am a very, very big advocate that most people that are taking a GLP-1 for weight loss need therapy," Brittany shares, drawing parallels to the mental health support required for bariatric surgery patients. She explains that significant weight loss transforms not just your body but your identity: "When you go through this journey of losing a ton of weight, you become a new person." For Brittany, therapy was essential to understanding how childhood trauma influenced her relationship with food. "I would argue all of us," she notes, have some past experiences that contributed to developing obesity, making therapy a crucial complement to medication.

Adopt The 80/20 Rule For Sustainable Success

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Rigid eating plans rarely lead to lasting change. Brittany recommends a more flexible approach: "80/20 rule—20% foods that you enjoy that you want to eat, 80% healthy food." This balance allows for occasional indulgences while maintaining overall healthy habits. "Are you going to be able to be keto or to eat zero sugar or zero carbs or whatever and completely eliminate total food groups for the rest of your life? Are you going to be able to never go to McDonald's ever again for the rest of your life? Right? Probably not," Brittany points out. By allowing yourself reasonable flexibility, you're building a lifestyle you can maintain long-term rather than setting yourself up for another cycle of restriction and rebound.

Document Your Transformation

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The value of visual records cannot be overstated. "Take the pictures. I wish that I had taken more before and after pictures," Brittany shares, noting that physical changes aren't always reflected on the scale. "Sometimes you're not losing weight, but you're losing inches, right? And so you want to have some pictures to look back on to really see how your body is changing throughout this process." These photos become powerful motivation during plateaus and provide tangible evidence of progress when numbers aren't moving. Consider creating a dedicated album on your phone or a physical journal where you can see your evolution month by month.

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Counting Isn't Always Necessary

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Despite popular weight-loss advice, Brittany takes a more intuitive approach: "I don't count anything ever. I count protein sometimes like when I'm doing the videos on higher protein, I count them, but for the most part I don't count anything because I just don't want to." She points out that naturally slim people rarely count calories or macros: "And healthy, skinny people that have lived healthy their whole life, most of them don't." The medication's appetite-suppressing effects often naturally create a calorie deficit, making meticulous tracking unnecessary for many people. This freedom from constant counting can make the lifestyle change more sustainable and reduce obsessive food behaviors.

Make Hydration A Priority Habit

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If tracking feels overwhelming, focus on just one metric. "If you count one thing, make it be your water intake because I promise you on days that I don't drink my water or if I'm not as good about drinking water, oh boy, it's a bad day," Brittany emphasizes. GLP-1 medications can reduce thirst signals, making deliberate hydration essential. Her husband can even tell when she's dehydrated: "Chris will look at me and say, have you had any water today? Because he knows that it affects me that much." Setting specific water goals and creating visual reminders throughout your home and workspace can help maintain consistent hydration despite reduced thirst cues.

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This Is A Transformation, Not Just Weight Loss

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The physical changes from GLP-1 therapy are just one aspect of a more profound transformation. "You go through this like glow up, you become this new person that you probably were always meant to be, but you transform," Brittany explains. This evolution affects everything from your self-image to your relationships with others. For Brittany, the journey enabled her to stop hiding: "You don't have a freaking YouTube channel that I share with the world that has grown significantly and people in real life are realizing it. And that prior to this journey for me would not have been something that I would have been able to do." Understanding that weight loss impacts your entire identity—not just your appearance—helps prepare you for both the challenges and opportunities of this life-changing process. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss20 Incredible Ozempic Success Stories of All Time.

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We all want to stay strong and healthy as we age, but maintaining muscle mass becomes increasingly challenging over time. Dr. Andrea Furlan, a pain specialist from Toronto, Canada, explains that our 639 muscles are critical for longevity and quality of life. Unfortunately, age-related muscle loss (sarcopenia) affects many of us—but it's not inevitable. Dr. Furlan's research shows that with the right combination of resistance exercise and protein-rich foods, you can fight back against muscle loss and build strength at any age. Discover the 15 best protein sources that will transform your muscle-building efforts starting today.

Understanding Sarcopenia and Protein Needs

Sarcopenia isn't just a natural part of aging—it's now classified as a treatable condition, Dr. Furlan says. "Sarcopenia is considered one of the most important risk factors for falls, disability, and frailty in the elderly population," she explains in her post. To combat this condition, experts recommend consuming 1.4-2 grams of protein per kilogram of body weight (or about 1 gram per pound) on resistance training days. For a 150-pound person, that means aiming for approximately 150 grams of protein, particularly on workout days. Dr. Furlan notes that proper sleep, adequate carbohydrates for energy, and hydration also play crucial roles in muscle development.

The Four Pillars of Muscle Building

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According to Dr. Furlan, building muscle requires more than just protein. "If you want to build muscle mass and combat sarcopenia, you need to do a few things," she advises. The first pillar is resistance exercise, using either body weight or weights. The second is quality sleep. "A good quality sleep helps our body to get rid of the junk and toxins and help our muscles to grow," Dr. Furlan states. The third pillar is increased protein intake, especially on workout days. And finally, she emphasizes that carbohydrates provide "the energy for your body to digest all of that protein and do the exercises." Balanced nutrition, including healthy fats and proper hydration, completes this foundation for muscle growth.

Why Whole Foods Beat Supplements

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While protein powders might seem convenient, Dr. Furlan recommends focusing on real, home-prepared foods. "When you eat real food, you are also getting many other nutrients, like vitamins, minerals, healthy fats, and carbs—all of these are super important for a healthy life," she says. Whole foods provide complete nutrition packages that supplements simply can't match. They're often more affordable too. However, Dr. Furlan cautions that before beginning any high-protein diet, you should consult with your doctor, especially if you have kidney issues that might restrict protein intake.

Soybeans: The Plant Protein Champion

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Topping Dr. Furlan's protein-rich foods list is soybeans, with an impressive 36 grams of protein per 100 grams. "Soybeans are high in plant-based protein, rich in fiber, support heart health, and contain isoflavones that may help with female hormone balance, like during menopause," Dr. Furlan explains. Found in edamame form, these versatile legumes make excellent additions to salads and various dishes. Dr. Furlan does note that while soybeans lead in protein content, they also contain significant calories, fats, and carbs. This makes them an excellent choice for those looking to build muscle while supporting overall health, particularly for women experiencing hormonal changes.

Chicken and Turkey: Poultry Protein Powerhouses

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Poultry options rank high on Dr. Furlan's list, with chicken breast providing 31 grams of protein per 100 grams and turkey breast offering 29 grams. "Chicken breast is low in fat and high in essential vitamins like B6 and niacin for metabolism," Dr. Furlan notes. Turkey provides additional benefits, as she points out: "Turkey breast is high in B vitamins for energy production and may help regulate blood sugar levels." These lean protein sources deliver maximum muscle-building potential with minimal excess calories, making them ideal staples in any strength-building diet. Their versatility in cooking methods and flavor profiles means they can be incorporated into countless healthy meal options.

Tuna and Salmon: Protein-Rich Fish Options

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Fish options like tuna and salmon offer impressive protein content while providing essential omega-3 fatty acids. Dr. Furlan ranks tuna highly with 26 grams of protein per 100 grams. "Tuna is rich in omega-3 fatty acids for heart and brain health, high in protein, and contains selenium for immune support," she explains. Salmon follows closely with 25 grams of protein per 100 grams. "Salmon is an excellent source of omega-3s for heart and brain health. It is high in protein and contains vitamin D for bone health," Dr. Furlan adds. These seafood options provide complete proteins alongside nutrients that support overall health, making them smart choices for muscle building and maintenance.

Beef: Quality Red Meat Protein

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Beef earns its place in Dr. Furlan's top protein sources with 26 grams of protein per 100 grams of lean cooked meat. "Beef provides iron and zinc for immune function and contains vitamin B12 for red blood cell production," Dr. Furlan explains. These nutrients are particularly valuable for maintaining energy levels during intense workouts. While beef is calorically dense, its complete amino acid profile makes it an efficient muscle-building food. Dr. Furlan recommends choosing leaner cuts to maximize protein while minimizing saturated fat intake. The satisfying nature of beef also helps maintain fullness between meals, supporting overall dietary adherence during muscle-building phases.

Peanuts: Plant-Based Protein Punch

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Peanuts offer an impressive 26 grams of protein per 100 grams, making them an excellent plant-based protein option. "Peanuts are a good source of healthy plant-based fats. They support heart health, are high in protein, and contain antioxidants like resveratrol," says Dr. Furlan. Their convenience makes them perfect for on-the-go protein consumption, whether as peanut butter or raw nuts. Dr. Furlan notes that while peanuts are protein-rich, their serving size is typically small (about 28 grams), delivering about 7 grams of protein per serving. This concentrated nutrition source provides sustained energy and muscle-building support in a compact package, though portion control is important due to their caloric density.

Shrimp: Lean Seafood Protein

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Shrimp provides 20 grams of protein per 100 grams, making it an excellent lean protein source. "Shrimps are low in calories, high in protein, and contain astaxanthin, a powerful antioxidant, and also provides omega-3s for brain health," Dr. Furlan explains. This combination of high protein with minimal calories makes shrimp particularly valuable for those looking to build muscle while managing weight. Their quick cooking time also makes them convenient for busy lifestyles. The unique antioxidant profile of shrimp offers additional health benefits beyond muscle building, supporting overall wellness while contributing to strength development goals.

Eggs: The Perfect Protein Package

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With 13 grams of protein per 100 grams (about two large eggs), eggs remain a nutritional powerhouse. "Eggs, beyond being a high-quality protein source, contain choline for brain health and provide essential vitamins like vitamin D and B12," Dr. Furlan notes. Their complete amino acid profile makes them particularly effective for muscle synthesis. Eggs' versatility allows them to be incorporated into any meal of the day. Dr. Furlan appreciates that eggs provide a perfect balance of nutrients in a natural package. Their affordability and accessibility make them an ideal protein source for consistent muscle support across various dietary patterns and budgets.

Dairy Protein: Cottage Cheese and Greek Yogurt

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Dairy options provide excellent protein alongside calcium for bone health. "Cottage cheese is an excellent protein source, rich in casein for muscle recovery, and provides calcium for bone health," Dr. Furlan explains. With 11 grams of protein per 100 grams, cottage cheese offers slow-digesting casein protein that provides sustained amino acid release. Greek yogurt follows with 10 grams of protein per 100 grams. "Greek yogurt is high in probiotics for gut health, rich in protein, and supports bone health with calcium, and may help in weight management," says Dr. Furlan. These dairy options offer complete proteins while supporting digestive health, making them valuable components of a muscle-building nutrition plan.

Plant-Based Options: Legumes and Tofu

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Plant-based proteins like beans, chickpeas, and tofu provide excellent options for vegetarians and those looking to diversify protein sources. "Beans are high in fiber for digestion. They are a plant-based protein source, support heart health, and help regulate blood sugar levels," Dr. Furlan explains. Both beans and chickpeas provide 9 grams of protein per 100 grams. Tofu offers 8 grams of protein per 100 grams and additional benefits: "Tofu is high in plant-based protein, contains iron and calcium, and supports heart health. And it's a good source of phytoestrogens that can help women who have low estrogen levels, especially during menopause," notes Dr. Furlan. These plant options combine protein with fiber and additional nutrients that support overall health.

Quinoa: The Complete Plant Protein

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While quinoa ranks 15th on Dr. Furlan's list with 4 grams of protein per 100 grams, it offers unique benefits. "Quinoa is a complete plant-based protein, rich in fiber, contains magnesium for muscle function, and supports blood sugar control," Dr. Furlan explains. Unlike many plant foods, quinoa contains all nine essential amino acids, making it particularly valuable for vegetarians and vegans. Its fiber content supports digestive health, while magnesium directly contributes to muscle function and recovery. This ancient grain can be incorporated into various dishes as a protein-rich base that supports overall wellness while contributing to muscle maintenance.

Timing Your Protein Intake for Maximum Muscle Growth

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Strategic protein timing can enhance your muscle-building results. Dr. Furlan recommends a targeted approach: "I usually eat my carbs before I go to the gym and the protein when I come back from the gym." This strategy provides energy for your workout from carbohydrates, then supplies the building blocks needed for muscle repair afterward through protein. "This is because the carbs will give me energy to do the exercises, but my muscles will build up after I do the exercises and that's when they will need the protein to put in the muscles," Dr. Furlan clarifies. Your muscles need protein most during the recovery window after resistance training. Spacing protein intake throughout the day in moderate portions also optimizes absorption and utilization.

Creating Your Muscle-Building Meal Plan

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With these protein-rich foods as your foundation, creating an effective muscle-building meal plan becomes straightforward. Dr. Furlan emphasizes that variety is key: "Eating this high amount of protein when you are not lifting weights will not have the same effect." She recommends focusing protein intake particularly on workout days when muscles are actively repairing. Creating balanced meals that combine these protein sources with healthy carbohydrates and fats ensures your body has everything needed for optimal muscle growth. Remember that consistency matters more than perfection—finding protein sources you enjoy and can maintain long-term will yield the best results for your muscle strength and overall health. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.