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This Mom Lost 135 Pounds Without Exercise and These Are the Foods She Cut Out

One weight loss warrior gets real about what is preventing you from reaching your goals.

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Are you trying to lose weight, but no matter what you do, the pounds aren’t coming off? Mayra (LowCarbLove) is a mother and influencer who lost over 135 pounds “naturally through low carb and keto and has been maintaining this weight ever since,” she reveals in her YouTube bio. In one of her viral videos, she reveals the number one reason why you can’t lose weight and also offers tips on how to get your diet going.


“Today, we're gonna be talking about reasons why you may not be losing weight. Now, for those of you who don't know, I've lost over a hundred pounds, and I have been maintaining my weight for over 15 years now. So I kind of know what I'm talking about,” she says. “If you're not currently losing weight, there might be a few reasons. And so I'm gonna go over them with you.”

Assess the Problem

“Throughout my journey, there have been times where I'm literally just not losing weight, and I'm like, what is going on? And so then when I sit down, and I really see, okay, what am I doing? What's going on? I always find the problem,” Mayra says in her post.

Avoid Drinking Your Calories

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“One thing that I feel is that it's become super trendy and super popular to carry around a Starbucks drink,” she says. “I think drinking your calories is one of the worst things you can do.” She notes that some drinks have over 600 calories, which equates to sometimes two meals. “I would say if you're gonna do a coffee, it should be for sure under 150 calories because you could definitely be using those calories to fuel and nourish your body.” There are other drinks to look out for. “Sodas are also horrible,” she says, and juices. “So a lot of people confuse juices. They think, oh, juices are super healthy, and even though our fruits are natural and come with natural sugar, sugars are still not good for you,” she says.

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Avoid Sugar, Because It Spikes Your Insulin

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“Sugar, no matter what, even if you're not living a low-carb lifestyle, you just don't want to put a ton of sugar into your body because it spikes your insulin,” she says. “When you spike your insulin, it is impossible for you to be burning fat. Like there is just no way in order for you to burn fat, especially on your body, your insulin has to be down low, where it's almost at a fasted state.”

Avoiding Carbs Also Keeps Insulin Low

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“That's why when you keep your diet really, really low carb, low carbs means your insulin is very low. With the keto diet, that's the reason why you produce ketones, because when you're doing a keto diet, your insulin is super, super low. So even if you don't do keto if you are trying to lose weight, you just wanna try to keep your sugar and your carbs as low as possible,” she says.

If You Eat Lots of Carbs, Make Sure to Exercise More

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“Another reason that you might not be losing weight is the carbs. So again, it gets down to the insulin. When you are eating a lot of carbs, what's happening is your body is running on glucose. So, even if you're having really healthy carbs, it just really depends on your goals. If you want to have a really high-carb diet, then you definitely wanna make sure you are getting your butt into the gym because carbs are gonna help you. If you're really lifting and you're trying to build mass, it doesn't mean you're trying to build fat or get bigger. It just means you can actually bulk up,” she says.

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Stick to Whole Carbs

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The type of carbs you eat matters. “I can have sweet potatoes, and I can have potatoes and squash, and I'm not going to gain any weight. It's definitely when I start to eat the carbs from chips and cookies, and even though they're low-carb chips, cookies, ice cream, all of that, you need to eliminate it if you're trying to lose weight. And that is just the bottom line,” she says.

Avoid Processed Carbohydrates

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“You just need to be careful with the processed carbs. And that is a very huge, huge difference. So many people think carbs are carbs, and yes, they are, but your body does not process them the same. If you're gonna be eating carbs, you just want to make sure that they're not processed. You want to make sure that you are having a single ingredient of carbohydrates, like sweet potato, like squash,” she says.

Reduce Fruit Intake for Weight Loss

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And, while she loves fruit, “I love grapes and cherries and papaya, and I love it and watermelon, and I have it, but it depends on my goal,” she says. “This summer, I ate a lot of fruit, and now I have a mission, I have a goal, and I'm gonna reach it. I've just eliminated fruit from my diet.”

These Are Short-Term Sacrifices for Long-Term Benefits

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“I want you to remember that these are short-term sacrifices for long-term benefits. And that's just how life works. Sometimes, you just have to sacrifice certain things for a short term, but you're gonna reap the benefits in the end. This is not like a forever thing. And I think when you keep that in mind, and you're like, okay, this is just short term because I have a goal, and I wanna reach it, so this is what I'm going to do.”

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You Have to Be in a Calorie Deficit to Lose Weight

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“The last thing that I feel is probably the most important thing,” she says, “is a calorie surplus. I'm sure you've heard it time and time again, like calories in versus calories out. I don't truly believe that is a hundred percent true. But I will say, just to kind of wrap this up, I think that if you are in a calorie surplus, you are not going to see that scale move.” However, you can sculpt your body and lose fat. “In order to see the scale move down, you have to be in a calorie deficit.” And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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We've all been there - trying to lose weight but getting stuck in a cycle of boring meals and cravings. For Mayra, a mother and wellness enthusiast from Low Carb Love, finding sustainable, delicious meals was the key to losing 135 pounds and keeping it off for over 15 years. "Focus on protein," she says, sharing the approach that transformed her life. Ready to discover meals that could change your weight loss journey too?

1. Morning Protein Smoothie

Mayra kicks off her day with a protein-packed smoothie that feels like dessert but fuels her body. "When I'm not really knowing what to eat, or I just feel like really nourishing my body, I always make a smoothie," she explains in her video. Her go-to blend includes plant-based protein powder, almond milk, unsweetened cocoa powder, and a secret ingredient - avocado - which creates creaminess without the carbs of banana.

2. Crispy Skin Salmon

For lunch, Mayra loves a perfectly cooked salmon with crispy skin. "I love a crispy seasoned skin," she says while demonstrating how to get that restaurant-quality sear. The salmon provides quality protein and healthy omega-3 fats that keep her satisfied. She cooks it simply with salt and pepper, letting the natural flavors shine through.

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3. Salmon Cobb Salad

Mayra transforms her salmon into a substantial Cobb salad that's anything but boring. "Salads are a really, really big part of my life. I love salads because they're really filling," she shares. Her version includes crispy turkey bacon, feta cheese, medium-boiled eggs, avocado, and fresh vegetables, topped with a simple homemade dressing of red wine vinegar, Dijon mustard, and avocado oil.

4. Smart Snacking

Before dinner, Mayra prevents overeating with strategic snacks. "One of the mistakes that I feel people make when they're snacking is they have too much fruit or sugars or carbs," she explains. Instead, she opts for protein and fat-focused options like a small bowl of strawberries, Marcona almonds, and protein-rich beef jerky that keep her satisfied until dinner.

5. Curry Chicken

For dinner, Mayra keeps it lighter with a delicious curry chicken dish. "I usually like to go a little lighter for dinner," she says, sharing her preference for chicken or seafood in the evening. Her curry chicken features a yogurt marinade that keeps the meat moist, plus a medium-heat coconut curry sauce that adds tons of flavor without excessive carbs.

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6. Cauliflower Rice

Mayra pairs her curry chicken with fluffy cauliflower rice. "This here is just super fluffy, light. It does the job," she explains while showing how to properly drain the moisture for the perfect texture. This low-carb alternative satisfies her desire for a comforting base without derailing her progress.

7. Simplified Sauces

For busy weeknights, Mayra relies on clean-ingredient sauces to transform simple proteins. "I'm all about making homemade sauces and making them from scratch, but sometimes during the week, you just need to make it and go," she admits. This practical approach helps her maintain her eating style without spending hours in the kitchen.

Her #1 Rule

Throughout her day, Mayra consistently prioritizes protein at every meal. "Again, like for me, protein really goes a long way," she emphasizes. This focus has been fundamental to her 135-pound weight loss and 15-year maintenance success, giving her meals staying power that prevents hunger and cravings.

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The Secret Weapon

Mayra doesn't shy away from fats - she embraces them strategically. "Don't be afraid of fats. I grew up being super paranoid about fatty foods. I got low fat, everything," she reveals. Now she understands that "fats are not the enemy" and uses them as a "lever" to stay satisfied longer between meals.

Why She Never Gets Bored

The key to Mayra's long-term success is constant variety. "What makes a low carb lifestyle sustainable, or even a weight loss journey sustainable, is you being able to actually stick to it," she explains. By creating flavorful variations of her favorite meals, she never feels restricted or bored with her food choices.

Meal Prep Mindset

Mayra suggests making extra portions of proteins and sides like cauliflower rice. "If you're alone, then meal prep," she advises, noting how this simple habit ensures she always has healthy options available. This practical approach helps her maintain consistency even during busy weeks. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Staying consistent with healthy eating can feel impossible when you're juggling family responsibilities and work deadlines. For Myra from Low Carb Love, finding a sustainable approach to nutrition changed everything. After losing over 100 pounds through low-carb eating, she's maintained her results by focusing on satisfying, nutrient-dense meals that don't leave her feeling deprived.

The Reality of Maintaining a Major Weight Loss

Myra is refreshingly honest about the challenges of maintaining significant weight loss. "A lot of times we think with getting back on track or a weight loss journey that you are always having to see progress or else you're failing. And it's definitely not the case," Myra says. This realistic approach has helped her maintain her weight loss for years.

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Morning Routine: Starting Strong with Protein

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Myra begins each day with a protein-focused breakfast. "I personally like to start my day with a smoothie or bone broth, something that has protein in it just because it kind of gets me started on the right foot," Myra explains.

Her current favorite is a pumpkin spice protein smoothie made with dairy-free condensed milk, pure pumpkin puree, pumpkin pie spice, protein powder sweetened with monk fruit, and ice. "I like my smoothies to be nice and thick and kind of icy where they taste like a frappe, like a dessert," Myra shares.

Daily Supplements: Research-Based Support

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"If you follow me on Instagram or you've been following me for a while, you know that I'm like a supplement person, but to my defense, I do my research," Myra explains. Her multivitamin contains nine essential nutrients in just two pills, making it convenient for her busy lifestyle.

Personalized Nutrition: Listening to Her Body

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Myra has adapted her diet based on her body's needs. "I try to keep all my food gluten-free since gluten really messes with my stomach. It's been one of those things where I've had to eliminate like dairy and gluten," Myra explains. This personalized approach demonstrates how she's learned to work with her body rather than against it.

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Midday Meal: Veggie-Rich Stir Fry

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For lunch, Myra prepares a colorful stir fry loaded with vegetables and protein. "With veggies, you get the fiber. They look beautiful, they keep you nice and full," Myra says. "I feel it adds the bulk to your meals, because if you have just a piece of salmon, your protein and healthy fats are usually going to be a smaller portion, but the veggies is where you could really add that bulkiness to your meals."

She incorporates a variety of vegetables including zucchini, peppers, mushrooms, and cabbage. "Carrots are a little higher in carbs, but again, we're talking like the amount of carbs to the nutrients of the veggie. I feel like it overcompensates for it," Myra explains.

Low-Carb Noodle Solution

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Myra incorporates Shirataki noodles into her meals. "I know everyone has like their either love or hate relationship with them. I'm going to be honest, I used to not be a fan of Shirataki noodles, but over time they've just really grown on me," Myra shares. "I washed them because I know they smell kind of funky. But if you wash them really, really well, you're golden."

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Flavoring Without Compromise

"I love my food to be nice and seasoned. I need that flavor or else I don't want it," she explains, using gluten-free tamari, coconut aminos, rice vinegar, sesame oil, and various spices to create satisfying Asian-inspired dishes. "I ended up topping it with some green onion, a little bit of cilantro, some sesame seeds."

Preparation: The Key to Consistency

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"It looks beautiful. It's going to be nice and filling and it's great for lunch, for dinner, leftovers. If you do meal prep, you know you're going to eat healthy. You know you're going to stay on track," she explains. By preparing satisfying meals in advance, she avoids the temptation of less nutritious convenience foods.

Exercise: Beyond Physical Changes

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"This is like the first time in over two years that I've actually focused on working out," she shares. "I've been super consistent with the workouts."

Myra addresses common misconceptions: "I've always grown up thinking like, no, I don't want to lift weights because I don't want to get bulky or I don't want to get buff, but it doesn't work like that. I've asked my trainer and she's like, 'Myra, in order for you to bulk up or get buff, you need to lift heavy.'"

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Mental Health Benefits

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"It makes me feel better about my overall energy. I don't even need coffee in the mornings," she shares. "I feel happier. When I'm leaving the gym, I just feel like overall my mood feels better. Working out is the most underused antidepressant."

Navigating Real-Life Challenges

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"On the weeks when the team is here, it's really hard because we're snacking and we're cooking and we're making a bunch of delicious foods. And so I eat a lot more than on my weeks where everyone's working remote," she shares honestly.

"I just want you guys to know that if you are on a weight loss journey, you're not always going to see progress every single day or every single week. Sometimes you're going to have weeks where the scale doesn't move. Your measurements don't move. Everything just kind of stays the same."

Measuring Success Beyond the Scale

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"I don't really weigh myself just because it is a little triggering for me. But I can just tell in the way I look like my clothes, my jeans, everything," she explains.

"There's so many things that play into that role. Remember we're also women. We have our menstrual cycle, and that plays a huge part in the fluctuation of your weight and how you're looking and how you're feeling and your cravings throughout the month."

By focusing on nutrient-dense foods, finding exercise she enjoys, and maintaining a realistic mindset, Myra has created a sustainable approach that has allowed her to maintain her impressive weight loss long-term.

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Have you been struggling to lose weight but aren’t sure where to start? One expert has some game-changing advice on how to do it. Cara Peterkin is a fitness professional and YouTuber who weighs 250 pounds. “Now I'm 140 pounds, and I'm gonna tell you exactly how I lost the weight,” she says, revealing that the process took two and a half years, “and I've maintained my weight for the past year.”


Childhood Eating Habits Shaped Her Relationship with Food

Cara reveals that she grew up with unhealthy eating habits. “Quick backstory: my parents were all about ease, easily getting food to us, which meant minimal cooking. We go to Chick-fil-A, we'll go to McDonald's, we'll go to the Mexican restaurant, quick box mac and cheese, whatever was easy. That's what they did. And that set the tone for my relationship with food for the rest of my life,” she says in her post.

She Gained a Lot of Weight During Her First Two Pregnancies But Lost It

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Cara first struggled with her weight when she got pregnant at 15 and went from 150 to 192 pounds. “Typically pregnant women should only gain about 20 to 25 pounds, according to Google, but I gained 42 pounds,” she says. However, she lost it pretty easily because she was young, following a calorie deficit and exercising. When she went to college, the “food inconsistency” and “unhealthy patterns really started to return,” she says. “I definitely gained the college 30, so I went from 150 to 180. Her senior year of college she got pregnant again and went from 180 to 225 pounds.

“That was tough. I definitely looked at myself differently, and I had to adjust. I tried to adjust to the weight and just said, ‘Hey Karen, you may be that girl over 200 pounds, and you need to accept it.’ But I was so uncomfortable. I tried different weight loss methods, and I started with Weight Watchers, which got me down to about 200 pounds.”

She Ended Up 250 Pounds After Her Last Pregnancy and Couldn’t Lose It

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She then “had to kick it in high gear “ and tried to clean her diet and eliminate processed foods. “With diet, exercise, plenty of strength training, and walking, I was able to get to about 160 pounds, which was amazing. Of course, life happened. What does that mean? I went through a depression, I went through different things in my life, and I ended up gaining weight a little bit, a little bit, a little bit, a little bit until it was a lot of it and ended up at about 190 pounds average. And it was tough. I would do different yo-yo diets, try different methods, get down to 180, but always would creep back up to that 190.” During her last pregnancy, she started at 190 pounds and went up to 250 pounds. “I could not even fathom being at that number, but I was there. I will tell you that it was probably the hardest thing for me to accept, but I just made it work.” Then COVID happened, and she remained at 250, battling postpartum depression.

She Hit Her Breaking Point

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Cara’s “breaking point” and “aha” moment happened when she had an interview and couldn’t fit into her size 16 pants. “I immediately ran to the store to buy that bigger size. But once I saw the size 18 and that number, it hit me like, Kara, what's going on? You've never been this size. What are you gonna do differently? I did not let myself buy those size 18 pants, and that was my breaking point. I knew I had to make a change because I couldn't buy that bigger size.”

She Lost Her First 35 Pounds with Weight Watchers and OrangeTheory

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In March of 2021, she tried Weight Watchers again, pairing it with OrangeTheory, losing 35 pounds and getting down to 215. “I still had a long way to go,” she said, revealing that according to her BMI, her healthy weight range is 140 to 160. You can benchmark your progress with this useful Lean Body Mass Calculator.

Then, She Eliminated Processed Foods

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In 2022, she really changed the game. “That's where the real change began. I eliminated all processed foods and only shopped the outside skirts of the grocery store. So protein, dairy, fruits and veggies. That was my main diet,” she said.

She Also Tracked and Measured Her Food

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“I tracked everything I ate with my Fitness Pal. I measured everything I ate. I prioritized getting that water in, and I minimized fast food or eating out because of the amount of sodium that they put in the food. Once I implemented that change, my weight just started to fall off,” she continues.

The First Month Was Hard, But It Got Easier

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“Now, I will say it wasn't easy. I'm not going to lie to you. It is the hardest thing I ever had to do, and it took me about a full month of getting through the diet change for me to really accept it. After that, I stopped craving chocolate or candy or ice cream, and I was able to just go with the flow on average. I was losing about a pound and a half to two pounds a week, and it just started to fall off,” she says.

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She Also Started Walking 30 Minutes a Day

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“Another thing that I did that helped me lose the weight was walking 30 minutes a day. That was huge,” she admits. “I thought I had to go kill myself in another OrangeTheory class or maybe at a boot camp. But walking truly helped me, along with some YouTube videos, like different weights that I could use or different strength training videos that really helped, too. But I didn't have to pay for a gym membership. I just got outside and walked and changed my diet, and the weight started to fall off. “

She Has Maintained the Weight Loss

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She has managed to keep it off by maintaining the same eating habits, “still walking 30 minutes a day, along with definitely having my treat meals and trying to balance them out, and so far it's kept the weight off beautifully,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Are you struggling to achieve your weight loss goals? Kiana Monle is a holistic wellness influencer who dropped over 30 pounds and shares her tips and tricks on social media. In a new post, she reveals a few things she did to drop weight. “Before, I felt heavy. I was uncomfortable in my body and was sick of hovering around the same weight for years on end. I got sick and tired of being sick and tired! So I made some changes. BIG ones,” she says in the post, revealing five things she did to lose 35 pounds.

She Got Into a Calorie Deficit

The first thing she did was get into a calorie deficit. “For the first 6 months, I meticulously tracked my calories. I know this isn't for everyone, but it was so helpful to know how much I was eating, and how much I had left to play around with. IMO, this was the biggest game changer,” she says.

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She Went “Back to Basics”

Next, she went “back to basics,” she says. “I used to eat a ton of sweets. It became a cycle, and my weight soared. To reset, I went back to the basics--whole foods , no cakes or cookies. Yes, that first few days were tough (almost caved for some insomnia cookies) but it was worth it. After a week or so I stopped craving so many sweets. I also started to enjoy whole foods more. I later re-introduced cakes, cookies, etc!”

She Exercised

She also started to exercise. “I've always been somewhat active when it came to workouts, but as someone who worked from home, I got maaaybe 1K steps in a day. To move more, I worked out 3X a week (doing @heatherrobertsoncom 's 12 week program) and later added walks 5X a week. Once I finished the plan, I did the second one for a bit before ditching, lifting altogether, and focused on cardio (my fave),” she says.

She Treated Herself to “Daily Fun Foods”

Next, she started treating herself to “daily fun foods,” she reveals. “I reset my palate, but I still kept things fun. My daily treat would be popcorn and a chocolate truffle (huge fan of both!).”

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She Focused on Consistency

Finally, she focused on consistency. “Daily commitment was key. For those first 6 months, when I lost 20 pounds, I would stick to my eating and workout plan. No cheat days, no going off script. I simply built in rest days, and if I ate out, I'd have it fit into my daily calories,” she writes.

She Is Now Focused on Balance

“Now as I maintain my goal weight, it's about finding balance,” she reveals at the end of the post. “It's not always easy, but I'm excited to document it here!” And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.

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Are your unhealthy habits preventing you from losing weight? According to one expert, you should take a look at yours. Fitness and nutrition coach Alexandra (@alexx.fitt) has amassed a following on TikTok and Instagram by sharing videos about losing 40 pounds. In a recent video, she reveals a few bad habits that she ditched to achieve weight loss success finally. “5 things I stopped doing to lose 40lbs,” she writes in the post.


She Stopped Following Trends

Just because it’s trendy doesn’t mean it will help you lose weight. “I stopped following trends,” Alex revealed. “These days, whether it’s running, Pilates Princess is all a trend. You can do it all. The secret is finding what works for you and sticking to it,” she says in her post.

She Stopped Snacking on “Everything in Sight”

Snacking isn’t always bad. However, it can be. “I stopped snacking on everything in sight. I used to be the person who would have a bite of everything. Little did I know it adds up quickly,” Alex writes.

She Stopped Being Lazy

Sedentary behavior won’t help you lose weight, says Alex. “I stopped being lazy. I simply began walking everywhere, taking the stairs instead of the elevator, etc,” she reveals.

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She Stopped Setting Strict Goals

Are your diet and fitness goals too rigid? “I stopped having strict goals. I used to think I could lose 2 lbs a week consistently. But realistically, your weight will fluctuate, and setting weight goals puts way too much pressure on me,” she writes.

She Stopped Restricting Herself

Crash diets and avoiding food you actually like aren’t the key to losing weight, according to the influencer. “I stopped restricting myself and learned how to have portion control. Enjoy dessert in moderation,” she says.

She “Ate the Same Meals Every Single Day”

So, what did she eat to lose weight? “For 1-2 months, I ate the same meals every single day. Why? Because I was confused, I didn’t know what to eat or where to start, so I ate the same thing every day,” Alexandra confessed in another post.

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Here Is Her Weight Loss Breakfast

On her weight loss journey, Alex had two breakfast options. One “would always be oatmeal with a scoop of protein powder and brandy butter,” she reveals. The second? Eggs with turkey bacon, veggies, and a bagel.

Here Is Her Weight Loss Lunch

You don’t have to stick to salads to lose weight, according to Alex. “I’d usually eat some type of wrap/ sandwich. I’d add mayo, turkey, ham, salami, cheese, and a bunch of veggies,” she writes.

Here Are Her Weight Loss Snacks

Alexandra had a few go-to snacks while losing weight. “I’d have a protein bar, protein shake, fruit, yogurt bowls, bagels with cream cheese, snack plates, and anything I was craving that day. I just made sure it was a decent portion,” she says.

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Here Is Her Weight Loss Dinner

For dinner, while losing weight, she “would switch things up” and gravitated toward bowls. She would “add a bunch of lettuce, rice and either ground turkey, chicken, ground beef, any kind of protein and I’d add toppings like tortilla chips, Greek yogurt instead of sour cream, salsa, cheese ugh they’re so good and so filling,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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If you have over 50 pounds to lose, it can feel overwhelming. One way to ease the burden is by getting advice from weight loss warriors who have successfully gotten in shape and are sharing their solutions. Tara Dixon is a personal trainer and online coach who helps women “find the best version of themselves, lose weight & break free from fad diets,” she writes in her Instagram bio. In a recent social media post, she revealed her top 5 asked questions about how she lost 84 lbs in a year. “Just remember what worked for me might not work for everyone!” she reminded.

I Worked Out My Calorie Deficit

“How do you work out your calorie deficit?” is the top question she is asked. “I guessed at first… and guess what? I wasn’t eating enough 🤣. And then I found out about a TDEE calculator (I used a free one online) and this should give you your deficit. 3 months into my journey, I started working with a coach (worth its weight in gold if this is something you can afford). My top tips with this… always make sure you are eating enough, you can’t function and workout effectively if you don’t eat enough. Don’t stress too much over cals: try it for a week, if you’re being honest with your tracking and still not losing weight, you can lower it slightly. Keep it simple,” she said.

I Tracked My Macros

Next, she is regularly asked about how she tracked her macros. “What do I track with? NUTRACHECK. I find it simple and clear. Easy to track cals and protein,” she reveals.

I Ate Enough Protein

Protein is another core part of any weight loss journey, and Tara made sure to eat enough. “How do I get 150g protein in every day?” is another FAQ her followers have. “Plan your meals around your protein and make sure your breakfast is protein heavy so you’re not chasing your tail all day long,” she responds.

I Cut Out Alcohol

A lot of people also want to know: “Did you cut out alcohol?” she says. “I did at first as I was so determined to lose weight, but I have since reintroduced it. Just remember nothing is forever and it’s ok to stop something for a bit if it’s not serving you in a positive way.”

I Prioritized Nutrition Over Exercise

The last question: Is exercise more important than diet? “Nooooo. You cannot outrun a bad diet. For weight loss it’s all about nutrition and calorie deficit. Steps second and then exercise. So if you’re strapped for time but really want to lose weight, prioritise your nutrition,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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The Challenge That Changes Everything

We all have moments when we look in the mirror and don't recognize the person staring back. Jennifer Madison found herself at that crossroads and decided to take action. "It was honestly kind of on a whim that I decided to do this," Jennifer admits in her post. "I gave up alcohol not too long ago, just because I wanted to feel better about myself, and I felt like alcohol wasn't helping with any of my goals." Her journey began after hitting 38 days alcohol-free, coincidentally the same number of days she lasted in her previous 75 Hard attempt. This time would be different. Discover how this ordinary woman achieved extraordinary results through pure determination.

What Is 75 Hard Anyway?

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75 Hard isn't just another fitness challenge—it's a complete mental toughness program designed to transform your life through discipline. The rules are simple but demanding: take a daily progress photo, drink a gallon of water, follow a diet with no cheat meals or alcohol, complete two 45-minute workouts (one outdoors regardless of weather), and read 10 pages of a non-fiction book. Miss one task, and you start over at day one. "If you're already looking for excuses, there are plenty out there," Jennifer says. "There will always be an important event coming up. The weather won't always be 70 and sunny." But the rewards are worth every sacrifice.

The First Week Breakthrough

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Committing to something is always easier than maintaining it, especially when old habits try to pull you back. Jennifer started strong but knew the real challenge would come during her commute days. "I don't know yet if I'm going to share this, or if I want to put it out there again with the world that I'm trying again," she confessed early on. "I know my family is not going to want me to do this again, so I haven't told anyone because I truly was at a really, really dark place last time." Despite her doubts, the results came quickly—she dropped 5.2 pounds in just one week, proving that immediate payoff can fuel long-term commitment.

Overcoming Social Pressure

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Social situations become minefields when you're committed to strict habits. Jennifer faced this head-on during work dinners and celebrations. "Everyone was drinking wine. They were like, 'Oh Jen didn't get a glass.' They told the waiter it was my birthday. He got me a little shot of vodka and pineapple juice. I gave it to a co-worker," Jennifer recalls. She even resorted to smashing cake into a napkin to avoid breaking her commitment when pressured to eat dessert. While these moments were challenging, they strengthened her resolve and showed that saying "no" gets easier with practice.

The Weather Won't Stop You

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Mother Nature doesn't care about your fitness goals, but true transformation means persevering anyway. "It's pouring. So this is what I looked like coming back into work. I'm soaked. My pants are soaked. My shoes are soaked. My socks are soaked. I look like a wet dog but I got my 45 minutes in so that's what counts," Jennifer shared after a particularly brutal outdoor workout. Through rain, cold, and exhaustion, she never missed a day. Your excuses about weather conditions will seem insignificant after seeing what's possible with true commitment.

Hitting the 38-Day Milestone

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Breaking past your previous failure point creates powerful momentum. Day 38 marked a significant psychological milestone for Jennifer—the day she had given up during her first attempt. "I am feeling so happy. My spirits are very high. I am on cloud nine, honestly," Jennifer revealed. "I'm gonna accomplish it this time around. I know I'm gonna hit all 75 days." Pushing through your former breaking point proves that your past doesn't define your future. You can rewrite your story with persistence.

The Physical Transformation

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Consistent effort yields undeniable results. Jennifer lost an impressive 25 pounds during her 75 Hard journey, but the benefits went far beyond numbers on a scale. "My mom kept commenting on how my face looks so much skinnier. I just look in the mirror and I look at myself in the camera so much that I don't really notice the changes," Jennifer remarked. Sometimes others notice our transformation before we do. Your daily progress may seem small, but others will see the dramatic difference when your discipline accumulates over weeks and months.

Developing Healthy Nutrition Habits

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Food discipline isn't just about following rules—it's about developing better awareness of your body's actual needs. "Something I really struggle with and something I'm really working on is trying to control food noise and figuring out am I eating because I feel like it's time to eat or am I eating because I'm hungry," Jennifer shared. Throughout the challenge, she learned to resist social eating cues and listen to her body instead. You'll discover that many of your eating habits are based on convenience or social pressure rather than genuine hunger.

Finding Joy in Movement

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Exercise becomes something you crave rather than dread when it becomes part of your identity. Jennifer gradually shifted from reluctant workouts to enthusiastic movement. "I feel so good. If I could, I would do midday workouts all the time. I feel like I have the most energy to do my best workouts," she noticed by the end of her journey. Your relationship with physical activity can transform completely when you commit to consistent practice regardless of motivation.

The Mental Transformation

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The physical changes are impressive, but the mental shift is what truly lasts. "I give up too often and I'm changing who I am. I'm not that person anymore. I don't give up on things. I follow through with things. I accomplish my goals," Jennifer declared during the final third of her challenge. This mental toughness extends to every area of life, from career ambitions to personal relationships. You'll develop a proven track record with yourself that builds unshakable self-trust.

Life After 75 Hard

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Completing a challenge means nothing if you return to old habits. The true test comes after day 75. "In the nearly two months that have passed since doing 75 Hard, I've lost even more weight and feel better than I ever did," Jennifer reported. She maintained her reading habit, consistent workouts, outdoor walks, and even added weight training. The challenge provided the structure to develop habits that became a sustainable lifestyle. Your transformation doesn't have to end when the challenge does.

Start Your Own Transformation Today

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Jennifer's journey proves that ordinary people can achieve extraordinary results through consistent discipline. She started just like you—uncertain, with plenty of excuses and past failures. Yet 75 days of unwavering commitment completely transformed both her body and mindset. "If someone told you that you could change your entire life in just two and a half months, would you do the work necessary to make the change?" Jennifer asks. The answer is up to you, but her results speak for themselves. What could you accomplish in the next 75 days? And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Most of us know the crushing feeling of looking in the mirror and not recognizing the person staring back. James Marsden was there too, carrying an extra 50 pounds that represented more than just weight—it was physical proof of his mental struggles. "Those extra 50 pounds were not just fat, it was proof of how lazy, useless and depressed I truly was," James admits in his post. As a weight loss coach who now helps busy office workers transform their bodies without upending their lives, James has guided over 300 clients to sustainable results through practical nutrition, mindset shifts, and habit change. His journey revealed that the real battle isn't fought in the gym but in your head. Keep reading to discover the seven basic mistakes that were holding James back—fixing them might be exactly what you need to finally see results, too.

Your mind gives up too soon

Your brain is constantly trying to protect you from discomfort, even when that discomfort leads to growth. James discovered this when working out with a friend who pushed him beyond what he thought was his limit. "I was about to put the weights down when he just said, one more rep. So I pushed another rep, then he said one more again," James recalls. "Five more reps beyond what I thought was my limit. It hit me like a ton of bricks." Your body is capable of so much more than your mind allows. The real transformation happens when you push past these mental barriers. As James learned, "Progressive overload isn't just waffle. It's the only way that your body changes."

You think in all-or-nothing terms

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We've all been there—one slice of pizza turns into "might as well eat the whole thing because my diet is already ruined." This all-or-nothing thinking sabotaged James for months. "I remember sitting in my car outside of a fast food place with an empty bag, feeling worthless, like shit on my shoe. I was about to give up completely because I'd failed," James says. The breakthrough came when he did the math and realized that one meal represents just 5% of his weekly nutrition. One bad choice can't undo all your progress unless you let it. As James puts it, "When you mess up, just make the next meal good. This simple mindset shift is why I never fully quit again."

You worry too much about what others think

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That paralyzing fear that everyone is judging your every move at the gym? It's all in your head. James spent three months avoiding unfamiliar equipment because he was terrified of looking stupid. "I'd walk around pretending that I knew what I was doing, terrified everyone was judging me," James admits. But when he finally tried something new, he realized, "Nobody gives a damn. Everyone was completely focused on their own workout." The reality is that people are too wrapped up in their own fitness journeys to notice yours. As James learned, "Don't let your fear of judgment rob you of your results."

You don't track your progress

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For months, James thought he was eating right but couldn't understand why nothing changed. "The first three months of my journey, I saw no results. I actually got a lot bigger," James says. "I thought I was eating right, but I couldn't understand why the scales wasn't moving." Everything changed when he started tracking. "My breakthrough came when I started to track everything. My calories, my protein, my weight at the gym," James explains. He discovered he was consuming nowhere near enough protein. Your memory and perception will constantly lie to you about what you ate and how hard you worked. As James puts it, "What gets measured gets managed. If you're not tracking, you're just guessing."

You rely too much on the scale

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Motivation will inevitably die at some point. James hit this wall four months in, when the scale hadn't moved for weeks. "I felt exhausted. Started to wonder, was it even worth it?" James recalls. That negative inner voice got louder: "Look at yourself. Still fat. This isn't working. Just quit like you always do." He almost listened until he compared current photos to his before pictures. "The scale might not have moved, but my body had changed. My shoulders were way more defined. My waist was smaller," James says. These visual proofs silenced that lying voice in his head. "Take pictures from day one. Even if you hate how you look," James advises. "When motivation does die, and it will, those photos become your fuel."

You focus too much on cardio, not enough on nutrition

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Endless cardio sessions might make you feel virtuous, but they won't transform your body if your nutrition is off. "I was killing myself on the treadmill while ignoring what's on your plate," James admits. "Every day, 45 minute grueling cardio sessions, thinking I was burning fat, that I'd be so tired at the end of it that I'd need more food." When he finally tracked his nutrition and increased his protein intake from 50 to 150 grams daily while training less, his body transformed. "You cannot outrun a bad diet," James emphasizes. "One hour of intense cardio burns 500 calories, which is just one large muffin. But protein, it builds muscle, burns fat, and it's a 24-7 advocate for your body." Your diet determines 80% of your results; the gym handles the remaining 20%.

You blame your genetics

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Blaming genetics is the ultimate cop-out that removes all responsibility. "It was my genetics. This was my favourite excuse," James confesses. "I would tell myself this week in, week out, just so I didn't have to feel responsible, so I didn't have to have the problem and deal with it." Your brain creates convenient stories to protect your habits and keep you comfortable. As James realized, "Your brain will create stories to protect your habits." The solution? Find one person who has achieved what you want and immerse yourself in their content and mindset. Their beliefs will gradually become yours. James learned that "Most weight loss isn't about your body. It's about reprogramming your mind."

You give up when progress slows down

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Transformation doesn't occur on a perfect upward trajectory. "Four months in, I was there. The scale hadn't moved in weeks," James remembers. That's exactly when most people quit, just before breakthrough results appear. James discovered that plateaus are normal parts of the journey, not signs that you're failing. Looking back at his before pictures during these tough times provided the perspective he needed to keep going. "When motivation does die, and it will, those photos become your fuel," James emphasizes. Every time you choose to persist when you'd rather quit, you're not just changing your body—you're rebuilding your mental resilience.

You expect fast results

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Weight loss takes time, and James had to learn patience. "I thought I was eating right, but I couldn't understand why the scales wasn't moving," he says. Society conditions us to expect immediate results, but real transformation happens gradually. James discovered that consistent small actions compound over time, creating lasting change. Rather than looking for dramatic weekly losses, he learned to appreciate subtle improvements in energy, strength, and how his clothes fit. The 50 pounds didn't disappear overnight—they melted away through consistent application of these lessons. Sustainable weight loss isn't about quick fixes; it's about building habits that last.

You try to do it all alone

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James's breakthrough moment came when a friend pushed him past his limits in the gym. "After my usual pathetic effort, I was about to put the weights down when he just said, one more rep," James recalls. That outside perspective revealed how much more he was capable of. Many of us try to tackle weight loss in isolation, either from embarrassment or believing we should be able to figure it out ourselves. But having support—whether a friend, coach, or community—provides accountability, perspective, and encouragement when motivation wanes. James learned that the right support system doesn't just make the journey easier; it makes success more likely.

You forget the mental game matters most

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At its core, James's transformation wasn't about diets or workout plans—it was about changing his relationship with himself. "Your brain made you overweight. You cannot trust it," he realized. All seven mistakes share a common thread: the battle happens in your mind before it happens in your body. "Most weight loss isn't about your body. It's about reprogramming your mind," James emphasizes. When you address the mental patterns that created your current reality, physical transformation follows naturally. That's how James lost 50 pounds, and that's the blueprint he now shares with his clients—proof that sustainable change starts from within. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.