I Got Into the Best Shape of My Life at 51 After Stopping These Bad Habits

Alicia Erickson, aka The Midlife Maven, did the seemingly impossible: At 50, she built her dream physique. All you have to do is take one look at any of her Instagram posts to see a woman who is strong, sculpted, and clearly thriving. So, how exactly did she do it? Erickson details her journey on social media, giving crucial tips and advice for women who want to get fit and strong but have no idea where to start. "I did this as I was approaching 50 and had become an empty nester. So if you're approaching that time in life, why not go all in if it's something you are passionate about?" she says. Here's exactly how Erickson turned her life around and got the body of her dreams.

Lifting, Not Cardio

Erickson emphasizes how important it is to prioritize lifting weights over cardio. "Cardio will not sculpt your body!" she says. "Lifting heavy weights, progressive overload will sculpt your body! This is a difficult concept for us, GenX, because we have been told differently throughout our entire lives. This is how I completely changed my physique in perimenopause."

Progressive Overload

Erickson focused on a stringent regimen that pushed her to the limit. "I traded inconsistent workouts for a progressive overload lifting program where I tracked my lifts and repeated the same ones week after week," she says. "I started with four days a week and now lift 5-6 days a week."

Tracking Macros

Erickson started paying attention to exactly what she ate to have a better understanding of nutrition. "I started tracking my macros (protein, carbs, fats) according to my goals," she says. "Initially in a caloric deficit to drop a few pounds. Then into maintenance and a body recomposition."

Eating the Same Meals

Erickson eats a lot of the same nutritious meals throughout the week, which cuts down on indecision and temptation for unhealthy choices. "I eat a lot of meals I love on repeat!" she says. "My goal is to eat whole, nutritionally dense foods. (That being said, I do include protein bars and powder)."

No Refined Sugar

Erickson knows how bad added sugars are for your health and wellness. "I traded refined sugar treats for coconut sugar/honey/monk fruit/stevia sweetened substitutes," she says.

10-15K Steps a Day

Erickson started tracking her steps. "I currently walk 10-15k steps per day and absolutely love it!" she says. "Walking does something for me that no other cardio does. I aim to be in zone 2 [fat burning] for 20 minutes a day. Otherwise, just keep my body in motion. I hike on the weekends typically!"

No Alcohol

Erickson eliminated alcohol from her diet. "I quit alcohol almost 6 years ago because I had a difficult time moderating (1-2 drinks a week I consider moderation)," she says. "I'm pretty all or nothing, as you can see 😂 so for me, I needed to cut it out."

Ab Exercises

Erickson swears by this ab exercise. "You can try this at the end of your next lift using a wall ball (I used a 10#) or with bodyweight only to start," she says. "I do abs/core 3 days a week at the end of my lift. Typically 2-3 movements 3-4 sets. Remember that your work in the kitchen plays an instrumental role in revealing your abs! Another reminder: lifting, in general, will give you a strong core👏👏."

No Guilt

Erickson says she was worried about sharing her sobriety in case of judgment—but did it anyway. "It took a minute for me to share publicly about it because I do think there is unnecessary guilt and shame around this issue," she says. "But I know that many women out there struggle with this, and I see you because that was me!! I have never considered myself an 'alcoholic.' I disliked my relationship with alcohol, and I needed to make changes big time."

Eating Whole Foods

Erickson says nutrition is paramount when it comes to her enviable abs. "I have personally made a decision to not drink alcohol or consume refined sugar," she says. "I do coconut sugar and honey. I eat lots of whole foods. I prioritize protein but also get my healthy carbs and fats. My genetics also work in my favor."

Trying New Things

Erickson loves trying new things to keep her workouts interesting. "The gym is like an adult playground 😂," she says. "I'm consistent with my lifts but always playing with movements each week to keep it fun! I'm also currently working on handstands. Determined to get better! Yes, you can teach a 'seasoned' gal new tricks!"

Getting Those Endorphins

Erickson thrives on the high she gets from her workouts. "In the wise words of one of my fave actresses: 'Exercise gives you endorphins. Endorphins make you happy.' What else do you need?" she says. "Not trying to be like everyone else. Blazing a trail over here, ladies."

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Hydration

Erickson is careful to get enough water. "I drink half of my body weight (lbs) in ounces of water daily. I also throw in an electrolyte pack while I'm working out," she says.

Good Sleep

Erickson knows how important sleep is for health and fitness. "Sleep has to be a priority. 7-8 hours a night," she says. "This is how your body recovers and resets."

Back Workouts

Here is a back workout Erickson swears by: "Pull-ups 3 sets of 6-8 (regular or assisted)

• Lat Pulldown 3 sets of 10
• Close Grip Cable Row 3 sets of 10
• Chest Supported T-Bar Row 3 sets of 10
• Straight Arm Lat Pulldown 3 sets of 10
• Single arm DB Row 3 sets of 10 each arm," she says.

Walking Outside

Erickson loves taking her long walks outside in the fresh air with her pup. "Do you even add dancing to your daily cardio!? If not you should start now mmkay?" she quips. "All jokes aside I do make sure I'm in Zone 2 [fat burning] for a 20-30 minute chunk of my daily 10k steps. At age 50 I cannot express how much my body is loving this pace!"

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Make Sacrifices

Erickson reminds followers that if they aren't willing to make real changes, they probably won't get the results they want. "So many women tell me they don't see the physique results they are after, and I don't want to burst bubbles, but the hours of intense cardio/boot camp/circuit group classes are great for exercise but will not sculpt and change your body. Neither will the nightly wine," she says. "If you want the 'toned' look, it will happen through proper nutrition and an appropriate progressive overload strength training program.

Delicious Smoothies

Erickson loves sharing protein-packed smoothies. "This is so simple and so delicious!" she says. "Recipe:

• 2 scoops of your favorite protein powder
• (I used cake batter flavor from @cleansimpleeats)
• 12 ounces of your milk of choice
• 2 T of SF pudding
• Mix in of your choice! I did choc zero caramel crunch
• (20g protein per serving! Makes 2 servings)

In the Ninja Creami machine!!" she says.

Keep It Simple

Erickson doesn't overcomplicate her routine. "The basics always win," she says. "I don't overcomplicate. I execute. I'm disciplined and have fallen in love with discipline. I don't feel like I'm missing out because I enjoy this lifestyle and have high-energy and joy-filled days. This comes from a lifetime of working on my physical and mental states."

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Enjoy the Journey

Erickson reminds followers the process should be fun. "Currently, I am just focused on enjoying my days, being high energy, and moving my body in ways that I love, which right now is lifting weights and long walks and hikes," she says. "I love the food I eat and consider it fuel for life." And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss 12-3-30 Walking Method: 20 Proven Tips to Lose Weight Faster.