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She Broke Free From a 15-Year Food Obsession Using These 8 Daily Habits

Break free from food fixation with these proven strategies.

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Most of us have experienced it: that constant mental chatter about food, the endless calculations about what to eat or not eat, and the emotional drain that comes with it. For YouTube influencerCaroline Winkler, this struggle was all too real. After battling eating disorders and spending 15 years searching for answers, she finally found her way to food freedom. Whether you're dealing with disordered eating or simply want to stop overthinking every meal, Caroline's honest insights might be exactly what you need.


Understanding Food Obsession

"That food fixation, whether it's starving yourself or binging or purging or just having a casually disordered relationship to eating, it can be really isolating," Caroline shares in her post. According to WebMD, this fixation can develop into orthorexia, an unhealthy obsession with healthy eating, where individuals "spend hours thinking about food and planning meals."

The Journey Takes Time

"The first requirement is a lot of time," Caroline emphasizes. After being hospitalized at 16 with an eating disorder, she learned that quick fixes don't exist. "When I had disrupted my intuitive relationship to eating, it was difficult to restore it. I have dropped 35 pounds from the weight you see me at now. My heart rate was 40 beats per minute. I was very, very ill."

Breaking Down Food Restrictions

One of Caroline's breakthrough moments came with food freedom. "I let myself access the whole spectrum of foods that I'm not allergic to," she shares. "As soon as you make something off limits, as soon as you're labeling something like bad or untouchable, guess what you're obsessing over? It's a shortcut to obsession." WebMD notes that avoiding certain foods or "avoiding eating food prepared by others" can be warning signs of disordered eating.

Managing Your Energy, Not Just Calories

"The amount of willpower you have is finite," Caroline explains. "When my willpower is low, it is taking every ounce of energy and restraint and mental focus to eat normally." She plans her meals according to willpower levels, noting that "the lower my willpower is, the more I'm obsessing about the goal."

Finding True Satisfaction

"Making sure I'm satisfied after every meal was a huge turning point," Caroline reveals. "If you're feeling hungry and not satiated all the time, then you're thinking about food all the time, and then you're obsessing over food." WebMD supports this approach, warning that severely limiting food variety can lead to malnutrition.

Recognizing Emotional Triggers

"For me, and I think for most people, it's pretty emotional—family stress, holidays, things getting out of my control," Caroline shares. This aligns with WebMD's identification of psychological risk factors, including perfectionist tendencies and anxiety.

RELATED:This Grandmother Lost 200 Pounds in 23 Months by Walking Just 2 Blocks a Day

Creating a New Balance

"I used to think of balanced eating as being like every single day is perfectly balanced, which life doesn't happen that way," Caroline admits. "Balance includes getting a lot of nutrients. It includes feeling satiated, includes indulging, and it also includes not indulging every single little whim."

Rebuilding Body Trust

"Learning to trust your hunger signals was the hardest thing to restore," Caroline reflects. "These days, when I wake up starving, I trust that it's for a reason, and I trust that when I eat a bigger breakfast, my body needs it." WebMD recommends mindfulness meditation and relaxation techniques as ways to rebuild this trust.

The Role of Social Media

"One of the best things I ever did for myself was to purge my Instagram feed," Caroline shares. "We covet what we see every day." This connects to WebMD's recognition of social/cultural influences on disordered eating patterns.

RELATED:This 35-Year-Old Finally Built Muscle After Stopping These 7 Training Mistakes

The Path to Recovery

Caroline's journey shows that recovery is possible: "It's a huge point of pride for me that I am at the state of functionality and balance even that I'm at right now. The greatest tragedy was this immense amount of mental energy that I was putting towards thinking about food, avoiding food, getting food, resisting food." WebMD says that treatment should focus on developing a healthier relationship with food while maintaining good nutrition without anxiety and rigid rules.

The journey to stop obsessing over food isn't linear, but with proper support and strategies, it's achievable. As Caroline concludes, "I'm going to say it's the most impressed with me for it. I think it's the hardest thing I've done." Her story, backed by medical understanding, reminds us that with time, patience, and self-trust, we can all develop a healthier relationship with food. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

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Are your unhealthy habits keeping you from achieving your weight loss goals? Heather Eisenberg is a nutrition coach and personal trainer who helps women over 40 “lose weight with nutrition & fitness,” she writes in her Instagram bio. In a new social media post, she discusses some of the bad habits she had to give up in order to lose 10 pounds in 2 months at 46. “We all have habits that we want to break…Losing weight in your 40s can feel like a struggle, but small changes can make a big difference!” she writes. “Here are 5 habits I let go of that kickstarted my journey.”


Mindless Snacking

The first habit she had to ditch was mindless snacking. “I used to grab snacks throughout the day without even thinking about it—whether I was bored, stressed, or just because the food was there. Now I make sure to have balanced meals that keep me satisfied longer, and when I need a snack, I choose something with protein and fiber, like Greek yogurt or an apple with almond butter,” she writes in her post.

Skipping Meals

The next habit she parted ways with was skipping meals. “I used to skip meals, especially breakfast, thinking I was saving calories. But in reality, it would just lead to overeating later in the day,” she says. “Now, I make time for regular meals—especially breakfast, which sets the tone for my day. A quick smoothie or some eggs and veggies in the morning helps me feel energized and prevents those late-afternoon cravings.”

Processed Foods

The third habit? Relying on processed foods.
”Frozen dinners or packaged snacks were a go-to because they were easy. But I realized they were packed with hidden sugars, sodium, and unhealthy fats,” she says. “I swapped them out for whole foods—lean proteins, veggies, and healthy carbs. Meal prepping on Sundays was a game changer. It is much easier to avoid the temptation of quick, unhealthy options during the week, and I actually feel more energized after eating real food.”

Late Night Eating

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was something else she had to ditch. “Eating late at night had become a bad habit. I started closing the kitchen after dinner, giving myself at least 2-3 hours before bed without food. This not only helped me avoid unnecessary calories but also improved my sleep,” she writes.

Overthinking Workouts

The fifth habit she had to let go of was overthinking workouts. “I used to think that if I didn’t have an hour to hit the gym or couldn’t do a perfect workout, it wasn’t worth it. Now, I prioritize movement in any form—whether it’s a 20-minute walk, or a quick bodyweight workout,” she writes.

Breaking Up with Bad Habits Isn’t Easy, But the Results Are “Worth It”

While quitting unhealthy habits and replacing them with ones that will help you achieve your goals isn’t easy, it pays off in the end, she maintains. “Breaking up with these habits took time, but the results were worth it!”

RELATED:9 Foods with More Protein Than an Egg for Weight Loss, Says Nutrition Coach

She Also Stopped Cutting Out Entire Food Groups

In another post, she reveals a few more habits she ditched in order to lose weight. The first? Cutting out entire food groups.
”Eliminating carbs or fats may seem like the answer, but it’s not sustainable. Your body needs a mix of carbs, proteins, and healthy fats to thrive. Cutting out entire food groups can mess with your energy levels, hormones, and mindset. Balance is the key — there’s room for everything when you approach food mindfully,” she writes.

And, She Stopped Giving Up Foods That She Loves

Another thing she stopped doing? Giving up foods that she loves. “Let’s be honest — life without ice cream or pizza sounds miserable! I’ve learned that allowing myself to enjoy these foods in moderation keeps me sane and on track. Depriving yourself often leads to bingeing or feeling like you’ve failed. Including foods you love makes healthy eating a lifestyle, not a punishment,” she writes.

She Stopped Relying Solely on Cardio

Once she stopped relying solely on cardio, it also changed the game.
”I used to think cardio was the best way to lose weight, but resistance training changed everything. Lifting weights builds muscle, boosts your metabolism, and helps you feel stronger and more confident. Cardio has benefits, but strength training reshapes your body in a way cardio alone can’t,” she writes.

RELATED:Mom Loses 35 Pounds in 6 Months Using 5 Natural Methods to Lower Cortisol

And, She Stopped Letting the Scale Dictate Progress

And, lastly, she stopped letting the scale dictate progress.
”The scale is just one number, and it doesn’t tell the whole story. Your energy, strength, how your clothes fit, and how you feel are all signs of progress. If you let the scale control your mood, you’ll miss out on the real wins. Focus on the bigger picture — it’s way more rewarding,” she writes. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Dierdre Rae is showing off her before-and-after transformation – in a crop top. In a new social media post, the London-based certified health and wellness coach discusses her health journey, revealing how she overcame an eating disorder to become the healthiest version of herself. In the before photo from 2019, she did “hours of exercise every day, massively undereating for days and then binging, the body is constantly swollen and bloated.” Now, in 2024, she has a more balanced approach to diet and exercise and is healthier than ever. Here is how she did it.


She Achieved “Food Freedom” After a 10-Year-Long Eating Disorder Battle

“Food freedom is never something I thought I’d be able to have (for reference, I’m around the same weight in both photos). It was a 10-year battle, but here we are over 5 years later - intuitive eating, never calorie counting, doing the exercise I enjoy, resting without guilt, and not constantly thinking and worrying about food/body image,” she writes in her post. “If you’re struggling, I have a free binge guide in my bio 🫶🏻 (just some tips from me that helped heal binge eating habits for myself, some of my friends, and clients 💗), but here are a few things that helped me start to recover.”

She Read This Book

First, she suggests ordering a book. Buying the book ‘brain over binge’ by Kathryn Hansen (in her Amazon storefront or on audible, was a game-changer. “There’s a book and a recovery guide, make sure you get the book,” she says.

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She Balanced Her Breakfast

Next, she tackled her diet, starting with breakfast. “Eating a balanced breakfast (protein, fats, AND carbs) the morning after a binge/overeating to balance out blood sugars,” she says.

She Quit Dieting

After years of yo-yo dieting and seriously restricting food, Dierdre gave up crash diets for good. “I completely stopped dieting and trying to lose weight (had to sit with that anxiety),” she writes.

RELATED: I'm a Nutritionist and Here are 5 Reasons Why I Prescribe 30-Minute Walks for Weight Loss

She Reversed Negative Thoughts

She also changed her thought process. “I started standing up for myself by not letting unchecked intrusive thoughts come into my brain. I reversed any negative thought about my body and food into something I’d believe,” she writes.

She Shifted From “Intense Cardio” to Weight Lifting and Walking

She also shifted her approach to exercise. “I stopped all intense cardio while recovering. I only weight lifted and walked. (intense cardio can mimic binge symptoms and make you ravenous),” she explains.

She Incorporated “Fear Foods” Into Her Diet

And lastly, she “ate and incorporated my fear foods EVERY day,” she reveals. “It helped to take away the feeling that if I ate something ‘bad,’ the whole day wasn’t ruined; therefore, I was less likely to binge (I had cake after lunch every day for an entire summer). IT’S NORMAL to overeat it in the beginning, but it’s about practicing taking those foods off of the pedestal we’ve placed them on.”

RELATED: I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 4 Fall Comfort Foods That Can Help You Lose Weight

Stretching Is Also Important

She discusses how important and “underrated” stretching is in another post. “Getting workouts in is incredible, but mobilizing your body has just as many benefits. I know that stretching is easy to skip out on, especially after you’ve finished a workout. Still, even a few minutes of stretching can have massive benefits,” she writes, listing benefits such as muscle recovery, injury prevention, increased range of motion in joints, enhanced muscle performance, can help improve posture, promotes blood circulation, can relieve stress, enhances athletic performance, and reduces muscle stiffness and soreness. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Most of us have experienced it: that constant mental chatter about food, the endless calculations about what to eat or not eat, and the emotional drain that comes with it. For YouTube influencerCaroline Winkler, this struggle was all too real. After battling eating disorders and spending 15 years searching for answers, she finally found her way to food freedom. Whether you're dealing with disordered eating or simply want to stop overthinking every meal, Caroline's honest insights might be exactly what you need.


Understanding Food Obsession

"That food fixation, whether it's starving yourself or binging or purging or just having a casually disordered relationship to eating, it can be really isolating," Caroline shares in her post. According to WebMD, this fixation can develop into orthorexia, an unhealthy obsession with healthy eating, where individuals "spend hours thinking about food and planning meals."

The Journey Takes Time

"The first requirement is a lot of time," Caroline emphasizes. After being hospitalized at 16 with an eating disorder, she learned that quick fixes don't exist. "When I had disrupted my intuitive relationship to eating, it was difficult to restore it. I have dropped 35 pounds from the weight you see me at now. My heart rate was 40 beats per minute. I was very, very ill."

Breaking Down Food Restrictions

One of Caroline's breakthrough moments came with food freedom. "I let myself access the whole spectrum of foods that I'm not allergic to," she shares. "As soon as you make something off limits, as soon as you're labeling something like bad or untouchable, guess what you're obsessing over? It's a shortcut to obsession." WebMD notes that avoiding certain foods or "avoiding eating food prepared by others" can be warning signs of disordered eating.

Managing Your Energy, Not Just Calories

"The amount of willpower you have is finite," Caroline explains. "When my willpower is low, it is taking every ounce of energy and restraint and mental focus to eat normally." She plans her meals according to willpower levels, noting that "the lower my willpower is, the more I'm obsessing about the goal."

Finding True Satisfaction

"Making sure I'm satisfied after every meal was a huge turning point," Caroline reveals. "If you're feeling hungry and not satiated all the time, then you're thinking about food all the time, and then you're obsessing over food." WebMD supports this approach, warning that severely limiting food variety can lead to malnutrition.

Recognizing Emotional Triggers

"For me, and I think for most people, it's pretty emotional—family stress, holidays, things getting out of my control," Caroline shares. This aligns with WebMD's identification of psychological risk factors, including perfectionist tendencies and anxiety.

RELATED:This Grandmother Lost 200 Pounds in 23 Months by Walking Just 2 Blocks a Day

Creating a New Balance

"I used to think of balanced eating as being like every single day is perfectly balanced, which life doesn't happen that way," Caroline admits. "Balance includes getting a lot of nutrients. It includes feeling satiated, includes indulging, and it also includes not indulging every single little whim."

Rebuilding Body Trust

"Learning to trust your hunger signals was the hardest thing to restore," Caroline reflects. "These days, when I wake up starving, I trust that it's for a reason, and I trust that when I eat a bigger breakfast, my body needs it." WebMD recommends mindfulness meditation and relaxation techniques as ways to rebuild this trust.

The Role of Social Media

"One of the best things I ever did for myself was to purge my Instagram feed," Caroline shares. "We covet what we see every day." This connects to WebMD's recognition of social/cultural influences on disordered eating patterns.

RELATED:This 35-Year-Old Finally Built Muscle After Stopping These 7 Training Mistakes

The Path to Recovery

Caroline's journey shows that recovery is possible: "It's a huge point of pride for me that I am at the state of functionality and balance even that I'm at right now. The greatest tragedy was this immense amount of mental energy that I was putting towards thinking about food, avoiding food, getting food, resisting food." WebMD says that treatment should focus on developing a healthier relationship with food while maintaining good nutrition without anxiety and rigid rules.

The journey to stop obsessing over food isn't linear, but with proper support and strategies, it's achievable. As Caroline concludes, "I'm going to say it's the most impressed with me for it. I think it's the hardest thing I've done." Her story, backed by medical understanding, reminds us that with time, patience, and self-trust, we can all develop a healthier relationship with food. And if you enjoyed this article, don't miss I’m a Nutritionist and Here Are 25 Weight Loss Truths You Need to Hear.

FACT CHECKED BY Christopher Roback
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We adhere to structured guidelines for sourcing information and linking to other resources, including scientific studies and medical journals.

If you have any concerns about the accuracy of our content, please reach out to our editors by e-mailing editors@bodynetwork.com.

Are you struggling to lose weight? Vivian Ngo (@vivianngo) is a fat loss coach and the creator of Team Evolve, a fat loss mastery program utilizing the tools that helped her get into the best shape of her life. In her viral TikTok and YouTube videos she reveals her secrets to breaking her sugar addiction and unhealthy binge-eating habits so that she could lose 30 pounds and get into the best shape of her life.


She Struggled with Yo-Yo Dieting for 10 Years

“I thought that I would be stuck in the Yo-yo dieting, binge eating, restricting my calories, and then overeating, losing the weight just to gain it all back. I genuinely thought that I was going to be stuck in that cycle for the rest of my life because I was in it for over 10 years,” Ngo says in a YouTube clip.

She Says “Nothing Worked”

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“I felt like I tried everything, everything, and nothing worked. Nothing kept the weight off. And I can tell you right now that I'm sitting here today down 30 pounds, kept it off for years, and I have never felt better in my skin,” she claims.

However, Now She Has Tools to Overcome It

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By far one of the HARDEST habits I’ve ever had to break. ↴ I was terrified of getting fat that I couldn’t NOT overcompensate my binges. It wasn’t until I was dead set on OVERCOMING binge eating once and for all, That I knew I had to stop the restricting portion in order to stop the bingeing portion, because they fed into one another. But once you teach your mind & body that it won’t be punished for overeating or bingeing, And you start leaning into kindness & compassion for yourself… SHOCKINGLY: the binges stop, too. But it’s scary at first, because you’re so terrified to gain weight that the thoughts of wanting to restrict are SO strong. Learning how to sit with those thoughts, but NOT listen to them is a vital part of recovery. You CAN do it, my friend. ✨ If you’re READY to overcome yo-yo dieting and MASTER your emotions and lifestyle habits so you can *master* your fat loss, once and for all, feel free to visit my website and apply for 1-on-1 coaching with me: www.teamevolve.co/ #healthyeatingtips #healthyeatinghabits #fatlosshabits #fatlosstipsandtricks #weightlosstipsandtricks #weightlossforwomen

What were the tools that helped her? In another TikTok clip, she claims that “eliminating this habit” helped her “overcome ten years of binge eating.”

1. She Stopped “Overcompensating” Post Binge

She explains that she would binge and then try to remedy the situation. “Overcompensating a binge by undereating/doing a bunch of cardio the next day” was the first habit she had to break.

She Had to Overcome Her Binge Eating Instead

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“I was terrified of getting fat that I couldn’t NOT overcompensate my binges. It wasn’t until I was dead set on OVERCOMING binge eating once and for all” that she discovered the second tool.

2. She Had to Stop Restricting Portions

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“I knew I had to stop the restricting portion in order to stop the binging portion because they fed into one another,” she said. “But once you teach your mind & body that it won’t be punished for overeating or binging.”

She Maintains She Used to Exercise Just as Much

@viviannngo_

Being consistent with working out is *not* enough to get you the results that you want: let’s talk about it! ↴ If you’re like me or the women I work with, your goal is to get toned meaning: you want to lose body fat, and look fit + strong without looking bulky. So you’ve heard that you should start lifting weights if you want to get toned, so you do - but even though you’re being consistent in the gym, you’re really not seeing much change in your body like you want to. Sounds about right? Here’s why: ↴ Lifting weights will help you build strength + muscle which is *amazing* - but to really see a difference in your physique, You will need to lose body fat that is laying on top of your hard-earned muscle in order to really see a difference in your body. To lose body fat, you need to be in a calorie deficit, And the BEST way to ensure you’re in a calorie deficit isn’t just be eating healthy *most* of the time, It’s by being accountable to what you’re putting in your body 24/7 by weighing out your food and tracking it every day: Monday through Sunday! And if you’re already quite active and being consistent in the gym, It’s THAT much more important that you need to be diligent with your tracking + diet day-to-day! 🌸 If you’re interested in working with me 1-on-1, check out my coaching on my website at: www.teamevolve.co/ ✨ #fatlosstransformations #fatlossbeforeandafter #weightlossbeforeandafter #weightlosstransformations #armfatloss #tonedarms

In another TikTok video, she reveals another important tool. She shows a before-and-after photo, claiming that she did the “exact same workouts, lifting weights, and doing incline walking on the treadmill” five days a week in both photos.

RELATED:20 Abdominal Fat-Blasting Tips for a Flatter Stomach in 60 Days

3. She Had to Stop Binging on Sugar and Drinking

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“So why do I look so different in this photo? I was eating pretty healthy, but I would have cravings at night, and I would often binge on sugar at night. On the weekends, I like to go out to eat. I would drink, and I would kind of go off my healthy eating plan. But during the week, I was eating pretty healthy. So I thought,” she says.

4. And, She Had to Start Tracking Calories

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“In this photo, I was tracking my calories. I was weighing all of my food and logging all of my food in my FitnessPal Monday through Sunday, every single day, every single meal, I was accountable to everything I was putting my body. That was the biggest difference between these two photos here. I was eating pretty healthy some days off here, and I knew exactly what was going into my body every day,” she revealed.

5. She Also Stopped Making Food “Good and Bad”

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How I overcame binge eating / yo-yo dieting after being stuck for 10 years. ❤️ If you’re ready to commit to your healing journey and overcome yo-yo dieting once and for all, visit my website to work with me: www.teamevolve.co/ ✨ #fatlosshabits #weightlosstipsandtricks #emotionaleatingcoach #overeating #overeatinghelp

In another TikTok she adds that she had to look at food differently to lose weight. “I had to stop making foods good and bad because that is why I was binge eating. I would only let myself eat high protein, veggies, no carbs. That's it,” she said.

She Used to Use Eating “Bad” Food as an Excuse to Binge

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“And anytime I would have a food that I would consider, not high protein, not vegetables, not low carb, anything unhealthy, fast food, going out to eat a piece of candy, bite of a cookie, anything, I would use that as an excuse to binge because I would say, oh, I've already fallen off for today, so I might as well have everything that I've restricted myself from and start again tomorrow, and I will promise myself I'll be good tomorrow. I promised myself I'll be good Monday,” she continued.

RELATED: 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week

6. So, She Started to “Slowly Incorporate” Sugar and Fast Food

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“And the reason why I was so stuck in my weight loss journey is because I couldn't stop binging. The reason I was binging is that I couldn't stop restricting myself, and it wasn't until I started to slowly incorporate sugar, going out to eat burgers, french fries, McDonald's, and Taco Bell, all these things that I previously thought were horrible, so bad, so unhealthy would make me fat, it wasn't until I started to make my peace with these foods, allow myself to have them incorporate them into my nutrition plan that I finally stopped binging after ten long years, and I actually was able to look and feel my best while eating all these, what I used to think were bad foods.”

7. She Also Started Planning

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In another TikTok revealing “habits that helped me lose OVER 30 lbs of body fat,” Ngo adds that planning is key. “Planning in advance is CRUCIAL. Deciding what I want to eat last minute almost NEVER leads me to make choices that are actually filling + satisfying,” she writes.

She Plans the Night Before

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She reveals that she plans what and when she is going to eat the night before. She also “has a game plan for what to do when I want to eat out of boredom.”

RELATED: 15 Proven Strategies to Drop 2 Pounds a Week with Minimal Effort

8. She Also Takes Progress Photos

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Another one of her tricks to stay on track? She doesn’t rely on the scale. “Use progress photos instead,” she recommends.

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Are your unhealthy habits preventing you from losing weight? According to one expert, you should take a look at yours. Fitness and nutrition coach Alexandra (@alexx.fitt) has amassed a following on TikTok and Instagram by sharing videos about losing 40 pounds. In a recent video, she reveals a few bad habits that she ditched to achieve weight loss success finally. “5 things I stopped doing to lose 40lbs,” she writes in the post.


She Stopped Following Trends

Just because it’s trendy doesn’t mean it will help you lose weight. “I stopped following trends,” Alex revealed. “These days, whether it’s running, Pilates Princess is all a trend. You can do it all. The secret is finding what works for you and sticking to it,” she says in her post.

She Stopped Snacking on “Everything in Sight”

Snacking isn’t always bad. However, it can be. “I stopped snacking on everything in sight. I used to be the person who would have a bite of everything. Little did I know it adds up quickly,” Alex writes.

She Stopped Being Lazy

Sedentary behavior won’t help you lose weight, says Alex. “I stopped being lazy. I simply began walking everywhere, taking the stairs instead of the elevator, etc,” she reveals.

RELATED: This Plan Is How to Lose 5 Percent Body Fat In 2 Weeks

She Stopped Setting Strict Goals

Are your diet and fitness goals too rigid? “I stopped having strict goals. I used to think I could lose 2 lbs a week consistently. But realistically, your weight will fluctuate, and setting weight goals puts way too much pressure on me,” she writes.

She Stopped Restricting Herself

Crash diets and avoiding food you actually like aren’t the key to losing weight, according to the influencer. “I stopped restricting myself and learned how to have portion control. Enjoy dessert in moderation,” she says.

She “Ate the Same Meals Every Single Day”

So, what did she eat to lose weight? “For 1-2 months, I ate the same meals every single day. Why? Because I was confused, I didn’t know what to eat or where to start, so I ate the same thing every day,” Alexandra confessed in another post.

RELATED: Health Expert Shares Her 5 Favorite Healthy Food Swaps

Here Is Her Weight Loss Breakfast

On her weight loss journey, Alex had two breakfast options. One “would always be oatmeal with a scoop of protein powder and brandy butter,” she reveals. The second? Eggs with turkey bacon, veggies, and a bagel.

Here Is Her Weight Loss Lunch

You don’t have to stick to salads to lose weight, according to Alex. “I’d usually eat some type of wrap/ sandwich. I’d add mayo, turkey, ham, salami, cheese, and a bunch of veggies,” she writes.

Here Are Her Weight Loss Snacks

Alexandra had a few go-to snacks while losing weight. “I’d have a protein bar, protein shake, fruit, yogurt bowls, bagels with cream cheese, snack plates, and anything I was craving that day. I just made sure it was a decent portion,” she says.

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Here Is Her Weight Loss Dinner

For dinner, while losing weight, she “would switch things up” and gravitated toward bowls. She would “add a bunch of lettuce, rice and either ground turkey, chicken, ground beef, any kind of protein and I’d add toppings like tortilla chips, Greek yogurt instead of sour cream, salsa, cheese ugh they’re so good and so filling,” she says. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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The battle against belly fat after 40 can feel like an uphill struggle. Those changes in our waistline seem to happen overnight, leaving many of us wondering if this widening middle is simply our new reality. Tracy Campoli understands this frustration firsthand. At 49, this certified personal trainer, Pilates instructor, and health coach balances her professional expertise with the real-life challenges of being a mom in menopause. "It's really frustrating seeing these changes that can happen in our bodies as we get older," Tracy says, "but we don't have to accept all of them as just being 'that's just how it is'." Tracy discovered that 20-second workout intervals were key to her transformation. Read on to discover how her Tabata-style workouts and other practical strategies can help you reduce belly fat at any age.

The 20-Second Workout That Changed Everything

Forget endless crunches - they're not the answer to reducing belly fat. "What we want to do is implement the right kinds of workouts," Tracy advises. For women over 40, she discovered that Tabata and HIIT (High-Intensity Interval Training) workouts were the most effective approach for burning fat and building lean muscle.

"Tabata is really my favorite because you're doing 20 seconds of intense work and then you have a 10-second break built in," Tracy explains. This 20-second interval approach became her secret weapon. "What that's gonna help you to do is burn fat and increase your lean muscle mass - that's what's gonna help you see that slimming in your middle."

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Focus on Strength

Strength training is equally important. Tracy emphasizes that your body itself provides resistance: "Your body is a source of weight and resistance." Whether through Pilates, resistance bands, light weights, or bodyweight exercises, incorporating strength work helps prevent the menopausal widening many women experience.

Why Her Old Workouts Weren't Working

"Back in the day, you know I grew up in the 80s myself, we were told if you want to have a slimmer middle, you got to do crunches all day long," Tracy shares. "That's not the case. By now we know that that is not true at all."

Instead of focusing solely on abdominal exercises, Tracy found that combining cardio intervals with strength training gave her the best results. In her fitness membership Total Body Transformation, she incorporates "strength training inside of the cardio workout so that you're getting basically more bang for your buck."

Chill Out To Slim Down

Your stress levels could be directly contributing to that stubborn belly fat. "Reducing your stress level is like a direct line to decreasing your waistline," Tracy explains. She points to that common experience of clothes feeling looser after vacation despite enjoying richer foods - that's your body responding positively to reduced stress levels.

The science is clear: stress elevates cortisol, which has a direct link to increased belly fat. "When we are stressed out, what happens? Our cortisol levels rise in an unhealthy manner, and so that is a direct link to our belly fat," Tracy says. She recommends simple stress-reduction techniques like nature walks, connecting with friends, practicing yoga, or even just taking three deep breaths. These small actions can make a significant difference in both your stress levels and your waistline.

Eat This, Not That

Proper nutrition becomes increasingly important as we age. "Especially if you're in your 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond, it's really important that we are fueling our bodies with nutrient-dense food," Tracy emphasizes.

For women over 40, adequate protein is essential for building lean muscle mass. "You want to be making sure especially over 40 that you have adequate protein. That protein is going to really help to create lean muscle mass," Tracy advises. She recommends a balanced approach with plenty of vegetables, fresh fruits, and proper hydration.

Rather than obsessing over individual food choices, she suggests taking a "bird's-eye view" of your daily nutrition. "A lot of women will come to me and say 'I had three cookies so I messed it all up'," Tracy shares, explaining that occasional indulgences won't derail your progress when your overall diet remains nutrient-dense.

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Dress Smart, Look Slimmer

How you dress can significantly impact both how you look and how you feel about your body. "If you're wearing big floppy tents or just hiding, that's actually going to make you look worse," Tracy warns, acknowledging it seems counterintuitive.

On days when you're feeling less than your best, Tracy suggests putting more effort into your presentation, not less. "Those days when I feel like a troll... I feel like a completely different person when I actually brush my hair, put on some makeup, and dress in a way that makes me feel pretty," she shares. This outside-in approach can boost your confidence and actually make you appear slimmer.

You're Not Invisible After 40

Tracy is passionate about women of all ages feeling visible and valued. "One of my missions is that women of every age and every stage of life know that they are worthy of being seen," she says passionately. "You are not just doomed to being invisible after the age of 40, 50, or 60. Yes, you are still beautiful. Yes, you are still attractive. Yes, you are worthy of showing up in the world in the best way that you know how to be."

She encourages women to find styles that make them feel good about themselves, whether through online inspiration or fashion magazines.

My Ballet Trick That Works Every Time

Drawing from her lifelong ballet training, Tracy shares one final tip: lightly engaging your abdominal muscles throughout the day. "We're never letting our belly go; we're always lifting the belly up and in," Tracy explains, clarifying this isn't about uncomfortable "sucking in" but rather a gentle engagement of your deep abdominal muscles.

"This is not a size thing because I used to do this when I was pregnant and my belly was out to here," she notes. "This is about just lightly engaging the muscles, those deep muscles in your abdominals."
This simple practice improves posture, creates a longer, leaner appearance, and can even help prevent back pain, especially important as we spend more time sitting. "It's going to improve your posture, make you look leaner, make you look slimmer, and help prevent back pain," Tracy confirms. With practice, this engagement becomes automatic, creating lasting improvements in both appearance and well-being.

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Start Today, See Results Tomorrow

Tracy emphasizes that consistency is key with all these approaches. The 20-second Tabata intervals might seem brief, but when performed regularly, they create significant changes. "When you do it with time, you don't even have to think about it anymore. It just becomes like a natural part of your day," she explains about her techniques.

By combining strategic 20-second workouts, stress reduction, smart nutrition, confident dressing, and simple posture adjustments, Tracy transformed her menopausal middle—and believes you can too.

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Diet and exercise are two components of weight loss. However, if you want to transform your body, there are additional habits you need to incorporate into your routine. Amulya M is a weight loss coach and influencer who helps her followers lose weight and transform their lives. In a new viral post, she reveals her plan for a four-month transformation. “For the next 4 months become addicted to these 7 habits, and you’ll be unrecognizable by June 2025,” she writes.

Wake Up Early

Her first transformation habit is waking up earlier. According to Amulya, it gives you more time to workout, plan your day, work on business, and be more productive. “It is a huge life hack and gives you more time to achieve your goals,” she says.

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Write Down Your Thoughts Before Bed

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Next, she recommends writing down your thoughts before bed. “Journaling before bed will improve your quality of and sleep,” she says. “You’ll be unrecognizable.” Not sure what to write down? She suggests “your goals for tomorrow” and “what you’re grateful for.”

Learn an Online Skill

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Her third transformative habit? “Learning an online skill 30 minutes a day,” she says. “With inflation and taxes rising, an online skill can save you financially.” She recommends skills like selling digital products, investing, and affiliate marketing.

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Exercise Four Times a Week

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She also recommends exercising four times a week and prioritizing mental health. “You also need good physical health,” she says, revealing a few exercises with the best results, including running, swimming, and lifting weights. “These will strengthen and tone your body,” she writes.

Sit in Silence

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“Sit in silence 10 minutes a day,” she adds. “Your mind is racing with hundreds of thoughts every minute.” She suggests taking just 10 minutes to sit in silence, practice mindfulness, and be present in the moment. “This is an underrated habit for your mental health, but very powerful,” she says.

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Sleep

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Make sure to get your rest. “Create a proper sleep schedule,” she says, adding that sleep is essential for your performance and mental health, reducing stress and improving your mood.

Repeat

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Her last tip? Be consistent and repeat these habits every single day, week, and month. And if you enjoyed this article, take advantage of these 15 Quick Ways to Lose Body Fat Percentage in a Week.

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Once you hit 40, your metabolism slows down a bit. Paying attention to nutrition becomes more important to prevent weight gain or lose some pounds you may have accumulated. Maintaining or building muscle is also more complex, so good nutrition is key. As an experienced nutrition coach and nutritionist who spends a lot of time helping my clients lose weight, I often advise my clients to eat certain types of food to fuel fat loss. These are the best foods for weight loss if you are over 40.

Lean Protein

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My first recommendation is lean protein, including chicken, fish, lean beef, tofu, eggs, and Greek yogurt. These foods help support muscle mass and keep you full longer. I recommend spreading protein throughout the day, having some at each meal especially breakfast. Also, choose grilled or baked instead of fried.

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Leafy Greens

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Another one of the best foods for weight loss is any leafy green. My favorites are spinach, kale, arugula, and romaine. Not only are these veggies low in calories, but they are also high in fiber and essential nutrients. An added bonus? Leafy greens are super high in antioxidants for disease fighting.

Berries

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Another great food for weight loss that also serves as a sweet treat? Berries. Personally, my favorites are blackberries, blueberries, strawberries, and raspberries. What makes this type of fruit so special? Berries are packed with fiber, which promotes satiety and good digestive health. They are also low in sugar compared to other fruits and high in antioxidants.

Healthy Fats

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Healthy fats – including avocados, nuts, and olives – are also excellent fat burners. They help keep you feeling full and satisfied, support brain and heart health, and are needed to help regulate hormones, which is crucial for weight management over 40.

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Probiotic-Rich Foods

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Don’t sleep on probiotic-rich foods like Greek yogurt, kimchi, and other fermented foods. these food types aid digestion and help immune and gut health.

Whole Grains

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Lastly, when it comes to carbs, fill your plate with whole grains. I recommend quinoa, brown rice, and oats. They provide long-lasting energy and fiber to keep you full, help regulate blood sugar levels, and aids in supporting gut health. And if you enjoyed this article, don't missthese 8 High-Protein Foods with Nearly Zero Calories That Melt Fat.